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Archived questions from: September, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Why is he acting this way? The accident?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - hey ever since my boyfriend had his crash on a motorbike head first into a wall.. ive been so paranoid and getting upset like loads when he tells me things like " i nearly died vik" i tell him i know because i was there in the hospital with him.. an...

How can I accept he loves/likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for just about 2 weeks with my boyfriend, but we had been hanging out for about a month before that. Before all of this we knew each other years ago and then he moved away, came back, but we never got back in touch til ...

Had to leave her due to accidental sex, want her back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

30 September 2009 (M) - i had a girl, because of an accidental sex i had 2 leave her. but now she's out and i'd like the first one back. (i dont know whats in her mind. what shall i do?...

I'm beginning to think she isn't ready to date. All I want is to get to know her a bit better!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

30 September 2009 (M) - I pretty much know the anser to this but want some feedback! About three months ago I met a girl and it was an instant connection, something I have not felt in awhile. She was in a stifling relationship so we just met out a couple times not...

Giving it a try again with the ex, only now he's gone distant again after his friends saw me out with my girlfriends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - Hi, i dont know what to do im so confused.... i got back wid my ex and i think he is doing the same as he did before useing me... when we first met back up it was so good to see him again we had a few drinks and a chat he cudnt stop saying sorr...

How do I get over my insecurities about (not) dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - I used to joke a lot with my best friends about growing old together as cackling cat ladies, and how we'd all live in a string of houses on adjacent properties and sit on our porches with shotguns in our laps, terrorising the neighbourhood children. ...

Can anyone make any sense of this???

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

30 September 2009 (M) - I am in desperate need of advice. I began seeing this girl back in the winter of 2007. We became official before christmas of 07 on the phone when she was in her hometown. She called me and asked me what we were because some guy was 'chasing her...

Another "I need space" story.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

30 September 2009 (M) - Hi, I just wanted to find out if you guys think I should worry or should just move on. I admit that we had some fights here and there. Just recently my girlfriend left for a internship for 5 months more than a thousand miles away and she prom...

I'm a 20 year old mexican girl wanting to date a 30 year old white man, is this wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - Hi I'm new to this so I hope some one helps me is it bad if I date a 30 year old man I'm 20 s don't know if its a problem....I'm mexican and he is white!! Idk what other people would think. It shouldn't matter what others think but I'm kinda ...

Girl I'm interested in was violated and I don't know how to date her/talk to her!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

30 September 2009 (M) - Hey everyone, I need some help here. I care about this girl that i've been (kinda?) talking to, but something really bad happened recently. I was with he one night, drinking, and another friend of hers came in to chill too. He sketched me out,...

Other than cheating, what might make a man suddenly avoid intimacy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 5 months now and we're already in love with each other. We started being more intimate and physical after about a month of dating (we both like to take things slowly) and we always have fun with each ...

Do guys fantasize about rescueing the woman they love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - Do guys have rescue fantasies? The reason I ask is this, I broke up with my boyfriend last December and recently found out about something that I thought could get him in trouble with the law, so I called him to warn him. When I broke up with...

When it comes to sex I'm never pleased! Any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - Well, me and my boyfriend are emotionally intimate and everything seems perfect but when it comes to sex im never pleased. I can only have an orgasm when im on top but im so tired of pleasing myself. I love having sex with him and even tried telling ...

Do you think this girl is still attracted to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

30 September 2009 (M) - I have been in a relationship with a girl for about 2 months now but we have been hanging out as if we were a couple for about 3 months. I have known her for about a year and have always been attracted to her. Our relationship started out with her ...

How to approach him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - im in love with a guy who is a senior in high school but im only a freshman.[tough huh?]i see him every day in school we both have the same lunch and i still cant seem to talk to him. i always catch him looking at me and i get nervous and look away. ...

After the accident, he won't be intimate with me anymore. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - Hi my name is Nicole and I am 25 years old. I have been dating Justin for almost 2 years. We have a great relationship and he has never had a problem showing me affection. 7 months ago we went to a party and we got into an arguement and he stormed ...

New and improved boyfriend or more limbo land?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - Okay, so I told my boyfriend of 5 years that I wanted a break. He just didn't seem that into me. We are both 48 and he just wasn't popping the question. He kept saying when the house is finished that he is building, he'll figure the rest of the ...

Does this mean he likes me back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - hey people i have a problem i realy like this guy but he has a gf and every day that i see him he sais some thing diffrent like today he said that some one told him i want to have sex with him and make out with him does this mean he likes me back?...

Am I going to have to make the first move since he's shy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - I am working a 4 month internship at a place, and there is a guy there that i see daily, and occassionally work with. i'm pretty sure he's interested, he's always very friendly and smiling, i've caught him staring in the morning meetings and he ...

If I talk to another guy, is that cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - I have been talking to this guy for about 3 months and i finaly asked him what are we and he told em that we are dating... if i talk to another guy is that cheating ?...

How do I help boyfriend long distance? He's really struggling.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - Wow, I haven’t posted on here for such a long time… basically, am in a longish distance relationship with this really amazing guy who I love to pieces. Last night he got taken into hospital after having really awful headaches and he is really ...

Is it normal to feel dirty after fooling around?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - I recently started dating a guy. This is my first relationship. He was my first kiss, etc etc. We haven't had sex yet but we've been slowly moving forward. A few days ago, we were messing around, to the point where i took off my shirt. I was...

Will our relationship survive once I move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

30 September 2009 (M) - i have to move house with my parents and leave my girlfriend that ive been with for around 3 months. Basically my mum and her boyfriend loves wales and the go there quite often camping, and had been looking for houses to buy without me reali...

What are you meant to do if the guy you like finally notices you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Omg. I really need someones help. What are you meant to do if the guy you like (whos drop dead gorgeous, 2 years above you.. in sixth form and perfect) actually finally notices you? He was flirting with me at my brothers 18th (not verbally, but ...

Should I pursue it and give him signals back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - I am 25, a single mum and rescently gone back in to education. I think my teacher fancies me. He focuses on me in every lesson, he asks me questions through out in front of the class and quietly asks my opinions on things when the rest of the clas...

Do you think a relationship is possible? We had the most amazing sex ever.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - Last night, I had the most amazing night of my sexual life. I met a man, who is 33, and I am 18. I've always had a thing for charming older men, and he fits definitely fits that status quo. However, one thing I did not expect to happen, was for my ...

Am I wrong for pursuing her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - Weird situation I guess. There are two girls involved. I shall refer to them as just A and B. A I am very close with, and I once started pursuing her as a possible romantic interest which just wasn't to be. B I have started to really like, and...

Do you think she'll give me another chance even though I cheated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - me and my ex met wen i was 18 and she was 16 we was going out for about six months wen she told me she loved me and i felt the same but about a month later one of her friends started texting me and we became close i ended up seeing both of them on ...

Where's the passion?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Hello I have been in a relationship for 3 years. Our sex life is not that great, the passion is gone. And to honest Ive never been satisfied..(He is my first) But what bothers me is that there is no passion. I want a man who really wants it f...

His past is littered with ex girlfriends and I'm scared!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - I was hoping someone might lend some insight to this -- I've been someone who has been rather picky about relationships and most have been all very serious. I will go out on first dates but if I don't see a potential first dates turn into last ...

How do I keep my relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - I arrived to Bogota at 2008 and since then I started relating to women because I am divorced. I met a woman who was also divorced and with two children. She was living with a man but I did not know . I tried to coquer her and it was p...

Boyfriend obsessed with my boobs!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm not sure what to do about my boyfriend. He is obsessed with my boobs, to the point where it's stupidly irritating. I only see him at weekends, usually Friday to 7am Monday, and during that time he touches them as often as he can....

Leaving for the military in 4 months, start a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - Ok...I just want opinions on what you guys would do. There is this girl im really diggen,right, problem is, in 4 months I leave for the military. I've been just playing it cool with her because I personally feel it would be selfish to start a relati...

Why do girls look for robot guys?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - Why every girls hate emotional guys? Why they look for robot in guys? Would anyone like to guide me on this? Zahir, Pakistan...

Relationship Crisis: he cheated but I want it to work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - So this month has been my worst month ever, boyfriend cheated on me and everything. I took him back we had a long conversation and I told him that it will be a long time for me to trust him and I continue to ask him to keep 100 with me all the time. ...

What do you reckon he wants?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Hey everyone! just need some advice here. I have been in a relationship with this guy for almost seven months now. It is long distance but nothing terrible and over the summer I broke up with him because he was acting as if he wanted out himself ...

Any ideas on how to make things better between us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Ok here is the issue, my boyfriend thinks that I act like a 26 year old child. I will admit that at times I do act like a irrational. I have asked him what he wants me to do to change the issues in the relationship, which I am willing to do. The ...

Is this a case of "we love each other but can't be together"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - I am a recently divorced, 40 year old woman who lives in a small town - my former husband and I are good friends, and I am well-respected in the community. In June of '08 I was reconnected with a local man, he's 51, because we have a few ...

Should I work on it or leave it now before it gets worse?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - I've been dating this guy for 15 months now. I am so sure that I am in love with him and I was so sure he felt the same way. But at times he gets mad over something and decides to change his mind. The last time we fought he told me he didn't thi...

He always threatens to break my face and I cry. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - hi my name is piya(24)dating(28)for the past 1.5 years.we love each other a lot and he promised me to marry me.but for the past few months are relationship has turned completely sour.we love each other like mad and cant do without each other.hes got ...

I finally plucked some courage to talk to him but how do I keep it going?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - hey!!!i talked a lot about the huge crush i had on this really cool boy(who really liked me too) and i said before i never talked to him cause whenever he tries 2 talk 2 me i do anything to stop it cause im too too too shy. in this summer break...

Trying to chose between 2- one older, one younger

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - which to choose between 2 women: one is abt 10 yrs older than me, very sweet giving person also fun to be with,but towards whom I have lost all physical attraction. the other is 10 yrs younger than me , very attractive, passionate and loyal but ...

G/f is messing about with 3 of us

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - My Girlfriend is messing me about and has 3 other people she has feelings for i asked her where that left me and her relationship but she never gave me a proepr anwser wot do i do?...

Ask him out? Or wait for him to ask me out?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Hi everyone. Simple question- should i ask out a guy that i like or wait for him to ask me out? We are friends and a few of my friends say there is a chance he likes me from some of his behaviour. I don't want to jeapordise the friendship but w...

What do you make of his behaviour? I really like him but he is acting really weird!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Hey There, I've been having a problem and i really need your help! Basically there's this guy i've been liking on and off for a long while and only recently have we started chatting. But he can be very confusing in his signals..you see i really want ...

He knows I like him so why hasn't he developed feelings for me yet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Hello :D okay so I have been close friends with a guy for a few months now, at one point I liked him, I told him, he said he loved me, but only as a close friend. I then moved on with him, which I was really happy about. I moved onto other guys and...

How do I talk about sex with my girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - Hiii....i'm 18 year old boy i'm in true love with a girl.we are enjoying with each other but i feel shy in talking about sex with her,she too never asked me anything about sex but now i think we must talk about sex and have some sexual ...

Why don't guys like to talk about feelings or their exs?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - why don't guys like to open up and talk about their ex or talk about feelings in general? My guy recently broke up with his girlfriend of 8 months (i think it was because of me and the fact it was a long distance relationship) but he still say...

How can I deal with girlfriend's past

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

29 September 2009 (M) - My girlfriends past bothers me alot. I know so much about her past and I always get these images that pop into my head of her doing things with other guys and its all I think about. Just looking at her kills me sometimes. The one time that has ...

Can't make it work with guys my age, is something wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - I have a thing for guys younger than me. Not like it's illegal or anything. The guys I'm talking about are both 19, and I'm 23. I've tried dating guys my age or older, and it's always something. I just find that the younger guys are easier to ...