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Archived questions from: April, 2017 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Am I selfish for wanting some intimacy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2548 days ago

30 April 2017 (M) - My Fiancee and I have been together for a few years now and at first we had a fantastic sex life but now we are down to having sex maybe once every couple of months if that. And even then she doesn't seem to be interested so neither of us enjoy it. ...

Am I being too demanding? His excuse is, ''yes, but just not yet.''

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2548 days ago

30 April 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for several years. We do not live together. He wants me to move in with him, but I won't, because his ex-wife still has a key, and he refuses to change the locks. I don't feel safe leaving my things in his house ...

Why does my ex keep tabs on who I date? What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2548 days ago

29 April 2017 (F) - It’s ok if he moves on and is in a relationship but its not ok for me to do it?. I’m not saying I let him get involved in my life but my question is what can i do for him to stop/protect myself. (I actually don't let him get involved. He finds out ...

Boyfriend promised to pay for salon visit after being told the price then backed out but is willing to spend $$ on his niece??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2554 days ago

26 April 2017 (F) - Last week, I told my boyfriend I'm going to get my hair colored for the first time. I showed him photos to get his opinion. After I settled on a style, he said he wanted to treat me to get my hair done. I told him he didn't have to do that and it ...

I don't have alot of experience with dating but not sure if what is going on in our relationship is normal

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2553 days ago

26 April 2017 (M) - I've met this girl and we've been seeing each other for a little over a month. Both of us have never been in a relationship before so it's all new to each other. Whenever I'm around her I feel as if everything is so easy, talking and life in gene...

Did I do something so offensive that my b/f needs to rethink our relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2551 days ago

26 April 2017 (F) - Soooooo my bf and I have been together for a few years now. We have a mutual friend who we've been cool with for a decade. This friend chills with us every other day. My bf feels like our friend doesn't respect him and has attempted to talk with him ...

We used to text a lot up until yesterday. Should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2550 days ago

26 April 2017 (M) - I've been dating a girl for about a month or so no. We really get on and when we are together time flys, we text quite a lot too.. More or less every morning she sends a good morning message, if she falls asleep before receiving my good night t...

My partner versus my children. Am I over-reacting about it all ?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2553 days ago

26 April 2017 (F) - I've had a big argument with my partner and I'm wondering if I'm in the wrong about it all. I have two children from a previous relationship who are 13 and 11 and I think they are well behaved. They do extremely well in school, at parents evening ...

On a break from boyfriend and have a job offer in another town

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2553 days ago

26 April 2017 (F) - My Bf and I are on a sort of break right now. We are still with each other but spending time with our own families to reassess what we both want. There is a job offer for Me far away from home but I won't be happy there (I will like the job just not ...

My girlfriend is promised in an arranged marriage.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2553 days ago

26 April 2017 (M) - Hey guys, I desperately need some help. There is an issue in my relationship with my girlfriend. My Gf is 2 years elder than me and damn we love each other a lot. We intend to get married, but due to her family pressure (as we belong from an I...

Is he cheating on me if he's flirting in public with other girls? Should I kiss him for the first time at the party?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2554 days ago

26 April 2017 (F) - hey guys i need some help. I am dating this boy that i have strong feelings for. But recently I see him flirting with some other girls like playing around, like poking their stomach,laughing,and talking a lot to each other in front of me knowing w...

Time to break up? Has the love faded? We talk less now and have less sex now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2554 days ago

26 April 2017 (M) - Don't know if I should break up with my gf of 8 months. As the relationships progressed we've moved apart, we speak less, have sex a lot less, and don't get on aswell. The thing is, I know this is expected to some degree as a relationship goes on. ...

Was I harsh for just blocking him ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2556 days ago

26 April 2017 (F) - I had been talking to this guy for almost 2 weeks and we went on 3 dates. Up until now he has been extremely attentive, the dates were great and I actually walked into the 1st date expecting nothing to come of it. There has been 0 sex involved, so ...

Am I cheating on my boyfriend? ? Hope not.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2554 days ago

25 April 2017 (F) - Am I cheating on my boyfriend!! I downloaded tinder to relook at my old profile which he knew about and I used it for a couple of days and got chatting to one Man for a while. Little thing or anything but i dont any feeling toward him ! But ...

He's still receiving messages from women on a dating site he joined earlier. How can I raise the subject with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2554 days ago

25 April 2017 (F) - I met my man through a dating site and all is fabulous 13 weeks on. He says I'm the one for him, and I love him dearly. Since we mutually agreed, that we are 'in a relationship' we both decided to cancel our match accounts. Mine is gone complete...

Where do I stand in this relationship? What can I say to him to get the answers I need? 2

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2554 days ago

25 April 2017 (F) - So I've been talking/meeting this guy since last May, which is nearly a year ! He says he doesn't want to rush into a relationship because his last girlfriend cheated on him. And he tells me to be patient for a relationship because he will have to...

Are the things we find attractive different for men and women?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2554 days ago

25 April 2017 (F) - I can appreciate attractive people but find that in order to get aroused by a man or turned on , I need to know him and feel an attraction . A man simply looking physically attractive is not enough to turn me on. Therefore pictures of random naked ...

I need to tell him I only want casual sex, not a relationship!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2462 days ago

25 April 2017 (F) - I met this guy on a dating app and we have been on two dates so far. I don't think he and I are compatible but he's very nice and good-looking. I cannot see a long-term relationship forming from this AT ALL, but would like to turn it into FWB if it ...

My b/f made fun of me and called me a pansy because I refused to do something that I felt was dangerous

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2556 days ago

24 April 2017 (F) - I know we all say things to hurt our significant other's feelings at times. Something happened this weekend, and it might sound dumb, but I need another perspective on this. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. He isn't afraid to ...

My g/f hasn't changed her status on FB yet does that mean we are not broken up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2556 days ago

24 April 2017 (M) - My fiancé and I have been together for almost three years and engaged for 7 months. I wrongly accused her of having a 'thing' for her brother in law a few times which has led to us having a 'break' for a few weeks. We reconciled but it took some...

I just want to get over my ex and completely move on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2555 days ago

24 April 2017 (F) - I went out with a guy about 12- 13 years ago when I was still in my teens - he was around 3 years older than me at the time. He was the first person that I had ever really fell for, and I would consider him my first love. I sometimes regret a few ...

Dealing with my Boyfriend's Existential Crisis

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2556 days ago

24 April 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost four years now. It is a delicate relationship, as he has never been with any other woman sexually or as seriously as he has been with me. About a year and a half ago, he broke up with me. It was ...

Am I expecting too much from a relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2555 days ago

24 April 2017 (F) - I have been happily dating a divorced man with two children of ten and 12 for a year. Mine has grown up. We get on well and the six elements I look for ie trust, loyalty, good job, own home, sense of humour and intellect are all there. We all get on ...

How do you learn to love yourself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2552 days ago

24 April 2017 (F) - I need relationship advice... Not your normal relationship advice though... I've really been struggling to get into a relationship since I started dating which was 8 years ago (i'm 25 now). Only ever had flings *rolls eyes x infinity*. A...

Is my girlfriend being a hypocrite?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2555 days ago

24 April 2017 (M) - Is my girlfriend being a hypocrite? So, my girlfriend works as a cam girl on a website. I was aware of her occupation before we started dating. Since she was on that site, I thought there'd be no problem if I register as a member of that site too...

Is my relationship healthy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2557 days ago

23 April 2017 (F) - I am 20 and my boyfriend is 27. We got into a relationship pretty fast. I expressed how not having sex until marriage was important to me but after a month he talked me into it. We have went out a lot and he says things like this relationship...

Should my girlfriend be posting photos of the guy she was seeing when we were broken up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2555 days ago

23 April 2017 (M) - Hi, Recently broke up with my girlfriend and in our break we both were sexually active. The girl I slept with is around at all but the guy is as he's her friend. We got back together recently and she still posts photos of her with him and usually ...

Despite my scepticism, will I ever, in the future, be likely to have a close connection and a loving mutually satisfying relationship with a man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2555 days ago

23 April 2017 (F) - Info- 23/F/from the UK Ok so I'm gonna try and be as basic as I can with my question, so you don't have to read pages of rubbish lol I'm basically extremely skeptical that I'll EVER meet anybody in the future who I'll feel a close connection...

How do I approach a guy that I don't know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2558 days ago

23 April 2017 (F) - How can I aproach a guy I dont know? I dont talk about anyone special right now but I have a terrible fear of negative evaluation. I look good, I has a very modern clothing style and generally Im super talkative. But when it comes to talk to someone ...

The boyfriend, the receipt and not sure of the meaning behind leaving it out

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2555 days ago

23 April 2017 (F) - We went out with my boyfriend and my parents for lunch. My parents are visiting from another country. They have met 3 times.. At lunch I asked the waitress for the check, my father wanted to pay. My boyfriend quickly left and I saw he is paying the ...

He watches porn of girls that are the age of our daughters! I can't help but be turned off!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2554 days ago

23 April 2017 (F) - Have been getting serious with a man for some time now and he Is talking about future things . I recently was at his house and his computer is full of porn . I knew he watched porn but all the women were around 20 at oldest 25 . It honestly made me ...

How does one stop being so desperate for a man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2555 days ago

23 April 2017 (F) - How does one stop being so desperate for a man? I realize and this is the lesson (hard learned) that me and most of my gf are desperate for men- so much that sadly we do a lot and get nothing out of relationships- I did a lot for my ex and out of ...

Have I finally caught his interest.... is he into me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2555 days ago

23 April 2017 (M) - Okay so I've posted a few times on here about this dude, similar taste in music etc You guys always responded with his not interested but things have progressed. First he took interest in one of my old hobbies then he disappeared for a while....

He's going to prison for 10 years and I don't want to wait for him. Is that wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2555 days ago

22 April 2017 (F) - This is a really unique situation, I'm sure. So my fiance is going to be in prison for the next ten years. I've been with him 3 years. Is it bad for me to not want to wait for him?..I'm only in my mid 20s, and I don't want to put the rest of my ...

I want to help my boyfriend but I know I'll leave him eventually because my relationship is dead but I'm terribly attracted to his brother

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2554 days ago

21 April 2017 (F) - Hello there, So I have been in a relationship for 9 years. We started out as friends with benefits and then when I got into trouble financially I moved in with him. He's nice and we get along...we would be great friends. I have occasionally tri...

I want my boyfriend to be an equal, not another child to take care of

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2557 days ago

21 April 2017 (F) - Does my bloke not have any respect for me or is he is just useless.....my bloke and I have been together 17 months he moved in 3months ago with me and my 10yrold son ...but even tho he is great with my son (he's disabled) but he's useless in every ...

An uncomfortable situation with boyfriend's sister and friend is causing us to almost break up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2557 days ago

21 April 2017 (F) - Hi I don't know how long this will be, but I desperately need opinions on this situation that has been getting me down for quite a while and im not too sure if it's worth staying in my relationship. So here goes.. I've been with my boyfrien...

Am I over the top about his using porn?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2560 days ago

21 April 2017 (F) - I've recently discovered that my boyfriend has been watching porn. I only found out the other day as I thought I heard an orgasm coming from the bathroom but then it stopped as I got to the top of the stairs. I went downstairs again and heard a ...

Worried about future involvement

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2560 days ago

21 April 2017 (M) - I am an extremely emotional person. I had ended my first and only romantic relationship four years ago. There have been quite a few women who have shown interest since then but I wasn't ready for it again. I now find myself finally into a nice lady ...

Are there any telltale ways to see if he sees me just as a sister/friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2560 days ago

21 April 2017 (F) - Hey guys, first of all, thanks for stopping by, even if you don't plan on answering. I will cut to the chase: I'm a 20 year old girl, and I really like this 25 year old boy, whom I met over the internet. Our locations are too far away to go see e...

I want to ask her out, I don't know how

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2549 days ago

20 April 2017 (M) - I went to a school for 9 years, this year I switched for high school. I had a close friend at my old school. She is very nice and very pretty. I have not communicated with her in the last few weeks. I want to ask her out, but I am not sure she feels ...

Why do girls do things that make them unapproachable and rude?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2558 days ago

20 April 2017 (M) - Why do girls always have to be glued to each other or have their noses in their phones or in a book? Don't they realize that makes them unapproachable and that it's just plain rude? Also, they do the same things on dates too and act rudely just to ...

I'm attractive but never approached by men. Do other women have this problem?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2562 days ago

19 April 2017 (F) - I am 22 and I am never approached by men. I live in America where men are notorious for approaching women. Yet, strangers tell me that I am beautiful/pretty. I talked to a guy and he assumed I had a bf, when I said no, he was in shock. He said I was ...

He misunderstood what I was trying to say and ended things

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2562 days ago

19 April 2017 (F) - Dear everyone Dating has never been an easy option for me, I always tend to push men away from me, the last man I had feelings for I told him we have a week left to spend together , he got frustrated and started accausing me of things that aren't a...

Shall I tell them to stop setting me up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2561 days ago

19 April 2017 (F) - This happens to me constantly, and it always puts me in an awkward position. I am never interested in the guy they've chosen for me, and then I feel guilty a.) because I feel I'm disappointing the friend who is doing the setting up, and b.) I fe...

I stumbled across hidden videos in my girlfriends computer of her having sex with her ex

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2542 days ago

18 April 2017 (M) - I am engaged to my dream girl and our relationship is perfect. We've been together for 2 years now and We are the perfect couple... or so I thought.. Things changed when I found some things on her lap top. I needed to finish up a report but forgo...

When I try to talk to my girlfriend about her flaws it always turns into an argument

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2561 days ago

18 April 2017 (M) - Okay so i have a girlfriend and i love her to bits but sometimes she can doing very annoying things, but whenever i bring them up she acts like its a massive problem and it always turns into an argument....

Is it weird that I don't feel anything for him after losing my virginity to him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2561 days ago

18 April 2017 (F) - Hi I'm 17, soon to be 18, and a few weeks ago i lost my virginity. Me and this guy have known each other for some time over a year and have been good friends ever since. Although we've been just friends there's been this kind of sexual tension (for ...

Should I ask out my instructor?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2561 days ago

18 April 2017 (F) - Should I ask out my instructor after I graduate? I really like one of my lecturers, he is really cute and nice, and obviously very smart. I've gone to his office a few times, and during one of my visits he scooted his chair over really close to ...

Was he looking for a booty call?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2561 days ago

18 April 2017 (M) - So I went to a bar and met this super cute but maybe young ish guy. We spoke for a long time one on one, he was kinda flirty and kept rubbing his arms by mine ( it was a packed out bar), he told me he had a flight next day in the morning. After 40s ...