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Archived questions from: August, 2015 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Boyfriend found out I cheated while messed up and ended things. Will I ever be able to make him forgive me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3124 days ago

31 August 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together three years and we got engaged last year. We then went through a rocky patch, but then things were great again. Until two nights ago when I ruined everything. I was at a rave, and was off my face and took a ...

Am I reading signals wrong from my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3159 days ago

31 August 2015 (M) - After a long time of asking questions about my love life, this one really takes the cake. So to summarize my extremely long and currently non-existent love life: I used to have a huge crush on this girl that i had a connection with during high ...

Are we too close after just 3 weeks of dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3159 days ago

31 August 2015 (F) - Hi All, I really need a different perspective on this as this is on my mind a lot. "Andy" (fake name) and I have been dating for two months. It's that story of an immediate connection, talking for hours and intense chemistry. He's gorgeous, funny an...

Do possessive relationships last? Should I mention my concerns to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3158 days ago

31 August 2015 (F) - Hi - a female friend of mine has just got into a relationship with a man who pays her a lot of attention, says he loves her and makes her feel good. Sounds great doesn't it?!!! However, I have found out from her that before they got together off...

How will I find a boyfriend when I'm not happy with my physical appearance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3159 days ago

31 August 2015 (F) - I am a 28 year old African American woman. Without sounding petty I just want to come right out and say this, I do not find myself physically attractive. I feel this way about my face and body. The main reason is I was morbidly obese, very un...

Should I be scared about starting to look for another Gf, due to the fact that I believe I have a small penis?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3159 days ago

31 August 2015 (M) - Okay so I am 16 I am scared to start looking for another gf as I have a small penis there's nothing I can do about it but it sucks. I don't want to get a gf and lose her because my penis is really small. I can't stop thinking about my ex, we've not...

Paying on a date. Am I making this too big of a deal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3158 days ago

30 August 2015 (F) - Am I making this too big of a deal? I have been seeing one guy for about 3 weeks now. Everything is good and I really love to be with him, he wants to be with me, we have fun together and everything is easy and we just click. He is very caring...

He's been verbally abusive. My parents call him psycho. Should I move on or try harder in our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3159 days ago

30 August 2015 (F) - I don't whether I'm still in relationship with him or not but i will say: I am in a relationship with south indian conservative man,though my roots are from south as well but my birth and education is done in different state due to work reason i...

How do I compete with the army?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3160 days ago

30 August 2015 (F) - My boyfriend said one day out of the blue he wants to join the armed forces, he needs to started training for it and cant be talking all the time. Since then its felt like I'm no longer a priority to him, all the things he used to do or say he ...

After 8 months together does my LDR really know me or care about me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3160 days ago

30 August 2015 (F) - Hello. I have been seeing a guy in a LDR for eight months. We see each other every other fortnight and talk about three times a week too. Although we have good times together, and he tells my he loves me, I often feel something is mis...

Is working on these two commercials together ruining our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3159 days ago

29 August 2015 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for two years. He is a film major and I am in art school. This year, my uncle offered us a job doing 2 commercials for a product. its been going poorly and ruining our relationship. My boyfriend feels as if he i...

I made a comment to him that has come back to bite me in the butt and now I'm confused about everything

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3161 days ago

28 August 2015 (F) - Hi all, Here is my situation. I was starting to see this guy, who was chasing me for about a month before I gave in to hanging out, which is unlike me because when I feel as though I have chemistry with someone, I tend to jump right in. Hones...

I'm resenting my husband's decision. How do I get over it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3162 days ago

28 August 2015 (F) - How do I stop resenting my husband? My husband was offered a job that would move us back to where my family are. His pay was increased by 6k but because of the tax rate we were only going to see a 1k increase a year. I wanted him to take it so I ...

We are having problems having sex and not sure why

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3161 days ago

28 August 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have just started having sex and experiencing difficulties. We have both had partners in the past so were not new to this. We have been seeing each other for just over a month and have had sex four times now. First time we had sex ...

Is there ever a right time to give someone a piece of your mind?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3161 days ago

28 August 2015 (F) - Help. My friend who I thought was a friend was making a play for my man all along. We split up and he blocked me and then chose her instead of me, but mainly because she was stirring things up between us with lies and my ex chose to believe her ...

Should I break up with my boyfriend? I think he can do much better than me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3162 days ago

28 August 2015 (F) - Should I break up with my boyfriend? I love him to pieces but I'm not a good girlfriend. I've never cheated, but I'm very flirty and I struggle with the intimate stuff (I'd blame my past, abusive relationships, but I should be old enough to make m...

My mother wanted me to date but now that I am she says I will bring shame upon her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3162 days ago

28 August 2015 (F) - I was raised by a single parent. My mother had always provided for me in terms of food, clothing, shelter, and fulfilled every materialistic wish I ever had. Not to brag, but I was never a demanding child, so the main issues that my mother had to ...

I like being his friend but I'd like to be more

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3162 days ago

28 August 2015 (F) - My friend and I are very close. I feel like I'm able to tell him everything and really act like myself. I think he is the same. We are always touching each other whether it's a hug or a pat on the leg or even play fighting! I love being his friend, ...

I can see this guy isn't my future husband but I don't know how to break things off

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3161 days ago

28 August 2015 (F) - How do you tell a guy that he is not what you're looking for, without hurting his feelings? I've been with my boyfriend for two years now. I love him and I have no doubt he loves me too. We do get along. We laugh and have fun together while also abl...

How am I supposed to react to this? My girlfriend does hand jobs for a living

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3143 days ago

28 August 2015 (M) - I recently found out my girlfriend does handjobs for a living. She's a student and is allowed to work limited hours. The money is used to support herself and family. Should i accept it? Should I react to this....

I'm dating a lovely girl but she won't have sex and I don't know how to help us

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3161 days ago

28 August 2015 (M) - I am in a relationship with a lovely girl who I can say is an amazing person. Everything is great except for one thing....she will not have sex. Now we kiss, fondle/touch, and sometimes do oral, but when it comes down to seeing her naked or act...

I'm dating a man who is depressed. Its making me feel vulnerable. How do I not let it get to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3162 days ago

28 August 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, I have been with someone for 6 months and I absolutely adore him. We fell in love and everything was effortless and happy. Since the beginning of the relationship I had the feeling he was maybe a bit depressed but now that he has had ...

I feel like I really want to text him, after our date. What can I say to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3163 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - I went on a first date with a guy last night. I had already slept with him after a very drunken night out. We spoke about this and said we will start a fresh. However, he works in the army so he goes away for weeks at a time. So he goes away on ...

What can I do about his reluctance to spend time with me, and have a social life together, during weekends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3163 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - Recently, I've gotten into a long term relationship. We've been dating for two years and I had to move an hour and a half away to finish college. Something that has been bothering me is the fact that he never wants to spend time with me aroun...

Strained relationship with my fiance's sister. I want a better relationship with his family. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3162 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - Well where do I begin. I am 23. I have been with my fiancée 4 years and engaged for 3 years. Since from the very beginning I have had a lot trouble from his side of the family, especially from his older sister. We have never really seen eye ...

Feeling insecure. Do I take notice of what my brother said? Or do I ask the guy I'm dating about what my brother said?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3161 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, im not even sure where to start. But ive been dating a guy for 5 weeks, he's really lovely no problems really. He's my boss so it's a little complicated there but we've kept it out of work. I can separate these things pretty well i...

Can I still trust my partner? I'm in turmoil and have doubts since I saw a message on his phone.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3162 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I saw a message on my finance phone whom I have been in a relationship with for the last 4 years which as really upset me. The message were between him and his friend and said along the line of shall we have a threesom...

Should I trust my G/f and continue with our relationship or make both of our lives easier and just break it off now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3137 days ago

27 August 2015 (M) - I'd like to ask for some opinions, any opinions at all, from an outside point of view. I just can't think straight without determining whether I'm too emotional or just plain paranoid at this point. I'm 24, and have been with my girlfriend (same...

I can't shake the dream I had about arguing with my girlfriend's father and then hitting her in the face

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3162 days ago

27 August 2015 (M) - Last night I had a horrible dream that I was arguing with my girlfriend's father, and at the end of the argument I seem to remember hitting my girlfriend in the face (I don't know if it was intentional or accidental, but frightening nonetheless!). ...

I won't take crap off of people and he'll never admit that he's wrong. Are we done?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3163 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - A few months ago I (38yrs old) met a man named "Jason" who is 34. Recently, we started spending A LOT of time together and although each of us intended on just being bed buddies, feelings have developed. He told me I'm his best friend. I feel the...

Are good guys generally not so hot in bed

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3162 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - I am struggling to meet a guy I fancy and would want for a future and who is an average/good lover. The good guys who are trustworthy, kind, warm and solid seem to lack that intense fizz and passion. I am no spring chicken and far from perfect...

How do I carry myself forward and ensure that I do NOT go back to him and ensure that I move myself into Normalcy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3161 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm here for emotional support and help. I just broke my 6 years of relationship with my EX-boyfriend which I'm stressing on because it's hard to believe that he's ex. I got into this relationship when I was 17.. the guy had slowly m...

He made a remark that upset me. Should I say something to my boyfriend's friend or just let it go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3163 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - I was at the beach yesterday with my boyfriend and a couple of his friends were there to meet me for the first time and hang out with us. I was in a 2 piece suit but you could still see a bit of skin. I was devastated when I over heard his...

Doctor and dermatologist suggested remedies that have not helped. What else can reduce skin discolouration around inner thigh area?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3163 days ago

27 August 2015 (F) - My inner thighs/groin area is very dark and discolorated and I don't know how to get rid of it. It recently made me feel much worse because my partner noticed it and asked me about it. I read it is a skin condition caused by insulin resistan...

Trouble with Boyfriend, Should I stay? He's jealous and controlling

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3163 days ago

26 August 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating 2 and a half years. About a year into our relationship, we had a lot of problems with him being jealous and controlling, and I broke up with him for about a month. He begged for me back, showed up at my parent’s...

I feel lost. I do love him. But why even be with someone if they are never there?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3164 days ago

26 August 2015 (F) - I feel like I'm not being treated properly in my relationship but I love the guy I'm with and it's so hard to figure out what to do. I feel lost, I'd don't know what's right or wrong. Me and him had a fight at the weekend gone, we spent a few d...

My boyfriend of 5 months doesn't shower or brush his teeth and its really getting to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3164 days ago

26 August 2015 (F) - Hello! Really hope I can get some help! I met the most amazing man on holiday this year, and everything is fantastic, I love him to bits and he treats me amazingly. The only issue that I have is is complete lack of hygiene. We've been toge...

I Love her to the max! But since she's not talking, has she found a new guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3160 days ago

26 August 2015 (M) - Should I still call her my girlfriend while there's no communication between us,we dated for 1 year and 7 months, so just because we not talking I think she found another guy at her school? Or maybe is't because of long distance relationship? I don'...

I always stop us from going any further sexually but I'm not sure why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3164 days ago

26 August 2015 (M) - I am a bi male I've known this woman since last August, but we've only been dating since March. And this would be my first relationship with a woman. (I've dated women before but it never went anywhere nor did it get sexual.) Prior to dating this ...

Should I ask my boyfriend if he is uncomfortable with my male friend being around so much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3164 days ago

26 August 2015 (F) - I have a question for Males out there. I have been dating this guy for 5 months, and I completely felt in love with him over the past few months. I recently bought a house and a Male friend is helping with the renovation. My current boyfriend has ...

Do I get back with my ex? My current g/f is away for six months!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3164 days ago

25 August 2015 (M) - I had a bad break up with my ex 5 years back we were dating 6 years. She had my baby and gave me a choice my new girlfriend or her and the baby. I chose my girlfriend. 5 years have past and now my ex is sending me pics of my child telling me all ...

My B/f said, "'not to sound rude but you have a lot of stretch marks baby maybe you should do something about them"

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3164 days ago

25 August 2015 (F) - I've been with a man for almost a year and only recently been sexually active with him. He recently made a comment 'not to sound rude but you have a lot of stretch marks baby maybe you should do something about them' I told them they are all ...

Is going to a dinner at a date's house early on in the relationship too intimate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3165 days ago

25 August 2015 (M) - I recently met someone who I've become really interested in and would like to possibly start dating to the point of already thinking of what to say/suggest if and when I ask. Although we only met recently, I discovered that she works in a bar I ...

Girlfriend and I went on a break decided to get back together but now she's acting badly and I don't want to get back with her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3164 days ago

25 August 2015 (M) - Hi, About six weeks ago, me and my fiancee (although now I feel reluctant to call her that) decided to go on a break as we began to experience some troubles in our relationship due to various stresses. We agreed to speak two weeks after ...

Got drunk and cheated on my boyfriend. I feel incredibly guilty. What do I do now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3149 days ago

25 August 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years.I am 27 and he is 29. I love him with all my heart so much so that my friends think it has changed me and I am forever neglecting my own needs. Like many relationships we have had our ups and ...

Boyfriend and I fought. He wants space but its making me angry!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3165 days ago

25 August 2015 (F) - Me and my boyfriend had a fight at the weekend. It involved being drunk and I've apologised since then. He said to me he wants to take a few days to himself but he still wants to talk. He isn't chatty at all though. I don't like this because ...

Is there something wrong with ruling someone out if you don't feel instant chemistry?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3165 days ago

25 August 2015 (F) - I met a genuinely nice guy on an online dating site and we've gone on two dates. I had to psyche myself up for both of these dates because a) I haven't been on a date in a while and b) I didn't feel any attraction when I looked at his profile ...

I feel like a novice with new partner after going without sex for 7 years

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3165 days ago

25 August 2015 (F) - I recently started seeing someone and everything is going great...except in the bedroom! My previous relationship lasted four years but it was sexless, my partner had no interest in sex at all and I just resigned myself to a relationship based on ...

My girlfriend is working but I'm here still waiting to go to university. Should I go to work instead?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3097 days ago

25 August 2015 (M) - Hi, My girlfriend just dropped out from university and is now finding a working job, while I'm still waiting to go university next year due to national service for my country. I still left another 10 months before getting my civilian status. ...

I've been in search of the right girl for years but haven't found her. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3166 days ago

25 August 2015 (M) - I am looking for a younger girl to start a family with. I am in my mid thirties but rarely feel any chemistry with girls this age. Nor do I feel that it would be wise for a girl of 34 to start having children. I am an artist and a musician. Ive ...