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Archived questions from: 28 October, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He moved in immediately with me but I think it was a mistake

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - I recently moved a guy into my house that i didnt even know. The first day i met him he moved in with me. He told me he wanted to be with me and stuff and i am a sucker for beleiveing stuff like this stupid i no but ive always been the same. When he ...

He says he wants to be friends but is now avoiding me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

28 October 2009 (?) - Is it a bad thing that I feel as if the guy who wants to stay friends is avoiding me now? We do not have any of the same classes but we pass by every morning and he never says hello anymore. When I asked him out he said he wanted to stay friends but ...

My girl friend dated my best friend before me and I find this difficult

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

28 October 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have dated for about 5 months now and I love her but she dated my best friend just before me and her. They dated for about 2 months. She told me it was not a big deal at all and it was not serious but if it was not a big deal I ...

We had a tiff, he's ignored me for 4 days, is it over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had a minor tiff 4 days ago - and he's ignored me pretty much totally since. We've been together 7 months, and don't really argue much. To cut a long story short, I was invited to a family lunch over the weekend. Someth...

Her mom thinks a 2 year age gap is too much

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

28 October 2009 (M) - im a 17yr male in grade 12 and ive just started dating a girl in grade 10 who is 15. im having a hard time convincing my mom that its ok that im two years older... how can I convince her that its ok, or rather, is it actually ok?...

Is it ok that I am 21 and she is 15?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

28 October 2009 (M) - OK... If i am 21 can i go out with this girl that is 15 and she loves me and i love her. her parents like me and trust me, they don't mind if i go out with there daughter. I am a Cristian and i wear a purity ring and i am faithful to my promise with ...

I'm pregnant but my fiance insists on having friends over all the time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - Hi there, My fiance and I have been together a little over 2 years. He asked me to marry him in April and we found out that I was pregnant in May (good timing huh?). We both have an interest in poker and kareoke and before we found out I was ...

I feel like there's someone else...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5300 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for 2 years now and we are very serious. i go to his house and spend a lot of time with his family and all that. However, in those 2 years we basically fight everyday break up once a week but always get back ...

Second base worries!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - ok guys! so theres this guy and we're seeing each other, sort of going out but not quite made it official. anyway, im 17 and obviously me and him hanging out and stuff will eventually lead to other thingssss.. but the thing is im really nervous ...

Any idea what he thinks of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - ok... durin the summer went to a party with a bunch of my male friends ..there is one of them that i have a little crush on we actually liked each other at the moment... at the party we all started to drink ...he asked me to dance with him i said no ...

In love with the father of my child! Could it be real even if I haven't seen him in a year?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5300 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - Do you believe in love at first sight,, well i did and it was with my ex who i was with for almost 2 and ahalf years. when we first got together i ended up moving in with him and his parents. moved out and ended up 8 months down the road i was ...

Am I just bored and single or do I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - HELP! ok theres this guy i think i like im not sure if i like him because im bored and single right now... but i knew him for a veryy long time and i was attracted to him when we were younger but the feelings disappeared recently the feelings came ...

Do you think I stand a chance with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

28 October 2009 (M) - I met this girl about a year and a half ago in college, and I asked her to eat lunch but we never got around to it till around last month. There was absolutely no planning involved...I saw her randomly one morning while I was waiting for class and ...

Is he using his son to cross the line?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - Well thing between be and my boyfriend are going good now but he is moving out of his apartment this friday with no where to go. He's goal is to find a new place but hasn't yet. Until then he wanted to stay at he's sisters house whom he had lived ...

I enjoy his company but the passion is gone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5298 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - Im a 49 year old divorcee. I've been going out with this man 18 years my senior for 4 years right after my divorce. I enjoy his company as he fills the empty place in my heart. Four years on, the passion has gone I feel like he is my dad more than ...

Is this complete rubbish or is he being honest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i broke up and have recently got back together ..he told me durin this time apart he had no contact with other women because he only wanted me which was one of the reasons i took him back...then he opened up his facebook account in ...

I've only just realised my feelings for him, am I too late?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5300 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - Okay so this might sound complicated. I known this guy for as long as I could remember. On my last year of high school I had several relationship problems with a certain ex. So my friend who I known for ages was there with me all the time. He ...

I wanted to understand what men think when a girl rejects them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - I had met this guy that was a dj and he always asked for sexy pictures, I gave him one because I thought we were dating. I know how dumb that sounds but he convinced me. But now he wants to be friends and I stopped sending him pictures. I basically ...

Does he have an inside agenda... or what...???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - Aunts please help? I've had sex with this guy twice. I've known him since childhood, but not personally. We didn't use protection but he pulled out the first time, this second time he didn't. What's up with this... I didn't know until after...

Why won't she give me head? She doesn't realise we guys need these things!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

28 October 2009 (M) - So my girlfriend and I started out having sex all the time. Lately we have stopped doing it, like once every 2 months. She said she's scared and i respect that. She used to give me head also, but now she completely hates it. I do everything for ...

I don't love him any more, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - hi everyone, i'm 20 years old and i'm with a 27 year old man. we have been together for a year and a half. my love from him is fading away. it is a long distance relationship, different countries. at the beginning everything was good, and we were ...

Am I right to be bothered by this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

28 October 2009 (M) - I would like advice on what must be a very common issue. My gf text me to say she was just finshing at work and that we would meet back at home. I went back from my work and arrived after about half hour. My gf came back 3 and half hours later. I ...

He said we shouldnt think too much, that we need to live in the moment. How can I do that if I don't have security???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5300 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - well.. i'm in a difficult situation here so i need all the advice possible before i do something stupid. my boyfriend and i met in high school once, but at the time i was with someone else. then i saw him like 5 years later once i was single t...

Help! Am I just being paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5299 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together over a year now, everythings been great, but just recently he's been texting other girls.. he tells me who they are and that they're just friends, but he never spoke to them at the begining of the relationship, ...

My friend's girlfriend tried to seduce me, now what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

28 October 2009 (M) - Last Friday I went to a small house party… The usual, got off with some girls, caught up with some old friends. Night took a turn for the bizarre near the end… I noticed my mates girlfriend, Kim and some of her friends were at the party. I had...

How do I break free from this abusive relationship I have with my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - How do I break free from this abusive relationship I have with my boyfriend? When I am not with him, I feel strong and am ready to end it, but as soon as I see him, he changes my mind, he starts being sooo nice and says sorry etc and makes me hav...

He ended our relationship after I accused him of flirting with another woman and now he won’t talk to me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5300 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - My man ended our brief relationship after I accused him of flirting with another woman and now he won’t talk to me…. This behaviour is very out of character for me and it probably only happened because I had one glass of wine too many but I am af...

She seems to prefer the company of her dogs to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

28 October 2009 (M) - Hi I could really do with some help, I have been dating this girl for about 12 weeks now (Which I know is still early days) and I am starting to feel like I am loosing interest in her. Its not because I am no longer attracted to her because I am...

Am I a whore, or am I just confused?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - i have a bf, and ive cheated on him 2wice. he doesnt know about it. but both times, it wasnt just sex. with the first guy we had had feelings for each other for years and when i was visiting home him and i ended up sleeping together and having this ...

Did he appreciate my honesty and my regard for his health?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - This is a question for men, but ladies feel free to answer too especially if you had a similar experience. How would you guys react to a woman you previously dated/ seeing casually informing you after a month or so of breaking up/ parting ways (es...

What should I do if something happens between us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5293 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - I feel so weird talking about this. Here's the back story: My ex (we'll call him seymour)and I were best friends. We started dating when I was a senior in high school and he was still a junior. I fell for him and well let's just say it didn't e...

Is he truly not ready, or just not into me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - Hi there, I met this man who is 30 and has just come out of a 7 year relationship. He bought a house and lived with his ex. She has moved out but they are now going through settlement. He says it is completely over and there is nothing between ...

Does he just want me for sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - how often does man need sex with his gf? i live far away from him, so he come to see me very often now. anytime he come to see me, he starts to lust me and want me to have sex with him, eventhough i refuse he still give me a sence of sex. after he...

Have we just grown too far apart and should we call it quits?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5300 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - I am 20 years old and a full time student. I work part time at my job and also clean houses for extra cash. I am a very stressful, anal person honestly. I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 years. I love him deeply and things were going very well ...

Why is she picking fights all of a sudden?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

28 October 2009 (M) - Um worried about my girlfriend because she has been complaining alot lately. She says that her breast keep getting bigger for no apparent reason. I also notice that she has been really short with me lately and she's had to use the bathroom al...

Is this normal if you like the person?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

28 October 2009 (M) - Hi, just started seeing this lady, 31 years and I'm 39. Before she was on the scene I was having sex up to 3 times a day. Now I have seemed to have lost the drive. We like each a lot and spend all awake hours together. She also used to have a high ...

Should I persue this girl and our internet "relationship"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

28 October 2009 (M) - me and this girl I know have been in a sort of internet relationship for about 2 or 3 years. Well actually we were in one for about 5 months and then we lost contact. So I guess you can say it was over. This was in 2006-2007. Forward to may 2008 and ...