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Dating: Help and advice

I'm stuck, my boyfriends birthday is soon and I don't know what to get.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - Hey guys, Ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for two months now, and his 15th birthday is in November. I havent really asked him what he wants for his birthday because I want to suprise him. So my question is, what should I get him...

First he rejects me, now this. I'm confused, is he playing games with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - Ok so this guy knows I like him, I asked him out like 6 months ago and he rejected it by saying its because he doesn't really know me, but he showed signs of interest before so thats how I went to ask him out. Now that fall quarter has started he's...

I'm unable to get over the thought that he doesn't like me too, please help.

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22 October 2009 (F) - Hey. This isn't exactly a relationship problem. But it's still linked. Recently, I've had to come to accept that the feelings I had for a guy weren't mutual. I had sort of convinced myself that he fancied me. I'm still in denial and hoping that he ...

We admitted we liked each other, but she acts like she hates me!

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22 October 2009 (M) - Basically me and my female friend admitted we liked each other a month ago but we didn't do anything after wards nor talked about it. Now things have gone back to normal except now she keeps hitting me whenever I say something stupid and calls me...

What can I do to get over this? Am I completely nuts?

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22 October 2009 (F) - Hi, I've got this problem. I just got out of a very abusive six year relationship a few months ago, and there's all this court stuff to deal with. I came to terms with it, and was doing fine. Feeling much better, even relieved because the burd...

He is ignoring my request to get back together!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - Hello I broke up with my boyfriend because I thought he has another girlfriend/date. He told me that he does not have any. I texted him "that we can try again.And if you are not interested then tell me". He did not contact me in three hours so I tex...

I do not want to leave without him because long distance relationships don't work!

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22 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years, and living together for 3 of them. We have had many ups and downs. He has finished college and we have been talking about moving so that I may finish as well, we were talking about moving in ...

I'm 16, and really concerned about my Love Life!

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22 October 2009 (M) - Hey. I'm 16, and really concerned about my Love Life. Well i cant call it that, as i've never actualy had one. I've never actualy had a proper girlfriend, i've 'seen' girls but not been in an actual relationship. I always get mucked about by ...

Did I make the right move by backing off?

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22 October 2009 (F) - so i meet this guy six months ago, we had a lot of fun together, no fights at all. His old girlfriends parents see us out together, so she begins to call him! so im sure now he has mixed feelings. They dated on and off for years, one sided from him, ...

He went cold after our first date but says he still wants to see me, is he just being polite?

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22 October 2009 (F) - We met briefly at an event one evening and made a connection. He asked for my number and it went from there. We talked a lot and hit it off on the phone for about 2 weeks before had out first date. Conversations lasted for hours and if we weren't ...

How do I cope with this stress...help!

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22 October 2009 (?) - hi i am so stressed and soon i am going to live with my boyfriend without my parents knowing about us. i got lots of things in my mind such as courseworks, money, living, parents etc. im worried that i might have a breakdown soon. plz help....

He's younger and has a gf, but he won't stop hanging with me! What should I do?

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22 October 2009 (F) - i am a 34 year old divorce mom to a 6 year old girl. a couple of months ago, I met a guy at a bar with my friends. Turns out we live down the street from each other and were hanging out often watching football games on sunday. ect.ect. We have a...

My gf's family and friends keep coming and staying with us and I just want some privacy..help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

22 October 2009 (M) - My girlfriends' family is always living with us. All summer, we have had SOMEONE from her family to live with us, and we have had MAYBE 7 days/nights alone. It's a brother or sister, and thier girlfriend/boyfriend. they are still in thier late ...

Is my guy cheating on me, because I found a condom wrapper!

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22 October 2009 (F) - I live with my bf and we have a baby together. I am 21 and he is 53. Our relationship is going great Except that he works a lot and is always tired. I know the typical scenareo where a guy is usually cheating when He is working all the tim...

Fell in love too quickly and now all we do is argue!

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22 October 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 6 months now,we're both 20 and it was amazing for the first couple of months.we fell in love really quickly and we were incredibly happy.But now all we seem to do is argue and now he feels that i dont love him ...

Think I've met ''The One" but I've slept with two of his best friends..help!.

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22 October 2009 (F) - I am 26 yrs old. I split up with my boyfriend in March, which was a mutual decision, even though we were both very upset to let it go. Since then I have been partying a lot, drinking and doing drugs to get out of my head. Not good! In June went...

Treading on eggshells around my depressed partner...any advice on coping?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - Hello All, Hope you’re well. I’m posting anonymously although I am an Aunt (it’s just to save hassle!). This is long and a bit of a ‘venting-session’ more than anything, though comforting words or advice will be very well received. Ok, I pos...

A great kiss--fireworks! Now, 3 days later, we haven't talked yet...

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22 October 2009 (F) - I've been good friends with a guy I met at work for over a year (I now work for another company). He's really out going and fun, but can be shy around women. We tell each other things we've never told anyone else and its great to have such a close ...

Body Acne Problems

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22 October 2009 (F) - [WARNING GROSS STORY. SORRY!] This is So embarrassing. So, I REALLY like this boy. and we are currently dating. He tells me I'm pretty but I feel like I'm the ugliest girl in the world. This is because I have horrible skin. I have acne and stuff, ...

What gives?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - Ok so here goes.. My BF and I agreed to take things slow. He said we needed to talk. This was after 6 weeks of no contact. He said he loves me and cares about me. We made plans to get together to talk and grab a bite to eat on Friday. Frid...

Will the attraction develop later if I give him a chance?

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22 October 2009 (F) - I've known this guy for around 2 yrs. We get along really well and we regularly meet and go out together. We're very good friends and we feel comfortable around each other. I've known from the beginning that he was attracted to me but I had told him ...

I want to get his attention!

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22 October 2009 (F) - There is this insanle hot guy, and I want him to notice me! I had been working at a trendy store in the mall for a while. I transfered to a different mall, that is where I saw the most handsome guy ever. I never spoke to him, because his beauty was ...

How can I convince her I am different?

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22 October 2009 (M) - How do I make her understand I really Love her?? She's been with her bf for 4 years now. But she wants to break with him because he had broke her trust on him so many times and hurt her emotionally. Her bf would'nt allow her to break up with hi...

Why do I always expect to be cheated on?

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22 October 2009 (M) - Hi, I just wanna say that for the most part my relationship is perfect, but for some reason, due to my past I always feel I WILL be cheated on. So far twice, even after fully going through whatever to make those people happy. Like I never did ...

I am 22 he is 35, what do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - Hey there it is me again, so being 22 i am thinking about dating a guy that is 35, do u think the age difference is to much? i am just tired of all the immature jerks that i have dated in the pass, they have cheated on me, lied and used me ...

Nothing I do is good enough!

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22 October 2009 (F) - Okay, so.. I have been living with my boyfriend for about 8 months. I am currently 7 months pregnant (obviously, with his child.) and I'm having major issues with him. I do everything I can to make him happy, but it seems like it is never enough. ...

Do you think I made the wrong decision?

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22 October 2009 (F) - Ok so, I've been seeing this guy for about a year now and my bestfriend doesn't like him. At all! He didn't really do anything to her all he did was agreed that she was a slut but the boy who actually called her a slut she still likes? I really like ...

My best friend has a history of cheating and is now attracted to me!

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22 October 2009 (F) - One of my best male friends is currently in a long-distance relationship, and has been for about two months now. He has a history of infidelity but he insists that this time around, he has changed for good and will remain faithful. I tend to ...

Is it ever ok to give an ultimatum?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - Ok everyone I need your advice. Is it ever ok to give an ultimatum? I have been with my boyfriend for five years and I have had it. We have been in the same holding pattern for the last three to four years not moving forward not moving backward only ...

She's 100% mediocre and I just want to get rid of her. How do I do this painlessly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

22 October 2009 (M) - Ok so I met this girl a couple months ago, and we're dating now. This is the first girl I have ever had real feelings for. When I'm with her I turn to mush, I smother her and make myself sick to my stomache with how nice I am to her. She isn't ...

What should I do with my ex?

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22 October 2009 (M) - I found out the other day that my ex still has feeling for me. She broke up with me a a little over a month ago and I just recently found out she has feeling for me. I have feelings for her too, I mean I still love her and care about her very much ...

He knows I like him so why is he behaving like this?

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22 October 2009 (F) - Hi just wondered if you could make any sense of this as im slightly confused. A friend of mine(a guy) is a very nice guy in general. I wouldnt call him shy but hes abit quiet at times. We've had afew ups and downs in the past, lifes been made ...

Why does he treat me differently?

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22 October 2009 (F) - i'm 16. ok here's my problem, i like this guy for over a year now. he's just so cool and i really like him, but he only likes me as a friend and he still likes his ex-girlfriend. i tryed getting over him and i can't. plus he knows i like him. ok so ...

Am I her booty call?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

22 October 2009 (M) - I met this girl about 2 months ago, we hit it off on the first date, on the second date she spent the entire weekend at my place. This happened for 2 more weekends, then one night during the week she told me that she had been having sex with ...

He told my friends he was going to kiss me. He keeps making up stupid excuses why he hasn't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

22 October 2009 (M) - My boyfriend is REALLY shy. We've been going out for over two weeks and we still haven't kissed yet. When I text him, we can hold a conversation for hours, but when we are in person he gets quiet and barely talks. He is a year younger than me, and I ...

He is deeply spiritual and senses spirits around him. Should I stay away?

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22 October 2009 (F) - Hello Advice please asap Ive met a great guy online and plan to meet me him on Sunday. He is deeply deeply spiritual, says he feels things, knows things, senses spirits and that he feels them around him all the the time.... His mother was...