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Archived questions from: 19 October, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Should I go ahead and ask her to be my girlfriend even though she doesn't want a boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

19 October 2009 (M) - so i have been seeing this girl for about a month now. i feel we are really well together. i couldn't be any happier and i want her to be my girlfriend. but she just got out of a relationship where she had been cheated on and has told me that she ...

Will a DWI prevent me from having a girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

19 October 2009 (M) - I've got a bit of a problem. Over the weekend I was arrested for a DWI and had my car impounded, and I probably won't be driving for about a year. I am single and really worried that this is going to prevent me from finding a girlfriend. There are a ...

What do girls look for in a boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

19 October 2009 (M) - Simple questions to the girls. Pls, consider you re lookin for a bf. And what are the features you ll be lookin for. Everything as a whole,what you girls look for when looking for a boyfriend.put everything you feel like you need in a boy friend. ...

Hmmm...is he interested or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - i have known this one guy for about two months. he and i go to the same college. I took the iniative and have been texxting him for a while now. Two days ago, he decided to stop texting and called me directly instead. I like him from the start and ...

I'm tired of being the sweet, pretty lady. Can you help me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - Please help.im breaking down slowly inside.this whole year has been totally rough for me.my love life is just pathetic.im a beautiful lady with a beautiful heart and great sense of humor.im giving but all i receive is heartache.ive been broken so ...

Should I convert to Christianity for him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - Hi dear cupid. I need help again. I broke up with my boyfriend for one week but now we get back together again.(we're long distantance) We broke up, because of his family. And I told him if he stop listen to his family and move on with me (just me ...

I've liked him for several years! What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5309 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I've liked this guy for along time. We are both really shy. He may or may not like me. My preachers daughter works with him and she asked him if he knew who I was he said yes with a smile. His mom and uncle know my mom. His uncle always talks to me ...

Can little lies lead to bigger lies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - Hi, I just started dating this guy, and I'm noticing some strange little consistencies that I think maybe I'm being over sensitive about. However I feel like I need to address them. First of all, when we started seeing each other, I asked him if h...

I was about to tell him I love him but now I can't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I have finally come to realise that I don't just fancy him anymore. This weekend i thought about him so much and i think he is the first ever boy i have truly loved and cared about. The problem is.. he just doesn't know. It started out last year.. ...

He says he likes me but won't take me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5309 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I don't know if I want to change or should I say I'm not sure how to. I am in my late twenties and have no friends, except this one girl who obviously wants to be my friend but everytime we go out I justthink I would rather be at home watching TV...

Is he really interested, or just playing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - This guy is confusing me. We have worked together for two years, we have always got on and swapped mobile numbers, we text now and then not all the time, we have kissed quite intense, he has never asked me out although I have dropped hints a few ...

How can I please him and make it look like I know what I'm doing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5309 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - its been a year since i last had sex , and i think ive found the one now , the thing is im a bit nervous, with my ex who i lost my virgnity to we only ever did the missionary position , he wasnt very passionate and we only had sex a few times, i...

Did he lose interest after our first date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5309 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - We had our first date..now what? It went well (from my standpoint) and I enjoyed it! We had talked a lot before the date and both expressed a big interest in each other before the date. We both said that after the date we would discuss where we...

Does this man have any feelings for me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - Hi everyone. I am new to this so please be nice. ;) There is a divorced, older man (in his 30's somewhere) with kids I am interested in and have been before I even knew him. But I have known him for a few weeks already and I am not sure if he i...

I can't stop thinking about her, but I can't have her. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

19 October 2009 (M) - i am in my senior year in school. i have my final examination in a few months time-the results of which will exclusively determine which college I get into, my career and my life. hence, it is needless to say i have to really focus on my studies. ...

How do I show him my love without being overbearing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5309 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - My bf is in the srmy and he has been army an has been over seas for the last 6 months. We have been aprt when he did training and such but this is his first time over seas, He will be coming home in 6 days (I can hardly wait). but at the same time ...

I have two boyfriends! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I'm currently in a relationship with my boyfriend which shall be named as K for 9 months now, the love for him seem to be fading . and i have feelings for someone else , M . K does treat me well and all but .. his job is in the middle of everything ...

What does it mean when someone send you two blank text messages?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - What does it mean when someone send you two blank text messages?...

How do I get her to trust that I won't hurt her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

19 October 2009 (M) - I have liked this girl for nearly my entire life but up until recently didn't have the nerve to do anything about it. So was friends with her off and on, sometimes i couldn't stand seeing her with guys so we just sorta drifted apart. Just sort of ...

I am in love with my best friend but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - So heres the thing... Me and my best friend have fallen in love with each other. He has a girlfriend but they are in a long distant relationship for over two years now. We realized that we love each other like 6 months back, and ever since then we ...

I really like this guy but he is shorter then me!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm currently finishing my last few weeks of high school and just very recently I've been falling for this guy. He's so adorable, cute and kind, but, he's shorter than me! He's heaps shorter than me actually, yet, he's still older. I don't k...

I just don't see any hope of meeting anyone else.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I'm severely depressed. I just broke up with my boyfriend, and I just don't see any hope of meeting anyone else. My whole routine has completely changed I rarely go out I simply stay in my apartment all day, I've tried to go out once or twice but ...

How can I tell if hes telling the truth about not wanting to be with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - okay so my boyfriend and i have been on and off for about a year now. he has and ex gf who he was with for a year but that was 2 years from now. we are living together at his moms and she still calls him and wants to hang out and normally he would ...

Is it heathy for us to get bakc together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

19 October 2009 (M) - Here's my situation....broke up with my ex over 5 years ago. I've dated a lot since then, but nothing even remotely serious. We've been hanging out again for a few months...I'm almost 30 and I realize that if I get involved now...it means long term ...

Is it possible to fall back in love again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - is it possible to fall back in love again, when fallen out of love whatever the circumstances? is there any hope at all? i would really appreciate the advice, or and comments, thanks....

My boyfriend carries around naked pictures of his exes!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - My bf of 10 months, but we worked together for a year n a half prior ... Has a lunchbox full of nude pics of himself w/ him, exes end , exwife. They are all very tiny and apparently very comfortable w/ themselves. I believe that he loves me and may ...

Why can't I be happy and content with my life?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - Here's my main question: **Why can't I be happy and content with my life as it is, and not wonder about the possibility of things working out with my ex from so long ago?** I had a relationship that lasted for about 3 years...over four years ...

I like him but I am not physically attracted to him. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - So i really like my best friend he's a guy lol and the only problem is that there is almost no physical attraction. i mean i love himm and his ways but there's not physical attraction and idk what to do??...

My bestfriend or my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - This guy that I've liked for a while finally asked me out. The only two problems are that my bestfriend likes him too, and even went out with him but she broke up with him a few months ago and has been seeing other people. Also, he's my first ...

I think I need some reassurance here or just anyones idea

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - Hi I'm 18 years old Throughout my life i have been through some sh***y relationships and broke up with my last boyfriend because he cheated on me I have gotten to the point now where i just want to lose my virginity (hopefully with someone ...

My boyfriend has a rather strong musk coming from his private area.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has a rather strong musk coming from his private area. It is quite potent. I have tried to get used to it but its just...really strong (as I have said before). Is there anything I can do to mask the smell? Will cologne help? Is it wise ...

Possible hooker interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I recently was using the internet on my boyfriends phone and saw history of looking up local prostitutes and hookers. it caused a huge fight between us since he swore and will deny forever the fact that it wasn't him but i still don't beleive him. ...

I want him to give in to me once in a while and not just yell at me when I ask him for a favor.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5309 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. I love him with all my heart but in every case whether it be fights or what he wants, I have given in to him. I want him to give in to me once in a while and not just yell at me when I ask him ...

I'm so confused by this guy's behaviour towards me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I'm so confused by this guy's behaviour towards me... Of course, I like him which is why I can't work out what's going on! We've been hanging out together and going on dates for months now and he still doesn't seem to want things to get more ...

Me and my ex just got back together and I don't think she wants to be with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

19 October 2009 (M) - Me and my ex just got back together and i dont know what it is but i dont think she wants to be with me. Two times when i ask her for us to go out she tells me lets just be friends. I ask her y and she says cause she dont like going out she would ...

I just broke up with my boyfriend 3 weeks ago. Now I like his best friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5309 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I just broke up with my boyfriend 3 weeks ago. Now i like his best friend. I want to ask him to our halloween dance but i dont know how. can anyone help....

I am in love with my manager who is 12 years older than me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I really need big time help. I am in love with my manager who is 12 years older than me. When I first got the job this june i thought he was around 19 or 20 and he showed great interest in me thinking that i was at least 18 years old although i was ...