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Archived questions from: January, 2006 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

How do i get someone to like me for what I am?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

31 January 2006 (M) - how do i get someone to like me for what i am?...

He dating his ex and she's pregnant with his baby, but he wants to be with me too. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - i met a lad, my brothers mate when i recently went away to visit my family.We went out and we kissed but nothing else. When i returned home we kept in contact and he was saying that he really like me. I am now moving up to this place ( bearing in ...

I'm insecure and worry he'll talk to other girls..I need help desperately with this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6660 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - Hi have im 20 years old and i have dated my bf for about a year. I have an insecurity problem with myself do to the fact that i have been cheated on before. ( I mean don't get me wrong i know im a very pretty girl but there is always that scar...

Because she is not my sole beneficiary..she claims I am not making her top priority. Is this reasonable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6660 days ago

31 January 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years and have been living together for about a year. We have decided to marry but have NOT set a date. Recently, our plans to marry have run aground when I told her that I had made changes to my ...

He didn't answer my important question...does he really want to be with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6660 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - hi there i need advice from people i am in love with this really wonderful man but i asked him the real question " do you really deep down inside want to be with me?" the only reason i did that was because his moods to me lately have changed ...

Does she still have feelings for me and should we start seeing each other again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

31 January 2006 (M) - I was seeing this girl for a few months. She turned round to me one day saying that she just wanted to be friends because she had feeling for her ex boyfriend. Although she said she still had feelings for me as well and like us equally. I ended up ...

I hurt him badly and ruined my chances of getting him back! Help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - Hi I have a major problem! My ex boyfriend and I were together nearly 3 years. We both live with parents and I found he was very much under his mother's thumb as she has been divorced from his dad for many years. He lives with her. I live wit...

I've fallen in love with a co-worker, but she has a bf! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

30 January 2006 (M) - recently i have started giving one of my colleagues a ride to work most days - (she is quite new in the office) as soon i we met we just clicked and talked for ages about everything - i think i have fallen i love with her - only problem is she has a ...

He said awful things to me and times were hard-so why do I want him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - i split up with my ex 3 months ago after being together off and on for 5 years. we had more bad times than good and he did and said some foul things to me. i am so angry with myself though because i still love him and want him back. the good times ...

My gf cheated on me and we broke up-so how do I resist the temptation to go back to her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

30 January 2006 (M) - a couple of days ago i caught my girlfriend of 4 years, cheating with another man. it was friday night, she went out with her friend to a bar. she called me around 2:20 am and said she was on her way to my house, just down the street from my ...

I really like my BF but i like the other guy, too.What should I do about this situation

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6658 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - hey guys.As u all know i am 12 and in the sixth grade and i thought u guys could help me out with this problem i have. u see before me and my boyfriend hooked up a few months ago their was this boy in my homeroom that ...

I'm tired of being in limbo-should I just back off this relationship, once and for all?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6660 days ago

30 January 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I split 9 months ago after she said she was confused, spark gone, space etc. Since then we have been every few weeks but only because I initiated the contact, she has never contacted me but never declined my offers to go out ...

Should I date a guy outside my race, even though my family would be opposed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6649 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - Dear Reader, I have meet this guy, (very nice) and he has asked me out and taken my number. There is only one slight problem that I am not so sure of, he is black. It's not that I have anything against black people but my family does not agree w...

Her ex bf's made up lies about her and I stupidly believed them-Now we are have broken up! How do I get her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6661 days ago

30 January 2006 (M) - Me (21) and my girlfriend (19) loved each other. She has two ex's who make up alot of stuff about her. At first I stupidly accused her of these. But they are all false. I trust her with my life and have never been so happy with someone, she is ...

He wants to go slow in our relationship-but I want more time and committment from him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - Hi I am seperated from my husband of 25years and have met a guy who has never been married or had any children. He had fallen in love in said and the girl broke his heart. He is reluctant to get involved with any one too soon and wants to take it ...

We are 13, friends but I want to go out with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6661 days ago

30 January 2006 (?) - I really fancy my best friend. He is moving to Australia in the coming year and I really wanna tell him how I feel before he goes. We are both 13 and at the moment we are really good friends and tell each other everything which is why I don't think ...

I think that he thinks I'm involved, but I'm not. Now I live nearby, and I wonder if he feels the same attraction I do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6662 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - I know a guy from work, he's about 10 years younger than me. Last May we meet at a baseball game and we talked for a long while and he kept staring at my eyes. I was married at the time and my husband had just told me he had a girlfriend and was ...

We're engaged to her but she's pregnant with her ex husband's baby.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6662 days ago

29 January 2006 (M) - I am in a relationship where my fiance is pregnant with her ex husbands baby. I left town due to her lying to me about talking to him a 8 weeks ago. Now that he knows hes texting her and sending her pictures of himself back when they were married. ...

He's on dating sites-he views porn and it's hurting me! He see nothing wrong with this-what should I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

29 January 2006 (F) - My partner have had a difficult relationship recently. i found out he'd been looking at porn and going to dating sites. he lied when i confronted him. i thought i had finally got him to understand that he was hurting me because i think he may not ...

I've just left my married lover-I need to avoid him and stay free of him. Good advice needed.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6645 days ago

29 January 2006 (F) - I have just left for my married lover after 3 years. I really need the best advice on how to keep me from ever calling him again and staying free from him. This is not my first, second or third attempt to leave him, but it is obviously somethng ...

One reason I worry about being single is that I might be thought to be gay!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6659 days ago

29 January 2006 (F) - Would like to hear from single women in their 40's if possible. Do you have fear of being alone when you get older? Do you feel lonely to not have a man? I am for the first time alone in many years and am afraid to not have a man! I am not real fem...

We never really talked, but I'm thinking I should try to see him once more to check that I'm over him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6661 days ago

29 January 2006 (F) - ok, here's the background story to my question... Last semester in one of my classes I noticed a really cute guy. He seemed interested in me, he would glance over occasionally during class and we would make eye contact at the end of class. ...

We dated for a couple of months, but he asked someone ELSE to the prom!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

29 January 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I like this boy and we were dating for a month or two. He had said that he had feelings for me. He then, instead of asking me, asked another girl to the prom. I felt like it didn't even matter to him that he hurt me. I was mad, but...

It's too late to go out with my sister's best friend. Is there anything I can do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

29 January 2006 (M) - Hi. I really like my sister's best friend and she would have gone out with me had she know I liked her, and now she has a boy friend. What do I do? Thanks...

We're still just friends-but I want more from him! Do I tell him what I'm feeling?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6656 days ago

28 January 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have a problem figuring out this guy. I can't figure him out at all! When we first met we clicked so quickly. Slowly we started going out together as friends doing various things together. I could not help myself waiting for him ...

If a girl has unprotected sex..will she be more likely to get infected with AIDS, then the guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

28 January 2006 (F) - Hi, i have been sexually active since 20-year-old and i have been with this guy - J for almost 2 years. I am 22 this year. We both were virgin when we had our first time. At some stage of our relationship, i took estrogen pills to get rid of my pi...

Both guys said they love me and when I'm with one, I think of the other! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

28 January 2006 (F) - I have a huge problem. I am in love, or think I am, with these two guys. One is the sweetest guy I've ever met and I feel safe with him. The other well he's a bad boy. I've been on dates with both guys and they both said they loved me. When I am ...

Is his joking around, touching etc a sign he likes me? If it is, how do I respond?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6663 days ago

28 January 2006 (F) - Hi, The problem is I am 19 and I have never had a boyfriend. It's not like I couldn't have had one; it's just I am realy picky about who I trust and I am nervous about the whole thing. Anyway... there are 2 or 3 guys on my college course I kno...

Don't feel emotionally stable enough to have one-night stands... Anything wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6655 days ago

28 January 2006 (F) - hi , i havent had a boyriend for two years it doesnt bother me because im enjoying going out with friends the only problem is i haven't had a sexual partner since then either i just cant have a one night stand my friends all do but i dont feel ...

Feel like there is a war on singles... And I'm in the firing line!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6663 days ago

28 January 2006 (M) - Why do people ALL of a sudden wanna rush into marriage, kids, "the works". I'm only 22 and most of my mates are asking when you gonna find "a chick" "mess around alittle", what is this WAR on the singles? I'm not in any relationship and I'm not ...

I made a past mistake and kissed a another man..now my bf doesn't trust me. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6655 days ago

28 January 2006 (F) - Is there anything I can do about trust issues? My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. He has always been jealous, fights ensuing everytime I want to have "me" time with my friends. Usually I end up staying home, or driving...

Why would he want her rather than me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6655 days ago

28 January 2006 (F) - Heres my problem..I have a hard time meeting guys. I am kind of picky but I just know what I want and dont want. I was so excited when I met this guy, and he felt the same way. We talked everyday for a few weeks (went out a couple of times)then all ...

He tells me-he likes me but isn't ready. Should I wait or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

28 January 2006 (F) - well like, i have a problem i need help with...there is this guy who i really like and he just got out of a relationship 5 months ago with this girl he was going out with for 2 years. We have been hangin out since the break up he tells me he likes ...

This is a really difficult one... My boyfriend is so depress he wants to end it all... And it's all my fault. How do I fix it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6663 days ago

28 January 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 1.5 years now. and our relationship has been difficult from the beginning. He's from Australia, and I'm from the Netherlands. He's the 6th I've slept with, I'm his first. My last boyfriend and I were together fo...

I've had bad relationships in my past. Do I take a risk on this new guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6663 days ago

27 January 2006 (F) - Im a single mum and have been on my own for five years with two really awful relationships in between! I have been single for a year now and have just reached a stage where i feel really 'ok' to be on my own. Just me and my kids :) Problem is ...

Help! I think I'm too fat and that's keeping me from having sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

27 January 2006 (F) - what do you do when you want to have sex with a guy but you think your fat and that is keeping you from doing it. I need help....

What should I do about my confused college guy, who is dealing with his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6663 days ago

27 January 2006 (F) - Hi .. I am a college student doing what I have to do .I met a nice guy on a college based website in Oct 05 and we have talked since then. We have both developed feelings and we have expressed them. Well.. I have . He expressed most of them. ...

Was he serious when he asked me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6663 days ago

27 January 2006 (F) - Hi, Im in 10th grade and i have guy problem. There is this kid that i have had a crush on since 9th grade. The weriod thing is though is that his friend told me that he liked me. I didn't even know who the heck this guy was until i met him fac...

I'm 14-he's 18 and I like him but do I risk telling him and ruin our friendship? Advice needed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6439 days ago

27 January 2006 (F) - dear cupid I really like this guy down my street but he is 18 and i am only 14 but he is really sweet but he was going out with this girl and they have recently split up but i am really scared to tell him how much i like him he is a really good mat...

My ex and I started sleeping together again-but now he doesn't want me anymore! Please help-how do I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6655 days ago

27 January 2006 (F) - Please someone help me, I started sleeping with my ex just after he finished with his girlfriend at the time. My ex started giving me the wrong impression. i thought he was still really liked me, so i made the first move and now he has told me h...

I have a bf but this other guy keep pressuring me for sex. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6663 days ago

27 January 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid: I have a serious problem with my guy friend who is constantly asking me for sexual favors. I told him no everytime he ask and he doesnt seem to get the point that I have a bf and I WONT AND WILL NOT CHEAT ON HIM!!! My concern is t...

How do I tell this guy..I want a relationship, not just sex-without him getting mad at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6655 days ago

27 January 2006 (F) - Hi.... i met a guy the other night, and we got on really well, there was a lot of chemistry between us and we were very very flirty but nothing happened as i had to leave early. We exchanged numbers and now im thinking he's just going to want sex ...

I like his career advice... But I like *him* even more! How can I subtly let him know?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6664 days ago

27 January 2006 (F) - Advice appreciated! There are some truly amazing agony aunts and uncles out there and I would love your input on this one! I know this amazing guy and we have great chemistry. We talk and laugh and have so much in common and I find him soooo a...

Should I tell about my bipolar condition? Won't that frighten him off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

26 January 2006 (F) - I need some help here...I suffer with bi polar manic depression, and I think it is affecting my relationship with my boyfriend. We have been together for 4 months and I haven't told him about my illness. I am afraid to tell him because then he will ...

How do I deal with my boyfriend's ex wife at the party?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for about 8 months, and he is in the process of getting divorced, and up to now I have successfully avoided any contact with his ex-wife. This Friday I am attending a birthday where she will be there as well, and I ...

How do I start a conversation with the stunner in my office who keeps looking at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

25 January 2006 (M) - I work in a office, and there is a girl who I find to be stunningly beautiful. I have noticed her looking at me on a few occasions. All I want to do is talk to her but I have no idea what to say or how to start a conversation. Any Ideas?...

I'm 9 years older than him and he won't tell his parents about us. Is he embarrassed of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - i have been with my partner for nearly twelve months. at 34, I am 9 years older than him and have two children who love him to bits. the trouble is he will not tell his parents that we are together. when i question this he says they may not ...

He's slept with 60-70 women in his past. Is he just another player or am I just being paranoid? help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - After a long period of avoiding men for fear of getting hurt I have recently started going out with this guy. Things are going amazingly well and he is everything I'd look for in a man. My friends say how much he clearly adores me and how good we ...

My gf is a self-harmer and I'm worried sick about her. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

25 January 2006 (M) - My girlfriend of over a year is a self-harmer. I dont know how to deal with as she wont talk about it and says 'it's private.' I feel helpless, worrried sick and guilty. What should I do? ...

we love each other but my gf feel the spark is gone. How do we get that back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

25 January 2006 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend just over a year and we are very much in love. Recently she has said that she is not as attracted to me now as she first was but maintains that she still loves me just as much and that we ought to try to make it work. ...