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Archived questions from: June, 2005 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

How can I help my boyfriend adjust to his parents' separation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6874 days ago

30 June 2005 (F) - Dear Agony Aunt, My boyfriends mother has decided that she can't live with his Dad anymore and is moving out. This isn't really shock news because they have been fighting for months. However, my boyfriend (16) is feeling unsuprisingly ro...

My new bf keeps warning me not too get too involved... but we have an amazing connection!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6874 days ago

30 June 2005 (F) - I am wondering if I am worrying for nothing - just be relationship phobic. New guy I am dating. He has been hurt a lot and is going thru a divorce. Claims he has no past relationships that he has maintained a friendship afterwards. Keeps warning ...

This guy doesn't want a relationship, but I'd still like to ask him out. How do I do that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5928 days ago

30 June 2005 (F) - I need advice/help on what to do. I probably sound stupid but I think that I am in love with a guy who has said that he doesn't want a relationship right now. We also haven't talked in two or three months. I can't seem to get over him and I am to ...

For 3 months he was the most considerate guy ever. Then he just disappeared and won't return my calls!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6869 days ago

30 June 2005 (F) - For three blissful months I have been really happy with my new boyfriend. He seemed to be absolutely perfect- he texts me several times a day, rang me often, gave me lifts to and from work. We saw each other most days and he was always saying he ...

It's a new relationship and I don't have much experience. I just don't know where to start!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6875 days ago

30 June 2005 (F) - I was in a 6 and a half year relationship, I am 24yrs old, female, and only ever slept with my ex. I have some one new in my life, we don't want nothing serious, just some fun. Problem is I don't know where to start. I am absolutely terrified. ...

Things are great when we're together, but I'm always the one that initiates everything!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6875 days ago

30 June 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, ****Should I stay or should I go?**** I have had so much trouble with boys, they're just better off being my friends. I finally met a guy that made me feel differently about having a boyfriend. Now that we are a couple, I feel awkward...

She and I own a home together, but sometimes I wonder whether that's all we have...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6875 days ago

30 June 2005 (M) - I am currently dating a woman who is divorced and I am as well. We met almost 5 yrs ago and have made and implemented many plans. We purchased a home together, and jointly made a huge financial commitment, which at this point I do not live in with ...

When we went to the club, everything went great! Now I text her and get no reply...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6876 days ago

28 June 2005 (?) - I’ve come out a long-term relationship about two months ago, since then ive had a fantastic social life. My female friend that ive known for ages (who i dont hang around with) said if I ever wanted to go for a drink with her and a few mates we ...

Will my new guy's little daughter accept me if I date her daddy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6877 days ago

28 June 2005 (?) - I really like this guy and he likes me. We dont live that far away but he has a 3 year old daughter. I cant decide if I get this this guy that I will be accepted. I have always wanted a baby but this wont be mine and she may find it hard for a new ...

Am I wrong to be upset because my boyfriend takes me for granted?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

28 June 2005 (?) - I'm having some problem with my boyfriend. I think he is taking me for granted and has no respect for me. For example, he plans to do something with me then he changes his mind for his friends. Obviously I go mad. Is this right and am I wrong he...

I love women and I'd love to date, but I never know what to say and I'm getting discouraged!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6873 days ago

27 June 2005 (?) - I hate to say this, and I'm probably one in several thousands, but I'm a male approaching 24 years of age and I'm still a virgin. I've not got a great deal of confidence when it comes to pulling women, even though I love them to bits. I've never ...

I'd like to get married and have a child someday. How can I bring up this topic with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6872 days ago

27 June 2005 (?) - My boyfriend and I have been off and on since we met about 3 years ago. This last go-around we have been exclusive for a year. At the time we first started going out, he had said he was unsure if he wanted to get married again or have another ...

I'm smart and independant and not ugly... So why won't men approach me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6442 days ago

27 June 2005 (?) - I'm an attractive, intelligent, friendly and independant woman, but men rarely approach me. I haven't been asked out in over a year! For some reason I'm just unapproachable. I tend to be on the shy side, so I'm thinking maybe that's being read as ...

How can I be sure that my new girlfriend isn't just overlooking some critical issues about us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6873 days ago

27 June 2005 (?) - I'm in love with a woman who is 25, no kids, never been in a serious relationship and is from another city that I'm sure she wants to move back to. I'm 30, just getting out of a 12 year realtionship with 2 kids that I wont move away from. She love...

Our relationship is long distance, and now I find I'm interested in someone new...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6873 days ago

27 June 2005 (?) - I'm in a long distance relationship (for 4 years now) and my boyfriend will be moving out here to go to school in the city I live in in the fall. My problem is that lately I have become very attracted to someone else I know. On the one hand, I ...

Two relationships ended badly. Now I seem to run whenever a guy gets interested!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6878 days ago

27 June 2005 (?) - Hi, Wondering if anyone can help me... I've been in two long term relationships in the past, but they both ended badly and I had my heart broken. Since the last one ended, I've been single for 2 years because everytime something starts happenin...

Will my boyfriend drop me for my gorgeous best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6873 days ago

26 June 2005 (?) - I'm 15 and have been going out with my bf for about 2 months. I love him loads but I'm worried he'll start to fancy my best friend instead of me. My best friend is amazing and drop dead gorgeous as well but until now I haven't been worried because ...

I worry that, when I meet my text-guy, he won't like the way I look...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6879 days ago

25 June 2005 (?) - I met this guy a month ago and have been texting each other since and he wants to meet up with me again. I really want to see him again and maybe start a relationship but I'm scared he won't like the way I look seeing as he always has a really ...

Two dates, each followed by a breakup. Should I try a third time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6880 days ago

25 June 2005 (?) - Dear agony aunt, I went out with the same guy twice. We broke up twice. I broke it off twice because we never seen each other because he understandably had "family problems". We've recently been flirting again and I'm besotted by him again. He ju...

The woman I want knows I like her, but when I approach, she tries to ignore me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6873 days ago

24 June 2005 (?) - hi friends, This is Kartik. I had posted a question before regarding my frustration. I am in love with a girl whom I started liking with passage with time. This girl is a modern, carefree type of girl who lives life in her own terms. Now many...

Past girlfriends have cheated on me, so I can't believe this girl won't too!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

23 June 2005 (?) - Hi everyone,I'm 20 and male. I have been with relationships since 15yrs of age and had not very much, this may sound shocking,but I find it hard to love again, since my first love, I was cheated. I'm not a guy to cheat, at all. But because of all t...

My boyfriend has a schedule that he won't alter for anyone, including me, so I never get to see him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6873 days ago

23 June 2005 (?) - I have this boyfriend, who I've been dating for 2 months now. We live in the same city, only about 15 minutes away from each other. This guy works a full time job Monday thru Friday until 4:30 pm each day. He gets home around 5. Well he has a th...

I can't stand the thought of the girl I want doing "normal" dating without me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

23 June 2005 (?) - Look, I have a problem and it's making me feel suicidal. I am 20 yrs old and am a university student, i have never been in a relationship and am a virgin. I hate myself for this - i feel unloved and as though I will die a lonely man. Until rec...

Wondering about the pro's and cons of getting married and having kids young, versus waiting...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

23 June 2005 (?) - Hey, I am 19 and my bf is 25. Not a huge gap, but that is not really the problem here (if there is a problem at all). I am just wanting to know the positives and negatives of getting married young vs waiting til later in life. Also having kids (I ...

Can't meet people through my job or through friends. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6873 days ago

23 June 2005 (?) - Hello, I am a 20 year old male who has never been in a relationship or even had a close woman friend until recently. In high school I was a very shy person and never had the opprotunity to make many friends. But after graduating, I have noticed ...

When the psychic said he'd "play games" with me, does that mean he's interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6882 days ago

22 June 2005 (?) - Can anyone tell me what the signs are when a bloke is 'playing games' with you and are they doing it because they fancy you, or generally just being friendly? I have been told by a psychic that a friend of mine does like me but I have been told t...

Can someone help me define "love" as compared to "lust"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

22 June 2005 (?) - How do you know if you are in love or just lust? and What is an appropriate time frame to give yourself to ensure that it is love? ...

We're trying to take it slow while she sorts out her feelings... but she's pushing me away again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6882 days ago

22 June 2005 (?) - I'm back, if you know my story then this is a follow up. I talked to the girl I had the kiss with and she indicated that she had fun with the kiss. She said it was great fun when we kissed and at the exact same time we were kissing some firework...

He said he'd never get married again after his divorce, but where does that leave me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6878 days ago

21 June 2005 (?) - Hi. My boyfriend of almost a year is 35 and divorced (he married young and was divorced by the time he was 23). In general conversation the other day he mentioned that he will never remarry because he's 'been there and done that'. My problem ...

He didn't return my call, even after he gave me his phone number. But then he gave me a meal for free...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

20 June 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, I go to this restaurant all the time and noticed a very attractive waiter there. I decided after seeing him there a few times to tell him that he is very attractive on one of my visits there and I also asked if he had a girlfrie...

My girlfriend spends too much time flirting with other guys!

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

20 June 2005 (?) - I have been with my girlfriend for a year and a half and recently things havent seemed right. She spends a lot of time with a 'friend' but I have met the guy and don't trust him. A few days ago my girlfriend swapped sim cards in to my phone an...

She says there's no chance of her going out with my mate... ever. But I still get worried!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6886 days ago

19 June 2005 (?) - Hi.... Ok here's my question. I've been dating this girl for 2 months now.... it's been all good and I love her very much. Just before we got started we had a mutual close friend. He'd known the girl longer than I had so I thought I'd get some ins...

He didn't want a relationship, which is OK. But he said he'd call me and he hasn't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6886 days ago

19 June 2005 (?) - I was talking to this guy who I liked very much. We were not dating yet, even though it felt like it. I thought everything was going fine until he stopped talking to me. Finally I got him to tell me what was wrong, and he said he didnt want a ...

Don't want to come between brothers, but do I give up on the man I have feelings for?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6747 days ago

19 June 2005 (?) - I need advice. I have been friends with this guy (J) for a long time, and recently we both confessed that we have feelings for each other. The problem is that i dated his brother (R) 3 1/2 years ago and he found out about us. (R) was furious, ...

My girlfriend's friend is more my type, but I'm getting mixed signals from her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6886 days ago

18 June 2005 (?) - Have been seeing a girl for three months now. I do care for her, although there's not much physical attraction on my behalf towards her any more. To be honest, she's becoming very clingy towards me and I don't particularly want to take things ...

My dream guy seems to have a lot of not-too-innocent messages on his phone. Is he cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6870 days ago

18 June 2005 (?) - My boyfriend and i have been together now for almost 20 months. When i first met him i was obsessed with him and i still am. I used to make myself be at the same places he was so we could talk but not in a stalker way. LOL. I finally got the chance ...

We don't do... anything! She waits for me to make a move and I'm afraid of screwing up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6886 days ago

18 June 2005 (?) - I have been going out with this girl for 1 year and a half. We don't do anything, but both want to. The reason for this is she waits for me to make the first move, yet I don't really have the guts and am afraid of screwing up. How could I manage ...

The guy I like can't seem to move past the trauma of 2 years ago...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6887 days ago

17 June 2005 (?) - I really like this guy at work and he likes me too but there is a problem: 2 years ago his fiancee died in a car crash and he can't seem to move on with his life. He tells me when the time is right we can be together but when is the time right? I ...

She wants to be friends, but I'm ready to be together forever... How long will I have to wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6881 days ago

16 June 2005 (?) - I have been texting and talking to this girl for the past month, and i feel absolutely besotted by her. She knows how i feel about her, but is scared to commit to another relationship. In the last 2 years she has lost 2 babies (1 by choice and 1 ...

I feel kind of trapped in this relationship where he has all the power...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6889 days ago

16 June 2005 (?) - This is kinda a long one. My boyfriend of three months acts like he thinks I am emotionally weak because on several occassions I cried in response to some of his decisions/comments. He is not good at communicating so he holds things in and then ...

Dad won't even meet my boyfriend, because of his religion!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6881 days ago

15 June 2005 (?) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for over 5 months now and I really love him, but my dad doesn't like him and won't meet him because of his religion. What should I do?...

He only ever sees me when he needs something, otherwise he's anxious to leave...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6885 days ago

15 June 2005 (?) - Dear cupid, I have a boyfriend who claims to love me so much but seemingly he has something up his sleeve. He calls me only when he needs to see me and that is after months or so. When I call him, he gives excuses to hang up. I need your advic...

I like a co-worker, but it's hard to gauge his feelings because he's so shy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6891 days ago

14 June 2005 (?) - I really like this guy from work. We hardly get to talk to each other as we are from different departments. I tried to get him to talk to me by sending him a couple of work-related emails. He did talk to me those couple of times and also mailed me ...

Been friends for a year... had sex for 2 weeks, then we were friends again. Now? I don't know!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6892 days ago

13 June 2005 (?) - Hello. I have been "friends" with a guy for about a year now. We started off dating, and had great sex for about two weeks. Then, he pulled back and said that we should be just friends. Then, he said that we couldn't be just friends, and he ...

Too scared to ask him out, since he rejected me 3 years ago!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6888 days ago

13 June 2005 (?) - Hi! I'm hoping someone can help me I am in a really strange situation. I've been in love with my ex-boyfriends best friend (for years!). We all get on really well together and even though I've been split from my ex for over 5 years we are st...

I told her how I feel about her by text... but I don't understand her answers!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

12 June 2005 (?) - I text a girl on my mobile asking her out by using a poem and I told her how i felt saying she was beautiful and stuff. she text me back saying it meant a lot to her but she doesn't want to risk our friendship because if we split she would get ...

Will it spoil our friendship if I make a move on my friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6881 days ago

12 June 2005 (?) - I'm only 16 but I have been best friends with a guy for almost two years now. In the past we have dated off and on about three times. Currently we are just friends, but I think I want more. I don't want to ruin our friendship either, however ...

Want my boyfriend to make a new start with me in another country, but he's not sure...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6893 days ago

11 June 2005 (?) - I've asked my boyfriend of 2 years to move to a different country to be with me, because we haven't even seen each other for the past year and a half. Crazy relationship I know. But he's a bit scared to make such a big move, and due to work, I ...

We were together but it didn't work out... Now I can't get her off my mind.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6887 days ago

11 June 2005 (?) - Well I'm 15 years of age but don't think 'lust' as soon as you see my age; it isn't like that. My problem is I like this girl and she pretty much means everything to me. I have liked her for nearly a year now and we once were together but it didn'...

She doesn't want a relationship, but there are lots of other things that she wants!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

10 June 2005 (?) - dear sir/madam How can I help my best friend who loves a girl deeply, but this girl does not want a relationship, but wants my best friend to pay her college fees and apartment for her, as well? And he agrees to help, but she doesnt want him to l...