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How could a guy like him fall for a girl like her?

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22 May 2013 (F) - Thank you for taking the time to read my question. I have been dating the most wonderful man, Jeff, for about a year now, I have met his parents and he’s met mine, we’re planning to get married early next year. Everything’s perfect and I may be j...

No sex since January. Am I being paranoid? My instincts say he's messing about, but hides things. How can I be sure of it??

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22 May 2013 (F) - Am I paranoid or is he up to something? I recently have noticed my boyfriend is acting like he's up to something lately. We haven't been intimate since January. I put this down to him having a low sex drive and he had made comments about not gett...

Broke up a month ago. Does he still love me? He said his "real friends" are stopping him from dating me again.

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22 May 2013 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend around a month ago. we've dated for 2 and a half years, though i was the one who suggested a break up, i miss him so much, and i actually want him back. The reason why, i suggested a break up was because we always h...

Do you think he has started having different feelings? If so I might as well end this relationship.

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22 May 2013 (F) - So for the past 5 months I have been in a fwb relatioinship with a friend I met thru a friend. The thing is I'm married and he's not married but is already in a relationship himself. So we work on eachothers schedule. Now the sex isn't always the...

Should I come out so I can see him before he goes? Should I be worried about the 3 year age gap?

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22 May 2013 (M) - I'm 16, gay, and in a crisis. I've got to know this guy from my school quite well. He was a sixth former when I was in year 9 and after he left school when I started year 10 for uni we got closer and we both discovered that we were both gay. O...

Is it normal for guy friends to touch each other?

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21 May 2013 (F) - Is it normal for guy friends to touch each other so much? My boyfriend says all guys do this, but I don't think so. In their group of friends they are always joking about having sex with each other, and they grab each others asses and squeeze it. ...

This girl seems a bit too interested in my fiance so after she hung up on me repeatedly I told my fiance he couldnt drive 5 hours to pick her up from the rodeo. Did I over-react?

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21 May 2013 (F) - I have been living together with my boyfriend for 7 years now, we are engaged, he's very naive and always try to cheer people up if they look upset especially his female friends.. One of them is his step cousin, his step Dad brother's wife niece ...

My boyfriend maintains a friendship with a woman who has a crush on him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - There is this girl my boyfriend has been talking to online. I found out she has a huge crush on him and has been trying to hook up with him for weeks now. What's worse is that I found out she sent him a naked picture. I'm upset because even tho...

My boyfriend has been acting strangely since he discovered I deleted his ex-girlfriend's number from his phone

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19 May 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship now because he is from the UK and I am from North America and I have to finish university until December, then we can be together. We have been dating for about a year and a half now and have...

My girlfriend chose me over him, but now she's depressed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

19 May 2013 (M) - we have been going through a rocky patch for the last 3 weeks. my girlfriend called me friday night and appolagised for breaking up with me,she said that she had kissed another guy she had feelings for she said that she was sorry and had to tell me ...

I'm in a long distance relationship, but I've met someone local

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

19 May 2013 (M) - For the past 5 years, I've been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend of 8 years. Due to our circumstances, we'd only be together twice a year at most. It has been hard for the both of us, there were times when we'd stop talking for ...

Should I confront my ex-bestfriend who is now sleeping with my soon to be ex-husband?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - My best friend and my husband are now lovers. She left her husband, he left me. She has two kids and we have one. She and he have discussed kicking me out of our family home and them moving in. I suspected something was going on for so long...

5 years together...and then a new girl enters my life.

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18 May 2013 (M) - I have been in a relationship for 5 years. And I admit that i'm a good and committed lover. In-fact, this is my first relationship. Well Everything's going well. The honey moon period is over, we had our good and bad times together as a coup...

I still want to be with her but she was my bestfriend's lover. What are my options?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

18 May 2013 (M) - three months back my best friend introduced me to his galfriend,a few days from there we became friends with ma friend's galfriend.. Before i knew it we fell in love ,within days of the affair we got caught and i lost a friend,to make things wors...

At the moment, I am not ready for a threesome to happen in our relationship. My Bf would like it to happen. How long into a relationship before agreeing to it?

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18 May 2013 (F) - Hi, Ok I would love some fair and informative advice here on my boyfriend wanting to have a FFM threesome. We have been going out with each other for 8 months and moved in together three months ago. At the beginning of the relationship he...

Should I be worried that she is cheating on me? Or am I just being insecure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

18 May 2013 (M) - I have been hurt in the past by women and 3 months ago I met this girl who I think is the most amazing girl I've ever met in my entire life, she is as beautiful on the inside as she is on the out. I want to spend the rest of my life with her. s...

After 8 years of marriage I became totally dependant on my ex-husband to support me

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18 May 2013 (F) - i am 28 and i don't want to work. I'm still living with my ex husband and his girl friend, he has moved on and i relied on him so much for 8 years. i have become comfortable living like that. i don't work or pay any bills. i don't do anything...

I'm confused about this girl's actions!

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17 May 2013 (M) - Alright, so long story, I'll attempt to make it short. I'm 18 and I've never had a girlfriend. I asked a girl out last year and she said yes. Come to find out, she had a boyfriend that I wasn't aware of. I cut my ties and said forget it. Yesterday...

My husband has been hiding that he's talking to his ex-fling on FB. What to do about him?

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17 May 2013 (F) - We've been maried for 3months now. i'm just 22 and hes 24 maybe too young for marriage. We've been LDR for 2years then got married. We've been LDR again for about 2 months now, and he did it again, chatted wih his ex fling, admits he did but refu...

My husband doesn't understand his ex-wife and her daughter are manipulating him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7 days ago

16 May 2013 (?) - hi,im 34 myparthners 52. we have 3 kids together. i love him but for some strange reason he thinks I don't love him but I love his money or etc. hes terribly wrong! he lived with his ex for 20 years.they have no kids together.we would have a har...

Do I have any right telling my boyfriend to stop talking with this girl that I feel uncomfortable with?

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16 May 2013 (F) - Do I have any right telling my boyfriend to stop talking with this girl that I feel uncomfortable with? This girl has only known my boyfriend for about a week and she has been talking very openly about how much she likes sex and been telling him...

I'm in love with my girlfriend's best friend and she feels the same way, but I don't want to lose my girlfiriend either! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

15 May 2013 (M) - i have a girlfriend for 2 months.. but before that i met a girl in wich i was interested in.. but i didnt tell her.(she is the best friend of my current girlfriend) and we are best friends now, i found out that she is in love with me as am i with h...

Having second thoughts about my current boyfriend of 2 years!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 9 days ago

14 May 2013 (F) - Im going to try and make this short...I was married for 12years to a very controlling and emotionally abusive man. The guy I am with now is 13years my junior. He is mature in some ways but others not so much (financially and education wise) Anyway w...

His friend flirts with him big time -- why does she do it when she knows he's in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

14 May 2013 (F) - Hey everyone. Hope everyone is good. I posted on here a couple of months ago about having problems with my boyfriends female friend who constantly kept flirting with him. I got mixed opinions about the whole situation and what I should do. I'm ...

His wife has moved back in with him and he cant divorce her, but he wants to continue seeing me. What should I do?

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14 May 2013 (F) - Hi, how I’m going to start this. I read some of “my boyfriend has a wife” discussion and I’m in the same situation now. We start as a friend since then all of our friends knew that his separated to his wife. He has a kid, and that is the only thing ...

Have I lost the love of my life? She has feelings for someone else and wont stop seeing him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

14 May 2013 (M) - have i lost her? i have been in a relationship for 10 years, i left this girl for over a year and started a new relationship, i broke her heart and we eventually ended up back together. i have never treated her right and have never committe...

Sister and husband had an affair, and I am expected to act all happy at family gatherings!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

13 May 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'd married my first love for more than 10 years. we have one college daughter. Few years ago, I found out he cheated with my younger sister. I filed for a divorce, but never left our house beacause he was begging, crying ...

How can I stop missing the other man? He was a selfish, controlling, manipulative jerk.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

13 May 2013 (F) - 18 months ago, I ended an affair I was having with my neighbour. I was married and so was he. I not only ended it but told my husband, his wife, sold my house, moved to a different neighbourhood and never contacted him again. Even though I've...

Which one do I let go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

12 May 2013 (F) - I am having to choose between two men and its killing me inside, i was with one for a year, we got engaged after a week, we have both had a lot happen, his mum died, then my dad but before his mum died i found out he had been texting his ex over a ...

My boyfriend's behavior has shaken me to my wounded, abandonment-fearing core. Am I the one who needs to work on my issues? Or is his behavior unacceptable?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

12 May 2013 (F) - Can I trust my boyfriend? I have trust issues stemming from childhood (parental divorce, alcoholic parent, stressed out parent, etc). I've improved in the trust department, but still have a long ways to go. I live with my boyfriend of 2.5...

I hate my boyfriend being friends with her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

11 May 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. I have been with my boyfriend for the past 3 years. I have a major problem and I hope I won't be judged or get hurtful comments about what I am going to say. My boyfriend is friends with a girl who lets say...sleeps around..a ...

My boyfriend's drink was spiked and the woman he woke up with now says she is pregnant!

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11 May 2013 (F) - Help me, please. My boyfriend of a year just told me that about a month ago, he went to this girl's house to help her with her abusive ex. He didn't have a way home, so he sat down and she asked him if he wanted anything to drink. I guess it was ...

Is my B/f still not over his ex? And is she the reason why he wants to go for the party?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

10 May 2013 (F) - My boyfriend of 8mths who I live with, has been asked to go to a 30th birthday party. He asked me to go with him, and I said yes. It was a Facebook group invite and I have since seen that his ex (who broke his heart ) is invited. He has been ...

How can I stop obsessing about the fact that my Bf used to sleep with his baby momma after they separated?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

8 May 2013 (F) - My bf used to sleep with his baby momma after they separated, on and off from what i can gather. I know its not while he has been with me, but it makes me feel insecure or that he still has feelings for her. How do I stop obsessing about this?...

This is hurting ,me: I love him and I don't want to lose him. But what to do? He wants to try other girls, not for love, just sex

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8 May 2013 (F) - Hi guys, Well I have this problem. And I appreciate you not judging me nor laughing. I have been with my bf for 7 years, we break up several times and lots happened but we still come back to each other because we do luv each other. But lately ...

I think I love her. So how can I help her get over the guy she is seeing? He makes her unhappy. I think she's confused.

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7 May 2013 (M) - I seriously love a girl whom i've been knowing for a long time too.....problem is that she is too much confused...she is in a relation with another guy...and certainly she is not happy in that relation...so she want's to get along with me...but ...

His controlling female friend is damaging our marriage

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

6 May 2013 (F) - Hmm...I have thought about this issue for many many months but this is the first time I have written it down to try and talk about it...It's such a mess I almost don't know where to begin. My husband and I have this friend..well..he has this ...

Why can't he tell her to move on 2 years after they broke up?

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6 May 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, I´m with my bf almost 2 years, everything´s great, but one thing. My bf´s been always friends with his ex of 4 years..It always bothered me. And finally, after almost year and a half that I hated her I had to really speak about her ...

She acts like she's interested in me, says she's unhappy with her boyfriend, but she's still with him

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5 May 2013 (M) - Hello everyone, I wanted to share a story of mine and ask for your advice. So, basically, a colleague of mine that I have known for 2 years now has been sending me mixed signals and I do not know where I stand with her. Initially, I thought n...

Is it wrong to date him if I still chat with his ex-wife?

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5 May 2013 (F) - So this may be drawn out but I feel like I need to include as much info as I can. My ex and I are currently going through a divorce. We have been separated for 1.5 yr and were married 7 years. During our relationship we became close with an old ...

What to do now, do I say something else to him? I feel lost and crushed by his lies and his games

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5 May 2013 (F) - I am going to try to make this as short as possible by giving enough info but it's a long story. any advice is welcomed. refrain from judgement and ill comments please. My fiance and I got into an argument one day. very stupid argument and...

We've been together for three years but now it seems we have gone back to stage one.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

4 May 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend three years. He has been in the uk fir 7 years and revently applied for uk residency which he has now obtained. He has supported me through a serious illness and has helped me with my two kids when i need help. He l...

Why didn't he tell me he was single again?

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4 May 2013 (F) - Hey everyone, Exactly a year ago,thru my best friend I met this guy nd honest to god for me he was the most good looking guy I'd seen till date,he was stunning and I was attracted to him,it was driving me crazy!now from what I herd this guy had a lo...

Should my boyfriend stand up to his tactless family for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

4 May 2013 (F) - I really dont like my boyfriends family for so many reasons. I find them tactless and kinda low class. I was willing to look past that and always did (Im not really a judgmental person), furthermore I liked HIM, nobodys family is perfect, but it all ...

Should I tell her about the relationship I had in the past with a married woman? Or is it best left in the past?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

3 May 2013 (M) - Five years ago I had an off and on physical relationship with a married woman who I work with. I was single at the time. We still work together but it ended well and there is no bad blood between us but she can be Vindictive if she wants to be. ...

We are keeping things casual so how do I broach the subject of being exclusive without scaring him off or appearing needy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

2 May 2013 (F) - Hi everyone I think I'm being paranoid about this but just wanted a bit of advice. I've been seeing this guy for the last 2 or 3 months but neither of us want anything serious so we 're just keeping things casual and not telling any of our friends. ...

I've just found out my boyfriend has a second child with his ex, I don't think I can deal with him having so many kids but I'm pregnant with his baby! Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

2 May 2013 (F) - Just found out my boyfriend has another baby with his first baby mama, they already have a son I knew about. im also 5 months pregnant with his baby, he said he just found out that her daughter is his, he didn't cheat with her the baby was before me ...

How do I find out what she feels for this other guy before I tell her how I feel about her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 24 days ago

29 April 2013 (M) - over the last few months this girl has been acting in a way that makes me think that she likes me. always talking to me and looking at me as well as ruffling my hair when i'm around my friends only mine and at a party on saturday I kept looking over ...

I kept waiting for him to leave his g/f but he never really did so I ended things. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - I'm confused that I already made a mistake as he asked me to wait for him to breakup with girlfriend of 6 years he told me they are in verge of breaking up but I didnt do it. I just stoped waiting and said goodbye a month ago. I've waited for him to ...

Breaking up with a married man.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - Hey everybody. Thanks for choosing to take the time to read this. So, I was involved with a married man. Over time, it started taking its toll on me. (He initiated the flirting, I stayed away because I knew he was married, he started initiati...