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Three is a crowd: Help and advice

I am now keen on his fantasy threesome, but I know I wont want him touching another girl, can this work?

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13 May 2008 (F) - Ok so, the idea of a 3some turns me on. Thinking about being with another woman, and having my man have sex with me. Sometimes when I see 3somes on porn, I imagine me being one, my bf being the guy and whatever. My bf's ultimate fantasy...

Is there anything I can do or am I just forced to stay on the sidelines?

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12 May 2008 (F) - Me and my ex dated for 2 years 10 months ago, I still have very strong feelings for him, and he has a girlfriend, but has given me plenty of mixed signals. We're still friends, and I see him every now and then because I'm friends with one of his ...

Kissed this guy, but now my close friend told me she really DOES like him, should I tell her?

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12 May 2008 (F) - I've done something terrible. On the weekend I kissed this guy who a close friend really really liked a few months ago, and he messed her around, and the reason we are so close now is because she spoke to me about it all the time, and about how she ...

I am in love with two people

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12 May 2008 (F) - Ive came to a real dilema. I have fallen in love with two people. What am I supposed to do? How do I possibly choose? Please help me. Its giving me sleepless nights....

My husband had an affair which resulted in the other woman falling pregnant. The child is almost due, what is the best way to handle this?

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12 May 2008 (F) - This is complex - and difficult to write about succinctly...I'll give it a go! My husband had a year long affair. He tells me he tried to "end it" many times prior to me finding out - but felt guilty and like he owed the OW something. To make mat...

Should I end my friendship with my ex to make my boyfriend feel more secure in our relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted yesterday

12 May 2008 (F) - I married my high school sweetheart before he deployed to Iraq. Predictably, our young age and the effects of him being at war destroyed our marriage. We ended up divorcing in 2006. Despite that, we still remain best friends. Now I'm a new relation...

My ex wants us to be friends even though he has a girlfriend. Why does he send me mixed signals?

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11 May 2008 (F) - Me and my ex-boy friend been broken up for almost 4-5years and he is in another relationship still with the girl he was cheating on me with. He want's us to be friends but it's hard for me because we had history. I get a feeling that he regrets are ...

I have a boyfriend, but now I have very strong feelings for a friend

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11 May 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, i really need advice!! i have very strong feeling for a guy who now im very close friends with but whom i know for less than a year. i have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend. i know its probably just a crush and itll pass but we get ...

Is my friend after my boyfriend?

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11 May 2008 (F) - my friend had always liked my boyfriend even before he was my boyfriend. there had been moments when she tried flirting with him. but since he doesnt like her, he didn't play along. even though she said she didnt like him anymore, i always caught ...

Will she go back to her ex?

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11 May 2008 (M) - hi. ive met this girl and we get on great and i really like her. the problem i have shes just recently come out of a long relationship. it ended because he slept with someone behind her back. that was a while ago but she took him back but she sed ...

I think he may like me but he's married and expecting a child!

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11 May 2008 (F) - I need some serious help!!! Ok, there is this guy I talk to. We're friends...sort of. He's married and his wife is pregnant. She's in another country. I met him through another friend. And we kind of started talking. I like him, but I know its wron...

My family thinks I let his wife ruin our relationship too much, and I worry a lot...!

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10 May 2008 (F) - i wonder if my boyfriend will ever be just mine.I am 22 and he is 34. we have been together for almost 6 months and he is still married but is living with me. He also has 3 kids with his wife so i know he talks to her cause of the kids and divorce ...

I am in big mess I don't know how to come out of it.

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9 May 2008 (F) - Iam a 28 year married woman.I am going through a bad phase in life,Iam not happy with my marrige coz i found this guy who is single and very caring.When i met him first time we just clicked,i like everything about him.There were problems in my ...

Should I be willing to break up with my boyfriend for him?

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9 May 2008 (F) - I am dating this guy and he is really special to me... but i like this guy who likes me and i told him i like him and he was happy and amazed. i have liked this guy since i met him. He has a girlfriend to but is willing to break up with her for me. ...

Anybody give me any tips on how to back off with the flirting etc without seeming like I'm going cold?

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8 May 2008 (M) - Hi, I started a new job about six months ago and its great. I get on really well with everybody but there is one girl in particular who I've got close to really quickly. We flirt quite a lot at work, and we text each other quite often outside of ...

I told her I won't wait. Should I really walk away?

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8 May 2008 (M) - Hi guys. Just a quick one after your views. Had a deep passionate emotional sexual affair with a women who was in a relationship with a man she feels no spark, attraction for, lasted a year and a half. She does however love him and he is like her ...

Does my husband fancy Miss Perfect?

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8 May 2008 (F) - I am concerned about my husbands feelings towards miss perfect? Dan and I had been married about 3 months when we were invited to his freinds wedding reception, as soon as we walked in i noticed a gorgeous girl i immediately felt inferior. Then i ...

Is it just pillow talk or does my wife really want a threesome?

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8 May 2008 (M) - Hello Over the past few months whenever my wife and i have sex she like to talk about other men, mainly friends of ours. The more she does it, the more it turns me on. she says i perfore better. I have always had a fantesy about seeing her wi...

He's only been in a relationship for a month and we are flirting. Should I express my feelings now?

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8 May 2008 (M) - Okay so I'm a bit lost with this situation I'm in so maybe someone might be able to enlighten me a bit. I've been flirting with this guy for a couple of weeks now and the flirting has occured back and forth from both sides, we've been recently ...

He treated me MUCH BETTER than he treats her!! He still cares, right?

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8 May 2008 (F) - okay well me and my bf broke up and he now has a new gf. We dont really talk but once in a while we will. but anyways, he kept all my comments to him on myspace and they say how much i love him and all that. Why would he keep them on there, Everyone ...

Why does he keep flirting with her,he knows I don't like her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - me an my bf have been together for 8 months. an there is this gurl named nina that is always flirting with him. i think he likes her because he doesnt say anything when she flirts with him. i dont want to tell him to stop talking to her because ...

He says he is seriously falling for me but has a girlfriend? Where do I stand?

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7 May 2008 (F) - Hey, I really don't know what to do anymore.. I've liked this guy for over a year and hes likes me too. We were seeing each other a lot last summer nearly every day, was amazing. Only problem is hes got a gf... he was with her all last summer too....

I plan on having a threesome with my husband and a girl - how do I go about this?

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7 May 2008 (F) - i want to have a threesome with my husband and a girl. i've never done this. how do i go about it?...

He keeps telling me he loves me but has a girlfriend! I like him, so what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - I just recently fell for a guy who is absolutely amazing except his got a girlfriend and my friend likes him so i haven't said anything but he keeps asking me if i love him i said no and he looked upset but i do like him and we get on so well i went ...

If he's not happy anymore with her I don't want to be the reason of problems between them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - i am 30 years old and i met a wonderful man who is 36 years older.I am mature enough to understand that i am not in love with him but i feel very much connected.We like each other very much and i find him a very deep,emotionally intelligent ...

I have a BF, yet this other boy tries to hold my hand and kiss me in front of everyone! What to do?

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7 May 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend and i love him to peices, i really do! But a boy I know has just asked me to have an affair, and i dont know if i should say yes. I really like him and before i went out with my new boyfriend i was always waiting for the boy to a...

My childhood friend slept with my BF a year ago; she keeps telling me she wants to be friends again, do I forgive her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - My best friend since childhood slept with my boyfriend. It has been a year since I have talked to her and I dumped the guy. She keeps calling me telling me she wants to be friends agian. Should I forgive her? I'm afriad she may try and do the same ...

I'm being used to make another girl jealous - I want to get even!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - How do you get even with a guy for using you to try to make another girl jealous? This is happening at work. I'd love to sock it to him!!!...

My boyfriend cheated with my sister, I cut contact with her but I am still seeing him. I keep justifying his behaviour, is this right?

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7 May 2008 (F) - my younger sister slept with my boyfriend. he admitted it to me, she still hasn't, well she did but in a round about way but then quickly took it back when i asked her did she do it rather then " i know you did it, why?". when she found out he ...

My llife long friend introduced me to her ex boyfriend, now we're a couple, and it's created problems...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - A girl friend i've known almost all my life has always been in love with this one guy. They dated a while but it didn't work out because they both realized they're better off frends. After they broke up, she has been crying about him for about 10 y...

When I'm not around he's a totally different person.

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7 May 2008 (F) - My husband made friends with a co worker, all 3 of us work together, although I'm not there that much because it isn't my main job. He had been helping her move, hugging her, posing for pics, playing golf with her ex husband, and even had a secr...

Who does he like, if he's flirting with me and my best friend?

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6 May 2008 (F) - If a boy keeps flirting, but is doing it really serious, and is doing the same to your best friend. Who does he like ?...

Why was he flirting right in front of me, as if I meant nothing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

6 May 2008 (F) - Today i walked into school and i usually see my boyfriend and we usually hug and kiss and whatever. So, i walked into the courtyard, where there's a group of our friends, and i saw him with this freshman girl, flirting his ass off...she started ...

My lover says he wants his wife to know about us but is too afraid to tell her, should I tell her?

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6 May 2008 (F) - My lover has said he would like for his wife to find out about our affair. He is too afraid to tell her, he's afraid of losing his kids. Should I tell her? ...

Why do I keep allowing myself to get drawn in by him? What can I do to end all of this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

6 May 2008 (F) - Hello, I need your help with something that's been bothering me. I've been friends with this guy for about 8 years. We've always been rather close and have fooled around a bit in the past. He has a girlfriend who he's been with for 2 years but rece...

I think her BF is cheating on her, and I like her. What should I do, forget her?

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6 May 2008 (M) - Hi all Got myself a bit of a pickle. Last weekend i was out with my mates and we ended up in a nightclub. I met this really really nice girl there, we ended up dancin and talkin for ages. tho she was very shy and kept smiling whenever i looke...

Should we get it on with each other while her fiancee is away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

6 May 2008 (M) - Hi, I have a kinda tricky situation here...Any advice would be really helpful.. I've got a female friend called Sam...she's 18..We've been great friends for 3 years now and we connect on everything so well. However shes engaged now...and bac...

How do I ask her out if she already has a boyfriend?

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6 May 2008 (M) - hi people,okay, so theres this girl i really like and well im pretty sure already likes me as well, the problem is that they say that she already has a boyfriend and well, im not sure ether to go for it or not. She really does act like she likes me ...

We almost had sex but now I think there is another girl on his mind! Could he like me though?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

6 May 2008 (F) - Okay so theres this guy we'll call him Sergio that i really really like alot!. Well Sergio and I have only known each other for like 5 months but we have become really good friends. And everyone at school thinks he likes me too. Hes always acting ...

I didn't know he was still married! How can I get clarity?

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6 May 2008 (F) - Over 1 year ago, I met a really great man, we got along wonderfully. A few months into our relationship, when asked about the length of time he had been divorced, he told me it wasn't final yet. I thought that within 6 months, it would most likely ...

Does my mate's girlfriend fancy me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

5 May 2008 (M) - my mate and his girlfriend were at a bar with me but when we left i gave them a lift to their place. i could tell from at the bar his girlfriend was giving me the eye and being all very nice. when i dropped my mate and his girlfriend off, when my ...

How can my ex say he loves his girlfriend, when he cheated on her with me?...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

5 May 2008 (F) - I have just recently broken up with my boyfriend of two years. We both are in serious relationships but I'm very confused because my ex said that he loved his new gf after dating her for two weeks and he cheated on her with me once (big mistake and ...

I found out he is married and still is in love with his wife even after he led me on! I'm devastated!

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5 May 2008 (F) - where to start i am a 41 yr old single mother with 2 boys been on my own now for 7 years . i went out with a friend of mine on a saturday night ended up in a night club . i met this gentleman who i was attracted to instantly . we ended up going ...

I feel powerless about arguing about his other dates as I am just a friend... with benefits! How will these feelings go away?

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5 May 2008 (F) - Im utterly in love with someone i know isnt going anywhere and never will, it started off as a one night stand two years ago and then a few more since then we have become the best of friends going everywhere together holidays to festivals constantly ...

I've always liked him too, but I have a boyfriend! What to do?

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5 May 2008 (F) - Please help me, im so confused. Ive been with my bf for nearly a year but even though i love him dearly we have drifted apart a bit, and i dont feel like he loves me anymore. I got talking to an old school friend (male) who moved miles aw...

It's obvious to everyone else but I've never made a move before. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - Ok, so here's my problem, and I'm sorry about the length but this is a problem on so many different levels and I'm just so confused. Theres this guy who I work with who I have fancied for the last month or so. We work quite closely and we h...

It's too much. He keeps flirting with me and I know he has a girlfriend. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 9 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - He's a coworker and his GF works there too but in another department. We had usually being friends but mostly work things, we had never interested in each other, in fact I never even considered him before. But lately, he has change with me, I didn't...

This guy is too friendly, but do you think there is a problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - I am married happily. I am friends with one of my husband's sisters unfortunately we don't live in the same area at present, b/c we get on so well. When we go for a visit naturally we spend some time hanging out with her and her closest friends. ...

I tried to move on and then it all got messy. Was it all some kind of game for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - I’m in a horrible dilemma, the last 12 months I’ve been trying to move on from this guy who I used to date. I’ve been feeling down and my feelings have became intense. I was contemplating weather to contact him. I did the stupidest thing to get in ...

My friend's girlfriend is wrecking our friendship

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4 May 2008 (M) - My friend has recently got a new girl friend. I think this is great, really I'm pleased for him. However, we are also good friends, and I enjoy our alone time where I can discuss things that I - perhaps - wouldn't feel comfortable talking about with ...