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How can I talk to them about this? What can I do about my boyfriend and my best friend? He hangs out with her when I'm not present

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted yesterday

19 February 2017 (F - My best friend and I are very different people and we get on really well, even though I no longer see her very often. We have been friends for years. A year ago I helped her get close to a guy she liked who I liked at the same time. Things did...

Is my wife secretly interested in a threesome?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 February 2017 (M - So we've been married now for 3 years. And we have 2 beautiful boys. Our romantic relationship is starting to get better than it ever has been in the past and my wife(Bev) and I are really enjoying ourselves and each other. Bev only has a couple ...

I don't want to snoop through his phone but I think my husband is cheating

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

14 February 2017 (F - I'm worried my husband is cheating. We've been married 7 years and have had the happiest relationship. He started a new job 6 months ago and his behaviour has changed. He's started keeping his phone on silent, or constantly on his person, somethin...

My boyfriend doesn't like the picture of my (deceased) husband being on display

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

12 February 2017 (F - Hi,i just have a question, specially for a man out there. Please just let me know what can you really say about this, im a widow, i have a boyfriend now for almost two years. He is divorce cos his ex wife cheated on him. Thats not my point here. ...

My husband cheated on me with his brother's wife and now she's saying her child is his. Do I stay or leave? We have children of our own.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

11 February 2017 (F - i just found out my husband of 17 years slept with his brothers wife on his wedding night. This is the most disgusting thing I have ever heard or had to endure, the pain that i am going through is so unbearable. His brother met his wife 3 years...

I think the married co-worker I've been flirting with is just looking for a fling, but I can't avoid him because we work together. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

11 February 2017 (F - Hi. I have recently started a part time job which i love. Everyone is so lovely but I have found myself flirting with this guy. We text a lot and he says very flattering things but he is due to be married in a few weeks. He has two children with ...

My married boyfriend is interacting less with me and he seems depressed. Do you think he wants to cut ties with me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

7 February 2017 (F - My boyfriend is married and we've been dating for quite sometime. His wife got to know about me and tried to get me to confess, which I avoided somehow. He says that he would divorce her as they don't have any sort of bonding (they don't have any ...

My husband and I had a threesome with a guy. Should I push the issue or let it go on naturally?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

7 February 2017 (F - Recently I found porn on my husbands phone and confronted him. He confessed that he was turned on by the fact that he wanted me to do a three-some. Well yesterday he brought a male friend home and after several drinks I found myself going down o...

I found out that my boyfriend cheated and he doesn't know it yet. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

5 February 2017 (F - Hello everyone. I've never posted a question online before but I really don't know what to do in this situation so I'd very much appreciate your honest opinion and input! Quick background story. I've been with my partner for 5 years this comin...

Coming out for both of us is out of the question. Should I try to make both relationships work concurrently?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

4 February 2017 (F - I am married with two children but in love with my bestfriend who is a girl My husband is not aware that i am bisexual...but he suspects...and knows that my best friend is weird..but he is the most understanding and loving man..i love him and wan...

She had sex with somebody else when we were apart, I can't get over it!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

2 February 2017 (M - My girlfriend and I broke up a couple of months ago. I had serious commitment issues and after being together for just under a year and a half I pushed her away and subsequently she withdrew. While we were apart I have never been in more emotional ...

My friend's Bf wanted to have sex with me!! Should I be feeling so hurt about my friend cutting me off for doing nothing wrong!!!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

2 February 2017 (F - My friend is mad at me because her boyfriend wanted to in her words " ^^^k ME" I have never met the guy nor has he seen what i look like. My friend does not have social media, I do. And shes mad at me. It was the strangest text i have ever received...

Do I have a realistic chance with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

30 January 2017 (M - So, here's the situation: there's a girl I've known about 8 eights that I've just received starting seeing as more than a friend. I met her at church about 8 years ago and we weren't especially close then. She went off to school and I saw her very ...

What should I do? Is this normal behaviour or is there more to this than she's letting on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 22 days ago

29 January 2017 (F - So, I have loved my best friend of over 5 years basically since I met her. We just had one of those instant connections and became best friends the second we sat next to each other in class. Both of us went back and forth about liking each other but ...

I still have feelings for him. He still feels the attraction too. But now he's living with another girl. How can we go forward with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

29 January 2017 (F - Long story but need advice. In 2013, I dated a guy for a few months. I really, really liked him but he was very keen to make the relationship official (telling everyone), which at the time I wasn't ready for, mostly because I was really poor at t...

Affair with my best friend but I have a partner of 18 years and a one year old that we had after years of trying. What do I do now?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

28 January 2017 (F - I've been with my partner for 18 years I do love him and we have a one year old which we tried for years to have. But for the last 3 year I have been having an affair with my best friend who's showed me so much love , a lot more love than I seem to ...

I kissed Max on the cheek and Mark thinks I cheated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

28 January 2017 (F - Hi, me and this boy have known each other for around 3 years now. Lets say his name is mark, me and mark have been quite good mates. The other day he asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes. I told him not to tell anyone we were together ...

How come I am not heartbroken?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

28 January 2017 (M - I had a huge crush on a girl for about 5 years. I went to school with her in high school, but now that I'm out I haven't spoken to her in person just over text. Recently I found out she just got a boyfriend, at first I thought I'd be all heart ...

Do cheating married men usually have more than one mistress?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

27 January 2017 (F - Do married men who cheat, cheat with more than one mistress at a time? Or do some men stay with just one? I am interested in everybody weighing in with their opinions. ...

I like him and enjoy his flirting. But what should I do? Because I think he has a Gf already

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

26 January 2017 (F - There's this guy I'm talking too. The problem is, I think he has a girlfriend.. We've been speaking a while and a few months ago, he told me that he can't take things forward with me because he has someone. I respected that and we remained to j...

Is this an emotional affair? ?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

25 January 2017 (F - Is this an emotional affair? ? ? Last March- my husband of 27 years (M) was working at a customer's house (he's a contractor), and one day a woman (T) who lived across the street came over to bum a cigarette from one of M's workers. She a...

Should we talk things over or let him go ? His lies and his baby Mama have helped drive us apart.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

24 January 2017 (F - MODNOTE: two near identical questions combined with additional material from the second question combined below with the first question . . . . . . . . . Dear Cupid Am a 40 year old female with two children from my previous marriage. When I los...

My boyfriend prefers to be with my brother and housemate than with me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

23 January 2017 (F - My boyfriend will spend more time with my Brother and Housemate then he does with me. My brother and housemate has been committing on my body appearance lately and my boyfriend doesn't say anything. I use to be extremely under weight but i'm now ...

Trust issues. Is it just my anxiety or should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

22 January 2017 (F - This is a little bit of a long story. My boyfriend used to be in a band, and is still in contact with a girl who was really into them. She lives really really far away, and only knew about them because a band member was planning on moving away t...

How can I get him back? Or has the damage been done?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

22 January 2017 (F - My boyfriend broke up with me tonight and its my fault. I don't know how to fix this situation . I was with my boyfriend when 2 male friends who have a crush on me wrote me on Facebook. Ive known them since before my current relationship...

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