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Should I risk the friendship and tell him how I feel?

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20 November 2009 (F) - I met my best friend 2 years ago when I landed a new job. We talk on the phone several times a day, text, and can't go to sleep without saying goodnight to each other. We have talked about each other in romantic terms before and discussed that we ...

I have a crush on this girl but she's already got a boyfriend, what I do??

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20 November 2009 (M) - Hi guys, I have a crush on this girl and we are quite close friends, she is 15 and i am 14, we've been going to places together etc. for a while now, but, i want to go out with her, although she already has a bf. What should i do? Ride it o...

I've loved her for all these years but she's married

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20 November 2009 (M) - Hi I dated my class sweet heart in high school for 4 years, I went into the Army right after school, I broke up with her the day before school got out, because I was off to the Army the next day. 8 years later I got out, about six months later...

In love with my friends girlfriend

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20 November 2009 (M) - I'm in love with a girl and we get along really well and we're close but she's already going out with one of my best friends. Do i ask her out and lose a friend or keep it to myself and never know what would've happened?...

Do I stay with him even though I am not sure about him?

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19 November 2009 (F) - ok, well I am in a somewhat serious relationship for about 12mos. I really care about him but I dont feel completely happy. and for some reason i'm falling in love with a man that already has a partner also. what is wrong with me? what do i do?...

Ex wants to get back together but she has a boyfriend

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19 November 2009 (M) - My ex told me she wanted to get back together (dated 4 years), but she has a new boyfriend (dated a few months).She told me that breaking up with him would be hard, and she'd do it "very soon"--that was 2 days ago. since then she hasn't called me or ...

How do I get her to realise that I am Mr Right?

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19 November 2009 (M) - Alright so there is this amazing girl I work with... Kinda a fucked up situation... She is seeing some one and I am sungle... I want to get with her because I'm single and her guy treats her like shit... We talk for hours wen it's slow at work and ...

I hate having doubts... and she seems to be full of them!

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19 November 2009 (M) - Uhggg I hoped I wasn't in need to come back and ask a question again :S... I'll start off saying I am in a sort of long distance relationship, I see her on weekends and am at school from Tues - Friday morning. At the beginning of our relatio...

I think about him all the time...even when I'm with my husband. Am I wrong?

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19 November 2009 (F) - Ever since I've meet my professor two years ago I've had a crush on him. I'm in college and majoring on the piano, he's my piano teacher as well as the teacher for a few other classes. At first I wasn't worried about it, this isn't the first time ...

Opinions needed - should I be concerned about my husband's female colleague?

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19 November 2009 (F) - Looking for opinions. Happened a few years ago. Female coworker called our home with sexual joke to my husband. She also confided to him thought she was pregnant with another married mans child. Also, calling his cell phone to find out when he ...

Why do women sleep with married men?

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18 November 2009 (F) - Why do women who fool around with a married man get it into their thick skulls that men are using them....why do these women persist with married men, is it low self esteem issue, does it give them a high that this man whos morals are clearly not ...

Did the father of my baby give me Gardnerella Bacterial Vaginalis?

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18 November 2009 (F) - I want to know what people think are the signs of a cheating man. I am currently pregnant - about the half way mark...and the father of baby has been on and off with me for most of this pregnancy which I finally told him point blank am fed up of the ...

I was MIA for 6 weeks, but she broke up with me for an older rich man!

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18 November 2009 (M) - So I've been seeing this girl for over a year. The status of our relationship has varied from lovers,to close friends, to 'just friends' to 'seeing each other.'. Around 6 months ago we broke off our relationship to become just friends. After ...

My wife intends to file for divorce to be with another man!

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18 November 2009 (M) - I have been married for 13 years to the love of my life. Like so many other men on this site I too became comfortable in our marrige, and did not give my wife the attention she desired. We have four beautiful children together. I found out about ...

Who do you think likes me more? I'm drawn to one guy but I'm not sure if he's interested!

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18 November 2009 (F) - I have some male friends, two of which I am concerned about. The first one is a guy I work with, let's call him Daniel, and the second is called Gary. Dan and I have known each other for just over a month now, through work mainly. In the w...

Help me get over this "desire!"

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18 November 2009 (M) - How can a man get over the desire to have a threesome?...

I have to make a choice between 2 men as I'm hurting them..what do I do?

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17 November 2009 (F) - I am torn between two men. The first is my boyfriend of 7 months, he is the best thing that's ever happened to me and is completely devoted to me in every way. We began a long distance relationship in September when I moved away to university, and ...

His girlfriend told him to stop talking to me!

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17 November 2009 (F) - Hello :) Okay so I recently met a guy and his friends. He has a girlfriend, who is a friend of one of my best friends. Me and the guy talk alot, we're good friends. The other day my best friend told me that his girlfriend told him to stop talking ...

I don't know what to do. There is no romance in my marriage and I am seeing my old girlfriend.

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17 November 2009 (M) - Good day 49 years old man been married for 21 years. Have three children 15, 18 and 19. My wife and I have made love three times in the last ten years. She won't discuss the problem or seek help. Full stop. I have gotten very down about it at time...

Should I meet this girl?? I think she could be trouble.

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17 November 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy off and on for 2 years. This year has been great. He told me about this girl he had been friends with. He had told her about me when he first started to see me. Anyway he is friends with her whole family. He does not ...

Which guy do I choose, the new guy or the one I have history with?

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17 November 2009 (F) - ive bin seein this guy for 4 months he split up with his girlfriend the same night i split with my boyfriend an we became quite close and got together however hes got 2 children and his ex announced she was 3 months pregnant just after we got ...

Why lead me on if nothing is to happen? Or does he want something to happen despite having a girlfriend?

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17 November 2009 (F) - I started a new job a month ago. Working with a nice guy, but he's giving mixed signals to me (I think). He has a girlfriend and they've been together for 2 years but he flirts with me. He's sent messages/emails saying 'I love you', always...

Why do I want to see him have sex with another woman?

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17 November 2009 (F) - I moved out a month ago because my boyfriend felt caged in and wanted out frankly so did I. He wants to have sex with other women and wants me to be tolerant. I do not believe that he can or wants to establish boundaries with these women that would ...

How can you go from planning to propose to not acknowledging her?

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17 November 2009 (F) - Okay..I need some input/advice on my situation. My boyfriend just informed me that a female coworker of his admitted to him that she likes him as in having a crush for him...when the female coworker asked him what he thought... all he said was that...

She's engaged, so why would she care if her male friend has been in contact with me?

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17 November 2009 (F) - There's this guy that my friend knows from college. He liked her during college, but she said that he isn't her type. My friend still talks to him on the phone and is trying to set me up with him. We started to e-mail back and forth, but when I told ...

Can a life-long cheater ever be trustworthy or am I wasting my time?

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16 November 2009 (M) - part one; in aug 08 my then finance added some guy to her facebook and when asked about it she said she thought she knew him, she then deleted him and i thought that was the end of it, or so i thought. part two; in jan 09 she went to her work chri...

I am in love with a girl, but she has a boyfriend!

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16 November 2009 (M) - Hey I'm 16 years old and i'm Having Problems. I realy like this Girl i know and i Cant stop thinking about her. thing is she has a Boyfreind alrdy. I'm lost i'm not relay Used to being in love as i'm no ladies man shall we say I dont know wh...

Is this relationship over? Is trying to talk through the trouble ruining my chances?

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16 November 2009 (F) - Long story short... we have had our fair share ofups and downs, it's LDR, he broke up with me first time because he wasn't ready and then asked to take me back a few months ago, I took him back met up with him again, felt like i couldn't ever be ...

Incorrectly accused of having an emotional affair - now what do I do?

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16 November 2009 (F) - I stopped a mild emotional affair attempt cold in it's tracks and I'm VERY frustrated and confused. I was e-mailing a friend of my husbands with work-related things. (My husband knew all about it.) Looking back through the e-mails everythi...

My life is in tatters with an ex that won't move on and a new guy who isn't that interested in me. I don't know what to do!

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16 November 2009 (F) - My life is in tatters at the moment. I split up with my ex in july, mutual decision but since then it's been hard to move on as he is in daily contact with me. I have told him to cut contact but he can't go a day without texting me. The other wk I...

I slept with my ex, even though he has a new girlfriend. I want him back, how do I do it?

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16 November 2009 (F) - Okay, so I have a kind of bad story, but I need some advice, without bad comments please. So I have been talking to my ex whom I dated about five years ago. I am still crazy in love with him, and he told me there is no reason why he would not go out ...

My girlfriend can't seem to make up her mind- me or this other guy. Did I screw up? How do I win her back?

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16 November 2009 (M) - Alright, my girlfriend of 2 years recently started hanging out with her one friend, who i had a feeling liked her, however i didn't want to be one of those controlling boyfriends so i said that i wasn't going to stop her from seeing him (although i ...

I cheated on my boyfriend. Should I confess?

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16 November 2009 (F) - I cheated what should i do? I got back with my ex last tuesday and i cheated on him last night. We only dated a month the first time we went out then broke up. it was never anything serious but this time it was starting to seem like it might be...

She loves me but she doesn't know what to do. Neither do I!

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16 November 2009 (M) - Hi everyone, some of you may still remember my weird story with the girl I fell in love... Well, there is a huge update which I want to discuss.. Well, I got told the last time that she would be probably playing around with me, because she arou...

I don't know if I can get over it...

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15 November 2009 (F) - About six months ago, I found out my boyfriend was seeing another girl. In his defense, it wasn't physical, but he did lie to me about seeing her, and I knew he had feelings for her (gut feeling) though he swore he didn't. I was scared of being ...

Falling for a marrried man?

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15 November 2009 (F) - One day before school, I went to Starbucks where I met his guy. There wasn't really anywhere else to sit, so I sat down at his table. We ended talking and really getting along. He almost immediately told me he's married. I asked whether he was ...

My husband's friend fancies me. What should I do?

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15 November 2009 (F) - My husband has been teasing me lately about this friend of his, who he suspects has a crush on me. He trusts this guy so he really does not seem threatened. Why does he tease me so much for it though? Testing to see if I feel the same way? I know ...

I caught my friend and my boyfriend making out!

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15 November 2009 (F) - Last night, me, my friend, and my boyfriend (or ex i should say) were watching movies at my brothers house(he was gone for the night) . Before they came over, me and my boyfriend had gotten into a fight and i told him things were going on in my l...

Once upon a time...

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15 November 2009 (F) - i have been married for 26 years have 3 grown children. My husband has always been a little flirter I think everyone does a little. We don't do anything together and are not really getting along very well any more, never talk, all that stuff. I ...

My husband ignores me and another man wants me. What should I do?

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15 November 2009 (F) - I have been married for 2 years now, and have been with my husband for 4 years. My husband isnt around much because he in the military. I would love to have him home everyday but i know it's not possible. He has been a good husband but when he's ...

I fancy two boys. Whom do I choose?

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15 November 2009 (F) - dear cupid, i fancy my best friend but im in love with another boy that ive liked for about a year i dont know what do do cause i get really nervous around them both when i see them i was wondering what i should do should i wait for the guy i love ...

My ex has a new girlfriend. Should we continue our secret relationship?

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14 November 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfried broke up after i lost our baby, he has a new girlfriend but we are still messing around, should i stick around or leave him alone even tho i kno he still loves me?...

Which boy should I choose: the old or the new?

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14 November 2009 (F) - Well i like this boy, quite a bit and i have been told that he likes me back. he has even told me over the phone. But the thing is is that i had promises to this boy, who i have had alot of history with, and i was meant to get back with him, but i ...

My husband has a small penis and I love the other man!

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14 November 2009 (F) - Im 29 and have been married for two years now but stil in love with a married man. Ive known this man before my husband and we love each other so much. I thought i was going to leave him after my marriage but i couldnt because i love him so much ...

My b/f is in the middle of a divorce, his wife is making my life hell, help?

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14 November 2009 (F) - Ok, I am near my breaking point and need an unbiased opinion. My bf is in the middle of a divorce, yet they still live in the same house, both for financial reasons(hers) and both lawyers are telling them not to leave until one is ordered to. They...

She had sex a week after our break up, two years later I still feel betrayed! Please help.

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14 November 2009 (M) - I have been dating this girl for a little over 2 years now. Everything is great in our relationship and we both have sex regularly. There is one thing that came up and keeps coming up. When we first started dating, I had a jealous friend on the side...

I am in love with my best friend.... oh yeah....and btw...she's a married woman.

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14 November 2009 (M) - I am in love with my best friend and she is married. I feel so bad about it, but I can't ignore my feelings anymore. It seems like the more we hang out, the more I want to be with her. I have slept with a total of 43 girls (2 of which I was in a ...

I'm married but want my old friend back..what should I do?

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14 November 2009 (F) - i m married .we have 12 yrs age gap.i find difficult to communicate with my husband as a friend as well as a sex partner (my husband is good person gave me all freedom in term of finance and all).long time ago i find a person who is family friend ...

Why did my wife stop having sex with other men and is unwilling to discuss it?

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13 November 2009 (M) - My wife and I have acted on my fantasy of watch her have sex with other men - four times and three times with one of the guys. I was so turned on! Before this fantasy became a reality we talked about it and she was okay with it because it was for ...

He threatened to put me out of my misery. Should I dump him?

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12 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now. Currently, I am not speaking to him. A couple days ago, we were talking on the phone, suggesting ideas about what we should do that day. Well, I put him on speaker phone so I could view my ca...