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My boyfriend prefers to be with my brother and housemate than with me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted today

23 January 2017 (F - My boyfriend will spend more time with my Brother and Housemate then he does with me. My brother and housemate has been committing on my body appearance lately and my boyfriend doesn't say anything. I use to be extremely under weight but i'm now ...

Trust issues. Is it just my anxiety or should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

22 January 2017 (F - This is a little bit of a long story. My boyfriend used to be in a band, and is still in contact with a girl who was really into them. She lives really really far away, and only knew about them because a band member was planning on moving away t...

How can I get him back? Or has the damage been done?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted yesterday

22 January 2017 (F - My boyfriend broke up with me tonight and its my fault. I don't know how to fix this situation . I was with my boyfriend when 2 male friends who have a crush on me wrote me on Facebook. Ive known them since before my current relationship...

I love my partner but we've been having sexual issues and I'm starting to develop feelings for a colleague

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted today

19 January 2017 (F - Hi all, I am having a bit of a problem at the moment. I have been with my partner for just over 5 years and we have been extremely happy. We are best friends and have been since the start. Very recently I have started developing feelings for ...

Is it my fault I got put into the FWB category?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

19 January 2017 (F - I've always been a woman that holds myself with dignity and believe that I have a lot to offer a man in a relationship. I am in no way saying this to brag or boast myself but my personality has always shined and others have told me so as well. ...

Should I support my ex? I feel angry and ashamed of succumbing to his desperation

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

19 January 2017 (F - My ex and I were together for 2 years but in the end it became unhealthy and toxic. He became verbally abusive and was flirting online with other girls which made me depressed and anxious. In the end I had to go ‘no contact’ in an attempt to get ...

Is he using me? He's spending more time with his ex than he spends with me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

18 January 2017 (F - I'm going out with this bloke on and off for over a year now, but what gets to me is he spends most off his time at his ex's house. He says he's there for kids but half of the time the children are not there. He leaves at 8:00 in morning and ...

Can two cheaters make a relationship work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

16 January 2017 (F - I was in a serious relationship with a guy (it was long distance where we had to fly an hour to see each other). Then one day, I find out he had been texting this other girl 10 hours a day, and they were seeing each other for 3 hours a day for ...

He is still under her thumb. What can I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

15 January 2017 (F - Hello, I am slightly put off and rather upset at the moment. I live in a small town with my boyfriend of almost six years, and he... Well he is always dragging me over to his ex's place, making me spend the night, doing all her "to do" lists, and ...

Boyfriend has been secretive about his female friend in the past and now she's invited herself to stay with him for a week. How do I handle this?

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13 January 2017 (F - I [21F] am in a relationship with my boyfriend [24M] (Mike, for future reference) for a year and a half, but our problem started about 6 months in. We met on the university both studying physics so it was easy for me to become a part of his college ...

My girlfriend's cousin seemed so flirtatious... am I imagining it?

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11 January 2017 (M - My girlfriend's cousin lives abroad. When we went to meet her, I got on with her and found her very friendly and enthusiastic. After a while I got that instinctive... is she flirting with me? feeling, but figured I was imagining it because my girlf...

Am I over reacting to husband's online interaction with another woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

8 January 2017 (F - me and my husband are having some problems, maybe its all me i dont know but anyway.. few yeas back i caught him deleting messages from a co worker he said it was nothing but just didnt want me to get the wrong end of he stick so thought he would...

I hope this can help you jump start a plan that can lead you to a better way of seeing things in a relationship.

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6 January 2017 (M - Hi there, hope that everyone had a great holiday period and that much fun was had, lots of love thrown here and there, memorable moments were shared and great memories were made. With that being said here's a little about me and why I decided to ...

After my past life I can't face his sexual demands

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

5 January 2017 (F - I am 42 and have been through a lot. I have been rapped when I was younger and beat by my mom and almost every guy I have been with. I need help trying to figure out something. My boyfriend gets mad at me for not wanting to do a 3-some. I ha...

Heartbroken, but I want to forgive him. What are my options? Found out my Bf has been cheating.

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5 January 2017 (F - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years. Lately he has been acting weird and always on Snapchat and never responds to my text but responds to me on Snapchat. One day he left his Snapchat logged in on my iPad and I became curious. ...

He is using me as his "get out" clause.

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4 January 2017 (F - So basically me ex fiancé who I have a son with told me that he would stop seeing the girl he's talking to if I had an issue with her and her being around my son. He doesn't seem partically happy about them talking they hardly ever see each oth...

I'm dating one boy but think about another.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

4 January 2017 (F - Hi I'm a sophomore girl in high school. I'm dating a junior boy, well call J, but I like a freshman, we'll call F. Any way J and I have been together for 2 months and he doesn't even hold my hand, I'm not sure I like him anymore, but he says he's ...

Should I tell her he cheated on both of us?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

4 January 2017 (F - Hi, I had a difficult abusive relationship before hand. I met someone from out the country and he made me trust again and go out again. I was content with his friendship but he pursued it to something more. Time for him to leave. He wanted me to go ...

My married lover wants me to move to his country with our son

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

3 January 2017 (F - Dear readers, I am in a really complex situation. 8 years ago, I met a man - we were both married at the time. I didn't have any children, because my then husband did not want any, despite my wanting a child desperately. The other person (OP) has ...

He is also my colleague at work and we just broke up. How can I face him when I go back to work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

2 January 2017 (F - Im from India working in a bank. I had a relationship with a colleague since last January.. he has one friend or girlfriend i don't know with whom he spent a lot of time..now even after our relationship they talk over phone. Once i caught him ...

Is there still a chance for us ? Maybe it has been way long over and I just didn't want to accept it? What can I say?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

1 January 2017 (F - I've only known my boyfriend for eight months and we've been dating for sixth months but it has been an on and off relationship. The first few weeks or month was everything I ever wanted to be in a relationship where my boyfriend would take me ...

I did the most stupid thing I've ever done. How to repair the damage? How can I make it up to him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

29 December 2016 (F - Im an idiot for what i did . Theres 2 guys , one texts a lot and makes a lot of effort through texts the other could make me wait a few days for a reply . the one who texts me a lot i see a future with but he drags his feet wanting to spend ti...

Is AB more important to my Bf than he implies? I believe he loves me. But I only sharing him with AB?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

29 December 2016 (F - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years and some change. When I left for college he became really close with a female friend( I'll call her AB). I do know her but I don't know her that well because we were never friends we just all kno...

I am having difficulty with my girlfriend's son

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

27 December 2016 (M - Hi guys, im 8 months into a relationship with my girlfriend and things are goin great with us, we have such a laugh when we are together, but im having a very hard time warming to her 12 year old son who lives with her, sometimes hes fine but most ...

I'm dating but I'm also developing stronger feeling for another guy. Not sure what to do. Help, please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

24 December 2016 (F - I started university in September and have formed a good group of friends. I have started to date one of the guys in the group privately and I know he has fairly strong feelings for me. However, I have been talking a lot with one of the other guy...

Should I just move on? I don't want to be in the way of them remaking a family.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

23 December 2016 (F - I'm wondering if I'm being over sensitive to my boyfriend's need to "play family" with his ex and his children. Every week it seems, on his week's with the kids, she's over for some reason or another. He kept the house, she cheated on him a...

Is my fiance's contact with his ex's normal? He has been married 3 times.

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23 December 2016 (F - I'm a divorced woman who was married for 27 years. I got married at 17, so I've had little relationship experience. I've been divorced for just under 2 years now. I have a boyfriend who I just said yes to marrying. What bothers me about my fian...

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