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We send each other saucy pictures and flirt... Are we having an affair?

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7 November 2009 (F) - Over the past 2 years I have become friendly with 1 of the guys i work with-we are based in different parts of the country but sometimes he comes over for meetings where im based. He is married with a child and im getting married next year. I want t...

How do I decide between my boyfriend and my best friend who has opened his heart to me... ?

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7 November 2009 (F) - Well, I need help on a really awkward situation. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years on a semi -distance relationship. We have had some ups and downs and even some betrayal from his side which i forgot and let go of. On the picture my best ...

I don't know where to start trying to repair this friendship...?

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7 November 2009 (M) - hi, months ago i fell in love with a girl completely, she had a boyfriend she did things with me... weve recently started uni and stupidly whilst drunk (i know thats no real excuse) told her sister what i had done with her sister. The girl who i di...

Should I let on I know she fancies someone else?

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7 November 2009 (M) - I had a thing with this girl about 2 weeks ago. My girlfriend found out and we broke up. We got back together soon after. Now, the girl I had a thing with and I are really good friends and she has just told me that while we were split up, my girlf...

I think he is looking for a fwb. If I see him on the street again what should I do?

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6 November 2009 (F) - There is this guy who works in my neighborhood and for the last 2 years, I would always say to myself how attractive he was. Whenever we would cross paths, he would stare at me or go out of his way to turn to look at me, say hello or how are you. ...

Why does my ex want to be close to my new good friend??

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6 November 2009 (M) - I went out with a girl for a long time at work and I thought it was special to me,we are both adults. Anyway by chance I found out she was seeing someone else at work. I was devastated. I walked away saying listen I respect you so I respect your ...

Should I see my ex and finally find out if this is real?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I got married last year, no babies yet... One day I looked for my ex on facebook, and happened to find him. I sent him a message and he responded back... we've been chatting since then. I don't know why I looked for him, he was my high school bf and ...

Should I patch up the relatonship with my girlfriend or take a chance with the new woman I have met?

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6 November 2009 (M) - I’ve been in a long distance relationship with “A” 3.5 years now. We see each other almost every weekend. Lately we’ve grown almost apart. We don’t call, no texts, nothing. We share friends and family together and I’m afraid if we split I will ...

Cheating GF wants to work on our relationship but won't give up her friendship with her affair partner.... What do I do?

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6 November 2009 (M) - Hey all. My girlfriend of 3.5 yrs cheated on me. We have a beautiful son together. I have forgiven her and done everything I can to try and work out our relationship. The one thing I have asked of her is for her to not have any form of ...

He told his girlfriend he loves her, but I think he really wants to be with me...what should I do?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I recently got out of a relationship 2 month ago with "A". Before dating him I was going out with another boy "D" from Feb. 2008 until August 2008. me and A went from from April 2009 until August 2009. I thought that I was in love with A ...

Do I have a chance with my sister in law?

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6 November 2009 (M) - Some background. About 10 months ago I started a relationship with my Sister In Law. Yes I know its messy. We just had that instant connection. Over the 10 months we realized so many things about ourselves and life in general. I have always ...

I've been grilling my wife for two years and I need the truth!

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5 November 2009 (M) - 36 years ago I noticed a guy's name on my gf's calender. As I had just a few days prior got back from the military I asked about it and she said he was just a person who came over to the apartment house where she lived to play cards. She lived with ...

I want to see him for an explanation and an apology but his wife forbids him from contacting me!

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5 November 2009 (F) - I was seeing an Iranian man for a couple of months. He told me he was separated for the last year, doesn't live with his wife and has a 5 year old child. We got on really well and a while into our relationship I actually was getting more conscious ...

She's admitted to seeing someone new and I'm afraid I'm going to be forced out of our house!

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4 November 2009 (M) - After my wife has admitted seeing someone else she says I can still stay in our home together. She will do her thing and I can do mine. Im frightened in case she get serious with this guy and Im forced out of my house...What should I do??? [M...

Who does she want, her boyfriend or me?

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4 November 2009 (M) - Ok recently she hurt me real bad, asked me to move on because she is in love with her bf. I told her I cant forget her and it still hurts me. She told me to concentrate on my studies for now and not talk about this for the time being. Then one day ...

Is it because I'm very hard to trust, he's too protective, or an act of love?

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4 November 2009 (F) - my bf saw a public message sent by a an old friend of mine i met over a party i went to (male). and my boyfriend saw it and practically insists on making a huge deal out of it, and turning jealous. Now i understand that the message might have been a ...

Is my husband planning to go back to his ex-wife?

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4 November 2009 (F) - I am going to make this as short and understandable as I can. My husband is not with me at the moment (he is away) I know he has been calling his ex wife that has two grown kids with him because I told him to call and get to know his kids. He...

My boyfriend seems unworthy compared to my long-time crush!

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3 November 2009 (F) - I had a crush on a guy since the 6th grade. I'm now in the 12th grade and it's turned into a repressed lust/gargantuan crush. My heart skips 68923 beats when I see the kid and every other guy to me (even my current boyfriend) seems unworthy. I don'...

She is 30 and he is 74. Is he actually interested in her mind?

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3 November 2009 (F) - He is 74. She's 30. First of all, let's say he is a thin, very attractive, elderly man. It may seem gross to some people, but she says she is actually attracted to him. It may be weird to some, but she said something about him is fascinating to h...

Double trouble!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - I've been dating a guy for a year, I was his first girlfriend, first everything basically. He's the most amazing guy I've ever dated. We've stuck by each other through loss, fights with friends, unemployment, and other situations. It made things ...

Is it Mistake Identity or is my Boyfriend Lying?

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3 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years but things haven't been easy. I realised i didn't want a future with him for cultural reasons which I told him. He said its not a valid reason but it's fine and that we don't have to break up just because ...

The girl I like was with me and my best mate!

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2 November 2009 (M) - Okay, theres something which has been troubling me for the last couple days.. The other night, it was one of my best mates' going away party thing, and on that night i met this girl through mutual friends. Problem is, so did my friend who the going ...

My gay son is dating a married man with kids!

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2 November 2009 (F) - My son is 17, and came out as gay to us 2 months ago. Me and my husband have no issues with his sexuality. He's in college, studying business systems, and is doing very well. It's his choice of partner that's worrying us though - he told us ...

Our love is forbidden! How can I be her best friend?

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2 November 2009 (M) - My lover decided to return with her husband and workout her marriage but now considers me to be her best friend... she tells me that she loves me and that she is in love with me but feels that she needs to sacrifice her "happiness" for the sake of ...

I'm pretty much in uncharted waters with no paddle...what should I do?

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2 November 2009 (M) - dear cupid, I work for a hardware store. while I was with my ex and a girl my age was hired. at first we where just friends. I found out she has a boyfriend. I treated her like a friend, basic bullshiting. we became close friends. her boyfriend also ...

I have been told she is using me because she already has a b/f. Do women hide their intentions?

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2 November 2009 (M) - There is a girl I met short time ago... I got told she is messing around with me because she has got a boyfriend but she keeps on arousing me. When she phones with her boyfriend they don't even say they love eachother or similar... She has had some ...

Misbehaviour with sister-in-law...

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2 November 2009 (M) - I am 20 yr old. I used to have fantasies for my sister in law who was elder. I started touching her whenever i got chance. But one day she asked me why i was touching her special parts. I understood that i was caught. I became pale. Then she was ...

Guy won't leave my girlfriend alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

2 November 2009 (M) - There's a guy who want's my girlfriend. She's told him many times that she's not into him. He's tried to break her up with me and told her that he knows she belongs with him and all this other bull. I've been with my girlfriend for 5 months and I ...

I am messed up here...what does this guy want from me?

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2 November 2009 (F) - Hi there, I am so confused about a guy i am seeing. We have known each other about 3months and have met up a few times for casual sex. but he says he wants more than this, and is depressed about not being in a relationship. he usually says this by ...

I want to be with him, he broke up with his girlfriend for me but now he isn't replying to me.

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1 November 2009 (F) - ive been in love for months with a boy. he works with me, and has told me hundreds of times he loves me too and he really wants to be with me. but he has a "girlfriend" a girl who he texts constantly but never sees face to face. we have hooked up a ...

Is it true he just needs time and no pressure to sort himself out?

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1 November 2009 (F) - Basically its a very complicated story. Back in April I almost lost my job twice over and me and my partner were not getting on 2 well. on august the 9th he cheated on me for a week just kissing with one of my friends. I forgave him, but he went to ...

Even when I'm with my boyfriend I keep thinking of my crush instead!

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1 November 2009 (F) - okay. i need serious advice... i am crazy about this guy in my school. i call him my ken doll. he is perfect in so many ways and i like him alot. but he doesn't feel the same about me and it hurts like so badly. i dont know what to do. like i really ...

Should I accept my boyfriend's continued friendship with his ex?

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31 October 2009 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend is currently friends with his ex. However, they were NOT friends when we started dating. They dated for 2 or so years, and that was a couple years ago. But when our relationship really started to advance, a few months in, she ...

My girlfriend kissed her bi-sexual friend in front of me, is this OK?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

31 October 2009 (M) - My girlfriend kissed her bi-sexual friend tonight at our house party. her friend is really ugly and makes my skin crawl. I saw them snogging and it was longer then 5 seconds and involved eyes clossed and tounges full on. it totaly ruined my night ...

Is there anyway I can get her to like me more than him... or am I out of luck?

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31 October 2009 (F) - I'm 14, female, and bi. I like a girl who is around my age, female, and recently came out to me telling me she was bi also. Yesterday she found out a guy in one of our classes likes her, and she likes him back. (She didn't tell me that I guessed) I ...

Will he leave his ex alone for good if we get back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 8 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - Ive been seeing this guy who lives an hour and a half away from me. We really conected and Ive been seeing him for about 5 months at this point. He told me he had an ex that he has a 2 year old daughter with and they were no longer together. But one ...

Should I go through with it or keep him as a friend and nothing more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - i was a teachers assistant my whole senior year for this art teacher and he was young looking i always tought he was cute since my sophmore year so i became his t.a because he insisted me to be his t.a. so we would spend allot of time together ...

Who do I chose? He divorced his wife to make me his.

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29 October 2009 (F) - please help..to make this story short here it goes..i had a relationship with a married man...we parted went our seperate ways painfully he broke it off...he said that i deserved better and that if he got divorced he would come back to me because he ...

Return of my first love...

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29 October 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I love him to bits but my first love is now back in my life and I'm falling in love with him all over again and we have started sleeping together. My head is so missed up I don't know what to do. I need ...

I feel like I have been "cheated" on, even though we aren't really a couple anyway. Help me out?

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29 October 2009 (M) - I am 19 years old, and I have never had a girlfriend before. But during this past summer, I met this girl at my work who was amazing. I was very shy at first when talking to her, but as I started talking to her I could see we were making a ...

Should I have a threesome to not lose him?

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29 October 2009 (F) - My live in boyfriend and I have been together almost a year now. We have a house and have been living together for about 3 months. When we first started dating, the "have you ever?" conversation came up and he asked me about my past experience with ...

How do I let the other man go without hurting his feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - i am / was in a relationship with a great guy. but had another on the side. i love my man and see my self even married to this man but i don't know how to let the other one go. l have feelings for the other one but i don't see a futre with that ...

Don't know which guy to choose. HELP!

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28 October 2009 (F) - When I was around 13 years old, I got together with my first real boyfriend "A". We dated on and off for over 2 years. He was my first love. Then I moved. But guy "A" got back in touch with me. We had a long distance relationship for about a year. ...

Is it possible to fulfill his fantasy but keep him out of it?

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28 October 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid. I have been in a relationship with a wounderful man, I love him very much. We should have met years ago! He is very much into women. matter of fact he makes comments often. i say he is infatuated. That is ok to a point, sure I te...

Am I just bored and single or do I like him?

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28 October 2009 (F) - HELP! ok theres this guy i think i like im not sure if i like him because im bored and single right now... but i knew him for a veryy long time and i was attracted to him when we were younger but the feelings disappeared recently the feelings came ...

The Love Triangle

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28 October 2009 (F) - I have two best friends that are not necessarily friends with each other. One of the girls was my aquaintance for the past 4 years and has now become very close with me. I go to her for advice and she comes to me with her problems. We can count on ...

Am I right to be bothered by this?

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28 October 2009 (M) - I would like advice on what must be a very common issue. My gf text me to say she was just finshing at work and that we would meet back at home. I went back from my work and arrived after about half hour. My gf came back 3 and half hours later. I ...

Am I a whore, or am I just confused?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - i have a bf, and ive cheated on him 2wice. he doesnt know about it. but both times, it wasnt just sex. with the first guy we had had feelings for each other for years and when i was visiting home him and i ended up sleeping together and having this ...

Am I being unreasonable to want my husband to stop phoning and taking out a "friend" as he calls her.

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27 October 2009 (F) - Am I being unreasonable to want my husband to stop phoning and taking out a "friend" as he calls her? This 'friend' has been in my husband's life for a long time now abuot 4 years, we used to go to a certain pub each week and he would always b...

Is there anything I can do to win her?

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27 October 2009 (M) - Three months ago I took a trip to my hometown of Palm Springs California. I moved away four years ago and I had to leave in my senior year in high-school and moved to Bakersfield California finishing my senior year at Liberty High School. Back when ...