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Archived questions from: October, 2005 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

My boyfriend is dumping me, just to experience dating other people!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

31 October 2005 (F) - I have been going out with this guy since 5 years, starting from college, and have been on long distance for more than 2 years. We try to see each other as often as we can. Went on a vacation with him in Jun/Jul and saw him over the weekend 2 weeks ...

Am I always going to be alone...forever? Are there any guys out there for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

31 October 2005 (F) - I have just turned 39 and I'm freaking out at the prospect of being loveless forever! Note that I say loveless and not " alone " , as I have no problem being by myself.I have never had a serious b.friend, even though I have always wanted a serious ...

Can't understand why I'm accused of coming on too strongly with girls...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6750 days ago

31 October 2005 (M) - Cupid, I've never really had a problem meeting girls and gaining their interest. My problem is not getting to into them, after meeting them. I want to talk with them so I can learn about them. This goes both with the girls I've met in person a...

When someone asks you to a concert, does it mean he fancies you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6750 days ago

30 October 2005 (F) - I have been friends with a guy at work for about a year. He recently asked me to a concert with him on my own. My workmates reckon we fancy each other but he denies it and I do too because I don't want to be rejected. What should I do? I am shy and ...

I'm 14 already and still have never had a boyfriend...

This question has 48 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

30 October 2005 (F) - Please help! I'm a 14 year old girl, brown hair, slightly attractive, nice figure, killer personality and yet I've never had a bf. I always fancy someone but I'm far too shy to ask them out and I won't let my mates ask them out for me. This is ...

No "I love you", even after 9 months. Is he scared?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6747 days ago

30 October 2005 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 9 months now. I think I love him but I don't know if he feels the same way. Why hasn't he said I love you yet? Does he expect me to say it first or is he scared? He was previously in a long term rel...

Afraid to tell him how I really feel, in case I end up getting hurt again...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6751 days ago

29 October 2005 (?) - Me and my best friend started dating. Me and him have been friends all of our lives. But the problem is I just got out of a five year relationship and I am afraid to tell him how much he means to me and how much I care about him, because I am ...

I'm away from my abusive ex-bf, but the bad feelings won't leave!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6753 days ago

27 October 2005 (?) - I'm 20 and I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years about 6 weeks ago. I havent had a good night sleep for the past couple of weeks because I keep thinking about the times when he was really horrible to me. He used to humiliate me and did a few ...

I'm confused by the conflicting messages from the guy I'm seeing...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6754 days ago

27 October 2005 (F) - There is this guy at work that I have recently started liking. He got my number and we texted each other then we started talking on the computer. We went off one day and I felt we connected so much in common and we had fun. Before I went home he ...

I like the guy I'm seeing... but no butterflies. Is the fact that I'm relaxed with him a good sign?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6753 days ago

27 October 2005 (F) - I've just started seeing this guy and I really like him but I have a slight issue. I don't get that nervous feeling or the butterflies in my stomach. Don't get me wrong I get hot and bothered and really excited when he calls or texts but when I s...

He went from serious to casual when I started falling for him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6753 days ago

26 October 2005 (F) - I have been dating someone a couple of times a month for the past three months now. He said he wanted a girlfriend and seemed to be serious about it. Now he is saying he is too busy with his work and other responsibilities and would rather just ...

Am I seeing a problem where there isn't one? Should I just let things develop at their own pace?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6755 days ago

26 October 2005 (F) - I have known the guy I have been seeing the last two months for over a year. I was surprised the first time he asked me to dinner but we get along great and have fun together. The problem: He is the first guy I have really liked since my divorce a ...

The attention he's getting from other girls gives him a real ego problem..!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

26 October 2005 (F) - I have known this guy for 5 years now. We have been off and on through school. I'm in college now, and he is still a senior but we still like each other. Not too long ago, before he told me he liked me again, he had sex with his ex girlfriend of ...

Sometimes I freeze up with nothing to say to my crush! Hints? Suggestions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5971 days ago

26 October 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been talking to my crush (Timber) on the Internet for about four months now. He's sweet, funny, and absolutely everything I ever thought he would be. We talk almost every day for long amounts of time-just finding out about each oth...

I want to make a move, but I need to know how to find out if she has a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6755 days ago

26 October 2005 (M) - I am interested in this girl and she seems very enthusiastic about me too. We talk on a more-than-friend term, and I plan to make a move but I am not sure she's got a boyfriend or not... You would say I haven't known her long enough since I don't ...

I wonder if I'm ever going to meet the right guy...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6753 days ago

25 October 2005 (F) - Am I never going to find the right guy? I'm 21 years old and I always seem to go for guys who are very unattainable (the ones I can't have or who break my heart). I dont know what to do, feel as though I'm never gonna find someone to love. Please ...

Is the second time the charm for us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6755 days ago

25 October 2005 (M) - Went out with this girl briefly about a year ago but she split up with me. I've fallen in love with her, but do you think we could go out again despite not working the first time?...

She accepts my invitations, but we never meet up and never rings back. Do I misunderstand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6749 days ago

25 October 2005 (M) - I recently became interest in a woman. We were co-workers with a company. Last year, I transferred to a different division. After my transfer, the two of us began serving together on a advisory board. I began to develop feelings for her. It grew mor...

Been dating an old friend and I can't work out why he's hot, then cold!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6756 days ago

25 October 2005 (F) - I known this guy for about seven years. We went all through high school together. For the last couple of weeks we have been hooking up most weekends. The whole time I have found him to be really hot then really cold. Maybe I'm acting too full on? I ...

I love my girlfriend like nothing else, but she still thinks she wants to finish it!

This question has 107 answers - newest was posted 4768 days ago

25 October 2005 (M) - How to show my girlfriend I love her? I am a 14 year old boy. I've been going out with my girlfriend for nearly two months now, and I've never been happier, but the last week we've had a series of huge arguments about us, and she's recently b...

I know he just wants me for sex, but when I see him I turn to jelly...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

24 October 2005 (F) - I have been seeing this lad on and off for about 2 months and I have really fallen for him, but he brags about how many girls he has been sleeping with lately. I try to hide the fact I'm bothered but really I am. Obviously all he wants me for is s...

My boyfriend of 3 years just can't say those three little words...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

24 October 2005 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for three years and lived with him for two. He is 29 and I'm 28. He has been in two previous long term relationships, one for 5 years and one for 3, in each relationship he was never able to say "I love you" and to ...

He says he's confused and might make me unhappy, but won't our love help work things out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6757 days ago

23 October 2005 (F) - Got back with bf after 2 month rocky patch, on again, off again, on again, off again etc.. I love him to pieces and I know he loves me but he says he's still confused! I told him to think about it for a week but I'm already head over heels back ...

Is there a woman for me, who'd love me even though sex is out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6757 days ago

23 October 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid...I am 54 years old and still a virgin, mostly because of some stupid fear of not being adequate in sex. I have only really loved once and that was when I was 21 years old and I totally screwed that relationship up even though I had ...

I want to stop being so controlling and jealous with my boyfriend. How do I do it?

This question has 43 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

23 October 2005 (F) - I am a very controlling individual. I cant help but call my boyfriend because I am worried that he is messing around. I am also very jealous and I want his world to revolve around me 24/7. I hate being this way, and I want to change. Is there any ...

What can I do to make our time together really special and show him I miss him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6756 days ago

22 October 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm at uni and my boyfriend is back at home. Although we do see each other on a regular basis (weekends etc) I really want to make the time we have together special. I wanted to have a romantic night in, but would he think I'm getting too seri...

What can I do to become more confident when I'm with women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6759 days ago

22 October 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid I have problems about dealing with women. First, I've never been with a girl before in my life. Second, when it comes with a woman, I'm extremely shy and cannot overcome it. And third, the word I fear the most is REJECTIO...

My boyfriend doesn't seem to know what he wants. Is it me, or a comfortable relationship from his own culture?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6378 days ago

21 October 2005 (F) - I met my boyfriend a little over a year ago; we've been dating about 9 months. We're both in our mid-20s, but this is his first relationship beyond some meaningless hook-ups. When we first started dating he was uncomfortable with my being from a d...

How do I approach my very shy neighbour and let him know I'm interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6759 days ago

21 October 2005 (F) - Help! I've fallen for my friend and neighbour. He's REALLY shy and I'm scared to just tell him how I feel in case I've got a couple of signals wrong, and frighten him off completely. How should I play this? And if I tell him, how should I phra...

How do I go from eye contact to actually meeting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6760 days ago

21 October 2005 (F) - I started college about a month or so ago. In one of my classes, just about 2 weeks ago I noticed a really cute guy. We've made eye contact many times during class and almost every day when class ends. I really want to talk to him, but I'm ...

Why does my relationship of 11 months feel wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6760 days ago

21 October 2005 (F) - Hi I love my bf a lot and he has done nothing wrong to me, but it just does not feel right we have been together about 11 months I im 23 he is 26. We get along fine but I have this feeling inside me that when I am with him it just feels wrong but I ...

I want to move in together. Should I push him or wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

20 October 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year and 3 months. He loves me dearly but is very afraid of marriage and commitment. I believe we should think about moving in together within the next few months. Am I asking for too much? Shall I insist ...

We've been out a few times, but I don't know if I like him yet!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

20 October 2005 (F) - I have just started dating this guy and I'm not sure if I like him? We have only been on 2 dates but everyone keeps saying to me you should know by the 2nd date and I don't. I\ve never had a proper relationship before and this is the first time i...

Sometimes we talk for hours, but sometimes he blows me off completely!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6758 days ago

19 October 2005 (F) - I'm getting incredibly mixed signals from a guy I like! I met him 2 months ago, and we've carried on chatting since. Thing is, I don't know where I stand with him. Our last telephone call lasted 8 hours (on his phone bill), in which we found out a ...

I love him, but he only thinks to ring me when he wants to meet up!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

19 October 2005 (F) - Hi, I am 19 years old and I've been in an on off relationship with this boy for 5 years. I love him to bits and I think he loves me too in his own way, but the problem is that after we meet up he doesn't ring or text until he feels like meeting up ...

As soon as he admitted he had a crush on me, I knew I loved him too!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6761 days ago

19 October 2005 (F) - I am 23 and recently divorced I have known the guy I am dating now since I was 18. I never had any feelings for him before. Eight months ago he told me he always had a crush on me, and that he loves me! When he told me I suddenly felt myself f...

Dad discovered stuff on my laptop and now he doesn't trust me with guys!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6762 days ago

19 October 2005 (F) - I made one mistake and now everything is screwed up. I went away for a while and left my laptop at home and my father just decides to look through my computer and found conversations between me and my ex-boyfriend. They weren't really sexual we were ...

How long should I wait for his kids to meet my daughter?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6762 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a widow with a third grade daughter. I have not dated in fifteen years, and feel lost with the dating scene. I have been dating a wonderful man for three months. It has taken some time for my daughter to warm up to him, (expecte...

Need some hints on getting the attention of a woman I'm interested in...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6762 days ago

18 October 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid: I am a 25 yrs old guy and never had a girlfriend in my life. There is this girl that I like but I do talk to her while she's working. She looks like the outgoing type. When I show up at her jobsite (the arcades), to play a couple o...

Can you have a trouble-free relationship all the time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6763 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, My fiance thinks that it is possible to have a relationship without any snags? What do you think about that? Thanks, Secret Sara...

Does going out with someone else when we were separated make me a slapper?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6762 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - Hi All, I was recently in a relationship with a guy I work with, i felt the relationship was dying and the only thing left was to end it which i did but the guy said he was sorry about all the problems and would really like us to get back togethe...

He calls and wants to see me, but he doesn't seem to want to be my boyfriend,,,

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6728 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - Hi everyone, what can you do when it's obvious a guy finds you attractive and comes to see you and calls you but says nothing committal about being your boyfriend? My brother says just to always refuse him sex and that will make him have to say some...

I don't want to rush things, so how can I learn to relax and let our relationship go at its own pace?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6763 days ago

17 October 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm a 22 year old girl and in a relationship for 13 months now with a guy of 22. We had an initial rocky 6 months but since then it's been going really well as we seem to be able to avoid fights as we know each other better. We are much happ...

It's always me that does the asking. Does that mean he doesn't like hanging out with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6763 days ago

17 October 2005 (F) - How can you tell if someone who’s shy and slightly introverted really likes you or not? If I’m the one always asking him to hang out and he says yes, but has only asked me to hang out once or twice, is that tell tail sign that he doesn’t? We’ve ...

Dead keen to dead stop. What happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6764 days ago

17 October 2005 (F) - I met this guy about four days ago, and he asked for my number. We met up for a drink the day after, and that night he seemed dead keen on me, but now it is like he doesn't want to see me and I really like him. I am soo confused. Please can you help ...

Is he just shy, or am I coming on too strong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6764 days ago

17 October 2005 (F) - About a week ago, I hooked up with a guy I met. All we did was make out, and by the way things went, I'm pretty sure he is a virgin. This was the first time we met. The next night we watched a movie together, but all we did was talk. We were ...

This girl stares at everyone, but her long looks at me are getting me interested...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6765 days ago

17 October 2005 (M) - Hi all, I'm Chris, a 17 yr old college student. I have a sorta weird problem with this girl at my college. She's called Natalie and she's same age as me (17). She's as tall as me, about 6ft, but since she started she has kept staring at me for s...

A bad history with my old boyfriend makes me instinctively say No to invitations now. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6765 days ago

16 October 2005 (F) - Hi, about a year ago I was with my first serious boyfriend. We were together for just under a year and we broke up because he started drinking loads and was very clingy (rang me on average 3 times a day). After we broke up, within days, he moved on...

If there's no connection, like he said, why is he so sweet and kind when he's with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6765 days ago

16 October 2005 (F) - Tying to figure out if this man really actually likes me or not. I'm in my late twenties and this guy I like is in his early fourties. We work together and he is a very awkward and shy person. At a company get party I got buzzed and told him how ...

Every weekend we spend together, my boyfriend "owes" a weekend to his mates...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6759 days ago

16 October 2005 (F) - Ok, well I am 18 years old. My boyfriend says that he spends every weekend with me and needs time to spend with the guys. I had no problem until he told that that with every weekend he spends with me he has to make one up for the guys. Is he ...