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Age differences: Help and advice

I'm 17 and I'm in love with a 35-year-old

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13 May 2008 (F) - I have a major problem...I am a 17 year old senior in high school who has fallen in love with a 35 year old player with 5 kids and one on the way...my problem is that i want to be with this man so much even though i know how he is....the problem is ...

Confused, and wondering about my commitment to him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

12 May 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a 19 year old female who has been in a serious relationship for almost 2 years now. Give our age difference (he's 30), he's been one of the most wonderful guys i've ever dated. But starting at the beiginning of this year, I sta...

He's booked his flight to come see me, but I'm just not attracted to him! My parents don't know, and I just don't want to be seen with him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

12 May 2008 (F) - Ok, well I'm 17 years old living in England. I have been kind of in a relationship with an older guy (29) from a different country. He came to visit in April, it was quite a good weekend and he's coming again in June. The thing is he wants to go out ...

Please help me stop this obsession with my teacher!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

12 May 2008 (F) - Ok, I've posted this story on a lot of different sites, but I always lie about at least one part because I'm ashamed. I'm going to be honest. I am Madly in love with my teacher. My female teacher, the same gender as me, (that's one thing I some...

Just out of curiousity, what does this dream mean? My teacher is involved.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - Recently I've had this dream about a teacher of mine...Who I have strong feelings for. Before you say anything, I am NOT like other girls. I'm doing the right thing by actually trying to get over him. Why? Because I know if that if we had gotten ...

I think he may like me but he's married and expecting a child!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - I need some serious help!!! Ok, there is this guy I talk to. We're friends...sort of. He's married and his wife is pregnant. She's in another country. I met him through another friend. And we kind of started talking. I like him, but I know its wron...

My family thinks I let his wife ruin our relationship too much, and I worry a lot...!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

10 May 2008 (F) - i wonder if my boyfriend will ever be just mine.I am 22 and he is 34. we have been together for almost 6 months and he is still married but is living with me. He also has 3 kids with his wife so i know he talks to her cause of the kids and divorce ...

My lecturer's been with his wife for 15 yrs, I really like him, so I'm planning to act!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted yesterday

9 May 2008 (F) - The lecturer I fancy knows my name and i think he likes me. He's married but he's been with her for over 15 years (even though hes only 35, i'm 20) and has indicated to me he's a bit bored. He's so clever and interesting and i'm dying to spend time...

Should I leave my wife because our sex life is virtually non existent?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

9 May 2008 (M) - Hi i'm thinking of leaving my wife, i like her in many ways but our sex life is virtually non exsistance. I've met a wonderful woman aged 18 who is beautiful and works as a model. The sex is absolutely fantastic. Do think there is a chance for us, ...

Why does he not reply to my messages or call..Is it me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

9 May 2008 (F) - Ok here goes, since i've been single i've only met men that just want sex. Now i have met a man younger than me that is a sweetheart. He is not afraid of his family and friends meeting me. He lives an hour away from me which is not bad. Ho...

He's 35 and I'm 17 and pregnant, is that really wrong?

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9 May 2008 (F) - I'm 17 he's 35, we have been living together for two months, and i'm 6 weeks pregnant. I love him so much, is this wrong we get along so good, so in love with each other? I left mad and went 7 hrs away to my sister's and he drove all night, tired wi...

I tend to go for older men, but he is so much older...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

8 May 2008 (F) - Im 17, nearly 18. I have a tendency to go for older men, Normally about 24,25. But in this case i like someone who is much older! He's 59. Im not normally attracted to men this age but he is a huge expection! I see him everyday, at a sports club ...

I'm nearly 18 and have a tendency to go for older men but he's 59?

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I have been stalking a teacher that I am in love with, now all the teachers are watching my steps! What can I do to stop this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) - this is a weird problem to be honest, and im not sure if i can explain it properly but, here it goes ... About six months ago, the teacher [Miss X] i was head-over-heels for found out that i had been .. stalking her, so to speak. Within t...

She is 14, I am 17 and want to have sex....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

7 May 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are virgins and want to give it to eachother sometime soon, she is 14, i am 17, so im pretty sure that is illegal in the state of georgia, but we are so in love and really want to. how dumb am i for taking this risk with h...

Is an 8 year age gap a major one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

6 May 2008 (F) - I am dating a boy 8 years older than me. Will this be called age difference? I mean relationship with major age difference or this is normal as normal as when one is just 4 years older??? Any comments??...

Older men always buy me drinks or ask me out but people my age don't seem that fussed. What's the deal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

6 May 2008 (F) - Whenever people are interested in me, they are always at least 10 years older than me. I can never get anybody who is the same age as me. I look quite young too, everyone thinks I'm about 18 when I'm 23. I was just wondering what men my age are ...

I'm in love with my teacher who is 11 years older than me...

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6 May 2008 (F) - Alright, so I'm in high school and I'll be graduating in a couple of weeks and turning 18 in June. My teacher is getting laid off and won't be at my school anymore. We get along great, sometimes he talks to me randomly, he's extremely sweet with me ...

Any special risks pursuing much younger women for relationships?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

6 May 2008 (M) - I am a guy in my 50's and I'm most compatible emotionally, physically, and sexually with girls in their 20's. Are there any legal or other risks in approaching and having sex/relationship/love with women that are at least 18 years old(USA venue)? ...

What do you think? Is he just being friendly or does he really like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

5 May 2008 (F) - Hello, I really need your help because this has been on my mind for years. I really like this guy in my area but he's a lot older than me (20 years older and I'm 19). We get on really well and he's a friend of the family. I don't have any intentio...

There's one thing about him that weirds me out! He's 32 and lives in his parents' basement.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

5 May 2008 (F) - I went out with this guy for the first time on the weekend. He's cute,really nice and sweet, we have things in common and I think we had a good time. I felt very comfortable with him, coversation was good and it was really nice. I would like to see ...

How do I get this older, annoying, married guy to leave me alone?

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4 May 2008 (F) - ok, so theres this guy that i think likes me and i dont know what to do about it because i want him to leave me alone. at first when he would talk to me i thought he was just being nice. but now hes always calling me names like "baby" and saying how ...

I have feelings for an older guy, but my family might be a problem

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

4 May 2008 (F) - Hello, I really need your help. Right, here goes. . . I'm a 19 year old girl and I live in a small, close-knit village in South Wales (basically everyone knows everyone and everyones business.) For a while now I've been having feelings for a gu...

Should I give my teacher the poem I wrote about him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

3 May 2008 (F) - im deliberating over sending my teacher a poem i have written about him? shall i just go ahead and give it him because i really really want him to know? i dont understand how this site works but please could someone give me advice! ...

Are my feelings for my beautiful teacher only a crush that will wear off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

3 May 2008 (M) - i no this is wierd but i really really fancy my teacher. i cant stop staring at her. She has blond shoulder lenghed hair, blue eyes, fantastic skin. I just really want to touch her hips and kiss her. I have had dreams about her many times. Shal...

Why do so many teenage girls have a thing for their male teachers?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

3 May 2008 (M) - Why do so many teenage girls on this site have a thing for their male teachers? There are so many posts from teenage girls who say they are in love with their male teachers. Some of these teachers are 20 or more years older than these girls, so it ...

I think I want to break up with my older gf but how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

3 May 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid I have a girlfriend of a year an a bit and we've been running into problems at the moment. I think I want to break up with her. A lot of the time we're very happy together and in some ways a quite like my life with her. However, we...

My teacher flirts with me and other girls when there is no adult in the room? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

3 May 2008 (F) - Hi i'm 13 and i'm in year 9 and last year my maths teacher (who everone says is a perve including me) he acted so weird around me and it got on my nerves he flirts with a lot of girls when there is no teachers in the room but it's piss taking cause ...

I'm so depressed over a teacher

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

3 May 2008 (F) - Help me, I'm so depressed over a teacher I will never have! I don't know what to do... it's ruining my life, it has had such an impact on me and has affected relationships with my friends and family! They don't enjoy my company anymore because I'm ...

He's older. I can't get him out of my head.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - Hi Well i have a dilemma there's this guy and we always have a little flirt and there's a lot of chemistry between us when we talk. However it's a forbidden love thing, we're not allowed to be together and he's also considerably older than me, i...

I am driving myself insane wondering if am I a fool to think he will not repeat his past as soon as we get into problems?!?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - Really need some unbiased advice. Sorry this is long, feel you need enough information as possible. I can't stop worrying about whether or not my partner will cheat on me eventually. I am finding it so hard to trust him, but I can't break up w...

I feel rejected because my ex is with a younger woman. Is he self destructing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

2 May 2008 (F) - Hello - two months ago I broke up with my 40 year old boyfriend but I hoped it would just be a separation. I haven't contacted him and was surprised that he hadn't contacted me but now I have found out that he is seeing a 26 year old girl. I am ...

I've developed deeper feelings for this guy...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

1 May 2008 (F) - ok so i really like this guy. but hes 5 yrs older than me. and im 14. he calls me and stuff and we and has become friends. but i've grown deep feelings for him wat should i doo? =[ ...

10 years older than me and I'm in love. Is it a problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

1 May 2008 (F) - Have a nice month to everyone!! Well what will you prefer most?: a nice relationship with a man or a woman at the same age with you..or with a man or a woman older than you? I like a guy which is older than me 10 years! I'm just wondering if ...

He's gone grey and I'm embarrassed. How do I talk to him about it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

1 May 2008 (F) - this may seem a bit like a dumb question but my boyfriend is gray/white at 30 and i'm finding it really a turn off and a bit embarrassing- how can i talk to him about it? because i think he needs to do something. I don't think i'm being unreasonab...

I want more sex. Is it his age and will it get worse?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

1 May 2008 (M) - I am in a bit of a bind and don't know what to do. I have been in a committed loving relationship with a man almost 20 years older than me (I am 24). The problem is sex. He would be happy with once a week or fortnight while I start to not cope after ...

Has he been pressured into breaking up with me because of the age gap?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Hi, i'm 20 and was seeing a man of 47 years old who is separated with 2 children. We met at work and started seeing each other when he had problems with his wife, who he eventually separated from. For the past year we were seeing each other and got ...

I've tried talking to my best friend who is 14 after she slept with a 27 year old, but she wont listen!!

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30 April 2008 (F) - Hi, my best friend is only 14 she slept with a 27 year old, who has kids, when she was very drunk, she didn't use protection and didn't get the morning after pill. I am worried about her, and not just for the pregnancy side of things. What can i do...

I love him more than anything and don't want our relationship to end but we're at the verge of breaking up please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I am 27 and until last year I'd never kissed anyone, let alone anyone else. When I was at school boys just weren't interested and then when I was older I was so embarrassed by my lack of experience that if guys did show an interest I'd pretend that ...

Age Differences-Gross Encounters Of The Bird Kind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

30 April 2008 (M) - Are age differences an important factor in relationships? If it is older guy then it doesn’t seem to be an issue but if it is an older woman it matters (unless you are a Physics graduate then only matter matters). The fact is people (and rela...

Do you think he does like me really and if so what should I say to him ?.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I am 24 years old soon, and i like a man who is 42. My birthday is coming up soon and he said he will go.He has stared at me and looked at me alot, stood close to me when i have been talking to other people, once he looked at me through the corner ...

My older BF discusses our most private issues with his mates and makes me feel so dirty by improper remarks! Is this all my fault??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - My bf is 11 years old than me i am 17 and he is 28 he gets very jelous but then he loves parading me in front of his friends. We were in a pub. I bent over to pick up a packet of crisps and he was saying to his mates "that is all mine when ever i ...

I want to dump him because I think his too old for me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - i went out with a boy that is 20 years old and i am 14 years old, he loves me to bits but i dont really know the meaning of love. and i also think that he is playing me because his mates say his a player but he say they are lieing, i told my girl ...

I know it's weird, but I am in love with a stranger!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - This may sound weird, but I don't know of any other way to describe it other than the fact that I'm in love with a man I've never met. The other problem is that he's much older than me. I'm 17, but I'll be 18 the next time I see him, which if I'm ...

I want to be with her, I'm 18 and she's 14.

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28 April 2008 (M) - I am 18 and my really good friend is 14, I have never had a relationship, and i think i like her. What should I do? I want to be with her??...

He's 40 years older than me, I'm 17 and I love him.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Hi! I am just like this girl here too. I am attracted to a guy who is 40 years older than me, i am 17. He is attracted to me too but not for my body. We have alot in common, for example, i am into the era he grew up in which is the 1960s and alot...

People call me a pervert and a cradle snatcher for going out with a younger guy! How can I make them stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I am 16, and my boyfriend has just turned 14. We haven't done anything that is against the law, and our parents don't mind us having a relationship. People at his school (the few who believe him) think it's cool that he's going out with someone a ...

I want whoever you are to help me ask her out ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

27 April 2008 (M) - hey am starting to like this girl and i was just flirting with her to get my mate jealous cause he fancys her am 16 a\nd shes 14 is that too big a age difference? we only talk on the internet because I've left school and i dont have her number b...

I am 18 and he is 27 and we're in love. Could problems arise with this age difference between us?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - Hello all, I recently got involved with a man a fair bit older than I. We both new that it was probably not a good idea, but we just fell in love. I am 18 and he is 27. He is very kind and polite, he does not rush me in anything. Are there proble...

Pregnancy risk in case of anal sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is 22 years older than me and I am 29 year old female and underweight but healthy. We had anal sex and he ejaculated in me without a condom. He did not ejaculate anywhere else. Is there a pregnancy risk here?...