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Age differences: Help and advice

Can we have an active sex life is he is 64 and I am 29?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

6 November 2009 (F) - Ok here it goes. I am a 29 year old woman and I am in love with a man 34 years my senior. I have known him for 15 years and throughout our entire friendship I have gone through a few different relationships and was even married for a short time. ...

14 and falling for my teacher!

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6 November 2009 (F) - Well, okay this quite weird and i might get some mean answers but yeah, I know there's loads of stuff on here, but i want an answer that matches me sort of thing. So i'm 14 and yes, i think i am in love with my teacher, she's head of pastoral care...

Do you think our relationship will be a short or long one?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I am dating a 26 year old, and i am 40 year old woman. We met 2 years ago when he turned 24. We are basically attracted to each other, love at first sight i may say, and really are like soulmate. During our 2 years life had been very rough. W...

In a few more years do you think he would want a younger woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

6 November 2009 (F) - I am 29 and my boyfriend is 19. He has been persuing the relationship with me for months, and its only been weeks since I have given in and allowed myself to fall in love with him. I do love him, and find this relationship to be by far the most ...

Do you think we should continue this LDR? How to make it work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - i am involved with a wonderful guy who is 21.I am 33 and the age gap doesnt seem to be a problem at all but the distance does i'm from england and he is in california i just wait for the time when we can be together for always. Do you think we...

What is wrong with teacher/student relatonships?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted yesterday

5 November 2009 (F) - what's the big taboo with student teacher relationships? I know there's all this stuff about peadophillia, but why does it HAVE to be reported? And does anyone know how teachers react, like what do they say to a student who has just admitted...

He doesn't get it in before I push him away because of the pain!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - i just truned 16 and me and my boyfriend who is 23 have been going out for a year in half and he said he will wait till i am ready to have sex as it will be my first time and now that i am 16 i feel that i am ready to have sex .. i have been rea...

I want a relationship with this guy who is 7 years older than me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted yesterday

4 November 2009 (F) - I'm 16 and he is 23 hes been in my life a very long time.. our families our close. hes gonna graduate from college and pursue his career,so hes very responsible. I'm confused about my feelings for him,and his feelings for me. he comes over ...

Why do teachers flirt with female students?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - Just being curious, but why do young male teachers flirt with their female high school students. Is it so they can get them to like them? Do they enjoy watching how we get crushes on them or just for fun?? And of course there's teachers who...

I'm developing feelings for him even though it's wrong. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - I have known this guy since I was a little girl, our families are beyond best friends. We have been spending a lot of time talking, and I am quickly becoming infatuated with him, because he's been exposed to me and my family life so much, he ...

She is 30 and he is 74. Is he actually interested in her mind?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - He is 74. She's 30. First of all, let's say he is a thin, very attractive, elderly man. It may seem gross to some people, but she says she is actually attracted to him. It may be weird to some, but she said something about him is fascinating to h...

I love my teacher, but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

3 November 2009 (?) - I had this teacher for drama in years 7 and 9, we'll call him b. in year 7 i barely noticed him but year 9 i was having a difficult time and he really helped me. Somehow I remember the exact day I started liking him more than a teacher, two years in ...

He's younger than me and might be expecting too much, should I stop it now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - This is a tricky question and I thank all who tackle it. I am in my early fifties. I am told I am relatively attractive and am in reasonably good shape. I am attracted to a colleague in his early thirties and it would seem mutual. He is a terrific ...

I want to date the girl my mum used to babysit!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

2 November 2009 (M) - Hi.. I need help with a dilema. I'm very interested in a girl! But.. she is younger than I, not being a problem, but my mother used to babysit her when she was younger, and My mother, nor her father would agree with us dating. What should I...

My gay son is dating a married man with kids!

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2 November 2009 (F) - My son is 17, and came out as gay to us 2 months ago. Me and my husband have no issues with his sexuality. He's in college, studying business systems, and is doing very well. It's his choice of partner that's worrying us though - he told us ...

I told his kids how I felt about their dad. What did I do wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - I have known an older guy with kids for at least a month now and there are many things he has done and said that lead me to believe he was interested in me like he would flirts with me and once or twice he has held me in his arms and cuddled me. Si...

I've fallen for a teacher, but I'm no kid. Help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - I'm falling in love with a teacher! he doesnt teach me and i'm not some hormonal teen, i know the difference between a crush, when he see's me we friendly flirt well at least that's what i think, but how can i flirt in a way that doesn't come acr...

How can I overcome my fear of sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - I'm 18 years old and I'm still a virgin. I've been going out with my bf for almost 10 months now. The fact that he is 9 years older then me, I guess it's normal for him to want sex (he's a virgin too) and I understand that. We spoke a lot about ...

Should I say something to my Professor about my feelings for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - I am going to the local community college where I live and I am 17 I am not very good at science, but I feel like I have a thing for my professor. He's older but he's funny and charming in an odd way. I have been having dreams about him, and I told ...

How do I move on from this older guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - hey, I'm 13 and i have known this one guy for nearly 3 years now and at one point in that time we sorta had a thing going on and ever since then i have not been able to get him out of my mind for anything i have tried other guys everything deleting...

He's 31..I am almost 17! Could he get in trouble for dating me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - im 16 and ive been dating this guy for about two years i love him with all my heart and so does he, we have been through so much together but theres one problem he's 15 years older than me which makes him 31(im turing 17 in a few days though.) is ...

I am 37..my husband is 34. Is this a big age difference?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - Hey there it is me again, so being 37, AND MY HUSBAND BEING 35, do u think the age difference is to much? i am just tired of all the immature jerks that i have dated in the past, they have cheated on me, lied and used me,who knows what they want ...

I'm not responding to her affection but I don't want to lose her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

1 November 2009 (M) - Hi...Iv just turned 60 and have a lovely wife who has just turned 32. Yes a big age gap I know. We have been married since 2004 and during that time have been apart once. I'm having a lot of problems with my age and the fact that I feel tha...

I really love her but I'm bored and she really gets on my nerves. What can I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - So im an agony aunt new to this website and i need some advice. Ive been in a relationship with my girl for almost four months now and I feel like im bored. I know its not because we spend to much time together because i go to school and work and ...

I enjoy his company but the passion is gone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - Im a 49 year old divorcee. I've been going out with this man 18 years my senior for 4 years right after my divorce. I enjoy his company as he fills the empty place in my heart. Four years on, the passion has gone I feel like he is my dad more than ...

Do you think my driving instructor likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - i think my driving insructor fancies me and told me he loved me by text. he is a joker and a few of my mates go to him. he slaps my leg when he gives me orders but also does this to my freinds. when he texts me about my driving lessons he sends me...

Would a baby be good for our relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I'm 19, and my boyfriend's 45, and he wants a baby now. I've told him no, but he's insistent again and again that I have one with him. He says he doesn't want a baby to "trap" me, but because he feels it will be good for our relationship. I'v...

Do I sound normal to you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I'm 18 years old and I'm very confused lately, confused about everything. I'm not sure what I want out of life. First I think that I'm in love with my boyfriend who is 9 years older then me, then at a party I got the feeling that I still got a crush ...

My boyfriend is embarrassed to be dating me because of my age!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Im a 14 year old and i´m currently dating a 19 year old, but he wont tell anyone because he´s embarrassed of dating some one so young. Do you think the age difference is a problem ? ...

Do you think he'll be interested if I call him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - I recently met a man at a party. We were chatting for a while and I found him really interesting company- he seemed like an intelligent, unassuming and basically nice guy and we had quite a lot in common and, on first impressions, similar outlook on ...

Is he so simple he doesn't even want a blowjob?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months now. He is 32 years old. I know that he is a simple-sex type of guy. But, there are 2 things that keep buggin me. One is the blow job and another one is the same-position sex. But the last one ...

How do I let her down without hurting her too much? I don't want to start a relationship when I am moving away!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - okay, well i'l just get straight into it. i'm a 17 year old guy and she is a 15 year old girl. we both go to the same college, she is 2 years below me in school and has a brother in my year. i honestly don't remember how we met but i have been ...

Should I have a relationship with a man 22 years older than me? What will happen in the future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 10 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - Just as the saying goes " love is blind",I am in love with a man who is 22 years older than me (i'm 28), he divorced couple of months ago, he loves me so much, making me feel I am having the whole world. This kind of beloved feeling never happens to ...

Advice on having sex with an older man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - i always enjoyed hav sex but now am married with really old guy an we dont have sex for a year now and i also dont want to cheat on him,we love each other very much,we enjoy each others company but i really want to have sex any advice...

How should I handle her being upset with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

25 October 2009 (M) - Hey ive been seeing this woman for a little less than 2 months now and i am really into her. she has a kid and is 3 years older than i am. We are not official yet because she basically wants to make sure i am the right guy. we work togeth...

I met this amazing guy, but....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - he's twenty-three. i'm almost eighteen, but i think my parents might freak out. plus, my twenty-four-year-old sister's boyfriend is his age, and so is my older brother. i'm just not sure what they'll think. he's probably the sweetest guy i've ever ...

Is he normal for his age or are my parents right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - Well... I'm dating a guy who is 9 years older then me. We are going out for about 10 months now. He had never been in love before I'm his first love and I only had 1 boyfriend before him, but I wasn't in love. Now my parents are giving me trouble - ...

Is he moving too fast again or am I just paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 13 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - Im 18 and my BF is just older than me. He has had relationships before but I am still a virgin. I went out with him a few years ago, but broke up with him because I am highly insecure (depressive, not open with people touching me) and he was moving ...

Is my professor interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - So I'm pretty sure that my professor is interested in me, but he doesn't want to make moves because like any professor with an once of brains, they realize the consequences if their passes are rejected. However, I'm completely interested and I...

Do you think the situation is unsolvable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I have big crush on somebody, who is almost impossible to be or just to start conversation with. One year ago we ended on a sofa kissing in the house of his neightboor. But it was extreme situation, that can never happen again (because of a bit ...

His parents call me a predator!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - Hi all ty for reading this and please your comments will be so welcome.. I met this guy will be 2 years soon .. We were instant friends and started off talking every day it was crazy how natural it was and innocent. He loves with his parents who I ...

What make her so protective of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I hope I can get some insight because right now I am feeling a bit confused. So here goes. I met this teacher when I was 15. We are both females. Very quick, we became close. At the time I was going through some rough patch...

Do you think I'm the problem with his climax?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - Hi, my man used to cum in me, using condoms, all the time. For the past 2 months this has not been happening - hes been blaming this on his night work, hes tired, if we argue this is the problem, its the dog etc. I have tried my best, but only ...

My parents are against my true love, how can I get them to understand my feelings?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - I've been with my man pretty much half a year now. Though I'm pretty much scared of expressing all my emotions at once and scared he might not feel the same, but from what he's told me; i am sure he loves me just as equally. The problem lately h...

How do I let him know how I feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - I have been attracted to this guy who takes my sons football class , I am married and in the process of separating , when i am around this guy I feel awkward and feel my heart pounding , I can never really look at him as Im scared the eye contact ...

He's younger and has a gf, but he won't stop hanging with me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - i am a 34 year old divorce mom to a 6 year old girl. a couple of months ago, I met a guy at a bar with my friends. Turns out we live down the street from each other and were hanging out often watching football games on sunday. ect.ect. We have a...

I am 22 he is 35, what do you think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - Hey there it is me again, so being 22 i am thinking about dating a guy that is 35, do u think the age difference is to much? i am just tired of all the immature jerks that i have dated in the pass, they have cheated on me, lied and used me ...

I cant get enough...Has anyone felt this before?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - im 18 and i really like this guy who is 33 years old he likes me too , we know it's wrong ,but just can't gt enough of each other has anyone ever felt this before?what to do?...

I know it won't work but he won't let me leave.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - I need help! This is my situation. I've been dating an older man for about a month and a half now. He's thirty three and im only nineteen. A short time before we started seeing each other he had just broken up with his girlfriend of three or more ...

How can I spend time with her in my own home before I leave for active duty?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - I am 18 years old and enlisted in the United States Airforce. I have a girlfriend well ex now girlfriend who is 16 years old. I have been dating her since i was 14 years old and I lost my virginity to this girl. My first true love and basically only ...