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Archived questions from: November, 2016 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Met a guy on Tinder. Was he just after a hook-up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2704 days ago

29 November 2016 (F) - So I matched with a man on tinder Who was visiting my city for a week... I was surprised that I even went out with him bc I want a real relationship but he seemed really interesting. he actually asked me to coffee so wasn't really a hook up sitch...

I am insecure about how my body looks, its affecting my sex life!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2703 days ago

29 November 2016 (F) - Hello, and thanks for reading. I am very apprehensive and insecure when I have sex with my boyfriend. I wish I had the confidence to initiate but everytime I build myself up to initiate, I clam up. I find myself to be beautiful and I love my body ...

I'm 16, girlfriend is 14 ... I am thinking of breaking up because we cant find anywhere private!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2702 days ago

29 November 2016 (M) - Am a 16 year old teenager in High School. Am currently a junior dating my 14 year old freshman girlfriend. We've been together 2 months and its been working out. Me and her have kissed before a couple of times, but never making out. The reason being ...

He says he is too old for me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2704 days ago

28 November 2016 (F) - Dear cupid, this I been talk to on okcupid he is very nice guy hes59 and I'm 47 we been talk over a month he ask me if move down here if I go out with him I say yes and now he's say he's to old for me but he still wants to move down here he ask me ...

Why was he being so open if all he wanted from me was sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2704 days ago

28 November 2016 (F) - Hi Everyone, I meet this guy online February 2016. We meet up in March. We both have 9yr old girls, have stuff in common. We hit it off staright away. We meet up every weekend...days out with our children. By April it got very intease, we were...

My head is turning! how do stop this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2704 days ago

28 November 2016 (M) - I have been in a relationship for over 3 years. Our relationship has always been a bit turbulent. We have had issues as all relationships will suffer through from time to time, but we have always stuck it out and gotten through. We lived toget...

I am his great big secret!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2704 days ago

28 November 2016 (F) - I have been dating a guy 16 years older than me for the last 6 months. He has been divorced twice and have 3 teenage/young adult children with his first wife and a 3 yr old daughter with the second. He divorced 18 months ago. I have 2 teenagers and ...

Should I feel guilty that I seen someone else while we were broken up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2704 days ago

28 November 2016 (F) - I am currently in a loving relationship with someone who I've been with for 3 years and we are now talking about marriage. However, in that three years, we've broken up twice... once for 3 weeks the other for 3 months, both my choice because I...

My boyfriend makes me feel so bad about myself

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2703 days ago

28 November 2016 (F) - I don't know what to do, ive been with my boyfriend for about a year now and we've lived together for about 5 months, he's mostly a really nice guy, but he doesn't show me any emotional support whatsoever, i have told him i need him to emotionally ...

Am I reading too much into what my boyfriend said?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2683 days ago

27 November 2016 (F) - I would appreciate some insight from the following...I am questioning whether or not I am reading too much into it or if it is indeed something I should be concerned about. A few evenings ago, my boyfriend of a year and I were having some cock...

Is this guy straight or bi

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2705 days ago

26 November 2016 (M) - I'm really confused and a little jealous..... there's this guy I started talking to at the gym, his in better shape but than me (so his not admiring my body prior) he used to stare at me a lot then we started talking... turns out we have loads in...

Questions about dating and how women react if they don't want to date

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2702 days ago

26 November 2016 (M) - Ladies, this question is for you. You guys know when a guy is interested in you, right? I mean a guy whom you've know only for a short while. Do you get the feeling that he's about to ask you out before he does it? If you're not interested roman...

I think I deserve a straight answer

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2705 days ago

26 November 2016 (M) - I asked this girl out recently who I actually thought liked me back, given all the flirting, but as soon as I asked if she wanted to go out, she shrugged her shoulders and said, “I don’t know, I have to think about it, can I get back to you?” W...

Boyfriend wants me to give another man oral sex.I am not happy with this!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2681 days ago

26 November 2016 (F) - My boyfriend has been pressuring me into blowing another guy and I feel completely uncomfortable with the idea, I have told him this everytime he's asked and now he brings it up in the middle of sex or while he's dirty talking, I told him I'd ...

2 year relationship just ended. How to move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2705 days ago

26 November 2016 (M) - I remember that it hurt. Hearing the words hurt - and at the same time, it felt like something out of a movie, like it wasn't happening. After all, how could it? It had been merely a week since our second anniversary, and as an anniversary gift she ...

How can I stop this destructive behavior?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2703 days ago

26 November 2016 (F) - How can I get over the fear of being as ding up alone(not married with children) - this fear has lurked such insecurity that it had led me into the arms of men that are verbally abusive and self centered - I've had one bf since I was 19-25(self ...

Please help: where is the line drawn between insecurity and stepping over boundaries?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2705 days ago

25 November 2016 (F) - Hello, I was wondering how best to approach my boyfriend (of 3.5 years) and talk to him about something in our relationship I'm not happy with. We are usually very open and encourage communicating so I don't have any worries about him getting upse...

I feel lonely, does it make me desperate that I want to be in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

24 November 2016 (F) - I am 21 and I have never been in a relationship. (I've never been kissed either.) it seems like men have never been attracted to me. I've lost about 60 pounds in the past year and I've gained a lot of confidence. However, I never get asked out and I ...

Is she trying to avoid going out with me? Or just not interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

24 November 2016 (M) - First I would like to give a little background on the situation (please bear with it as it is going to be long). Me and this girl in my class have been talking for a month and i liked her.A few days ago we decided to go for a movie on this sunday. ...

How do you know if you are doing the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

24 November 2016 (M) - Every now and again I still miss my ex, I love her which I hate to admit but I dont want her back. I feel like its having a child who just made you so angry but you still cant help loving them. I am in a new relationship and love my gf, just gone...

Should I have to beg this man to see me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2709 days ago

23 November 2016 (F) - Hi. I would really appreciate some objective advice as I am feeling very confused and stressed. I started seeing a guy 4 months ago. It was going well until he met my 25 yr old daughter who took an instant dislike to him and made it clear ...

Should I have given this guy a third chance to meet up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2703 days ago

23 November 2016 (F) - This guy contacted me on a dating website and he was originally from my area. He is a good listener, has a good sense of humor, and actually knows how to use a phone unlike other guys on the website who seem to like to hide behind texts. We hit it ...

Stuck in the middle and not sure what to do with holidays and family

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2706 days ago

23 November 2016 (F) - This Christmas my boyfriend's family have very kindly invited us (me and my two children) to their house for 3 days. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years and he is really great with my two boys,and he is a fantastic dad to his own daug...

My boyfriend cheated but I want him back..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2709 days ago

23 November 2016 (F) - I have been in a 2 year relationship, and after the first year I would catch my boyfriend trying to talk to girls once in a while. He always apologised and used excuses such as "i was bored" "i was just trying out my game again" "it dont mean ...

I tried my best and I want him back. But were my words about his ED too confronting? I apologized, but he has big trust issues as well.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2662 days ago

23 November 2016 (F) - Hello, I met this guy at the airport and he was my passenger then we exchanged the phone numbers. He moved to California for his job and he is 45 years old. I am 30 years old and live in New York. He comes to visit his family here, in New York. ...

Fiance issues. What should I do? What needs to change?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2709 days ago

23 November 2016 (F) - MODNOTE two issues concerning fiancé combined. . . . . . . My fiancé a couple of years ago, made some very bad decisions and cheating on me many times as well as lied, hid a 2nd phone to be able to chat with other women, and was sleeping wit...

What's my best stategy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2709 days ago

23 November 2016 (M) - I want to ask a girl out but i dont now how to because i want to do it in a creative way since i wont be able to do it in person for a long time....

I need to feel confident again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

22 November 2016 (F) - I have just come out of a lesson long term relationship(8 years). My ex is older than me by 15 years and we barely ever had sex, or even kissed for that matter! We certainly never kissed with tongues! My problem is that I have lost all confide...

Did he ask me out or was it just a joke?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2710 days ago

22 November 2016 (F) - I got asked out today, or at least I think so. So I want to ask you guys on here if you think he said it as a joke, or meant business. We work at the same building, but not the same job/office. So we typically meet and just talk for 5-10 minutes...

I'm not sure of the meaning behind what my girlfriend's cousin is writing to me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2710 days ago

22 November 2016 (M) - I am English, and my girlfriend is originally Polish. We went over to Poland in July to meet her family. She introduced me to her second cousin who is our age, who was pretty good at English. At first she said she was shy talking English and would ...

My boyfriend gets bullied and walked over by his family, and I don't know what I can do to help him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2711 days ago

22 November 2016 (F) - My boyfriend (27) and I have been together for 3 months, and only recently I'm starting to see how he gets treated by his family. He is the kind of guy who is too nice, the one who will do whatever he can to not upset or offend anybody, and because ...

Why would he? Potential date seems too much in a hurry to meet

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2705 days ago

22 November 2016 (F) - Hey all . Ive started online dating a month ago and been talking to a guy at the beginning he took his time getting to know me but suddenly he seems to want to meet fast like the world is going to end and he has to cram it in . Im careful and take...

Do I confront her about her ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2710 days ago

22 November 2016 (M) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I've been seeing this girl for about a month. We were set up through a mutual friend. I've grown to really like this girl. But when we first got together she told me she had went about with a guy who was a bit of a...

Did I give this much older man the wrong signals by giving him my phone number?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2710 days ago

22 November 2016 (F) - I made a bad mistake. I have been in the US for few years but don't know much about dating as I moved here with my ex husband.I got divorce 2 years ago and I have never dated here and no interest to do so even I get lots of attention. Here is the p...

If you haven't kissed in a long time is it sort of weird to kiss?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2698 days ago

22 November 2016 (F) - HELP! Please. I 'm going on a second date with a guy, and I'm 22 and although I've kissed people in the past it's been a while since I've kissed someone - more than a year- ( let alone sex haha I think I'm a virgin again, no seriously, anything ...

How do I turn down friends that wish to date me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2710 days ago

21 November 2016 (F) - Ok my problem is pretty simple - I am recently out of a long term relationship and since I've been single, a few guys I know (old work colleagues, classmates etc) have contacted me via Facebook and asked me out. Unfortunately I've not been attracted ...

I want to sort everything out with my boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2712 days ago

21 November 2016 (F) - Sorry this is really long and kind of a rant but I need help sooooooo bad ?? Me an my boyfriend have been having a few problems latlely and it feels like I'm going to lose him. We've been together for 1 year and 3 months today and I need him like...

My online girlfriend cheated on me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2710 days ago

21 November 2016 (M) - So, my girlfriend and i have been together for about 2 years, because of her age and my age we never told our family the truth...that and we live a thousand miles a part and have only gotten to see each other twice. Well a month ago my girlfrien...

I've taken him back 3 times despite him having broken my trust, now I'm pregnant after a miscarriage and I feel he's straying again

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2706 days ago

21 November 2016 (F) - I keep taking my boyfriend back time and time again after he cheats on me or hurts me, and I really don't know why. At first I took him back because I generally felt I was to blame. I'm saying it was my fault, but I did a few stupid things at the ...

The guy who meant nothing to her in her past got to live out his fantasy while I, despite being her boyfriend, don't get the same privilege. Isn't it unfair?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2712 days ago

20 November 2016 (M) - I guess the question I have is what do I do? About 3 years ago before my girlfriend met me she had sex with a girl while a guy she occasionally hooked up with watched. They were all out at the pub and the girl was interested in her and the guys ...

Is there anything that can be suggested, on ways to best support my partner of five years, over her work and health issues?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2712 days ago

19 November 2016 (M) - My partner of 5 years who is 52 has worked in a bakery for 30 years and her boss has sold up to a family. The wife of the said family does not want her in the bakery or using the delivery truck as my partner suffers from IBS (irritable bowel synd...

I want him. How can I make him see that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2712 days ago

19 November 2016 (F) - So its been six months since me and my guy broke it off. For the best part we were best friends, hot lovers and inseparable. We had silly arguments over my on-line life until he cut it off completely. How do I make him see its him I want....

She said she loved me and then completely blocked me. That isn't love is it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2708 days ago

19 November 2016 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been going out for about 5 months. By both of our accounts it was pretty much the most idyllic relationship either of us had ever been in. The most we ever disagree about was where we were going to get dinner. We never ...

My girlfriend is too controlling and I feel like running away

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2712 days ago

19 November 2016 (M) - I've been in a relationship with a girl for 3 years now. I lost my job 3 months ago. I've been busy Monday through Friday teaching part-time and learning some new stuff. I told her that I'd be hanging out with my friends on a Friday's night. She ...

My girlfriend is flirting with my best friend and I'm worried about what will happen

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2712 days ago

18 November 2016 (M) - I have a problem...my girlfriend is flirting with my best friend..i know they don't have nothing right now but they are too close to each other...and they hide things to me..it hurts because they think I'm the bad guy..it just that it hurts to...

Is this normal? Should she keep some distance between her and the ex's family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2712 days ago

18 November 2016 (M) - Started a new relationship with an old flame from my past. we are into our 6 month and very into each other. She now had a small child for a ex boyfriend and the ex is very unstable. lately the ex,s brother has started to show up visiting, at ...

Does this guy have a girlfriend? I'm so confused!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2715 days ago

17 November 2016 (F) - There is this guy who I used to date and have sex with, and all of a sudden, I saw a bunch of things that raise the question: Does this guy have an official girlfriend? -Firstly, he posted a picture on IG with a girl on Halloween and she commente...

Everytime I turn around she needs money.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2712 days ago

17 November 2016 (M) - I am currently in a LDR and it has become frustrating how financially dependent she has become. We were in this situation when we lived in the same town, however, I was living at home and didn't pay any bills while working. Now I am living on my own ...

Am I "withholding love" and therefore being manipulative??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2712 days ago

17 November 2016 (F) - When my partner and I have a bad fight, she leaves for days, and I'm unable to display love. It feels fake if in the middle of everything I said "I love you so much" or "How are you doing, I miss you". I'm not withholding love as a punishment or to ...

My life is a living hell with this older man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2715 days ago

16 November 2016 (F) - I had a crush with an older man who is about 60-65 not because i like him but because of situations this man will ask for sex all the time and anytime i give him sex i get hurt and sometimes when i say no is a problem too he gets mad at me,he makes ...