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Archived questions from: September, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

I know we'll be married and have kids one day, but not yet for goodness sake!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - I know my girlfriend is the one for me. I know someday she and I will be married and we'll have kids together. I can feel it in my bones and I just... KNOW. Problem is... Both of her best girl friends are married; one even has a kid on the way, ...

Does she like me? She smiles and her face turns red

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - ok im a guy lesbian and i like this girl but we are just friends because she has a boyfriend but everytime im around her she smiles at me and her face turns red so does this mean that she likes me...

It seems like I'm always the one initiating the conversation. Does he like me? What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - Hello, So I'm gay, and I recently met someone online who is two years older than me. When I went to meet him, he told me that we have actually known each other for a very long time. He told me his full name and I was in shock, and I immediat...

How do you know if they felt the same way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Hey, I'd love opinions from guys and girls about this: when you kiss someone, and it makes your stomach do flips, makes you feel on top of the world, how do you tell if it's having the same effect on them? When I kiss my new bf, that is exactly how ...

I need help in this situation!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - Since I've gone back to school, I've met this girl that my other friends used to hang out with in the past year, and i have maked up situations that i can talk to her, but i dont want to get her to know that I like her, cause if this doesn't work, I ...

Lost my erection, and she's not happy about it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - {Moderator note: two questions from the same OP combined} 1.) ok, so this is the thing: sometimes when alone with my girlfriend i'm not getting an erection!!I do in the beginning when we start kissing each others lips and neck,but when we get nake...

Do guys get surprised when the see what the breasts are shaped like without the bra?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Are you ready for a nontraditional question? Do guys get pleasantly/nonpleasantly surprised (you decide) when the bras come off their girlfriends? Girls wear all sorts of push up bras, lifting bras etc. that I'm curious if guys get surprise...

When is it too late for romantic stuff?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4852 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Hey every one! Just wondering, if you've been with a guy 8 months, is it way too late for him to do romantic things like bring you flowers etc? And how would you even get him to do these romantic things without bluntly asking? ...

No reply to my text -- is this the end?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Hi, We have a casual relationship lasting for several months. From january we used to talk everyday. He was the one initiating it and he was always very into me. Both of us we know this could never be a "real" relationship but both of us accep...

I don't care about the age difference!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I don't know what to do. I've completely fallen for someone who is 7 years older than me. He means the world to me and im so lucky to have him in my life. The thing is is he is giving me all the right signs that he likes me, like letting me cuddl...

How do I express my feelings too her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - I've been txting a girl since 3 days... And she doesn't know me well n I know her v. well and she wants to meet with me as soon as possible, I know If go and meet her, I won't hve anything to tell her, because I'm kind of shy at times.. and this ...

Do you think she will come back to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - I'm a 19 year old college students and my ex is a 16 year old in high school. We dated for a little over a year and we were inseparable. While at college we missed each other a ton and it hurt a lot. Over the summer she dumped me because she said it ...

Have you ever fallen for someone you didn't get along with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Guys, have you ever fallen for a girl you did not initially get along with?...

Do I dare tell him how I feel?

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30 September 2010 (F) - Hi! So I just turned 18. I have a question for everyone. I would do this not as anonymous...but I kind of want no one to know who I am....ya I know that's weird. Here goes. Once again I'm 18 and I've never had a boyfriend. I've had guys like me and ...

His parents wont accept me as thier daughter inlaw

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30 September 2010 (F) - Hi My bf yesterday informed me that he cant marry me since his parents wont accept me as their daughter-in-law since im elder to him by 3 yrs and divorcee (no kids though). we are seeing each other for past 1 yr, we started off as friends and then...

Guys are so hard to read!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - So...I've been wondering about this. I am a female college freshman..I've been here for about six weeks now. I have been loving college so much, and I am thoroughly enjoying nearly every experience so far (I say nearly..not every class is fun ...

Advice on getting a boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - ok right im 16 years old and ive never had a boyfriend im not hidius looking and im a bit on the chubby side but all through high school no boys have ever really been interested in me i dont know what to do and how to get a boyfriend please help me ...

I think my doctor likes me

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 3385 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I think my Doctor likes me. i know I like him. He gives me a hug.. and our visits last like an hour. How would i know for sure?...

My girlfriend had sex with another guy because of me!! What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - I was with my girlfriend for almost 1 1/2 years, i got real drunk, some girl jus had 100% intention on doing everything with me, i barely spoke to her the entire night. I still dont know to this day why i followed her up to her room. We had sex. My ...

I want to remove myself from these one night stands and just be friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Help me out with this...I know I've screwed up, don't know what to do to fix this. I met a man about 8 months ago, it was only intended to be a one night stand on both our parts. And we never saw each other again for 5 months, then for whateve...

Is it too soon to make a move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Ok what gives? Recently I've been hanging out with this guy and I'm just not sure if hes into me or not. Sometimes i think he is and sometimes i think otherwise. Hes invited me over to his place just him and i and hes invited me to come hang out ...

What is this guys deal? is he playing games?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

30 September 2010 (?) - dear cupid, a little over a week ago, i met this guy in my history class at college. we made a little bit of small talk before class started and even after the lecture started, he kept whispering stuff to make me laugh. then, he passed me a note...

My girlfriends mom is so hot!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - Hey guys im 26 and my gf is 20. we have a baby together and everything is good. but the problem is her mom is 36 and is SO HOT. i mean hot hot hot hot! what do i do?? i stare at her constantly when im over her house. im trying not to get into creep ...

I like my boss, but..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - The other day, I went in for an interview, and the guy who interviewed me seemed to be close to my age or a couple years older, with a very attractive face and pleasing manners. He seemed quite friendly and easily amused. I however get the ...

Star signs and love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - This a rather strange question but I'm very curious about this specific little subject :) A lot of people turn to the zodiac for tips on love and relationships. When I tell men I'm a Scorpio, they either think sex fiend, or possesive, jealous psycho ...

My insecurities about his ex wife are causing problems

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend who has 2 sons ages 19 and 25. I have moved in to their home with my son age 25. As far as our living situation everything is working out just fine. I am having trouble accepting the fact that the ex-wife (Mother of the ...

Will my boyfriend ever stray or get bored of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - hello. will my boyfriend ever stray? were together a year now we see each other nearly every day. will he get bored of me? i dont want him to i love him to bits it just worries me sometimes. is it just me been paranoid? we get on great were always l...

I am confused, and wondering if I have scared him off

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - You guys have been helpful in the past...please help again. Right, I have moved on in my life. Relocated, new job, starting again. Recently a friend of mine called me and invited me to a dinner party. It was local to where I am now living a...

Too much talk of sex ruining relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - NOTE: Self Titled by asker. I'm in a relationship for about a year with an amazing girl that I have so much in common with. We are beginning to make wedding plans, but I don't feel totally ready for a few reasons. First, I am still getting ...

My gut says she is hiding something

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - Ok so im somewhat seeing this girl latetly she has been going out and drinking a lot she has a lot of guy friend and everything plus she is still inlove with her ex. she allways seems to treat me like crap after she sees him and its like she is ...

I feel he is not making the effort

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Hi I've got a problem but I don't know if its my own doing and I should just accept it or he's using what happened to punish me. I've been going out with a guy for 3yrs we were engaged and even talked about children but I've got trust issues f...

I'm scared my boyfriend will get bored of me!

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30 September 2010 (F) - I'm scared my boyfriend will get bored of me. we've been dating a year and in that time he has only been out once round the bars and nightclubs with his mate. He goes to see his friend once a week on an afternoon when he finishes work early. Onc...

In love with a visitor from the past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4957 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - There is this girl who used to be the girl friend of my younger brother's buddy some 5yrs ago. They breakup back then and she suddenly left town. We've chatted a couple times on the internet throughout this period albeit casually. She came to town ...

Does he like me or did he just want sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4957 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - well i have known this guy for about a year now and he comes to visit my brother in law and sister, and he knows i like him, i told him myself. we stayed up one time talking til like 5 am and we started talking about me liking him and he told me if ...

I'm going out with my step-mums grandson, is this right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4957 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I have just started going out with my step-mums grandson he is 14 and im 13 but i dont know if it is right or not we're not blood related so that doesnt matter but i dont know wheather its right or not help me please!...

I told him I love him, but he's making plans he won't commit to, with me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - I'm 19 years old and gay. A little over a year ago I fell in love with one of my best friends. I told him how I felt about him in November and I know he avoided me for a long time. Whenever I would ask if we could get together he would tell me that ...

My best friend's brother seem interested

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4957 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I have been best friends with this girl since kindergarten, and we are now in 11th grade and I have been getting different vibes from her 9th grade brother, I think he might like me. He has not told me or anything but I just have this feeling ...

Sometimes he seems to be into me and then other times, he ignores me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Hey, so there is this guy that I met and we go to school together. I am not sure if hes into me, because I introduced him to my friends and he sometimes hangs out with us at lunch, but he doesn't flirt at all with me, but he has complimented me many ...

We split because she said we didn't do anything specal together. Any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - me and my gf split on amicable terms...i thought things where on the mend and improving she says she split because we didnt do anything special, i spoilt her too much and we spent too much time together...she also got tired of my anxiety disorder...

He tells me he doesn't want to get married again! Should I stay with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I have fallen in love with a man that is 17 years older than me. This is not a problem at all for me or him either, I am very happy, I just cant tell if he is or not. I have two children and I do not want them to get hurt if I am in a relationship ...

I need a man's point of view on this one!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - From a male's perspective, do men as a general rule feel uncomfortable dating a woman who is separated and in the process of divorcing? If so will you explain why?...

Her Mom dislikes me...should I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - I've fallen in love with this girl that I enjoy spending timw with, and when I asked her out to homecoming she said yes. The problem I'm having is that her mom hates me for being "lazy" (when ever senice i knew that i loved her i've been trying my ...

How can I show him I'm interested?

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30 September 2010 (F) - I've recently reconnected with an old friend online. We comment back and forth daily and have recently started sending messages. Thing is the messages are mostly about movies we like, things we've done over the past 10 yrs., etc. How do I step it ...

I want to tell him I want to spend the rest of my life with him, but how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I've always been told that in an emotional sense you should never give a guy more than you're getting from him. What I mean is by telling him how you feel about him and so on...you know, let him be the first to say I love you, and so on. This is a...

How can I make myself trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - ok so first of all i have had a really bad past and childhood with all my guys and my mom guys cheating. so i have a huge guard up when it comes to not trusting! there is a new guy that im talking to and have been for 2 months, he is so good to ...

I need to get over my ex so I can move on and give my heart to my new guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - ok so i dated a guy for 2 1/2 years! i did everything for him. bought everything, just showed him my love, gave him my whole heart.but he did nothing for me. never held my hand or told me how pretty I was, and he was controling. so i broke up with ...

Is he gay and just not comfortable with coming out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - My bf of 2 years and I were friends in primary school, and we reconnected via a social network site. I hesitate to use the term "soulmate" but that's certainly what it feels like for both of us; and we feel very lucky to have found each other again ...

He wants to be single?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - i was with this guy for 9 months he was my first love and i lost my virginity to him.everything was great until he said to me he wants to be single. i dont understand why he wants to be single or if i done anything to him ? he said to me yesterday ...

2 Guys lead to 2 different futures. Which do I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I'm in a little bit of trouble here. Y'see, I am dating a guy that I LOVE so much, and he loves me back. There are a few complications with him though, he's amazing and all, but I'm 2 years older than him, and he's got alot of issues that he NEEDS ...

Anniversary tomorrow and don't know what to do!!!! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Eek! Its our 2 year anniversary tomorrow (since we met) and weve been so busy that we havent thought about booking anything we would like to do. I wanted to see a show in London or go to a spa but 1. Its too late to book, and.. 2. We can only se...