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Archived questions from: June, 2016 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

How do I ask him to give things a proper go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

30 June 2016 (F) - Hello . This is a little complicated , i went on a date with a guy about 8 month ago we agreed to be a couple but due to work and family and anything else we didnt get to see each other so decided to be friends , fast forward 8 month im in such a ...

We had our first kiss and it wasn't magic as expected! Now what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2856 days ago

30 June 2016 (F) - We had our first kiss and it wasnt magic as expected. I am dating a guy who has been hitting on me for three years now. I am 20 he is 23 i thought i had feelings for him but yesterday when we had our first kiss i didnt enjoy. It was strange, tasted ...

I'd like to get more serious, should I tell him how I feel? Or just roll with it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

30 June 2016 (F) - Last August I got with a guy for he first time, I went back to school and he went to college I didn't think much of it until I bumped into him a few weeks later at a party and he approached me and we chatted for a while, both of us were sober. Two ...

Can't help feel offended by boyfriends comment. Advice please !

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2856 days ago

29 June 2016 (F) - Well my boyfriend was showing me this video the other day , the music video from fifth harmony called work. He said I look a bit like Camila cebelo , and I said thanks (she's really pretty if you guys have seen her!) anywaysyyyy he said to me that ...

He's giving me the silent treatment right now, Will he return to me? I know he's abusive but I want him back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

29 June 2016 (F) - I recently learned that the guy im dating is a narcissist. We've been through at least 3 cycles of devalue/discard and a recent cycle of re-idealization. He's giving me the silent treatment right now, will he ever return my calls or come ar...

What are we ? Last night he told me "you're not my girlfriend".

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

29 June 2016 (F) - I'm having the most troubling time. I'll start explaining from the beginning. (lets call him J) I met J my first year of college. At the time we both had someone we were dating, so we never bothered getting close or anything. maybe 2 months p...

We both feel uncomfortable around the other's family. Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

29 June 2016 (F) - I am confused with my relationship. Long story short. My boyfriend and I have been together for four years but we are still trying to be comfortable with each others' families. Although when he talks with his family, I feel left out and he feels ...

If he hates other men looking at me why does he find it ok for him to go and look at other women.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

29 June 2016 (F) - Firstly I want to start by saying that I am not a prude at all, I have no problem with pornography and stuff like that, I'm very open when it comes to things like that. I've even taken my boyfriend to a strip club before. But I've been with m...

I'm jealous because my girlfriend is still friend with a guy she hooked up in the past! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2856 days ago

28 June 2016 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for a year. I found out about this guy on facebook she has him as friend on facebook and instagram, she had feelings for him when she got divorced years ago. I don't know if she talks to him or text him on a daily ...

My boyfriend of 4 years has been speaking to his ex, what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

28 June 2016 (F) - Hi Guys, I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years with a brief break in the middle. I have just discovered that he has been texting/sexting his ex from around 5-6 years ago, possibly his first official relationship. From the beginning, we have b...

How can I address this? I have trouble trusting women and I'm feeling resentful that my dating experiences haven't been good.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

28 June 2016 (M) - I have a lot of trouble trusting women. I have female friends that I can trust to a degree. But when it comes to dating I can't really trust women because of my past with them. I'm 23 years old. I never had a good dating life and am resentful abo...

Is my boyfriend selfish ? He is happy to receive, but will not reciprocate following times when I pleasure him

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

27 June 2016 (F) - my boyfriend never goes down on me. one day i asked why don’t you do it, he said he is not comfortable..so he don’t to do it. BUT i love doing it.. i more than comfortable doing it . one time he asked me.. i thought he will reciprocate so i did it.....

What does the appearance of her toothbrush at my place mean?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2859 days ago

27 June 2016 (M) - I've got a bit of a humorous question, however, it's also a serious one. Ladies, what does it really mean when you leave some of your belongings at a guys place? The girl I've been sleeping with for a while now just left (Cue the music: "Don don ...

Is it too late to reach out? Do his actions speak for themselves?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

27 June 2016 (F) - I've been dating someone for three months. The first two months were amazing. We saw one another 1-2 times a week and spoke daily. Our connection was wonderful. But during the last month communication on his side dropped immensely. He basically ...

My gf won't be sexually intimate

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

26 June 2016 (M) - Hi. I've been with my gf for two and a half years. I love her to bits and I really feel she's the love of my life but she refuses to be physically intimate. We only kiss. I have a high sex drive and had a very active sex life in the past. I'm ...

He just wants to argue and never says sorry.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

26 June 2016 (F) - So I've been dating my guy for 8months now, but we've known each other for years as good friends. im 26 and hes 30. We both work. Lately he has been talking about taking me to see his family and talking rings and marriage and I love him but ...

Is something going on, or am I reading too much into this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

26 June 2016 (F) - Hi I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years we get on really well and his family are like my family the problem is any woman that walks past he stares till she's out of sight now he received a text this morning asking saying is this for instance john ...

I'm not crazy .... am I?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2859 days ago

26 June 2016 (M) - Hey everyone, I will keep this short and sweet (I am looking for a volume of answers to gauge what is deemed as acceptable by all) About six weeks ago I started chatting to a girl on Tinder, lovely bloody thing she is... We live 350kms apart, sh...

Why do men always lose interest in me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

25 June 2016 (F) - Why do men always lose interest in me after two months? I dated three men for two months each and suddenly, at the two month point they cool way off. Communication drops, they stop making plans, and we just stop talking. I do my part. I don't over ...

I want to date but am turning them all down ....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

25 June 2016 (F) - A couple of months ago a guy i'd been seeing broke it off with me, i was really upset as it had been going on a while and i thought we were really good together. Since then i haven't openly looked to start dating anyone else, but on nights out with ...

Has he agreed to see where things lead?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2861 days ago

25 June 2016 (F) - I had been seeing a separated man for 2 months. He has been separated for 18 months. He has been very open and honest with me about his difficult divorce he is in the process of. From the start he told me he wasn't sure how much he had to give ...

It feels like he has checked out of the relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

25 June 2016 (F) - I feel like my boyfriend is taking me for granted. We are both 30. We've been together for half a year. The first four months were amazing. We always had a lot to talk about, he was very outgoing and chatty, and affectionate, and we did many things ...

I felt we were connection but she has gone quiet.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2861 days ago

25 June 2016 (M) - Hey guys! I've been dating a girl for 2 weeks or so now and been on about 6 dates with her, we are meant to be going out tomorrow. She's gone abit quiet- less messages/ calls, I really do like her and feel like we are already connecting. I'm ...

Not sure if 'No' means no for good

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2861 days ago

25 June 2016 (M) - Asked a female out for a drink from the office of where I work and she said she would get back to me. And she did, unfortunately it wasn't good news. It was a rejection reply. I absolutely hate them. Anyway she explained she wasn't able to see me ...

Do I trust my instincts or wait till he asks me to visit him at his place?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

25 June 2016 (F) - Am in a relationship with someone I met through a dating site two months ago. he is very nice and everything seems to be going on well. however he always comes to see me over the weekend whenever he has time due to the nature of his job.. Have n...

Four months into the relationship, so why is he choosing to sleep in a different bed to me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

25 June 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid I'm dating a guy younger than me for past 4 months. We hang around in his place during weekend. It's the second time I find him sleeping in living room because he says he steal his blanket and he can't sleep or I turn around a lot. ...

How do I tell my parents? What should I say to my Auntie? Is the age gap too much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2859 days ago

25 June 2016 (F) - My boyfriend of 6 months is 14 years older than me (me, 19 years of age) we are happy together and take our relationship seriously. My parents are still not aware of this relationship as I am worried to tell them just because of his age. However ...

Was it right for me to say what I said? will this break help us sort things out for ourselves?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

25 June 2016 (F) - A few nights ago, my boyfriend and I called a break because he and I wanted to find time for ourselves. Since we've been dating for four years, we thought it was time. We still love each other but I want a break for two weeks because I feel we ...

Is it Okay to ghost in this situation? I feel that he's lost interest in me.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2852 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - I've been dating someone for three months now. The first two months were great, he was very affectionate and planned thoughtful dates (as did I). He reached out daily and I reciprocated. We met twice a week. However this month he's been busy w...

Is there such a thing as relationship anxiety? How do I manage this anxiety?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2863 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - I've had horrible experiences with exes. My first love cheated on me twice and both times he choose the other girl over me. That in a sense kind of left me emotionally scarred and since then I haven't had a relationship last more than a couple o...

Before I met her she had sex with my cousin. How do I get over this fact?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

24 June 2016 (M) - I met this girl months ago and we've been dating since them, i'm really trying to forget and avoid jealousy but it's not easy! The fact the i have sex with the same girl my cousin had bothers me too much! I think about breaking up but i love her...

Our initial dates all went very well but now it seems she's cooled off? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2863 days ago

24 June 2016 (M) - Ok, so I met a girl the other week from a dating site, after 2 days, we arranged a date, and really hit it off, same interests, similar spence of humour etc... We went out again 2 days after then the night after that. She also came over to mine 3 ...

Does he feel rejected? I'd like to know, how can this be fixed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - I have a weird situation and need opinions please.. Talked to this guy online, Skype, phone for three years(I know I know "you never met him")... But it was budding pen pals to friends to romantic interest. There was a possibility of s...

I probably shouldn't take him back. Is what I did to him worse than what he did to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2863 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - I was involved with my ex-boyfriend for many years we are friends first so I've known him a really long time. We know each other very very well. He had some substance abuse issues and during that time cheated on me multiple occasions. When I fi...

He says I do not set aside enough time to spend with him. What should I say or do in response to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2863 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - I am in a relationship with a guy from my office. I'm a self confessed workaholic and he is always complaining that I don't make enough time for him on the weekdays. However every alternate weekend, he goes to his parents house where he maintai...

Do I keep lying to her or tell her the truth? Nothing fits any more.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

23 June 2016 (M) - I been with my gf for 4 years and she has put on weight since. I'm not bothered because she is really attractive with extra weight on. However if I mention it she says she doesn't like it. So I don't mention anything anyway however now all her ...

I am low on his list of priorities!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2864 days ago

22 June 2016 (F) - I feel like my boyfriend does not have time for me anymore an am not sure of what to do! Basically there is a culture clash and his parents want him to have an arranged marriages which he has refused to do as he is with me But I feel like everyt...

I feel I'm missing out on a experience that I desperately want to feel.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2864 days ago

22 June 2016 (M) - I'm a man and I'm confused about my sexuality with no idea how to confront it. For as long as I've had an identity I've never labelled my sexuality as what's between the ears has always been more superior to me opposed to how someone identifies. ...

Is he serious about our future?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2854 days ago

22 June 2016 (F) - Hi all, I am in a long-distance relationship. I am from Italy, my partner is Spanish and has been living in Germany for over 15 years now. He was unemployed for ages but now has a good job, it is on a contract basis but they love him and have sai...

Is my boyfriend saying I'm not that attractive to be hit on?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 2864 days ago

21 June 2016 (F) - I would say I'm okay looking, when I'm done up I think I can look quite hot. Anyways I get hit on by guys on the way to work quite often, yesterday I had two guys actually approach me. One was when I was sitting on the bench and the guy said, can I ...

Why does he give gifts to ex's kids but plays the "gift game" with me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

21 June 2016 (F) - Hello my bf and I have been together for two years. He's had a close relationship with his ex during this time. Texting, emailing, calling, and seeing her. He's also very close to her daughters. He attends their games, buys them gifts and keeps ...

Pulled a gorgeous female from work, organised the date. But how do dates work? Help.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2866 days ago

21 June 2016 (M) - Dear agony aunts I pulled a beautiful girl at work, who ive been keen on for ages and have organised a date with her, and she said yes, and it was quite literally music to my ears. How do dates normally work? I know you have to look smart, and ...

What can I do? Don't want it rubbed in my face. But she says I'm offloading my insecurities by being upset with her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

21 June 2016 (M) - My friend upset me again talking about interacting with another man who she has a past with... I've covered with her in the past that she's to have as much fun as she can with whomever she feels like regardless that I'm mad about her. We have f...

Feeling really depressed that I have never been asked out. How should I approach this problem?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

21 June 2016 (F) - I get really depressed because I have never been asked out despite putting myself out there. I volunteer, I also work in retail. No guys like me and I see other girls who are always asked out and hit on but I am always left out. I am 5'6 and w...

Can you please advise what to do? My lesbian partner has been exchanging explicit messages on line with a man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

20 June 2016 (F) - I found explicit emails between my lesbian partner and a man on craigslist. I found some printed copies of her replies to a mans advert on craigslist. The man wanted to meet her for fun in exchange for money. My partner always brags about being ...

How do I tell my LDR guy and get him to understand that this level of contact is not enough?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2866 days ago

20 June 2016 (F) - Hi everyone, thanks for reading! Im not sure how to approach this - i basically need to talk to my boyfriend about being more in contact. We are doing a long distance relationship at the moment and everything was fine (we were skyping a few t...

The kisses stopped but have we?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2866 days ago

20 June 2016 (M) - Hi guys! I started chatting to a girl on Tinder a week ago, just 2 days later, we went on a date. it went really well, none stop talking and laughing. when I got home she messaged saying thanks for a fun afternoon. I asked if she'd like to go out ...

My boyfriend wants to quit his job after only 1 week. I told him I'd break up with him if he does so!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2864 days ago

20 June 2016 (F) - Hello, I would like your advice on whether I am being too harsh on my boyfriend. My boyfriend was without a job for quite some months and recently landed a customer service job. He has experience working in a call center environment before so hi...

How can I stop being used by men?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2867 days ago

20 June 2016 (F) - Ever since I turned 21 - now I am turning 30 I have always gone above and beyond for men. I would characterize myself as a young successful woman - I hold a good corporate job and two degrees and really Kee up with my appearance. Inside though I am ...

My best guy friend told me he has feelings for me, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

20 June 2016 (F) - Hey, so I'm having an issue with my best guy friend... I'll briefly explain my situation, He and I have been friends for about 3 years now. We actually met at my college, we became friends through a really odd circumstance where we just used to ...