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Will we be passing HPV back and forth if we keep having sex?

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25 May 2013 (M) - Hello, well a women friend of mine, had a pap smear, it came back she has hpv, am the only man she's been with in years, I'm wondering, I've been told it can up to 2 years for your immune system to clear it up, I know their is a lot of different ...

Please help me understand my bisexual boyfriend!

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25 May 2013 (M) - My current boyfriend, Johnny, used to go out with a 21 year old bisexual guy, Kevin. They dated for 4 years. During that time, their relationship was open from the start and Johnny who is gay, forced himself to conform to Kevin's ways and slept with ...

The little death--a man crying after sex?

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24 May 2013 (F) - I want to ask people about something I recently learnt about called "The Little Death" when a guy cries after sex. Why is this? None of my exes did this. Can someone explain this further?...

Are there some women that just do not like receiving oral sex?

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24 May 2013 (M) - Hi there, I have a question about oral sex on a woman friend (or lack of). Several months ago when we first became intimate, she performed oral on me (with condom)and i politely asked if i could return the favour. The answer to my question was 'No, ...

Is it fair on us to be considering a LDR with her, in view of our past together?

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24 May 2013 (M) - Dear Cupid I m in a tricky situation. my ex and I broke up last November after about 3 years . The relationship wasn't perfect but good. She had trust issues and at times she used to be really angry over the smallest things. We had loads of fig...

Am I facing a big problem here? Could my boyfriend be interested in this girl who talks really inappropriate sexual stuff with him?

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24 May 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm sorry but this is going to be a long post. I am really upset here and I need some advice. A girl my boyfriend knows (they're not really friends, but know each other) is always trying to talk to my boyfriend about stuff that I fee...

Why do guys pay flirty, promiscuous girls so much attention?

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23 May 2013 (F) - Do guys usually like the flirty and promiscuous type of girls? I need some advice because I hate to say I'm a little jealous of this girl I know who gets so much attention from my guy friends and just a lot of guys in general. She sleeps around wi...

No sex for 2 years - should I walk away from this otherwise happy relationship?

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23 May 2013 (F) - My mate and and I have not had sex for 2 years He says he can't get a hard on anymore, but he can materbate and watch porn alone, I am not sure if it is me or if he avoids me, I am happy about everything else in our relationship but the sex. He ...

My girlfriend may be hiding her past from me. How can I know whether she's a virgin?

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23 May 2013 (M) - Hey friends.. I have a girlfriend and i love her much. we are in relationship from past 2 months. we met and became friends in her hometown. actually i guess that she is hiding her past from me and i dont feel good..so here her past goes.. ...

My fiance says that if I gain weight, he won't make love to me in the same way! How should I respond?

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23 May 2013 (F) - My fiance has told me he hates fat women. He thinks they are disgusting and have no self control. His mother is heavy and he points to her for his reasoning. He told me, while making love to me, that if I ever gain weight, that he will not make...

I don't know if I've had an orgasm. What does it feel like?

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23 May 2013 (F) - Hey, I'm just going to get right down to what I want to ask. I just recently lost my virginity and before any of you very nice agony aunts ask if I used protection and all that. I did, that was the first thing I made sure we had, it was a whim, bu...

My bf's sex drive has dropped and I am worried he may not be interested in me. Help!

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23 May 2013 (F) - Hi all, I'm having insecurities about sex and my boyfriend. He's recently started a low carb diet to get more in shape. He's a trainer and knows a lot about food. He says his sex drive has dropped since he started it. We were doing it about 4...

Every few days we have anal sex but I hate it and scares me to think of having it all my life!

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22 May 2013 (F) - Hello! Straight to the facts: I have a rather big problem in my nearly perfect relationship. For introduction, I must inform you that I am (23) in relationship for nearly 7 month, 2 month ago we have moved together, he is so much caring and lovin...

Sex is dwindling and we are becoming more like friends, what can I do?

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22 May 2013 (M) - I always got advice that a healthy sex life was the second biggest factor to a normal relationship, without it the attraction between a male and a female in a loving loving relationship can't last, in a sense that they just aren't attracted to one ...

No sex since January. Am I being paranoid? My instincts say he's messing about, but hides things. How can I be sure of it??

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22 May 2013 (F) - Am I paranoid or is he up to something? I recently have noticed my boyfriend is acting like he's up to something lately. We haven't been intimate since January. I put this down to him having a low sex drive and he had made comments about not gett...

Distressing personal comments from my Gf :( I have told her that these comments, or jokes, are making me insecure. How do I respond when she says it's just a joke?

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22 May 2013 (M) - I have been dating my lovely girlfriend for 2 year now. We recently began having sex, both our first times. I am just above average in penis length according to many quoted sites. However she has made a few comments that have seriously den...

Do you think he has started having different feelings? If so I might as well end this relationship.

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22 May 2013 (F) - So for the past 5 months I have been in a fwb relatioinship with a friend I met thru a friend. The thing is I'm married and he's not married but is already in a relationship himself. So we work on eachothers schedule. Now the sex isn't always the...

What can I do, to stay strong, and stop myself texting him hurtful things?

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22 May 2013 (F) - my boyfriend keeps leaving the house when we start arguing and saying its over. I struggled a lot just before we met with money being on my own working mininum wage and having two kids. He has helped me out but now throws it in my face. I've gone...

No diagnosis for his ED and lack of desire! My marriage is almost destroyed by this!

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21 May 2013 (F) - I hope there are someone out there in my situation. I feel so alone with my problem. My 28 year long marriage is almost destroyed by this, and I dont know what else can I do. So my husband has a chronic sexual/erectile dysfunction, and complete ...

How do I stop being insecure about my penis size?

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21 May 2013 (M) - So im an Asian guy will be having sex with a white guy. he's amazing and that's also what he thinks about me. But as any Asian, size issues make me feel insecure. Also, this gonna be his first time being with a guy and i wanna to make it as good as ...

We haven't had sex in 6 months, there's no closeness, how do I address this with him?

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21 May 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and i havent had sex in 6months, he sleeps on the couch there is no affection what so ever. We have been having some issues aswell and things have been up and down for awhile, he says its a reaction from the issues we have been having, ...

What do you think his deal is? Does he just want to be friends with benefits? Or is he just shy and reserved?

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21 May 2013 (F) - This guy I've been hooking up with, seeing, hanging out with...not sure what to call it, is confusing me so much. I'm so unsure of how he feels towards me. Right now, I would describe our relationship as FWB. We met at work. At work, he remains...

Is it normal to obsess about the person I gave up my virginity with?

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21 May 2013 (F) - up until last week i was a virgin. Im 18 and wanted it to be with someone special and it wasn't, i lost my virginty on a 1 night stand. I regret it so much but i know theirs nothing i can do. But now i am obsessed with the guy i lost it to, i ca...

Why does he want to do it himself instead of being intimate with me?

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20 May 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 6 months and we are in love and live together. We have a really good and happy relationship apart from one thing. He would rather masturbate than have sex with me. Iv talked to him about it and he said that he ...

Guys: what's your opinion on strap-ons?

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20 May 2013 (F) - During an alcohol-fueled conversation with a (straight) male friend about a month ago, he let it slip that his ex-girlfriend had sex with him using a strap-on...and he loved it. My boyfriend has requested that I come up with some new things to do in ...

Sex with him is too long and too rough! How do I make him understand?

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20 May 2013 (F) - I just met someone , and we started having sex very fast. He is much younger and very good looking, and I know that it won't last long. It's funny how invites me to lunches and drinks, I didn't even expect this. I thought it would be somethi...

I can't have an orgasm during normal sex

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19 May 2013 (F) - Ok so this is an explicit topic but I need advice on something, that's obviously why I am here. I am worried that I am loosing my sexual stamina. I am a 21 year old female and I have never had an orgasm by a mans penis. the only way I can orgasm is ...

My boyfriend wants to call me a different name during sex!

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19 May 2013 (F) - Ok so now my Long term boyfriend has asked if he could call me by another girls name during sex. Im very uncomfrotable and seriously am thinking of breaking us up. Is this normal??? And then when I told him no he went soft during sex. Lost his hard ...

Feel hopelessly bound to him. Do I just try to get over him?

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19 May 2013 (F) - Began I relationship with a boy from a very young age. We lost our virginities to each other and were beyond in-love. Due to our age and him wanting to 'be a bloke' and hang out with 'his boys' and the pressure of us having to get on with our live...

So why am I feeling conflicted about progressing this to sex with her? Seemed the logical next option.

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19 May 2013 (M) - I've recently began a self-improvement kick, beginning to exercise, be more social, exude confidence. I'm getting female attention for the first time in ages. I really hit it off with a girl at a party last week, we spoke a lot and ended up holding ...

I haven't had sex in 10 years. Will my sex drive stop if I don't have sex?

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18 May 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am in my early fourties haven't had sex in ten years of my life I was wondering will my sex drive go away if I don't hurry up and have sex.I don't use vibrators, no sex toys period I just try to keep my mind on other things like every ...

How do I keep him still wanting to meet up?

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18 May 2013 (F) - Hi, I recently separated coming out of a 17 years of emotional and sometimes physical abuse; i now see myself as a strong independent woman with a respectable career and i believe no one looking at me could really guess what I'm coming out of. Now I ...

My husband wants sex but I dont!

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18 May 2013 (F) - Please help! I have been married to my husband for 13 years. We have three beautiful children and are financially stable. My husband is the provider and I am a stay- at- home mom. Other than our sexual problem, we have a wonderful relationship. ...

I still want to be with her but she was my bestfriend's lover. What are my options?

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18 May 2013 (M) - three months back my best friend introduced me to his galfriend,a few days from there we became friends with ma friend's galfriend.. Before i knew it we fell in love ,within days of the affair we got caught and i lost a friend,to make things wors...

Is it normal to climax quickly after the first round of sex?

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17 May 2013 (M) - Hello guys, this is a thing disturbing me and I'll try keeping this question as short as possible. Am 19 and whenever I've sex my first round is like a "quickie". I can bearly last for more than 2 min but the second and third round I can at least...

My friend is acting as if our hot making out meant nothing!

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17 May 2013 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of two years because he treated me like crap, but I was really feeling down so I started hanging out with a friend. Yesterday I was riding home with they guy and things just kind of happened and we ended up making out in ...

He "wants to bang other girls"

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17 May 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together a year at the end of this month. He went on a "rugby tour" with alot of his rugby friends about a week ago, and since then a lot of his people have been saying to me "I just want to bang other girls" now until ...

My boyfriend says he has no desire for sex because of arguments we've had in the past

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17 May 2013 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 1 1/2 years. In the beginning we were very sexual. Now, every time I get near him and touch him intimately, he jerks. He says he does not have the desire for sex. He has issues with finishing. I have my own issues, ...

Should I talk to him again and explain that I want more than FWB?

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17 May 2013 (F) - It's been about 2years that I met this guy and we were instantly attracted, talked for a few weeks and then had our first "hook-up". I've talked to him two different times that I deserve more, I want more and I don't want to be his "F-buddy"!!! ...

Guilt over massage parlour visit

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17 May 2013 (M) - Hi all Please excuse the adult language, no other way to describe it I'm afraid. 5 years ago, I was living in Vietnam and went to a shady massage place where they offer extras. A few minutes in the girl started to touch my penis. I asked h...

Attempts at sex cause pain and bleeding. This isn't right is it?

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17 May 2013 (F) - So I've been trying to have sex with my boyfriend and whenever he inserts his penis in my vagina the pain is awful and then I begin to bleed. So as soon as its hurting I ask him to take it out, which he does. I thought once you inserted at least ...

Why is the smell of his cum so strong?

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17 May 2013 (F) - After sex if my husband cums inside me afterwards some comes out and if it gets on my panties(specifically lacey ones) it turns the color of my panties. Like bleaching them. Also it smells really strong even when dry. Is this normal what could cause ...

Did I sleep with my boyfriend too soon?

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17 May 2013 (F) - Did I sleep with my boyfriend too soon? I slept with him after a few months of knowing him as a friend, and then after two months of dating. I was planning on waiting until marriage, but he was sleeping with other girls and said he would continue to ...

Sex for the first time. Birth control options?

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17 May 2013 (F) - I'm 22 years old and a virgin. I have been single for two years. During my previous relationships, I wasn't ready or interested in sex, but now I am. I've been dating a guy for a couple months. The relationship is still new, but I want to be ...

Is he avoiding me because of the blood or because he never really cared?

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17 May 2013 (F) - Hello, this is a little long but please do read. This is a bit of a messy situation, literally. Yesterday i interviewed a man who i have a serious crush on, a very sexy handsome man with massive muscles, i sat next to him to take a picture and aske...

I have never met anyone like him and I'm really confused by him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

16 May 2013 (F) - Hi all, I posted a question a few weeks ago to determine whether or not the guy I had started seeing was intersted. I am a 36 year old, ordinarily together woman, however feel like a confused teenager at the moment. I have been kind of seein...

About Intimacy with BF vs. Self...

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16 May 2013 (F) - Is there any reason why I seem to get wetter when my boyfriend uses his hands on me versus my own? I can't say I think about it when it happens but I have always noticed my underwear, clothing, sheets, etc...more saturated after I climax when he is ...

How do I get over my girlfriend's past?

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16 May 2013 (M) - My girlfriend (20) and I (19) go to the same college, and have been together for the past couple months. It's been, for the most part, an excellent relationship. We care for each other a great deal; heck, I think I'm in love with her. And, for the ...

I want a relationship just not sure if I want it with him

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15 May 2013 (F) - Dear agony aunts, I'm in a situation where I really don't understand my own feelings, and I don't think that's ever happened to me before. There's this guy I'm crazy about, when we're together I feel in love, we have great conversations, the...

How do I casually set up a situation for oral sex?

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15 May 2013 (F) - my boyfriend and i have fooled around before and i like it and i know he wants to do more but i've never done any of that before. hes felt me up and fingered me but thats the most ive ever done. ive never given a blowjob or a handjob and i feel ...