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How can I ask him to make sex more meaningful for me?

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20 November 2009 (F) - I'm 25 years old and my husband is 33. We have been married for 2 years now and have a beautiful 18 month old daughter. We got married after dating for only 2 months, because I got pregnant. Sex is now becoming more of a chore than it should b...

Should I come clean and tell him the truth?

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20 November 2009 (F) - Ok, I need some general help here, I am really into this guy, who says he's into me but nothing too heavy, I didn't want a FWB but it's what we have, all we have done is kissed and some oral, he now wants sex but I have told him I am not ready yet ...

What it the appeal of bad boys?

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20 November 2009 (M) - Girls like badboys? I was at the bar the other night and me and my friend got into a conversation with two other nice young ladies and one of the bar tenders. First I must make the assumption that all girls are attracted to 'bad boys' and in the...

My girlfriend dated celebrities and I'm not sure what to make of it

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20 November 2009 (M) - I met my girlfriend 5 months ago in a nightclub through a friend. We got chatting and after an hour I got her number and arranged to meet her at her place to watch a movie. I was busy with work and didnt call. I saw her in the same club a week later ...

Is it normal to think sex is disgusting?

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20 November 2009 (F) - I am 33 yrs old and could care less if I had sex again!! It's gross, and disgusting I have to be drunk to have sex with my husband. Is that normal, and how do you think I should handle it?...

What do guys want a girl to do in bed?

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20 November 2009 (F) - Ok so... this actually a question for guys. What are guys really looking for? When I'm with my bf I'm sometimes a bit stiff and don't move a lot. I know that all guys are different, but in general how do guys like to be touched?...

Can anyone tell me what these secretions are?

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20 November 2009 (M) - i am almost 16 now. about 6 months back, i was sleeping when i got these really erotic dreams. now usually if i get erotic dreams there's semen secretion. but the next morning when i woke up, there was no semen. but instead, there was this really ...

He slept with me even though he had an STD but I still like him!

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20 November 2009 (F) - ok so here goes... i met this man who says he really likes me. we did oral sex but nothing else he texted me and rang all the time and i met up with him again and had unprotected sex. he continued to tell me he really liked me ect and we arranged ro ...

How do I turn my FWB into something more?

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20 November 2009 (F) - So there's this guy that I like, but I don't feel like he feels the same way I do. We are currently in a friends with benefits relationship, but I want it to be more. It would be very hard for us to be in a relationship, because I do online ...

I want to get pregnant, how do I bring this up with my boyfriend? And after our last unprotected sex, is there a chance I could be pregnant?

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20 November 2009 (F) - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into the same post] Question 1: When me and my boyfriend have sex we never use condoms. he always just pulls out. well the other night we had sex and he pulled out and came nea...

I want to spend the rest of my life with him but I'm not sure he feels the same way about me!

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20 November 2009 (F) - i have asked this questions,he doesn't want to marry a person who already have a child,is he using me until he finds someone for his life and i want to stop cheating but he dont satisfy me sexually.all this questions are from me and it speaks of ...

He just wont touch, kiss or hold me...and we've only been married 46 days!

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20 November 2009 (F) - Hi. I've been married for just under 2 months, been with him 5 years. We're both 25. Lived together for 3 years. In the past 2 years, our sex life has diminished drastically. Mind you, in the past two years, he's been in University doing a ...

Should I question him about this or leave it be?

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20 November 2009 (F) - Hi I would really like the aunts interpreration of this man. I'm in a relationship with a guy we are both around 60. we have great sex and enjoy it very much.but sometimes he doesn't cum like today he always tells me how beautiful the love making is ...

Ex still wants sexual favors... WHY?

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20 November 2009 (F) - my bf and I live together but have just recently broken up. He asks me for hand-jobs, why? We are broken up but he asks me for hand jobs and also asked me if I still want something from him. I said I don't want anything sexual from him because we ...

Sexually frustrated new mom... help!

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20 November 2009 (F) - My husband and I are very young. We have been together for two + years, I got married when i was 18 and my husband was my first sex partner! I just a few weeks ago had a baby, our first. I am very sexually frustrated, (you can't have sex for at ...

Phone sex making fiance sleepy... am I just a sexual relationship?

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20 November 2009 (F) - Why is it that every time after we have phone sex my fiance gets very sleepy afterwards. I mean well have phone sex a couple times a day sometimes, then shortly afterwards, he's over there snoozing. Am I the only one that this happens to. When he ...

Bf has 11 inch penis... how can we make sex more comfortable for me?

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20 November 2009 (F) - Please take this seriously. Me and my boyfriend have been trying to have sex for a while, we have been going out for 5 years and trying for the last few months. It is really hurting me, and it is becoming unpleasant, we just end up arguing....

I bled after masturbating - what happened?

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20 November 2009 (F) - some day before i did sex with my finger. my boyfriend see me on web cam and he told me how to do.i did that. he told me do it with pen so i take 2 pen and i did with pen.after sometime i get blood i dont know how its come. i am in tension and i ...

Is oral sex on a woman better than intercourse for them?

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19 November 2009 (F) - Is oral sex on a woman better than intercourse? I'm better at sex when I'm tipsy, I come out of my shell. Is that normal??...

How can I make sex more fun?

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19 November 2009 (F) - I am thick and i am a little shy at times so my main question is how to ignore shyness and just let loose when having sex with my boyfriend? I also want to know how to make our sex relationship more fun. What can i do to show the real me because i ...

Why wont he make the first move when we have sex?

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19 November 2009 (F) - Okay, so I am wondering. Why is it that I ALWAYS have to get it going? In order to have sex, why can't he ever do it? And how can I make it more comfortable to give him a bj? I mean I used to swallow but one day it was just so much that I gagg...

Bedroom issues...

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19 November 2009 (F) - I enjoy sex, the problem is my husband has a small penis that I can't feel. He's clumsy in bed and has never made me orgasm. I have tried talking to him about it and he gets angry and starts saying that I don't love him so I have faked more orgasms ...

He didn't "cum", did I do something wrong??

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19 November 2009 (F) - Ok everyone, this is actually going red writing this but i need to know, i recently slept with this guy i meet about 2 weeks ago we slept together on a sat and on following monday, and both times he didnt cum, in fact i did loads and with other se...

I think he's getting bored. How can I make it more fun in bed?

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19 November 2009 (F) - i have been with my partner for 2 years now and im affraid he is getting bored in the bed room because i am scared to try new things. i recently discovered that i enjoy being on top but feel that i dont know the right way of doing so. i would like ...

Are these doubts to be expected when you are entering into a life-long comittment?

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19 November 2009 (F) - I am engaged to a really great hardworking man, we are from different cultures which means there has been a lot of learning in the relationship about how we each do things, what’s expected of each other and so on, some of those expectations we ...

Is there a problem with falling in love with a girl who is older than you?

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19 November 2009 (M) - Hi cupid, i have serious question about my relationship with a girl who i met on the internet. am 22 and she's 23. she senior me with a year. she knows that. we have dated about two months now and we also shared pictures and web cam.she's very happy ...

We've always had a thing for each other but sex didnt quite go to plan, any ideas why?

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19 November 2009 (F) - This is a long question. Please read and help me the best you can Im 16 years old and for a year and a half now Ive been in love with someone. We spoke about being together, but he'd often say he liked other people and mess me around. He said ...

Married but cannot stop thinking about having sex with any woman I see or meet!

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19 November 2009 (M) - Asked this question previousley ,neeed more answers.. i am a married man and i always think of having sex with any woman(of course a charming woman) i see or meet....at times these are my young aunts or a girl on the next desk in my office or my ...

Why no erection?

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19 November 2009 (M) - hi. i'm 17 boy. i masturbate rarely. except masturbation, i never had a erection in my life. i never had any girlfriend, i don't watch porn. but i get attracted by physical beauty of girls. i've never been closer to any girl. so do you think my not ...

After sex I'm afraid he'll disappear!

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19 November 2009 (F) - I've been dating a guy for a cpl of months.Not sure what we are.Hadnt seen him in a cpl wks.So we got together - had a fun movie/pizza night.So one thing lead to another and we slept together.I dont normally have sex until I'm sure im in a ...

I missed a few pills, unprotected sex, and now I'm worried!

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19 November 2009 (F) - this a bit of a hard and weird question to be asking but i am a bit worried, i am on the contraceptive pill and obviously i have missed a few pills in the month that i am now in and on the 16th nov a few days ago i had unprotected sexual ...

Any tips on giving my boyfriend oral? And was my experience last night normal?

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19 November 2009 (F) - Hi, just a couple of questions. My boyfriend fingered me last night and got a different 'spot' to normal. It normally feels really good, but is over in a few seconds, this felt ok but my legs were shaking the whole time, is this normal? Also, I w...

How to approach the subject of giving and receiving oral?

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19 November 2009 (M) - Hi i need some information on how to approach a girl whilst in foreplay and to either give or recieve oral?? Because im too shy to ask for a blowjob and im scared to pull her pants down and give her orar due to she might freak out and run off or hit ...

He cant cum when I give him a blowjob because of the big "mental' component to it! What am I doing wrong?

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19 November 2009 (F) - Hi Guys, I've been going out with a friend of mine for about a month now, and although we're both VERY different we get along great. However, the other night I decided to give him a blowjob, which he thoroughly appreciated (OK, who wouldn't), but a...

My girlfriend had a one night stand before she met me and my family knows about it!

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19 November 2009 (M) - I lost my virginity to my recent girlfriend and she has slept with two people before me. Only one of them bother me since it was a one night stand which she ended up having sex with twice. My cousin was there in the same house the first time she did ...

Getting a blow job?

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19 November 2009 (M) - Hey guys what does it feel like to get a Blow Job? -Thanks...

She reaches climax too soon!

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19 November 2009 (M) - hey this is my first time asking for help...anyway.... I'm 19 and I love my girlfriend so much,but I'm having problems with her in bed. What I mean is that she cums really really fast. 5 minutes fast. This is frustrating caus it takes me about 45 ...

I orgasm thinking of my ex. Does this mean I'm still attracted to him?

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19 November 2009 (F) - hi i love my boyfriend more than anything in this world, been together for ten months but i have known him for years. we are really close and we have so much fun together. its just the other night when we was having sex i thought about my ex and i...

I need some opinions about sex toys

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19 November 2009 (F) - What are your favourite sex toys? OPINIONS PLEASE ...

Suggested sexual positions please!

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19 November 2009 (F) - ok well me n my best guy friend r plannin on doin it n we want to kow what kind of um sex positions can we do??? plz tell me all da ones u know n explain them to me plz im desperate...

Why won't any man have sex with me?

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18 November 2009 (F) - I am a female in my early twenties. I have been told I am attractive. I am slender yet have nice curves, a very noticeable smile and nice long hair. I am educated, intelligent, well mannered and have been told I have a great personality and a fa...

My husband and I are usually miserable. Is it worth fixing?

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18 November 2009 (F) - ive been married for two years and with my husband for almost 6 years all together.. i love him . but all we do is fight. the sex life is terrible and we have good days were we are happy but most of the time we are miserable.. should we call it ...

I'm overwhelmed by condom selections! Any tips?

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18 November 2009 (M) - Hey, Me and my girlfriend are thinking of having sex. And it sounds embarrasing, but when i looked in the shop for condoms, i was completely confused on how many different types there are. Can anyone help me out, and tell me the best 'DUREX...

I am taunted about my chest size. Is it really that important?

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18 November 2009 (F) - i am 15 and have small bust, one of my friend (girl in the group who i get along with less) keeps taking the piss out of the size of my bust and was laughing about me when a lad said 'she'll never be able to feed a baby...', it got me down and my ...

The woman I love is there, but ignoring me. How can I reach her?

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18 November 2009 (M) - Just over two years ago I met the most incredible and beautiful woman. She is a professional Dominatrix and I had sought out her services to indulge some 'kinks'. However, we hit it off and never did anything professionally. We became really good ...

I feel so stupid because I fooled around with this guy at work!

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18 November 2009 (F) - I need some help, I feel so stupid. This is long - sorry. Me and a guy at work have been flirting for a long time I have always said never to a work thing but one day we were both working late and one thing let to another and we kissed, a bit la...

Why do women sleep with married men?

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18 November 2009 (F) - Why do women who fool around with a married man get it into their thick skulls that men are using them....why do these women persist with married men, is it low self esteem issue, does it give them a high that this man whos morals are clearly not ...

I haven't been myself lately and I am worried I am pregnant!

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18 November 2009 (F) - im 17 years old and have been with my boyfriend for almost a year he is 24, we are in love and are very close. there have been a few times over the past few weeks that the condom split...i put it to the back of my mind and told myself i'll be okay. ...

My boyfriend thinks I am too young to be the mother of his baby.

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18 November 2009 (F) - i am a virgin and would love to have sex with my bf and become his child's mom but my bf says that i'm very young to be the mother of his kid and he would make me pregnant only aftr i finish my college but i want it rite now and i have gone mad ...

Did the father of my baby give me Gardnerella Bacterial Vaginalis?

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18 November 2009 (F) - I want to know what people think are the signs of a cheating man. I am currently pregnant - about the half way mark...and the father of baby has been on and off with me for most of this pregnancy which I finally told him point blank am fed up of the ...