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I need my boyfriend to want me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted yesterday

22 January 2019 (F - i recently met this guy and i feel good about things. He is well hot and seems v nice. The trouble is he is a bit backwards at coming forward. My last B/f was like a mad stud in and out the bedroomanad we would just do stuff were and when ever. Th...

He deleted his dating profile. Did he meet someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted today

22 January 2019 (F - Ive been on 4 dates with a guy I met since Oct. I blew him off a few times because I was worried having sex too soon would ruin things but i do really like him. I was tired of all my past relationship mistakes by sleeping too soon and never getting ...

Should a man break up with a woman over not getting enough sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

19 January 2019 (M - Been in a relationship for two years, am 63, she is 58, I work one job she has one full time job an a part time job. I pretty much live with her, own my own house to.what's up is maybe sex once every two months, she always got an excuse.she just ...

I lied to my boyfriend about the time frame last time I had sex before him. He STILL doesn't know the actual truth. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

19 January 2019 (F - Hey all! I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 months now. We are both 26 years old and in very transitional phases of our lives. We also recently (within the last year) ended long term (3-6year) relationships. Both relationships we...

I can't climax and I'm worried he will leave me because of it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

14 January 2019 (F - Hi, I am in need of some advice. I have been dating a really nice man for over a month. We have been intimate with him a few times. It was an amazing experience even though, I did not climax. He seemed really worried about it. Would tell me when I ...

I feel like he loves me but isn't interested in sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

13 January 2019 (F - My man and I use to have sex all the time, couldn't get enough of each other.for the past few months, he never initiates, he says he is having a hard time getting hard.I try all kinds of things, I even please myself in front of him. I feel like he ...

My FWB hookup told me he had decided to date me until he found out I had sex with someone else

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

10 January 2019 (F - Since December 21 I've been intimate with someone. He knew I liked someone else but me being conflicted didn't know if I'd act on it or not. After our second sexual encounter I asked him if he wanted to date me he declined saying he just wanted to ...

My boyfriend tries to have anal sex without my permission. Does he not respect me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

9 January 2019 (F - I am 64 female,boyfriend is 60,seeing each other for 6 weeks now and have had amazing sex,he is much more sexually experienced and into porn very much. He tried to enter me analy without asking me and I jumped back because it really hurt,told him ...

Has my husband lost interest in me sexually?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

4 January 2019 (F - Hello!! Me and my husband have dated for 3 years and we just got married last summer. I love him so much and he loves me the same. But there was things of been bothering me....:( We used to have very active for sex when we started dating. And i...

Why am I not as interested in sex as I should be?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

2 January 2019 (F - I dont quite get it. Im 22, have been having sex since i was 16. I've never really been one for it thoughm and it seems like the older i get the less it even interests me. My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years and things were hot and ...

Sex has changed with my partner ever since my dad died. How can I fix this problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

2 January 2019 (F - Hi. Since my dad died 4 months ago, I have been having a hard time going back to the sexual self I used to be. I used to be more aggressive in bed and liked more animalistic sex, but since my dad died, it seems I am unable to go back to that. The ...

A stranger offered herself to me to help me lose my virginity. Do I accept?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

2 January 2019 (M - I will be 20 very soon and am still a virgin. I have tried to date probably more than a hundred women and have always been rejected. I have contemplated visiting an escort but don't want to lose my dignity doing so. Out of a whim I posted an ad o...

I had unprotected sex with a friend and now I am worried

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

1 January 2019 (F - I had unprotected sex with a friend . I don’t know what I was thinking but I’m so worried now. I thought he had a condom but I got carried away when he said he doesn’t . I had to ask him after a couple of days and he said he doesn’t have any...

I feel guilty about my sexual past

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

1 January 2019 (F - I know this ja going to sound very silly but lately I’ve started feeling very guilty about my experiences . I’m 27 as of now. I was committed to a single guy for 5 years from high school and fell for a friend after breakup. I didn’t sleep with any ...

Why would a guy hold back from sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

1 January 2019 (F - Why would a guy hold back from sex ? ive started dating a guy for the last 4 week (we only see each other no-one else ) we have done everything apart from sleep together. He did say he wanted to wait until date 5 before sleeping with me. He ...

I feel like the laughing stock because I want boundaries

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

31 December 2018 (F - I'm wondering if this situation is worth breaking up over. Right now we're on the brinks because I'm mad about it. The guy I've been seeing for almost a year now is a hippie, I'm not, though i like to party with hippies sometimes. We had a brief ...

He wont have sex with me and prefers porn.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

31 December 2018 (F - We have had a rough relationship. 2 years+. Hes cheated, and always put me in competition. Now we have a baby and he loves him so much, but he cheated on me when i was pregnant. Its been an abusive relationship ever since the 5th month. He ...

Older man wont leave his girlfriend for me.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

27 December 2018 (F - I started an emotional and physical affair with a man I work with around this time last year. He started seeing someone about 3/4 months before me and him started talking. He's 15 years older than me,I'm 32 he's 47. We connected on a level I never ...

My ex saw my hairy nipples! Is that enough to end years of great sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

27 December 2018 (F - The other night I ran into my ex while drunk and went home with him. It was spontaneous and so I didn’t have time to “prepare” myself for him.. I didn’t sleep with him that night (although he tried, persistently) but everything seemed as it was...

Male friend wants to discuss sexual fantasies ....he has a girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

25 December 2018 (F - No, I am not looking to make him my boyfriend Just want to know if its normal for men with girlfriends to want to talk to their female friends about their sexual fantasies? he even asked if i had a boyfriend and when i asked why he said because...

Is my roommate pleasuring himself with my clothes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

24 December 2018 (F - I have three roommates. Two of them, a man and a woman, are married. He doesn't give me the creeps or weird rape-y looks, and my gut feelings have always been spot-on in the past. However, this time, I think I have physical proof of sexual ...

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