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My fiance is a virgin but I've slept with 6 people and had an abortion. Do I need to tell him all this?

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19 September 2018 (F - Hi, I am engaged to a wonderful guy from the last 5 months, we are going to get married this December 2018,I came to know by investigation and inspection and his views and thoughts and actions, that he is a virgin and he is against premarital sex ...

Would it be ok to ask my mum to buy me a vibrator?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

15 September 2018 (F - I'm 17 and have the money to buy a vibrator, but I have no way of actually getting one by myself. I don't have any friends old enough to take me some where that will sell them to people under 18, and I don't have a credit/debit card so I can't buy ...

We had sex and now I haven't heard from him in 3 weeks. Did he like me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

14 September 2018 (F - Did he liked me? We met off Tinder? I met a guy off tinder a month half go. I am 28, he is 30. He messaged me first and I suggested meeting right away. He said okay and we met and it weird first a little because I was attracted to him and felt shy...

My new boyfriend has become obsessed about my past

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

13 September 2018 (F - Hi there I ended my marriage a year ago due to domestic violence. I was married for 10 years and have 2 children out of this marriage. I'm in a long term relationship with this wonderful man - very caring, sympathetic, logical and strong minded p...

I want child number 5 but hubby says he is done!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

11 September 2018 (F - I have 4 children with my husband, 2 have not been planned and 2 have. He’s been indicating ‘no more’ since our second. Our third child we were using condoms and he didn’t use a condom one time which resulted in the third child. Being the complete ...

Why won't my feelings diminish for a LDR girl? Was it the crazy compatible sex I can't get over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

10 September 2018 (M - Has anyone experienced something like this? I was with a girl for 2 months around one year ago. It was exciting, intense, then she left to China. I am in UK. I thought the feelings would die down but they didn't. She still talks and occasionally ...

Why do I get so turned off after sexual contact?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

9 September 2018 (M - I am male and am 21 years old. I'm currently on the dating scene but whenever I'm with someone it seems to be that I am lusting them and after it gets any further I get an immense feeling to be with them sexually, then after any sexual contact is ...

Is this relationship based on sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

6 September 2018 (F - I am in a weird relationship with a 48 year old man. I lost my virginity to him but lied I was on my period. I had sex because I was ready to and do not feel an ounce of guilt. All I wanted from him was to have sex, get over with the pain and move ...

Should I call him out or just drop it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

6 September 2018 (F - Back story: I started seeing this guy back in February, but ONLY as a hookup (my intention at the time, since I was getting out of a 6 year relationship). This lasted for a couple months, and near the end of the couple months, I realized I was s...

I have an IUD and we don't have condoms so why did I find them in my boyfriend's things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

6 September 2018 (F - Me an my fiance have been together for almost 10 years we are in our 20s an have a daughter an wanting more kids lol but we were going to bed when he comes in an puts his cigarettes an that down an he leaves the room an I look were he put them cuz ...

I helped him through depression but now our sex life is gone!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

4 September 2018 (F - Hi all. I’m so lost right now. A year ago I met an amazing man, instantly I felt a connection. It sounds silly but I wasn’t looking for a romantic relationship and they say it’s when you stop looking you find it. I’m a 25 year old busines...

She's had more sexual experience than I have. Will I regret it later?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

3 September 2018 (M - I'm a 25 year old guy, my girlfriend is 33. We've been on/off for a year and have quite a strong bond (we broke up once, recently rekindled it, now its getting serious again. No other partners in the inbetween) I have a real problem with our...

Did my girlfriend cheat on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

3 September 2018 (M - I’m 43yrs of age I been with my girlfriend for 14yrs an she is 32yrs of age. for the last few months we been having alot of great sex like everyday then one day for 3hrs she went to work and next day we had sex an her vagina was alittle opening ...

Is it unreasonable that I don't want to know about his personal masterbation habits?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

2 September 2018 (F - I hope this question is not too vulgar. It's actually quite personal and embarrassing but I'm not sure how to handle my situation most effectively without some advice. I'm sorry for the length. It's a two part question i guess. A few weeks ag...

My partner betrayed me by breaking our swinging rules

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

27 August 2018 (F - Me and my partner tried swinging it was his idea. Before I drank alcahol I told him what I was and was not ok with and that he should respect my wishes. He said ok. I got drunk and he broke all the rules (sex and kissing) I had discussed with h...

My will be joining another couple for a threesome

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

26 August 2018 (M - So let me start by saying my wife and I have been married for 8 years an are blessed/ deeply in love. So last night we had a couple over for cocktails, I was at work when they arrived and when I got there my wife was already buzzed and was acting v...

Lack of sex is causing me to feel unloved and unwanted. I'm a newlywed!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

25 August 2018 (F - I need direction and I am so lost. My newly wed husband and I dated almost a year before we married. Engaged for only 3 months I thought this is what I have waited so long for. after the first night of our honeymoon I had this gut feeling something ...

Accidental work fling with a subordinate

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

22 August 2018 (F - I began a new job back in October - which was my first real directing title. At the time I was given a number two as well as any other team members I needed to develop the area. In the beginning it was very hard for me and my no.2 to see eye to e...

I’m not a sex doll with a bottomless purse and no needs of my own!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

20 August 2018 (F - I've been with my bf for 3 and a half years. Recently we are not getting along. I had a great job but I found out they were going to replace me so I quit. I tried to find a new job and I couldn't find one for 2 months. Which meant my partner had to ...

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