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My girlfriend is perfect, but I want an open relationship.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted yesterday

11 November 2018 (M - Hi people. I met my current girlfriend a little over two years ago and I was not the social type back then. I never really went out a lot and hanging out with friends was pretty much 'indoor'. After I met her I became very outgoing. We went t...

I love him but I feel sad and ignored.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

10 November 2018 (F - Hello everyone, I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months, but things have been rocky lately. Here's a little background info: i'm 27 and he's 36 years old, and has 4 kids. I do not have any kids of my own. Things were good in the beginn...

I cheated, fell pregnant, boyfriend left, I believe its his baby.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

9 November 2018 (F - I cheated on my boyfriend and I found out I was pregnant in a month time. When I told my boyfriend about it he told me to give birth but after he will have a DNA test. I had to tell him the truth that I cheated on him.he then said he is not ...

I don't want to hurt his feelings but I don't see this being a long term forever thing

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

8 November 2018 (F - I've been seeing a guy since August we both got out of relationships shortly before so we just decided to have fun with it. we've known each other since March and got on well as friends but as both of us were in relationships we never displayed any ...

I'm sick of this man being a ghost in our relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

8 November 2018 (M - Early this year my girlfriend did an internship in another city. I was too busy to visit and she didn't have much time either, so she only travelled back here a couple of times. I missed her and was looking forward to her getting back. Then she ...

My sex obsessed friend makes me feel uncomfortable.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

7 November 2018 (M - I have a best friend who is obsessed with sex. He talks about sex endlessly. He details everything he does with every guy (he’s gay). Every week there is someone new, every week the sex was amazing and without really checking I’m interested he will ...

We are on a break but working on our relationship ... he doesn't understand how his actions affected me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

7 November 2018 (F - 7 months ago, my ex and I broke up, mutually. Our relationship was long-term. A few days after our breakup I accidentally read a conversation in his facebook account between him and a female friend. The conversation was very intimate, and almost ...

She loves me but has a LDR boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

7 November 2018 (M - A girl has a boyfriend but she loves me. Her boyfriend lives far than Im living close to me. We had sex several times and we both promise to get married but she is yet break up with him? I need some advice.....

We have fun and the sex is amazing but then why doesn't he fall for me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

5 November 2018 (F - Hey all. I feel like a spoilt brat here, like Verruca Salt when she can't get what she wants. I've completely fallen for a co worker. He works in another office and lives 80 miles away. He lives alone (divorced with a son) as I live with parents ...

I'm looking for new ways for us to be intimate

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

4 November 2018 (F - My bf is paraplegic, we get intament using a vibrator, I am looking for new ways to be intament with him so he can be hands free. He is amazing with what he can do, but we are looking for something that feels close to the real deal, any ideas? We ...

How do I stop myself repeating the past with a different guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

29 October 2018 (F - I’ve been using Tinder a lot recently and I recently met up with a guy who was in my city as part of a touring musical. We met up, he brought me flowers and took me for dinner. We had a night of amazing sex and a following perfect day. We ...

I'm in a messed up situation with a guy from another country

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

29 October 2018 (F - Hey dear agony aunts I met this guy one month ago (B) who got my number from a friend of mine. We started talking casually. B doesn’t live in our country and he told me he while we were just talking that he had a girlfriend in a different country ...

A friend is interested in a poly-amorous relationship but how do I tell my wife?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

29 October 2018 (M - I and my wife have been married for 40 years and our love for each other is as solid now as it ever has been. Our sex life up until 8 years ago was very satisfying. Eight years ago my wife sustained an injury which has left her house bound. She ...

I'm hurt, confused, angry and betrayed.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

28 October 2018 (M - So Last night I texted my gf and asked her how it started and she said that they met at a mutual friends house and he went up to her and they started talking about regulsr shit at first. Eventually they started chatting over what...

I’m excited at the concept of an open relationship but I’m not really happy with the current situation.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

26 October 2018 (M - My girlfriend of 6 years is studying abroad for a year (since mid-September). We’re fairly committed to each other so we are trying to do long distance. We are also fairly sexual people but have only ever really been with each other. We are also ...

I think my bf is bored with me and I'm feeling insecure about sex

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

25 October 2018 (F - So lately I’ve been feeling insecure about sex. Me and my bf had an argument that he was following strippers on Instagram. He ended up deleting it. I told him that it made me feel disrespected and insecure. He said that he thought about why he ...

I think my husband is deliberately making himself unnatractive to me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

24 October 2018 (F - My husband never showers or brushes his teeth when he is home with me , even if it’s a whole week . We’ve been married less than two years. The last time we had sex was three months ago , he says he’s tired from working but watches porn ( ...

I have a question about porn.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

21 October 2018 (M - I have a question about porn. My grandparents are pretty strict and almost never leave the house. Well, they do but Grandma works part time and Grandpa is retired and is actually a Deacon but they are never gone at the same time unless I'm in ...

He didn't disclose his real age. Am I overreacting?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

21 October 2018 (F - I met a guy several months ago, when we were taking an evening class together. I was too shy to talk to anyone for a while, but then one day he and I found we took the same route home after class. We got talking. I mentioned I'd just had my 25th ...

When discussing sexual history, do handjobs count as sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

20 October 2018 (? - When discussing sexual history should people you didn't have sex with but gave handjobs to count? I know to count oral and vaginal ( I never had anal.) but do handjobs you've given typically go into that count?...

Should I be upset that my FWB partner is having sex with others and lied about it

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

15 October 2018 (F - I have been having sex with a friend but he said he having been with anyone else but I caught him with another woman should I be angry or not because we are not dating? please help me because im mad as hell....

I have an anal sex question and can't find answers

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

15 October 2018 (F - Hi, Okay this probably sounds stupid. But please give me some serious answers... I would appreciate it. Yesterday my husband and I had anal sex and he came inside. Today, more than 24 hours later, we had anal and vaginal sex both. Can th...

He loves me, wants me for his wife.. but also wants sex with other women. Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

13 October 2018 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over two years; we're in our thirties and met on a dating site. We've been having a great time together and at this point we're discussing a path to marriage and children, but I'm having trouble ...

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