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Is there a risk of prostate cancer if you don't masturbate or have sex?

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7 November 2009 (M) - Hi Cupid,I asked this question here last time about the word masturbation. this question confused me sometimes, i want to be sure of it. my question is, a person that still a virgin whether a boy or a girl. like a boy that still a virgin. if the ...

In my mind I want to have sex with every woman I see and meet... Why?!

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7 November 2009 (M) - i am a married man and i always think of having sex with any woman(of course a charming woman) i see or meet....at times these are my young aunts or a girl on the next desk in my office or my cousins who are married or sexy school girls whom i see ...

I'm 15 and really mature. I want a baby and I think I'm ready...?

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7 November 2009 (F) - Im almost 16 and I really want a baby. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and he says that he is ready for a baby. He is almost 19, Im wondering what you guys think?.. I'm a really mature young lady and I've been though a lot in my life ...

Should I use a condom for anal sex with my wife?

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7 November 2009 (M) - should i use a condom for anal sex with my wife? how do you make sure its clean in the a hole? thanks in advance....

How can I tell if a girl is as horny as me?

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7 November 2009 (M) - hi, im 13 and i love masterbating. but see everyone at school knows i do it and i cant get a girlfriend and i want to have sex really bad. know one at my school is sexually interested as me can yall help me any tips on my subject matter just ...

I don't know where to start trying to repair this friendship...?

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7 November 2009 (M) - hi, months ago i fell in love with a girl completely, she had a boyfriend she did things with me... weve recently started uni and stupidly whilst drunk (i know thats no real excuse) told her sister what i had done with her sister. The girl who i di...

My self esteem is suffering because my girlfriend won't have sex with me!

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7 November 2009 (M) - Hi. I have a girlfreind, before she was my best friend for 4 years. She means the world to me, and i seriously mean, she has given me a reason to live. we were together for 9 months and broke up a week and back together for a month, so 10 months in ...

How do I 'ramp up' the intensity?

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6 November 2009 (M) - I'm dating a woman 10 years my junior who has a lot more experience than me. She has made it clear that she enjoys rougher sex (she revealed her safe word on our first date) but I don't really know where to start. My previous partners (and me, by ...

I'm ready to introduce sex back into our marriage...How do I approach my wife?

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6 November 2009 (M) - Ridiculously, we have let our marriage slip into a nearly sexless funk for 2+ years. Our second child was born in January and we've only been intimate a couple of times since she conceived. We've always been pretty low on the libido front, our ...

I'm 14, and I love masturbating, but I cant orgasm!

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6 November 2009 (F) - This is kind if a hard question for me to ask but I really like masterbating and like I will be in the bathroom for hours. I find ways to make myself crazy. but I can not orgasm!! is there something wrong with me I'm a healthy 14 your old girl. ...

My friends are talking about having sex, I feel ashamed.

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6 November 2009 (F) - ok this is a really embarrasin thing to ask but here goes...all my friends are 13-14 year olds but talking about already have sex, im still a virgin and when im with my friends it feels like something i should be ashamed of i dont know what to do ...

What should I do while my bf sucks my breasts?

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6 November 2009 (F) - what should i do while my bf is sucking my breasts? And i want him to go down by my vagina but as his never been down there before not with me or any other girl im not sure what he'll think? We've been going out for 2years now :)...

He said he would call after ons, but he didn't?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I'm not normally into ons, but I was upset that night, so I was actually looking for someone for a cuddle and kiss, but I ended up at his somehow. We didn't even ask each other's name on the night, it seems like we both were clear it would be just...

How can I learn to enjoy oral sex more?

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6 November 2009 (F) - Ok , this is embarrassing, but I have a hard time giving my husband oral sex. He really enjoys it and I enjoy the pleasure that he gets from it but I have a hard time with the taste and texture of the "fluid". I have even gagged on it, which is ...

I want to have sex but I know it is a big thing...any tips?

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6 November 2009 (M) - i am inlove with this girl. i am 15 and she is 19. we have been very close together for 2years now, i love her and she loves me back. but i am too inlove with her, i want to have sex. i know itz normal for a guy of my age to want and crave this b...

Again I made the same mistake by sleeping with a sex worker...

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6 November 2009 (M) - Again i made the same mistake by sleeping with a sex worker....and again i didnt enjoy it and felt sad and upset.... I t really gets me down.. however this time was different .... I again didnt enjoy it but this time she asked me ..... " You seem ...

How can he not like sex and prefer masturbating?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I am in a relationship with someone, but the thing is, he doesn't like sex. We've had it before, but he says he gets bored and it doesn't interest him/ doesn't feel as good as masturbating. "Why should i do in a vagina, what i can do with my hand?" ...

I'm running out of reasons not to start a sexual relationship with my cousin!

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6 November 2009 (F) - My cousin wants to restart our sexual relationship, should I give in? My cousin and i have always been very close. He is my best friend and has been all my life. But we are more than that. It started when we were teens and we realized that we liked ...

How can I stop my addiction and stop these fantasies running through my mind?

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6 November 2009 (F) - Hi everybody. I'm 16 year old and I have a pretty big problem. I never thought that I'd go through this but it has gone to this extent that I have to get external help. I am and have been addicted to pornography for about 5 months now. Ever since I ...

I'm on the pill but had sex briefly without a condom, is it still possible to get pregnant?

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6 November 2009 (F) - Recently I had sex without a condom...well, started sex.It was only for 2 min (prob less) and we stopped but it still freaked me out.Im on the pill but im wondering if its still possible to get pregnant.I've never done that before and I guess we ...

Should I get a part time lover to avoid demanding sex and attention from boyfriend all the time?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I have been dating a guy for about six months now. He is everything i have ever dreamt of, loving, caring romantic, sensitive, except: 1. He rarely has time for me. We live 5 minutes drive apart, we are always free after 4pm but only meet about on...

I want to have sex on the prom night, what do you think?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I want to have sex on prom night. And just b/c i'ts prom night. I can and i probably will. My b/f is sweet and hot and prom is the perfect time to do it. What do you think? He's coming from out of town and i wanna make it special. any tips t...

Can anyone help me, or give me any advice on changing the way I perceive sex?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I have always had a problem with sex, it was something I'd quite happily let guys do, but it was something I let happen to me (hoping there was a hug and the end), rather than something I felt part of. I got together with a guy 8 years ago. We'd bee...

How long should I date someone before expecting a kiss or more...?

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6 November 2009 (M) - Hi everyone. I just wanted to know how long after dating someone in high school should I try to kiss them. Also How long after going out should I start hinting about sex. You know? Like indicating that we should. Not saying thats what I'm out ...

Do I need therapy after being sexually assaulted or is it possible that I have gotten over it and won't need therapy?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I was drugged and raped by someone I just met whilst unconscious when traveling alone last year. I can recall everything prior to falling unconscious, once during (somewhat blurry and brief), and can remember afterwards when I wake to find him next ...

Have I got a problem?

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6 November 2009 (M) - Whenever i masturbate i use three fingers, is that a problem? and also i come in like 25 seconds i'm quite worried and i really would like some help....

What can I do to help her get over this?

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6 November 2009 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend, "Nicole", for almost a year now. I have had one previous girlfriend, "Molly", who I dated a few years before Nicole. I'm Nicole's first real boyfriend and she is very turned off by the fact that Molly and I had an ...

Why am I losing my sexual attraction for him?

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6 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for several years. Things have been good between us. I think we have a pretty good relationship. There is only one problem. Lately I do not feel sexually attracted to him. I am usually a very sexual person ...

Does he want more than friends with benefits?

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5 November 2009 (F) - Ok this is a bit of a story but i'll try and keep it brief as poss! Basically, over the weekend I had my 18th birthday party, and obviously there was quite a bit of drinking involved. One of the people there was this guy G, who I have had a friend...

How can I make sure my asshole is completely clean?

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5 November 2009 (F) - im guna try anal soon and i know this is really gross but how cn i make sure my asshole is completely clean?...

I might want more... Eventually

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5 November 2009 (F) - hey. Well straight to the point. I've been talkin dirty over the net to this guy i've known for quite a long time. We've been good mates for a couple of years now. So, We're planning to get down and dirty, sometime soon in the future. But i ac...

Can you get a urinary tract infection from anal sex?

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5 November 2009 (M) - Can u get a uranary track infection from anal sex?...

I'm worried! Is this an orgasm?

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5 November 2009 (F) - Okay this is wierd!..but when having oral sex, and the guy is fingering a girl, and she tells him too stop, and he smiles and says i could feel that thing a jumpin, but he talks about having sex again, the next night...is that bad? Like should the ...

Is it normal to prefer sex during the first days of menstruation?

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5 November 2009 (M) - I am curious. My wife tells me that she is most interested in Sex about the 3rd or 4th day of her period. Is this quite normal?...

I'm depressed after my abortion.

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5 November 2009 (F) - im 14 and i had an abortion in February, and know im depressed and want a baby. what do i do? please help me. i have never been this depressed in my life before please please help me ...

My girlfriend is hardly ever in the mood for sex, have I done something to cause this?

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5 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my girlfriend for a little over 3 years now and we hardly have sex anymore. she had cervical cancer last summer and since then shes never been in the mood for sex.. is it something i did or what should i do? [Moderator's Note: Po...

I think my 14 year old sister is going to run away with a 24 year old man!

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5 November 2009 (F) - i'm worried about my sister shes 14 in half and shes going out with a 24 year old. she was scared i was going to tell mom and dad about it so she made me promse to not say anything to them. and i'm worried that hes going to hurt her. she wont tell ...

My love has ADHD. What are all the things I may need to know to ensure our relationship stays healthy?

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5 November 2009 (M) - Allo! My girlfriend and I have been together for...ah...whoa...21 months, that's nearly 2 years, lol, neither of us realized. I'm 18, she turns 19 in a couple of months and we seem, well, absolutely fine. We'd like to hold on to our relations...

My boyfriend keeps saying he has sex for my benefit, even though he is always initiating it!

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5 November 2009 (F) - my boyfriend always iniates sex and then afterwards tells me that he didn't want it and only did it for me. i don't care whether i get any or not and he is the one who gives all the signals and leads me to the bedroom so why does he keep saying ...

Is he "taking it slow" or disinterested?

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5 November 2009 (F) - I have been seeing this man for a little over a month. He is significantly older than me (13 years) and pretty busy. We talked last Saturday and Sunday and we both said we wanted to take things slow due to failed past relationships (jumping into ...

Would you believe a married man who......

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5 November 2009 (F) - would you believe a married man, who is not having sexual relations with his wife is taking extenz only for his own self esteem (like you would lift weights or work out) as he claims. Or would you belive he is having sexual relations elsewhere? Wo...

Will my boyfriend turn gay if he enjoys it when I give it to him from behind?

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5 November 2009 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have a very good relationship....and sex can be a little kinky with us and I know sometimes my boyfriend likes me to play with his butt hole sometimes and I was thinking about using a strap on with him cause I heard that's ...

Will a penis that curves to the left be a turn off to women?

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5 November 2009 (M) - Hey. Im 15 and my penis curves slightly to the left. I was just wonderin is this a turn off to most girls and will it still feel good to them when I do decide to have sex? ...

I am falling for my "friends with benefits" guy, should I tell him?

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5 November 2009 (F) - I am in a friends with benefits relationship with a guy who is not ready for a relationship. I thought I wasn't ready either so the arrangement at first suited me fine plus the XXX is fantastic. But lately I have found we have both been getting very ...

My period still hasn't shown up, could I be pregnant?

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5 November 2009 (F) - I've been on the pill since August (microlite) and sometimes me and my boyfriend don't use condoms. Normally he doesn't cum inside me (I know it's not a proper method of contraception) but my period's late now =( Usually my seven day break starts o...

He never feels sex!

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5 November 2009 (F) - hi i want to know about my boyfriend, he never feels sex.when ever i try to seduce or if i come naked in front of him he is not aroused.i tried everything kissing hugging but he doesn't fell anything and his little boy is not erecting even after se...

Do you have to have relationships to know your sexuality?

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5 November 2009 (F) - I have always considered myself as straight. I guess I didnt really think about it too much. I still had my doubts that I could be gay. Now I am having strong feeligns for a girl at school. These have lasted for a year. I have sexual and romantic ...

I am struggling to keep up with my boyfriend's sexual appetite!

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5 November 2009 (F) - I really need help with this problem so any advice would be greatly appreciated:) So my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and in the beginning we had XXX almost 3-4 times a day! He is very sexually active and so was I. Now that our...

How can I get condoms discretely?

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5 November 2009 (M) - i'm only 13 years old and my girlfriend want us to have sex and i said i wont do it until we have a condom. she said she cant get one. i want to know a way to get a condom with out my parents finding out and not having to be imbaressed at the store...

Can a smaller penis look bigger from a different person's perspective?

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5 November 2009 (M) - Hi i am about 18 years of age, and I have a question on measurement in penis sizes. When i put the ruler next to my penis it shows me that i am 8 inches. Now the problem is, when i was in MMA the men had to take showers when the session was over. I ...