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Our sexual needs are different

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted yesterday

11 December 2017 (M - My girl friend and I got in an argument last night about sex. I get tired it’s me who wants sex. She never starts it, and now she is too tired, because of work, one full time job an one part time job. I realize that, but now it’s the holidays. She ...

First time sex was this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

10 December 2017 (F - I had sex for the first time and I noticed it wasn't that comfortable. As it was my first, I assumed it was just a matter of getting used to it. However at one point, it really hurt and was uncomfortable around my bum which I wasn't sure about. L...

What are the odds of this girl getting pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

10 December 2017 (M - Hello. I went out on a date with a young 26 year old lady that I met online, and things went pretty well. Anyways afterwards she invited me to her room and well we started making out and one thing lead to another and we ended up undressing and ...

I'm paranoid about getting someone pregnant.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

10 December 2017 (M - I'm paranoid about getting someone pregnant. I'm currently 31 and have had 1 or 2 sexual partners every year since my mid twenties. Every time I do have sex I use the condom properly, and most of the women I've been with are also on the p...

When will sex start to feel good?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

8 December 2017 (F - I have had sex a few times now (Like 4). When is it going to start feeling good? It doesn't hurt, I just don't really feel anything. Is that a bad thing?...

I’m worried commitment means forfeiting sexual fulfillment, any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted yesterday

7 December 2017 (M - I’m in my mid-twenties and have been in a loving relationship six years, but I’m frustrated by my attraction to others. Whilst my partner has a colourful sexual history, I’ve only ever been with them and I feel by staying, I’m losing opportunities ...

My sons are using the house for dating. What should I tell them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

5 December 2017 (M - I’m a single dad of two teenage boys, one is 17 (almost 18) the other is 15. My oldest has a girlfriend and recently I found out they have been using my house after school for their hook up spot. I came home from work last week and found an empt...

I feel guilty I cheated on my boyfriend with his boss

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

5 December 2017 (F - I’m 20 and my boyfriend is 22. We’ve been together for about 2 1/2 years and I’m beyond happy with him. The other night, we were fighting and I ended up leaving our apartment and just going for a drive when I stopped at the gas station and saw his ...

I broke it off. Was I right? How do I move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

3 December 2017 (M - I was with her for 1 year. Everything was going great until 3-4 months in we started having problems. We both made mistakes and we’ve been on and off many times. We somehow managed to move past all of that and we fell in love. It’s then when we got ...

I fear my husband is no longer in love with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

1 December 2017 (F - My husband and so have been together 10 years and married 8 of those years. We have an 11 month old and a 7 years old. So am I crazy or is he falling put of love with me? He hates his job and only has 1 week left before he changes jobs. For the...

Am I being paranoid about why he doesn't make eye contact during sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

27 November 2017 (F - Eye contact during sex? My husband usually turns his head away from me or closes his eyes. I dont remember having a problem with it years ago... but recently he holds me close with my head buried in his neck and almost forcibly stops me from bei...

I thought I could taste latex condom on my husband while giving him oral, he says I'm crazy but I'm ready to file for divorce

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

26 November 2017 (F - My husband asked me to give him oral sex. He had just taken a shower. We’re about to have sex, I go down on him and I put his penis in my mouth. I tasted the strangest taste of condom. I was in disbelief. I pulled away saying to myself I’m. Crazy. ...

I've been hooking up with my ex and now he wants proper sex but I'm hesitant because I want my first time to be with a boyfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

26 November 2017 (F - I am a 16 year old girl. I dated this guy for a year and a half, but we broke up in January when I found out he had been sexting other girls. Over the summer, he changed a lot, and he decided he wanted to get back together with me. I told him I'd ...

I don' t seem to fit the gay scene

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

26 November 2017 (M - I feel abit stuck in a rut, I work part time while setting up a business and accepted I’m gay I liked a guy who I thought would like me, cause we have a few things in common and spoke a lot now and again. I was hoping it’d be a fairytale we’d e...

I was a virgin, didn't bleed and now my husband says I wasn't a virgin

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

25 November 2017 (F - It was totally my first intercourse, but i did'nt bleed....i only felt a very little pain...even my hubby said that i'm not virgin as my vagina is loose. He said my vagina is not like virgins have.... But It was my first time. Why it happens to...

Help me deal with this pee fetish?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

25 November 2017 (M - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I have a problem I've never confessed to anyone and I certainly can't blurt it out to my pastor at the altar. I can't tell him in private either bc when people of the church sin, he brings it to everyone's attention so we ca...

He cheated on his boyfriend, do I tell?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

25 November 2017 (M - I used to fancy a friend of mine, he knows but clearly has no interest I’m coping with that. Now his started going out with a guy 10 years younger than him, he told me they were fun buddies cause he couldn’t go out with someone younger than him...

I'm tired of trying to avoid him ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

25 November 2017 (F - Okay so this is a really weird situation. I liked this lad since my first year of high school, we had flirty banta untill he left in 2016. After showing up on the bus on my way to the first day of college a few months ago, it bought old feelings up. ...

I want to sleep with my wifes cousin.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

24 November 2017 (M - So my wife has a really attractive cousin who I only see on holidays and up until now she’s been in a relationship. Well she’s newly single and I noticed she seems to be interested in me as well and has given vibes that she’s feeling it too. I sat ...

Lost my virginity and I didn't even enjoy it but now I'm wondering if I could be pregnant

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

22 November 2017 (F - I just lost my virginity, tbh it was painful and i never enjoyed it at all, according to my friend its because he never did foreplay. Even though i was not satisfied, apparently he was because he came on the inside of my thighs. The cum wasn't alot ...

What is he saying to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

22 November 2017 (F - I was talking with a guy online and never met him .We chat for month so. He had to travel for work. We were still in contact when he were out of country for his work. Finally, he came back to state and wanted to meet me. I told him I don’t wa...

He's taken my wife. Should I be worried?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

21 November 2017 (M - my wife an I have been married for 3 years. however things have been interesting for last 18 months. we have a neighbour Raymond who is divorced for a long time and is 44. he has two girls about 8 and 12. me and my wife are both 28. however 18 ...

I'm married but starting to get obsessed with the guy my husband and I had a threesome with

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

21 November 2017 (F - Over a year ago my husband and i had a sexual threesome with a single male friend of ours after a night of drinking...this was totally my husbands idea..I was always attracted to this friend but had no intentions of taking it any furthur, even ...

Lost my virginity to a man I don't know or like very much

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

20 November 2017 (F - How do I cope? I recently lost my virginity to a guy I barely knew and i regret it so much.i don't feel innocent anymore. And the worst part of it is i lost to the wrong guy,i always assumed i would lose it to someone i loved so much and it would be ...

My world has come crashing down because my wife just told me that the daughter we've been raising is not mine but from her affair after the marriage!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

19 November 2017 (M - My wife and i have been married for 3 years, 6 months ago she told me something that rocked my core. the daughter i have been raising is not mine. she had an affair 2 years ago. the reason she cheated was that she was a virgin when we got married ...

I sent him a nude, I hope he hasn't lost respect for me.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

19 November 2017 (F - I posted a while ago saying i had a met a man with quite an usual job- he's a travel author (fairly successful). He is 35 years old, is in the public eye quite a lot and has a lot of female attention. I went on 2 dates with him back in june but then ...

We still sext even though he has a girlfriend, how do I move on?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

18 November 2017 (F - For the past two years ive been sort of sexting/sending the odd nude to this guy. Recently though he's gotten into a relationship, however we have still continued sexting etc. We've never slept together its strictly 'cyber'. A few weeks ago (I ...

My confidence is wrecked, I regret telling people the truth about my ex boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

18 November 2017 (F - I just want to vent about a situation that still bothers me. Basically I had a 6 month relationship with a guy I worked with. He was the first person I'd been with after my marriage broke up. I guess because I was vulnerable and feeling really crap ...

My boyfriend doesn't last long in bed, wha can I do to help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

17 November 2017 (F - I’ve been with my boyfriend only a few months, been best friends for a few years.. we have had talks before and hes pretty open about this issues with me only... He can’t last very long while having sex, my question is what are some options to help ...

How to deal with a more sexually experienced partner?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

17 November 2017 (M - I'm a male virgin who's never kissed a girl or been on a date. I'm not particularly handsome either and I am obese. I will be visiting an escort in a few weeks to lose my virginity. Finally I'll get to feel what intimacy is like. However I've b...

Does she really love me like I love her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

15 November 2017 (F - I just recently found out that my wife, I'm a lesbian, only watches straight porn. I'm questioning a lot now, not so much about how I feel about her but if I could ever truly make her happy or if I have ever truly satisfied her. She's brought it u...

How do I tell potential dates that I do not engage in sex outside marriage vows?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

14 November 2017 (F - Hi I am going to start online dating . I don’t want to have sex before marriage . I am not virgin I was married before. Mostly folks respect your decision ( not sex before marriage) if you are virgin . If you are not virgin they don’t respect ...

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