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Ejaculation Confusion?!

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4 July 2009 (F) - i had dry sex with my boyfriend. he Ejaculate on my thong but he also had his boxers on. i am a few days late on my monthly period. am i pregnent?...

Husband has gym addiction!

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4 July 2009 (F) - My husband told me I should get a sex buddy on the side because he's not into sex for now. He insisted sex would affect his ability to do well in the gym. I asked him why, and he said there's no-one else, he's just become TOO addicted to the gym,...

He says I've cheated because "it doesn't fit right anymore"!

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4 July 2009 (F) - I have a sex question. Me and my boyfriend have been together 6 years, he is the only person I've ever slept with- about 6 months ago when he have sex my vagina started making a "farting" noise- used to it would only do this in doggie style. For ...

I want to use a vibrator but it hurts so much!

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4 July 2009 (F) - Okay so im a virgin and i dont masterbait very often and when i do i just use my hands but today i disided to see how big my hole was (idk it was a random thaught). So i started to slide the vibrator in but about an inch in it began to hurt worse ...

I'm pregnant, but I don't want him to get in trouble.

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4 July 2009 (F) - I am 15 and I'm pregnant with my boyfriend that is four years older than me i need help i don't want him to go to jail i live in florida he wants to be there for me and the baby and he plans to marry me i love him to death is there anything i can ...

Brother molested me

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4 July 2009 (F) - when i was 5 years old my parents went out for a couple of hours so my oldest brother who is 14 was baby sitting me and my 6 year old brother, we were all in my parents room watching tv and my oldest brother told my younger brother to go down stairs ...

I'm not sure if I am ready...

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4 July 2009 (F) - I just started dating this guy i have liked for 3 years and he lives 30 min. away fro me and so we can't see eachothe as often as we like and we are going to hange out on mon. and i am 13 and all my friends are having sex but not me and he asked if ...

What can I do to cum sooner?

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4 July 2009 (M) - What can I do to cum sooner? I'm 52 gf is 34 I take cialus and still most times can't cum in her she has a great pussy, help me if maybe I don't jack off or have sex for 3 months I might cum in a few min but otherwise no! Help!...

Is this normal... or not?

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4 July 2009 (F) - Tell me if this is normal or not. I am a 14 year old girl who occasioally likes watching sex scenes from movies... Not real dirty ones just ones that make me " hot" if you will. Some of you may know how it feels ... How good it feels when you are ...

Does liking transsexuals make me gay?

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3 July 2009 (M) - So I've recently developed a pretty strong fetish for Shemales (yes, I know the term is offensive to some, and I'm sorry, but that's the best way I know how to describe them - that is, transsexual men - women who have penises). Does it make me gay ...

Since we've gotten back together I haven't orgasmed and my boyfriend thinks it's him that must be the problem. Help!

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3 July 2009 (F) - Hey, so I'm with my boyfriend of just over three years. We have been in love for these three years since we met, though we broke up after two years as we were both worried we were getting tied down too early, and both saw other people. However after ...

Is it okay to have sex on your period?

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3 July 2009 (F) - so i`m on my period and me and my boyfriend want to have sex but i`m not sure if i should. is it okay to have sex when on your period? what should we do, like lay down a towel?...

Is it supposed to do that? Blowjob tips?

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3 July 2009 (F) - Recently I gave my boyfriend a blowjob, but it was my first time and I was really nervous. I used to hand to help, and it didn't last long. Basically, he started leaking (I'm guessing he came O.o), but I didn't know whether I was supposed to stop or ...

I want to have sex with my first cousin

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3 July 2009 (M) - i was wondering what other people thought about this. For many years me and my older cousin(female and 17 years) have been REALLY close.we talk each other often about sex,life and that sort of thing.Is stuff like this normal for first cousins? By ...

My pubic bone hit her nose....I can't seem to contact her since!

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3 July 2009 (M) - Ok so this is kind of embarrassing for me and the girl. Iv been messing around with this girl, who i like alot, but two weeks ago while i was receiving some oral sex she decided to stick her finger in my anus. Well i jumped and my pubic bone hit her ...

I want to be his everything but he looks up things I dislike...

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3 July 2009 (F) - I was just on my partner's internet history and I saw that he had been looking up "pegging". For those who don't know this is when a woman penetrates a man's ass with a strapon. I've known for a while he likes femdom [even though I hate it] a...

My husband wants penis enlargement!

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3 July 2009 (F) - I discovered from a Firefox tab left open by my husband that he'd been viewing pornographic sites with "MEN WITH BIG PACKAGES!! HOT GUYS!" I asked him why he was looking at it, and if he was gay, and he ranted at me about it, saying it's none...

I'd like to hear from lads who've actually received this kind of sex.

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3 July 2009 (M) - I'm a gay lad and my new boyfriend has offered to give me anal intercouse. I've never experienced it but would like see what it feels like. I've read all about it and know it can be extremely pleasurable. My boyfriend says he can give me a ...

Why do I make this sound during sex?

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3 July 2009 (F) - My vagina has been making this queefing(fart) sound and im just wondering if this is caused because my vagina is loose? The sound is very embarassing and i hate it. My boyfriend said that my vagina is the tightest vagina that he has ever had and i ...

She says she's tired and doesn't feel sexy. What does she mean?

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3 July 2009 (M) - I am a little concerned about my girlfriend, because a few times when we've been laying on the bed we both know we can feel the sexual tension building up and all of a sudden she will say im tired, or something and then 10 minutes later we might ...

Do girls enjoy anal sex?

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3 July 2009 (M) - I know this is a really weird question but, do girls enjoy anal sex and anal play?...

He says he loves me, but he'd like to have sex with other women!

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3 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my b/friend for 5 yrs. I'm very open minded as in making allowances for other peoples idiosyncracies...But there's never any kissing -which I need to light my spark, and he only ever likes to enter me from behind. It makes me feel ...

What can I do to make him comfortable with me using a vibrator during sex?

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3 July 2009 (F) - I find it extremely difficult to become aroused from manual stimulation, whether it's by myself or by my boyfriend. So I purchased a rampant rabbit which is wonderful - but the only downside is I don't like the penis part (it's too hard), so I came ...

Sexual fantasies and jealousy

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3 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend just told me that he has had sexual fantasies about a few girls, two of whom I was already extremely jealous of, but he said they were one time things and for only about thirty seconds. He also told me that he never masturbated and ...

Does this look like I have an STD?

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3 July 2009 (F) - I have had a tingling feeling in my genital area and legs all week. I have these tiny open sores all on the left side of my vaginal area. I think I may have herpes. I am planning on seeing a doctor but can't until monday due to the holiday. in the ...

My guy pleasures me but stops himself from climaxing

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3 July 2009 (F) - Question for you guys: my man says he would rather go down on me than have sex! He says he loves that and would rather do that than worry about him. Everything else about our relationship is great, but we don't have sex too often and half the time, ...

He had issues with an exclusive relationship and wanted to play around

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3 July 2009 (F) - We were together for a few months and did everything like a real couple but he wouldnt call himself my boyfriend. He said he thought of us as dating but not in a relationship. I asked him if I was his girlfriend and he started freaking out. He said ...

I want to orgasm too, but she finishes before me

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3 July 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid, Ok well i have been with my girlfriend for about a year now, and we have been having sex for about 6 months...my question is that now since we have been having sex a lot more lately, she finishes before i do, and for about like the l...

There was some miscommunication between us and he's stressing over it

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3 July 2009 (F) - Yesterday night after I got off from work I went to a movie, and after it was over I texted my boyfriend saying I'll stop by his house since he was just getting off work. Well I was planning on having sex with him before I left but when he got back ...

If a guy loses erection during sex, is it the woman's fault?

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3 July 2009 (F) - Guys and ladies please I need your pespective! My ex bragged that it was my fault he lost his erections while we had sex. Lets keep in mind that all this time he teased me by saying that I am a saint to others and a horny bit*ch in bed. Guys, can a ...

I've had 4 sexual partners, is that a lot for a woman my age?

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3 July 2009 (F) - I'm 23 and have had 4 sexual partners. Is that a lot for a woman my age? My last ex told me during our break up that guys will think I'm really slutty now that I've been with 4 different men, but he might've been trying to make me feel bad. ...

Is it normal to get turned on thinking about attractive guys I don't know?

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3 July 2009 (F) - Okay I have kind of a weird question for you… So lately I have noticed that when I am turned on and I start to pleasure myself it takes a long time for me to hit my high because out of habit I start to thing about my ex boyfriends or guys I know w...

He says he "can't" love or care about me because of his past. How do I stop caring about this man?

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2 July 2009 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for 9 months we have never been out on a date we just have sex, he tells all about his past relationships, I love him and don't want to love him because I don't believe he loves me because he has never said it neither does ...

When do you think I got pregant? Having trouble figuring out the conception date.

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2 July 2009 (F) - okay, i just found out that i am pregnant. i went for a sonogram and the sonogram showed 6w6d and gave me a due date of feb 16 2010. and i figured that up and on or around the 12th is when i would have gotten pregnant. right? anyways i know that i ...

Am I getting an orgasm? I can't even tell with the vibrator.

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2 July 2009 (F) - i love my boyfriend so much, everything is amazing. there is one thing though, i don't seem to be able to get an orgasm.. atall. i've never had an orgasm through sex EVER. i've had three sleeping partners, one who i was with for 11 months and th...

Orgasm, sexuality, and urine pain: can anyone help answer these questions I have?

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2 July 2009 (F) - Recently i have this feeling where i need to go for a wee all the time but when i dont pass urine, but when i do it stings alot, so much!! what is it? im a woman, with a boyfriend of nearly 2 years who i am totally in love with, thing is, in sex, ...

Why do guys only want me sexually?

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2 July 2009 (F) - Its kind of annoying, I am 22 years old and I just want to be in a relationship (one day that is). I do not have any experience when it comes to dating and its like...no one wants to take a look at my "resume" I am extremely quiet, shy, kind...but I ...

I'm on the Pill but we don't use condoms, could I still get pregnant?

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2 July 2009 (F) - hey i'm sophie, 16 right so i've been on the pill for nearly 6 months now and everytime me and my fiancé have sex we don't use a condom. Can i still get pregnant? i'm slightly worried. please help....

He thinks a threesome will save our relationship, but will he lose respect for me instead?

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2 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of about a year wants a threesome. (If you have read my other post, you might laugh and think it is a crazy idea.) Last week he said he would like to have a threesome. Since we do not know anyone to do it with it is mostly all fa...

He's had more partners and yet I'm the slut!?

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2 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of about one year cannot cope with the fact that I have a sexual past, yet he tells he doesn't want a virgin. We love each other dearly and talk of a married future with children, but he cannot refrain from these outbursts which are ...

Bored with the relationship!

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2 July 2009 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for the last year and we get along fine, but lately I've been getting bored with the relationship. We were away from each over for 2 months and missed each other terribly, and I've been back for three weeks now, and...

Genital warts..how do I know I don't have the virus?

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2 July 2009 (F) - my boyfriend of 4 months told me he got genital warts and he thinks i gave it to him hes the only guy ive had unpertected sex with and im confused on how i could have gave it to him.... do i have hpv already? but i dont have any warts at all i ...

I can please my gf but she can't please me, anyone else been in this situation?

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2 July 2009 (M) - so my girlfriend i have sex everyday and after it we just lay in bed for a bit and then she will jerk me off and blow me the problem is its feels great but i don't burst for her and she gets upset and i feel really crappy about it i can please her ...

My boyfriend is too big, but we can't not have a sex life!

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2 July 2009 (M) - Im gay and I love my boyfriend so much, but sex is extremely painful! iv been with other guys before, and iv never had a problem, but his HOOHAA is too big for me to take in....... I love him way too much, but we cant not have a sex life? how do i ...

For him: oral sex while he watches porn. For me: 3 minutes, no kissing, no passion. Help!

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2 July 2009 (F) - I live with a guy for almost a year we have had are share of troubles. At first he said he didnt love me but he has grow to love me but we never have sex maybe once a month but he always wants me to give him oral sex everyday while he watchs porn. ...

I felt the time was right to lose my virginity, but then it wouldn't fit!

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2 July 2009 (F) - Background info im 16 and still a virgin ive been with my bf for quite a while and we both felt that it was right. but when it came to it. it wouldnt fit we used lube aswell but still no change, i tried to relax as best as i could but it ...

During sex all I do is think about the size

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2 July 2009 (F) - Hi! k i'll try keep this short. I was with my ex for six years and we split b34 xmas. I dated and slept with two of the guys, its was nice but they didn't last long! Anyway, i've met a guy recently, and he's different to anyone i've been out with, ...

Should I take a break from sex?

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2 July 2009 (M) - hey there all ive had sex like every week sometimes like 5 times this has been happening for about 3 weeks straight when my chick comes over ... then after that I watched porn for about a week and masturbated like everyday when she was menstrua...

How can I get my wife to want ME? I feel so undesired

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2 July 2009 (M) - I have been married for 19 years and my wife has to fantasize about other people in sexual situations in order to recieive pleasure. This means she usually shuts me off by closing her eyes and not wanting any talk during love making. It takes her ...

How long should I wait until first sex in my LDR?

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2 July 2009 (M) - Hi all, I'm 23, and i've been with my girlfriend for almost two years now, only that it's been mostly a long distance relationship. but we've been pretty good in communicating with each other about our feelings and usually we get to spend a weeke...