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Is masturbation gay?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted today

17 October 2017 (M - If you are not thinking of anything and just masturbating for pleasure is this homosexual?...

Can't seem to say no to sex anymore and actually mean it. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted yesterday

16 October 2017 (F - Can't seem to say no to sex anymore and actually mean it. What should I do? Hi I'm 18 and I've had sex with two guys, including the one I lost my virginity to. He was a friend and still is, but he occasionally flirts and I respond to it. We hung o...

His online world has me worried

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted yesterday

16 October 2017 (F - Hi All My husband is addicted to Facebook, constantly checking his Facebook even when we are out shopping/socialising etc. I have had to accept this and we have had many arguments over it. He does not listen. Recently he has set up an Inst...

I want to have sex with the father of my children

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

13 October 2017 (F - Almost 50 and extremely horny. All I want is to have sex with the father of my children. We haven't been together for over 12 years. We broke up because he hooked up with best friend and things havent been the same. Getting back together isn...

She has gone off sex and I'm worried I'll lose her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

13 October 2017 (M - I have a girlfriend i am 66 years old and she is 46 years old we have been together 4 years but this last 6 months she has went off sex she says she do not care she has sex or not i am getting wor...

He has kept in touch, but I thought he only wanted sex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

12 October 2017 (F - Hi there! So i went on a date a few months ago with a lovely giy who i knew from primary school who just happens to now have his own tv series. We went out for a drink, had a lovely time. Then the next week he drove 3 hours to see his father (...

Should I let my wife have a young lover since I can't perform as I once did?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

11 October 2017 (M - My wife (aged 55)and very attractive, and I have been married for 24 years and over the last 3 years I (aged 57) have had trouble maintaining an erection during sex, I have tried all the usual medications but I get side effects from them, so I have ...

Is it possible he wants more than sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

10 October 2017 (F - About a month ago, I downloaded the app Tinder out of pure boredom. I wasn't looking for a relationship because my previous one really messed me up and ever since then I've had a really hard time developing feelings for guys. I was in a place where ...

I feel like I was second servings!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

9 October 2017 (F - Okay i really dont know what to do in this situation. So my freind is friends with this guy and they are just friends nothing more. So one day he spent the night at our apartment and I ended up having sex with him. I felt weird about sleeping with ...

I feel I can't even communicate anymore because of his crazy reactions!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

9 October 2017 (F - Ok so myself and my husbsnd just had a huge fight. It happens every couple of months but ive just realised that i think he oveereacts. He shouts, spits, throws things and wont talk to me for days. This time it started like this.... We h...

Why am I having thought about having passionate sex with my friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

9 October 2017 (F - I think somethings wrong. I am in college, and one of my classmates, I have known since high school turns me on. Every time we talk and see each other (which is all the time, because we have the same major and minor) I have thoughts and fantasies ...

Boyfriend only likes sex if I am on top

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

7 October 2017 (F - My boyfriend seems to like all sexual activities with the exception of (vaginal) sex, which he does not seem to care for. He only seems to like it (a little) if the woman is on top doing all of the work. Do any men out there feel the same way, and ...

I think a year is a long time to wait for him ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

6 October 2017 (F - So, ive been seeing this guy for a few months now he's a couple years older than me (being 25), when we first started speaking in july and from that point i thought it was going to be more of a friendly kind of relationship as he didn't seem my type ...

My wife is another man's slave

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

6 October 2017 (M - My wife is deeply into S and M and I am not. I discovered that she has become the slave of another man, but still professes she loves me. I have allowed her to spend 2 or 3 nights a week with her dom. I don't think I can find any way to give her...

Is this just a slump in the relationship or should we part ways?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

5 October 2017 (F - So I desperately need some relationship advice please! Me and my boyfriend have been together about 2 and a half years now, we're both 22 and we live together. We both have very good jobs and we stay at his family house (all his family live away...

This married man is only interested when his family are out of town

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

5 October 2017 (F - Hello here, the thing is I met this married guy around august 2015,though he didn't tell me he was married until almost a month and then I was already in love with him I don't know why but I remember all I could say to him was know problem and don't ...

Is it wrong to be turned on by a thong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

5 October 2017 (M - I'm a 26 year old male and I have a question regarding a fetish that I have had since I was probably like 11 years old. Basically my fetish revolves around women's thong panties specifically. When I was just entering puberty I found thongs to be...

Does looking at nudes lead to objectifying women?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

4 October 2017 (M - I understand how wrong it is to regard people as objects. That's why I never stare at hot girls on the street, talk about their bodies or "hit on" them. But privately, I am curious about the female shape (being very inexperienced and never had a ...

Do you bleed the second time you have sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

4 October 2017 (F - Hi,I lost my virginty 3 months ago I had bleeding I bleed for four days and I had craming along with it I didn't know if it was my period or that and he didn't go all they way in either. I didn't had sex after that because it hurted alot I wa...

I think guys just want me for sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

4 October 2017 (F - It feels like guys only want me for sex. Every guy to ever show interest in me has somehow indicated that he wants something mainly if not entirely physical. It's made me really conscious and insecure because when a guy asks for my number or flirts ...

I don't trust my husband and he thinks I am cheating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

4 October 2017 (F - Are I met my husband 5 years ago back when I was in high school it's been tough throught out these years... I have 2 kids of my own and he has 2 of his own ever since we got engaged and moved in we've been working a lot his baby mommas call him all ...

I think it's degrading to give oral if it's not reciprocated and he thinks I owe it to him because I gave it to other lovers!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

3 October 2017 (F - An Oral Sex Dilemma My boyfriend and I have been discussing about oral sex for a few weeks now. We have very different opinions and want the opinion of outside individuals. I think that it is degrading to give oral when if it is not reciproca...

I am not a masturbatory toy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

3 October 2017 (F - My fiancé has suffered from delayed ejaculation ever since we met. For over a year he could never reach orgasm with me unless he uses his hand, closed his eyes and tuned me out. Literally I could not speak. I confronted him and it turned out he was ...

Why can a woman reject sex but if her boyfriend does it, it's the worst thing ever?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

1 October 2017 (M - Why does a female get so offended when you reject her from any pleasure? I been in relationship nearly 4 / 5 years. She doesn’t have same sex drive as me, she felt up for it once in our week long holiday, but because I’m so used to not having it she ...

After a week of dating he wants to have sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

30 September 2017 (F - i met this guy a year ago and he wanted me to be his girlfriend but i refused ... we were not in a relationship then but now after that one year he came back and i again refused so after four months i started having feelings for him and i talked t...

I'm considering breaking up with my girlfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

30 September 2017 (M - I want too break up with my girlfriend because i cant satisfy her sexually, ive asked her about it and she claims it could be better but she doesnt know what she wants when i ask her how, i want her to be happy both psychically and mentally. I know...

How do I control these erections I get so easily?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

29 September 2017 (M - Hello everyone! I've got sort of an awkward issue, and I'm going to try to make this brief. I get erections incredibly easily and it's starting to annoy me. Especially around my girlfriend. I'm a very physical person, it's how I show affection, ...

I am tired of feeling unsatisfied and sexually frustrated!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

29 September 2017 (F - My boyfriend of over 1 year now will not satisfy me sexually. I feel like my needs do not matter to him! When I say I still haven't cum yet. Hes like "well what do you want me to do?" Then I tell him to finger me or something. He usually falls ...

Why am I stuck with the girl that doesn't want to give but wants me to do all the work?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

27 September 2017 (M - I been in relationship for 4 years. She was virgin before we met. I have high sex drive , she doesn’t. I tried to accommodate this by doing stuff in shower and not bothering her. Sometimes I ask her to go down, and she won’t put in effort, when she...

He is married and will not stop contacting me for sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

26 September 2017 (F - I dated this guy that stringed me along for 7 months - through therapy and maturity I realized it was my fault for "wanting to prove him wrong" when he said "I'm afraid of commitment" - I don't want anything serious- him being a ghost for a month ...

Is it normal for sex to slow down in long term relationships?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

26 September 2017 (M - My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years we were friends with benefits prior to this for 2 years. In the beginning sex was great and frequent and lately has gone to maybe only once a week and has caused some problems in our relationship. ...

Is she hiding something or cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

26 September 2017 (M - Before I get started let me just say that women have the right to enjoy sex as much as men. I'm not a sexist person and raised a Young lady on my own. I met my high school sweet heart after 30 years of no contact. We had sex later that evening. We ...

Our 'friends with benefits' situation seems to be going fine, but she showed one strange sign?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

26 September 2017 (M - Me and my friend tried having sex twice. We talked about the possibility of it happening for ages and it seems to be working out. A lot of people are skeptical about a FWB type thing but it feels right for us. There has been no awkwardness between ...

I'm pregnant and my husband's sexual demands are taking a toll on our marriage

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

25 September 2017 (F - Yesterday my husband came away from a childs party to use his fake vagina, which i never knew he had. I know this will seem like a pathetic reason to be upset but i just cant help feeling insecure and disgusted. Weve been together for over 11 years, ...

I know I could have an amazing life with mistress but don't want to hurt my wife and children

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

25 September 2017 (M - Hi. I am really confused and need advice. Here goes with a bit of background and my position. I am an almost 49 year old man and have been married for almost 25 years.we have 3 Kids.one of which has now left home. My wife gave up work 17 years ag...

Where's the sex gone?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

22 September 2017 (M - My girlfriend and I have no sexual chemistry. None at all. Every time I bring up anything sexual it’s, ‘we don’t have the time’ or she acts like it’s vulgar and what I’m saying is disgusting - we went to New York recently on our first holiday ...

My wife's sexual past has become a sticking point for me

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

22 September 2017 (M - OK this might be a bit long winded but here we go. So I have been happilyish married for nearly ten years now. I met my wife in 2003 while on my OE in London and we got together and started dating and then eventually the "how many people have you ...

I desperately want to reconcile with my ex husband. He had sex with me after he had broken up with his girlfriend but hasn't contacted me since

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

22 September 2017 (F - This is a long story and I apologize but I really need some advice from some neutral parties here. I am wanting to reconcile with my ex-husband. We were married for 4 years. He was and still is the love of my life but he left me for another ...

I didn't bleed so is my hymen still intact after having sex lots of times?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

22 September 2017 (F - hello, well my problem is i had sexual intercourse several times but i did not bleed in any of them, so i'm wondering is it possible that my hymen is still intact??...

I am unhappy at home, and flirting with my ex boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

21 September 2017 (F - I am married for nearly 4 years and lived together for 5 years . Since having my son last year , everything has changed . We both very good with looking after our son but My partner seems to be on the phone so much , which has been locked fo...

I want more, he leads me on but in the end wants just sex. It's he just a player?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

21 September 2017 (F - Hello! I have been friends with this guy since sophomore year of college and I graduated last year. He's 25 so yeah we are still young, but I feel like we have a good vibe going with one another. We used to hang out and talk about everything and ...

How can I last longer the first time?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

21 September 2017 (M - I just got into a relationship, its been quite a few months in. We are about to hit 3rd base and this is my first time someone will give me a handjob or even a blowjob. I don't think I can last for more than 30 seconds. Any tips on how to last ...

He's rejected me but is open to having sex. I'm upset but tempted to, since I'll be bored and alone in his city.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

21 September 2017 (F - I apologize in advance...this is a long one! I met a guy on Tinder back in March of this year. I was going to be in San Francisco for a few days and wanted to meet people while there so I changed my location to SF and started talking to him. ...

I'm Open-Minded but His Porn Habit & Denials are Alienating Me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

21 September 2017 (F - my husband who is 10 years older than me is watching porn on a daily basis and playing virtual reality porn games,I know because he,s not very clever at deleting his history.He shows no interest in me even though I go out of my way to look nice and ...

Do gay men get asked about oral sex by straight men often?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

20 September 2017 (M - Been with my new girlfriend for eight months,she gets off a couple times in a half hour, myself she wishes I would,but I don't get off that easy, the sex is real good, I've try to last a lot longer all my life , a quickly is a half hour or so, if I ...

Are we sexually incompatible? I need help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

19 September 2017 (F - my fiancé and I have been together for a year and a half and we have been struggling sexually. when we first got together he told me he wanted to wait until marriage to have sex I was perfectly Fine with that as we both were practicing christianity ...

I'm worried I can't ask her to do the same thing again!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

19 September 2017 (M - A few weeks ago I helped my girlfriend clean and put the dishes away. Afterwards she filled the sink with dishsoap and undressed me. She wanted me to sit on the counter over the edge of the sink. I was reluctant at first but I did it. She then used ...

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