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How do I become more comfortable with sex when my own body isn't responding the way I want it to?

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23 March 2019 (F - So, there's this young man. We've been together for a couple of months although we've known each other for longer than that. The mutual attraction developed slowly over several months until at one point it was undeniable, but it still took us a ...

My best friend separated from her partner and is now turning to anyone for comfort

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

21 March 2019 (F - hey so two of friend's just separated, one's my best friend (they grew apart). i have tried to be the best possible friend through this and have been happy for this to consume my life basically! always been checking in, trying to plan fun things ...

Is it normal to be a bit incompatible in your sex life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

21 March 2019 (F - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and when we first got together, we had quite a lot of sex. Before him, I hadn't really found anyone that I "clicked" with so kind of went without. When we were first dating, we did it a LOT. Like, 2 times a ...

Why did he unmatch me after hooking up?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

19 March 2019 (F - I hooked up with this guy from Tinder the other night but we didn't have sex because I was on my period. That didn't seem to bother him but I was uncomfortable with it and gave him oral instead. I told him next time we will go all the way and he ...

Is there anything wrong with fantasizing what your friends would be like in bed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

18 March 2019 (F - Hey, I want to ask a quick question (I'll try to keep it quick anyway) Is there anything wrong with wondering what your friends are like in bed, or even fantasizing about such things when you're alone? I love my partner and he satisfies m...

Why is my boyfriend suddenly acting differently regarding oral sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

16 March 2019 (F - Hello, I have a quick question. My boyfriend is 54 and lately, when I'm performing oral on him, he remains soft yet ejaculates. Also, lately, he only wants me to suck, no licking around it like he used to like and suddenly, he's been pressuring me ...

I love my wife but have a sex doll. Why don't I just cheat with a real woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

15 March 2019 (M - My wife and I've been married for a long time. Our sex life is only 3 times a month now. Sex was a big part of our relationship from the beginning. We would do it as many as 15 times within a month. I understand all the situational things that ...

Am I overreacting to his sex secrecy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

12 March 2019 (F - So, crazy title question, I know, but I'm not sure if im overreacting. A few weeks ago my boyfriend and I were talking about women "squirting" during sex (insert embarrassed face lol). We were just talking about it casually because we are v...

My sex life is non existent since having my baby and I literally feel nothing anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

10 March 2019 (F - I write this as I lay unable to sleep, which happens a few evenings a week. Since having my first child and going straight onto contraception I feel like my mood has progressively got worse (Even though I have the non hormone coil). It’s been alm...

Am I just paranoid/jealous or is my boyfriend's cousin really weird with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

8 March 2019 (F - Hi I've been having weird gut feelings. Ever since I've started dating him his cousin seems to have a problem with me. She's accused me of changing him when I haven't done anything and sent me hate messages which caused tension between me, her and ...

I didn't marry my husband for love. Can I learn to love him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

8 March 2019 (F - I have been with my husband for over 5 years now. I think I made a mistake in marrying him. He’s handsome, successful, nice, funny, and an all around good person. When we first met I never felt a connection or spark but kept talking with him because ...

I suspect he’s trying to cheat on her with me. Should I confront him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

6 March 2019 (F - I matched with his guy on a dating site a couple months ago and give him my number. He clearly only wants to hook up and that's ok with me because I'm not trying to date him, just wanna have some fun with him. We have yet to meet in person but I did ...

He ended it when I thought things were going well. How do I let it go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

6 March 2019 (F - I was talking with a guy for a little over a month and last week he invited me out on a first date. We had coffee, chatted, it was really nice. We went back to his flat share and watched 3 hours of Dave Chappelle. At one point I asked him if I could ...

Should I pursue sex with my hot neighbour?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

6 March 2019 (M - I'm currently 20 and the next door neighbor who still hot, probably 29 or 30 years old and is not married but does have 2 children is turning me on. I want to have sex with her. Should I just go for it. I mean I don't know that i can hold a serious ...

I have a boyfriend but had a one night stand. Pregnant and not sure who the father is

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

5 March 2019 (F - I habe been dating my bf for almost 6 months now. He is a great guy and i really like hin. But i made a huge mistake. I have been talking to a guy I met in an online chat room for almost a year now, 2 months ago he flew to my home town and we spent ...

When do I tell someone about my Herpes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

4 March 2019 (M - Hello, I have a pretty difficult question to ask. My current relationship of 8 years just terminated and I'm pretty devastated. Although we were not married we have lived together for the last 6 and a half years. I've been trying to find different ...

Should I see my one night stand again? I'm not interested in sex with him again

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

3 March 2019 (F - I had a one night stand two nights ago. We were at his house and I left in the middle of the night because I couldn’t sleep and I wanted to go home. During the night I had given him an old number that is disconnected because I wasn’t sure at the ...

I had a dream about a younger girl I think of as a sister. I feel guilty about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

3 March 2019 (M - My best friend, Danny, has a sister, Lisa, that is nine years younger than us. Danny and I turn 30 years old in March and April and Lisa is 21 years old. I been knowing Lisa since she was 8 years old so I got to watch her grow up and I always ...

I don't like the feeling before I orgasm

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

23 February 2019 (M - Well I have no other clue how to say this, except for the fact that I don't like how it feels when I'm about to orgasm. I'm a guy and I can only find articles about it happening to girls but, ya know I'm a guy so they aren't exactly help full. It ...

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