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Am I masturbating properly?

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24 June 2017 (F - I'm 23 years old. I have plenty of confidence and feel sexy too. I have absolutely no clue if I'm touching myself properly because you can't touch my clitoris. Why does it hurt to touch my clit? Even when my ex boyfriend licked my clit it still hu...

My girlfriend doesn't seem that interested in sex

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24 June 2017 (M - I have had a GF for almost 3yrs, she is 34 and I'm 50 but the sex has almost complete stopped. If I pursue it she will participate and I make sure she is always taken care of first and normally 2X. And although this is not a proff, she sounds like ...

My girlfriend wants to wait but I'm frustrated

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24 June 2017 (M - My girlfriend doesn't want to have sex until she is married. She is a virgin. I am frustrated telling her how important sex is in relationship and how deeply emotionally we can be connected. She even used to give her ex bf liberty to have sex with...

My man has lost his libido

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23 June 2017 (F - Dear Cupid, I have been together with my partner for 6 years now. The problem is my man has gone off sex and I don’t know what to do about it. I have talked this through with him and he just says that it’s not important and he doesn’t feel like...

I feel disappointed by my friends' promiscuity

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21 June 2017 (M - I am a gay guys with have two other gay friends, who are extremely sexual and attractive. Every time we meet someone who is remotely attractive they make a b-line for them within minutes. They have slept with or tried to sleep with maybe 85% of the ...

Should I end my it with my cybersex buddy ?

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21 June 2017 (F - Hello Dear cupid , I have a issue..... I have a pen pal in another country he is in the U.K. And I'm in the USA we met on Instagram it started out friendly but gradually got flirty and sexual we are both really attracted to each other and have ...

Is this guy interested or not?!

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20 June 2017 (F - I met this guy about a year ago now-we met online and met up, we got on well and had a laugh, he didn't push for sex or anything like that, he was really respectful, I had a boyfriend at the time but the relationship was on its way out due to him ...

Should I break up with my husband so I might be able to be with his friend?

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20 June 2017 (F - Hello! I'm 25 and I've been married for 3 years, and I have been relatively happy until now, when I suddenly realized (or suddeny admitted to myself) that I am not in love with my husband any more, and I don't think I have been for almost our whole ...

I can't have sex too often because its so painful but my partner feels unattractive because of this

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19 June 2017 (F - I am 28 and have been with my partner for nearly nine years now. I get cystitis almost every time we have sex. I have had extensive tests to find out why without conclusion. It has been happening for six years. We have also tried everything to ...

Girl friends 'very low sex drive' and says she never feels horny

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17 June 2017 (M - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 1 and a half years now give or take and we had allot of sex in the beginning now in te last 6 months it has slowly been declining it's down to about once or twice a month now. I know she is not cheating on me ...

What goes through a man's head when he sees his wife having sex with another man?

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17 June 2017 (F - To make it short my husband and I are into guys joining us for sex . But husband has always joined for sex until recently when at a party when a black guy paid attention to me more than normal. So at husbands request I invited him home for a ...

Boyfriend wanted to use an old tube of lubricant during sex but I got upset because he's used it with previous partners. Am I being silly?

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16 June 2017 (F - Hi Everyone, So I have a bit of an awkward question, but genuinely don't know if I'm overreacting and too embarrassed too ask friends/family. So my boyfriend of 1 year has had a tube of lubricant in his drawer for a while, I noticed it a whil...

Both my partner and I cheated on each other. Back together now and I'm pregnant but he keeps using my cheating past as a way to justify all his wrong-doings

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16 June 2017 (F - I have been with my boyfriend now for 8 months Within the first month of our relationship I found out his ex was still in the picture messaging eachother and she told me they had had sex. When I found this out I thought I was going to leave h...

How do I tell my girlfriend that I'd like her to be my first sex partner?

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16 June 2017 (M - I have been dating my girlfriend for 5 months now. I’m defiantly into her. We do a lot of fun things together. I have not had sex yet. She has told me that she has. I would like her to be my first sex partner. I think she is smart, cute, beautiful, ...

Worried he will drop me if I don't go further

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14 June 2017 (F - I am 14 and i have been in this relationship with this boy we have been dating for 3 months and i really like him. The thing is normally we would shift and kiss and all that but he said that he wants to top me this means to take off my shirt and ...

We meet just once a month for sex. This isn't a healthy relationship, right? Should I let him go?

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14 June 2017 (F - I've been dating this guy for about 9 months and he works full time. I only see him once a month and when I do see him it's only for sex. I understand that he has a crazy work schedule but once a month? We've had problems before because he was ...

Why would a man decide, at the last moment, to not use a condom in this way?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

13 June 2017 (F - my partner and i was about to have sex and he went to get a condom. When he got it he was playing with the packaging for a few seconds and put the condom to the side. why? After having sex he started to play with that condom again before putti...

I didn't cheat so why do I have crabs and my husband?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

12 June 2017 (F - I'm married I found crab louse on me I'm not Committing adultery my husband doesn't have any of those things on his body how can that be?...

Am I too sexual for him? Our sex life seems bland.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

10 June 2017 (F - Hi need some advice on my sex life. So I've been in a relationship for two years and I love my bf very much. The problem is that our sex life is quite bland. I am quite adventurous and kinky I love to go down on him but he doesn't reciproc...

What can I do? How should I handle this? Her sexual past and her ex who was her FWB are issues that are making me feel insecure.

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10 June 2017 (M - Ok so me and my gf have been going out for about 8 months. And I've been struggling with her sexual past a lot recently. She's slept with about 10 people before me, they were all ons apart from one friends with benefits she had just before we start...

Why can't my wife understand my need to cross-dress? Why is she so upset that I wore her clothes?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

10 June 2017 (M - My wife knows I am a crossdresser so why was she so angry at me when I came home the other night. I was completely dressed, with a full make over, my eyebrows plucked super thin with a high arch in them and my ears pierced. She said she knows t...

I advised the male friend that jacking off is normal, but telling me all about it is not. How should I deal with this issue when I raise it with my Bf?

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9 June 2017 (F - Hello, I've been here historically and your answers have really helped me so I am hoping you can help me with something else as I honestly don't know how to talk to anyone about this or if I should. Before I get into it I need to point out that I...

Male FWB wants me to finger him and I don't want this. Am I being over sensitive?

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9 June 2017 (F - I just got into a casual fling type relationship with a guy at uni, he's in his final year and leaving this summer so its only for a few months. We haven't had sex yet but have been making out etc. When we were making out last night with undies ...

My husband has me earn lovers by performing painful or degrading acts with him

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8 June 2017 (F - Hi I'm a bit lost and in need of help. I have been married for 20 years to a man I have always loved. He has always had strange sexual practices and I have always played along, I have always looked up to him and always felt that he was better t...

My husband and I are struggling to move on. Any suggestions on how we can resolve this?

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7 June 2017 (F - Hi. I am a married mom mid thirties. My husband and I have been together for 20 years, married for 13 years. We have 5 children together. We have had a wonderful marriage up until recent. Back in Feb 2015 my husband started to receive texts fr...

My husband doesn't like blow jobs! Am I doing it wrong?

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7 June 2017 (F - I know this may sound odd, but my husband hates blowjobs. We've been together 8 years now, married for 2 and it's always been the same since I've known him, he's never enjoyed me going down on him. I have only ever gave 1 guy a blowjob before h...

Is it possible for a virgin to contract a PID?

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7 June 2017 (M - Hello, I'm in my thirties and I got married about two months ago and my wife is 27. My wife told me she's a virgin,that she didn't have sex in her previous relationships but I opened up to her that I've had sex before. On our first night, she...

My FWB wants me to stay the night while his GF is away. Does my FWB expect something different? Or the same?

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6 June 2017 (F - So I've been seeing a FWB guy since we were both 17ish. Its been nearly 10 years and its a continuing thing, never stopped for either of us. But we have both in and out of relationships and we still do it on the DL. Just wondering i guess if...

Feeling confused. What is happening to me? I had sex with him and I'm not over him yet. Even though my feelings for him are fading.

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5 June 2017 (F - Hello, I'm 17 going on 18 and I am a little confused about my feelings towards a guy. In a nut shell, we've been friends for a while, things got flirty, he hung out a few times, I lost my virginity to him, we decided to stay friends to avoid th...

Is it bad to be 17 (nearly 18) and never had a BF but have had sex? Will that be an issue in the future?

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4 June 2017 (F - Hi, is it bad to be 17 (soon 18) and never had a boyfriend, but have had sex? I've had guys attracted to me lots in the past (not trying to sound self-centred just being honest), but I've never let things escalate with them because I wanted t...

Recently, my girlfriend starts to bleed everytime she orgasms. What could be wrong with her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

2 June 2017 (M - Hello all, I've been with my girlfriend for around seven years. We are our firsts in pretty much everything. Love her to bits still. No fights, good sex life, nothing wrong really. However, something has occurred in our sex-life which I...

Have I the right to feel narked?

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1 June 2017 (F - I have met someone and seen him a few times. I knew it was his birthday coming up weeks ago. I have asked him if he wants to come over the day before his birthday which he has said he would love to do. I mentioned my daughter working at a race ...

I'm worried saying yes to sexual experiment will affect our friendship!

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1 June 2017 (M - My best friend of 15 years last night was telling me how he's curious to try things with a guy and he went on about it a lot. He kept asking if he could give me head and in all honesty I wanted to say yes but I just didn't want to risk my ...

Should I tell my friend?

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1 June 2017 (M - My best friend started dating a girl from our college. But I've had 3some with that girl before. Should I tell him this?...

I regret breaking up with my ex and now that he's moving on I don't know what to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

31 May 2017 (F - I broke up with my bf around a year ago mostly due to my own health issues and his depression too. I suppose the main practical reason was the death of our sex life (for those reasons). I didn't want to keep him from being happy cos of my issues. W...

It was just a one night stand for him but it meant more than that to me and I'm depressed

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30 May 2017 (F - I'm 33, single. I went to a monastery to inaugurate an event (work related...I'm a diplomat). There I met a young monk (he's 42, he's supposed to be celibate) and we got on rather well together. He sort of followed me around, which was flattering, ...

Did he just want to have fun with me?

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30 May 2017 (F - Hi My name is Aliyah and am 30 years old,separated and from Mauritius. I would like to have an advice please. I have know a guy on an online dating site since last December,he is actually working for an international company in South Africa ...

My boyfriend is lying about porn again. what are my options?

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29 May 2017 (F - Hi i've been in a relationship with my partner for a few years, the beginning was perfect great sex almost every day. He would always please me go down on me and stuff, compliments all the time he made me feel sexy and confident. we even watched...

Am I too old to expect to have a physical relationship? Should I just accept it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

28 May 2017 (F - My boyfriend of 4 years rarely wants sex - maybe every 3 or 4 months. Aside from that he almost never touches me except for a peck on the lips. This is breaking my heart. I've talked to him about it many times and he says he's too tired but he ...

I pretty much hate my husband and need to find a way to get out of my marriage

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28 May 2017 (F - I apologize upfront because this will be a long one. Im just going to get things out there as i think about them so hopefully it will make some sense. Im Looking for a little advice and I'm not sure where to turn. I've been married for 12 years and ...

Is there a reason I didn't have an orgasm the first time I had sex?

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27 May 2017 (F - Hi I'm a near 18 year old female. I lost my virginity a few months back and have only had sex with that one guy. We've always been kind of more than friends (well for over a year), but not quite defined as anything more. It just sort of happened one ...

He has ED, should I stay with him?

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26 May 2017 (F - I am planning to settle down with this guy as I really want kids (I've wanted them for years) and I'd like someone to help bring them up. I've been dating for a few months and found out that he has erectile dysfunction. I am not in love with him...

I fell in love with a part-time escort and not sure what to do now

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26 May 2017 (M - Long read, please be patient. I am a working professional in my early 30’s and I've been living and working in Southeast Asia for the past 10 years. I live and work in a rather remote and industrial area and thus I've always found it diffic...

My married lover seems to have lost interest in me. Why is this?

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24 May 2017 (F - Dear aunts, I met a wonderful man through work and the chemistry between us was unbelievable. We had few business meetings with other people and he finally told me that he's very much attracted to me but never contacted me. I found out he was ...

I cheated and had a one night stand!

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24 May 2017 (M - Hi, I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. She honestly is the love of my life and I am very happy with her and would do anything for her. Unfortunately, I made a terrible mistake a couple of nights ago , had way too many drinks (which I know ...

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