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I am confused about orgasms.

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9 February 2010 (F) - me and my bf r confused about orgasm..last month he fingered fast and i moaned with excitement(the excitement was at its height)..and sudddenly there was some jelly like substance...is this known as orgasm?and how to self masturbate?and how to ...

How do I go about having sex with my cousin?

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9 February 2010 (M) - ok so im 14 almost 15 and so is my cousin only she turns 15 a few months before me. ever since we were about 6 weve played sexual games like "show me urs ill show u mine" and doctor and we also watch porn together almost everytime we see each other. ...

Would I know an orgasm if I felt one?

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9 February 2010 (F) - This may be kind of long... Ok, so ive been dating my boy friend for over seven months now. He is two years older than i am. The farthest him and i have ever gone is hand jobs (we are both virgins). So heres the deal, before him and i started d...

Is he a pedophile for dating a 13 year old when he was 17?

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9 February 2010 (F) - I am in a relationship with an amazing, mature and positive guy, who is also my age (27 -28 years old). We are inseparable and I feel happy when we are together. When we are apart (we live in different countries) for longer than 3 weeks, say, I ...

He has ejaculated in me numerous times and I still haven't gotten pregnant. Is it me?

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9 February 2010 (F) - ok so i have been having sex for the last 5 months not very often but i will say like at least more then 8 times... each and every time the guy ive been with has ejaculated in me ...but i cant seem to get pregnant ... what may be the problem.....

My boyfriend said he had hair in his mouth after oral sex with me!

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9 February 2010 (F) - me and my bf r in a comitted relationship.he stays far from me..and we have sex only once in a month!well few days back we were talking on phone..and he said that wen he was trying to give me oral sex,my hairs got into his mouth..and dat was ...

Will it be a mistake to have sex with my sister-in-law?

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9 February 2010 (M) - I have a sister in law whom is living with us in the same house. She wears clothes where her nipples are visibly mark, wears shorts where her most private part is also marked. I can't evade fantacizing her. Whenever the door of her room is open, I ...

How would I go about turning on my shy and bi best friend?

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9 February 2010 (F) - What does another girl do to turn you on or warm you up? I'm bi curious but not sure how to get my bestfriend who his bi curious too to warm up to me? We have always talked about messing around but we've never done it. Should I start by rubbing her ...

I seem to "cum" throughout the day. Is this normal?

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9 February 2010 (F) - im a girl, i seem to 'cum' throughout the day making a mess in my undies. its very annoying and im wondering if it is normal or if i should get it checked out ? :/...

Should I go for him or to forget him completly!

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9 February 2010 (F) - okay so theres this guy, ill call him joe. joe is new this year. im 13, and hes 14 and were both in 8th grade. ever since he got here i thot he was cutee and nice. we became instant friends. but then he broke his leg and wwas out of school for a ...

I am inexperienced, did I put her off?

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9 February 2010 (M) - I am inexperienced when having sex and need some advice. 1st, I hung out with this girl for a while (one month) and always pleased her. We had sex once and my nerves got to me and I came pretty fast. For about a week we still messed around bu...

How safe is it to meet a private escort?

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9 February 2010 (M) - Hi. I'm a young and very lonely man. I was a virgin until recently until I finally went to a brothel. I'd rather not go with prostitues, I'd rather have a gf but that's not happening and is another story. I would like to see an escort again but...

I don't mind being a little kinky, but I don't like pain either!

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9 February 2010 (F) - I am 19 years old and I have been dating my boyfriend for close to a year now. We started having sex a couple of months ago. He is the first guy I've had sex with. I love him and I know he loves me as well. My problem is this. I know that he has s...

He seemed shocked when I asked him to cum in my mouth! I thought this was common.

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8 February 2010 (F) - Ok im really confused becuase i thought guys like it when you let them cum in your mouth. I never did it before and my bf asked me where he should cum and i said my mouth cause i wanted to taste it for myself. He seemed shocked kinda and i asked him ...

Threesome in the making...

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8 February 2010 (M) - My wife and I have been together 10 years and married 4. We have always been very sexual and open about our fantasies. I originally introduced her to the experience with a women and she loved it. It was very exciting for her! We would go to strip ...

Do women like ass hair? Need an answer for tonight!

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8 February 2010 (M) - My question is for the woman out there. When your having sex with a man do you like it if they have ass hair or do you like it more when there is none? A quick answer would be good since i need a answer for tonight thanks....

My boyfriend wants a threesome and I don't.

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8 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend asked me if I would be interested in a threesome. It's not something that really appeals to me, but I decided to entertain the idea and at least discuss it with him. Not surprisingly, he was trying to push a threesome with a third ...

I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?

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8 February 2010 (M) - Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...

She feels much more loose than before. Could she be cheating?

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8 February 2010 (M) - I've been with my gf almost two years now and through honesty I found out from her that she slept with many much larger guys than myself and thats fine. I've noticed that on separate occassions her vagina felt more loose than others and thought ...

What goes through a guy's mind when a sex scene comes on the tv?

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8 February 2010 (F) - What goes threw a guys mind when he's watching a film with his girlfriend and a sex scene comes on? After a conversation over a bottle of wine with a few friends non of us could answer this question lol. Guys any feedback helpful x...

My boyfriend thinks I am not "freaky" enough. What can I do?

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8 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend Thinks Im Not "Freaky" enough. I think he going to break up with me for that. How Can Isave This Relationship?...

Many times I get the distinct feeling that he's avoiding sex. What's the problem?

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8 February 2010 (F) - Please help. I am desperate for advice. I am in a very loving, mutually satisfying relationship with my boyfriend of one year now. We both agree that each is the best thing that has ever happened to the other and have even talked of marriage ...

Do you think Viagra will help my 18 year old BF's erection problems?

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8 February 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now, we're both 18 and we havnt had sex yet (also still virgins). we have been trying to do it recently but every time we try he loses his erection. it's happened 10 times now so we still havent had ...

How do I bring it up to her that I'd love to try oral sex?

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8 February 2010 (M) - I am in a long distance relationship and we are very sexual whenever we are together how do i tell her that i want to try oral?...

He wants me to go through with this 3-some even although I'm not really that keen!

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8 February 2010 (F) - A few weeks ago my fiance started texting me asking what I thought about threeseomes. I told him right away that I wanted to do one, thinking that he was talking about a FFM threeseome. I love to pleasure him and turn him on and he has told me ...

She says I am the best at eating her out but I want her to return the favour!

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8 February 2010 (M) - I have been dating my girl for 10 months and she still refuses to give me a blow job, I mean she says I am the best at eating her out but I want her to return the favour. ...

Can you get pregnant when you have a period?

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8 February 2010 (M) - hii, i know most people call it dirty, but can you get pregnant if your on your period?,...

I wonder if he will ever open up and let me in

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8 February 2010 (F) - Ok, so I have been with my current partner for nearly 6 months now. It's been the first relationship in nearly 10 years where I can honestly say that I really like him. He has his head screwed on the right way, works for himself, has his own house ...

Could I have been so drunk I don't remember having sex?

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8 February 2010 (F) - A month ago, i met one guy, we start making up til we met, then i realize that he had a girlfriend, but 2 day ago we were drinking a lot, and there's an important part that i can't remember, I just don't remember like 30 min or something like that, ...

I tried to spice up our love life but he was shocked

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8 February 2010 (F) - Hope you can help and understand what i am asking I am not sure how to write this but hope you can get the jest in what what i am asking. My husband and I have been trying to get our marriage back on track after I found out he had been cheating on...

How can I make him wait for me until we are married?

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8 February 2010 (F) - hi i have been dating my bf almost 2 years now n soon he is gonna be my fiancé but the thing is i am virgin and he is not and m sure about his feelings, but he doesn't wanna wait for our weeding. we have been talking about that n he is gonna wait ...

How do I know what his sexual fantasies are, and do I tell him mine?

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8 February 2010 (F) - Im 23 and my partner is 26 we have been together for 3yrs and are both madly in love but our sex life needs a bit of sparking up but how do i know what he is into, what his fantasies are and how do i let him know what mine are with out bluntly ...

Do I have a problem? I'm too scared to go to the doctor and afraid to talk to my parents

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8 February 2010 (F) - Hello doctor , I'm 20 year old. I bleed when my guy fingers this happens rare not all the time but when it happens i have problem with my menstural cycle. i never had sexual intercourse before i dont even know whether the hymen is broken or not...

My hubby wants to try bondage but I hesitate. What should I do?

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8 February 2010 (F) - Hi aunty,I have been married for 4 months now and having a nice relationship with my hubby,however recently he has been insisting on using cuffs in bed!!he wants to try bondage.. He wants me to cuff him and make him my slave!! I have not tried t...

Age gap relationship, good sex but for how long?

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8 February 2010 (F) - i am 32 and i am in relation ship with 52 yr old man . our sexual life is good till now. may i know how long will it be? i love him very much...............

I feel guilty and trashy for wanting just sex with my ex.

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8 February 2010 (F) - Is it bad that I really want to hook up with my ex? We're on friendly basis. We were together for 2 yrs. But lately, all I can think about is just hooking up with him. It's strictly physical. I asked him if he was interested (twice!) and he said yes ...

We agreed to stick to oral, but I am wondering if he really wants sex after all.

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8 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I (He's 21, I'm 20) are really quite close. We've been best friends for about 6 to 7 years, and we started getting close just last summer. A lot of crap happened in between, but to make a really long story short, we started dating ...

Am I alone in feeing this way? I hate sex!!!

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8 February 2010 (F) - I hate sex! I am in my fifties... I have a wonderful husband and three adult children. I love them all. I find men attractive, but I hate sex, I always have, I am not a lesbian. It is not all it is crancked up to be. No. My husband does not...

Do you think he was put off that I didn't want to have sex yet with him?

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8 February 2010 (F) - I am probably just freaking out for no reason... but I've been so worried today. Long story short - I dated a guy last summer... got too involved too fast (the sex happened after about two weeks)... and as a result, he didn't want anything to do ...

Why would he want to masturbate instead of having sex with me?

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8 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend recently spent the night with me. We got it on before going to sleep and both had a good time. The next morning, we're both sitting up in bed (I was naked, he was in boxers) and watching tv. Next thing I know, he's playing around with ...

He would rather me look at porn and pleasure myself then go to him.

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7 February 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. I am 24 he is 28. About 3 years ago he started to go on a lot of meds due to an injury.(long term injury) Long story short about 6 months or so after he started taking the meds his sex drive was almost t...

How do I know if the sex was good or not?

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7 February 2010 (F) - So I had sex with this guy last night. It was totally a one night stand and I'm not expecting anything out of it. I was just wondering, how do i know if he liked it or if I was bad? I wasn't laying there like a dead fish and when i gave him head he ...

Opinions needed. My first time...

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7 February 2010 (F) - Hi. me and my boyfriend want to lose our virginity together, as we have been discussing ideas. Any ideas you have would also be welcome! He hasnt seen me completely naked yet, but i said i would like to wear a sexy outfit at first, i'm not sure what ...

He's not using me just for sex, is he?

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7 February 2010 (F) - Dear cupid... I was just wondering something. ok so me and my bf have been going out since march last year (11 months) and I lost my virginity to him last month. We've waited a long time and I think that it's nice, but now he seems to want it...

17 and pregnant???

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7 February 2010 (F) - Hello, I'm seventeen and i posted a concern on here a couple of days ago. Like i said before i had unprotected sex sometime around the 15 or 16th day january and my period was due on the 26th of january. It is now almost two weeks late and im ...

Is it normal for male and female friends to discuss their sexual pleasures in detail?

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7 February 2010 (M) - Is it normal for good male and female friends to discuss in detail exactly what they like during sex? By "in detail" I mean things like the enjoyment associated with giving/receiving oral, rimjobs, anal and the intensity of each. She and I have...

Is it going to hurt when he fingers me?

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7 February 2010 (F) - Hi! My boyfriend and I just recently got back together and he has already touching me 'down there' yes. We both have An accoun on here too and we asked at least the same questions and we got some answers on how to actually finger a girl. We're ...

We send our nude pictures to each other but how can I tell him I want more?

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7 February 2010 (F) - This guy I knew from school almost hooked up once (almost a year ago) but didn't because I was not single at the time. Now I'm single and I'm pretty sure he is too. We still talk and he often sends semi-nude pics of himself and asks me to do the ...

How do I deal with my 16 year old son getting his girlfriend pregnant?

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7 February 2010 (F) - I am the mom of 3 sons ages 18, 16 and 13. I just found out that my 16 yr old son got his 16 yr old girlfriend pregnant. We have been very open about sex and had MANY safe sex talks. I knew that he had a girlfriend but didn't know that they were ...

Whenever we get in a fight she leaves and looks for sex?

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7 February 2010 (M) - when ever my girl friend get in a fight with me she leaves and looks for sex to ease her pain she says. why does she go there everytime?...