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Did he break up with me over sex?

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14 May 2008 (F) - ugh=( heyy everyone! I have been so stressed out lately, you see me and my ex split up about idunno 2 weeks agoish and drama seems to circulate me whereever i go. People have told me that he broke up with me due to me not letting him hit it...He ...

Why did I stare? How could I not be aware of it? Where to go from here?

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13 May 2008 (M) - Here's the background story, my gf and I went out to a friends. (friend, wife, female friend of friend) We were all hanging around cooking dinner, and then had dinner, and towards the end of dinner my girlfriend was standing by the window, clea...

My wife has a fetish for firemen and is causing 'accidents' because of it. What can I do?

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13 May 2008 (M) - I'm 25, and my wife is 24, we've been married for 2 years now. In the past few months and weeks she's recently been causing "accidents" - and I know why. I found a note in the kitchen when tidying up one day saying "must cause accident so hunk...

Can you get pregnant from foreplay?

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13 May 2008 (F) - I no this seem a bit unusual but can you pregant from having fore play?...

I got a sore throat from giving a blowjob. Is it a problem?

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13 May 2008 (F) - i recently gave my boyfriend a blowjob for quite a long time. the following day i had a sore throat and put it down to the night of fun before. but when i checked, the top of mouth looked like my blood vessles had burst (like a lovebite but inside ...

I fell for him, he's married - she's pregnant, now I'm heart broken

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13 May 2008 (F) - Hi.....iam 21 years and iam in a heartbreaking dilema...i started seing this guy ( @ the time 32) when i was 19.... The thing is that it all started so sudden @ work...you know the passing by the office..the eye contact...then one day he took me ...

Is it normal for a guy to have small white spots in his underwear?

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13 May 2008 (F) - Is it possible for a guy to have small traces of semen on his underwear even if he did not have sex that day. My boyfriend occassionaly has two or three white spots on his underwear but yet we didn't have sex that day. I don't know how to approach ...

One night stand...but I don't regret it, should I?

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13 May 2008 (F) - Right, straight to the point! I lost my virginity on a one night stand, and it doesn't seem to bother me that I slept with a random boy. Am I stupid for not being bothered that I don't want to be involved in a reltionship with him? Please hel...

How are the chances of pregnancy in this case?

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13 May 2008 (M) - plz tell me today on 13th, i sex with my girl friend not using any precaution ,she said her date was on 3rd may,plz tell me how many chances she get preganant,and now how we control this pregnancy, ...

I'm scared about losing my virginity and keep thinking he will pursue someone else if I make him wait longer... ?

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13 May 2008 (F) - I'm about to lose my virginaty in a few days with my bf who i have been with for 1 year. Im so scared its going to hurt he tells me its going to be fine and it wont hurt and i know it will im so scared and when he fingers me im so tight he can get ...

Can you guys explain to me why my boyfriend goes for lapdances?

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13 May 2008 (F) - On saturday, i went to my boyfriends aunty's 50th. The hall was packed and i was ready for a good night. A few weeks ago, i found out my fella had gone to a strip club in london with mates and had a lap dance -thats fine.. its just he'd not told me ...

I am 16 and I am scared of having sex!

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13 May 2008 (F) - the big question: sex? why am i scared to have sex?! i am 16 and i am scared of having sex, because i hear that it hurts the first time espeacially, and from what i see from movies, i know this will sound funny, bu when i watch movies where it happe...

Married long time, with new partner now, cant orgasm easily with new partner?

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13 May 2008 (F) - This is the scenario: Married 14 yrs, getting divorced, since ex have not been able to orgasm easily with anyone, met someone now that is kind caring and still have trouble w/orgasm, have to use vibrator which never had to do with ex. Any opinions ...

His cum tastes awful, what can I do?

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13 May 2008 (F) - Im sure many girls have this problem, but its really starting to bother me. I dont mind giving my boyfriend oral sex, but its the end that i literally CANNOT DO! the smell, the taste, just makes me wanna gag, ive asked friends and most of them say ...

Any advice on vaginal dryness occurring during sex?

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13 May 2008 (F) - so im 22 years olds and have had sex plenty of times but recently while having sex a couple of minutes in to it my vagina went dry and has been for for the past couple days why would this be? please help...

Is it normal for a girl to like getting spanked?

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13 May 2008 (F) - i like to be spanked during sex. whats wrong with me?...

I'm not sure if he likes me for my body ...what do I do?!?

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13 May 2008 (F) - Ok so ive been dating my boyfriend for about almost a full 4 months and we kiss and stuff but to be honost he has almost no sexual interest. He will put his arms around me but he wont touch me or anything. I mean jsut last week we were at my house ...

Why did he give himself a handjob when he has me?

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13 May 2008 (F) - i sleep with my defacto and thought i satisfied him sexually but the other morning very early he i think handjobed himself twice and now i feel i dont make him happy what does it mean when a guy gives himself a handjob when he has a live in ...

Are there any men who can settle for hugs instead of sex?

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13 May 2008 (F) - Okay this seems like a REALLY weird question, but...here goes. So I am really not into like, kissing or any of that stuff. I have thought about sex and come to the conclusion that I would like to remain a virgin and not ever have sex, for personal...

I am now keen on his fantasy threesome, but I know I wont want him touching another girl, can this work?

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13 May 2008 (F) - Ok so, the idea of a 3some turns me on. Thinking about being with another woman, and having my man have sex with me. Sometimes when I see 3somes on porn, I imagine me being one, my bf being the guy and whatever. My bf's ultimate fantasy...

Is it a bad thing to ingest ones own sperm?

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13 May 2008 (M) - Is it a bad thing to ingest ones own "product"? My fiance has expressed interest in wanting to share a kiss with me after giving me a blow job. Just curious as to if there are any negative side effects....

Is this a yeast infection or an STD? Please help, it's the first time I had sex!

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12 May 2008 (F) - please help ! discharge ! im 16 and have just lost my virgity... (yes i used a condom) :) usually i barly have any discharge... but for the last week, iv had loads of thick white, non smelling discharge constantly ! im extreamly worryed. ...

What can I do for my boyfriend to really turn him on?

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12 May 2008 (F) - Hi This one's for the guys (or maybe girls, you can tell me about positive/successful experience?) Now, if I wanted to spend an evening/day showing my man a good time what would you recommend? I'm up for anything, but penetration is not...

If I lost her do to my shady sexual history, I'd be devastated! Should I reveal what I've done?

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12 May 2008 (M) - I've recently started a relationship with the most amazing woman I've ever met. Things are better than I could have ever imagined and have ever been with anyone else and I'm certain we are both deeply in love with each other. The problem is that ...

I love her, and I want to have sex with her, but I don't want to ruin the relationship!

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12 May 2008 (M) - ok my gf is a virgin and has never really liked fooling around bc she thinks it makes her seen not pure and like a slut.. well she's wanting to now and last night she was a drunk but before she started drinking she asked me if i would have sex with ...

I deserve to be punished, I know, but please help me?

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12 May 2008 (M) - Hi all, please help me, i am so afraid that my wife will find out about a fling i had with a woman a few months back. I love my wife with all my heart and am so upset, because i made a stupid, stupid mistake and i just cant forgive myself for what...

Masturbation. Can anybody confirm my fears, or is it all just a big lie?

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12 May 2008 (M) - Hi. I'm a little concerned. People say that you can Masturbate as often as you want and it's not a problem. But I heard about a condition you can get if you do it too often. I forget the name of it, but all I know is I don't want to get it. Recently...

Should I just let this go and completely forgive him and believe that I'm the best?

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12 May 2008 (F) - This is a weird situation and I don't know how should I feel... My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. He loves me a great deal, as he supported me through depression, always does his best to make me feel special and is v...

How do I get my boyfriend to initiate sex?

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12 May 2008 (F) - How do I get my boyfriend to initiate sex? I always have to do it and if I dont initiate the sex then we never have sex! I know he likes having sex with me but I always have to actually start it. When I try to talk to him about it, he gets...

I don't know what to do when I'm on top!

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12 May 2008 (F) - PROBLEM: I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO WHEN IM ON TOP!! I am 18 years old, I been having sex for a few years now and I would love to be in-control on top of the guy but when it comes to it I just dont know what to do.... What ever I seem to do it dont rea...

Is he waiting for me to get better or has he moved on?

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12 May 2008 (F) - Sorry, this is a long post. Just trying to clear certain things up in my head I guess. I was with my ex-partner for 18years, 10 of which we lived together. We never married, and never had children. But we were saving money for a house and were...

Is a 4" penis sufficient?

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12 May 2008 (M) - I am with 4" penis is it sufficient for sex?...

Did someone perform some sexual act on him to 'last blow his load'? Because it obviously wasn't me!

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12 May 2008 (F) - Please I need some help before I start pulling my hair out!! And i'm sorry but i'm going to be blunt there's no beating around the bush with this one. Ok some background info I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 and a half years we have a good r...

I need help arranging a threesome as a gift for my boyfriend.

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12 May 2008 (F) - Okay, so I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years and I wanna have a threesome with another women. Not a friend, just an anynomous hottie. Don't get me wrong, my boyfriend and I love eachother very much and our sex life is amazing, but I wanna give ...

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12 May 2008 (F) - I'm currently in a healthy relationship with a guy that does not live nearby. He has visited me numerous times and we spent every minute we can talking (whether it be on the phone or online). I'm in love, and he is too. He's very into sex. He com...

Can projecting a bad conscience ruin my relationship?

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11 May 2008 (M) - Help!!! I have been in the most perfect relationship for circa 18 months now with a girl that means everything in the world to me! I really love her with all my heart! Then 2 days ago I was at this birthday party (with my girlfriend) where also my e...

I think I may have been date raped by my boss.

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11 May 2008 (F) - I think I was date-raped. I ran in to my boss in a bar after I had already been drinking, and he offered to get me a drink. I asked for a vodka orange, but he asked me if I would prefer vodka redbull, and got me that instead. After that drink, I...

He told me the all the other girls he's had sex with, even with out a condom, never got pregnant

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11 May 2008 (F) - Ok...so i'm 15 and my boyfriend is 14, we've known each other and been with each other for a long time...and my boyfriend isn't a virgin. He says he lost it when he was young and has had sex with other girls ever sence...but he wants to have sex ...

I am so sexually frustrated and all the masturbating in the world cannot help me!! Can you??

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11 May 2008 (F) - Hi everyone. I have a major problem with my marriage. Although my relationship with my husband is great in every other way, the sex is so lame that i cannot take it. It´s pretty much the usual 2-minute missionary intercourse under the covers w...

My boyfriend masturbates while I am asleep! What can we do?

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11 May 2008 (F) - Just found out my bf masturbates daily when I'm asleep, but he always says he's not horny when I ask for sex. When I talked to him about it he just said he can't help it, he gets horny at about 2 or 3 in the morning and doesn't want to wake me (I ...

Together 5 years and no sex in last two months. Help.

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11 May 2008 (F) - My friend and I have been together 5 years recently he and I haven't had sex in two months. I know he's a heavy drinker and I think he maybe using something eles could that be a problem. He says he isn't cheating and to please give him time to get ...

I'm not sure how to give head. Help please?

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11 May 2008 (F) - The past weekend, I was asked to give head, but I'm not sure how to. I really liked the guy who asked me to give him head, but I had to tell him no, becuase I don't really get how to. Help please?...

Don't be afraid to say STOP! on your first time (An article)

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11 May 2008 (F) - Okay I know many people have put down a story about the first time they had sex, but I never see anyone putting down what happened to me on my first time. I didn't have sex untill i reached university (the 2nd day of university to tell the truth) ...

My boyfriend has an addiction to amateur porn, is this normal?

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11 May 2008 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend and I are both 25. We have been dating for 4 months but he has an addiction to amatuer porn. On top of this I found he had a profile on a dating website which is just for sex. He says he only uses it to see amatuer porn and he delet...

Are there any men out there not obsessed with porn?

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11 May 2008 (F) - I was in a long term relation-ship with a guy who was far from the type who goes after big breasted bimbos, and who was interested in feminism and wanted his girlfriend to be his intellectual partner. Sounds great.But it turned out that he had huge ...

Confused about brownish discharge. What is wrong?

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11 May 2008 (F) - i am a 20yr old girl who have brownish discharge anytime i feel horny or have romantic touches with my boyfriend, it sometimes result to my montly period or smtimes d discharge stays for 1 week and stops. am really confused what is wrong and what do ...

My long-term boyfriend's condoms have mysteriously disappeared. Am I over analysing?

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11 May 2008 (F) - i thought i remembered a condom or two left in the condom drawer of my boyfriend's(3 years with him) aparment and also possibly opened wrappers from us there (just being lazy about throwing out the wrapper)...i actually don't 100% remember but i ...

I'm confused but I love him. I need some advice.

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11 May 2008 (F) - hello, i have liked this boy for a long time and we have a really special bond , he even says that we are really close he comes to sit next to me all the time in school and everyone says he always flirts with me so i flirt back and he loves it...

We are both virgins, what can I do to make the first sexual experience least painful for her?

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11 May 2008 (M) - Hi - i am an 18 year old guy and have shared a nice relationship with a very cute girl. I love her very very much and am commited towards her. we never got physical in the first 3 yrs- but have started getting a little physical lately. To me - it is ...

Embarassed to buy lubricant and condoms...

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11 May 2008 (M) - im 14 and i want to masturbat with condoms or lube but im too embarrased to go to the shop and buy them myslef what should i do?...