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A guy I have a crush on wants to do things I've never done

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted today

18 August 2017 (F - Hi, Im 15 years old, and there is this guy who I like and he likes me back. He says that he wants to finger me and do stuff with me, and I want to as well but I am shit scared. There are so many things that Im worried about, and questions I want a...

Did he cross the line? I'm not sure.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted yesterday

18 August 2017 (F - I have been seeing this guy for a little over a month now, things are good. He has his kids every weekend so that kinda sucks but all and all he is nice.. I haven't met his kids yet but it's a bit soon for that. Anyway I told him that I haven't had ...

How do I talk to him aboug where we stand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

17 August 2017 (F - I've been dating a lovely man for 23 months and no sex. He says he has libido problems but does nothing about it. We have good times when we are together and he phones me every night to discuss his work. I know that I'm more attracted to him, ...

Why can he have an orgasm now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

17 August 2017 (F - been with my bf 21 yrs.he has never had orgasim from oral,we broke up 7 months ago now were trying to work on getting back together,when i give him oral now he does have orgasims why not before please help me understand....

Is my husband pretending?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

16 August 2017 (F - Sorry in advance if too much information! My husband and myself were having sex last night, usually he closes his eyes during sex, which used to bother me but he said it was just concentration on the pleasurable sensations, so it doesnt bother me...

How do I curb his frantic sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

16 August 2017 (F - I currently started dating this new guy and everything is going great only problem is that he is insatiable. We have only been on two dates and we have spent both nights together however the first night we just made out and I spent the night th...

He's a sweet person except when he's turned on!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

15 August 2017 (M - Dear Cupid(s), I am very confused. At the beginning of the year I met a guy and things seemed to be going really well. Both of us were virgins, and when we finally had sex it felt like that became all our entire relationship was about. I started...

I'm annoyed about his contradictory comments about not wanting children but not using birth control with his exes!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted today

15 August 2017 (F - I have been seeing my boyfriend for three months and in general we get on well. But one thing that keeps cropping up is his exes. The other evening the subject of children were brought up (he hasn't got any). He told me that he had not used ...

My best friend's new boyfriend is my former FWB

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

14 August 2017 (F - Hi I had a FWB for 6 months the sex was amazing I just got out of a long term relationship and he just enjoyed being single I didn't feel anything for him other than friends and him with me I started texting someone who I genuinely liked and it s...

My question is does that mean I just want sex again and I'm mistakening that feeling for wanting a relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

14 August 2017 (F - Hi I'm an 18 y/o girl and I've never had a boyfriend but I'm also not a virgin. I lost my virginity to my guy friend, which wasn't planned at all, but it happened and I guess I don't regret my first time. Better off with someone I trust and respect ...

Things were perfect then he began to change. Should I break up with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

11 August 2017 (F - My relationship was perfect with my boyfriend.and then things began to change..he doesnt go down on me when we have sex and making excuses saying the odour coming from my vagina smells terible when we have sex and thats the reason he cant.and ...

Having sex all the time is really putting me off having sex

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

11 August 2017 (F - Me and my boyfriend have been together about seven months now. Things are kosher for the most part with a few small arguments here and there. One of the few things about the relationship that bother me is his sex drive. When we started dating I ...

Each time I nearly had sex I pulled back .... now we have split up!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

11 August 2017 (F - Hi, Me and my now ex boyfriend broke up and it was a very hard decision for us to make because we love each other very much...We met about four months ago at work and we've been together for a month and a half before our break up. Everythi...

Emotional after I climax- is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 9 days ago

11 August 2017 (F - This is embarrassing but I have been abstinent for almost a year and a half because I have my guards up and I have been hurt and it's hard for me not to attach feelings when I sleep with someoene so I don't have sex unless I'm in a relationship- ...

Need to pee blocks my climax

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

10 August 2017 (F - I am having a personal issue with my husband and I feel like I'm loosing my mind. Every time things get "frisky" I want to finish, I feel like I need to, but I always get an overwhelming urge to pee; even though i use the bathroom right before we ...

I blurted out I LOVE YOU to my married boyfriend. Why does he still want to be with me?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

8 August 2017 (F - I told my married boyfriend of 3.5 years that I LOVE HIM yesterday. It just came out. I did not mean to say it but I did. He was asking me why do I stay with a guy like him? He called himself average, boring, not so attractive yet said I am ...

I can't handle my husband lying!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

7 August 2017 (F - Recently my husband hasn't shown any interest in sex at all. He hasn't always been one of those men who want it all the time but sometimes it can be 2 weeks before he even shows the least bit of interest. I thought it was me, I have put weight on ...

Why would he want so badly to sleep with other women

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

6 August 2017 (F - My boyfriend of 3years. Experienced "Swinging" with his former spouse. Now he wants me to experience the lifestyle..saying I'll love it... Its really not something I have ever even thought about. Really doesn't interest me... But I suppose my ...

I want sex every day

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

6 August 2017 (M - Hey just need abit of advice. Me and my partner have sex at least once a week, but i want to have more so everyday after i do ask if shes up for it but all she says is shes too tired been working go play with yourself i used to work alot of hours 4 ...

Should I leave my job to go work with my Ex boss, who I'm sleeping with?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

5 August 2017 (F - I need some work related advice!! Back in March, I was working for a car dealership that I loved! But my GM, We'll call him X, ended up quitting and went to work at another dealership.. It's important to mention that the night he quit, we had se...

My wife is a masseuse but I'm not sure of her "exchange network". Should I hack into her account?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

5 August 2017 (M - After i had some business problems my wife decided to qualify as a masseuse and try and bring in an income. That was 4 years ago.After a year of working in a Spa she decided to work from home. She said a lot of her regulars had said they would co...

Are there any safe areas to have public sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

5 August 2017 (M - I would like to find out if there any safe areas in public where I can have sex with a guy? The agreement with my mother was that I can only bring home a new boyfriend after I have met him away from home a couple of times. I am a gay guy aged 54...

My girlfriend wont give me a BJ!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

4 August 2017 (M - My girl and i are in long distance relationship since the starting and we love and trust each other deeply. We do occasionally meet and have wonderful sex . Currently we are even planning to get married and get our parents involved . Now m...

Can you hurt yourself using a dildo with no lube?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

3 August 2017 (F - Can you hurt yourself by using a dildo without Lube and going way too hard at yourself? I believe I may have rip something in my vagina from using a rubber dildo without the lube, I was going pretty hard for a couple days like that, once a day until ...

How can I make my husband feel better about our sex life?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted yesterday

2 August 2017 (F - I am a woman of 50 years, I married 10 years ago. I was single for 40 years and naturally I had several sexual partners (26 men more precisely). The problem is that I have never had orgasms with my current husband. He is very dedicated in bed, not ...

My boyfriend doesn't want to talk about sex or have sex. Why?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted yesterday

2 August 2017 (F - My bf is 26, I'm 32. He is very sexual, likes porn, been caught cheating several times. We've broken up and just recently got back together. I've noticed that he seems very uncomfortable watching porn with me, talking about sex, and does not like to ...

Not sure if boyfriend is attracted to me sexually or that I am his physical type.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

1 August 2017 (F - Been with boyfriend for over a year. We are both in our late 20's. We only have sex once or once every 2 weeks. There are a lot of times where i want it more than him. He gives me excuses he is tired, he is bloated from food etc. But then sa...

Implant removed, unprotected sex equals pregnancy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

1 August 2017 (F - Hi I removed my implant on 15 June then had unprotected sex 3rd July. I had my first period on 16 July for about a week and now I feel like I'm getting my period again. My breast are so painful and I feel bloated. Is t possible I could be pregnant? ...

I have a fear that if we have sex it will be the end of our relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

1 August 2017 (F - I have just started seeing this guy and things are going well. We have met a few times now and the dates have been going out for dinner, a walk along the beach and the last one was he made me dinner at his. Physically, things have happened but...

Our sex life has declined. How normal is this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

31 July 2017 (F - Hi everyone me and my fiance have been together nearly 4 year but lately our sex life has became non existant. im this normal? I'm lucky if it's once a week. we have just came back from a week's holiday and didn't have sex at all while we were ...

His demands seem unreasonable. Am I being foolish?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

30 July 2017 (F - I have had a boyfriend for a long time and its got so he always wants back rubs and oral sexs all the time. I have told him that I do not want to do that without a condom. He prefers no condom. However for health issues I only do oral and other ...

Is a man considered promiscuous for having 15 sexual partners?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

29 July 2017 (F - Is having 12-15 women as sexual partners considered promiscuous for the average man? Would that many partners be a deal breaker for you? ...

My boyfriend masterbated to porn next to me while I was sleeping

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

29 July 2017 (F - Hello, so I woke up next to my boyfriend yesterday and noticed porn in his history, I was confused so I asked him why he had porn in his history and he said he fapped last night. I asked him if he did it right next to me and he said yes!!!! Is it ...

My boyfriend is cheating, pressuring me to have sex. I'm afraid he'll leave me if I don't give in

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

29 July 2017 (F - I am 19 and even tho i know all my friends are having sex, i know it doesn't mean i have to but i'm getting a lot of pressure from my boyfriend to do it right now. The pressure seems to be more and more as the days go on. And I will be honest, i ...

Why won't he play with me and not himself

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

28 July 2017 (F - Boyfriend of 1 year who is 33 and I am 29 . He masturbates in bed next to me when he thinks I am asleep or if I am awake he quickly goes to the bathroom. Once he does the deed, then he will say sweet things oh i miss you, oh i love you. We have sex ...

Is what we are doing right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

27 July 2017 (F - Hello everyone actually I'm quite curious to tell about my relation as I'm dating a guy and it's been just 1 mth that we have been in a relation and he always likes licking my boobs and he always like to put his hand n rub in my private part i a...

I don't want a ring on my finger but I would like more affection!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 24 days ago

26 July 2017 (F - I've been seeing my fella for 12 yrs and have to say we are not in love although I feel I'm more fond of him than he is of me! He is totally inscrutable and never reveals his feelings. He is very reliable and fab company. I would say we are in lust ...

Why do I want him so much? With no cares about who gets hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

26 July 2017 (F - The below is a story about, love, betrayal, cheating, and fate... In order for you to understand my story, I have to take it back TO THE BEGINNING. 6 years ago I met my now ex-boyfriend. After a year of us dating, we both moved across the count...

First time sex was a disaster!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

26 July 2017 (F - I tried sex for the first time I really like the guy and I really did want it, but when it came to it, it didn't feel good. First he wouldn't fit into me, then he started touching me which I barely felt and when he was finally inside me I didn't f...

My boyfriend won't have sex with me. Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 24 days ago

26 July 2017 (F - I have been with my boyfriend for about 4 months now so it is still pretty fresh. At first we never had problems with having sex and then the past few weeks I've noticed he just doesn't seem that interested. There would be small excuses from can't ...

I'm very puzzled by my boyfriend's giantess fetish. Can someone explain?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

24 July 2017 (F - Hello, i'm very open about porn and sexual things and nothing really phases me, however I found out my boyfriend has a foot fetish, it's not something that really did it for me, but seeing how turned on he gets by using my feet etc, i'm starting to ...

Sex for the first time--how do I feel more brave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

24 July 2017 (M - I'm going to have sex with my gf for the first time , I need help on how to feel more confortable about my self and how to be more brave....

Why do men think its alright to comment on a woman's nether regions?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

22 July 2017 (F - This is probably more of a rant than anything, but what is up with some men thinking it's ok to comment on the look of a woman's vagina/vulva?! Whether it's not neat enough, 'beef curtains', too hairy, it 'looks loose'... the list goes on! My m...

Should I let him go? or see what happens?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

22 July 2017 (F - I met this guy last year while I was drunk eating pizza after clubbing with my friend (typical party girl scene) now I never took this guy seriously I'd always ignore his texts, or keep conversations small, sometimes he'd ask to hang out but I'd ...

I'm lost in feelings about my cousin. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

20 July 2017 (M - Well as my title states I'm lost on my feelings about my cousin. It first started out when we were kids and we were both very close. Then we both learned out sex. We experimented quite a bit. To tell you the truth it made us even closer. From there ...

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