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Is the relationship doomed before it has begun?

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25 May 2018 (F - I met a guy a few weeks back in a bar, we instantly hit it off and have been talking ever since. He knew who I was as he went to school with my older brother so we know a few of the same people. I was talking to a friend about him and she asked hi...

My fiancé is acting different during sex! Is this normal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted today

24 May 2018 (F - I am 29 and a fitness instructor and fiance he is 32 and is a financial analyst. We have a good sex life just til now. Foreplay he was never that much into it but it would still happen. Lately, foreplay is non-existent. Lately, there has be...

Should I accept the Bible as the final authority on sex before marriage?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted today

24 May 2018 (F - I am in the path towards spirituality and I have been reading the Bible and would like to be baptized one day I am not a born again Christian but I realize in the difficult times life has failed me and I need salvation - I need prayer and I nee...

I don’t always reach orgasm and he gets upset! Any suggestions so we are both happy and satisfied?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted today

24 May 2018 (F - My boyfriend and I have a great sex life, that is even if I have never had an orgasm from intercourse. I need oral or extra attention down there but there have been days when I just can’t orgasm, like just before periods etc.This has never bothered ...

He’s been giving porn more attention than me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

24 May 2018 (F - Hey. So me and my boyfriend have been going together for 6 yrs now. Our relationship is pretty good for the most part. However the past couple of months he's been giving porn more attention than me. It's made me a bit insecure, and I'm starting...

Which is more important Love or Sex??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted yesterday

23 May 2018 (F - I have been married for 40 years this year. It was only 10 years ago that I discovered my husbands porn stash, he promised me he would never do it again, I believed him, only the cycle continues, he tries to hide it , I find it, he tells me he does ...

I'm constantly worried my boyfriend has/will cheat on me and I'm going insane thinking what on earth happened while he was on that cruise without me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted yesterday

23 May 2018 (F - My boyfriend went on a cruise ship with his (male) friends last week. I expected it to be hard. I was a bit moody during the first day he was there, but the remaining 6 days I felt fine about the fact that he was having fun. He kept in touch wi...

Our sex life is non existent

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

19 May 2018 (M - Me and my gf sex life is non existent. Sometimes I look forward to it and it can be over so soon. No foreplay happens, she doesn’t let me go anywhere near her for foreplay. She used to be really wild, and now it’s gone to nothing. I’m still up for ...

I don’t feel a spark with her but I still had sex with her!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

19 May 2018 (M - Me and this girl broke up a while ago, after about a month she came over to play some video games and chat. It was getting real late and she was getting tired so I offered her to stay the night. During that we began cuddling and making out and it ...

In a long term relationship but now some things are bothering me!

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16 May 2018 (M - Hi. I am in a long term relationship (over 4 years) now. I do love my boyfriend very much, however recently a few 'issues' which ordinarily I would just ignore have started eating away at me. The first, I have found myself looking at other guys more ...

I feel like a blow up doll!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

15 May 2018 (F - I've been with my boyfriend for over two years and when we first got together we had so much sex. Non stop multiple times a day. He even gave me my first ever orgasm. Things were great. But for some reason the past year I've been less wanting to ...

I can’t get the thoughts of her having sex with her exes out of my head!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

15 May 2018 (M - Hello, my girlfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for 4 months now. I am 17 and she is 20, I know most people would say this is a recipe for chaos and it probably is.. In 2 months I will be going to Brazil (I am from Belgium BTW) ...

He says I’m loose! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

15 May 2018 (F - I'm a virgin and today my boyfriend tired putting a bit of his dick inside and he said later that its very loose, I've never played with myself or let anyone else, no one has entered a finger inside me still he's saying this. can anyone please h...

Is this the end to our marriage? He loves porn more than he loves me

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14 May 2018 (F - We have been married for two and a half years and the sex life has become boring af. I feel like it’s all about his pleasure. When he wakes up at night his reaction is : babe want to suck my dick? Like I’m some kind of sex slave that enjoys only ...

Is it possible to be in love and committed to a man, whereas developing only sexual interest in others?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

13 May 2018 (F - I will turn 30 next month and my life's in a big mess. I've a good career, a loving would-be husband (getting married in early fall this year). We've been together for 11 years. You're wondering where's the messy part? Well, the sex between ...

Possibly pregnant from a one night stand

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

13 May 2018 (F - Im probably overthinking this at the moment , i had a date with a guy and we both got pretty drunk. We went back to his and slept together im now thinking if we had a little accident then i would be pregnant. its too late for the morning after pill. ...

I only hear from him when he is on leave ... I don't want to be his booty call.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

13 May 2018 (F - to start me and my ex were together for years he joined the army we were together for 2 year of the 3 year enlistment he has, and once he went on deployment, 1 month before he got back he ended it and said it was because he didn't want me waiting ...

My boyfriend said if I don't give him sex he will get it somewhere else!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

13 May 2018 (F - Am in a relationship from 3year and i never allowed my boyfriend to touch me even and he never had any issue qith it.. He just said me when i'll permittee him to touch myself then only he'll touch otherwise no.... But now after 2years we got a lot ...

Should I tell my parents I am sexually active?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

13 May 2018 (F - Okay, I’m 17 and I just lost my virginity about a week ago. My parents don’t know and I’ve had a few of my closest friends tell me that I need to tell my parents. The thing is, I’m terrified that they won’t let me talk to my boyfriend or be with him ...

No sex since getting back together

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12 May 2018 (F - I've been seeing this guy for a while now. On several occasions we broke up for about a week or two at a time. The last time we broke up it seemed we were really over with. A chick messaged me to tell me that whenever we break up they talk, that she ...

I initiated a threesome with a guy friend and now my wife is having an affair with him

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

12 May 2018 (M - I just found out that my wife has been having an affair for the past two years with a single male friend of ours who we had a drunken threesome with two years ago..that threesome which was totally initiated by me alone wasnt so fullfilling for me, ...

Will the intimacy return? Do other new parents feel this way?

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10 May 2018 (M - Okay, to put a little background into this for better understanding, my wife and I have 2 kids. One was born at the end of January this year, but with the way I am, I don't handle the infant stage very well. I have quite the temper and crying ...

My boyfriend says it’s time for me to give him my virginity!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

6 May 2018 (F - My boyfriend tell me it's time to give your virginity I cannot wait it's has been 10 months we are together I know he is my boyfriend and has the right but am scared of my parent if one day know about it ?? my boyfriend don't have a good job my ...

What’s the worst that could happen? He doesn’t want the threesome and I think it’s a bad idea too but I still want it!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

3 May 2018 (F - Sorry, this is very personal and embarrasing and long so you can stop reading if you’re offended by threesomes or anything taboo. Me and my boyfriend have been together for over two years amd we have lived together since 6 months together and we’r...

Should I report a teacher for teaching 7 year olds about sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

1 May 2018 (F - 3 days ago my 7 year old daughter came to my house asking me about why guys can only wear condoms, she was too curious to know more about sex and the male genital. I was shocked how she knew the word condom, from who and why she is asking me this ...

Should I ignore the photos found on his laptop?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

28 April 2018 (F - Hi there I was looking for a movie on my husband's laptop and instead found a folder of celebrity nudes he downloaded at the same time. I'm a bit shaken. I don't mind if he watches porn, but most of these photos are ones which would have been ...

Is it fair to let past experiences influence tis relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

27 April 2018 (F - I've been seeing a guy for about a month now and we started to talk about the future and what the relationship is and he tells me that last summer he was accused of raping his ex. At the time he was telling me with I had just had consensual sex w...

Should I trust her on birth control?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

26 April 2018 (M - I'm 32 years old, dating my 22 old girlfriend for 3 months and days ago we had sex without condom and it was amazing, I almost forgot how good it feels lol, last time I had unprotected sex was with my ex wife who I divorced three years ago. Since ...

I don't know if I can indulge his BDSM fantasies

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

26 April 2018 (F - So I am engaged and both my fiance an I want to experience our fantasies, but I am not sure if I can commit to doing his. Mine is a foursome with him and two other girls, I am Bisexual so I am okay with mine, but his is BDSM an I don't know if ...

Why did my ex give his friend my number?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

25 April 2018 (F - Dear Agony Aunts, i broke up in July last year (2017) with my boyfriend (I’ll call him M) i loved very much because i felt he had fallen out of love with me and two weeks later, he got a new girlfriend (I know because i came back to him so we could ...

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