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Our sex life used to be magical until his porn use!

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18 July 2018 (F - Im 43 and my self confidence and 20 yr relationship is suffering more and more with progressive viewing of porn by my partner. We’ve always enjoyed watching it together every once in awhile and I’m willing to spice up our sex life within reason. But ...

Why did my married ex boyfriend snap just like that? I desperately want him back in my life!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted today

17 July 2018 (F - I met a guy at work 9 years ago. We flirted and had fun but he was married. We worked together and once we kissed in his office and ended up having sex. I have never done anything like this before. I was madly in love with him from this first kiss. ...

What does he want? Is there something here or just a sexual relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

14 July 2018 (F - Going back about 4-5 months ago, I met a guy one night out at a bar. We are 5 years age difference, I'm 22 and he's 27. We immediately slept together that night. We kind of clicked quite well and he got my number, stayed in contact with me and we ...

This confusing guy is sending mixed signals!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

12 July 2018 (M - So I met this guy off a gay dating app. We had tremendously good sex. As he left my house he told me he "really wanted" to see me again. He lives in a different city and for a hook up from an app, it was brave of him to say that. I asked him when he ...

Is my way of orgasming normal? And was it normal to start so young?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

11 July 2018 (F - When i was 8 years old, I've literally been having an orgasm and i didn't even knew what orgasm is. I would get it when ever i squeeze my legs together, and i would feel pleasure and relaxed feeling, i also feel pressure down there when i do it. ...

I overheard my wife saying that her ex was the best sex she'd ever had and now my ego is shattered!

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11 July 2018 (M - So my ego has been devastated and I really don’t know how to handle this. Turns out I’m not the best sex my wife has ever had. Any advice is appreciated. About a week ago my wife had one of her friends at our house for some drinks. After ha...

Is oral sex just this amazing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

7 July 2018 (M - I have been with my fiancee for 9 years I'm 31 she's 29. Last night she allowed me to go down on her for the first time. It was the first oral experience for both of us, by that I mean her receiving and me giving. My question is, is it normal for me ...

Can someone my age fall in love with a guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

7 July 2018 (M - I had prostate cancer and had my prostate removed making sex imposable now that I am single I am interested in men and women turn me off I am 68 can someone my age fall in love with a guy ...

Sex hurts!!

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7 July 2018 (F - Okay so I started dating this guy a while back and recently we decided to have sex. The first time it was bad, it didn't want to go in, when it went in it didn't go in all the way and it hurt really bad and I ended up bleeding. So we waited a while ...

I'm 8 weeks pregnant and questioning my relationship with my partner because I just found out that he's slept with numerous prostitutes before we met.

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4 July 2018 (F - Hello. I am 8 weeks pregnant , was so happy with everything and looking forward to the future but now I’m seriously re thinking the whole thing. I have been with my partner a while and we were just discussing the blood tests I am getting for...

My ex has I have slept together too many times!

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4 July 2018 (F - My ex and I go to the same college. We see each other a lot considering we have many of the same friends. We broke up two months ago because I was stressed out a lot, and he was too about school and things happening with his family. But rece...

Boyfriend's close friend from his highschool group is obsessed with him and he's slept with her... And while she hates me, he won't stop hanging out with her

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29 June 2018 (F - So my boyfriend has a really close friend group from highschool. 3 other guys and 3 girls and they have a groupchat they always text in and are always planning hangouts together. This one girl in his group has always been obsessed with him (i've ...

To have sex or not ever have sex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

29 June 2018 (F - Mod note: combined posts Why are people hypocrites when it comes to sex? And by that I mean, I am a 26 year old virgin and my friends tell me to wait and how my virginity is such a great gift. They will tell me I am lucky to be virgin, that sex ...

How do I ask for a sex toy?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

24 June 2018 (F - I want a sex toy because, I'm a 17 year old girl now. I know after I ask I'm going to say, think of it this way, I'm still a virgin. Most people my age aren't anymore. But the problem is, I have to ask my dad. Not a mom. How do I do this? I'm ...

Newly back on the dating scene, can I booty call a guy or is that creepy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

21 June 2018 (F - Hi Cupid, I have a weird question. So, I am newly back on the dating scene after almost 13 years. I am 31. So, I’ve been going on some dates, and a few weeks ago I had two with a lovely guy. We had a great time, connected well and had great che...

I’m worried about having sex due to the shape of my penis!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

20 June 2018 (M - Hi. I'm 19 years old. A boy who has never had sex due to the shape of my penis. I have a down curved banana penis. I'm scared to try it out. What should I do?...

Why can't I orgasm normally?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

18 June 2018 (M - I know it is embarassing but I just lost my virginity at this old age. Problem is I can't achieve orgasm during vaginal intercourse. I don't have erectile disfunction and I ejaculate easily when masturbating using my hand. Could my problem be du...

I don't want a boyfriend, I'm not interested in sex and I just want to be left alone!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

18 June 2018 (F - I have absolutely no interest in sex and while I've had it before, I'm honestly disgusted by it. The whole thing: having people in my bubble, having a face too close to mine, random unnecessary touches, kissing is just gross to me. I don't like the ...

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