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My boyfriend stares at and approaches other women, it makes me uncomfortable.

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20 May 2019 (F - my boyfriend keeps looking at other women when we are out and ive seen him literally turn his neck to side and stare for ages at other women also he goes up to women on theyre own and chats to them about anything usually starting with theyre dog to ...

My partner avoids me, but says there is nothing wrong.

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18 May 2019 (F - Hi people I really need some advice I’ve been with my partner for 6 years we have a 4 year old daughter I have a son from a previous relationship we’ve been having problems this last year I caught him watching porn which normally would not of ...

We're both unhappy in our marriages and have a long history. Should we have sex?

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18 May 2019 (F - When I was a teenager While visiting family i met a boy, through high school we crushed back and forth on each other secretly and living in different ends of the country made it impossible for anything to happen. As young adults be told me he liked ...

My husband looks at young women in porn and tells me I should just be happy he's still having sex with me despite my shortcomings

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

17 May 2019 (F - My husband looks at porn of women around 18- 20 . I’m entering menopause and feeling extremely depressed about my changes to my body such as less elasticity and lubrication wrinkles etc . I’m fit and healthy but nothing makes me as young as the ...

Is it ok to have sex with my aunt who's now divorced from my uncle?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

16 May 2019 (M - My non-biological aunt and I are considering a sexual relationship. She divorced my uncle about 8 months ago and got completely cut off from my family until I messaged her. We have gone on a few "dates" and been sexual but only with our hands (i.e. ...

I can't get over him, we had sex once but he has a girlfriend

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16 May 2019 (F - A year ago I fell in love with someone who had a girlfriend. After months of building sexual tension, we had sex once, after which he told his girlfriend. She told him never to contact me again. For a few months he didn't, then he got back in touch. ...

How do I calm down during foreplay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

13 May 2019 (M - I'm very new to the world of sex, having never been in a relationship before. I now have a girlfriend who is equally as inexperienced. We've never actually had intercourse but I was wondering what people actually do during sex/foreplay when it comes ...

When he wants to initiate sex, I'm never in the mood. Is there something wrong with me?

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9 May 2019 (F - I've been with my boyfriend 3 1/2 years and I feel like we have a normal sex life. We have sex at least once a week, sometimes more if we're not busy and stressed and so on. But the other night we were watching tv together and he started trying to ...

I've been a mistress for a long time and am starting to get bored with it all.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

9 May 2019 (F - Hi guys. I've been a mistress for a long time. I can't really talk to people about this. But I'd like to know if it's normal to grow tired of being in a "relationship" which never grows or evolves? I am feeling tired of being a sex toy. Tired of ...

He says he loves me but doesn't respond to my texts

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

8 May 2019 (F - I met a guy on a dating App about a month ago. We hit it off well - he seemed sweet and respectful. We met and there was a lot of sparks and chemistry. We both have complicated relationship statuses - he's divorced with a child from the marriag...

Why is he withdrawing after we have had sex?

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6 May 2019 (F - Hello dear Agony Aunts My concern is this: I just met E who lives in another country. He came here for short holidays and we crossed paths at a beach party 9 days ago. We immediately got attracted to each other and we kissed on the beach when we go...

I've lost my sex drive. How do I get it back?

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5 May 2019 (M - Hello everyone, I must say I’m a little embarrassed with this one, I’m 27 years old, been with my GF for roughly 3 years and have completely lost my sex drive. We went from having sex multiple times a day to once a week/fortnight. I just fe...

He says his affair was my fault. I am emotionally exhausted!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

1 May 2019 (F - My husband and I have been married for nearly 7 years. I got married young (21) and he was 25. I knew at the time that he was a bit insecure but I guess I was young and naïve. The insecurity is getting worse and worse. A couple of years ago, I h...

Should I make him my friend with benefits

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

1 May 2019 (F - So I met a guy about 14 years ago and was instantly attracted to him. He had a girlfriend at the time and I had just got into a new relationship too. I’m not going to lie there was one or 2 nights we hooked up and did things we shouldn’t of ...

I had sex with another man because its what my husband wanted and now he's mad

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28 April 2019 (F - How can I fix my marriage? We are married 5yrs and both age 27. For 2yrs my husbby has had a fantasy for me to fuck a hung man. I have resisted. We have used this as fantasy sex talk. Fri night we went out together to a bar and met friends. Later ...

What happens when male and female best friends share a bed for the night?

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25 April 2019 (M - I recently moved into my own apartment. It's a one bedroom and I don't have any furniture. My long time female friend plans to stay over this weekend so that she can 1. see the place and 2. not have to go all the way home after we watch a movie ...

He's 30 years older than me and doesn't want sex as much as I do

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

25 April 2019 (F - I’m engaged to a man 30 years older than me. We’ve been together seven years almost eight. The only thing we’ve had minor discussions about is sex. I want sex more often than him. We’ve never done it twice in one day even! He’s the only man I’ve had ...

Is Rimming really as risky as they say?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

23 April 2019 (F - OK so this is a bit embarrassing, which is why I'm posting this anonymously but basically me and my boyfriend have been 'experimenting' in the bedroom lately and decided to try anal sex/play. I wasn't a fan of the sex as it hurt quite a bit but what ...

No sex and I don't feel appreciated. How do I talk to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

22 April 2019 (F - Me and my OH have been together for almost 10 years and have two children 7 and 5. For the most part, it's been great, obviously ups and down but nothing really major. Sex has always been a bit of a problem with us, it's like we have never really b...

How could I allow this guy to use me for sex?! I feel awful and I've lost all trust in men!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

20 April 2019 (F - I’ve recently came out of a long term relationship so I’m very new to dating.when I went out with friends I met a great guy, we chatted a lot and there was an instant spark between us, we exchanged numbers, we spoke a lot over the phone for about a ...

It looks like he's lost interest after we had sex. How do I get him interested in me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

20 April 2019 (F - I met a guy a couple years ago (let's call him Adam), and it was immediately clear he liked me, but I had a boyfriend. We hung out a handful of times over the next 2 years, but I kept it friendly. I recently broke up with my boyfriend, so Adam and I ...

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