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Dating: Help and advice

I can't leave him, he's all I have...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5298 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for just over a year. We spend every single day at college together. Well, thing is, he always judges me and talks bad to me and hurts me. But i love him and i do so much for him. He wont even try to do something ...

I still don't know for sure whether he can make it or not... Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - I am dating a guy. I invited him for dinner. He accepted but told me he will only have time next week after an examination. The examination will be on Thursday. Shall I ask him again at which time and day he will able to after the examinat...

What can I do to get my girlfriend to snog me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5298 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - I'm 16 and me and my girlfriend have never snogged. We are both nervous and shy so... what do i do to get her to kiss/snog me?...

I'm worried my lack of knowledge in the bedroom will end the relationship!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - help! ok iv been going out with this guy for a while and i really like him, we'v only ever kissed but i know things will soon be going further. he has slept with 2 other girls (both in long term relationships he isnt a get around) but i havent done ...

My boyfriend still goes to the ex's house to let the dog out!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - Hello Aunts and Uncles. I'll make this short and to the point but would really appreciate a guys take if possible. My boyfriend (we have been living together for about a year) he still goes to his ex's house (when she's working and yes she is ...

How can I get her to take the lead more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - I'm 17 years old and have been going out with a girl for 2 months which is lovely and i love spending time with her and i think shes great. BUT all we have ever done is kiss on the lips. She's a bit shy and a never takes the lead on anythiing. For ...

Soon 16 and never been kissed

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - I am 16 in two months - I have never been asked out or kissed by a guy. Does this mean that I am turn off to guys ?...

B/f no longer puts forth effort into the relationship, what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - Any help would be greatly appreciated: My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years. We have talked about marriage and for the most part, we get along famously. Here is my delima: He seems angry, distant, and at times bored with...

I like the manly smell down there, am I weird?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2082 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - I just found this web site last month and think its great. I like sitting in this coffee shop, sipping a caramel coffee, and reading about real people and what others think about their problems and hang ups, without the fear of being embarassed. ...

How do I change from being clingy and needy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - About 5 months ago, I got out of a 3 year relationship that turned abusive, and I am now currently dating this guy that I have known for about 6 years. We started out as friends, and for the past 3 months have been dating. I have really begun to ...

How do I know if my girlfriend loves me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - How do I know if my girlfriend loves me? She as been giving me signals as if she don't want me...but I spoke with her and she said if I didn't like you I would tell you directly. Another thing is she has college n I work full time. To add to it she ...

How can I show her I'm genuinely really interested in her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5298 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - So I got to go on a date with a new girl a few nights ago. We got together through a dating site and I was skeptical about the whole thing to begin with. When we met up and had dinner, the whole time our conversation flowed really well, we hung ...

She thinks her ex is innocent and I've had enough!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - Heya, I dont really want to be in this position, but: I am in two minds about my GF speaking to her ex, I've never liked it, and its been hard work for me to let them talk and see each other, they broke up just under a year ago, she says she mis...

How can I get her to come back to me...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5298 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - Me and my ex went out for 2 years, we broke up about 3 months ago and in that 2 years i hurt her bad but i told her it would never happen again and it didnt she hurt me also. about a month and a half ago she got another boyfriend i wanna get back ...

I cheated on my girlfriend. Should I tell her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - I am in a new relationship with this girl, who I have fallen in love with. However stupidly, I slept with another girl. This other girl was one who I had liked for ages and to be honest I succumbed to lust. The guilt now is unbearable, and I truly ...

Was she afraid I would turn out like the other boys she dated?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - well she's my ex now but before we started dating she told me that she had been hurt by alot of guys and all she wanted was for me to give her a chance which I had no problem doing because I truly liked her. She seemed different than alot of girls I ...

Can I Do Anything to Resolve?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me a few days ago. I'm sad. Can I do anything to resolve? We have been together for a year and a half. My ex gf and I took a break about 2 months ago because we've been bickering. She's been stressed out at work, sch...

Confused...Am I rejected?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - This guy and I have been seeing each other for a few months now. He lives in a different state. At the beginning, he was always messaging me and chasing me and we started getting intimate and had sex about 1 month after. He says he loves having ...

Apparently he went off me but it seems he is still leading me on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - i liked this guy and he liked me back but neither of us knew so we didnt make a move. he apparently went off me and i still like him, i'm not sure if he likes me still or not because he is being a bit weird at the moment. he puts his arm around me ...

Where can I talk openly about sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - Ok, this is probably not the best place to ask this, but since my question is where I should ask this question, here goes. Back story: I'm a geek and have always been one. I managed to get through middle school single (not for lack of trying),...

Was I being led on or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - I had met a girl at a club, she is rather crazy and wild and anyway, i started to talk to her heaps over the next weeks, and we were getting along real well. Eventually we decided to meet up in a club and it was good. She was rather smashed as she ...

I don't feel I cheated, but I was awkwardly busted. Do I explain the situation to him?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - Thanks so much in advance for your insight(s). After years of quick flings, NSAs and not-quite-rights, (I'm 47) I all but shut down my sexual activity and adpoted a "been there done that" mentality, I'm recently re-inspired. I believe that ...

On the second date would you rather be asked before he kissed you, or just kissed?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - Hi, this question's to the ladies. Imagine you were out on your second date and the guy wanted to kiss u. Would u prefer it if he looked into your eyes and asked "would u mind if i kissed u?" and kissed u only if u said 'yes' or would u prefer it if ...

I'm at a loss on how to approach her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5299 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - I'm drawn to this girl, who I have dated in the past but it wasn't a real relationship it was more a junior high I have a girlfriend/boyfriend now relationship that was two years ago. And the other day I looked at her and my heart started racing I ...

Was her kissing me on the first date too forward?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

30 October 2009 (M) - my friend asked out a girl and this girl is looking for someone for her best friend. So my friends girlfriend tells her best friend about me. My friend tells me theres this girl and she's my girlfriends blah blah and she wants to know if you want to ...

Crush on a guy I don't even know?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5298 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm having a crush on this one guy who doesn't even know. Although he is quite short, not good looking, but is very outgoing and funny. His jokes make me laugh all the time. And he and I share the same Chinese cultural background. So i...

If he held my hand does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - hello everyone. So i am a freshman and i am in a play currently, and if anyone here has ever been involved in theatre, they know how close you get to EVERYONE! So there is this senior who is so nice and sweet. BUT he has a girlfriend currently. But ...

Should I stay with Mr. Comfortable or try something new?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - I started dating my fiance when i was in high school. He has been my first everything, and we've been together for almost 6 years. He is a great guy, very nice. But I find myself bored with him. The sex has never been good we've tried everything.. ...

Is 8 partners too many at my age?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - Im 20 and have been having sex since i was 17. i have had 8 partners and when i told my new bf he looked shocked. he said it was becouse im not loose down there. but i feel like he thought that was alot. is 8 partners at my age to many?...

No guy will like me, they all just want sex. I just want to crawl into a black hole and not come out. Can someone help me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - Okay so me and my well now ex have been dating for about a year and a half. I was 16 when I met him and we started dating when I turned 17. I'm 18 now and he's 21. We recently broke up for I don't even remember, but he "joked" that he wants to get ...

I really love her but I'm bored and she really gets on my nerves. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - So im an agony aunt new to this website and i need some advice. Ive been in a relationship with my girl for almost four months now and I feel like im bored. I know its not because we spend to much time together because i go to school and work and ...

Help, my parents wont give me any freedom. What can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - My parent's wont give me any freedom. Im 16 and Im getting my license in a year which means I have to rely on my parents to drive me places the problem is they wont let me go anywhere without them. I can't go to the mall alone. I can't go to the ...

How do you sustain a relationship once the guy considers you his girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - I'm at a stage where I don't think I know how to sustain a relationship. I've been too busy with school and college before to pursue relationships, and when I did finally start 'dating' none of my dates turned into actual relationships. ...