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Is it safe to wear a butt plug for a long period of time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted yesterday

18 February 2018 (F - I have a new BF and he suggested we try anal sex. I have never done this before and so he said it wont hurt if I either relax or i could prepare myself by waring what he called a Butt Plug as this would make intercourse easier. Is it alright /safe ...

My husband is my mother’s suspect because he’s a recovering addict!

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16 February 2018 (F - My husband is a recovering addict. We live with my family at the moment and yesterday my mom wanted me to check the pockets of my husbands jeans because she found that she’s missing 4 pills. This is the 3rd time in the past couple months that she...

I want to start a business but struggle with anxiety and depression.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

16 February 2018 (F - Im writing this today because I am turning 25 and I'm a failure. I so badly want to be a productive and sensible adult but I'm just a big child. I've failed in so many areas of my life it's laughable. I have no career, no super, I finally managed to ...

I was working towards a goal that doesn't exist now.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4 days ago

15 February 2018 (F - I know this isn't a relationship question but everyone on here gives good honest advice. I feel so lost. I was training for the job position higher than mine, and I moved to another department and increased my hours hoping that will leave a goo...

Toxic relationship with my mother and my family have decided to completely ignore me since I don´t live with them anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

14 February 2018 (F - I need advice on a problem that is making me miserable, and it´s that my family are completely ignoring me and my mother was all that I had left but she is neglecting our relationship. This is not a new event, this has been going on since I was a ...

Any advise on what I can do to feel more relaxed while trying to learn and do my new job?

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13 February 2018 (M - Pls help! I have issues with anxiety and panic attacks. I have recently joined this new firm where most of my colleagues are from the best schools and are really smart. It's great that this opportunity had come through and the job is something tha...

How to stop being self-conscious about my body?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

13 February 2018 (F - I have been postponing scheduling my physical exam with my new doctor because I am pretty self-conscious about my body. My old doctor retired and he was at least 30+ years older than me and this new one he is younger and closer to my age range. I ...

I can't give up the fantasy of a fairy tale ending.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

13 February 2018 (F - The fear of being alone had led me to be alone - I have searched everywhere for a mate - online - bars - events - charity - church and nothing - when they have come out of the blue they have only made me miserable and empty- but I kept them just so ...

His profile picture on his second account is a sex scene and he’s interacting with other women! I feel sick!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

12 February 2018 (F - I've been dating this guy for 2 months. We always talk about our past. He doesn't have a father, he lives a very hard and tough life, his childhood was a total disaster But i was kind of shocked when he told me that he has a fake Facebook account ...

Am I asking to much from men?

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12 February 2018 (F - Am I asking to much from a man? Hello I have been single for two years and in my early thirties - long story short I have a mother that is like poison with her mouth “when will you find a guy” - “can you have a child in ur late thirties” - she ...

I want my pastor to treat me as he does others

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11 February 2018 (F - OK my head is frying and I have no one I can talk to about this without it ending up a mess. My pastor is hurting and confusing me! I am a young single mum to a 8 year old. I find life though sometimes. My pastor came out too see me 3 times in...

What on earth do I need to fix in me to set myself free?

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9 February 2018 (F - Hi people, I am trying to work out what on earth is wrong with me at the moment. I've had two important relationships over a 35year period, the last was a marriage, 13 years ago and ended due to his infidelity. Prior to my marriage, (15 yrs prio...

I drunk texted her while we were on a break!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

8 February 2018 (M - Hi. So me and my girlfriend are on a break due to our age difference I’m 10 years younger than her and this scares her as she feels she’ll hold me back. Anyway. Went out on Saturday and got very drunk woke up Sunday morning to see if text her. Now ...

I'm happy talking to this guy even though I'm married

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8 February 2018 (F - Hello all, I am 32 years old and been married since I was 23, I have 3 daughters now, my husband is a really good person and i loved him so much but he has cheated on me three years ago. i forgave him and this year while i was pregnant he was in a...

I thought he loved me but he cheated and she's pregnant!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

7 February 2018 (F - Hello this may be a lil not lengthy but I need advice. I was in a long distance relationship with someone I met on a job two years ago, we met when I moved to Virginia for a short period of time but because we were both in a relationship at the time ...

Will I ever be able to get pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

6 February 2018 (F - So to start im 25 years old my question is kinda going to be all over the place so just bare with me please. So 3 years back I was in a relationship with a guy who did me wrong and gave me a std that I had no symptoms of and it was sitting in my ...

Shouldn't she be washing her hands after using the toilet? Do I ask her about this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

6 February 2018 (M - I recently noticed that a relative of mine has stopped washing her hands after she poops. (Thin bathroom door and I can hear her flush after being in there for a long time and then she immediately comes out.) I know she hates hand sanitizer so I'm...

Is this seven year relationship worth working on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

6 February 2018 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years. He's currently in med school, and about 6 hours away from me. He did his post-bacc program at this school last year, and now he is in his first year. Even though we're 6 hours apart, I still ...

I have first date jitters, due to my acne! I

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4 February 2018 (M - I'm in my mid/late 20s and met a woman off a dating website who seems incredible (she's in her late 20s/early 30s) - we started chatting briefly using the site and found we had a lot in common. We then exchanged numbers and started chatting ...

Do we try to help this couple, whose marriage is deeply troubled?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

3 February 2018 (F - So this is for a couple who have been family friends for a long time, let call them A (the woman) and B (the man). They've had differences in approach and tension going on, but now they have stopped conversing all together. They have a child and ...

We've been together for 4 years but I now I'm torn

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

30 January 2018 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 4 years now and are living together.Now I've kinda hit a point where I'm torn.I need help as to what am i doing wrong or how should I take this.Every now and then my boyfriend hits these points where ...

How can I help my sister who has spiralled into depression?

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29 January 2018 (F - My sister had faced reality and spiraled into depression. I urged her to seek therapy (not just because of this last episode), but in the meantime she needs support. How can I help her more? Some time ago she had a month long fling with a guy...

Could my body after weight loss be turning men off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

29 January 2018 (F - I'm a little worried about this. So, i used to be quite large, about 84 pounds overweight and lost most of my weight the last few years. I'm thin but not as toned and obviously have a little loose skin on my stomach in particular, especially the ...

Do I contact him again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

28 January 2018 (F - im not sure how to go about this and would rather see it from other peoples views. A year ago i joined a dating site i met up with a guy i had already had 1 date with previously couple of years earlier. we drifted apart and lost contact. Anyway last ...

Is his interest in this activity normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 23 days ago

28 January 2018 (F - I'm not sure if this is an issue, but it's been on my mind. I have a wonderful boyfriend. I love him to death. We're pretty sexually active, and I can't help but please him. It's just that despite all the sex and oral we do, he's always asking to ...

My attempts at sex were horribly painful. How do I make things better?

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28 January 2018 (F - Uhm so about two years ago me and my friend lost our virginities to each other. We were both drinking but regardless of being drunk it was insanely painful for me. We tried so many times because I thought I was being a wimp but the pain was ...

I’m not sure I even want to meet her, she’s way more experienced and she’s suspicious of me and me of her, but we’ve been chatting 6 weeks!

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28 January 2018 (F - Did I do the right thing? Am a gay female, quieter loving and quiet person, been out of the gay scene a while, been years since my last girlfriend or date. Have tried dating apps this past 2years and met 3 people. One now a friend, one wa...

Should I get someone else to tell him I am not going on the cruise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

27 January 2018 (F - Thank you for your patience... First some background; week before Christmas my soon to be EX apologised for hitting me, minutes later I said “that will be the last time you touch me like that!” He immediately erupted too accuse me of hitting him ...

He doesn't want my advice

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

26 January 2018 (F - What should I think of this? I'm feeling negative and weird about it. I've been together with my boyfriend for over only half a year. I think it's natural to make suggestions for someone you care about when they are going through a problem. He is ...

Why do you think he unblocked my number and responded to me, and do you think there is

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

23 January 2018 (F - I was seeing someone ( we would have been together exactly a year next month) , but he broke up with me just over a week ago. We had an on and off relationship . He broke up with me because he said he has depression and was put on anti depressa...

Is it wrong of me to say I would leave my girlfriend if she became an addict? Is it right of her to say that I can't keep things that might "tempt" her around?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

23 January 2018 (F - I was having a conversation with my girlfriend the other day about her being upset because her brothers have started smoking weed again. I have no problem with weed. I've smoked it before myself, but apparently for them it starts them on harder ...

He's abusive and I need to get out

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

21 January 2018 (F - I'm going through a really difficult period in my life and don't know what to do. How to restart and go on... I'm 41 and have been with my husband for 15 years, no kids. Good times and bad. Well now things have gotten pretty bad. The good times y...

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