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Teen daughter does not believe me. In your opinion did I do something wrong?

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25 February 2017 (F - I'm a single mother of two children. A girl who is 15 and a son who is 11 years old. We had a good life. We would take vacations and go back to our home country to visit every year. They both attend private Christian schools. Five years ago I di...

Is this recently widowed woman demonstrating a desire for a closer physical relationship with me, or is she grieving?

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24 February 2017 (M - Hello A woman i know, when we meet, we hug and kiss each other on the cheek. Not long ago her husband died. The last we met we hugged and she placed my head on her breastl Does she want a closer relationship with me? As in sexual? Or is it so...

We've dated for 4 years, but now she doesn't make an effort anymore. What could improve the relationship?

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24 February 2017 (F - I am in between a rock and a hard place....I have a girlfriend of 4 years and I feel differently about our relationship to what I used to. I want to talk to my girlfriend about it but she doesn't want to listen! Nor talk...she is pretty closed w...

Should I ? I'm tempted to contact the other people involved and ask them

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24 February 2017 (M - Looking for some advice here.. About a year ago, I found out that my fiancée and two of her (our?) friends had been exchanging intimate photos - and had even been together a couple of times. I confronted her, she broke down, told me that the o...

I feel he guilt trips me into staying with him.

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23 February 2017 (F - My partner needs help with his anger and possessive behaviour , how do I help him .. I know I can't help him he needs a professional but what do I do in this process !? It's sounds horrible because im finding it hard to believe he will change and ...

How does one overcome loneliness? I feel like I have no one to talk to nor anyone I can confide in

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23 February 2017 (F - feel like I'm alone !! I feel like I have no one to talk to or confide in!! family members aren't an option I don't want to tell them what's really on my mind. my boyfriend well he is not to interested and even then some of my feelings aren't ...

Chaotic childhood. Do I leave it ? do I dig further to find out more about my mother?

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23 February 2017 (F - My upbringing was somewhat chaotic. my father 19 when he had me and my mother a drug addict. Me and my twin sister were removed from her care at 1 years old and spent sometime in a foster home until a relative fostered us. we were given a little ...

I'm pregnant and the residual odor of cigarettes is drifting into my apartment from the apartment below. How can I get rid of the odour?

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23 February 2017 (F - I am 6 months pregnant and iv literally tried everything for the cigarette odor that has been drifting in my room from the apartment beneath me to disappear. I talked with the neighbors below me, but they didn't seem like they would change. And si...

Why don't my men value my looks?

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23 February 2017 (F - All my life I have had relationships with men who turned out to not be physically attracted to me. Four relationships in fact. Each was attracted to me for other reasons but the physical just wasn't one and it always ended up being an issue. This ...

I need a kick to end this toxic relationship!

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22 February 2017 (F - I am in the worst relationship I have EVER been in. I'm totally miserable and bored to tears when I'm with him. He is rude, selfish, disrespectful to me and woman in general. I'm ashamed to admit I have been with this guy for over six years. He ...

Should I continue to see this man? He is also my boss. He says he wants to keep his independence, and doesn't want anything serious

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22 February 2017 (F - Hi all! I've recently started a new position in my work place and since moving facilities my boss and I have become very close (he is the same age as me 26). It all started with him asking discreet questions about my relationship status,...

Should I stop having sex with my boyfriend???

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22 February 2017 (F - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 9 months. During month 6 he proposed to me the issue I am having is with sex I want enjoy having sex with him but I crave it so much I feel overwhelmed. We don't have sex often because I really want to s...

I honestly don't know what to do. What can I do? She blames her childhood for her major trust issues

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22 February 2017 (M - Hi, I have been together with my fiance for about 8 months now. Unfortunately, she has major trust issues and she fuels it by giving me no space to breathe. she expects me to tell her everything in detail. ie if I get a message from a friend(ma...

Should I end this relationship or work with it? He's become my best friend, but the excitement and passion have faded

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22 February 2017 (F - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now but i am 18 and just starting to feel like i want to have other boyfriends and get to know other guys. I do really love my boyfriend but hes kind of more my bestfriend now. I defintely dont have ...

How can this be resolved? I want a Baby. He couldn't think of anything worse.

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21 February 2017 (F - My husband told me the other day he never wants to have children. I’m devastated. Don’t get me wrong I love him completely and can appreciate that it’s just how he feels but I feel angry and bitter and am having serious thoughts about leaving him if ...

Am I normal for hoping he could overcome his alcoholism?

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21 February 2017 (F - I want to know if I am normal. I have been involved with an alcoholic on/of for ten years. I miss him deeply, like I am vexed. My mind knows the truth but my heart can not get the message. I weigh out the cons but the love I feel and felt outweighs ...

Is it true that men simply don't want to see my body type, over weight but not huge, or is my body type just boring to them?

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20 February 2017 (F - My bf looks at porn with the women who are much thinner than me and also those who are extremely overweight . I am overweight but not huge like the bbw porn he likes and he says he doesn't have any porn of women like me because it's hard to find ...

I can't get over the thought that he stares at my little sister!

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19 February 2017 (F - Hi everyone. I'm writing this as my thoughts are consuming me and ultimately upsetting me and affecting my behaviour with my partner, which I hate. I have been feeling very insecure lately and issues of the past keep popping into my mind and I find ...

How can I figure out what job suits me? Any tips on finding the perfect job?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

19 February 2017 (F - I work in a prestigious corporate role and I absolutely hate it. I feel like my life revolves around my job and I'm so dependent on it (money) that everyday just feels robotic. I went to school undergrad and grad and now I have a corporate role as ...

Should I tell my ex-best friend I have feelings for him ?

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19 February 2017 (F - I have a best guy friend. For about 2 years we were always together , flirting, deep connection . I can't explain it was more love . Everyone used to think we was a couple I'm 99% sure he liked me but neither of us pushed for it .I wasn't sure whe...

Is there any way I can remedy this situation? He's avoiding spending time alone with me!

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17 February 2017 (F - My boyfriend and I were together all last spring 2016 and part of the summer, but we had known each other much longer then that and I am very close to his oldest son since he goes to school with my daughter and is alway over my house. It was his son ...

How can I stop feeling so very angry with my ex boyfriend? ?

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17 February 2017 (F - Hi , I used to be in a relationship with this guy , we started off as being friends he was all pleasant he even sat alone with me to have lunch . But then things started to change, we both developed romantic feelings for each other, we both fel...

My long distance boyfriend worries about me too much

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15 February 2017 (F - Hello! Me and my bf, who is a year older than me, have been going out for one month now - not really a long time but still - and from the way things look, we both really like and care for each other. During the early days of our relationship, his...

I like older guys. He was respectful to me. But then his decision to ejaculate on my face bothered me. Were his actions out of line?

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15 February 2017 (F - I'm attracted to older men and that's what I normally date. I met this guy recently. He's 34. After exchanging texts for a while, we went out. It went really well. We had great conversation. There was chemistry between us. It was great all around. I ...

My previous teaacher was awesome. I do not like my new teacher, so how can I stay positive in this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

15 February 2017 (F - My friends and I have had so many awesome teachers in the last few years, but there is one who stands out in particular. I always learnt best in her classes; she had a tendency to find so many ways to visualize the topic and make even the most ...

Will my life improve? What do I need to do? I feel so alone and scared.

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15 February 2017 (F - Am a 41 year old woman and I've asked for help and taken advice from here. Which is probably why I'm back. Asking for advice. I'm divorced from an alcoholic husband and with the advice given to me, I have even found the strength to end an affair...

My LDR is in limbo. What should I do?

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15 February 2017 (F - I'm writing this to gain clarity and ask for help on a seemingly complex situation that I find myself in. Last February I met a guy through common friends during a little party. We never really talked much. But a week later he contacted me on faceb...

Two years and I should be over the treatment at my last workplace!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

14 February 2017 (F - It's been nearly 2 years since I left my precious work place. This workplace was awful. I was treated horribly by both management and staff. I was talked about behind my back, was given almost all the workload and I was even called 'their bitch' a...

Is this sensitivity normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

14 February 2017 (F - We had sex which was great. But he hadn't had sex for a year and his penis was ultra sensitive even for me to touch. I wanted to pull and squeeze his penis, I wanted to give him oral, but he stopped me, saying his penis is too sensitive? Is this ...

I'm tired of the way our life is going and wonder if its time to throw in the towel

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14 February 2017 (M - Hi I need some advice and somewhere to express exactly how I feel, I have been with my current partner for a little over 7 years now, she fell pregnant very early in the relationship (within the first 4 - 6 weeks). After which she was diagnosed wi...

Anxiety from a previous relationship stops me moving forward!

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13 February 2017 (F - I like a guy but ever since i realised i like him I'm just stuck in this vortex of anxiety and fear. We went out on a date and it was fantastic but I'm feeling even more unsure of myself. I had a previous relationship where everything was going ...

My LDR is not motivated to meet in real life.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

13 February 2017 (F - I've been dating my LDR boyfriend for over 2 years and we haven' met yet. He never wants to pinpoint a meeting date and acts unconfortable when I try to. He says he wants to improve himself first so when we meet he makes the best impression on me. ...

My 16 year old sister is sexually active, without birth control. Should I just come out and tell my Dad what my sister told me ?

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13 February 2017 (M - My dad is a single dad , he does a great job raising my sister and I but he's a little clueless in the age girl department. He believes everything my sister tells him. I've seen her come home drunk and convince my dad that she had food poisoni...

She made me wait until marriage for sex, but we are now married and still no sex!

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13 February 2017 (M - I know these questions get asked plenty of times - and I know there is no cut and dry answer, but here is my story. I'm 34 years old and my wife of 5 years is 24. She wanted to wait until marriage to have sex which was more than fine for me seei...

My parents are very critical of friends and boyfriends.

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13 February 2017 (F - I have 2 very loving and involved parents. My one complaint is that they can be too judgmental of the people in my life. I have always been very cautious and responsible. But I do have a history of choosing lousy boyfriends/ accepting way le...

I fear our cultures will clash too much!

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12 February 2017 (F - Dear agony aunts Recently I have been seeing a guy that I really like and starting to have feelings for, we have been on several dates and been seeing each other for the last couple of months I like this guy so much but he is English living i...

At seven months pregnant I want to feel loved and secure.

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12 February 2017 (F - This question pertains to self esteem and insecurity. My bf and I are expecting. In the past, we've had issues concerning social media and the pictures I chose to post. I argue that my pictures were hardly provocative, but he was uncomfortable with ...

Our arguments often lead to physical altercations!

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12 February 2017 (F - ive been in this relationship for about five months now and things are definitely not the way i thought they would be. I care deeply about this man but the communication is limited. We get into arguments which some end in physical altercations. Both ...

A year after breaking it off with me he wants my phone number, should I give it to him?

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12 February 2017 (F - So I have a question I'd like some help with. I'm really confused as to whether I should get back with my ex. I was with my ex for 9 years 15-24. There were no issues everything was great almost perfect but nothing is perfect I guess. I loved h...

Any resources on how to deal with an accept childlessness and the relentless onset of menopause?

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11 February 2017 (F - My sister is expecting her first child. Any resources on how to deal with an accept childlessness and the relentless onset of menopause? I had no fertility problems - just never met a guy who wanted to commit and I never had the guts to get preg...

I like her but she is a prositute, how can I get her to leave that work?

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11 February 2017 (M - Please help me. I have been in hiding wishing there was someone to love me with true heart. I am searching a true and honest woman to be my good friend and possibly marry her if God decide we should be together. I am tired of boy and girl friend ...

How can manage to be less idealistic in this situation? I accidentally idealize my LDR partner and get disappointed when my expectations don't mesh with reality

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9 February 2017 (F - I'm in a long distance relationship which is hard because in his absence, I fill in the gaps of who I think he is or what he's like from memory and my memory is always more rosy than reality. Like right now I just think he's the greatest I want to ...

I need help to deal with new found info about wife's past. What should I do?

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9 February 2017 (M - My wife and I have been married for five years and have two kids. I have never asked anything about her past all I knew is she wasn't a virgin when we met. This past summer we were at a pool party and one of my best friend's from school was ther...

I miss my Mom. Is it normal to feel so bad and upset moving out from a parent ?

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8 February 2017 (F - I'm 22, married and having a baby in 6 weeks time. My father died a year and a half ago and at the time myself and husbands rent was raised sky high meaning we temporarily needed to move home for a few months however the few months turned into 15 ...

How can I encourage him to consider discussing with me, and choosing a baby boy's name with me, where we both agree together on the name?

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8 February 2017 (F - My husband and I don't live together because we don't have jobs. I live with my mother and she is supporting me financially for the moment. She will also be getting a house for my bf and us to live in as well. I see my bf once a month, we live a...

How can I keep calm in this intense situation?

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8 February 2017 (F - I want to ask on relaxation tips and trying not to be paranoid in a very stressful time in my life- here is a quick summary I got laid off from my last job(I work in HR(5years of experience with a masters) and I landed a reputable job in...

He's verbally abusive. Consequences of leaving him concern me. Why do I seem to have the worst luck with men ? ??

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8 February 2017 (F - what am I meant to do? how am I meant to feel? what do I do? I ask these questions and I'm not even sure If they are the right questions to ask!! I have no one in my life that I can talk to about any of this. I'm feel alone and need to feel lik...

Does he sound like a shy guy?

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7 February 2017 (F - I am in my 40s and have just recently become friendly with a school dad. I sort of knew about him at school (he is a single dad), chatted briefly to him at a party last year and hadn't spoken since. He didn't really acknowledge me and then I ga...

My married boyfriend is interacting less with me and he seems depressed. Do you think he wants to cut ties with me?

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7 February 2017 (F - My boyfriend is married and we've been dating for quite sometime. His wife got to know about me and tried to get me to confess, which I avoided somehow. He says that he would divorce her as they don't have any sort of bonding (they don't have any ...

Do you think he actually likes me, in the same way that I like him?

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7 February 2017 (F - I really am crushing on this boy at my uni. It has been going on for quite some time but I don’t see him very often – maybe once or twice a month. Sometimes I don’t see him for a few months. We have very different classes and schedules. We ha...

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