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He says he will never marry me because of my past!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted today

24 September 2017 (F - Hello, My question is...is there any hope for a future with my ex-boyfriend? We dated for six months and he always suffered from retrograde jealousy for me. During this time I foolishly, casually mentioned my exes, not fully grasping what to...

Need help/ideas/advice I have a controlling guy friend... He is a friend forreal.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

22 September 2017 (F - I have a contolling guy friend...i mean controlling in ways that i dont believe are healthy at all... Prob the worst hardest controlling techniques ever... And yes to me very odd and differant because he is my friend... in that sense i feel its ...

We were such good friends, now she wont even talk to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

21 September 2017 (F - Slightly off topic of love and relationships but wondering if someone can shine some light over a situation with a close friend. I'm broken, torn, lost and really struggling to come to terms with the loss of my best friend, for the simple reaso...

What should I do about this date with a man who suffers from PTSD?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

20 September 2017 (F - This is quite a lot to read but theres a lot of detail to it. ive been trying online dating for a while had a few dates but nothing special yet. A guy messaged me and we got chatting i could tell the relief in him that i wasnt stuck up and and ...

Are we sexually incompatible? I need help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

19 September 2017 (F - my fiancé and I have been together for a year and a half and we have been struggling sexually. when we first got together he told me he wanted to wait until marriage to have sex I was perfectly Fine with that as we both were practicing christianity ...

Heart says carry on, head says we are now toxic! Advice needed!

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19 September 2017 (F - Hi. So my 8 year relationship seems to be at its end and I've been given an ultimatum. We split up or we stay together and try to make it work. Some background, we are a young couple, we have been together from a young age and have been through ...

We've had rough times but seem to want only us! But his marijuana use is a problem for me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

19 September 2017 (F - Hi, everyone. Hope everyone is doing well. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now. And we seem to love each other so much. And i sat seem becuz we say we love each other to the max but we do many things to hurt each other. And find it ...

I'm 28, watched my father die, and now watching my mother die. How to deal with anger?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

18 September 2017 (F - I am 28 years old. My parents have been divorced since I was a child. Both of my parents have had poor health for as long as I can remember -- extreme obesity, diabetes, high blood pressure, heart issues, and so on. As I grew up, I watched my fat...

Am I still a virgin? And how can I have pain free intercourse when I'm ready?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

18 September 2017 (F - Hi I wanted to know this question everyone is telling me I am still a virgin but here goes .. The first time I had sex he only put the tip in I bleed a little bit and he says I am still like a virgin because he did ain't push it all the way in the ...

How do I get him to understand my loneliness?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

18 September 2017 (F - Hi everyone. I'm just looking for a bit of advice. I am married to my partner who I've known since we were kids. I've been feeling so lonely recently as I feel like I've lost connection with my friends. I work and sit at home waiting for my husba...

I want to marry this woman and find it hard to let her go! Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

18 September 2017 (M - Help help help. In a previous column I told everyone about how my x dumped me after 3 1/2 years by text. I also found that she had a dating profile. We talked on the phone. She says she feels like a horrible person for what she did and we had long ...

My girlfriend has poor dental hygiene!

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18 September 2017 (M - My girlfriend has poor dental hygiene. Her teeth are yellowish and her breath smells bad.I love her but everytime I wish to express it with a kiss I hold back. How do I bring this up with her?...

Something is holding me back from having sex with my boyfriend

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18 September 2017 (F - I keep stopping myself from having sex with my boyfriend. I'm still a virgin and my boyfriend knows this. The last two times we have spent the night together, he has tried to initiate sex which I have no problem with. I feel i want to have sex...

I'm not as turned on by my IRL girlfriend as I was with the LDR!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

17 September 2017 (M - I've recently started dating a girl from my work who is the sweet, caring, interesting, real girlfriend material. Before her I was casually seeing a girl I met online, it was nothing serious, just dating and a lot of sex really. Now here's my ...

Why can't I remember him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

17 September 2017 (F - The year after I graduated from high school, I had a sexual encounter with a boy I had graduated with and known well. 40 years later we have reconnected...problem is I do not remember the encounter and he remembers every detail right down to what I ...

How should I handle one of my biggest regrets and the depression it is causing me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

16 September 2017 (M - When I was in high school, I was so afraid of being bullied that I became a bully myself. I was a immature kid and the way I was thinking was completely wrong. About a year after I graduated, one of the kids that I bullied, Zach, died from ...

I want my husband to share me

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14 September 2017 (F - i want my husband to share me. i have had this desire for a long time. it started when my husband told me, during foreplay one night, he wanted to watch me have sex with another man. we talked about it and i said i would like to do it. but afte...

How do I encourage my girlfriend to deal with her depression?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

14 September 2017 (M - I think my girlfriend is depressed, I've been dating her for 8 months now and she doesn't have any close female friends and she's incredibly lonely. Most of the time she'll only leave the house to go to classes and she misses quite a few, she has ...

Are we incompatible if he has these concerns early on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

14 September 2017 (F - Dear Cupid, my boyfriend is hurt that I don't spend more time with him and that I'm not giving him enough attention. I have crippling depression and often I am so anxious and so deflated even basic functions are difficult. I still see him at least ...

How do I find some interesting dates?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

13 September 2017 (F - I went on a date recently. I had loads of interests in common, he was attractive and he has a stable job. We have a second date. There is only one problem I found him a little boring but I find this is my fault as I normally find people boring ...

Her messaging with a guy makes me uncomfortable!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

12 September 2017 (M - Hi, my girlfriend of 7 years has been talking to a guy on and off for about 3 years now, I tell her that I'm uncomfortable with it and I get mixed responses. One time she said if you don't like me talking to **** Ill stop, I don't want to hurt you...

I don't want sex to become a duty!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

10 September 2017 (F - I have polycystic ovary syndrome. If often means my hormones are all over the place. Sometimes I want sex and sometimes I really don't want sex. But my long term boyfriend naturally has a higher sex drive than me and seems to take it really ...

Any advise on this relationship will be welcome.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

9 September 2017 (M - I met a woman online about 2 yrs ago where she had posted she was divorced but was actually still married and her husband left her and was seeking a divorce. I told her she needed to finish her divorce before we could date because I don’t date ...

My mother always gives me such a hard time

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

9 September 2017 (F - Have you ever felt heart ache ? well I have. The feeling of light pain and sour when you're really depressed,and I had one experience for my dying grandma, another one for myself. My mom is a very traditional woman.she always wants me to learn ever...

I feel always destined to be different, to be alone, and on the periphery.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 16 days ago

8 September 2017 (F - Please can ask your thoughts on something aunts? I'm a lady in my mid 30s, professionally accomplished and financially independent. At work I'm well respected and I get on well with most people. In fact I get on well with lots of people outside...

I'm starting to overanalyze again, I'm afraid of self sabatoge in my relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

6 September 2017 (F - Due to me making the wrong choices w/the types of guys I date, I always have doubt of his interest in the back of my mind. My bf came from vacation and I have asked to see him. Before anyone tears me into pieces about him being tired, overwhelmed ...

How can I let go of the anger I have toward my parents?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

4 September 2017 (F - How can I make peace with my absuive childhood? My parents were absuvice verbally and physically towards each other - and raised me in that environments - I cannot remember a day of peace - they are way too judgemetnatl - my father is a man that is ...

Was this a missed financial opportunity and should I have consulted with my boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

31 August 2017 (F - I'd like opinions from everyone about communication and responsibility within a relationship. To briefly summarize, my boyfriend and I live in my childhood home. We get by w/ our jobs and friends/tenants helping out on the monthly expenses. B/c my ...

Do I tell potential dates from the start that I have acne on my butt and thighs?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

30 August 2017 (F - I just got out of a 11 year relationship. I have body acne bad like on my butt and inner thighs. I feel gross...like no one will ever be with me because of the acne down there....would you be with someone who had acne there? Do I tell people about ...

He waits for me to leave and then mastubates!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

29 August 2017 (F - Sometimes (often enough) my husband masturbates as soon as i leave the house. I dont care that he masturbates but this really annoys me. I know because he leaves evidence on my computer. I know most of the time its stress and he does it to calm ...

My friend drunkenly ranted into my voicemail. Do I call him or wait for him to contact me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

28 August 2017 (F - So last night I was sat alone minding my own business when I received two phone calls , both left voicemails from a good friend of mine. He has helped me through a lot of relationship problems, he has made it clear he fancies me but he knows th...

Anal sex embarrassment!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

27 August 2017 (F - I had anal sex last night and thought I was clean, when he went really deep I had a big accident and it literally went everywhere was so embarrassing my boyfriend was really good about it we had a shower and he has just shrugged it off but I am so ...

Is it ever ok for your boyfriend to insinuate that you're fat? Feeling hurt and ashamed, how do I react?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

27 August 2017 (F - Hey guys :-) I was just hoping for some advice. I've been with my boyfriend for 7 years and I think of myself as a really good girlfriend to him. When we first got together we were both in very good shape. However over the years we've both put w...

How do I fix this verbally abusive relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

25 August 2017 (F - Hi, I'm really am confused by my relationship. I am 27 and my boyfriends 29. I've been with my boyfriend for over 4 years. It's not been an easy four years tbh. When we met I just finished university. He was living with his parents, getting...

I started bleeding after sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

24 August 2017 (F - Hi this is a question for the women. I've been in a relationship for 4 years and last night about 2/3 hours after sex I started bleeding. I had just finished my period 2 days before. anyone else experienced anything like this and is it anything t...

I've just completed cancer treatment and now my toxic ex wants to come back

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

24 August 2017 (F - Hi aunts, I've just completed a years worth of cancer treatment and luckily I might be OK, but my ex partner who was abusive to me during our three year relationship has got in touch saying he might want to get back together with me. He was with ...

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