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I'm depressed... he's depressed, and I'm paranoid that he'll leave me again... How can I overcome this?

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7 November 2009 (F) - Hey there, I've been um-ing and ah-ing whether or not to post this for a couple of days now because it sounds trivial but it's plaguing me, so here goes... To begin with, I'm 25 and I've had depression since I was about 16. It was a mixture o...

Is there a risk of prostate cancer if you don't masturbate or have sex?

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7 November 2009 (M) - Hi Cupid,I asked this question here last time about the word masturbation. this question confused me sometimes, i want to be sure of it. my question is, a person that still a virgin whether a boy or a girl. like a boy that still a virgin. if the ...

My husband hit me while drunk and doesn't remember. Should I trust him not to do it again?

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6 November 2009 (F) - Recently my husband hit me. He had been drinking and he lost his temper. He had no recollection the next day, has apologised and promised it will not happen again. I just don't know how I feel or if i'm stupid to believe him. He is a drinker anyway, ...

Again I made the same mistake by sleeping with a sex worker...

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6 November 2009 (M) - Again i made the same mistake by sleeping with a sex worker....and again i didnt enjoy it and felt sad and upset.... I t really gets me down.. however this time was different .... I again didnt enjoy it but this time she asked me ..... " You seem ...

Can a person that is still a virgin get a disease?

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6 November 2009 (M) - Hi Cupid,I asked this question here last time about the word masturbation. this question confused me sometimes, i want to be sure of it. my question is, a person that still a virgin whether a boy or a girl. like a boy that still a virgin. if the ...

Can anyone help me, or give me any advice on changing the way I perceive sex?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I have always had a problem with sex, it was something I'd quite happily let guys do, but it was something I let happen to me (hoping there was a hug and the end), rather than something I felt part of. I got together with a guy 8 years ago. We'd bee...

Do I need therapy after being sexually assaulted or is it possible that I have gotten over it and won't need therapy?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I was drugged and raped by someone I just met whilst unconscious when traveling alone last year. I can recall everything prior to falling unconscious, once during (somewhat blurry and brief), and can remember afterwards when I wake to find him next ...

Shaving rash - how do I prevent it and is it a turn off?

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6 November 2009 (F) - this is a question for the ladies.. its a simple, common thing but its really annoying! SHAVING RASH. how do i get it smoother down there without the rash? thanks girls :) and guys.. do you care about when hair grows back a bit? i mean its h...

Permanently dehydrated...

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5 November 2009 (F) - Ok well this isnt really relationshippy, but i need help. I'm pernamently dehydrated, and i have some sort of mental block in me that makes me hate to drink. i refuse to drink tap water and am allergic to most juices, and i can only drink from small ...

Can you get a urinary tract infection from anal sex?

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5 November 2009 (M) - Can u get a uranary track infection from anal sex?...

2 questions: My little brother searches for porn and I don't have my period yet!

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5 November 2009 (F) - [MODERATOR NOTE: The same (13 year-old) poster has presented two questions, which has been combined into one post.] ok my little brother is on youtube serching on sex and i know cause i checked the search on my laptop what shold i do??? Also, why...

Is it normal to prefer sex during the first days of menstruation?

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5 November 2009 (M) - I am curious. My wife tells me that she is most interested in Sex about the 3rd or 4th day of her period. Is this quite normal?...

I'm depressed after my abortion.

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5 November 2009 (F) - im 14 and i had an abortion in February, and know im depressed and want a baby. what do i do? please help me. i have never been this depressed in my life before please please help me ...

My girlfriend is hardly ever in the mood for sex, have I done something to cause this?

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5 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my girlfriend for a little over 3 years now and we hardly have sex anymore. she had cervical cancer last summer and since then shes never been in the mood for sex.. is it something i did or what should i do? [Moderator's Note: Po...

I know I can't get over our break-up while we have contact, but I can't abandon him while he is treated for cancer!

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5 November 2009 (F) - I'm in such a difficult situation at the moment. I split with my boyfriend 2 months ago, but I still love him. We've stayed in contact since that day which I know we shouln't have because it's made it impossible to get over him. He still loves me ...

My love has ADHD. What are all the things I may need to know to ensure our relationship stays healthy?

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5 November 2009 (M) - Allo! My girlfriend and I have been together for...ah...whoa...21 months, that's nearly 2 years, lol, neither of us realized. I'm 18, she turns 19 in a couple of months and we seem, well, absolutely fine. We'd like to hold on to our relations...

Would you believe a married man who......

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5 November 2009 (F) - would you believe a married man, who is not having sexual relations with his wife is taking extenz only for his own self esteem (like you would lift weights or work out) as he claims. Or would you belive he is having sexual relations elsewhere? Wo...

Could this be implantation bleeding?

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5 November 2009 (F) - i had sex on november 2. we didn't use a condom. i have been on the pill, but i have missed a couple of pills. my period isn't due yet but this morning i had a little bit of bleeding. it was very light but i know i shouldn't be bleeding yet. could ...

Will a penis that curves to the left be a turn off to women?

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5 November 2009 (M) - Hey. Im 15 and my penis curves slightly to the left. I was just wonderin is this a turn off to most girls and will it still feel good to them when I do decide to have sex? ...

He gets a real bad pain in his stomach when we have sex!

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4 November 2009 (F) - Ok so il just cut straight to the chase when me and my boyfriend have sex he gets a real bad pain in his stomach. he has been to the doctors about this and they gave him tablets but they didnt really work. I just want to know has anyone expierienced ...

I can't stand being alone in the room with .... myself!

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4 November 2009 (F) - So Its been months-maybe years and Im sat here finally recognising that maybe I have a problem. Im quite a confidant person, I can meet andtalk to anyone and thrive in busy environments. yet I cannot bare to spend a night in to myself. Everynight ...

Every time we make love, he gets a sore or bruises on his dick!

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4 November 2009 (F) - recently, each time my boyfriend makes love to me, he gets a sore on his dick or bruises. i am really worried about this new development .i get wet when we make love and i shave the hair in my pubic area. so i really dont know what the cause is. ...

Help! Is my penis too small?

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4 November 2009 (M) - i am a 15 years old and i believe my penis is too small, it is approx 14.5cm in length and 3.5cm in width. I am very scared to have sex because i am so insecure about the size. I want to know, wil it grow? can i make it bigger? and what does a woman ...

She cheated on me with two men and now wants me to give her time before we break up!

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4 November 2009 (M) - 5 months ago me (32) and my girlfriend (23) moved in together. Previously we had been having a long distance relationship for 2.5 years. Things were going very well and then she went on a 2 month medical elective on a pacific island. A month into ...

Worried about vaginal size and shaving rash

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4 November 2009 (F) - hi. so ive got an embarrassing question, i did post it before but it didnt get posted. i hope it wasnt too rude, ill try to tone it down this time. i want it to be straight so i can get some advice/opinons. anyway. im sort of embarrassed by my vagin...

If you lose weight can it make your penis bigger?

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4 November 2009 (M) - So, my penis isn't really that big. I'd say maybe 4 inches when erect. I know that 4 inches is long enough to satisfy a girl, but I would rather be average of maybe 5.5 inches. That would make me feel more confident with myself. I'm also a bit on ...

Bipolar wife pregnant-help!

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4 November 2009 (M) - My wife is bipolar. She is also pregnant, so she isnt taking her meds. I knew this would be hard, but she is really starting to get to me. I love her, but Im getting really tired of the fights.... that more often than not, seem to be about stupid ...

I lied about my virginty. Can a man feel your hymen?

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4 November 2009 (F) - I am a virgin, but for my own personal reasons I do not want my guy to know. We are having sex for the first time tomorrow night, and I'm afraid he might feel my hymen and know I lied to him. I don't care about the bleeding, since I know that can...

I have butterflies for no reason. What's wrong?

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4 November 2009 (F) - i am gettin butterflies in my stomach for noo reason every now and again an di dont know why can someone tell me why please thankyou x i know i sound realli dumb but my friend has tpold me she experienced dis wen she was pregnant :-( please help ...

They say I am pretty but fat. Should I be offended?

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4 November 2009 (F) - Okay soo. Im 13 and i am over weight. please dont comment giving me tips on how to lose weight or on how to be healthier, im offended enough. i have low self asteem when it comes to my body, i have a stunning face but my body just isnt right, and ...

Abnormal discharge

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3 November 2009 (F) - I'm almost seventeen, and I began my periods when I turned about thirteen. I think it was a few months before my first period came that I noticed the discharge from my vagina. Though I care for my mother, I didn't and still do not feel comfortable ...

Boyfriends make me feel drowsy. Why?

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3 November 2009 (F) - I was wondering...everytime I am with my boyfriend I feel extremly tired. Like we will be sitting close (touching and holding hands) and all of a sudden a strong wave of drowsiness come over me. So I lay my head on his shoulder; but I dont sleep...

My period is SO much heavier than NORMAL!

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3 November 2009 (F) - I am not sure if this is normal...so I will ask? I got my period yesterday(not for the first time,had it lots of times) and it has been really heavy, since yesterday around 3 pm and now I have gone through like 6 pairs of underwear. Also I have been ...

Is Polycystic Ovarian Synrome hereditary?

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3 November 2009 (F) - my sister has just found out that she has Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome and she is trying for a baby. The doctor said it may be harder for her to conceive because of this. Does anyone know if it is hereditary?? Its just that a few years ago when i was ...

I have a "pimple" down there... what could it be?

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3 November 2009 (?) - Okay so I had sex with only 3 ppl and and shave when I know im going to have sex..the question is that I have this so alike pimple on my private area that seem never to go away.I don't know what is it cuz I shaved down there and I think i cause a ...

Late with the morning-after pill, and now bad cramping -- is there something wrong?

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3 November 2009 (F) - about two weeks ago I went to the clinic to get the morning after pill, it was really late (64 hours) and a couple of days ago at night I had REALLY bad cramps! :( And I had them again this morning! :( Is there something really wrong with me? My ...

How can I convince my boyfriend to stop stressing about my health?

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3 November 2009 (F) - I don't know what's going on. Ever since my boyfriend found out that I'm about 20 pounds underweight, he has been a bit over-protective than usual. I've explained to him that my doctor has put me on a good diet and I should gain some weight in the ...

My mental illness broke us up, and I want her back! do I have a chance? Is there a way?

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2 November 2009 (M) - I Dated my ex, the love of my life (I am sure)for 4 years, but my bipolar disorder (diagnosed) ruined our relationship (paranoia, delusions, rage, hypersexuality, and general mania). I am now medicated (lithium), and well. She has a new boyfriend, ...

Has anyone else felt this ache?

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2 November 2009 (F) - My period should be due next Week and it comes about every 30-32 days. 14 days after my period I had a ache on one side of my pelvic area. So I think I ovulated then.... Now I have been getting a ache since yesterday and it seems like it could be...

I have been told she is using me because she already has a b/f. Do women hide their intentions?

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2 November 2009 (M) - There is a girl I met short time ago... I got told she is messing around with me because she has got a boyfriend but she keeps on arousing me. When she phones with her boyfriend they don't even say they love eachother or similar... She has had some ...

What could these tiny white lumps be? Are they normal?

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2 November 2009 (M) - Hi, i'm a male 17 years of age and im bi. i have had sex before with both guys and girls but my problem is my male friend who i have slept with before wants me to shave the pubic hair around my penis. so i did this and noticed some tiny white lumps ...

I get turned on really easily. Will that scare off my girlfriend?

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2 November 2009 (M) - The title says it all. I'm not a virgin, and I have alot of attractive female friends that hug and give me kisses all the time, but everytime I am around my girlfriend and she even like rubs up against me I get an erection! This has never really ...

Do my actions warrent a breakup?

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2 November 2009 (F) - I hope I didn't destroy my relationship with the man I want to spend the rest of my life with!! He has epilepsy, brought on by a blow to the head when he was in high school. He is on medication for it and as long as he takes it, he is fine. I hadn't...

What can I do about stretch marks?

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2 November 2009 (F) - okay well im 15 and every since i was 12 or 13 ive had really bad stretch marks, im a very big person or anything. but im veryyy embarrassed of my body, i wont wear girly cloths. i will only wear them if they are long sleeves and i always wear guys ...

Is there a way to check for broken hymen? Out of curiousity and health.

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2 November 2009 (F) - Is there a way I can check if my hymen is broken or not?i want to see if theres a way.just for curiosity...

I want to change my life! Should I feel guilty for wanting that?

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2 November 2009 (F) - I am a 45 yr old woman,(age posted wrong?) I have been going through the need for change for a couple years now. I am depressed, lonely, bored and burnt out. I want to relocate somewhere else I would enjoy more. I want a new job. A new start. I have ...

Every morning its harder and harder to get up

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1 November 2009 (F) - every mornin i wake up gets harder and harder for me i am suffering from depression but i cant afford the therapy... everyone mornin i get up and apologize to myself and the guy im in love with ( even tho he doesnt know) i apologize for not being ...

Foreskin always retracted, is this normal?

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1 November 2009 (M) - I am not circumcised. I am bit curious to know my condition. My penis' foreskin is always retracted regardless of erect or not. From articles and friends i know that foreskin retracts only when it is erect. Mine was normal i think till i was 17. Is ...

How can I retract my foreskin?

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31 October 2009 (M) - I am 15 and I can not retract my foreskin. Is there something wrong and what can I do to start retracting it?...

Can exercising too much stop your period?

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31 October 2009 (F) - This isn't really a relationship question but i'm pretty sure you can help me. Basically i've been wondering whether doing too much excerise can stop your period. A couple of years ago I used to do a fitness plan and it was like fifty sit ups, t...