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Should I support my ex? I feel angry and ashamed of succumbing to his desperation

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19 January 2017 (F - My ex and I were together for 2 years but in the end it became unhealthy and toxic. He became verbally abusive and was flirting online with other girls which made me depressed and anxious. In the end I had to go ‘no contact’ in an attempt to get ...

Am I right or is my flu messing with my mind?

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19 January 2017 (F - First of all, I have the flu. Anyway, I was seeing a man, and out of the blue he broke up with me. I said ok. We had only been seeing each other for a month. Then he begged me to give him another chance, for two weeks non-stop. I give him another ...

Retroactive jealousy on my part. Plus why would she go and look for another dom given everything that has happened?

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19 January 2017 (M - Hi Folks, First off, let me say hi as I am new here! Please excuse this long message but I need to try to explain my feelings and also explain some of what has been said. My problem is with retroactive jealousy over my girlfriends past. ...

She has no problems trying to crush my ego. NOW she says I'm bad in bed. How should I respond to her insults about lovemaking?

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18 January 2017 (M - My girlfriend completely criticized my sex. Said I suck in bed when she's been wanting me for 3 years saying that no one knows her body like me and she never felt this good before and blah blah blah. But as soon as she gets mad at me that complet...

Is there any way I can change his perceptions about me? How should or could I attract him back to me?

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18 January 2017 (F - Its been 50 days. My boyfriend broke up with me.. It was all my fault. Its been 2 years. For 1 year we were together when i was working ..but from last 1 year we are in long distance. I live with my parents and i am jobless. My career is ...

Is he using me? He's spending more time with his ex than he spends with me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted yesterday

18 January 2017 (F - I'm going out with this bloke on and off for over a year now, but what gets to me is he spends most off his time at his ex's house. He says he's there for kids but half of the time the children are not there. He leaves at 8:00 in morning and ...

Married recently. Are these marriage problems happening too soon?

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18 January 2017 (F - My husband and I just got married about a month ago, unfortunately we can't live together because neither of us have a job at the moment. Although we are looking. We see each once or twice a month. We text everyday and FaceTime, but now all of s...

Do good relationships go through this?

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18 January 2017 (F - I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 7 months. From the moment I met him I felt that he was the one I would marry. We have been through a lot in the last year. My Nan got cancer (she is okay now), my Grandfather passed away, and I was ...

How can I find out if I am fertile ... or not?

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17 January 2017 (M - dear cupid im worried about my fertility im 35 years old mals i dated a lady 28 year for 3 years relationzhip.staying together.she got preg and i went for dna with her and found that im not the farther.it happened to me on past i get a girlfriend ...

I fear he doesn’t like what I consider to be my best trait.

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17 January 2017 (F - Well, this is a minor problem compared to most of the problems on here. I would never leave my boyfriend over this, but it is rather an annoying thing is that I think he really doesn’t like my eyes…let me explain. Maybe I am bothered because...

I live at home and my Mum won't let me clean it up, its a biohazard mess!

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16 January 2017 (F - It's a long story, but I got laid off from my job last year and I live at home with my mom. I feel like I've failed at life and this wasn't how I thought I would turn out, but this is just background information. What's going on is that I'm ...

Logically I know it doesn't matter, but I am struggling with my Girlfriend's past!

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16 January 2017 (M - I know a lot of you are going to say this is just another guy with hang-ups and insecurities suffering from hypocritical retrospective jealousy – and to a certain extent you may be right – but I really am desperate to fix this (fix myself?), so ...

Is she his EX? Is my BF being honest to me? He seems very emotionally connected to his woman he says he is helping due to the woman's health issues

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16 January 2017 (F - About almost TWO years ago, my boyfriend who is 37 years old asked me (28 years old) to do him a favour and to please call his female ”friend” (27 years old) to give her an address (which I looked up and it happened to be of a lawyer as far as I can ...

I'm panicking my boyfriend will cheat on a guy's trip to Cuba. How should I respond or act in this situation?

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16 January 2017 (F - My boyfriend is in Cuba for one week on a guy's trip. I am beside myself with worry that he is going to cheat. I have read that prostitutes are around every corner there and they are dirt cheap. The anxiety is hard to take. I contact him a...

He ignores me. Feel like I'm walking on egg shells. Is there any hope for this troubled relationship? What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

15 January 2017 (F - What should I do about this relationship?. I will just tell you what happened recently. I have been with my boyfriend just over a year. There have been a lot of times where we have argued. He has a very short fuse. I feel like I am walking on eg...

I think I am pregnant and the dad has disappeared.

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15 January 2017 (F - Well. I met a guy months ago. We went out 3 times. At the 2nd one we had sex. I was the one who brought the sexual topic to the conversation. After sex we had sex once more. And the condom didn't work. I think I'm probably pregnant. He started ...

I asked before and followed advise but nothing works

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14 January 2017 (F - I have written here before asking for advice and I tried to take th advice but I'm still feeling the urge and fighting so hard to be happy - I can't seem to get over my ex- it's been close to a year - it was a short relationship and he wasn't let's ...

I feel ill for cheating on my boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

14 January 2017 (F - I am currently feeling physically ill for cheating on my boyfriend and I would love some advice on what to do. Me and this other guy did not sleep together just hung out for the day and made out a bit.I am feeling incredibly bad for him as I didn't ...

My boyfriend says I can't leave him because he's planned the next 5 years around me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

13 January 2017 (F - Have I fallen out of love with him or am i just depressed? Recently i can't bring myself to say i love you to my boyfriend. We have been friends for 3 years and have dated since last May. In October i felt the same way as i do now just feeling dow...

My father told me to stop eating

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

12 January 2017 (F - Ever since I was young, I had problems with my weight. But, my height always masked it. When I was 14 I got "sick" and I overall stopped eating and from 14-16 I was healthy/ a little underweight. From ages 17-19 I was a healthy weight. Now at 20 I ...

He told me "nothing happened" when he went for a massage and I don't whether to believe him or not. What do you think?

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12 January 2017 (F - My partner went to one only ones I been with him for 12 years have 4 daughters and the youngest one is only 3 months old I noticed with our sexual relationship I will have sex with him 3 times a week with my choosing and normally it's all the time...

Need to reset my compass when it comes to men

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

11 January 2017 (F - Dear all All of my life I have struggled with self-acceptance issues. I tried hard to work on my self-esteem and confidence. I'm pretty confident at the current time but the thing is every time anyone approaches me in an intimate way I find myself p...

My crazy abusive ex got a job where I work.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

9 January 2017 (F - I was in a emotionally abusive relationship for years. I finally had the strength to get away. For years, the cycle was that she would do something horrific to me, and then break up with me. We would proceed not to speak for a while until she ...

Boyfriend lost his job, became depressed and now won't speak to me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

9 January 2017 (F - I'm in a pretty bad situation. I dated a guy for 6 months long distance and were very serious- he met my family, I spoke to his, our parents talked- we were on the marriage track. 4 months into it he told me that he was unemployed. It threw me for a ...

I like going out with her but it's destroying my self-conference!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

9 January 2017 (F - Whenever I go out partying with my Best friend, all the boys flock to her or spend all evening telling me how hot she is. It is destroying my self confidence but I love hanging out with my friend. What to do? ...

I need advice on making my marriage better. Should I feel guilty about the flirtation I had on a weekend away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

8 January 2017 (M - I need some advice on making my relationship better. I'm married and have been for 13 years, the first thing I want to say is I love my wife. I am in my mid 40's whilst my wife is 7 years older than me, up until last year I was fairly overweight ...

What do I do? How can she still want to be with someone who she is not sexually attracted to, nor IN love with?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

8 January 2017 (M - Apologies if I ramble but I have some much to get off my chest ?? My Fiancée of nearly 14 years and the mother of my 2 beautiful daughters (11 and 6) had told me she loved me but is not IN love with me several years ago. We have also not had...

I am finding it increasingly difficult to deal with my in laws!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

8 January 2017 (F - I am finding it increasingly difficult to deal with my husbands family . He has several family members who beliefs and behaviour are very challenging and they sometimes stay with us as they live interstate . Some are currently or were in the past ...

I always fear something bad is waiting for me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

8 January 2017 (F - Hey all! I have a dog of 2 years. I love her like a baby and so does my family. Sometimes I just watch her sleeping and worry about how long she will live. I want her to complete the 15 year mark and don't want to lose her young- of course if I h...

Has anybody else been in a bad place, and how did you turn your life around?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

7 January 2017 (F - I've gotten myself into a mess and I would like some advice with how to deal with it. Has anybody else been in a bad place and how did you turn your life around? I'm depressed at the moment because of an extremely bad relationship. He did s...

I'm now embarrassed making noise during intimacy, any reassurance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

6 January 2017 (F - I have a chronic illness and doctors aren't sure what it is. I'm in pain meds, even controlled ones, so I try to take as few as possible when the pain is bearable. I frequently get flare-ups that cause crippling pain and I just have to wait it ...

She wants me to start wearing the pants in our relationship?!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

6 January 2017 (M - Right, so my girlfriend told me yesterday she wants me to start wearing the pants in the relationship. I had no idea what she meant, and when I asked her she didn't really know how to explain it. Can someone here maybe explain it to me? Also, ...

How do I deal with too much of the "wetness"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

6 January 2017 (F - When I have sex I get really wet my ex who was my high school sweetheart used to tease me and say it was like dipping his penis in a bucket of water. We got used to it and would put a towel down to Eli mate clean up. Towards the end of our ...

What should I do about my ex-partner and eventually getting him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

6 January 2017 (F - How do I get my ex boyfriend back?? I was with him for one year but friends for years before that. I have previously been in an abusive relationship(6 years ago) The partner at the time lied and lied to me that he wasn't cheating, to the point...

I feel deserted through my period of illness

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

6 January 2017 (F - Hi all, I went through a difficult time recently with thyroid cancer that was surgically removed and followed up with radioactive iodine. During this time, I felt my family wasn't really supportive and there for me. If it wasn't for my boyfriend...

I can't get over this girl that rejected me 3 months ago!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

6 January 2017 (M - I can't get over this girl that rejected me 3 months ago because, I smoke pot, drink, go to parties and deal a little bit of weed and molly to make a little bit of some extra cash when i'm not at school. I tried to hide that I was feeling sad from ...

I hope this can help you jump start a plan that can lead you to a better way of seeing things in a relationship.

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6 January 2017 (M - Hi there, hope that everyone had a great holiday period and that much fun was had, lots of love thrown here and there, memorable moments were shared and great memories were made. With that being said here's a little about me and why I decided to ...

My life looks pretty discouraging!

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5 January 2017 (F - I have just turned 30, and that has caused me to evaluate what I should or should not have acquired/achieved by this age. And my self analysis looks pretty discouraging: Dead-end part-time job with no health benefits ,and no PTO I have just gradu...

Why is my ex boyfriend still so angry at me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

5 January 2017 (F - why is my ex boyfriend still so angry at me? He broke off our relationship six months ago for no reason that I could see. When I asked him all he could say was that he wanted someone who was the same every day. Makes no sense as I am always i...

Heartbroken, but I want to forgive him. What are my options? Found out my Bf has been cheating.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

5 January 2017 (F - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years. Lately he has been acting weird and always on Snapchat and never responds to my text but responds to me on Snapchat. One day he left his Snapchat logged in on my iPad and I became curious. ...

Should I be more angry or just let it go? My wife confessed that she gave oral briefly to a male stripper at a party

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5 January 2017 (M - Hi, my wife went to a girls party night recently where we both knew there would be male strippers. I was totally cool with it but she got carried away with the night and ended up giving a few seconds of oral to all but one of the stripper...

Am I selfish, or is he crazy ?

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4 January 2017 (F - Hi, I need your honest opinion on this situation. My boyfriend calls me selfish all the time. I'm honestly tired of hearing it. But I feel he asks for too much from me when we've only been together for 7 months and don't even live together or know ...

I don't want to nag, but my boyfriend won't shower. Solutions? How should I respond?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

4 January 2017 (F - I'm 26 and I've just got into a relationship with a guy who's just turned 25. We've been seeing each other for months and we've been official for less than 3 weeks. As you can imagine I'm still in the honeymoon phase but he's straight away made him...

Why is he doing this? He tells me its my fault

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3 January 2017 (F - My question is me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a year. I have been deeply in love with this guy for a long time, we enjoy the same things we have fun together,but recently things have changed for the worse, we no long do things t...

I am no longer happy with my BF. what should I do?

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3 January 2017 (F - I've been with my partner for 18 months, and after 8 months I moved into his parents house after moving out of my family home. (my step sister was kicked out and needed somewhere to live). We've recently started renting a flat together and since mo...

Are my dreams of him significant?

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3 January 2017 (F - i have reoccurring dreams about my ex-boyfriend who left me after 12 years and married someone else but always called and drop by unexpected. he passed away 3 years ago and I still have dreams about seeing him and his wife together. a few days ...

Why in the world can't I move on?! ?

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2 January 2017 (F - I have been through a couple of serious breakups in my life but for some reason the one that happened recently has seemingly destroyed me. I dated someone for a very short period of time albeit knowing him for over 12 years. We were only together...

Is my jealousy justified?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

2 January 2017 (M - Hello aunts. I am writing this because I really need help with a recent situation that I am just not handling well. Thanks in advance. First, some background. I'm 30 and I met my current wife two years ago in a business dinner. We flirted a bit an...

His reaction made me feel guilty. Should I have gone there when he asked me to come over ?

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1 January 2017 (F - My boyfriend called on a Sunday as soon as he woke up, which was the same time I woke up. He asked me "come over, I'll change the oil in your car", and since I just woke up and haven't walked my little dogs for a couple days because of the cold wea...

Why cant my wife say sorry?

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1 January 2017 (M - I have been noticing for a few years now that my wife never can bring herself up to say sorry! I am much more of a perfectionist than her. She has messed up a lot of things in the past - like check writing (once she added $1195 and 25 to en...

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