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I got a sore throat from giving a blowjob. Is it a problem?

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13 May 2008 (F) - i recently gave my boyfriend a blowjob for quite a long time. the following day i had a sore throat and put it down to the night of fun before. but when i checked, the top of mouth looked like my blood vessles had burst (like a lovebite but inside ...

What are these stretch marks? Will they fade?

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13 May 2008 (F) - Roughly about 6 months ago i started noticing white stretch marks on my breasts, on my bigger breast ive noticed that the marks arnt that noticible anymore but on my smaller one i find them very noticible and am very worried that they wont fade. ...

My boyfriend broke up with me and now I think I might have depression

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13 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me because he said he didnt want a relationship. Hes all i had and made me so happy. Recently ive had sickness, memory loss, anger, stomach pains, headaches, and ive had a period thats lasted 2 weeks+. And i havn't ate...

Is it normal for a guy to have small white spots in his underwear?

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13 May 2008 (F) - Is it possible for a guy to have small traces of semen on his underwear even if he did not have sex that day. My boyfriend occassionaly has two or three white spots on his underwear but yet we didn't have sex that day. I don't know how to approach ...

Self medicating with masturbation and hypersexuality to alleviate stress?

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13 May 2008 (M) - In addition to the obvious reasons for masturbating, I do so as a means of self-medicating myself and alleviating the stress and anxiety I feel in my life. I find that my life has only become only more stressful and demanding in recent years and ...

My boyfriend doesn't want to talk about his past, which includes him being raped at age nine and then sexually active

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13 May 2008 (F) - HEEEELP my 3-month old boyfriend confessed to me that he was raped by hi's cousins friend when he was 9 years old. But thats not it. After he was raped the first time he was raped by more people, girls AND boys, as he claims He also told me ...

I aborted his child against his wishes-Is he still holding this against me?

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13 May 2008 (F) - i am a lady aged 25 i had an abortion in feb 2006 against my bfs will.he really wanted the kid but i felt we were not ready for ababy at that time.he told me that we forget about the past n later that year i got pregnant again but gave birth to a ...

Is sex safe during menstruation?

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13 May 2008 (F) - Hi I would like to know if it's dangerous to have sex when you are on your menstrual period, regarding an unwanted pregnancy or stds. When is a woman safe to have sex an not get pregnant? cause condoms are not that safe. ...

Do I have a masturbation problem?

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13 May 2008 (M) - well ever since age 14 [15 now] iv been having irges to have sex so when ever i do i masturbate ,but the thing is i constantly do it like 3 or 4 times a day is that natural,also y does it come out in small amounts ?...

My fingers are deformed and I'm scared it's putting the girls off me

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13 May 2008 (M) - Hey, well Im 18 years old and as of yet had not had a girlfriend. I was born with a birth defect to my hands in which my fingers are deformed.The only relationship i've had has been an online one and she knew about my situation. I'm not anti-social. ...

I've had a period but could I still be pregnant?

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13 May 2008 (F) - is it true that you can qet your period and still be pregnant ? ive been thinking that i might be pregnant its only been 1 weeks since i had unprtected sex . but now my period has came on sooo could i still be or not ?...

Any advice on vaginal dryness occurring during sex?

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13 May 2008 (F) - so im 22 years olds and have had sex plenty of times but recently while having sex a couple of minutes in to it my vagina went dry and has been for for the past couple days why would this be? please help...

Is this a yeast infection or an STD? Please help, it's the first time I had sex!

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12 May 2008 (F) - please help ! discharge ! im 16 and have just lost my virgity... (yes i used a condom) :) usually i barly have any discharge... but for the last week, iv had loads of thick white, non smelling discharge constantly ! im extreamly worryed. ...

Masturbation. Can anybody confirm my fears, or is it all just a big lie?

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12 May 2008 (M) - Hi. I'm a little concerned. People say that you can Masturbate as often as you want and it's not a problem. But I heard about a condition you can get if you do it too often. I forget the name of it, but all I know is I don't want to get it. Recently...

I'm 6 weeks pregnant and getting cramps, any advice?

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12 May 2008 (F) - well a couple of weeks ago i found out i was pregnant, im getting sum symptoms and all that and i hered you can get cramps but mine are really painfull, on and off, just wondering if this is normal, im 6 weeks pregnant, 18 years old and just nee...

We both tested positive for Clamydia, does this mean she cheated?

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12 May 2008 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for one year. We recently got tested and we tested positive for chlamydia. I have never cheated on her and I know it can be symptomless for a while. Funny thing is, I had my symptoms a couple of days after her. I ...

Where does your confidence come from? Any tips on improving my self-confidence?

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12 May 2008 (F) - Hi, I know this is going to seem like a really random question but it would really help to have some ideas. I have always suffered from confidence issues and have low self esteem, though I have no reason to feel underconfident or inadeq...

When is the most likely time in your cycle to get pregnant?

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12 May 2008 (F) - Hey I'm just wondering, when is the most likely time in your menstrual cycle to get pregnant?...

Being single and how not to be it...advice appreciated!

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12 May 2008 (M) - Well, to put it simply, I have been single but, oh around 6 months and now I'm kinda ready to start out again. But I have no idea what the heck to do. Its not like I havent really avoided relationships, I just haven't really tried. The issue...

I'm concerned about his drinking! What should I do?

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12 May 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm going to be 18 soon, I've been in this relationship for almost 7 months, I love my b/f and he loves me,the problem is he drinks alcohol almost everyday, he do this just to impress his friends, I told him to stop, but he would'nt listen to ...

Yellow discharge - is it a problem?

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12 May 2008 (F) - hi im just wondering why i had a yellow discharge? is it normal? am i sick? thanks 4 ur answer....

My mum thinks I just started my periods, but I've had them for 6 months.

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12 May 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, i got my first period in Dec 2007. My mom's only just found out {i don't really care that she knows} but i just didn't know how to tell her. She bought me pads and told me i need to keep track and stuff...but i don't know how tell tel...

I have milky, white discharge! What is wrong with me?

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11 May 2008 (F) - Today when i went to the restroom i had a milky white discharge in my panties and while i was using it white discharge was leaking what is wrong with me? ...

Together 5 years and no sex in last two months. Help.

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11 May 2008 (F) - My friend and I have been together 5 years recently he and I haven't had sex in two months. I know he's a heavy drinker and I think he maybe using something eles could that be a problem. He says he isn't cheating and to please give him time to get ...

My smile is awful! What can I do about it?

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11 May 2008 (F) - OK, I'm 15, and I have a really awful smile! i'm quite pretty (ish) but when i smile showing my teeth it kind of makes my chin jut out, and my teeth are awful anyway even though ive had braces. Please, does anyone have any advice on what i can do ...

Confused about brownish discharge. What is wrong?

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11 May 2008 (F) - i am a 20yr old girl who have brownish discharge anytime i feel horny or have romantic touches with my boyfriend, it sometimes result to my montly period or smtimes d discharge stays for 1 week and stops. am really confused what is wrong and what do ...

How do I stop the spots appearing? And how to I get rid of them?

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11 May 2008 (F) - hey, is there anyhing i can do to help me not to get spots, by tht i mean teenage spots, i've always had them and always used a facewash that is supposed to help prevent them but then i oticed i started getting blackheads so chnaged it use one for ...

Why do I get a burning sensation when I get fingered?

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11 May 2008 (F) - Hi, im 15 and have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years next week. I love hjim to peices and we respect each other so last year we decided to start a sexual relationship. We started off by fingering and manually getting each other off and it ...

How to deal with my boyfriend taking drugs?

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11 May 2008 (F) - my boyfriend has done pot on the odd occasion when it was at a party or something he went to. and i was fine with it because it was just a social thing. Im anti drug, have never taken illegal drugs in my life and i hardly drink. He now goes out...

How can I put his mind at ease that he won't hurt me during sex?

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11 May 2008 (F) - The last time we (me and my boyfriend) had a sexual encounter, we were very rough (the way we both like it, no actual pain). He is also bigger than my last boyfriend (girth wise). Anyhow, I ended up with a case of 'honeymoon cystitis', I ...

Why is all the good not remembered, just my inadequacy?

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11 May 2008 (M) - many years of being loving and loyal in a marriage, does it really matter? being disabled leaving me lacking in the intimacy department, so it is not as often as it use to be, i thought i was living a life of love,but now she says it is not enough. ...

I feel really great about myself...except for my body. I'm so upset, how can I cope?

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11 May 2008 (F) - I'm glad to say I've been improving my self esteem. As a result, I'm less jealous of other girls, and less envious (baout their personalities, or how well they do in school, their talents, things like that). I feel better, as I know I'm worth a lot, ...

My new downstairs neighbour is storing her urine in the house for her compost bin, and it's making me sick!!

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11 May 2008 (F) - Please help. My new downstairs neighbour is storing her urine in the house for her compost bin. Smells so bad. I am so worried. I live in a council house, converted into up and down flats. New neighbour moves in, bad smell. I have lived here for ...

Tested for STI's and came clear. How to inform my ex that I was mistaken?

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10 May 2008 (F) - I was tested for STI's the other day. The doctor done a swab and said she had detected some cells that looked like chlamydia, she gave me antibiotics and told me I needed to inform my sexual partner. She told me I would need to phone the clinic a ...

I'm 24 and hugely in debt, any advice?

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10 May 2008 (F) - Im 24 and hugely in debt, around 13,500 pounds to various loan companies. I live at home with my mum but I cant stay for much longer. i work full time but dont earn alot to pay them all off so every month they dont all get paid, and then they start ...

Am I having a miscarriage?

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10 May 2008 (F) - I am 7 weeks pregnant and I have been bleeding off and on for about 3 weeks. Well last night I passed a clot about the size of a quarter or bigger. I went to the hospital a little while back and they told me it was a threatened miscarriage, I really ...

Are there side effects to contraceptive pills?

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10 May 2008 (F) - Hi, my doctor prescribed me some contraceptive pills to ease my stomach pain and shorten periods. I was just wondering if there's any side-effects? I need a bit of reassurance because i'm rather hesitant to take them. Thanks!...

Penis Length Question

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10 May 2008 (M) - is my penis normal it about 7"long...

How do women masturbate and orgasm?

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10 May 2008 (F) - How do women masturbate and make themselves orgasm? I have tried once (by fingering myself) and it did absolutely nothing for me! It was just gross and I had to wash my hands afterwards... I have heard you have to touch the clitoris but I cant ...

My 15-month-old daugher is refusing to eat solids food!

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10 May 2008 (F) - I have a 15 month old daughter who for the last 2 or so weeks refuses to eat any and all solids, with the exception of her formula. I tried putting her on homo milk but she gets severely constipated from it. Luckily her formula has more nutrients ...

Self improvement plan.Will it work? How do I carry it through?

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9 May 2008 (M) - Here's the situation: I’m 16 overwight and painfully shy, especially of girls. I want to lose weight, shyness and get a girlfriend. This summer I plan to do intense exercise, eat more healthily and go to the mall and start talking to random girls. ...

Is it possible I could be pregnant even though I've had my periods?

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9 May 2008 (F) - I've had my periods over the past few months although they've been a bit irregular, however recently i'm not sure if i may be pregnant as it feels as though i am, and i'm sure i can feel it move. Could i be pregnant although i've had my peri...

Could the patches of skin discoloration be linked to the pill?

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9 May 2008 (F) - Hi, Around the same time I started taking the pill (Cilest) in December, I've also had small patches of discoloured skin, it isn't bad or anything, but i can't seem to find anywhere that suggests that the two are linked? Does anyone know if they...

I'm too embarrassed to tell my mum about my period

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9 May 2008 (F) - i'm 12 years old and just started my period about a week ago. i haven't told my mum because it's to embarassing. i have tried a few times but can't bring myself to say it. also i have two older sisters who would make fun of me about it. what should ...

How can I get more freckles without harming my skin?

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9 May 2008 (F) - This is more of a question than needing advice, is there anything I can do to get more freckles?? weird I know but I get freckles in the sun and they look really cute.. how can I get more, without harming my skin?...

Is it normal to have your left ball bigger than your right ball?

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9 May 2008 (M) - is it normal 2 have ur left ball bigger than ur right ball ...

I have EXTREMELY bad PMS symptoms, what can I do to reduce their effect before they sabotage my relationship and my own personal well being??

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9 May 2008 (F) - Okay so I have EXTREMELY bad PMS symptoms. I get just about everything known to womankind of this nature. Two weeks before I start my period, my skin breaks out terribly, my stomach cramps, my back aches, I get fatigued, crave junk really ...

What is this I feel I am unable to monitor it because the mood changes I get ?

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9 May 2008 (F) - Can someone please help me work out what my husband behaviour means - I am just so confused from one hour to the next. He can be almost flirty and funny one minute the next he is picking holes in my use of words, will ignore me and say I'm ...

Why doesn't he care about my family's health, or is it just a 'guy thing' to have no feelings?

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9 May 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm getting married in about a month but I have a question. I'm wondering if my fiance is just very insensitive or if it is just a guy thing. A few years ago (during the first year that we were dating) my mother was in the hospital for s...

He's 35 and I'm 17 and pregnant, is that really wrong?

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9 May 2008 (F) - I'm 17 he's 35, we have been living together for two months, and i'm 6 weeks pregnant. I love him so much, is this wrong we get along so good, so in love with each other? I left mad and went 7 hrs away to my sister's and he drove all night, tired wi...