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Can anyone tell me what these secretions are?

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20 November 2009 (M) - i am almost 16 now. about 6 months back, i was sleeping when i got these really erotic dreams. now usually if i get erotic dreams there's semen secretion. but the next morning when i woke up, there was no semen. but instead, there was this really ...

He slept with me even though he had an STD but I still like him!

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20 November 2009 (F) - ok so here goes... i met this man who says he really likes me. we did oral sex but nothing else he texted me and rang all the time and i met up with him again and had unprotected sex. he continued to tell me he really liked me ect and we arranged ro ...

Has anyone lost weight while pregnant?

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20 November 2009 (F) - hiya well im 19 weeks pregnant with my first baby and am really confused. im getting a nice round bump but other than that have lost nearly 2 stone since i became pregnant and am worried that it could hurt my baby if i carry on losing weight ...

I'm jealous of his past! Will I always feel this way?

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20 November 2009 (F) - I grew up in a very religious home (no sex before marriage). I grew out of my religion, but my health kept me from having fun. I've met a great guy, (who i lost my virginity to at 23) but he has a lot of experience, with the pics to prove it. We've ...

I bled after masturbating - what happened?

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20 November 2009 (F) - some day before i did sex with my finger. my boyfriend see me on web cam and he told me how to do.i did that. he told me do it with pen so i take 2 pen and i did with pen.after sometime i get blood i dont know how its come. i am in tension and i ...

What are these weird spots on my legs???

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19 November 2009 (F) - Hello I am 18 and living a very healthy lifestyle, I eat the right things and I exercise regularly, but thats not what's wrong with me, it's my legs! Ever since I was little I've had a rash on my legs but it's not red and itchy, it's little spots, a...

I'm overwhelmed by condom selections! Any tips?

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18 November 2009 (M) - Hey, Me and my girlfriend are thinking of having sex. And it sounds embarrasing, but when i looked in the shop for condoms, i was completely confused on how many different types there are. Can anyone help me out, and tell me the best 'DUREX...

Did the father of my baby give me Gardnerella Bacterial Vaginalis?

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18 November 2009 (F) - I want to know what people think are the signs of a cheating man. I am currently pregnant - about the half way mark...and the father of baby has been on and off with me for most of this pregnancy which I finally told him point blank am fed up of the ...

I feel depressed, unhappy and ugly.

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18 November 2009 (F) - I feel depressed, unhappy and ugly. My first love and I broke up 3 months ago because he doesn't want to deal with our relationship. He basiclly put me in the depression I'm in and then left me. He also now tells me that I am not attractive to him ...

I realised I couldnt trust my boyfriend but only after we had unprotected sex! How do I move on from this?

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18 November 2009 (F) - I feel completely betrayed. I was dating a guy for six months and thought i could trust him. He started doing things that made me believe otherwise. So I broke it off, then I realized we had sex a couple of times throughout our relationship ...

Will I catch up to her? She's 6 feet tall, I'm 5'9"!

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17 November 2009 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for 5 months and I love her a lot but she's taller than me she's 6 foot. And im 5 feet 9 inches will I catch up or pass her in height. ...

Any tips for losing weight quickly?

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17 November 2009 (F) - hi guys. im a british girl size 12. age 17 going on 18. recently ive been through a rough time and been piling on the pounds i would like to lose a stone or half a stone for that matter. i was just wondering if enybody had eny tips on losing...

I am sweating too much!

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17 November 2009 (F) - i really dont know what is wrong with me, my under arms keep sweating that i cant wear sleeved tops anymore because it leaves big wet marks, i bath 2 times a day, i have always taken care of myself. when i sweat it dont usually smell or anything, ...

My husband has no sexual desire and can't keep an erection!

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17 November 2009 (F) - How can you find out ,why your husband has no sexual desire, and losing his erection? How do you know know if it's psychological? ...

What was this thing I found in my panties?

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17 November 2009 (F) - im 17 years old now... but a few years ago when i was about 14 on holiday i woke up and had this thing i cant explain in my knickers, it was kind of big, it looked a bit like a fetus, but the thing is i was a virgin at the time so i dont understand ...

Should I find a new job or go back to my old one where I've not showed up for a week!

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17 November 2009 (F) - hi there i am new to this and i have a question about my life choices, i am 18 an im not very good at school work as you can tell of my spelling so as you can quess my GCSE's were not that good. i lov horses so i went with this collage where ...

Guys only - circumcision advice needed!

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17 November 2009 (M) - ok this is a strictly GUYS ONLY question, so please i suggest that girls, dont read this. i developed a urinary tract infection, so my doc said that it is best if i get a circumcision done, as it will prevent further infections.so th...

I am depressed, my mom is an alcoholic and I fear losing my b/f!

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17 November 2009 (F) - Hey there, This is a pretty hard topic to talk about and I dont really know where to stsart, i guess first things first is my mom is an alcholic and i really dont know how to handle it, i turned to smoke, then quit that cuz my bf helped me stop, an...

I just want to cry and be left alone...am I depressed?

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17 November 2009 (F) - Am i depressed? sometimes i just feel blank and when someone is talkin to me i dont hear them. im the type of person that always happy but deep down inside im not. i am being forgetful due to me having a lot on my mind. i sometimes cry when i dont ...

Help! What's wrong with me?

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17 November 2009 (F) - Every time after I have had sex or maybe a few days later, I get this water fluid that comes out of my vagina, it feels like I'm bleeding to death when it happens but when I check its just cloudy water that leaks quite a lot... could this be a sign ...

Can a life-long cheater ever be trustworthy or am I wasting my time?

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16 November 2009 (M) - part one; in aug 08 my then finance added some guy to her facebook and when asked about it she said she thought she knew him, she then deleted him and i thought that was the end of it, or so i thought. part two; in jan 09 she went to her work chri...

I am a mess because my girlfriends bad dreams!

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16 November 2009 (M) - hey my girlfriend was sexually abused and has nightmares about her uncle. she cuts herself sometimes and she tells me about the dreams and i cant handle it so i cut myself. i have gotten her help and i went to the police and im not asking about...

Are we ready for sex?

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15 November 2009 (M) - i'm 16 and my girlfriend is 15 we have bin going out for 2 years and she asked me to have sex about 2 weeks ago and shes grabbing my croch and whispering in my ear shes wet and ready for me what sould i do...

My violent boyfriend accuses me of cheating

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15 November 2009 (F) - We've been together two years... Tonight, I did not orgasm like he likes me to – it apparently wasn’t strong enough so he told me that I didn’t orgasm nicely – I told him that he was wrong. He wanted to know why I didn’t come nicely – again, ...

How to I overcome panic attacks?

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15 November 2009 (F) - So i've been dealing with anxiety for a while now. It's only a sometimes occurence though but when I have an anxiety attack it just takes over me and I can't do anything about it. IDK what to do it only happens sometimes but now Im always scared t...

Is it wrong to have sex during your period?

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14 November 2009 (F) - Is it wrong to have sex when you're on your period? I recently did and I believe that I freaked my partner out, but I didn't think anything about it and forgot to tell him....

How can one tell if they're bi-polar?

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14 November 2009 (F) - How can you tell if you may have Bipolar? I am not quite sure if i should be asking for your help as i am no 100% sure i have symptoms or not. I don't really know where to start either. Neither of my parents have been diagnosed with the illness...

My mum is ending an 11 year relationship. How can I best support her?

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14 November 2009 (F) - hey guys, ive written to you once before and u were all lovely and made me see sense. However im writing to ask for some advice on how to support my mum. she has recently told me that she is splitting up from her partner of eleven years. thi...

I need a light at the end of the tunnel!

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14 November 2009 (F) - I feel completely alone. I hate school, no one gets me or speaks to me. How do I survive my last year of high school before I go to Uni? I hope Uni will be a fresh start with new people who are more mature/nicer. I am giving up,...

What can I do about my embarrassing facial hair?

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14 November 2009 (F) - hello!! im only 14 years old and i realy like to flirt with boys but ive recently noticed that i have some excess hair on my face, its almost none at all but sometimes it makes me feel self conciuos. so my question is...if i shave it off with a r...

Can one catch an STD through oral sex?

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14 November 2009 (F) - I really want to know if you can catch STD's through having Oral Sex? Thanks :)...

Lost the weight, but need to lose the extra skin!

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14 November 2009 (F) - Im not sure where my question would lie. I have been working out and lost alot of body fat but I have all this extra skin from my abs and stomach. I really want some advice on what to do here. I work out with a trainer and whatch my diet very clo...

My fiance will have a dabble with crack here and there... and now I'm not so sure I can handle it!

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14 November 2009 (F) - I had been bought up around a drug infested enviroment.. I've never really found it a problem being around friends who do such drugs as ecstasy, amphetamine and weed. I've dabbled myself but left it at that. I've always been against heroin, ketamine ...

How can I help my girlfriend with all her issues?

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13 November 2009 (M) - I am 21 and I am with my girlfriend, my sweetheart for 2 years now. we love each other a lot. I want her to be extremely happy, singing and dancing as she is always therefore I am a concerned about a problem that is affecting her. She has been ...

Anyone got advice on my army asthma situation?

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13 November 2009 (M) - hey, this is more of a medical question but I'd appreciate any advice. Basically I'm 19, I'm asthmatic and I want to join the army. The army's policy is that your doctor has to verify that you're asthma-free for 4 years consecutively before you can ...

Have drugs permanently damaged me?

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13 November 2009 (M) - Hi there, my question is about drugs as my girlfriend is very angry with me on finding that i have tried them. I have had probably 10 trips on e or mdma (some of which were bad and may have been mixed with ketomin/speed/acid) over the last 5 years ...

Does anyone have information on Goji Juice?

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13 November 2009 (M) - hello all, just a quick question. has anyone tried or no of anybody who has tried GOJI juice. it is also known as GOCHI juice....

Should I be feeling guilty because of how my ex's life turned out?

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12 November 2009 (M) - My ex fiance was back in contact after 20 yrs. When we were engaged i would do anything for her. We broke up because of unknown reasons. When got back in touch what she told me was disturbing. Here is the list. She was prego by me but lost it. Her ...

Are my Irregular periods normal?

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12 November 2009 (F) - I am 13 years old and started my period in May 2009. I had it for about a week and then didn't have my next period until September and then just recently started at the end of October and i'm still on it now so, for about two weeks ......it is ...

Can anyone please give me advice on azoospermia?

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12 November 2009 (M) - Can anyone please give me any advice on azoospermia, which is when there is no sperm in the ejaculate. I know someone, 24yrs married, who has this but needs advice on any possible cure? Please, please help!!...

Aftershave care?

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12 November 2009 (F) - Ok this is a weird q. I shaved my pubic hair for the 1st time... does anyone have any tips on pubic aftershave care? it itches and is very red... oh and how often should one shave and how does one get a smooth close shave like when shaving ur legs? ...

Beauty and fashion tips and tricks

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12 November 2009 (F) - Ok, this article is for us ladies. It's about all things fashion and beauty related. I will be writing a weekly colmun giving tips and beauty tricks. I have been inspired to do so because of the overwhelming amount of questions i have seen regarding ...

Should I check in on my sick ex?

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11 November 2009 (F) - I just found out my ex that treated me bad and we broke up, he broke up with me though he had called, apologising, preaching love and wants me back is sick. He has kidney stones. Is it okay for me to call him a lot to know how he's doing or wh...

Is Reiters Syndrom the cause of my sexual difficulties?

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11 November 2009 (M) - When I masturbate, or have sex with my partner, it takes an extremely long time to cum. Is there anyway to make me cum easier. I really need also to really give it a good thrusting before I manage to cum? Also , I have noticed little hard spot...

What would the symptoms be of pregnancy 2-3 weeks into it?

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11 November 2009 (F) - what would the symptoms be of pregnancy 2-3 weeks into it? any at all? its about 4 days before im supposed to get my period and my nipples are sore, pains in my sides and lower abdomen and insideeee my vagina and im crying all the time sometimes ...

How does mine compare to yours? Or others you might have seen?

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11 November 2009 (M) - hi. i need to ask the guys on dear cupis a question. i honestly want to know how big my penis is compared to yours/ those you might have seen. currently when erect my penis is 16.5 cm or 6ish inches and when flacis its 11cm or 4 inches. so based on ...

Why does my wife eat egg shells and tiny rocks?

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10 November 2009 (M) - my wife craves and eats tiny rocks and egg shells. any ideas why? ...

HOw can I control my urge to have a baby?

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10 November 2009 (F) - Im 16 years old and i want a baby! i have previously been pregnant two times and miscarried both, which left me very emotional. i have always wanted to have kids but over the past 6months i have wanted one more and more and it can get emotiona...

Why are my nipples sore?

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10 November 2009 (F) - I'm seventeen and its three days now that my nipples have been so sore. Why are they so sore? I haven't had sex so I know I'm not pregnant. I just want to know whats happening cause it's never happened before....

Is it safe to use vaginal cream after two weeks of abortion?

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10 November 2009 (F) - Is it safe to use vaginal cream after two weeks of abortion?...