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I'm in a sexless marriage due to my wife's depression and now menopause. What do I do?

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28 March 2017 (M - My wife had 10 months off work with work related depression now the menopause has struck We have not had sex for nearly 2 years and even sleep in different rooms at times as she is in bed by 9pm most nights due to the medication. I am now becoming ...

Am I shallow for not wanting to have sex with her because she has herpes?

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28 March 2017 (M - I have a friend of around two years whom I am very close to, we were considering a relationship but due to the distance between us and financial difficulties on both ends we decided to just stay as friends for the foreseeable future. Despite t...

Should I tell her that on our break I paid for sex?

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28 March 2017 (M - Hi, my and my gf of 5 years have sort of had a bit of distance come between us, on my end mainly. She was always so insecure and sort of clingy and although I loved her it chipped away at me and I felt I needed space. We took space and things were ...

Girlfriend doesn't make any real effort to lose weight despite wanting to

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28 March 2017 (M - I've been in relationship with my girlfriend for about 7 months now. I liked her for her personality and character but her weight had always bothered me right from the start. She was actually slim just under 2 year back(she looked amazing) but gai...

How do I help my girlfriend? She seems to be very depressed but won't seek help

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27 March 2017 (M - I'm worried about my girlfriend, I think she might be depressed but she refuses to talk to anyone other than me about it and even then I have to really try in order to get her to tell me how she's feeling. She keeps talking about how she doesn't ...

I love her, I like her personality, and we've dated for 4 years in a LDR, but I have mixed feelings. Can I come to terms with the fact that she is hairy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

27 March 2017 (M - I have been with this girl for almost 4 years by now, and according to how everything has proceeded (education/financial etc) it's time for making the advance for marriage, as has always been our plan. We have not had sex (saving for marriage...

Should I ask him if there is a medical problem for the lack of sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

27 March 2017 (F - Hi Guys, To you think my guy suffers from fertile dysfunction. Been seeing this guy for about 4 months, we have only had sex a few times as we didn't want it to only be about sex. Anyway we have sex it's great then the next morning he can't...

I feel trapped, I want him to move out but he has no money!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

27 March 2017 (F - Dear Cupid My boyfriend is 45 and we have been together for a few years. I am aware that he likes to drink and we have had some arguments about this and I have told him I respect his right to make his own choices but a life which focuses on alcoh...

How can I stop living in the past and stop worrying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

27 March 2017 (F - Hello everyone, how does someone stop living in the past , it seems like my life is a contact worry, I can't escape my own "prison" I always worry about what other people think of me , constant non stop, whether it's a work, at home , with friends...

Will men I date care about my living situation?

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26 March 2017 (F - I'm single. I haven't dated in the dating market because My self esteem is so low and I always have ran to men that have been self centered and have taken me for granted - anyways I always have this issue of living at home- at the moment I am ...

I'm caught in the middle of my mom and my dad's girlfriend and really don't know how to handle things

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26 March 2017 (F - Hi Dear cupid helpers. I am in need of some advice on a family situation... So my dad had an affair on my mum 4 - 5 years ago (the last one of a few in the past) I mum turned to drinking, and has been drinking for the last 4 - 5 years and has...

I have a feeling that I'm not supposed to be happy in life

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26 March 2017 (F - hello please help me, I feel so lost and downright now to start with I'm very stressed about college because all my other peers have graduated and I haven't yet for reasons and I keep seeing them posting about how happy they are and how they've ...

Should I give romance a miss and focus on my mental health?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

24 March 2017 (F - I don't know why I keep blaming myself for this, but I do. I dated my on and off boyfriend ( he is now my ex) from October 2015 until January. During that time, I became friends with someone who worked in the pub that he went in. He was always there ...

I'm over his drama! How do I end this relationship for good?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

24 March 2017 (F - Sorry for this long post in advance. I just left my super obsessive and manipulative boyfriend of two years. Towards the end of our relationship, he started doubting me for talking to a particular old friend of mine. I had no feelings whatsoever for ...

Just had a baby, but now I am scared about returning home, due to his abusive actions while I was pregnant. What can I do?

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23 March 2017 (F - Dear aunties and uncles. I am a first time mom to a month old baby and my husband and I have had a fair share of ups and downs but we love each other a lot and wouldn't dream of spending my life with anyone else. Last year, while in my first trim...

My addictions are affecting my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

23 March 2017 (M - Hi, I'm a 22 year old gay male and I think I may have a problem. I've been dealing with feelings of depression and loneliness ever since the 7th grade. Although it is a lot better now because I am more independent, they always come back. I feel ...

Married five months and husband wants me to have an abortion.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

23 March 2017 (F - I've recently got married to my husband. We are very happy, and I have never felt more secure in all my life. We agreed to wait a few years before having children, and to focus on renovating our house which we brought before Christmas. We'll on ...

Am I a sex addict? 101

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

22 March 2017 (F - I just turned 31. I think about sex atleast every 30 minutes. I mentally undress every woman i See or imagine them having sex although im actually not interested in women sexually. My partner count is about 73 men and 2 women. To me a man has to ...

Does this help a man with ED to feel better? What could possibly have allowed me to continue to enjoy knowing my wife was having an affair?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

22 March 2017 (M - I am a 50 year old married man who has had erectile dysfunction problems since before i married my wife.. She was very beautifull when she was younger but that doesnt make a difference when you have ED.. When she was still in her twenties I f...

Is it really worth it to file for child support? I got pregnant 3 months into dating him, then he disappeared

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

22 March 2017 (F - The baby's father isn't in the picture. I have tried to reach out to him during this pregnancy, but nothing. I kind of am considering to file for child support, since I'm living with my mom and don't make as much at the moment. The only thi...

Family conditioning has defined sex as inappropriate and dangerous. How can I stop feeling afraid pf physical sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

22 March 2017 (F - Ever since I was young, sex was explained to me as something that was inappropriate, dangerous, and could generally be used against me. Both of my parents were always adamant that men couldn't be trusted, and that I needed to be cautious and awar...

I just don't want sex. What can I do about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

21 March 2017 (F - Hi Please help me. I have been with my partner for eight years. But over the last few years and particularly this year I have lost all interest in sex. I do have a hormone disorder and suffer frequent cystitis so I know that this probably contrib...

Personal cleanliness? There has got to be a nice way to approach this! What would you do??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

20 March 2017 (F - I started seeing this guy about two months ago. We pretty much only hang out about two three nights a week when he'll come stay the night or weekend. We've known each other for a while now, we've taken our kids on play dates before etc. He's a...

Should I admit I messed up and try one last time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

19 March 2017 (F - My ex and I were dating on and off for the good part of a year. There was a period where I was speaking to him as well as another guy and chose to be in a relationship with the other guy for three months – this really hurt him. Months later, we ...

I am considering contacting my train wreck of a dad!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

19 March 2017 (M - Hi everyone, thoughts, insights and advice please! I'm swiftly approaching a landmark birthday, the sort where you might stop and consider your life to that point. Well, I've been doing that and am considering making contact with my father. I'...

Is my hubby just starting his mid-life crisis?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

19 March 2017 (F - Dear aunts and Uncles, is my hubby just starting his mid-life crisis? He was always athletic and eat well so I can't say that all of a sudden he changed his life style, but he seems more interested in these areas. He picked up a new hob...

My husband is giving me all these std's , do you think he cheated?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted today

18 March 2017 (F - Do you think my husband cheated? Hi! so, nine days ago my husband went out with his coworkers to have some drinks and he didn't call me to say he'll come home late or what he would be up to. This left me with a bad feeling because It was weird, you ...

I want to be her friend and be there for her, but I don't want to be a problem for her and her new boyfriend if she still has any feelings. Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

17 March 2017 (M - Dear friends This may take some time to explain, so thanks in advance. I broke up with my ex-girlfriend last august, but i had wanted to end the relationship since the previous february. In total we were together for about 1 year and 3 ...

Can a true relationship be achieved without the affection and the touchy part?

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17 March 2017 (F - our sex life has slowly deteriorated. He blames it on my weight gain but many people including male friends and family have advised me that the weight is not the problem. He won't see a doctor cause he blames it on me, however he is 11 years olde...

Beating myself up because I may not be her best lover

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

17 March 2017 (M - Here goes. My fiance and I have a good sex life when we have it. She was diagnosed with breast cancer 2 weeks after we started dating. Since then sex is not what it could be. Which is understandable seeing what she has been through. I never...

How does her doctor know if she has herpes I if he's never done a test?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

16 March 2017 (M - My question is about herpes, I met a woman she told me she has genital herpes, she is now on valtraxs, the doctor didn't even checked her out down there , she says she has had it for over a dozen years, my question is if he doesn't do a blood test, ...

Am I justified to break up with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 March 2017 (F - I'm going through a mixed phase right now with my bf. Recently, I've been reflecting on our relationship for the past 5 years, and I'm wondering whether I should just move on because I just don't feel happy anymore. We have been dating for 5 yea...

I think having sex with another girl will get these crazy depressing thoughts out of my head!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 March 2017 (M - well, im in a relationship for about a year with this girl and we both love each other a lot. While she is my first gf, im not her  first bf, she had one before me who she really loved as well (i know this because a knew her back then) it was a long ...

Sex makes me feel so disgusted in myself, but only afterwards because in the lead up it is always what I want to do at the time. I feel like a horrible person but equally I do not know why I have this light switch effect. Any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

15 March 2017 (M - I feel as if there is something wrong with me and I am frustrated with myself for feeling the way that I do. When I am seeing a new partner, as soon as we have sex I suddenly become completely disinterested in anything intimate with them. This ...

Can she still be a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

15 March 2017 (M - I know a girl when she was young she did not know what sex means or what it could do to her. She was used by three men sexually eight times, but they never penetrated her vagina and she never remember seeing blood. Can she be still a virgin or get ...

Without heat, hot water or a carer - please advise

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

15 March 2017 (F - I have a difficult situation. I have been without heat or hot water in my flat for a week. There have been workmen doing some work on the pipes outside on my street. They are supposed to be doing some work in the garden next door. Until that is ...

Is this depression?

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15 March 2017 (F - Hello everyone I have been very anxious lately and just plain on edge - for the last six months one of my family members has been ill and I have been the sole support temporarily - although I am an adult this is the first time I have had to step...

He has cancer and I don't want him to think I'm feeling sorry for him!

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14 March 2017 (F - I have just reconnected with an old friend i didnt know him for long before and we are getting to know each other better now. He is a very open guy . He asked me on a date but also 'warned' me hes got cancer again throat cancer this time , its the ...

How can I stop caring what he thinks of me? Is there anyway I can repair my image in his eyes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

14 March 2017 (F - I'm 23 and my whole life, I've been cautious of who I get intimate with. I had always wanted to be intimate with a boyfriend if I ever had sex and I don't get into relationships for the sake of being in a relationship. It's not often that I get a ...

Do I quit my job? I feel my coworker doesn't like me, and some of the behaviour at work feels like bullying to me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

14 March 2017 (M - I work for a warehouse factory that distrubutes sporting things such as football tops and trophies etc. I'm being bullied at work from my boss and the assistant of the boss and they can't seem to leave me alone for five minutes. everytime I go into ...

How easy is it for some men to cheat?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

13 March 2017 (F - How easy it is for some men to cheat? Do you think my man cheated on me based on this: *He's had sex with approx. 30 girls that I know about... *They are all types of faces and bodies and most of them he says he considers them ugly. (Ma...

What do you think about guys who body shame women?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

13 March 2017 (F - I recently broke up with my boyfriend. He was the type to cancel on a date on me and get angry for small things or worse, make the topics that don't concern him, his own problems. He never wanted to take me out. After breaking up with him...

Is there any way we could have forced him into rehab with no money to pay for it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

13 March 2017 (F - The problem I have is not a romance problem, it is a family problem. My brother is an alcoholic and he is spiraling out of control. He has had two DUIs and he can't keep a job. This week we found out that he had lost his job after being there for ...

How do I get her to want sex more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

13 March 2017 (M - I am in a relationship with a sag woman, I'm a virgo. We have been together for 7 months and about 2 months ago we had sex for the first time. We both seemed to enjoy it and I was able to make her orgasm ( better then last lovers according to her) ...

Was he right to say I need "more education?"

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12 March 2017 (F - Hi.. I've been with my bf for about 7 months. He has a degree in classics, privately educated, where as I have A levels and I quit a dead end job because of depression and couldn't handle it. I still am intelligent and we have deep conversatio...

How should we respond? My husband's ex has threatened to abandon the children on our doorstep, if we don't agree to take them at a time convenient for her.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

12 March 2017 (F - We could do with some help solving a problem please. My husband has recently been made redundant(with one week pay) and was offered an opportunity to go on a course to improve his skills and at the end, secure a new job which he was so excited a...

I feel so confused, wanting my stepfather to be happy, and not lonely. But is also reminds that my mother died. How can I adjust to this change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

12 March 2017 (F - Hi everyone, my mum passed away almost 3 years go. She was taken from us very very quickly with cancer. We had under 12 hours notice that she had terminal cancer before she died. It has been a very hard few years since, dealing with the grief o...

Is this normal? I have never been so happy about ending a relationship.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

12 March 2017 (F - Hello. I have a very short question for those who have enough knowledge about star signs(if you don't you may google info). Short story: I am a capricorn female (21) my boyfriend (now ex) is a Pisces (23). Our relationship was full of drama bu...

The guy is turning into an alcoholic. Should I keep it to myself that I'm pregnant, and raise the baby without him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

12 March 2017 (F - I don't know what I want to do at this point. I think I may be pregnant with the guy I'm currently seeing. I feel like he's going on a downward spiral at the moment. He had a weekend out with the boys and he got really drunk and now he is gettin...

How can I approach my Mum, to talk to her and to share with her the grief of losing my twin brother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

12 March 2017 (M - My twin brother had learning disabilities, but i loved him regardless. We were always together and i never excluded him from anything.He died last year after a fit from which he just never recovered. Worst day of my life because i was holding ...

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