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My boyfriend pointed out a larger girl to me and said if I ever got that fat he would dump me!

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22 May 2013 (F) - I am 27 and have been with my boyfriend for just under 4 years. At the weekend we were on a night out and he pointed out a woman on the dancefloor who was probably a UK size 14/16 and he told me if I ever get as fat as that he will dump me! Now this ...

What can I do, to stay strong, and stop myself texting him hurtful things?

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22 May 2013 (F) - my boyfriend keeps leaving the house when we start arguing and saying its over. I struggled a lot just before we met with money being on my own working mininum wage and having two kids. He has helped me out but now throws it in my face. I've gone...

No diagnosis for his ED and lack of desire! My marriage is almost destroyed by this!

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21 May 2013 (F) - I hope there are someone out there in my situation. I feel so alone with my problem. My 28 year long marriage is almost destroyed by this, and I dont know what else can I do. So my husband has a chronic sexual/erectile dysfunction, and complete ...

Pregnant and lonely, husband is always working?

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21 May 2013 (F) - Dear cupid, I don't know what to do or who else to talk to about this but I really need to let it out. I'm halfway through my pregnancy with my first child and I'm feeling so down all the time. It was planned and I'm not unhappy that we're havin...

Does this sound like normal puberty?

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21 May 2013 (F) - Im 13. Ive had discharge for two years nonstop with no period. My breasts hurt i get headaches, ive noticed lots of blackheads and clogged pores, and i am constantly grumpy and hateful. What does this mean? help, i think puberty hates me...

Why does he want to do it himself instead of being intimate with me?

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20 May 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 6 months and we are in love and live together. We have a really good and happy relationship apart from one thing. He would rather masturbate than have sex with me. Iv talked to him about it and he said that he ...

Should I move on / how can I do it when I'm so emotionally attached?

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20 May 2013 (F) - Long story short, I had a relationship with a guy for few months and things we're going great (I felt like it was a mutual feeling and he did express he had feelings for me and he always said how everything felt "too good to be true" cos we got ...

How do you deal with the issue of bad breath tactfully, yet firmly enough that the behaviour changes without resentment or hurt feelings?

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20 May 2013 (F) - My new boyfriend (3 months) has horrific breath sometimes. I tried subtle, then obvious hints like putting a toothbrush on his overnight bag. I finally said that didnt cut it, brush your teeth man! Then I turned it into a game about brushed te...

My boyfriend's lack of ambition is taking a toll on me

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19 May 2013 (F) - My boyfriend says he's lost his lust for life. And I can see a serious lack of motivation and drive but because Ive only been in the picture for two years I dont know for sure if this is a recent thing or if he has always been this way. He is a ...

I think I wasted my teenage years

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19 May 2013 (F) - Hey guys. I'm wondering if anyone here can relate and give me some advice. I'm 19 years old and I feel like I've sort of wasted my teenage years and that I didn't really live the life of a normal teenager. I've never had a boyfriend, never really ...

My boyfriend wants to call me a different name during sex!

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19 May 2013 (F) - Ok so now my Long term boyfriend has asked if he could call me by another girls name during sex. Im very uncomfrotable and seriously am thinking of breaking us up. Is this normal??? And then when I told him no he went soft during sex. Lost his hard ...

Was it my fault that she broke up with me? Was I wrong falling in love with a recovering alcoholic?

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19 May 2013 (M) - Hi, I keep hearing I should have left her alone during her tweive step program, but we were together for three months. I don't know if she drank before I picked her up to go dancing, movies, walks in the parks, trips, picnics. I stopped drinking...

So why am I feeling conflicted about progressing this to sex with her? Seemed the logical next option.

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19 May 2013 (M) - I've recently began a self-improvement kick, beginning to exercise, be more social, exude confidence. I'm getting female attention for the first time in ages. I really hit it off with a girl at a party last week, we spoke a lot and ended up holding ...

What birth defects could have been caused from caffeine, smoking and being fed by bottle?

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18 May 2013 (F) - My mother smoked cigarettes and consumed a lot of Caffeine while she was pregnant with me. I was also always bottle fed, never breast fed. I'm wondering what birth defects (if any) could have been caused by those three factors? ...

Girlfriend keeps breaking up and then saying she regrets it. What am I supposed to do?

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18 May 2013 (M) - i'm having a bit of a hard time lately. i've been with my girlfriend about a year now and sometimes our ups and downs really effect me. since this is anonymous, i don't feel too bad disclosing this information, seeing as how it's very pertinent. ...

I yelled at her and due to her past it's left her feeling traumatized. Now she's ignored me for 2 days. How can I make things right?

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18 May 2013 (M) - in need of help... two nights ago, out of frustration and in the heat of the moment, i slightly raised my voice at my girlfriend of 6 months. this was the first time I ever did that. I simply got upset over something involving us. later on i...

At the moment, I am not ready for a threesome to happen in our relationship. My Bf would like it to happen. How long into a relationship before agreeing to it?

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18 May 2013 (F) - Hi, Ok I would love some fair and informative advice here on my boyfriend wanting to have a FFM threesome. We have been going out with each other for 8 months and moved in together three months ago. At the beginning of the relationship he...

Want a low cost way to get a flat stomach by Dec 2013. Is my goal achievable and how?

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18 May 2013 (M) - I am 1.63m/5'4" and I weigh 66kg/146lbs and 20 percent body fat. I want to get a flat stomach and get my body fat down to 10-12 percent by mid December. I don't know how to do this when I have a limited budget for food and can't eat 5 times a day ...

After 8 years of marriage I became totally dependant on my ex-husband to support me

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18 May 2013 (F) - i am 28 and i don't want to work. I'm still living with my ex husband and his girl friend, he has moved on and i relied on him so much for 8 years. i have become comfortable living like that. i don't work or pay any bills. i don't do anything...

My husband says I must learn to accept that his excessive drinking is just who he is

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18 May 2013 (F) - My husband has a drinking problem, he likes to get drunk everynight, and can go through 4 bottles a week and a few 6 packs. I tried so hard to get him to cut back but that resulted in him sneaking to the liquor store behind my back. I suggeste...

My friend is acting as if our hot making out meant nothing!

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17 May 2013 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of two years because he treated me like crap, but I was really feeling down so I started hanging out with a friend. Yesterday I was riding home with they guy and things just kind of happened and we ended up making out in ...

Am I demasculated pushover?

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17 May 2013 (M) - Hey everyone, this is something that plaeged me growing up and especially in my teen and college years. Despite the fact that I love him to death, my Father seems to fit the bill for the "Nice Guy" profile while I grew up in the far more than sim...

How does one overcome an awful childhood and the lack of a loving homelife?

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17 May 2013 (F) - I grew up with a single mother (my dad left when I was very little) and two sisters who dropped out of school due to getting pregnant. I was raised on a council estate, but it was in a really nice little town down South (leaving out the name so ...

I'm worried that my smoking and drinking could delay or event prevent getting pregnant

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17 May 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, so basically what it is is that I really want a baby (so does my partner) I came off the mirena two months ago, I drink on weekends socially but quite a lot and smoke 8-10 cigarettes a day, I know that's awful to do when trying to ...

Girlfriend's mom had a health scare and now she drops everything for mom!

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17 May 2013 (M) - My GF needs some help and I'm not sure what I can do. I've been with her 4 years and everything has been good. We're compatible, we resolve disagreements quick, etc. I'm not going to bore you with a list of how great things usually are... ...

How can I improve my self esteem after an abusive relationship?

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17 May 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid Long story short, got dumped from a 3 years abusive relationship. My self esteem is record low and im still thinking about ways to get my ex-bf back, haven't acted on it though. I am trying really hard to move on and not think ab...

Does this sound normal for "down there"?

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16 May 2013 (F) - Hey guys, this is embarrassing but for like the last couple years its look like there was another little hole or tear under the vagina hole there or some thing and iv ignored it but today i opened it more and noticed its like 3 litle diffrent flabs ...

Is what she told me about birth control pills for her true?

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15 May 2013 (M) - Me and my fiance were talking about birth control one day and i asked her why doesn't she start taking the pill.She told me that she went to a doctor about it and they said that because of her size (she is close to 100lb over weight) that all it ...

After all the drama now he's avoiding me and won't contact me!

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15 May 2013 (F) - How Can I have a good relationship with an anxious man ? I met my boyfriend 6 months ago and he fell in love with me i tried to be more rational as i had so many bad experiences before so I couldn't help my heart and I fell in love with him too .he ...

HELP!!!! My weight is ruining my relationship

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15 May 2013 (F) - I have had two children and I am now 70 pounds overweight. I'm very unhappy, angery and out of sorts with myself. I know that I need to lose weight, but after working, taking care of my dads kids and then taking care of my own kids, I find I h...

LDR coupled with anxiety and ED. Any tips on how we can make this relationship work?

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14 May 2013 (F) - I'm in a relationship in which we have about a third of the year together and two thirds of the year are long distance. At the moment I'm seeing my boyfriend about every month or so. The last two times I've seen him, we've tried to have sex but ...

I should be happy I've been dumped by my abusive ex but I don't know how to stop wanting him back! Help!

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14 May 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid My verbally and emotionally abusive bf of 3 years dumped me yesterday. I know i should be relieved that i wont be abused anymore. I dont need to walk on egg shells around him anymore and i dont have to scared everytime he calls me or i...

I'm a slow learner, how do I manage this with my new job?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

14 May 2013 (F) - I'm starting a new job next Monday. I'm real excited about it, but there's one thing that worries me. I'm kind of a slow learner, (slower than most people I know). In the past, that's really annoyed my supervisors and managers at other jobs. They...

I want change… but I don't want to change who I am. Any advice?

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13 May 2013 (F) - (I'm tired and it's 2:45am but I can't sleep because these thoughts are running through my head, so bear with me...) I guess the biggest way to sum up my situation, is that I don't know what to do with myself. I feel like I'm stuck in this ev...

I made a fool of myself when drunk. Tried to make out with a guy who's hot. Friends say I should text him and apologize. Should I?

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13 May 2013 (F) - Ok so here's the deal. Last Friday, I got drunk and high with two of my friends and this guy I'm interested in. I've only known him for few weeks but he's really cute. Anyways I'm on this new medication for depression and I guess it messed with m...

Did my comments to her bring on an eating disorder?

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12 May 2013 (M) - I didn't mean to make my best friend have this problem and now I feel terrible, I didn't realise what effect my comment had and what she went through before! Over the last two weeks I made a few comments in very obvious jokes! She was making dinne...

I love him but he's attention seeking. I want him, but feel trapped!

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12 May 2013 (F) - Dear all. I would appreciate your views please. I.ve been seeing a man for just over two years. It has been difficult,and volitile. I really love him,but have had to back off,and am seeing him alot less to avoid getting hurt,and trying to slowly ...

My boyfriend has moved out again, for the fifth time!

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12 May 2013 (F) - My boyfriend of two years moved out again for the fifth time. He usually calls or comes back by now but not this time. His Family is being very nasty towards me and he didnt just move out he moved 3 hours away. When he left he said he was going to ...

My friend's wife keeps commenting on my size and weight and its really starting to bother me!

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11 May 2013 (F) - I have a little problem with the new wife of my friend. She is very thin, may be the most 110 lb. she is a bit shorter than me, but her body frame is very small. I am 5.4 and weigh 137 lb. I ve been like this for the past 15 years since I ha...

I have a very low sex drive. Please help. Is there anything that could help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

11 May 2013 (F) - Hi-I LOVE my fiance so very much. We both have full time jobs and two dogs that take up a lot of our time ). I have no self esteem issues what so ever, I a very confident person. Our relationship is very lovey and we truly are in love- never ar...

Do men feel guilt at denying paternity, when they are informed about a pregnancy? Or do the men just move on and feel no guilt? Should I feel damaged by their actions?

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11 May 2013 (F) - Hello, friends, aunts, uncles etc I have a question again.... I am pregnant thanks to the advice I got I'm keeping my baby God will provide something for us. My question is do these men who abandon they children really move on or they do sit d...

Why? Every time my Gf ask me for help I usually agree. But then she changes her mind at the last minute. How can I deal with my confused feelings about her rescinding the request?

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11 May 2013 (M) - so i'm pretty sure i'm doing something wrong but i need some advice... so the thing is, both my girlfriend and i have a disability, and neither of us is able to drive a car. suppose my gf needs something. like, she's busy and doesn't have time...

Why doesn't my husband want us to stop living with his Mom and get our own place? He says we can't afford it. Should I believe him?

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11 May 2013 (F) - Me and my husband have been living with his mom for 2 years. We have 2 small kids. I wanna get our own place but he doesn't want to. He has a 2012 chrysler 300 c that he got a year ago and a 2007 pick up he got 5 months ago. He says he doesn't ...

Would this help? My therapist thinks being intimate with a woman like a prostitute would help me with my social anxiety

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11 May 2013 (M) - OK, so I've got two years on the 40-year-old virgin, even though nobody's made a movie about me yet. I am plagued my social anxiety, am withdrawn, and have gone on many first dates but few second ones. My long-time therapist actually belie...

I want a man who wants me and wants to have children.

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11 May 2013 (F) - When I was 15, I got into a 3-year long relationship with a then 17 year old boy. The first year was great and yes, I lost my virginity to him (he did not lose his to me). But then he went off to university five hours away and we only saw each other ...

He says I don't turn him on sexually. Porn is his preference. Do I stay for the sake of our children or leave?

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10 May 2013 (F) - Hey everyone. Am depressed need your advice. I am mother of twins they are only 3 years. My husband of 4 years has told me we should split up in several occassions. I have found him on dating sites twice and everytime he diactivate the a...

Should I be worried about oral sex unprotected from 4 years ago?

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10 May 2013 (F) - I am here to ask about the effectivenes of HIV home test such as OraQuick, as well as the rist of Oral sex when it comes to HIV. The reason why I am asking is because I literally just took one OraQuick test, followed the instructions to the T and ...

Why do I feel so tired, sad, frustrated and angry all the time.?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 13 days ago

10 May 2013 (F) - I have a good life....love my job, my partner of 6 months and I have an amazing family but for some reason I cant feel happy. I have tried improving myself and feeling happier by losing 6kgs, gettting back into my artwork that I havent done for 7 ...

Is there any hope of me getting her back?

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9 May 2013 (M) - I had been with my now ex girlfriend for a little over a year, the last 3 months however was long distance. We spoke basically everyday and I went to see her 4times in that space. I asked her if iI could move up to the same place and iif she felt it ...

I'm nervous all the time! I wasn't always this way. What is going on?

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9 May 2013 (F) - I feel nervous all the time! to the point, I can't breathe and I feel sick. I don't know why, or what I'm particularly nervous about because it's all the time. I'm constantly concerned about my family an wether they are okay/safe, sometimes when I ...