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Archived questions from: December, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Why will women not date me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - why will women not date a leg amputee like me im 49 average looking and financially stable and treat them like a princess? thanks...

Am I wasting my time asking this guy over or should I go for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Hello to everyone and happy new year!! Ok aunts yes it's me again. Heres the situation. The guy that I had talked about before is driving me crazy.Last week he called me quite a few times 4 times christmas eve and yesterday he called 3 we talked ...

What sort of physique do girls like in a boyfriend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - Hi, happy new year. I want to know this from girls. Girls, what sort of physique u like in ur bf? Tall, short, fat, skinny, muscular, anything. Feel free to give me ideas on wot u actually look for. Thanks. Pls. ...

Should I keep things the way they are?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - I am gay asia man. Dating with the white guy and both of us love each other.. One thing is he is not out yet to his family and friend... Several situation between us.. I am still love and be with him... What do I need to do ? just keep...

Why do nice girls fancy jerks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - why do nice girls fancy jerks? why do jerks types guys keeping getting girlfreinds.girls never see thsese guys as freind material,thses guys can have girl as girlfreind whenever they choose girls never say no when asking them out either.then they...

Do guys mind it if their gfs wear padded bras to make their breasts look bigger when going out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Do guys mind it if their gfs wear padded bras to make their breasts look bigger when going out? Like there are certain bras and tops I can wear that make my boobs look much bigger than they actually are. My bf knows my size of course but I'm just ...

My girlfriend is in love with her ex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - Alright, here's what's going on... My GF and I have been going out for a while now, and she just told me that shes still in love with one of her ex's and she cant be with him (he lives far away) I asked her this morning if she still loves him and ...

Help! I'm stuck between 2 guys!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - My problem is very long, I apologise in advance. Basicaly I'm stuck between 2 guys. Guy A I met about a year and a half ago, when I was 14 (and so was he). After a while, about the end of august, we decided to go out. As most couples are at 14, thin...

My fiance is scaring me and making me think he might be gay or bi sexual.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - My fiance is scaring me and making me think he might be gay or bi sexual. Here are the reasons: 1. He confessed to me that when he was in middle school he gaved a kiss to a guy because he was curious, confused etc but nothing else happened and he ...

How can I stop the paranoia, how can I convince her to stop being polite to her ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - Hey everyone, I've got a question, although a bit hesitant to begin with I decided to post it anyway to see what people think. (I'll explain a bit of the background as well). If you do read it all and reply, thank you so much. I've been seeing ...

I said I was having nothing more to do with men and now this!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Got a bit of a problem and I really don't know what to do so really need advice. I'm originally from Scotland moved down to London about 2 years ago to go to university. I recently started dating a new guy I met at university and we've been going ...

Are these red flags in our relationship? Advice please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm a 26 y.o male in a relationship with a 27y.o girl, who I've known since I was 17. We went out for 3 years then met up again 11 months ago (the split was due to me traveling abroad). I was delighted when we ran into each other again and foun...

Love my boyfriend but texting other guy! Should I tell my b/f?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - I need help. yu all probably seen my last post about havinqg sex with my boyfriend ( and I decided to wait by the way) but now I have a different problem. I love my boyfriend so much and we've been together for three months. yesterday while ...

Why do the bad guys always win?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - why do some people who are nasty and cold and who have inflated egos with good looks get every thing? some like who is nice,quiet,hard working get nothing in life only disappointment and rejection and failure. why do do bullies and meanies ...

He wants to see if he misses me will he be back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 6 years decided he needed time apart. He wasn't treating me that well lately an was turning small meaningless arguments into big scandals. We have had problems in our relationship, which is normal for every couple, but I was always ...

I've never had a boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - is 30 years of age, I feel old because i never had any thing.i,ll never get married i never had boyfriend no body would bother with me. I'm really discouraged about all of this!...

He acts different to me when his friends are around

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 months and a bit now and i cant stand to be away from him. As i have been banned from seeing him this makes it all worse. I get to see him only at school and right now its in the holidays and im going th...

Do I be brave and make the first move?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Okay, I know this sounds weird but I'm shy and need help with this. I like this guy at work and I never told anyone. And I was told that he liked me (and I believe them- just through little things at work- he was my secret santa and i saw him goin...

I don't know about oral sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Ok, I have been with this guy for a few months and he wants to go a bit further with oral stuff etc. the thing is I have never let a guy go down on me before and I don't know what to expect and what do you do once he has finished....

He didn't text me for 4 hours! Am I wrong to be hurt by this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - I've been having a long distance relationship with a guy for just over a year and I felt as if I liked him more than he liked me.... So I asked him and he said that could be true, that was about a week ago and everything's been fine recently. By ...

Should I confront her about my suspicions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - I've been with my girl for a few years and we've had our share of problems. Now just last month before the holiday she went to New York for a week to be with family. Now she's gone back for the holidays again but now I'm noticing she only contacts ...

I'm afraid he won't be 'in love' with me. Is 4 months long enough to tell?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - so i've been dating a new guy since my last relationship ended horribly. he's wonderful- older than me by a few years but he cares for me and shows it very often. we've been together for about 4 months- i have issues with trust and he has been ...

What did she mean by her message?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - Alright, so i like this girl alot. she's the same age as me and we have a damn near every thing there is in common. but idk if she likes me. ive got a hint i think, i said somthing to her on myspace about how a one of my girlfriends dumped me cus i ...

Is there anything I can say to let our fire to continue to burn?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5595 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 18 months.I am 22 and she is nineteen.We have talked about marriage many times and both love the idea. In the beginning, she had no baggage whatsoever, but that changed as we traveled back and forth from ...

A bit too close for comfort.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Hi. Im a sorry that this is so long but it is really urgent and I could do with the help. Please take the time to read! I thought Id ask to see what people on here think I should do. There is this lad at school (lets call him Fred Flinstone) and h...

My boyfriend calls me derogatory names during sex. What does this mean?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2514 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - I am dating a wonderful, sweet, caring, thoughtful man and we are planning a future together. We have only been together for a few months. He absolutely adores me and I do him as well. We have an incredible sex life but one thing confuses me... ...

Found explicit pictures while snooping on his computer!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - My fiance moved in a few months ago. I was snooping around on his computer and found several explicit pictures of him with other women.I am ticked off! I really didn't need to see any of that! They were is a hidden file created a few days after ...

Should I expect a kiss? It's our first real date.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - hey everyone. I'm going on my first real date with my boyfriend of one week on thursday, we are going to a movie. should I expect a kiss? I've never been kissed before so I don't really know how. any tips? and I aslo need advice on what...

Can I say we are in a relationship already?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - I've been having a long distance friendship with a guy I met 2 years ago in a business delivery I made. He's military so he left soon after that. The weird part is that we met only 2 times but a click happened there. Since that meeting we've be...

Can someone tell me how to get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5595 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - i have a crush i hate him but i like everybody in my class thats a girl but ones a gossip and befor everybody ones how can i get over him he's nice but he "thinks" i'm evil but i just tease him and he terases me and he likes a girl i the class ...

Does he want nothing more than friendship or...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5595 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - I am in love with my best friend. His friendship means everything to me. We talked about us being together several times however he says he does not want to mess up what we have together. He thinks he is not good at relationships ... I kinda agree ...

Is this relationship too risky?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is 30 years older than me. His daughter is 5 years younger,and his son 10 years older. I'm only 23 and he is 53. Is it going to work on the long run? Can we have plan to have babies ? He has grand children.. Right now ,he can still ha...

I'm stuck in the "what if" kind of situation

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Hi, to be honest i'm not really sure why i am writing this. I dont know if i want help or if i just want to get things off my chest. The thing is i met a boy when i was on holiday when i was nine, we clicked straight away. After the holiday we kept ...

Shes chasing me but she has a boyfriend and I feel guilty!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - Well im in a bit of a predicament you see, It all started about 2 weeks ago at a friends party where i started speaking to a friends friend and we swapped phone numbers and began texting (well she texts me everyday) but i found out she has a ...

When I'm drunk I get violent

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years, we live together and we're very happy, but when i go out and get drunk i am violent towards him. I dont know why, im not at all like that when soba and there is nothing wrong with us. He has stuck by me and ...

Have a baby with my guy or wait for someone better?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Just a quickie Im 36 and in a relationship that I'm very unsure of. My boyfriend of 2 yrs can be sulky and childish and is never wrong. He wants us to have a child and I really want to start a family more than anything. He wont ever change an...

Am I in over my head or should I see what the future holds?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I am wondering about my relationship. I am 31 years old in a very serious relationship with a 36 year old man that has 4 kids. One of his kids is by my distance cousin. He tells me he loves me and even gave me a ring for Christmas but I have this ...

Why does he want to be 'just friends'?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I dated for 28 days. We were soo happy together. He would text me all day the 1st coupe of weeks and he'd make me every morning with a 'good morning baby!' and it was so nice. The on the 18th I was with him and some girl popped u...

Does this make sense to anyone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - WOW. It's finally happened for me and my man. At last we have connected. He final found away through. Here is how it happened. He told me he could no longer continue in the realtionship because I had no heart to give. We had a massive row but ...

This guy keeps giving me mixed signals!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - im confused? a few months ago I was having funny broody feelings you know the feelings a women gets when ever she sees a baby.my boyfriend picked up on this and made it clear that he does not want a child. but last week when we were out shopping, he ...

Is my boyfriend gay and just not admitting it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

30 December 2008 (?) - Is my Boyfriend Gay? Okay so my boyfriend and I have slept together (when I say slept togetehr I mean beside each other NOT sex). He's spent the night at my house about 3 times and we've been in the same bed. I dont wear a bra to sleep in. He'...

I have strong will power but around him, I just melt!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Okay well, this is my first post on this site and I really need some advice as I have nowhere else to turn. I'm going to sound like a horrible person, and I guess I am on some level, but I can't stop. Here it goes. I've been with my boyfriend for...

14 and worried about getting pregnant!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - hey im 14 and i have a 17 year old boyfriend and i want to have sex with him he says he is ready when i am as long as its not years and years he said , now im fine with that im just worried of getting pregnant its so scary on tv i dont want it im ...

Why does he still have his ex wife's number?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Is it normal for a guy which has been devoiced for 2 years now to still have his ex wife's number on his cellphone, just not under any contact name but 'sweetheart', she left the county to marry another guy. we have been dating for 7 months now, i ...

Has anyone stayed with a guy who finds sex painful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5595 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year and we have not had sex and I can count on one hand the number of times I have had success in giving him a hand job. When I try to give him oral sex he prefers me to just use my hand. I find that ...

Why is it so hard for him to tell his ex that he met someone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I'm a little concerned with my relationship. My BF of 6 months is recently divorced and we met while he was waiting for it to be final. He still hasn't introduced me to his friends because his ex is friends with them too and I also haven't met his ...

What to do to see my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5595 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I have told my dad that my crush and i are going out. He was happy for me. I convinced him to let me go to his house, thought he cant take the decision alone. My parents are separated and have different point of views.Im afraid my mom wont let me ...

Do you believe in trusting gut instincts? I predict an affair!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5566 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I went to see his long lost sister who brought one of her friends, let's call her susan (who is married and has kids), but I couldn't help but get this feeling that something will happen between my boyfriend and this Susan. I have ...

Going to visit ex--good sign right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5594 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I have an update on my situation. If you remember my ex boyfriend dumped me, then got back in touch before he went travelling, we had sex and declared our feelings, then he went. I was all over the place. He said I could go visit him but I wasn't ...

Missed pills... can she be pregnant???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - My girlfriend has been on the pill for 2 years. Two weekends ago we went on vacation and she forgot her pills, so she didn't take them for 3 days. During those 3 days we didn't use condoms but I tried my best to pull out before ejaculating (a ...