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writes:Hey everyone,I'm in a LDR right now and i have been for about 3 months now. I love her, a lot, but i only get to see her about 2 times a month. I feel like im losing interest but i think it's just a feeling of not being able to be with her. I dont want to end anything because when im with her im the happiest guy in the world but it takes about an hour to really respark things for me. I dunno really what im asking but does anyone have any advice on how im feeling? I really do miss her but sometimes i just feel like we've parted REAL far which, physically we have but im starting to feel an emotional separage as well. Could it be because we talk to much? I tell her i love her everyday and i mean it. Help please! Reply to this Question
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reader, Digiman  +, writes (7 November 2009):
 Hey man, I truly feel your pain!I'm going through exactly the same thing, although I'm working on month 8 of my LDR...it's painful! No doubt about it! I am committed to bearing this out for another 4 months, but after a year, if I feel this same way, then I'm going to call it off...there's only so much of an LDR a person can take!You just have to decide how much time you want to dedicate to the relationship until you decide it may not be worth it...set a goal that _realistically_ gives your relationship time to work itself out, and once you reach that goal it's time to make a hard and fast ("go"/"no go") decision. You want to give it enough time so that you won't regret breaking it off, if you choose to do that, in the future.Best of luck!
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reader, sabgriff  +, writes (24 October 2009):
i suggest that the two of you talk about "the future" see if one is willing to relocate. i just broke it off with 7 month ldr because he didn't seem to be keen on seeing each other regularly and so i felt that it wasn't as serious as i wanted it to be... good luck on yours!
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (24 October 2009):
 LSR rarely work out because of this reason. You could try to find a way to have more contact (I mean face to face) or leave the relationships. You won't be happy being in a relationship where you rarely see the person.
Good Luck!
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