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Archived questions from: July, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Where are the best places to go to find a girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - After a few bad relationships, I've decided to start going out again. I'm a single dude, age 24. I'm going out to clubs and bars to get myself out there. I see a few single girls there, but people advised me to stay away from those girls (STDS). ...

I'm pregnant but I don't want to get back with him. How can I make him understand that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - okay my boyfriend and i were going out years and we broke up and then i found out i was pregant and told him he cried saying he wasn't ready for this but he'll be there, I told him i'm not a bitch i have no problem with him seeing the child and ...

I might not manage to go to the prom but she said she'd just go herself! This bugs me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - hey me again, me and my girl where discussing when her senior prom will be, and I brought up the question of what if I couldn't come? (since I'm in job corps like 3 hours away from her, there is a distinct possibility I wont be able to) And she...

Is my boyfriend ashamed of me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Hi, I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months and he has not introduced me to anyone and I feel like he is hiding me. We work together and he says he doesn't want to tell people about us, because he doesn't know how they will react to us dating a...

I think I just maybe losing my mind in this whole situtaion please help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - What do you do in a situation when you have a boyfriend at home that is older than you and you started out as best friends, eventually moved into a deeper relationship, have a hansome child together and are still good friends, but due to past issues ...

I don't feel as if my relationship with him is moving on...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - A couple of months ago I met a guy on the internet. We texed for a few days and then met for a drink. In person I found him physically attractive but he seemed a bit shy. After the date he carried on texting every day (hes funnier in his texts) and ...

Why oh why did this happen to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 2 years, we've had sex a couple of times, not regularly though. Yesteday we were fooling around and things got heated up, i was hard, and we were about to have sex. But when we were about to, i lost my ...

Have you ever dumped a girl because you suddenly felt that she was not in your league?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - This is kind of a poll. Guys please be honest here. Have you ever dumped a girl for another girl who was better looking than your ex but not as interesting. To be more blunt have you ever dumped a girl because you suddenly felt that she was not ...

How do I get this guy's respect after sleeping with him straight away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1853 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Hey guys! Right, well i slept with this guy that i like, and have done for a while, were not in any sort of relationship though, me sleeping with him probably wasn't the best thing to do. How do i get this guy's respect after this? I'm hoping to b...

Why did she just diss my feelings that I still love her and want her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Me and my ex girlfriend have been broken up for about 5-6 months already. We were in a long distance relationship for that time. We had an amazing bond together best friends, lovers we just got along so perfectly. Now during this break up I have ...

2 beers and he couldn't get an erection! What happened?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

31 July 2010 (?) - My bf is ALWAYS horny and we have an active sex life, I love it. We don't drink much actually but tonight we each had 2 beers. He wasn't horny at all! for the first time since I know him (I've known him for 2 years) he couldn't get an erection! I ...

Since moving in together he is not the same person I fell in love with...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for some time now and we've been living together for about 2 months. It was nice in the beginning when i first moved in, but now i feel horrible. He is not the same person i fell in love with. He calls me name and ...

Why won't my girlfriend touch me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - My girlfriend will not touch me. We've been together almost seven months and I'm depressed every day. We recently started being more sexual, and I touch/please her, but all I get in return is making out. I don't think this is fair, but I don't want ...

Do you think once he sees my bump he might change his mind and stay with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Hi I am 35 and my bf is 46. I was married before but not children. He does not have either but said that want a family and kids. We have been dating for 7 months and by accident I got pregnant. He was furious and wants me to terminate it. I ...

My boyfriend is a pothead!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 and a half years since 8th grade. he was a major pot head and last year he was sent to a boot camp for almost ten months, he made it seem like he was so changed and he wouldnt smoke again i waited for him. ...

Opinions. If he wanted to break up he'd tell me, ignore me or be slightly rude right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I've posted before.. but i cant seem to relax.. im constantly thinking. I realized when guys are sick theyre big babies (well some). I'm used to being needed when a bf is sick but because my bf has his mom nearby/her friends to get him things.. he ...

Can I be in love with two men at the same time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - is it possible to love two people at once or is there a diference between loving someone and being in love?i'm in love with two men. i just don't know which one is my "true love"....

My best friend's boyfriend likes me, and I like him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I feel pretty bad for liking my best friend's boyfriend, even though i liked him before she did, but i never told her. Her and him haven't been dating that long but she's really mean to him she talks to other guys while dating him and she calls him ...

How much does height matter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - This woman I like is about 5'8... the same as me. When she wears regular shoes to work and I wear my dress shoes I am a little taller. However, she often wears 4" heels which jumps her up to 6 ft tall, while I remain in the 5'10ish range in m...

How can I unleash her libido?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Hi,i m sad and need your help.I just found a new girl friend who turns out to be a sex guru..She does lots of sexy things to me during a blow job wish gives me satisfaction.She hates using protections and i love her for that,i intend f****** the ...

I'm finding it hard to let myself go sexually...I am so shy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I need some advice as I feel I am not normal, I have never felt attracted to anyone until now, I am with this amazing guy and we have been together for a long time and he has said he loves me and I love him in every way, he knows everythng about me ...

He needs time... all the while I am unravelling.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Hello friends, I need some advice. My bf and I had a big blowout a few weeks ago, it was my fault, I lied to him about a few things and he found out. The lies were white and small and didn't hurt anyone but still, I lied. After trying to reconcile ...

Should I wait 3 weeks for him to break off his other dates?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I have been dating a guy for about 2 months now. Sex has come up and I have stated that I will not have intercourse until we are in an exclusive relationship. At the beginning of the week, he has said that he likes me a lot, and that he 'needs t...

I need advice about sex...How to be safe, and satisfying

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - i want to make a safe sex with my girl friend. We are realy sincere with each other therefore we want to make sexual relation between us. . ! Please give me tips by which we make our sex long at night and i don't want her pregnant. Help me s0on. . ! ...

I secretly masturbate but don't like doing this ...any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Hello, I have been living with My Girlfriend a while now but I secretly masturbate a lot. No one knows about this, I have porn magazines hidden behind the panelling on the bath in the bathroom and I masturbate to them sometimes. I also masturba...

Sex has waned in our relationship and I'm thinking of looking elsewhere. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I have been with my guy for 5 years! I have a high sex drive and he knew this when we first started dating. This was one of the reasons we kept seeing each other as he thought he'd died and gone to heaven...sex on tap! But as the years have gone on ...

All I've done for weeks now is chase after him and try different tactics to get him back. I desperately need advice on how to get him back...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Well mines a long story. Really hope you can help. This is th second split from my boyfriend of 7 years. The first split was in 2008 at christmas and alsmost killed me, i went completely mad and was totally heartbroken. I ended up moving miles away ...

Dumped because I got too close to another guy! How do I get my bf back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - ok well basically my boyfriend broke up with me 6 days ago and im actually devastated. The reason he broke up with me is because he saw me being a bit 'too close' with another guy who is my friend and broke up with me right there and then. I know I ...

He's in a relationship, he flirts with me and another girl at work! What is going on here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I'm in love with my co-worker who is twice my age; he's smart, sexy, funny and we have a lot in common. Problem is he's involved in a relationship, he also seems to favour one of the other girls at work a bit more than me. I'm just so terribly ...

Did it happen or not? How do I explain this one to my gf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Hi. Bear with me I feel you need to know all the details to make a judgement. 5 weeks into my relationship I went out to a club/pub without my girlfriend, and this girl with a bf approached me to initiate conversation, I bluntly told her to f***...

Sometimes I feel like I'm tired off him and immediately I think I can't live without him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4992 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - We've been in a relationship for a bit now. I chased him around a bit and he's very shy but after a couple of months of being really good friends we started going out and he's madly in love with me (like I am with him) Now that he's equally in ...

How to help a shy man...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - i've been trying to find a girlfriend for my very shy friend. But they won't go out with him just because he is shy. He thinks women don't like shy men that they want confident men. He thinks he wasting his time trying because he is shy....

This is just a rant but I really need your thoughts and suggestions...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - this is just a rant, but suggestions and thoughts are appreciated. My gf has trouble letting go of her ex, no matter how nasty he is to us and our friends. She dosent see that he's pushing my friend base away from her....they dont want to speak to...

I am shy with a speech impediment, need suggestions on asking a girl out??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - I was wandering what are the best ways to ask girls out? I am 25 years old with a speech impediment. I have always been to shy to ask girls out due to my speech impediment. I decided it about time that I get over me being shy. So I was wanderi...

We talked, he made promises, then stopped calling, now he's back, what do I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - okay well i'm not really sure what to do. theres this boy and he and me meet through another guy friend of mine. hes 17 almost 18 im 15. we had a really big thing but i would always have to sneak him in because I live with and abusive/strict father. ...

I hate it when he hangs out with his friends.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I are really happy with each other. We love each other and never fight. But there's just this one problem that bothers me every time. I don't know why, but I just hate when he hangs out with his friends. I mean, I feel like ...

Ugly curse... or beautiful blessing?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - How do I even begin? Well, I just feel the need to express my thoughts and get things off my chest because I am in a complicated situation that is leading me to lack of sleep because my brain won't stop thinking and debating. I am sixteen years ol...

I'm starting to resent her and her ways...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Okay, i have a girlfriend that i love to death, but sometimes i have some problems that i dont really know the names for. To start off, shes has a troubled past of family problems, drug problems, and boyfriend problems. I, myself, have self-esteem ...

He doesn't know how much our sex life is bothering me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 21. We've been together for just over a year. We only have sex about once a week, sometimes not even that, or twice a week at a push. I want to have sex a little more often (twice a week every week would be great), but my ...

Confused, hurt, angry, worried all at the same time!!! What now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. We bought a house almost 2 years ago. It's in his name as my credit wasn't good enough to be used though my income was for th loan. Anyway, recently, I had an atv accident that he has been blaming himself ...

Why is he being so selfish wanting me to have an abortion???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Hi, last week i found out that i am pregnant im 17 and my boyfriend of 16 months is 18. I told him that i didnt want to get an abortion, and at first he said he would be there for me no matter what and said he would move in with me and my parents, a ...

Just how much does sex hurt...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I have question?and its about me and my boyfriend. well the deal is that we been together for about 4-in half going on 5 and were both in are 20s and we been wait for so long that we want to have sex already but im afriad of pain and getting hurt. ...

We've just had this big fight and I haven't heard from him... what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5019 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I need help and advice because lately my relationship hasnt been so good. Today my boyfriend and i got into a nasty fight. Yes we've had these alot but this time things were said that really shouldnt have been said. I really need help because ...

I am not convinced why he wants to break up with me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me saying that we don't see things eye to eye. I have a 4 year old son, not with him. He feels bothered when my son acts up at the dinner table and wants to walk around. He believes children should be seen, not heard. My ...

Anxious about meeting my boyfriend again after a 3 month seperation (distance)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I will be heading back to meet my boyfriend after 3 months of long-distance separation. I am feeling with anxiety as to what should i do? How can I face him? I suddenly feel so far away from him... How can i control my fear? I heard that when ...

Problems finding a mate!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have been quite alone for over 12 years now. My last (and only) marriage was a disaster- all I got out of it was three great kids, who are now grown. However, I am willing and able to start over again; I have a real desire to be a ...

Should I wait this year out to be with him even though he may break my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Ok sooo. Last year I dated this guy who I was totally in love with but he basically broke up with me a week after we had sex. I felt totally used and hurt. Though he promised me it wasnt something he liked doing but he couldnt do long distance he ...

He wants me to choose between him and his brother...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend and we have been going out for a long time i love him a lot and his older brother is my best friend. His brother was acting a little wierd around me and then he told me that he loved me and that i have to chose between him and his ...

My boyfriend hits me I need help and advice please!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I'm 20 years old, Basically i have been with my bf for a year and 4 months into the relationship he started getting violent. it began by him punching things around his like a wall or the car dashboard, then when he got more angry he started to ...

SICK of oral...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5019 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I really enjoy oral sex, both giving and receiving it. The only person I've ever done this with is my current boyfriend. Not too long ago, we were joking around about oral sex (I'm not going to go into needless details) but I joked that I would come ...