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She's going into an arranged marriage, unhappy with the man. Please help!

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21 September 2017 (F - I am an Indian. In our culture arrange marriage system is prevalent. Recently my best friend got engaged to someone. Her parents found that guy for her. Its been an year but not a day passed when she didn't complain about him. She always tells me ...

She's asked me for advice-Can I be honest and tell her she's in a bad relationship?

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21 September 2017 (F - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I need some advice on should I say what I think or... be polite and lie. I have 2 cousins who are like sisters to me. One of them is having problems with her papers. She's been living in a foreign country for the past 7 y...

I'm Open-Minded but His Porn Habit & Denials are Alienating Me!

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21 September 2017 (F - my husband who is 10 years older than me is watching porn on a daily basis and playing virtual reality porn games,I know because he,s not very clever at deleting his history.He shows no interest in me even though I go out of my way to look nice and ...

How do I get this woman out of my life without hurting feelings or jeopardising the other relationship with the mutual friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted yesterday

20 September 2017 (F - I was on here a year or two back about a friend I have had for a while who was always putting me down, trying to be smart and reminding me in her jokey way of any 'blunders' I may have made in years gone by. She is friends with another mutual f...

Are we sexually incompatible? I need help!

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19 September 2017 (F - my fiancé and I have been together for a year and a half and we have been struggling sexually. when we first got together he told me he wanted to wait until marriage to have sex I was perfectly Fine with that as we both were practicing christianity ...

Heart says carry on, head says we are now toxic! Advice needed!

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19 September 2017 (F - Hi. So my 8 year relationship seems to be at its end and I've been given an ultimatum. We split up or we stay together and try to make it work. Some background, we are a young couple, we have been together from a young age and have been through ...

Why do people bad mouth their significant others?

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19 September 2017 (F - Why do guys complain about their gf/wives but then not leave? I have a coworker that always complains about his wife - I never bring her up but somehow he will say something about her nagging or sound so dis interested in any event that they ...

We've had rough times but seem to want only us! But his marijuana use is a problem for me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

19 September 2017 (F - Hi, everyone. Hope everyone is doing well. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now. And we seem to love each other so much. And i sat seem becuz we say we love each other to the max but we do many things to hurt each other. And find it ...

I'm 28, watched my father die, and now watching my mother die. How to deal with anger?

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18 September 2017 (F - I am 28 years old. My parents have been divorced since I was a child. Both of my parents have had poor health for as long as I can remember -- extreme obesity, diabetes, high blood pressure, heart issues, and so on. As I grew up, I watched my fat...

I want to marry this woman and find it hard to let her go! Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

18 September 2017 (M - Help help help. In a previous column I told everyone about how my x dumped me after 3 1/2 years by text. I also found that she had a dating profile. We talked on the phone. She says she feels like a horrible person for what she did and we had long ...

I'm worried my boyfriend is stealing from me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

18 September 2017 (F - Hi, I really need some advice - I've been in a very happy relationship for over six months now. My boyfriend is very loving and caring, and we've never even had an argument - we just seem very in tune with one another. But something odd happ...

My girlfriend has poor dental hygiene!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

18 September 2017 (M - My girlfriend has poor dental hygiene. Her teeth are yellowish and her breath smells bad.I love her but everytime I wish to express it with a kiss I hold back. How do I bring this up with her?...

My girlfriend wont cut ties with her ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

17 September 2017 (M - This might be a bit long. After a few relationships, i decided to try and get together with a girl recommended to me by my friend's girlfriend. I'll call her Agnes. This happened great, especially the first 3/4 months - we had our issues to ir...

My ex came back into my life only to leave again!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted yesterday

17 September 2017 (F - He reached out to me after about 6 months of not speaking, during that time he was dating someone else. We ended up meeting up to talk, and we had great conversation. He apologized for things that wet wrong with us and opened up to me that "he just ...

Boyfriend won't speak to me. What did I do wrong?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

16 September 2017 (F - I'm with my current boyfriend for about 2 years and yest was hia bday. He thinks bdays are overrated, but I still got him gift card and since he didn't want cake, got him a small cake and went to see him. I was hungry by the time I reached his ...

I'm worried about my husband's business venture

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

16 September 2017 (F - My husband is starting up a business and is very excited. He dedicated his life to it and we seldom get quality time as a newly married couple. If he is busy with his own job, i can understand. I know certainly what his business is. But this mor...

Should I stay .... or maybe I should go

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15 September 2017 (F - Hi dear Cupid, so I'll break this down in for form.. Myself (24) partner (23) - together three years Before I met him - I saved $13,000. Dating him - started going halves in things cause I thought it was a great idea. In three years - partner ...

I love my boyfriend but am looking elsewhere

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15 September 2017 (F - My situation.. I met my boyfriend a year ago while while I was living overseas, he is from that country. We ended up getting into a relationship quite fast. Our parents met each other and everything was great. A week later or so, he had to g...

I have a hard time trusting people and showing emotions because of my childhood and my strict mother

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

15 September 2017 (F - I'm having serious problem of trusting people.In my childhood,my mom and dad were very strict.Everything I did had to be the best.For example I got punished because I got 99 in math in elementary school.My mom always criticizes me,and when I did ...

My step daughter is making my life hell!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

15 September 2017 (F - My step daughter is making my life hell. I'm a nurse on a trauma unit and I work nights. My job is stressful enough without coming home to a battle every day. My husband is far from perfect but his main flaw is his unwillingness to discipline his ...

I'm bored and miss affection in our marriage!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

14 September 2017 (F - I have been married for 6 years now. The past four years has been boring. Not sure if that's how all marriages become. The sex is boring and comes once a month. No kissing or hugs for four years. He doesn't call me sweet names anymore. He just ...

Ex-boyfriend (considerably older) left me for someone else while being on holiday. I don't understand it and am now thinking of asking for closure.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

14 September 2017 (F - Hi, will try to keep this as short as I can. A little background: A few months ago I met a charming older man (49 years old) and what began as a short romance started developing into something more serious and longer, with him (he lived in a diffe...

We just don't DO anything!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

14 September 2017 (F - Me and my boyfriend have been together since we were 17 and although we are happy, I feel our relationship is just really boring. I was watching a show the other day and this couple did so many fun activities together and when we talk his sister, ...

Kissing Cousin ... yech!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

14 September 2017 (F - Hi all, One of my older cousin's has been sending me a lot of boring links lately on messenger , which I never have the time to respond to or know what to say. He has complimented my Facebook profile pictures a lot , which is fine . Then yesterday...

Are we incompatible if he has these concerns early on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

14 September 2017 (F - Dear Cupid, my boyfriend is hurt that I don't spend more time with him and that I'm not giving him enough attention. I have crippling depression and often I am so anxious and so deflated even basic functions are difficult. I still see him at least ...

My destructive behaviour regarding my boyfriend's past is ruining my relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

13 September 2017 (F - I have been seeing a lovely man for over four months. He is kind, caring and treats me very well. I have been on my own with my daughter for 17 years, her father left me when she was a baby and i was left devastated. He got on with his life and it ...

Wifes past haunts me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7 days ago

13 September 2017 (M - I have been married almost 20 years now. When I met my wife she told me that she had been raped. A few months into our marriage she told me that she had been gangraped as well, I didn't question her too much about it and just left it. A few months ...

My fiance is in debt, was married previously and isn't making any real efforts to be with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

13 September 2017 (F - Hello everyone. I need advice on my situation. I will try to make it as short and concise as I can. I am in my early 30's. With a bachelor's degree. Currently in between jobs, but have a job offer in the US. I am awaiting my immigration peti...

Should I cut ties with my family to appease my wife?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7 days ago

13 September 2017 (M - My wife and I are 10 years happily married with a 5 year old child. An issue has arisen recently that is causing great trauma and I would be very grateful of some worldly-wise advice and help to find a way forward. We like in the UK , I am fr...

He doesn't understand why I find this kinda rude. Am I being irrational?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

12 September 2017 (F - My boyfriend and his baby's mom have a seven year old son together. They've been broke up for years. About a year ago she got locked up for running with the wrong crowd and he was unable to get custody at the time due to loosing his place so her ...

Why do many lesbian relationships end by going on the rebound?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

12 September 2017 (F - I've got a general question about relationships and wonder if anyone else can relate to what I'm going through. I am a 33 year old lesbian. I've dated women since I was 18, but one thing I have never understood about women, particularly lesbians, is ...

Her messaging with a guy makes me uncomfortable!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

12 September 2017 (M - Hi, my girlfriend of 7 years has been talking to a guy on and off for about 3 years now, I tell her that I'm uncomfortable with it and I get mixed responses. One time she said if you don't like me talking to **** Ill stop, I don't want to hurt you...

My boyfriend's mother suddenly seems to hate me and thinks I'm an awful influence on him. Should I stay with him or leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

11 September 2017 (F - My boyfriend who is 23 years old and I have been together for about 2 years now. At the beginning, maybe the first 3-4 months of the relationship his mother and I were very close. She would text me every single day, buy me things and call me her ...

I think I'd be better off just blocking him from my life

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

11 September 2017 (M - I was recently away on a holiday with a load of other people. I am gay and everyone knows this and am 38 yrs old. Whilst we were away a younger 23 yr old was being friendly with me and then hinted he wanted to come up to chat in my room. Anyhow ...

I like girl A but am dating girl B

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

11 September 2017 (M - I became really good friends with these two girls who are best friends. I liked them both but had a crush on girl lets say girl A. I never told girl A this. We had different styles and the few convos we did have she always talked about dating this ...

I moved to be nearer to her, now she has broken up with me.

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

11 September 2017 (M - I'm fifty years old and moved over a year ago to be near my girlfriend she is 48 and I thought she was the love of my life. Suddenly she started saying she was busy all of the time and tired So I havnt seen her in two weeks. Tonight she broke up ...

My long distance boyfriend is a bad communicator.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

10 September 2017 (F - I have been dating a guy for about 7 months. We started out as friends and had known each other for about 4 years, and then began dating. We started out dating close proximity, but then due to work and school, were forced to become long distance. We ...

I had a friend check on what he told me and he cut ties with me. Did I do something wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

10 September 2017 (F - I met a guy online 4 months ago. All along he has been telling me about the particular company he works for and has talked about work at great length because he works really long hours. I have a friend who works for the same company. I told her ...

Angry about my parents divorce.

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10 September 2017 (M - Long story short, when I was 6 my mom cheated on my Dad with a married man that has 2 kids older than me. Less than a year they both left their spouses for each other. When I grew up my step siblings ignored me like I don't exist. My step dad son ...

I 'almost' had a relationship, what's going on, s he being cautious?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

10 September 2017 (F - I am very confused. An "almost relationship" probably best describes what we were. We were close friends prior to any feelings developing. We were not physically intimate, there was a lot of cuddling and closeness when he invited me over. But he ...

Are we dating or are we friends? Long distance friendship with my ex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

10 September 2017 (F - Dear cupid, my boyfriend and I have had a 'thing' or more like dated for just over a year. He has moved away from home to go to boarding school and we made the decision that we would stop dating once he left, we also had decided that we were going ...

Heartbroken even though I dumped him and now I want him to chase me and get me back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

9 September 2017 (F - I need your help folks. I was seeing a guy who was coming out of a marriage. He was single for about 8 months and we started seeing each other. Both of us knew each other locally and we were both surprised when we got to know each other and ...

I'm on the verge of having an affair

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

9 September 2017 (F - Dear Cupid, I am about to start an affair, I'm 30 year old woman, in along term relationship. I've been married for so many years and we have 2 children. I have a stable life, extremely loving husband, too loving he doesn't get the concept ...

The tale of two sisters

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

9 September 2017 (M - The tale of two sisters; 1st issue Sister T and Sister J live 50 miles apart. Their father sadly passes away. Some months later Sister J phones Sister T and asks what they should do with Dad’s clothes. They agree that they should be cleared a...

Any advise on this relationship will be welcome.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

9 September 2017 (M - I met a woman online about 2 yrs ago where she had posted she was divorced but was actually still married and her husband left her and was seeking a divorce. I told her she needed to finish her divorce before we could date because I don’t date ...

How can I repair the damage done to our friendship?

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8 September 2017 (F - Hello folks. Just looking for advice. About 2-3months ago I meet a younger guy. I'm 33 he's 24. We met at work. I was between jobs and looking to earn while I looked for something else so found a part time job where I met, I'll call him Tom. I wo...

Job not how I thought, girlfriend dumping me

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

7 September 2017 (M - I'm having problem at work and I'm not enjoying it currently, ive had time off because of the stress it's caused and my assistant boss doesn't seem to want to leave me alone and he's up my backside every five minutes. I work for a sports company and ...

If he's not doing anything with his ex then why did he get so mad and ignore me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

7 September 2017 (F - Hello I would like to get your opinions on this: I've noticed how ironic it has been in the past 6 months how every time my BF's ex is online (Her Facebook shows she is online), he is also showing online but is unavailable to take my calls. I've bee...

I'm tired of being the other woman and need to break things off but how?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

7 September 2017 (F - I once met a guy that by just shaking hands with, I forgot my existence, I don't know why or how but before even knowing his name I felt something so strong inside me that made my legs weak. Anyways, I got to know him and you know the rest, I fell ...

What's with the condoms? Is he lying to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

7 September 2017 (F - Hello, My fiancé and I been together for almost 6 years and about 2 years ago I've found a condom in his jacket pocket and I asked him about it and he told me it was from us from the beginning of us dating. And now I found another condom in his ...

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