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My husband checks out girls and watches porn online... I'm a little overweight could that be a factor?

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7 November 2009 (F) - I think i have a huge problem, and i need some advice, i dont know if its me or my husband but it seems like i catch him every other day looking at internet porography, well it will be in the history, he says he loves me but i dont know we have been ...

I'm 15 and really mature. I want a baby and I think I'm ready...?

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7 November 2009 (F) - Im almost 16 and I really want a baby. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and he says that he is ready for a baby. He is almost 19, Im wondering what you guys think?.. I'm a really mature young lady and I've been though a lot in my life ...

I don't know where to start trying to repair this friendship...?

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7 November 2009 (M) - hi, months ago i fell in love with a girl completely, she had a boyfriend she did things with me... weve recently started uni and stupidly whilst drunk (i know thats no real excuse) told her sister what i had done with her sister. The girl who i di...

Can you love someone you don't admire?

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7 November 2009 (M) - Can you love someone that you don't admire? I feel that a large part of love is finding that person that you admire. A partner that can constantly energize you to do better just by the mere fact that you want to aspire to emulate them. I guess I...

Are all guys selfish and hateful?

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7 November 2009 (F) - [Moderator note: profanity deleted] my spouce(common law) is very selfish. i have been sick since wednesday. it is now friday, im suposta stay in bed for a couple days, and i didnt. i wake up cook me some breakfast n him, pack his lunch for work and...

Should I let on I know she fancies someone else?

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7 November 2009 (M) - I had a thing with this girl about 2 weeks ago. My girlfriend found out and we broke up. We got back together soon after. Now, the girl I had a thing with and I are really good friends and she has just told me that while we were split up, my girlf...

My self esteem is suffering because my girlfriend won't have sex with me!

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7 November 2009 (M) - Hi. I have a girlfreind, before she was my best friend for 4 years. She means the world to me, and i seriously mean, she has given me a reason to live. we were together for 9 months and broke up a week and back together for a month, so 10 months in ...

Help, I discovered my partner goes with escorts!

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7 November 2009 (F) - Hi, Im desperatley unhappy. 3 years ago i met a wonderful man after spending 10 years married to a pub addicted bully who made my life a misery.I had finally made my way out and managed to buy my own place for me and my six year old daughter when I ...

Me and my best friend...I just wanna know why...???

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6 November 2009 (F) - Ok, so my best friend and I haven’t been friends for about 6 months because I was a bad friend and she chose her boyfriend over me and everyone else. He told her not to be friends with me anymore and she listened to him. She would have never ever ...

How to make this situation better, how to explain where he understands?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I have an ongoing problem and I can't deal with it at all! I was going out with a guy for a year: and he was great and I was happy with him. One weekend things took a different turn - all of a sudden I started feeling bad about him. Loss of attra...

I told her how I feel and she pushed me away. Now what do I do?

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6 November 2009 (M) - I love her so much but we're just friends. Now that I've told her how i feel she has pushed away what do I do? ...

Biological clock in overdrive - please help!

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6 November 2009 (F) - I'm a 30 year old woman in a committed 3 year relationship. I have lived with my partner for over 2 years now, and moved abroad to live with him. For the past year I have been struggling with increasing desire to have a child. Please understand that ...

Help me from the torture of my Psycho ex...Is there a womens organization or something that can help me?

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6 November 2009 (F) - hi, i am 26yrs old female From INDIA, Andhra pradesh. i have this serious problem with my X-boyfrnd we broke up 5yrs ago but he just dosent seem to accpt it and keeps interfiering in my personal life, keeps threathning me to killing me.he t...

She has broken contact with me...how do I deal with this?

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6 November 2009 (M) - (Mod note: Name has been hidden to protect privacy) so theres this girl. wwe have like eachother since the 7th grade. i love her. we got intamate twice. and then we had sex. all this was happening wile she was with other people. i have had sex ...

Help me please...I don't want to break his heart but I am not ready to settle down. I want to experience life! What do I do?

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6 November 2009 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for over 3 months now and when I got with him I thought I really liked him. He allways liked me before we got together anyways, and hes such a nice guy who has allot of respect and allot of asperations in life. So I ...

I can't trust that my boyfriend doesn't fantasise about other girls, how do I stop worrying?

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6 November 2009 (F) - Ok i need advice and help - especially from the males. I can't afford therapy! I've had a boyfriend for over a year now, and no matter HOW much i read, or WHAT i tell myself, i CANNOT get my head around the issue of porn and fantasizing abou...

Again I made the same mistake by sleeping with a sex worker...

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6 November 2009 (M) - Again i made the same mistake by sleeping with a sex worker....and again i didnt enjoy it and felt sad and upset.... I t really gets me down.. however this time was different .... I again didnt enjoy it but this time she asked me ..... " You seem ...

Does this mean she's not in love with me like I thought she was?

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6 November 2009 (M) - I've been in love with my best friend ever since i met her 3 years ago. She was in a relationship, i'm not the relationship type, things were really complicated because of many things and i never confessed how i felt about her. I'm pretty s...

We both have commitment issues, but is it still worth the risk?

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6 November 2009 (F) - So, I started fooling with this boy and things got serious. I've always had commitment issues. So has he. His stems from cheating and mine from a fear of intimacy in any form. Even though feelings developed on my part; it was never mentioned and I ...

Should I get a part time lover to avoid demanding sex and attention from boyfriend all the time?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I have been dating a guy for about six months now. He is everything i have ever dreamt of, loving, caring romantic, sensitive, except: 1. He rarely has time for me. We live 5 minutes drive apart, we are always free after 4pm but only meet about on...

My b/f makes me feel complexed about my body, I used to be happy about it!

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6 November 2009 (F) - When I'm watching movies with my boyfriend he is always pointing out which girls have better breasts or stomachs than me. If there is a topless scene he will immediately turn to me and tell me things like, "her's are much bigger than yours, they're ...

Why can't she see that her actions and lack of consideration are a huge cause of our problems?

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6 November 2009 (M) - My gf did not come home last night. We live together. I called and left a message when I arrived home form work and then I waited until 10pm before trying to call her again. She would not answer my calls or return my texts. I texted her to ask her ...

She had a month long fling with her ex, should I take her back?

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6 November 2009 (M) - i broke up with my gf after one year but hours later i was texting her and calling her telling her i was sorry and it was a stupid mistake. 12 hours later shes texting her ex bf and after 10 days of us being broken up, she is already having sex ...

I am thinking bad things about him, what do I do to erase it from my mind?

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6 November 2009 (F) - i love this guy very much that every time i think of him i cry.. he has told me that am madam boss but i find it hard to believe. he also told me that he loves me and that if i do not know i should know its true he loves me.. the thing is am scared ...

Can anyone help me, or give me any advice on changing the way I perceive sex?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I have always had a problem with sex, it was something I'd quite happily let guys do, but it was something I let happen to me (hoping there was a hug and the end), rather than something I felt part of. I got together with a guy 8 years ago. We'd bee...

The love of my life cheated on me...is he at it again?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I have been cheated on 3 years after I was married, by the person whom I knew for more than 10 years and who showed me nothing but pure love, respect and trust. We had a beautiful love story that a lot of people envied and wished they would have the...

Cheating GF wants to work on our relationship but won't give up her friendship with her affair partner.... What do I do?

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6 November 2009 (M) - Hey all. My girlfriend of 3.5 yrs cheated on me. We have a beautiful son together. I have forgiven her and done everything I can to try and work out our relationship. The one thing I have asked of her is for her to not have any form of ...

He told his girlfriend he loves her, but I think he really wants to be with me...what should I do?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I recently got out of a relationship 2 month ago with "A". Before dating him I was going out with another boy "D" from Feb. 2008 until August 2008. me and A went from from April 2009 until August 2009. I thought that I was in love with A ...

How do I stop putting people on pedestals and have more realistic expectations?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I often put people up on pedestals and have expectations about how they should behave. Then when they don't live up to my expectations, I'm disappointed. I know it's their life and we're all human, make mistakes, etc. But how can I stop doing this? ...

Has my bi-polar boyfriend left me for good?

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6 November 2009 (F) - Is it worth waiting for for is it over? my bf of 2 years has broken up with me. i love him to bits and i KNOW that he loves me more than anything too but he says he needs a break and thinks it's for the best. he's been under alot of stress; famil...

Why am I losing my sexual attraction for him?

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6 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for several years. Things have been good between us. I think we have a pretty good relationship. There is only one problem. Lately I do not feel sexually attracted to him. I am usually a very sexual person ...

How can I forget the emotional abuse?

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5 November 2009 (F) - i met this guy off the internet 9 years ago. we chatted online and e-mailed each other for about a year. he would say sweet romantic things to me, and i thought he loved me. we went on a date, and had an argument about money. he stood me up for our ...

Has he fallen out of love with me?

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5 November 2009 (F) - I’ve been dating a boy named Coletun for nearly a month. When he first asked me out I told him yes, but then wasn’t quite sure. I was afraid I might have just been saying yes to him because he was the only good guy who had asked me out and I was ...

Drunken mistake won't leave me alone...

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5 November 2009 (F) - This guy i did stuff with while drunk keeps trying to contact me through facebook, but he was just a DISGUSTING mistake and I really don't want to have anything to do with him... How can I reject him without seeming like a bit of a b****?...

Does he still love me? And why is he ignoring me?

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5 November 2009 (F) - I was with this guy for a year and we both loved one another very much. But there was a lot of struggles we had to go through to be together and we both got tired of it so we decided that we should just stop for a while. Well... after that I text ...

Why, if she cares for me, does she insist on me earning as much as I can and accept the benefits that it brings, and yet despise me for it?

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5 November 2009 (M) - I work so hard at my job because we need the money. My gf wants us to buy a larger place with some land and outbuildings etc so I feel I have to work as hard as I can. On the other side my gf will not get a paid job. She says that she already...

Why does he not respond? Does he need space?

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5 November 2009 (F) - The guy I am dating had a birthday and I text him happy birthday and something nice at the late evening, on that day and the day after in the morning I text him happy good morning and happy birthday and some very nice sentences about that, he is the ...

I can't tell if he's just not interested or if he really is busy. Do I respond or just let it go?

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5 November 2009 (F) - I met this guy about 3 weeks ago and we went out and we had what I thought was a great date. So great in fact we decided to go out the next night as well, which in retrospect was probably not a smart move. Then he just didn't call me or anything. ...

My girlfriend is hardly ever in the mood for sex, have I done something to cause this?

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5 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my girlfriend for a little over 3 years now and we hardly have sex anymore. she had cervical cancer last summer and since then shes never been in the mood for sex.. is it something i did or what should i do? [Moderator's Note: Po...

Do men that are abusive and violent always act like this?

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5 November 2009 (F) - I have a question is it normal for a guy to always make me feel like his the victim. The scenario is that I have been with a guy for more than 4 years who is not the father of my 2 boys..Some violent incidents have occured in the past were I ...

My boyfriend can't open up and I feel lonely in our relationship.

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5 November 2009 (F) - im living with my boyfriend for 11 years now,and feel that he dont love me anymore,we never go out together or talk properly to each other,this could last for weeks and then when we make up,it lasts about a day,and then its back to square 1,its like ...

I've been grilling my wife for two years and I need the truth!

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5 November 2009 (M) - 36 years ago I noticed a guy's name on my gf's calender. As I had just a few days prior got back from the military I asked about it and she said he was just a person who came over to the apartment house where she lived to play cards. She lived with ...

My fiancé won't spend money on the coming baby!

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5 November 2009 (F) - hey, im 30weeks pregnant on sunday, me and my fiance are living in a rented house since august. we have no baby stuff yet, the only things we have got is the things iv paid for. he works and earns £1100 after tax, because of this i cant claim an...

Should I trust my husband or my gut feeling?

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5 November 2009 (F) - Hi People i really need some help!!! Please let me know what you think I am a 24 year old mum of an adorable 21 month old girl, and have been married to her father for 2 years this December. since we got married my husband has been lying to me...

Is he "taking it slow" or disinterested?

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5 November 2009 (F) - I have been seeing this man for a little over a month. He is significantly older than me (13 years) and pretty busy. We talked last Saturday and Sunday and we both said we wanted to take things slow due to failed past relationships (jumping into ...

Read this email message and tell me what you think!

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5 November 2009 (F) - I found a message in my husband's email. It was from the owner of a company he has done some work for (who is a male), and he has an email address at that company i just became aware of. He has been hiding all of this from me. The message ...

Would you believe a married man who......

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5 November 2009 (F) - would you believe a married man, who is not having sexual relations with his wife is taking extenz only for his own self esteem (like you would lift weights or work out) as he claims. Or would you belive he is having sexual relations elsewhere? Wo...

She had sex with her ex, so I went out and had sex with another girl. Is this relationship doomed?

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5 November 2009 (M) - hi my girlfriend and i are together for like a year. we jumped straight into relationship literally the day after she finished with her ex of 3 years. a few days ago i found out she had sex with him again a couple of weeks ago. in anger i we...

I want to see him for an explanation and an apology but his wife forbids him from contacting me!

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5 November 2009 (F) - I was seeing an Iranian man for a couple of months. He told me he was separated for the last year, doesn't live with his wife and has a 5 year old child. We got on really well and a while into our relationship I actually was getting more conscious ...

Pregnant with 1st child, Boyfriend distant...I'm so lonley.

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5 November 2009 (F) - I am 15 weeks pregnant with my first child, my boyfriend and I got pregnant maybe a month or two after we first got together and so much has changed. At first he was so sweet and when I told him I might be pregnant he was so excited and happy to ...