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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Why did I stare? How could I not be aware of it? Where to go from here?

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13 May 2008 (M) - Here's the background story, my gf and I went out to a friends. (friend, wife, female friend of friend) We were all hanging around cooking dinner, and then had dinner, and towards the end of dinner my girlfriend was standing by the window, clea...

Ready for a change - I want him to trust me when he's not there.

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13 May 2008 (M) - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. About 9 months ago I kissed a guy and we have talked about that. He likes to go on Internet chat rooms and talk to guys and mess around with them through chat. He has never cheated on me. However, ...

Does my ex still have feelings for me? Or am I imagining it?

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13 May 2008 (F) - I have posted on here before and got some good advice. My ex bf of 3 years broke up with 1 month ago and started dating a new woman a day after we broke up. He met her while we we were out clubbing together and they had known each other on and off...

My wife has a fetish for firemen and is causing 'accidents' because of it. What can I do?

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13 May 2008 (M) - I'm 25, and my wife is 24, we've been married for 2 years now. In the past few months and weeks she's recently been causing "accidents" - and I know why. I found a note in the kitchen when tidying up one day saying "must cause accident so hunk...

She's my friend and I told her I liked her. Now she tells me to leave her alone after a huge fight.

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13 May 2008 (M) - Hello, I have a frined that I recently started to like so I told her that I liked her and we got into a big fight because she didnt like me and now she says to leave her alone and never talk to her again. If I had known she would have reacted ...

I fell for him, he's married - she's pregnant, now I'm heart broken

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13 May 2008 (F) - Hi.....iam 21 years and iam in a heartbreaking dilema...i started seing this guy ( @ the time 32) when i was 19.... The thing is that it all started so sudden @ work...you know the passing by the office..the eye contact...then one day he took me ...

I think my friends have spread rumours about me...should I forgive or plot to get even?

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13 May 2008 (F) - Today at school my friend really hurt me. Her and this boy went and told everyone that i am not a virgin. It's really affecting me becasue people are calling me slag and becasue i am normaly quiet and keep out the way people are saying "its always ...

My boyfriend doesn't want to talk about his past, which includes him being raped at age nine and then sexually active

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13 May 2008 (F) - HEEEELP my 3-month old boyfriend confessed to me that he was raped by hi's cousins friend when he was 9 years old. But thats not it. After he was raped the first time he was raped by more people, girls AND boys, as he claims He also told me ...

My long distance partner is confusing me!

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13 May 2008 (F) - Hi all! I have posted a question here a few months ago about my long distance relationship. It has gotten better, still no flowers, but he calls a couple of times per week, we txt each other frequently as well as email. He is comming over again - ...

I'm hiding something from him, because it'll make him angry. I'm confused, advice please?

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13 May 2008 (F) - Sorry, this is long... My boyfriend doesn't trust me. I am to blame of this, in part. He has trust issues because of previous girlfriends and being abused as a child (I didn't know about this until it was too late). But the thing is, he's always ...

Did he ever really get over his ex?

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13 May 2008 (F) - hi. i met my boyfriend in march and he had an affair at that point with a girl from another island closeby afetr he had just brokne from his ex girl which he was dating for 9 years..from what he said he wanted to move on thats why he was trying o...

Can you tell me how I can truly know if he loves me or just really just wants to be friends?

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13 May 2008 (F) - He says he just wants to be friends but he calls me every day. We are together every weekend. When I feel like we are getting close I can feel him back off. I love him. He wants me with him but he wont talk to me and tell me his true feelings...

I'm scared I'm going to get hurt again, in this weird situation we're in...

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13 May 2008 (M) - Hi all, I wanted to share my weird situation with you and to maybe get some good advice.. The deal is, me and this girl broke up some months ago, we've been together for almost a year. She couldn't continue seeing me the way it used to be cause...

I'm a tired, sad mess

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13 May 2008 (F) - This is really hard for me to admit, but i think im falling into depression or something. I'm just young, but am in a long relationship and things seem to be getting harder and harder. the good times are so good, but the bad times can be awful. H...

Can you guys explain to me why my boyfriend goes for lapdances?

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13 May 2008 (F) - On saturday, i went to my boyfriends aunty's 50th. The hall was packed and i was ready for a good night. A few weeks ago, i found out my fella had gone to a strip club in london with mates and had a lap dance -thats fine.. its just he'd not told me ...

Please don't tell me to stop caring, because I need answers for closure so I can move on

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13 May 2008 (F) - This is driving me crazy! My bf broke up with ME about 1 month ago. One of his mates has made this break up like hell for me... The friend has been constantly messaging me and passing along things that my ex supposedly says. And he tells my ex anyth...

I aborted his child against his wishes-Is he still holding this against me?

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13 May 2008 (F) - i am a lady aged 25 i had an abortion in feb 2006 against my bfs will.he really wanted the kid but i felt we were not ready for ababy at that time.he told me that we forget about the past n later that year i got pregnant again but gave birth to a ...

If anyone could help me please, does he like me?

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13 May 2008 (F) - i was just wondering, if anyone could help me, plz! theres this guy i like...we've become very close friends...and i am now friends(and close) with his friends because of him, and now they text message me! But he doesn't! I mean all of his friends ...

I know it is unfair for me but my heart has been ruling my head. What should I do?

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13 May 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, I need your help. I believe you see clearer than me. It is a really long story. I have been here before. I once said I was and still am in love with this guy who twice my age and who is a divorced man with kids and an acoholic as well. ...

Does he like me or is it just a game he's playing?

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13 May 2008 (F) - hi im Leighton, I am 16 yrs old i met a guy that i instantly fell for and he seemed to like me aswell. He would call me to see how i was and to meet up with me because we lived close. Over a couple of months i fell in love with him even more as...

I am really scared that this might be the end of our relationship as it has gone so stale

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13 May 2008 (F) - Hi if anyone can give me some advice i would really appreciate it. I am so confused at the moment. I have been with my fiance for 4 years, i am 22, he is 28 and we have a beautiful 18 month old baby boy together, and have bought a flat together. ...

He said it was all in fun, and that receiving her messages and contact made him feel good.

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13 May 2008 (F) - I have had some personal family crisis problems in the past 3 months, and had not been very nice or very effectionate to my husband. In the weeks that I had my problems, he started talking to a 23 year old girl on line which was harmless at first...

I am a victim of trust because of her ex.

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13 May 2008 (M) - Hello all, thank you for taking the time to read and give your opinion about my situation.. i met my GF on the Internet, she lives in Japan and i live in Canada.. to make it short, her last relationship went sour when she open the door to a room to ...

I'm not sure if he likes me for my body ...what do I do?!?

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13 May 2008 (F) - Ok so ive been dating my boyfriend for about almost a full 4 months and we kiss and stuff but to be honost he has almost no sexual interest. He will put his arms around me but he wont touch me or anything. I mean jsut last week we were at my house ...

Confused and madly in love with someone I'm not sure of

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13 May 2008 (M) - There's a girl that I've liked for a number of years now and recently we were at a party where people where talking about things and one of them upset her and caused her to run away, I went to find her and when I did she was outside crying, I sat ...

I have liked this guy for a long time and it's beginning to get me down

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13 May 2008 (F) - I have liked this guy for a long time and it's beginning to get me down, but I can't move on because he's on my course and in my friendship group. I don't know what to do, in an ideal world I would cut all ties with him but I don't see how this is ...

How do I do break up without hurting her?

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13 May 2008 (M) - Does it seem like I'm thinking this through rationally, am I being an asshole, or both? My girlfriend of a year says she loves me, and is always good to me. We have fun together, but she never hangs out with my friends, and when she does, she do...

Can I go on with my boyfriend if I'm falling for someone else?

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12 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is in love with me. I love him too. But I know there is someone else out there for me. I am beginning to like his team mate who told me he likes me and would like to go out with me. But, I don't want to hurt my boyfriend. What should I ...

I don't want to be with my live-in girlfriend anymore, as I'm interested in someone else! Any advice?

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12 May 2008 (M) - I have a crisis of conscience and I'm in a very sticky situation!! I having been with my current girlfriend since November. I knew her for quite a while before we got together. She moved in with me after a couple of months because she was having ...

I went through his phone and he had been 'dirty talking' to some girl through texts.

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12 May 2008 (F) - I dont know what to do. I feel so hurt and trapped. I love my fiance more than anything in the world we've been together for just over a year and we've gotten engaged recently. We live together and everything has seemed perfect but just a few days...

I want her back as a partner, not a friend.

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12 May 2008 (M) - My fiance' and I were together for 4 years. We have split and come back a few times, but recently she decided that it was time to end it for good. She still wants to be friends, but I still love her and wish her back. Is there anyway that I can ge...

I am so horribly confused - I cannot bear to see him hurting so badly.

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12 May 2008 (F) - Ralph and I were married in 2001 - then divorced in 2004 because he moved in with his ex-wife and daughter. Early 2005, he moved back in with me. We lived together as man and wife in all ways except the bedroom. We slept in different rooms and ...

My boyfriend of nearly 3 years left me and wont even talk to me about it, please help

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12 May 2008 (F) - my boyfriend of nearlly three years left me and wont even talk to me about it. I made a list of reasons why i shouldnt be with him, but i cant help but cry all day and call him constantly begging him to be with me, i love him so much and this is ...

Should I just let this go and completely forgive him and believe that I'm the best?

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12 May 2008 (F) - This is a weird situation and I don't know how should I feel... My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. He loves me a great deal, as he supported me through depression, always does his best to make me feel special and is v...

My parents want me to finish with him, what do I do?

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12 May 2008 (F) - my mum has met my boyfriend and thinks hes okay . shes not sure weather she likes him because he lives in a rough part or our area . my dad has never met him , but dosnt like like '' at all '' and hes saying to me every day that ive been out with ...

My boyfriend calls me names around his friends, what should I do?

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12 May 2008 (F) - hello , i have bin with m? bo?friend for around 6 month and now we're getting abit serious . but when hes with his cousins and mates well , he acts different and i know that hes only joking and messing around but when he calls me likee '' silly ...

He doesn't seem to care if I was abused as a child but I love him with all my heart!

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12 May 2008 (F) - I told my boyfriend i was sexually abused as a child one night when we were both drunk... he was so upset over it i actually saw him cry and i took comfort in getting it off my chest... however sometimes i feel very isolated and upset, and want to ...

Is he waiting for me to get better or has he moved on?

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12 May 2008 (F) - Sorry, this is a long post. Just trying to clear certain things up in my head I guess. I was with my ex-partner for 18years, 10 of which we lived together. We never married, and never had children. But we were saving money for a house and were...

Why can't I say I love them?

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12 May 2008 (F) - Hi, It’s not a major problem as such. I can’t tell my boyfriend I love him and I also have issues telling my parents I love them as well. I don’t know why, I can’t explain it (I imagine my life without them and obviously its unbearable), it up...

I find my boyfriend so boring

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12 May 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, hope you are all ok. Well my dilema is, that i am a 41 divorced mum of 2 daughters. I have been seeing a guy for 4 years now, we don't live toghether, due to finances etc. But the thing is, i do love him on some level, and he is...

He started to change and become restrictive. Am I just an awful girlfriend?

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12 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is so jealous/upset/dissapointed because of my past. It happened gradually... she knew about some stuff (past crushes, etc) when we started dating. It didn't bother him much then, he just asked me not to give him details, to talk about ...

He gives me hope to just shut me down! Is this his big ego?

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12 May 2008 (F) - I have been on a rollercoaster ride with my ex boyfriend for almost 4 months. We were together for almost 14 months. We have been on and off. We go through our times of no contact, then he finds a way to measile his way back into my life. Sending...

Can someone help me understand his behaviour?

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12 May 2008 (F) - I dated a guy (Ulises) July of 2007 to Nov. 2007. We had a really ugly break-up and did not talk to eachother. Until the middle of Feb, 2008. He apologized many times for all the things that he did and the way that we broke up. I had decided to give ...

Things are starting to fade, what can I do?

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12 May 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 9 months now and i can't help but feel as if things are starting to fade. Well before I met her i really liked this other girl who is my best female friend aside from my girlfriend. About a month ago I told ...

My husband had an affair which resulted in the other woman falling pregnant. The child is almost due, what is the best way to handle this?

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12 May 2008 (F) - This is complex - and difficult to write about succinctly...I'll give it a go! My husband had a year long affair. He tells me he tried to "end it" many times prior to me finding out - but felt guilty and like he owed the OW something. To make mat...

Should I end my friendship with my ex to make my boyfriend feel more secure in our relationship?

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12 May 2008 (F) - I married my high school sweetheart before he deployed to Iraq. Predictably, our young age and the effects of him being at war destroyed our marriage. We ended up divorcing in 2006. Despite that, we still remain best friends. Now I'm a new relation...

My girfriend broke up with me but still hasn't moved out, why?

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12 May 2008 (M) - so i was seeing this girl for a few months, felt we really connected. we moved in way to soon she needed to stay for a bit while she looked for a new place, and eventually we both agreed we enjoyed living together. that was after 2 months, soon i ...

I support my boyfriend financially and also lend his Mum money too now. I don't know what to do, any suggestions?

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12 May 2008 (F) - I've been supporting my boyfriend financially for three years now, to the point I lend his mom money because she can't manage her own money. I don't want to break up with him because he stuck with me through very difficult times, but when I tell him ...

Major problem, where are we going to live?

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12 May 2008 (F) - I love my husband and he me, but we have one major problem, where we are going to live, it is creating problems for us both as I am going out of my mind what to do. We are both from different countries in Europe, i uk and him Spain. I have b...

We've done nothing but fight for the last few months, should we still go on our anniversary trip to Rome?

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12 May 2008 (M) - Hey, I don`t know what to do! My girlfriend of one year and myself have done nothing but fight for the last few months. When it`s good it`s great but I am just so unhappy about us clashing all the time. My heart is telling me to just give up. I`m ...