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How can I talk to them about this? What can I do about my boyfriend and my best friend? He hangs out with her when I'm not present

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19 February 2017 (F - My best friend and I are very different people and we get on really well, even though I no longer see her very often. We have been friends for years. A year ago I helped her get close to a guy she liked who I liked at the same time. Things did...

Should I get back into the dating world, before my youth fades?

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19 February 2017 (F - Dear Cupid,I been single for almost going on 16 years. I stopped dating at the age of 32-33. I'm 45 now. My heart has been hurt so bad that I'm in fear of dating again I don't want a repeat of my pass so I just allow my youth to fade away. I ju...

Do I pursue him or just move on? My boyfriend and I broke up but now he says we can be friends as he does not want me out of his life

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18 February 2017 (F - My boyfriend of 18 months and I fall out over something silly. Did not talk for a month, then he told me it was over. He said that I was amazing, would not change anything but we were not compatible. He also said that it hurts too much to talk...

Feel like I'm never going to be enough for him. Is my husband gay or just into weird stuff ?

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18 February 2017 (F - My husband of 12 years has been web camping girls for 8 years about anal play, pegging and being dominated. I just found out and have taking it hard. He has even had advertisements for meeting girls. He says it because he didn't think I would lo...

Is he trying to convey something by winking at me?

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18 February 2017 (F - Hello there, My co-worker and I were very good friends at work. We had never gone out together, I felt some subtle hints from him. Then we got into major conflicts, he came by to apologize afterward. After that, I backed off and just be another ...

I cheated on my boyfriend with a co-worker and now my life has become a living hell

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17 February 2017 (F - This is a very difficult story for me to write but I desperately need help. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 years now and I love him dearly. We bought our first house 2 years ago and to be honest things were very very difficult and we had ...

Help, he dismisses my feelings of rejection and that he's being disloyal!

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17 February 2017 (F - I've been with my partner for 3 years now I'm 23 he's 28. We have a 19 month old daughter and lived together almost the whole relationship. Hes never gave me one single compliment but I've got over it thinking he's just not that type of person. But ...

Is there any way I can remedy this situation? He's avoiding spending time alone with me!

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17 February 2017 (F - My boyfriend and I were together all last spring 2016 and part of the summer, but we had known each other much longer then that and I am very close to his oldest son since he goes to school with my daughter and is alway over my house. It was his son ...

How can I stop feeling so very angry with my ex boyfriend? ?

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17 February 2017 (F - Hi , I used to be in a relationship with this guy , we started off as being friends he was all pleasant he even sat alone with me to have lunch . But then things started to change, we both developed romantic feelings for each other, we both fel...

My boyfriend keeps texting a female co-worker and it's getting inappropriate. Am I overreacting?

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16 February 2017 (F - So my boyfriend has a female co-worker. He told me a couple weeks ago that it was pretty obvious to him and a few co-workers that a supervisor was trying to get with this female coworker, let's call her "B". My boyfriend told me that he told B "I ...

My previous teaacher was awesome. I do not like my new teacher, so how can I stay positive in this situation?

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15 February 2017 (F - My friends and I have had so many awesome teachers in the last few years, but there is one who stands out in particular. I always learnt best in her classes; she had a tendency to find so many ways to visualize the topic and make even the most ...

I have trust issues. He talked and flirted with a girl. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

15 February 2017 (F - So my boyfriend and i have been together a little over 5 months. And things are absolutely stinking amazing! The only issue is.. I have a hard time trusting him and dont know what to really do. Towards the beginning of our relationship he ...

My LDR is in limbo. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

15 February 2017 (F - I'm writing this to gain clarity and ask for help on a seemingly complex situation that I find myself in. Last February I met a guy through common friends during a little party. We never really talked much. But a week later he contacted me on faceb...

Bummed out and annoyed at her lack of understanding!

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15 February 2017 (M - Hello! It was valentines day yesterday as most of you know! My Gf and I have been together for two years now and things have been well. Like most couples, we've had our ups and downs but we still love each other very much. I am curren...

I am a transgender man, dating a woman but I prefer sex with men.

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15 February 2017 (M - I am a transgender man and I have been dating a very respectful, understanding woman for a few months now. We have reached the stage where she wants to define our relationship and move forward together, though I feel conflicted on how to progress or ...

It's been impossible to move on from my ex. He's in a relationship now, yet is concurrently sending me texts. What should I do?

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14 February 2017 (F - im in need of advice, I am being confused with random contact from my ex. my ex and I have been on and off for years. Four to five months ago he disappeared to date someone else, broke my heart. i was always the one wanted to get back together an...

Help me deal with my boyfriend always being broke!

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14 February 2017 (F - Hello. I have been in a relationship with my lovely boyfriend for 9 months now. In those 9 months we never went on an actual date. He told me that he grew up very poor so money is still a struggle but things are looking up for him and his family. He ...

I'm tired of the way our life is going and wonder if its time to throw in the towel

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

14 February 2017 (M - Hi I need some advice and somewhere to express exactly how I feel, I have been with my current partner for a little over 7 years now, she fell pregnant very early in the relationship (within the first 4 - 6 weeks). After which she was diagnosed wi...

Anxiety from a previous relationship stops me moving forward!

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13 February 2017 (F - I like a guy but ever since i realised i like him I'm just stuck in this vortex of anxiety and fear. We went out on a date and it was fantastic but I'm feeling even more unsure of myself. I had a previous relationship where everything was going ...

Boyfriend's grandmother died, should I go to the funeral?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

13 February 2017 (F - My boyfriend of 2 years grandma recently passed away. He's asking me to go to a funeral with him to comefort him. I told him I would feel out of place and not comefortable because I never really knew his grandma or other relatives besides his ...

My LDR is not motivated to meet in real life.

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13 February 2017 (F - I've been dating my LDR boyfriend for over 2 years and we haven' met yet. He never wants to pinpoint a meeting date and acts unconfortable when I try to. He says he wants to improve himself first so when we meet he makes the best impression on me. ...

Our LDR is stalling after 3 years. Do I stay with him, or look for someone else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

13 February 2017 (F - I`ve been in relationship with someone for 3 years. I want to settle down and enjoy life together but he's happy the way it is We don't live together. We live 50 miles away from each other. I'm 50 now i want someone to grow old with and share ...

Is there any future for this marriage? Since he cheated I have turned to cheating too.

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13 February 2017 (F - My problem is I am not sexually attracted to my husband ,at all. The only way for me to be at ease is if I get really drunk to have sex with him .But he don't like that . I can't have sex sober with him.Since he cheated on me I lost all lost I had ...

Should I go with him and be miserable or stay at home and get anxious?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

13 February 2017 (F - Dear Cupid I'm with my Current bf for a year, he never told me he loves me though I told him twice. He mentioned that he is not comfortable saying it, since it feels like forced for him. So we do not talk about love anymore. We live 45 minu...

My parents are very critical of friends and boyfriends.

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13 February 2017 (F - I have 2 very loving and involved parents. My one complaint is that they can be too judgmental of the people in my life. I have always been very cautious and responsible. But I do have a history of choosing lousy boyfriends/ accepting way le...

We barely talk and when we do its all negative!

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12 February 2017 (F - Me and my boyfriend are constantly arguing atm. I put it down to my hormones and that's why I've been more argumentative. However, it's starting to feel like we actually hate each other! We've been together dead on a year and things have been ...

I fear our cultures will clash too much!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

12 February 2017 (F - Dear agony aunts Recently I have been seeing a guy that I really like and starting to have feelings for, we have been on several dates and been seeing each other for the last couple of months I like this guy so much but he is English living i...

My boyfriend doesn't like the picture of my (deceased) husband being on display

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

12 February 2017 (F - Hi,i just have a question, specially for a man out there. Please just let me know what can you really say about this, im a widow, i have a boyfriend now for almost two years. He is divorce cos his ex wife cheated on him. Thats not my point here. ...

At seven months pregnant I want to feel loved and secure.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

12 February 2017 (F - This question pertains to self esteem and insecurity. My bf and I are expecting. In the past, we've had issues concerning social media and the pictures I chose to post. I argue that my pictures were hardly provocative, but he was uncomfortable with ...

Shall I forfeit the money and not go on this holiday abroad next month?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

12 February 2017 (F - About a month ago my friend and another couple and their friend (who I know but not really friendly with) agreed to go on holiday abroad next month. My friend and I had gone on a holiday together the previous year with another group and in that ...

How am I meant to deal with these people ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

12 February 2017 (F - A little background history; my bf and I got together when I was 16 and he was 17, broke up when I was 20 and got back together (with encouragement from his parents) when I was 23. Im now 24 turning 25, and he's 26. It's always been a long distance ...

Our arguments often lead to physical altercations!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

12 February 2017 (F - ive been in this relationship for about five months now and things are definitely not the way i thought they would be. I care deeply about this man but the communication is limited. We get into arguments which some end in physical altercations. Both ...

How do I deal with a guy who is insecure that I had sexual experiences before him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

11 February 2017 (F - How do I deal with a guy who is insecure that I had sexual experiences before him? Is that even normal for a guy to feel? Early in our relationship, he was disappointed that I wasn't a virgin. Then he was weirded out when he found out that he wasn't ...

He sent me a happy birthday text then unblocked me. Is this a good sign?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

11 February 2017 (F - Just wanted a few opinions I had a huge falling out with a guy I was close friends with We didn't talk for a long time bar the sporadic text So he messaged me happy birthday a few weeks ago and I noticed this week has unblocked me from a mes...

He doesn't have the same feelings as I have for him from the beginning until the end

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11 February 2017 (F - My aunt introduced me to her husband's nephew 9mos.ago,he is a 4yr divorced man with 2kids,I also have a 13yr old son that's why get along so well. We were talking,messaging online for 8 mos until we decided to meet in Barcelona last week,he flew ...

I like her but she is a prositute, how can I get her to leave that work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

11 February 2017 (M - Please help me. I have been in hiding wishing there was someone to love me with true heart. I am searching a true and honest woman to be my good friend and possibly marry her if God decide we should be together. I am tired of boy and girl friend ...

I feel miserable and our relationship lacks excitement!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

11 February 2017 (F - Hi I've been with my fiance for 3 years now the problem is it feels like we've been together forever we never go anywhere together birthdays Christmas,s valentines day all get forgotten about by him he has a very easy job he works Monday/Friday ...

I'm not sure if I should start dating again right after a break up!

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11 February 2017 (F - I have posted before about my long distance relationship. I believe it has come to an end as the guy told me he wasn't ready, wanted to be single and told me not to wait for him. For the last week I have been completely devastated and tried ...

My husband cheated on me with his brother's wife and now she's saying her child is his. Do I stay or leave? We have children of our own.

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11 February 2017 (F - i just found out my husband of 17 years slept with his brothers wife on his wedding night. This is the most disgusting thing I have ever heard or had to endure, the pain that i am going through is so unbearable. His brother met his wife 3 years...

It shouldn't be this difficult only 6 weeks into a relationship

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10 February 2017 (F - recently started a new relationship we've been together now around 6 weeks. he's 40 I'm 32 and we both work together. we've known each other for around 6 years now but we were always both in different relationships until recently. so at the ...

Is It Time To Ditch My Toxic Friend?

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10 February 2017 (F - I've only known her for a few months, at the start she was OK but she has become nasty. She is always oneupping me in conversation. For example if I make a casual remark about how I like a dress or something, she'll be like "Oh that dress isn't for ...

I literally melt when the man I like touches me or stares at me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

9 February 2017 (F - Hello. I'm in my mid 25s, in love with a man at work. I very much enjoy my job so wouldn't risk it unless it's really worth it. The man is still playing the field and after inviting him over for coffee and a frank discussion it's clear we want ...

Boyfriend seems to have an issue with spending money on me? Title

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9 February 2017 (F - When we first met, I was signed with a modelling agency so I had acquired some money. However he was/is a university student and his parents pay for his costs. He is the only child and I've observed he has little understanding of the value of money ...

He makes no effort except when it's the weekend and time to meet! Am I being unreasonable?

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9 February 2017 (F - I've been dating a guy for 8mths now. We see each other saturdays and sunday nights for a night out due to family commitments and we have great fun together. What started out as Saturday fun has ended in a 'relationship' of sorts which he pushe...

I need help to deal with new found info about wife's past. What should I do?

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9 February 2017 (M - My wife and I have been married for five years and have two kids. I have never asked anything about her past all I knew is she wasn't a virgin when we met. This past summer we were at a pool party and one of my best friend's from school was ther...

Every time my boyfriend has problems he pushes me away

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

9 February 2017 (F - My boyfriend is going to his cousins funeral tomorrow. He said that I could go with him at first, but then he told me not to go as the service will only be for about 30 minutes and there won't be many people there. I feel hurt that he said I could ...

I'm 15 and I do not want to break up with A as I love her very much, but my mother strongly objects to our relationship. What are my options?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

9 February 2017 (F - So, I will give a bit of background first off. I have known this girl, I'll call her A, for three years. In early 2016, i started feeling different about her, and I begin to have romantic feelings about A. I already knew from asking before that she...

How do I deal with this? Whenever I invite a friend over she invariably does not show up

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

8 February 2017 (F - I have a friend I've known for several years. She has a very frustrating habit in which she will set a day with me to meet up, and then not show up. I really don't understand how you can simply disregard to tell a person you are not coming and let ...

How can I get away from him this time, without getting attached to him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

8 February 2017 (F - I have been in a serious relationship with a guy for over a 1 1/2 on an off. There have been times where things were good. Then there were times where he did not want me and I wanted him and vice a versa. Long story short this guy i am dating ...

My boyfriend doesn't want me going out with male friends for drinks

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8 February 2017 (F - Am I in the wrong ? After recently starting uni I made a small group of three male friends whom I worked on an assessment with and we automatically became friends. We are all older than the normal uni starting age so its nice to have someone on ...

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