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My boyfriend and I no longer have sex and when I asked him for suggestions to this problem, he said "do whatever makes you happy."

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17 May 2012 (M) - I've been in a committed gay relationship for over 5 years now. My boyfriend and I no longer have sex, and it's been long past a year since we have done anything sexual with each other at all. We have discussed it several times, he even went to ...

My boyfriend thinks I cheated on him but I didn't!! I was with the other guy just to pick out a birthday gift for my boyfriend!

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17 May 2012 (F) - So I'm 18 and my Boyfriend and I have been dating since we were 15. His birthday is coming up in about 3months and I wanted to get him something special for his birthday. And he's been wanting a guitar since forever. So I was planning on getting him ...

Should I stick it out and hope that the relationship gets better, or break up with him?

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16 May 2012 (F) - Hello, I am 22 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 7 years. This is my first boyfriend. Everything was great for the first few years - we got on extremely well and we really did love each other. We went to the same university and ...

Why do I not respect myself ?

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16 May 2012 (F) - This is so embarrassing: I am in my forties, a grown up woman, an excellent mother, I have been told my son is a credit to me, I raised him on my own. My problem: I dated a cheating lying man for 5 years on and off, on and off as I wanted to e...

I want to know is how do I deal with this constant bitching about me?

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16 May 2012 (F) - I started a new job at a local hotel around 2 months ago with another woman who is older than me. We started off cleaning front of house and i would occasionally work in the laundry. At first we got on really well then it all changed when we were ...

My dad wont let me go back to my homeland!

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16 May 2012 (F) - Pls help! My brother and i moved from our homeland another city. My parents are seperated that's one of reason my dad(in Uk) sent us to live with his brother and wife. Since we came here iv always been doleful. I have missed my mom, friends, nd ...

My fiance (middle aged) seems to have two different personalities!

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16 May 2012 (F) - My fiance (middle aged) seems to have two different personalities. He dotes on me at home and is so loving and attentive and this is when I love him the most. It's when we go out in public that he becomes mesmerized by other women and stares over ...

My ex acts odd with me , what does it mean?

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16 May 2012 (F) - what does it mean my ex broke up with me 5 years ago wanted to be friends with me but i turned her down and then we fell out and havent spoken since she acts odd around me she wont talk about it and has ago at her mate when im at the same pub as h...

He's been having problems getting hard!

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16 May 2012 (F) - Hi, I've been with my husband for 8 yeras now, and lately he's been having problems getting hard, he tried some naturals pills and some vitamis, it worked at the beggining but now is worst, sometimes even with the oral sex he doesn't get hard, ...

How can I keep my relationship with my boyfriend exciting?

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16 May 2012 (F) - How can i keep my relationship with my boyfriend exciting? We get along great! Weve now been together 7 years and would love to move in together but at the moment need to wait for me to finish my studies which is another 18 months ish as at the ...

I want to know is it a good sign he still wants to get married?

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16 May 2012 (F) - Just want some thoughts on my situation. I have been in a serious relationship with my guy for 6 months, serious meaning we both want long term and to eventually move in, etc. We are both in our 40s and had previous relationships. A month ago we...

Am I insecure? I don't trust my girlfriend who is a dancer!

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16 May 2012 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for 8 months an we have a good relationship she is a dancer an has been for about six months she says she hates her job an trust me when I say so do I!!!! We have known eachother for years she has been ingaged 3 ...

I really want our kids to have my last name!

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16 May 2012 (M) - I imagine this question is going to spark a lot of controversy.Me and my fiance have been talking about kids lately. Why I have no idea. But she keeps saying about the kids have her last name. but she has already said that when we get married she is ...

Her mother has heard my wife is escorting, how should she discuss this her mother?

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16 May 2012 (M) - my wife has been working as an escort since 2009 and is quite satisfied with what she does. it causes no problems in our marriage. we are financially stable now and invest 75 percent of everything she makes. she pays her taxes and even lists her ...

Is this as bad as I think it is?

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16 May 2012 (F) - Is this as bad as i think it is? i have been on and off with a guy who is a bit older than me for 4 yrs now and there is the same cycle every couple of weeks..........he goes mental at me for sumfin silly and acts like a physco he'll threaten...

Is it over? Was I wrong? Will he ever talk to me again?

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16 May 2012 (F) - me and my aquarius man have been together for two mounths now we are happy as ever when around eachother inseparable whenever theres a disagreement between us two we manage to work through it and except eachothers wishes lately i can honestly i can ...

Did he love me when he was with me? What should I do to forget this cheating? Should I take revenge? Exactly what I must do to forget my first love?

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16 May 2012 (F) - Hi, I don’t even know in what situation I am going through now. My name is Beloved (fake name) The year of 2011 was a great year for me for both in good and bad terms. Firstly when I say in good terms, it means I found a guy (25) of my dreams ...

I cant accept my boyfriend's sexual history.

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16 May 2012 (F) - Hello readers. Im here for looking for help. My boyfriend and me, we have knew each other for a while, about half an year. And he shares his sex history with me. and it freaked me out. And actrully Im really really sad about it. Im 20 and im ...

Why do I keep going back to my B/f even though he treats me like dirt?

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16 May 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid my bf of 2 years is emotionally abusing me, always ignoring me, treats me like shit, never apologize and always finding one reason to another to stop spending time with me. Its been very long since we even talked for more than 5 mts....

She's a beautiful woman but very demanding and I'm confused and disillusioned

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16 May 2012 (M) - I am in a relationship with a "now"divorced woman of 52 yrs.We regularly have discussions,and Im told repeatedly...Im shouting at her/raising my voice,but she has 50%hearing loss in both ears,she wont wear aids....she feels like because she pays ...

Do you think by my family knowing we had affair it will help with the guilt I have?

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16 May 2012 (F) - I had an affair with the father of the child I was a nanny for. After doing this for 18 month the guilt became to much and even though I love him I told him we had to end things because he was married. He left his wife and filed for divorce so we ...

My parents favor my sister over me and I'm really frustrated with their attitude

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16 May 2012 (F) - Hi DearCupid, I'd like your opinion on this. I am 20 and my sister is 16. We both live at home with our parents. I work full time, she has a part time job. My parents have spent hundreds of dollars on her for clothes, sports events, parties,...

My boyfriend died of an overdose and I don't think I'll ever be able to move on

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16 May 2012 (F) - a month and a half ago my boyfriend died.. we got into a fight the night he died..after we got off the phone i put a block on thinking he would hav someone call me the next day to take it off so we can talk.. his sister called and said he was dead ...

He never calls ...

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16 May 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf for the past few months is avoiding me too much. He never calls even if i call he says he is busy or hanging out with friends and cuts the call. Its been very long since we talked or hanged out for long. I miss him a lot, i tr...

I feel like I'm to blame for making him unhappy and drink!

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16 May 2012 (F) - Please help,I have recently been dumped by my boyfriend of over 2 years,I loved him so much and stood by him( has he is a alcoholic(I dint know til a few month after we got serious)but I stood by him when other people didn't! He abused me verbally ...

Am I being insensitive? Does Facebook really mean that much to people?

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16 May 2012 (F) - Hi, I a bit of a corner here. I will give you a bit of background so you know what's goin on. First started going out with my boyfriend 4 years ago. Back then his brother was a laugh, you could chat to him an he was really open and friendly at ...

Do I have a chance to be back with him or not?

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15 May 2012 (F) - I was with my ex for 2 years and some months. I broke it off in october because I didn't want to be with someone who did drugs and drank, although, he was a really good student and was becoming a border patrol to support both of us while I'm a ...

I don't want to feel like a bad person for this!

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15 May 2012 (M) - hi everyone ok i'm 19 and still a virgin. i talk to a girl who likes me but i don't feel the same as her and i know that we will have sex down the road if she wanted to. i get very horny and want to have sex so i then masterbate and then i feel ...

I don't understand how anyone could hang out with him let alone sleep with him.

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15 May 2012 (M) - I'm still in love with my ex, I broke up with her twice, and I still want to be with her. I want to marry her and do everything with her and for her, we still talk and hang out and decide we both have feelings for one another. We also decided to be ...

I still really love him and would love us to get back together, but I can't stand this not knowing.

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15 May 2012 (F) - My ex who I was with 6 months ago is now back on the scene we met up and had a drink and he give me the distinct impression he wanted to get back together. We split up due to him being a work aholic. He said he's realised what a waste of space he's ...

To wait or not to wait, that is the question

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15 May 2012 (F) - To wait or not to wait? That is the question. I was married when I started a relationship with my high school crush from like 20 years ago. My husband and I were sleeping in separate bedrooms. I asked my husband for a divorce, which was long over ...

Turns out my FWB was married and lying to me! He doesn't know I know. What now?

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15 May 2012 (F) - Hi everyone I have just founf out my fwb is married with children and now I feel so guilty I have ended this with him but still see him every day as we live in the same place I know what fwbs all about but I had fallen in love with him and now I ...

How do I deal with my insecurity?

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15 May 2012 (M) - Hi all I realised lately when going out with my new gf (very attractive) I get silent and awkward when she speaks to a other guys. I am a quite guy and my friends told me that they can see me becoming different (facial expressions) in ...

My trust in women is totally shattered because of my ex!

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15 May 2012 (M) - Hello Everybody, I was with my girlfriend/fiancée for 9 years, Our relationship had ups and downs like any relationship. But overall we had a good relationship. Anyway, about a year and a half ago she fell pregnant. She said she wasn't re...

Regretting the offer for her to move to California with me if this is her 'real' personality....

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15 May 2012 (M) - I have somewhat of a long backstory to my question, and honestly feel extremely immature resorting here, but I would rather the anonymity of the internet than posing these questions to a friend. Anyway - to start, I grew up in Maryland. When ...

My boyfriend is too curious about my ex and it is affecting our relationship, what can I do to stop this?

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15 May 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I met when he joined my co-ed fraternity. I rarely talk about my private life to others, so naturally I did not mention that my ex is in my fraternity. A couple months ago, he found out and was extremely hurt. He said that although ...

My Indian family, my Pakistani ex gf who still lives at my place, my American girlfriend who's treated like an outsider and me...its a wreck!!

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15 May 2012 (M) - I'm 21 years old, turning 22 this year. My girlfriend is 20, and turning 21 this year. We've been together for 3 years, and I want to ask her to marry me within the next week or so. Here's the problem. I'm Indian, and she's American. My p...

Why would my dad's girlfriend tell people that she is my mom when she knows that I don't even like her? I'm so mad at her!

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15 May 2012 (F) - I just need some advice on how to approach something. Mothers day my family and my bosses parents came in to eat brunch(they were at different tables though) at the restaurant I work at. After dinner they ended up chatting and the conversation jus...

I feel like my boyfriend is using me to get to his ex....

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15 May 2012 (F) - Me and my friend D have been together for about a month at this point now. We've been friends for 4 years now, and he used to be my bestfriend; but we drifted apart when he started dating a girl that he ended up being with for about 2 years. They ...

My girlfriend's sister is trying to stop us being together! What can I do?

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15 May 2012 (M) - Hi, I have a girlfriend with a mental illnes and a drug problem. she has left me 5 times over crap and every time her sisters convinced her to either take out a restraining order on me or order of protection or call the cops. Her sister didnt grow ...

I think my friend stole my money but she wants to be friends again, what should I do?

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15 May 2012 (F) - Confused about my friend? I am so confused, my money went missing and I believe my friend stole my wallet which had over $1000 because she was the only 1 who knew i had it besides my family,she was the last person i was with and she was the only 1 w...

Am I in the wrong here?

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15 May 2012 (F) - Hi there I need to know whether I am in the wrong here?? I was seeing a guy last november and it probably lasted a few months, until he was offered a job abroad (new zealand) on a contract for a year and a half. We had been friends before for a ...

How could he be this lazy?

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15 May 2012 (F) - My boyfriend is lazy. I have tried ignoring it, I have tried being in his shoes...but I am SO fed up. Yesterday, we were driving with his parents and passing by nightlife, clubs and nice cafes, in a really upscale part of town...his mom was saying ...

My boyfriend wants to have sex with a shemale.

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15 May 2012 (F) - I don't know if I should worry or not. My boyfriend and I have been together for 10months. He is 20 almost 21 years old. And well... My boyfriend wants to have sex with a shemale. The other day I found out that he's on craigslist looking to have sex...

Insecure and controlling Step Mother... what to do?

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15 May 2012 (F) - I need honest advice about a family matter... My parent's separated over 10 years ago and since then my dad has been remarried. However (let's call her Suzie) is extremely insecure and threatened by my mother (even though my mother left HIM and ...

My boyfriend is spending his inheritance money and hasn't even bought me a bouquet of flowers!

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14 May 2012 (F) - Ok so my bf and I have dated 2years in which was long distance. Recently he moved in with me. Hes 18 I'm 17. He's originally from were I live. When he was 1 his mom left his dad and moved 4 hours away. So his dad lives here. He's been living with me ...

I feel so disrespected by my husbands family.

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14 May 2012 (F) - I feel so disrespected by my husbands family. We went on a family vacation with them to the beach and all his mom did was point out women for my husband to look at right in front of my face. She would say, "Oh, look at her bathing suit. She's ...

I feel so low when my boyfriend talks about other girls

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14 May 2012 (F) - I feel so low when my boyfriend talk about other girls, celebrities ect its like he doesnt understand it may bother me, as if hes talking to one of the lads, what he says with the boys is up to him but it really gets me down when he will complete...

He grabbed me too hard and I fell over, but he thinks this was ok because some guy was pretending to hump me behind my back. Was it ok for him to do that?

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14 May 2012 (F) - Apologies in advance for being long winded and thank you for taking the time to read this. I really need some advice. This weekend my boyfriend, and I went to his friend, 'M', BBQ. While he went around talking to his friends, I mostly hung out ...

Fiance has posted pics of himself with his ex and children on Facebook, is this wrong?

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14 May 2012 (F) - My Fiancé and I have been together for nearly 2 years, and were recently engaged. We have both been in previous marriages and have children from those relationships. Because my ex and I have had great animosity towards each other and my feelings ...