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My girlfriend's insecurity is chipping away at our relationship

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28 March 2017 (F - So I am having some serious issues in my relationship and I don't know how to deal with them. I am coming here for some much needed perspective. To start, I'm a gay female. 33 years old. My girlfriend is 27. We have what I would normally conside...

I like him but he doesn't stimulate me. Should I try again?

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28 March 2017 (F - Hi, I am under a lot of pressure by parents to get married, culturally, I'm old, 30. And my parents really care about whay others think. Anyways, I met a guy online. Sweet, untrustworthy guy, which is hard to find in a world full of untrustw...

Should I ask him how he feels now? Or wait a while before I ask?

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27 March 2017 (F - Hi, I have a relationship issue and would love some advice! For the past nine months I have been in an ambiguous relationship with my housemate. We started sleeping together last summer. I knew he had fancied me for a while and he even starte...

Should I ask him if there is a medical problem for the lack of sex?

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27 March 2017 (F - Hi Guys, To you think my guy suffers from fertile dysfunction. Been seeing this guy for about 4 months, we have only had sex a few times as we didn't want it to only be about sex. Anyway we have sex it's great then the next morning he can't...

I feel trapped, I want him to move out but he has no money!

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27 March 2017 (F - Dear Cupid My boyfriend is 45 and we have been together for a few years. I am aware that he likes to drink and we have had some arguments about this and I have told him I respect his right to make his own choices but a life which focuses on alcoh...

I stayed through fear, now worried my life is over and his is just beginning again

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27 March 2017 (F - Ok I need some help to deal with something that I know is really silly so I need some support here please . I've been with my husband and father of my children for twenty years . Over the course of our marriage he has had a problem with pirn and ...

Was he lying about his reasons for blocking me?

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27 March 2017 (F - I was dating a guy and he was leaving on duty for a couple weeks. He lied to me about deleting social media, he actually ended up blocking me. When I caught him in his lie, he said anxiety and paranoia made him delete me, he thought I would stalk ...

My boyfriend thinks I've gone off him but we don't have a bed of our own!

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27 March 2017 (F - Hi I've been with my bf for almost a year now. We used to have sex and I used to make him excited but we recently moved in with my sister and her daughter so we share the living room. We have sex yeah but its not ideal considering its either on the ...

I want more sex but he would rather masturbate to porn with young girls with boobs!

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26 March 2017 (F - We have lived together 2.5 years. I'm 44 with 2 grown up kids living at home, he is 40. He works 10.5 hour days with an extra hour on top for travelling and claims to be too tired for sex. We will usually have sex once a week, sometimes twice a week ...

Am I just wasting my time with this older guy?

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26 March 2017 (F - I've messed up. I was being flirted with in Oct 2015 - Dec 2015 by my then next door neighbours married son. I know things are rough at home. I wanted to help. Then he cut me off. I become an object for his brother to touch. It sent me round ...

I'm caught in the middle of my mom and my dad's girlfriend and really don't know how to handle things

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26 March 2017 (F - Hi Dear cupid helpers. I am in need of some advice on a family situation... So my dad had an affair on my mum 4 - 5 years ago (the last one of a few in the past) I mum turned to drinking, and has been drinking for the last 4 - 5 years and has...

Are people becoming disrespectful to me because I'm now middle aged?

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26 March 2017 (F - Over the last few years I feel people around me have become increasingly disrespectful as I've come closer to fifty . My husband stares at younger women , my adult children are rude to me and in general I find shop assistants and people in general ...

I've lost all confidence in how to have a relationship

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26 March 2017 (M - Hi guys, I'm beginning to think I may be doing something wrong on my part in relation to females. I'm currently 25 years old, ive never had a girlfriend, never been on a date and the only sexual relationships I've had with girls have either ...

I think I got played and feel like a fool

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26 March 2017 (F - I talked about this guy before, he actually manipulated me and got me as far as fooling around and sending pics (naughty pics). As soon as I cut that off, he lied to me big time. I feel like a fool?...

Going silent on me after I asked him how he felt about me by telling me he would talk to me when he is ready.

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26 March 2017 (F - Hi. I don't know what to make of my bf's behavior. I asked him a week and a half ago ago who he felt about me, because we are in a long distance relationship and do not get to see one another very often. I don't know how he feels about me, th...

I was treated unfairly and want to quit but want to write a note to the manager

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25 March 2017 (F - So I got this support work job and the staff there are so horrible to me. They are in the 50-60 and I'm 27. They are extremely rude and seem to pick or find fault in everything I do. Even the way I speak they have a problem with it. They are ...

Should I give romance a miss and focus on my mental health?

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24 March 2017 (F - I don't know why I keep blaming myself for this, but I do. I dated my on and off boyfriend ( he is now my ex) from October 2015 until January. During that time, I became friends with someone who worked in the pub that he went in. He was always there ...

I'm over his drama! How do I end this relationship for good?

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24 March 2017 (F - Sorry for this long post in advance. I just left my super obsessive and manipulative boyfriend of two years. Towards the end of our relationship, he started doubting me for talking to a particular old friend of mine. I had no feelings whatsoever for ...

Her past bothers me, though I do like our sex life!

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24 March 2017 (M - Hey guys, I've been dating a girl for a few months and it's going really great, but her past has come up more than a few times (mainly by me) her lifestyle bothers me a bit she's 22 and loves to club. Has had 12 sexual partners her last dude wa...

Did he ever love me? Was there any other girl in the picture? Or was I right and he really is a narcissist?

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23 March 2017 (F - I was dating a guy for a year...he fell in love with me but i didn't feel the same. It's only now since our argument and split that i realise how much i care about him but now he wants nothing to do with me. We had one serious argument in the ...

Just had a baby, but now I am scared about returning home, due to his abusive actions while I was pregnant. What can I do?

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23 March 2017 (F - Dear aunties and uncles. I am a first time mom to a month old baby and my husband and I have had a fair share of ups and downs but we love each other a lot and wouldn't dream of spending my life with anyone else. Last year, while in my first trim...

I suspect my fiance is cheating but he thinks I am stupid!

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23 March 2017 (F - My fiancé was out last weekend and I was informed from one of his friends he was walking a girl home. The weekend before he was out and lost his phone and I call it and a girl answers whom he had left the phone at her house. This was the only...

My addictions are affecting my life!

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23 March 2017 (M - Hi, I'm a 22 year old gay male and I think I may have a problem. I've been dealing with feelings of depression and loneliness ever since the 7th grade. Although it is a lot better now because I am more independent, they always come back. I feel ...

I asked him to slow down ... did I screw up?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

23 March 2017 (F - I met a guy on an online app. We are both super interested in each other just that I needed him to slow down as he was coming on way too strong. He started talking relationship stuff even before we met, which would be fine, but I don't trust a guy ...

Married five months and husband wants me to have an abortion.

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23 March 2017 (F - I've recently got married to my husband. We are very happy, and I have never felt more secure in all my life. We agreed to wait a few years before having children, and to focus on renovating our house which we brought before Christmas. We'll on ...

Is this man using my sister, and did she move him into her house too soon?

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22 March 2017 (F - This is really a question about my sister. She is the sweetest kindest girl, aged 45, divorced with two teenage sons. She tends to fall in love very easily, and rushes into relationships, and those relationships rarely last, so she ends up hear...

I just don't want sex. What can I do about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

21 March 2017 (F - Hi Please help me. I have been with my partner for eight years. But over the last few years and particularly this year I have lost all interest in sex. I do have a hormone disorder and suffer frequent cystitis so I know that this probably contrib...

Should I report my friend's family situation to the police?

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21 March 2017 (F - Hello, My best friend has some family problems. She is 16 and she has a 11 year old brother. She lives with her mum,dad,and brother in the same city as I do. Her father is not a nice person at all. He is not working, so her mum has to work all day ...

My husband is perfect in every way yet my imperfect ex haunts me and my heart belongs to him

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21 March 2017 (F - I'm 30 years old, I've spent more than half of my life crazy insanely in love with this person, we had a great love story but equally great drama, what broke us was a very strong storm, both of us are changed forever and deeply wounded that to end ...

My boyfriend says he doesn't care about things!

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21 March 2017 (F - My boyfriend lives with me and I mean, we've had our arguments, but I find that he pays no attention to me. He goes to work, the gym, then he comes home and plays video games until we go to bed and pays more attention to the dog even. I've asked him ...

Do you think I have the right be upset since technically he is still married?

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20 March 2017 (F - I moved to a new town and got a job as a server at a local restaurant. One of my co workers is very cute and a lot of the girls like him. They are always going out as groups and hanging out with each other outside of work. We became really ...

We broke up. I know I still care for him. should I talk to him about my feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

20 March 2017 (F - I was in a long term relationship with this guy for almost two years and we just kept bickering, small petty arguments and I'm not afraid to stand up for myself. It turned out he was messaging one of my friends and it turned out she wasn't very nic...

He says he cares for me deeply ....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

20 March 2017 (F - DeAr CuPiD I met this guy in Belize in January and coincidentally he lived not to far from me back home. After vacation was over we started hanging out back home and we've been having the most incredible time together. We both just got out of ...

Am I being hidden from the ex and his kids?

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20 March 2017 (F - Hello. I am hoping you are able to put my mind at rest really. I've been in a relationship with a guy for five months and it's all good. He lives about an hour away, and he has three kids who are another couple of hours away from him with his ex,...

Why is he so hard to talk to?

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19 March 2017 (F - I've been seeing this guy for the past month and It's so frustrating because he has no trouble talking about himself and other things in life, but he doesn't really enquire about me, other than if I asked him "Have you done ___?" he will say, yes/no ...

How can I deal with missing her in a LDR?

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19 March 2017 (M - So my girlfriend and I have been together for 5 months and we're madly in love with each other, we plan on getting married next year actually.She's 17 and i'm 18. She lives in Stockton and I live in Sacramento. I haven't seen her for a month because ...

I am considering contacting my train wreck of a dad!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

19 March 2017 (M - Hi everyone, thoughts, insights and advice please! I'm swiftly approaching a landmark birthday, the sort where you might stop and consider your life to that point. Well, I've been doing that and am considering making contact with my father. I'...

Is my hubby just starting his mid-life crisis?

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19 March 2017 (F - Dear aunts and Uncles, is my hubby just starting his mid-life crisis? He was always athletic and eat well so I can't say that all of a sudden he changed his life style, but he seems more interested in these areas. He picked up a new hob...

Roomies are all going in different directions so how do we divide the stuff we bought together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

19 March 2017 (M - It's coming to the end of our lease and I [26,M] just found out I need some major dental work that's going to cost me a TON of money. So to save up again I'm moving back in with my ex-girlfriend, Lana,[22,F] I won't have to pay anything so I should...

How Do I Move On From This Affair?

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18 March 2017 (F - Hey Aunts and Uncle's.. I recently got myself into something stupid. I know many of you will judge me for what I have done and say I'm a bad person. But I have a good heart and really need some advice. A year ago, I started working at my ca...

I put all the effort into contacting her but she never does the same back!

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18 March 2017 (M - Ladies, I need your opinion here. I'm friends with a girl who I have always found attractive. I recently found out that she has interest in me too and so we began texting daily. However, from her texts I can sense something's not right. She goes mis...

My boyfriend would rather satisfy himself with a rubber vagina than have sex with me!

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18 March 2017 (F - I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 and a half years this last month I've had to beg him to have sex with me when he's drunk he will have sex with me but other then that I have to beg him an the other night I was cleaning out his closet when I ...

I feel I am second priority after my girlfriend's best friend!

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18 March 2017 (M - Hey guys. I got a question regarding my girlfriend's best friend.. Well, both of them. I feel like my girl's best friend is first priority during the day. I literally can't speak with my girlfriend for more than 15 minutes without her best friend ...

I believe that many women nowadays are still subliminally influenced by tendencies towards subservience and even direct obedience to the partner

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18 March 2017 (F - Amazing to admit to it, but I think particularly those of us from 'Gereration X', born between around 1960 and 80, often carry around with us residues of the sexual dominance of the male, prevalent among many of our parents' generation. I believe...

Have I got it wrong about this man?

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18 March 2017 (F - It started on a Friday night. My boyfriend said he wished he never met me and that I was a slut and a bunch of other ugly stuff. He said I wasn't texting or calling him like I was, All because I was sick for 2 weeks with bronkitis and a ear ...

Is he insecure, jealous?

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18 March 2017 (F - Hi, I've been seeing this man for 5 months. I'm 49, divorced twice, no kids. He is 51, divorced twice, two kids 18 and 20. His second wife cheated on him. He was adopted. His adoptive father died when he was young and the adoptive mother was ...

Can a true relationship be achieved without the affection and the touchy part?

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17 March 2017 (F - our sex life has slowly deteriorated. He blames it on my weight gain but many people including male friends and family have advised me that the weight is not the problem. He won't see a doctor cause he blames it on me, however he is 11 years olde...

Should stay or leave our relationship? I think we have different goals and different attitudes to handling our money.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

17 March 2017 (F - Dear cupid, I don't know if I should stay or leave my relationship... myself (almost 24) and partner (almost 23) have been together two and a half years and I feel like we are going no where at the moment... We have been living with each other...

I think he is lying! Am I overreacting? How do I approach it?

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17 March 2017 (F - I've been dating a guy for the past couple of months and although we are not yet in relationship we are seeing each other exclusively and have had the conversation about not seeing anyone else. He has treated me amazingly so far and I honestly...

Does he still want to see me? He said that we would not be compatible long term, but he does like me

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16 March 2017 (F - Dear Cupid I need some advice, I've been seeing this guy for about a month (I'm 19 and he's 25) and we were getting on really well, he takes me out and treats me really nice, we just clicked. We're very similar and we've both noticed this. We'v...

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