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Archived questions from: October, 2018 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

I'm unable to move on after being rejected by the girl I love

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2000 days ago

30 October 2018 (M) - In my current state I feel lonely, depressed and unable to get over recent rejection with the *only* person I've had feelings for so far. To give more insight, I'm 15 years old and far from being attractive. In fact, I've not been favoured once by...

He doesn't believe that I am over my ex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2002 days ago

29 October 2018 (F) - So I met this guy via a dating app 9 months ago, we messaged for about 2 months but he was wary to meet up as he was still not entirely over his last relationship. I wanted to meet him but in the end he freaked out, back tracked and asked me not to ...

Why did my boyfriend treat me so badly and not care that he accidentally hurt me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2000 days ago

29 October 2018 (F) - My boyfriend was getting ready to go to work today and we were talking to each other. We both moved in closer at the same time and the brim of his hat hit my nose really hard pushing it backwards and my nose made a cracking noise. I fell back in ...

He’s a selfish date, do I get rid or give him one last chance?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2001 days ago

28 October 2018 (F) - Why am i such an idiot. i arranged a date with a friend of mine we decided to give it a go. He messaged me to say he was home and that i can go round so i got a taxi to his and knocked on his door a few times and he didnt answer. It was late dark ...

I'm hurt, confused, angry and betrayed.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1999 days ago

28 October 2018 (M) - So Last night I texted my gf and asked her how it started and she said that they met at a mutual friends house and he went up to her and they started talking about regulsr shit at first. Eventually they started chatting over what...

Has anyone else given up a fairly long-term, comfortable relationship for something new and exciting with so much in common and a strong sexual attraction?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2001 days ago

27 October 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I have just passed 3 years together. We have a great life together: we laugh a lot, we support each other, we cook, we travel, we have many of the same interests and tastes. I know he loves me and I love him too, but it's always ...

I’m excited at the concept of an open relationship but I’m not really happy with the current situation.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1982 days ago

26 October 2018 (M) - My girlfriend of 6 years is studying abroad for a year (since mid-September). We’re fairly committed to each other so we are trying to do long distance. We are also fairly sexual people but have only ever really been with each other. We are also ...

Does introducing a girl to your family mean anything special?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2007 days ago

23 October 2018 (F) - We have been dating for 7 months. I am 32 and his age is 41 years old. During the 7 months, he said he does not introducr everone to his fanily. He only introduces people are special for him. After 7 months, he said he wants to have a future with me ...

My LDR guy ignores and hurts me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2009 days ago

21 October 2018 (F) - We are certainly not young in age: I'm 45 and my partner is 61 years old but both are new in LDR world. 2 years ago my partner has lived and worked in different country and we have been apart since then. He is workaholic. As a result he focuse...

I find myself wanting more but he appears lacklustre!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2009 days ago

21 October 2018 (F) - I’m seeing someone new and we’ve been dating almost a month. In that time Ive seen him about 6 or 7 times. Real dates. Dinner or movies etc. He is great about showing up and doing fun stuff I don’t feel like he’s just looking for a physical ...

He didn't disclose his real age. Am I overreacting?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2008 days ago

21 October 2018 (F) - I met a guy several months ago, when we were taking an evening class together. I was too shy to talk to anyone for a while, but then one day he and I found we took the same route home after class. We got talking. I mentioned I'd just had my 25th ...

How do I change my desperate tendencies regarding men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1900 days ago

19 October 2018 (F) - I have realized that when I get into any relationship my main goal is to win the over - and close the deal. This is all mentally obviously I never reveal my intentions out loud but with my bf two years ago he approached me asked me out etc and we ...

I kissed other men while we were broken up, now back together did I cheat on him?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2004 days ago

17 October 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I had split up for week, his decision and I was gutted but said I would respect his decision. I went out with a friend for a night out and i kissed two men. I love my boyfriend and I was upset with it all. We have now got back tog...

I said yes when he proposed but I worry it wasnt the right answer.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2015 days ago

17 October 2018 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 12 years and live with him. I've had some problems with my boyfriend for a while, maybe a year. He stopped being romantic and didn't go on dates or ever go out to spend time at the weekend with me. He woul...

Should I reply or ignore?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2014 days ago

17 October 2018 (F) - i think i am asking for advice due to a few things one is my age. OK so just over a year ago i was online dating and i went on a date with a guy we had a fab date or so i thought. The next day he said i was too ' out there ' im thinking he thought ...

I feel like our relationship has been killed by moving in together.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2012 days ago

17 October 2018 (F) - HI I have been dating a guy for 6 months, he had to find new accommodation quickly and I stepped in and said that he could move in with me, (1 and half months ago) However I am now beginning to feel really frustrated, miserable and angry ...

Am I expecting too much from this man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2015 days ago

17 October 2018 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend since May. The relationship has moved rather fast and he's moved in with me already. We've had our first few big fights and a few times I've asked him to move back out but he didn't due to no where to go and within a ...

I don't feel like chasing him do I just let things ride and see what happens?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2013 days ago

16 October 2018 (F) - Hi I need some advice there's this guy I met last month at a party he seemed to be interested but he never gave me his number he said we should hang out sometime and gave me a spot where he will be however since we have mutual friends I ended up ...

What do you make of my boyfriend's long-distance female friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2010 days ago

16 October 2018 (F) - My bf has had a female friend for 5 years. At first I was uneasy about the whole thing but as I learned more about her and took my insecurities for working, I became cool with the whole thing. One evening when she messages, he said "oh she was aski...

Regret kissing a girl I didn't find attractive that turned out to be an alcoholic on a date whilst drunk and now she wants more.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2016 days ago

15 October 2018 (M) - Hi to everyone, I have gotten myself into an awkward situation with a girl I went on a date with last night. To elaborate I met this girl very briefly about 3 weeks ago at a club, she took a photo that I wanted so we exchanged details and she ...

Is he just not interested? being a jerk? Did I screw things up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2014 days ago

15 October 2018 (F) - Hi, I have been single for twenty years and dating for ten, long years. I dated on and off, because of the bad experiences. I have dated a lot of men, who have commitment issues, some with intimate issues, not being truthful with what they really ...

Why can't I develop strong feelings for guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2017 days ago

15 October 2018 (F) - I'm struggling to understand why I can't seem to develop strong feelings for guys. I have crushes, but they're always for the guys I can't have. The minute I get into a relationship or feel myself going into one I immediately go off them and run ...

My boyfriend is thinking about working with a woman I don't like! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2017 days ago

15 October 2018 (F) - I don't know what to do anymore. I feel like I'm at the end of my rope. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years and I love him with all my heart but I have always struggled with trust issues due to my boyfriend's career. He works at a gym a...

He said he'd break up with his girlfriend to date me but I just want to be friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2017 days ago

14 October 2018 (F) - Hi, I've just transferred to a new university starting second year where everybody already knows each other. I befriended a girl on my course and she introduced me to her friendship group on the course which has been lovely. I've particularly got...

He loves me, wants me for his wife.. but also wants sex with other women. Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2015 days ago

13 October 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over two years; we're in our thirties and met on a dating site. We've been having a great time together and at this point we're discussing a path to marriage and children, but I'm having trouble ...

Have I just been used?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2018 days ago

13 October 2018 (F) - I was seeing someone up until a few months ago, we weren’t together very long but I really started to care for him. Anyway he’d not long got out a relationship before we met, moved out and started his new life so wanted to take things slowly, he ...

It seems like boyfriend's love is fading not sure why

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2018 days ago

12 October 2018 (F) - Hi I’m sorry if this is long. I’ve been with my new bf for 4 months. Everything was perfect. He told me he loves me from the bottom of his heart he went on holiday for two weeks and we spoke lots on the phone and video called each other. When...

My boyfriend’s family getting in the way of our relationship and they want to take my baby away

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2019 days ago

12 October 2018 (F) - I am really overwhelmed by a situation going on in my personal life with my partner. I am a mom of two, we live together, we have a one year old, I have a daughter and we live in an appartment inside his mom and step dad’s house who are not marr...

How do meet someone who would want to settle down with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2015 days ago

12 October 2018 (M) - I'm a 23 year old trans male. So I've been single for well over five years now. I dated 1 girl in school and another in college. The first girl broke my heart (original I know.) So it kind of messed up my second relationship because of confi...

My boyfriend is hurtful and tells me I cant take a joke!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2021 days ago

11 October 2018 (F) - I don't even know how to start. My boyfriend and I continuingly get into arguments. I think perhaps we are coming to understand that we are two people who don't understand eachother, or perhaps he doesn't understand me. I've come from a divorced ...

We still have feelings for each other but he doesn't want to date

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2022 days ago

9 October 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I dated for 6 months and we broke up 2 months ago. I miss him so much. HE still has feelings for me and I still have feelings for him but he doesn't want to date anyone right now. I have no idea what to do. Any thoughts?...

He watches porn but wont have sex with me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2020 days ago

8 October 2018 (F) - Hi me and my partner had a argument last week about him watching porn and not having sex with me we’ve been together for 4 years I’m always catching him watching porn but he makes no effort at all to have sex with me he says he doesn’t have a sex ...

Should I cut her out of my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2022 days ago

8 October 2018 (M) - Almost a year ago I met a girl through one of my friends. She had just come out of a 6 year relationship which lead to her losing almost all of her friends. She moved to my city for work and this is how I met her. I had an instant attracti...

I hit him while drunk for making a pathetic comment and now I deeply regret it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2023 days ago

8 October 2018 (F) - DearCupid, I'm 31 years old. I met my boyfriend 28, about 2 yeare ago, weve been together for an official year and it has been the most amazing relationship I have ever had in my life with the most amazing man. But when I met him I was unhappily ...

I know he's had sex with others before being in a relationship with me but it bothers me that he lied about his "first" sexual experiments

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2022 days ago

7 October 2018 (F) - I have been in a happy relationship with my boyfriend for 8 months. we are very open about our past relationships and both of us accepted everything about it and continued. so trust and respect was the major factor in our relation. we have a very ...

It's been 4 years and it doesn't look like he will ever change. How much longer should I wait for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2024 days ago

6 October 2018 (F) - Hello all. I am seeking advice on how to make a relationship move forward or how to make your SO plan for the future, I have been dating my boyfriend for 4 years as of October. He is 27 and i am 23. We have had a wonderful relationship thus fa...

I'm dating a new guy but I'm still not over my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2024 days ago

6 October 2018 (F) - I am 15 , 16 in a few weeks .About 3 months ago , me and my boyfriend of a year broke up and over the summer I gave myself time to get over him . Once summer ended I got back in touch with a boy that I’ve known for about 2 years , we started to hang ...

I'm not comfortable seeing him if he is going to date other people.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2027 days ago

5 October 2018 (F) - I have been dating/talking to this guy for only 3 weeks. We have been in on a few dates and I have stayed at his house also , things seemed to be going well. So I found out he took another girl out on a date but he doesn’t know that I know , and I ...

It seems that he wants me to want him, despite the fact he’s not looking for a serious relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2026 days ago

4 October 2018 (F) - I have been seeing a guy got a few months now. At first I thought it would have potential eventually but now after getting to know him I feel like it's not going to reach bf/gf status. He's just not the kind of guy I would have a relationship with. ...

My boyfriend is depressed and I don't know what to do! Advise me, please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2026 days ago

3 October 2018 (F) - My boyfriend of nearly 3 years suffers from periods of mild depression. The first time this happened (that I was aware of) was about a year ago. He became really distant and stopped being interested in coming to see me or do anything with me which I ...

Should I date her even though I'm intimidated by her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2017 days ago

3 October 2018 (M) - I am talking to someone on a dating site that seemed very keen and has gotten me excited about prospects but I am quite intimidated by her to the point that I think I am putting her off... She is quite far away but we hit it off chatting away to...

Struggling to get over ex and finding it hard to look at dating again!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2017 days ago

3 October 2018 (M) - Hi all, I guess this is a slightly multi-layered problem. Firstly I am single as of close to year ago. I mention this as I feel it potentially explains certain things as of yet mentioned. It was a strange breakup that never really had clos...

Why is his dad trying to set us up and should I go along?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1992 days ago

2 October 2018 (F) - Long story short, am a virgin and one day my mom met an old time neighbour (who moved away but is living here again) who has one son. She kept bragging about how her daughter is "a princess" and then the guy said I have "a prince". Ever since he has ...

20 years apart, is it okay to see each other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2029 days ago

1 October 2018 (M) - I have a small group of close friends that I socialize with regularly and we're mostly all about the same age range (40s) - and I'm 46. A while back one of the friends started bringing around another friend (they're both nurses and work together) ...