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Archived questions from: March, 2018 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

I don’t want to deny him sex but how do I get my feelings across?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2214 days ago

31 March 2018 (F) - I have been with my bf now for 3 months and although he is 12 years older he can be romantic. He is African american and I'm Canadian (when we are not making love). But he can be a bit of a control freak when it come to our love making. He says what ...

It feels like shes using me. Is she?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2212 days ago

31 March 2018 (M) - We're dating for a few months, I'm 31 she's 22 last night she asked me to pick her up at her house and I didn't want to because I just don't want to get out of my house and as she lives far away I'm not into it driving right now, just a lazy day, ...

How do I handle dates where I don't want more?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2214 days ago

31 March 2018 (M) - Often when I go on dates with guys, it becomes apparent to me quite quickly if I'm interested or not. I'm always respectful and kind on dates. But I have a very flirtatious smile, so often if I smile too much, I notice guys are responsive and want ...

I always hurt my girlfriend unintentionally

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 757 days ago

31 March 2018 (M) - hi, I have been dating this girl whom I love and adore a lot. The thing is for the past few months, I hurt her always unintentionally. I care about her but she thinks it's not enough. I get angry easily when she picks fights over silly things tha...

I wasnt able to get off during sex, want to break up but feel I cant.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2218 days ago

29 March 2018 (M) - Okay so to start from the beginning, I met this girl on tinder about a month ago. Lets call her Amy, Amy and I finally met in a coffee shop after two weeks of on and off chatting. She is really cool, we are basically the same person but different ...

I feel like I am being pressured into having sex.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2214 days ago

29 March 2018 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together about 2 years now, at first we were having sex all the time whenever possible, as it usually is when youre with someone new. Now it has calmed down a bit and I am completely okay with that but he is not. Its ...

I'm really into my best friend's ex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2213 days ago

28 March 2018 (F) - Okay, so this is a very simple story. I am extremely into my best friends ex. We were really good friends while they were dating, and she brought us closer. I always found myself helping them out, and literally being to solution to their problems...

We're almost breaking up over the question of having kids in the future but am I being irrational?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2220 days ago

28 March 2018 (F) - Sorry this is rather long... I started dating a man 10 years older than me last year. We are serious going now and eventually the subject of children had to come up and it did. Before, it was something that was mentioned by both and brushed of...

Is it unreasonable for me to question their friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2221 days ago

28 March 2018 (F) - My boyfriend of 7 months has a best friend who is a girl and I was fine with it at first as they have been friends for 2 years before I got with him. She always hangs out with all our mutual friends in a group and has often joined us both on eveni...

Boyfriend has a bruise on his neck. Is he cheating? I'm afraid to ask

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2220 days ago

27 March 2018 (F) - I saw a strange bruise on my boyfriend's neck yesterday. He always accuses me of cheating but I've been very faithful. We've been together for over a year and it has been really hard. I made the mistake of lying to him about going to a party about 6 ...

I would like a fresh perspective, as if there is something I could be doing that would make things better I would do it, or I’m doing something that I shouldn’t be then I need to know!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2221 days ago

26 March 2018 (F) - Please note this is a long read: I’m after some none biased honest feedback/comments regarding my relationship with my boyfriend of just over a year. We have a strong connection and when we have fun, we really do - we’re silly together, and a...

We’ve been dating 18 months! Do these signs he’s been giving indicate anything?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2213 days ago

26 March 2018 (F) - Been dating a guy for 18mnths. We havent ever said we love each other but we know we care deeply for each other. The other morning we were "making out" (we've never had sex) and he was on top of me. He gradually stopped and then just looked in my ...

Should I sleep with him ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2213 days ago

26 March 2018 (F) - So roughly four years ago I met a young man who was not from the same country that I was from and he was only in town for a couple days so we exchanged information just to stay connected. We were both in relationships at the time, however our ...

Boyfriend wants to break up because he has exams and can't devote as much time to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2222 days ago

25 March 2018 (F) - I’m 15 and my boyfriend if 16 we’ve been together for 9 months now , he’s approaching his exams (GCSEs ) and is getting very stressed . Recently he said that it’s best if we break up as he feels as though He’s not giving me enough attention and that ...

He has a girlfriend but he took my virginity and I think he's the "one" for me

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 2210 days ago

25 March 2018 (F) - Hi, I’m in love with a taken guy. We’ve been through so much together. He took my virginity, we fell asleep together, and his mom absolutely loves me. She’s constantly asking about me and says that I should come over more. BUT, he has a girlfriend. ...

Why do some girls get more guy attention than others?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2223 days ago

24 March 2018 (F) - Why is it that some girls always have boyfriends or get all the male attention. I am 30 and have only had one partner in my life and real bf. My friends always seem to have met a guy at the gym or school. I got to school and the gym and meet guys ...

Is it too late to start a relationship at 30, having never dated?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2223 days ago

24 March 2018 (M) - Hello, I'm a 31-year old guy with a question that's been plaguing my mind recently. I can't help but wonder if it's too late at my age to date or have a relationship if I've never done either before. I've never been in a relationship or ...

How can I build the sexual tension I need without being labelled a tease?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2220 days ago

24 March 2018 (F) - I’m currently dating but I’m having a problem with the sexual side of things. Basically, it takes me quite a bit of time to feel ready to have sex with someone. I’m talking about a good few dates to give the sexual tension time to build up and for...

Should I break up with my new girlfriend? I don't feel for her what I felt for others

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2224 days ago

24 March 2018 (M) - How am feeling these days, been with my girlfriend for over a year now, we get along pretty good, sex maybe once a month, I want more but she is too tired all the time so I quit trying, so I do myself, the thing is in the past six years had my heart ...

Should I even try talking to this player?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2224 days ago

23 March 2018 (F) - So there's this boy that I've really started to like. He's super funny, nice, easy to be around, great actor and really cute. We're both into acting, and a few of my friends know him, or used to, and I've heard him talking about one of my favourite ...

I like travel, he likes fast food and designer luxury products! Is there room for compromise?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2224 days ago

23 March 2018 (F) - I love to travel and see the world. I love experiencing different cultures and tasting different foods. I'm not a fan of designer luxury products, I just like to travel. My boyfriend doesn't like traveling or seeing the world. He can eat McDonald...

She wants me to prove to her that I want this relationship and help her not feel so alone!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2225 days ago

23 March 2018 (M) - Been in a relationship for 8 years have a 10 year old step son who's dad was never really in the picture and we have a 3 year old boy together. When my youngest was born 3 years ago that's when everything changed. She said that I started to not care ...

I think my girlfriend is too promiscuous to me. Break up?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2224 days ago

22 March 2018 (M) - Dating for a few months I'm 30 she's 22, yesterday I found out a lot of pictures of her with her ex on her facebook from a few years ago. I asked her why she keeps them and she said she forgot to delete and that doesn't make any sense since they're ...

With all the blocking and unblocking on social media, I don't even know what to expect anymore

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2225 days ago

21 March 2018 (F) - So I've been seeing a guy for about three months now. The relationship was wonderful. We were both falling in love and had so much fun together. We met each other's friends and family and seen each other just about every day. A week ago we got into ...

My love life is just a big mess.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2225 days ago

21 March 2018 (M) - My girlfriend and I were dating for just over a year and we were so happy together, but the last few months of us dating were just filled with arguments. Those arguments were mainly about her parents as they are extremely controlling and they were ...

I'm feeling under pressure and trapped.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2222 days ago

20 March 2018 (M) - Hi all, I have an issue really bugging me at the moment and beginning to stress me out. I'll give a little bit of backstory: I'm 26 years old, recently gotten together with my first ever GF and everything was going swimmingly and I was very ...

The only time my girlfriend has orgasmed was with an ex boyfriend.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2227 days ago

19 March 2018 (M) - We're together for a few months, our sex is great but she can't orgasm with me. I asked her why and she said she can't orgasm and that she had just one orgasm in life once with other guy in the past. I'm very jealous and insecure about that and d...

My boyfriend is telling another girl she should marry him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2229 days ago

18 March 2018 (F) - Hi my boyfriend is deployed for 7 months in Latvia. I felt like he seems distant. I opened his Facebook I saw that he’s messaging one girl, he was telling the girl that he will send a letter to her and by the time that girl is 30 she should marry ...

How would a cheater act if he were cheating on you?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2224 days ago

18 March 2018 (F) - Hi please can people give me some idea of how someone would act around you if they were cheating on you I have been with my fiancé now for 6 years we have a 3 year old daughter we’ve been having sleep issues with our 3 year old daughter so my ...

I wish I could find a big "jock" guy to treat me as this man does.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2228 days ago

18 March 2018 (F) - Hi, am a 59 year old single woman, been dating this guy for five months, but am very busy, he wants more, but I don't have the time, we have fun one night a week, I haven't introduced him to family or friends, he comes on real strong,you know, ...

Is he just a long distance loser who uses his family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2229 days ago

18 March 2018 (F) - I write this post with a heavy heart. I don't even know where to begin..... My boyfriend has had a very bad past. He has chosen to do many things to disappoint his parents, siblings, and other family members. He went to College, is educated, ye...

I feel its time to let go but my heart will be broken

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2230 days ago

18 March 2018 (F) - Hi I’ve been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. The first year was amazing . We got along really well. Both of us have children .My children are a lot younger than his. My youngest is four. My boyfriends kids are having a hard time with me ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2227 days ago

17 March 2018 (F) - I'll get straight to the point. My best friend and I (I'm female, he's male) have a 'friends with benefits' kind of thing going on. We are intimate, sometimes affectionate, but never romantic. We have never dated, but despite clearly not being a ...

I've borrowed money to celebrate but am not excited about it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2227 days ago

17 March 2018 (M) - About to celebrate our 5year together but why do I feel like I’m not celebrating anything. We don’t live together as she still works in the same part time job she did when I got with her so we have not progressed. I lost my job 3 months ago, and I ...

Do you consider girl on girl action cheating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2229 days ago

17 March 2018 (F) - I am in a relationship for almost 3 years now. My boyfriend is out of the country most of the time. We are apart for months. I love him and I have never had sex wit another man nor have I ever kissed someone else. I haven't even flirted with another ...

Do the Aunts think this seems okay at face value?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2231 days ago

17 March 2018 (M) - Okay, so this has been a big/hectic day. I've been in this relationship 5+ years. It's always been a life partner type scenario. Well today, we got into a fight, words were said, and she threw the "I want to break-up" card. We've had a really rou...

My boyfriend doesn't approve of my modeling career!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2228 days ago

16 March 2018 (F) - My partner and I live together, we had an argument last night. He is 25 and I’m 23, I am pursuing a modeling career that is just taking off but he doesn’t approve the photoshoots; last week it was because the photographers are men and he feels ...

He wants to date without any expectations.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2224 days ago

16 March 2018 (F) - I am a north Indian.My parents are looking for an alliance for me.i registered in an online dating website.i saw a guy there and liked him.We both kept viewing each other profiles for nearly 2 months and nothing happened.So I decided to make a ...

I'm worried about my boyfriend becoming less motivated.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2228 days ago

16 March 2018 (F) - My bf and I have been going out close to a year. When I 1st met him he was working 2 jobs, over 12 hours a day and was miserable. He told me he had to get out of his job to move forward. Well now he is and is exploring options to go back to ...

After two and a half years she tells me she never loved me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2232 days ago

16 March 2018 (F) - The other day I got into a fight with my gf of 2 and a half years. She had been acting distant for a day or so and I finally asked what was up. I called her and asked if something was wrong. She began telling me she just didn't think she wanted a ...

Which of these potential partners is my best match?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2231 days ago

16 March 2018 (F) - Ok, So this is going to be kind of lengthy so bear with me... So to start off I've been single for a long time, 6 years to be exact. Recently I've decided to get back out in the dating pool and see what happens. Oddly enough, I've met a coupl...

I wonder if my boyfriend is losing interest in me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2231 days ago

15 March 2018 (F) - Hey guys! Need some real advice on this matter. I started dating a guy about 7 weeks ago. I met him last year at random and we would just check in from time to time. One day he asked me out for ice cream and the rest is history.. Anyway, I no...

We didn't trust each other so I ended it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2232 days ago

15 March 2018 (M) - I recently entered into a casual relationship with someone that I met through a swingers site, we used to meet for nsa fun but we clicked and we decided to make it more permanent but I told her that I had a bad experience a few years ago and it ...

My boyfriend had a threesome dream about me & one of my closest friends

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2228 days ago

15 March 2018 (F) - This question goes out to those of you with some expertise in dream analysis... My boyfriend had a dream of him having a threesome with me and one of my closest friends. It was very porny and intense and he was having sex primarily with her in it. ...

Is something going on that I'm not aware of?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2231 days ago

15 March 2018 (F) - Hey guys, so this man that I am going out with now (Which happens to be a gentleman, sweet man, really good, I have never gone out with a man like this. he is quite older, he is 46 and I am 29 going to be 30. Anyways he was married for 10 years an...

How do approach him about what I heard?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2228 days ago

15 March 2018 (F) - Hi everyone my boyfriend of 4 years pocket dialled me yesterday while he was at work I overheard him and his mate on about some woman who was fit and my fiancé says I didn’t notice surprisingly we have had trust issues in the past due to his roving ...

Why did he leave his pet with me if he doesn't intend to have anything long-term?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2231 days ago

14 March 2018 (F) - I've been dating a guy for a couple of months. We got on really well, and slept with each other after the fourth date. Since then, we meet up around once a week, either go out for dinner or to each other's houses and watch a film, stay over etc. ...

I can't tell if he's just testing the waters and measuring my boundaries sexually.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2234 days ago

14 March 2018 (F) - I feel like I'm going to get teased for this question or stereotyped as insecure. I used to struggle with insecurities when I was younger but I've grown out of most of them as my figure developed and I became who I wanted to become. For some reason ...

Bf doesn't want to come to my graduation ceremony. Is this an indicator that our relationship is not worth my while?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2233 days ago

14 March 2018 (F) - My boyfriend of one year does not want to come to my graduation ceremony, and honestly I'm pretty upset but don't know what to do. I don't want to force him, and i just dropped the subject. so I don't know what to think of our relationship if he ...

How I teach him about sex without him feeling like an idiot?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2234 days ago

14 March 2018 (F) - So I started dating one of my guy friends who I have known for 8 years. We're pretty close with each other and getting our feelings out there has only brought us closer. I am not a virgin but I'm not like really experienced either and he is a vir...