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Archived questions from: November, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Man over 20 with a teen?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4510 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - I am a 24 year old male and I was wondering is it illegal for me casually date a girl who's 17? Or just simply be good friends with her?...

Am I reading the signs correctly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - okok so ive been chatting online for 2 weeks with a lovely girl - shes 26..gorgeous. funny. intelligent. etc... after a week, she confided that she had a bf.. i was super chilled. said wow he must be awesome. i hope he appreciates what he has... she ...

Did I do the wrong thing by making the first move?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

30 November 2011 (?) - I have a huge crush on this guy from my local store. I go in and out all the time to try and chat with him but there is always people there. I'm quite shy and my mother is old fashioned so she brought me up to believe that guys should make the ...

Who do I choose? The ex who abandoned me and our son or my current boyfriend who's a wonderful guy?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4516 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - My ex and I were together for 6 years. We started dating when we were teens I gave birth to our son when I was 20. A few years after that, we broke up because he was not ready to take the responsibility. He was kinda immature that time. Then I...

Would it seem odd if I added him on Facebook and asked him how he is doing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - I have this guy that I am in college with I have had a crush on him since we started school. I have never had a full conversation with him just small talk. So I just found out he was in a motorcycle accident and lost 2 of his fingers a pretty ...

My B/f is always telling me how hot he thinks I am, but he never seems to be in the mood for sex any more

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - I'm 18 and have been with my boyfriend for 18 months now, we love eachother very much, and also find eachother very attractive. We used to have sex practically everyday, I'd dress up for him and everything, then we went to having sex 3-4 times a ...

I am interested in a 17 year old girl and her mother is encouraging us to have sex! Why??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - I am interested in a 17 year old girl who seems to like me but is a little reserved.She is an only child. Her mother is encouraging the relationship actively. She even told me that sex was okay if I loved her. What is mother up to? I find it a ...

How can I get my G/f to feel sexy and realize how wonderful she actually is?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - how can i get my wonderfull girlfriend to feel sexy. She has low self image. To me she is beautiful and what she finds imperfections. I think that what makes her who she is. She always covers her self up. Says she is fat and unattractive. When we ...

Ladies, once you meet a new interesting guy, when do you allow that first intimate touch?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - Ledies, you meet a new interesting guy. When do you allow that first intimate touch? Is it any different if you meet him while you're hurting from a recent break up? Your answers are important to me....

In love with my friend, but I'm not a lesbian! How do I handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4530 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - I would like your opinions on this one and if possible some advice you could give... I am in love with a close friend of mine. We are always together every time and we always talk about topics related to crushes and love. I've loved her for al...

Do I confront, support him, or walk away? My married lover confided he has started meeting men for sex.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4502 days ago

30 November 2011 (?) - I need some support! I have had a relationship with a married man for many many years we are very very good friends and occasionally we have sex too which is like the icing on the cake. His wife is sick with MS so please dont criticise me for see...

Need help with boys!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - i am 13 and in 7th grade. how do i get boys in my grade (in my school) to like me as a friend and then maybe date me later on in life? but i don't know how! cause honestly i tried flirting, being nice i tried the best i could but now i need some ...

My boyfriend is abusive. Help, what do I do? Because I'm falling hard for my boyfriend's brother.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Ok. I am in a situation that I really badly need help with. I have been dating my current boyfriend for 2 years now off and on. The first year was terrible. I always caught him talking to his ex girlfriend. He was telling her he loved her and that...

Numerous problems with girlfriend and I just don't feel loved anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - Hi all, my first post here, and I need some advise. I've been dating this girl for some number of years now. We've had our good times and our bad times like any couple, but now I don't really feel like she is the one. We've had proplems before,...

Is it possible to have a satisfying sexual life if your boyfriend has never made you have an orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

30 November 2011 (?) - Is it possible to have a satisfying sexual life if your boyfriend (of 2 years) doesn't know how to and has never made you orgasm? At first it didn't bother me...but now I'm beginning to feel like he has given up on trying to please me and only wan...

Should I sit here and wait for his call? Or should I just break up with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for three years and most of our relationship has been long distance due to the fact that he is in the army. I love him with all my heart and he is my first boyfriend. We had only been dating for six months when he went ...

I want to get married and have kids and my boyfriend is no where near ready for that.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for several years. He is not working and he is a mama's boy even though we live together. He thinks im a liar even when i am telling the truth. It hurts and as a result i get mad and say a lot of awful things that i ...

He's cheated on me over 12 times and gave me a STD. How do I cope with my hurt and the feeling he's going to do it again and soon?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - I've been with the same guy for 4 years we have a baby together but in the past 2 years he cheated on me over 12 times. One of the times he gave me an std I found out from his sisters friend because he gave it to her as well. Another time a girl ...

Would I come across as creepy or desperate if I add this guy on Facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4448 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Earlier I was bored and clicking around on facebook, and found myself on the profile of a guy whom I had 9 mutual friends with. Looking at his profile I could see that he often attends the same clubs as me, and shares my music taste EXACTLY (there's ...

My pattern of preferring much older men is starting to bother me. But are men in their 30s discounting me for dating older men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

30 November 2011 (?) - I'm a 31 year old woman. I live alone and have a career that I love. I'm fairly attractive. I would say I'm an 8 out of 10 on most days. I don't have a desire to get married. I have a healthy fear of getting pregnant or catching a disease. I ...

I only lied to avoid a fight. She's aggressive and doesn't trust me. Should I break if off with her?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

30 November 2011 (?) - I'm an insurance agent by trade and I sat down with one of my girlfriends friends. I sold her a policy. But recently my girlfriend called her up, and asked her if anything is going on between us. I think it's inappropriate, along with her constan...

Is something changing in me? Am I losing my girlfriend? What is wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - I am in love with my girlfriend and I can't imagine life without her, but recently I have been noticing another girl, whom I declared to be one of the most beautiful girls I had ever seen many times but never actually felt anything over her. However ...

I still have feelings for my ex which I know are unhealthy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - Hi everyone I am in a dilemma right now because I just realized I still got some feelings for my ex which I know is not healthy. Me and her rarely see each other again even though we are in the same town. It is really weird that I still have ...

My girlfriend is 10/11 years young than me! What shoud I do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - Hi Im 32 years and I met a 21 beautiful girl. We had our first date and we kiss each other. She said to me that she just want FUN ... After while she said that she is in love of me, because she didnt know about my personality before. I was very ...

He said he "loved" me...but then he said he "liked" me and I now have doubts

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - This is both incredibly neurotic and potentially important. I have been dating my current boyfriend for four months; we met on a dating site, immediately clicked, have great sex, and almost always spend our weekends together (with other people ...

I was just wondering once we grow apart can we get close again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - Hey everyone... I am abit confused at the moment :\ i need some advice please. Me and my boyfriend have been together just over seven months and i feel that we are growning apart :( i have ask him how he feels and he said that we are fine as close...

Is there hope for these things or am I just in denial?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - This is a tough question, I know. Thank you if you can give me an honest answer. I can accept an answer that I don't want to hear, even though it will kill me. I have had my heart broken before, and I always got up again when I didn't know if I ...

I feel like my LDR is pulling away and doesn't want a baby anymore. I'm heartbroken!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4530 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - Im so confused about my ldr boyfriend. Weve been together for almost a year. It hasnt been a great time, certain trust issues and a few arguments. However, I fell in love with him hard. I bent over backwards to make it work. In September I fell ...

Met two people in a bar, now the guy wants to meet up again. Should I meet him alone or with his friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - I met a guy and his female friend in a bar on Sunday and I have their phone numbers. The guy said he wants to meet up with me again, but I'm not sure whether to meet him on his own, or meet him and his female friend together. He fancies me, so I'm ...

How long should someone shall wait to date again once being dumped and heartbroken?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - It's not me. Is a guy I like, his long time GF dumped him 7 months ago and he is deeply heartbroken. As a result, he's always been a womanizer and now that she dumped him he's again on the loose fooling around girls. B/C he is being like that he saw ...

Why would this girl run away when she knew that it was little encounters like that are the only time we can talk? Shy, embarrassed or not interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - Hey, A question about shy girls. A friend told this girl that I like her. Me and this girl have never really spoken but have held eye contact and smiled on quite a few occasions. Since then she has been asking another mutual friend (female) ...

I love my B/f, but is it enough when you feel you're a burden to the person you love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - ok, ive been with my bf for 3 years. First off we are complete opposites. he works alot and is very social and outgoing whereas i work part time because of my health (doctors dont know what i have, i have headaches 24/7 for 14 years now) so after ...

He likes "alone time". It's a source of conflict. why do I miss him more than he misses me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - How should I react? Sometimes my bf likes to have his space...there are days when he just wants to be by himself...this hurts my feelings because I can spend 24 hours with him, no problems It is a source of conflict...he says I dont trust him and ...

What's more important; being loved unconditionally by a good man, or being single but popular earning a good salary?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - I would consider myself to be a social outcast. I have a very few select number of friends, people reject me and I'm just not all that popular. I'm not part of the clique at work, and recently missed out on a promotion because of this. The girl that ...

I'm secretly dating my best friends brother...what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - I'm confused on quite a few levels. I've been secretly seeing my best friends brother for 4 months now. She knows I like him and that he likes me, yet has no idea we have been seeing each other. I have poked fun at the idea of dating him, and it s...

He would cancel dates and I got mad at him. Does he still care about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i broke up three times and we got back together and for the last two times. We plan to see each other, then when the day comes he will call and make up something, that he cant come over. Then the last time he did this i got mad said...

Sick of thinking about my ex....where the hell do you meet people these days?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - im finding myself in a trap that i cant get myself out of it. i spilt up with my boyfriend 4 months ago and i know deep down it was the right thing to do, even though he was a lovely man he just didnt want the same things as me and didnt want to ...

I have major trust issues because of my ex. How can I ensure I do not ruin things with my new guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - Hi there..last year i was very very heart broken. i found out that the guy i had been dating for the past year had been engaged to someone else abroad. he lied to me many times...i genuinely thought he was my soul mate. He has recently split up fro...

How do I ask her out? And how do I keep my family out of it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4530 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - So there is this girl I like at school(I am in the 8th grade) and I would like to ask her out but I have no idea how to do it or where to go. We are both not very popular so I'm not going after some one out of my league.I also worry how my family ...

3 great dates and now I havent heard from him in a week and a half....should I keep waiting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4523 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - I went out on 3 great dates with this guy and it seemed like we were really hitting it off. He then went home for Thanksgiving, and I haven't heard from him in a week and half. I read in an advice column that one should just move on if a dude ...

17 year old and 14 year old

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - Hey I'm a 17 yr old guy, my girlfriend is 14, yes I know that a big age differance this young. We are very much in love, strong word but true. I have asked her about sex and she said she doesnt want to go that far, but she keeps throwing me mixed ...

How do I avoid becoming single and friendless?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - Two years ago, I ended an unhealthy relationship. My ex and I had been together for four years, but we fought a lot and our interactions got ugly, so I haven't looked back. My problem is that since that time, I haven't been able to meet any men. ...

My girlfriend dresses attractively when she goes out with her friends but when she's with me,its always the usual t-shirt and jeans

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - Well, I've always noticed that my girlfriend dresses attractively when she goes out with her friends(of course,this includes guy friends),but when she's with me,its always t-shirt and jeans,in fact she only wears the same 3 or 4 t-shirts over and ...

I'm 19, never had a girlfriend, never even kissed a girl and I hate feeling like an outcast among people I'm surrounded by

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - I'm really depressed, I can't deny what I feel. I'm 19 and never had a girlfriend. I've never even kissed a girl. It is something about myself I despise. I'm constantly surrounded by couples and I'm friends with so many couples I can't stand it ...

I like him but he has a (cheating) girlfriend! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - There's this guy I like I have known him for a while. Even his parents and three sisters know me(cause I spent some nights with his lil sister cause we r best friends), but I don't know what to do. I'm in 7th grade but he's in 6th and has a ...

My insecure girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - Help please I want to save our relationship from ending Me and my girlfriend have been together for over 2 years and 4 months and are considering marriage Right now we want a court wedding because of financial issues But recently today she th...

What's going on between my B/f and this other girl? Do they have a history? Does he want her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - I noticed that my bf has been exchanging messages on fb with a girl he's not friends with on fb. She lives in our area according to her profile. I secretly viewed their messages and it seems that they are not flirting or anything. I'm jealous bc ...

My "best friend" flirts with this guy I am completely head over heels for, behind my back!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - My "bestfriend" flirts with this guy i am completely head over heels for behind my back. Now he likes her he told her about a month ago and she barely told me today i feel she betrayed me just by not telling me something and am afraid other things ...

I want to ask for her phone number but don't want to creep her out

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - help please. i want to ask this girl for her number but i dont know how without creepin her out. we have only talked once before so how do i approach her and what should i say? would telling her that i think she is amazing and i would like to kno ...

Is my friend hinting that we should date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

29 November 2011 (M) - So here's the deal. I've been this girls friend since school started (18 August). About a month after that we got extremely close,like,we ate lunch together,took the buss ride to school and from school together (we live close to each other),s...