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Archived questions from: July, 2019 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Do I have to invite this person to my party?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1728 days ago

29 July 2019 (M) - I'm having a birthday party soon.I have to restrict numbers because of budget. Some of the people coming are frinds of my gf- I've been with her for 10 years. There's one particular guy I can't stand. He often makes digs at me, and although never d...

When do I explain to this man about my health?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1737 days ago

25 July 2019 (F) - Hi, I've been ghsv1 positive for about a year or 2 now and have had perhaps 2 or 3 very very mild outbreaks since my initial diagnosis. A while ago I got out of a serious relationship (with the guy who have it to me) and I started talking ...

The way my boyfriend acts makes me feel insecure

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1736 days ago

24 July 2019 (F) - I’ve been dating a guy for a year now. He’s practically very committed - helps me out around my home, is great with my three year old (loves spending time with him), and talks openly about our future. In 30, have a great job and my own home and he ...

5 months into our relationship and partner is dragging his feet filing for divorce from wife.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1736 days ago

23 July 2019 (F) - A guy I've known over the years went through a split up with his wife. He was staying at my brothers house but it was crowded there so i told him he could stay with me. I just so happened to be searching for a roommate to help out. It wasn't long ...

My boyfriend is repulsing me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1658 days ago

22 July 2019 (F) - This is going to sound really bad, but i am starting to get really repulsed by my bf. We broke up breifly this yr n got bk together for the kids but i still feel the same. I see him like a friend, no spark, nothing in common anymore and i honestly ...

My partner is into beastiality

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1735 days ago

22 July 2019 (F) - My partner is into beastialiy Not sure how to deal with this one? I have known for some time that my partner of 6 years has always watched porn and I can’t say I was thrilled about it but I put up with it. Now I’ve recently discovered that ...

Is it ok to have a relationship, but keeping my goals first at the same time?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1737 days ago

22 July 2019 (F) - Hey guys! Despite my usual posts in here, I have a pretty calmed down question/need for advice. I was in a 6 year relationship from 18 to 25. I am now 27 and after a slew of some flings and single dating, I was able to find a really great ...

I'm single and pregnant, despite complications with the baby the father doesn't want to know about us.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1736 days ago

21 July 2019 (F) - So I was dating a guy for 2 months, going really well then he ended the relationship due to the fact he didn't like the fact I have children, 3 weeks later I found out I was pregnant with his child, (implant broke) he said when he found out he ...

I'm off to a spa weekend by myself, my boyfriend didn't want to come and he wants to stop me going too!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1740 days ago

21 July 2019 (F) - I have booked myself a spa break in a classy hotel as a treat and my boyfriend is saying its a dodgy place to go in a hot tub with strangers in a bikini for a woman. He kept saying men could try and chat me up. I don't understand this Im going ...

My girlfriend constantly complains about her weight but wont do anything about it!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1734 days ago

20 July 2019 (M) - How do I deal with my gf complaining about her weight. I used to pressure her to keep an eye in her weight but she loves eating junk. I gave up about 3-4 years ago as we went from size 10 to 16. She is adamant it’s because it’s certain parts an...

My family doesn't like my boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1747 days ago

11 July 2019 (F) - Been with my partner now for 2 years and it's coming out That my family such as aunties and uncles do not like him. I come from a close family so we tend to do things all together, however we did not get to attend Easter as they refused to welcome ...

I can’t seem to break this loneliness/unhappy spell

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1750 days ago

11 July 2019 (F) - Can I ever be happy? I have tried to find happiness in many things but I can’t seem to be content and I’m not sure why I am this way? I grew up in an Eastern European home so my parents always were neglectful on my feelings and just neurotic and ...

My sister's long ago boyfriend wants to meet and talk. How do I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1747 days ago

10 July 2019 (F) - in high school, my sister dated a guy who loved her very much. Basically he lost his chance forever when she found out she was gay. Over the years, he had sporadically kept in touch with me, and now he is coming to the area (for a sporting e...

I don't get approached by the guys I like?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1749 days ago

10 July 2019 (F) - Hello. Hope you all are alright? Well, I have had a rather complicated life and I had to endure a lot, one of the reasons why I was never really focused on guys. Well at some point it hits every single one of us, and for me it started at the age ...

Why is my mum acting this way? Does she not like my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1747 days ago

10 July 2019 (F) - Hi everyone - I was just wondering if anyone could help me solve some family issues which I think are regarding my current partner. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and we are very happy. He basically has moved in with me (it sort of just...

How do I get my bf to try anal with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1750 days ago

10 July 2019 (F) - Straight to the point, how do I get my bf to try anal with me? I’ve brought it up a couple of times and I’ve done it before with other bf’s but my bf now is the most respectful guy that even when we have sex he asks if he can do certain things which ...

Is dating supposed to be this difficult?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1750 days ago

9 July 2019 (F) - I feel very abnormal as a 23 year old girl. I am 5'4 and about 130 lbs. I have never dated anyone simply because I barely get approached, hit on, and I have never been asked out before. I hate dating websites because men who wouldn't even talk to me ...

Do I tell my boyfriend about these men obsessing over me and stalking me at college?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1741 days ago

9 July 2019 (F) - I am feeling really overwhelmed because I feel like I have no one to talk to about this, not even my therapist knows what to do, so please read me, please! and give me your advice. I am in college studying art and in a long term relationship. I have ...

My boyfriend is being really distant and cold.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1215 days ago

8 July 2019 (F) - My boyfriend is being really distant and cold. We’ve been together 8 months. He is currently depressed because his ex hasn’t allowed him to see his child. This has been going on for 3 weeks. We never even spoke for the first week - he often shuts ...

He said he'd like to be friends and then blocked me. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1710 days ago

8 July 2019 (F) - Dear Cupid, A couple of months ago I was dating a separated man going through a divorce. He had moved back to his hometown and was setting into his new life with new job etc. I'd also recently gone through a break up. It went really well to be...

Our wedding venue and honeymoon for next year are booked but our relationship is a disaster, my boyfriend refuses therapy and I feel unloved, unwanted, sad and totally lost

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1754 days ago

7 July 2019 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for over 7 years, and for 5 of those years we lived together. We had our fair share of arguments but otherwise have had a pretty stable relationship. He proposed last year and we're due to be married in ...

I Havent Heard From My Boyfriend In Two Days After A Fight Concerning Commitment/Marriage. Should I contact him or give him his space?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1754 days ago

7 July 2019 (F) - Hello everyone Bf and I have been dating for three years now. For the most part, we have a very solid relationship. We agree on most salient things and enjoy laughing with each other. We have even considered moving in with one another, somethin...

Should I not continue seeing this guy because of our conflicting views on sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1754 days ago

7 July 2019 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm a 32 year old female whose responsible, ambitious and adventurous. I've also been a Christian for the past 5 years and attend church regularly, bible study, etc. I'm also abstaining from sex until marriage. Since my last breakup ...

My boyfriend wants to get married but all of his baggage is making me wonder if its a good idea

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1741 days ago

7 July 2019 (F) - I've been seeing my new boyfriend a little over a year. He is a very sweet guy. He wants to get married, and I'm unsure I really want to. I know that my reasons will sound very vain. He doesn't have a tax paying job, he works for cash doing whatever ...

I'm in a slightly wobbly relationship where I do love my partner but my best friend just professed his love for me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1756 days ago

4 July 2019 (F) - Hey dearcupid Community! So, I'm in a bit of a predicament. Theres my partner. Been with him for 6 years in September. God I love him, he's not in a dark place, even his parents say how far he's come from what he once was and how certain thin...

Even after 6 years, I still don't trust my boyfriend. And it is getting worse. I don't know how to stop the downward spiral!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1758 days ago

4 July 2019 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. Our relationship has been strained lately because it seems that no matter what I do, and no matter what he does, I cannot trust him. I never fully trusted him the entire time either. But it just seems to ...

We have been dating for 9 months no sex getting frustrated!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1757 days ago

3 July 2019 (M) - I'm 29 and my girlfriend is 26. She's a virgin, specifically never had sex, kissed, or even had a boyfriend before me so I do know a lot of stuff makes her nervous. She told me all this after our first kiss. I told her I would be fine with not ...

Why am I attracted to younger guys now who are no good?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1758 days ago

2 July 2019 (F) - My whole life I've been pretty level headed with men and tended to like the older "mature" guys. I was in a long term relationship with a guy who was six years older and he wanted marriage and commitment, which is what I thought I always wanted too. ...

I don't want to invest in something that will hurt me, or waste both of our time. HELP!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1467 days ago

2 July 2019 (F) - I met a guy through some mutual friends. He in only in the city right now for work, for a couple of months, however it was an instant connection, and he asked me out on a date. We have gone on multiple dates now, and have spent a lot of time ...

Should pay a sex worker to just go on a date with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1759 days ago

1 July 2019 (M) - I'm pushing 30 very soon and I'm a male virgin who's never been on a date or ever been kissed. I'm not handsome in any way (I'd go far as to say pretty ugly), chubby, bald, and short (5'8''). I don't have much redeeming qualities. I can draw pretty ...