Pornography: Help and adviceMy husband checks out girls and watches porn online... I'm a little overweight could that be a factor?
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7 November 2009 (F) -
I think i have a huge problem, and i need some advice, i dont know if its me or my husband but it seems like i catch him every other day looking at internet porography, well it will be in the history, he says he loves me but i dont know we have been ...
I can't trust that my boyfriend doesn't fantasise about other girls, how do I stop worrying?
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6 November 2009 (F) -
Ok i need advice and help - especially from the males. I can't afford therapy! I've had a boyfriend for over a year now, and no matter HOW much i read, or WHAT i tell myself, i CANNOT get my head around the issue of porn and fantasizing abou...
How can I stop my addiction and stop these fantasies running through my mind?
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6 November 2009 (F) -
Hi everybody. I'm 16 year old and I have a pretty big problem. I never thought that I'd go through this but it has gone to this extent that I have to get external help. I am and have been addicted to pornography for about 5 months now. Ever since I ...
I hate that my boyfriend watches porn!
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6 November 2009 (F) -
I hate that my boyfriend watches porn. I gave him many pictures of me, and he himself has taken several pictures of us doing stuff. But he doesn't use them at all, he just uses regular big tit porn. I have small boobs, and I'm not as perfect as ...
I found a letter to a student and barely 18 porn in my fiance's closet!
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4 November 2009 (F) -
I have moved in and become engaged to a man who is a high school teacher at a small high school. Recently I was cleaning out a closet for my stuff and found a briefcase. I looked in a briefcase and found various porn and some paperwork. In the ...
Worried I may have come accross dodgy stuff when viewing stuff on free porn sites! Is this a common worry?
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4 November 2009 (M) -
Hi I am worried becouse I have been viewing porn on the internet on the free porn sites such as porntube and the like. I have used standerd search terms but sometimes have seen images/links to videos that appeared dodgy. The greatest consern to me ...
Wife chooses porn over me!
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4 November 2009 (M) -
Im 30 and my wife is 24. I found lots of porn in my wife's computer, this doesn't bother me or make mad. The problem is that I don't feel sexually satisfied at all. We have sex once a month with luck. Everytime I want have sex with her she is tired, ...
Raped by two men and troubled by porn
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4 November 2009 (F) -
[Moderator note: some spelling errors corrected, paragraphs added for easier reading] So to start off my question I'd like to say that I was drugged and raped by two guys a couple of years back. But My question is that the last thing I remember...
What is so wrong about me and my body?
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3 November 2009 (F) -
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years, we live together and he tells me we are going to be together, we've talked about marriage and tells me I'm beautiful, although I don't feel that way! I just found out that he has been lying ...
Why is porn regarded as such a bad thing in couples?
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2 November 2009 (F) -
i just have to ask peoples opinions on this, why is porn such a no-no when it comes to couples? my partner and i enjoy naughty weekends where we explore our kinkier side and watch and make our own porn (to be viewed by only us i stress!!) but i hea...
My husband lied to me about porn use.I am afraid this is the beginning of the end.
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2 November 2009 (F) -
I was out oftown for a couple of days and my husband found a porn magazine tha hadnt gotten shredded when we aed that it was t going to be a part of married life that we were embarking on year ago. I knew I should've shredded it when I found it a ...
I'm having trust issues over the porn and text messages to a dominatrix!
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29 October 2009 (F) -
HELP!! I am Having TRUST ISSUES due to Porn Sites I found my BF visiting!!!!!!!!! Its been almost a month since I have confronted him with what I found...including text mesages to an AD he answered about wanting to b dressed and dominated! I bel...
Is my husbad using porn as a weapon? Is he a heartless jerk?
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26 October 2009 (F) -
when my husband and i started out, i was ok with watching porn as a couple and i let him know that. porn wasn't a problem for me until our sex life turned downhill and i found the underside of our bed peppered with porn! now porn is an issue bc now ...
Is a woman's worth tied to her breast size?
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26 October 2009 (F) -
I have many issues with my body. I hate having small breasts, because men may accept small ones, but secretly they all want big! My boyfriend masturbates to big chested women. Also I don't have all the time in the world to exercise, sure I...
Should I avoid hanging out with people that are gay?
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25 October 2009 (F) -
Hey everyone, I need some adivce. I'll try and make this short and sweet and to the point. In March of this year, I was diagnosed with OCD, more specifically HOCD. It's been a problem ever since it started and while it's gotten better, it's not...
My husband slapped me and left for the titty bar!
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25 October 2009 (F) -
How can I finally say I am done My husband has a drinking problem and addicted to pornografy. Today he slap me and left to a adult entertaiment I know because I call him he was there...
My boyfriends addicted to porn and barley has sex with me
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24 October 2009 (F) -
my bf and i have been together for years,we live together and i knew he liked porn,but now,he is putting porn under the sink,in his mp3 player,everywhere.we have sex like once a week and i tried to come on to him,he declined,later that night he is ...
Should I feel guilty about watching porn?
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24 October 2009 (M) -
I watch a lot of porn and can't help myself everytime I try to stop. Should I feel guilty about this?...
I don't want to control him but I don't like him looking at pornography!
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23 October 2009 (F) -
Hello there, I have a horrible feeling that I can't get rid of. It's probably quite common but I need to get over it. My boyfriend always said he didn't look at porn and wasn't interested in other women, just me, which i knew sounded too good...
I will leave my husband as I have been living a lie, what is your advice?
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22 October 2009 (F) -
When I married my husband I was so in love. I trusted him but recently found out he had betrayed me by spending thousands and thousands of pounds not only on gambling but on other women. I found text messages from a girl, called Claire... and I ...
Help with my boyfriend that's addicted to porn, but still has sex with me. I feel like I'm his sloppy seconds.
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22 October 2009 (F) -
My boyfriend masturbates to porn everyday. He still has sex with me, but it makes me feel horrible about myself because I am a very attractive woman that is in my early 40's. I look very good for my age. Men tell me all the time that any guy ...
Porn addiction vs wanting a real relationship
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21 October 2009 (F) -
I have been seeing a man I have fallen in love with for nearly 3 years.I think he has an addiction to porn and I can't discuss it with him, but I need to understand more before I decide to walk away. We have both come from long term marriages a...
I flashed him online and now I'm worried he'll put it on Youtube...
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21 October 2009 (F) -
Hi.I have something worry about last night. I had met with that guy on the internet. We chat at online last night. Its our first time chatting. We was chatting about 3 hours and we have little conversation about sex. And I've show him my upper body ...
How do I control my excessive sexual desires?
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20 October 2009 (M) -
I have excessive sexual desires and I have no idea how to control it. I am 28 years old but there’s no sign of me getting married soon since I am still not financial well off....doing part time jobs here and there. Most of the time , I masturba...
What do the guys in porn movies do?
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20 October 2009 (M) -
Hi. I m 21. I have a simple question. P.E is a common problem nowadays. I want to know what do the guys in porn movies do? I mean they keep it inside the girl for a considerable time and stroke at 90 miles/hr. How do they do it? Are there some ...
Could too much sex cause his testicles to hurt?
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20 October 2009 (F) -
Okay here we go, I have a few questions all wrapped in one. Me and my husband are going through a rough patch. I told him I didn’t like him watching porn he said he would stop a week later I saw him masturbating to pictures of his ex. He said he ...
How can I tell my husband it hurts me that he hides porn?
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20 October 2009 (F) -
My question is how do I tell my husband that it hurts me when he watches and hides porn? I have told him I would watch it with me and that doesn't work. I have tried dressing up in sexy clothes and that doesn't work either. I have found porn under ...
Why is my b/f allowed to look at this kind of stuff and I'm not?
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19 October 2009 (F) -
I am an insecure teenage girl. Sounds like the typical teenager but even my friends think my insecurities are weird. The thing is, lately my boyfriend of 7months has been asking to by ZOO magazines [a 'car mag' with spreadsheets and pages upon pages ...
My boyfriend carries around naked pictures of his exes!
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19 October 2009 (F) -
My bf of 10 months, but we worked together for a year n a half prior ... Has a lunchbox full of nude pics of himself w/ him, exes end , exwife. They are all very tiny and apparently very comfortable w/ themselves. I believe that he loves me and may ...
He uses porn for sex instead of me!
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18 October 2009 (F) -
Since me and my partner have been going through a bit of a rough patch for the past few weeks, we haven't been having sex. I recently found some porn websites on his phone...(I was borrowing his phone, as mine broke.) and he had googled up 'hot ...
Will he enjoy porn more than he does talking to me?
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17 October 2009 (F) -
My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. We connect by having phone sex almost everyday. But all the sudden, it has seemed to stop. He doesn't want it as much and says it doesn't turn him on like it used to. I don't mind not having ...
Should I leave a marriage after 30 years over my recent discoveries?
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16 October 2009 (F) -
History: Married 30+ yrs. Just found out he's emailing old school friends (women), adding girls (20 yr. olds!) on facebook, porn addicted, and hiding large sums of money. I got nothing for our anniversary. He gave his gift back and told me to re...
How do I tell my husband that it hurts me when he looks at porn?
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16 October 2009 (F) -
My question is how do I tell my husband that it hurts me when he looks at porn and hides it from me. I have told him over and over again that it hurts me. His response is that he will stop and he doesn't I love him a lot and don't want lose him. ...
How do I silence the issue in my own head and overcome the trauma?
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15 October 2009 (M) -
(dyslexic so please excuse my spelling, punctuation etc) I was in a relationship for several years with a girl who I remain friends with now. I was not a good partner and as a consequence of my own issues and sadness in the relationship I d...
Urgent Help- sexually confused 18yr old male!
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15 October 2009 (M) -
I was going through a stage of wanking over gay porn for a while then as soon as cumming I imagine a girl or tits etc(I stopped a few days ago), and it is really confusing me because I find girls attractive and have only ever fancied girls but ...
Does watching porn movies constitute cheating?
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15 October 2009 (M) -
When I was in a relationship with my ex-girlfriend, I used to watch porn movies twice or thrice in a week..in fact i still watch it. Whenever she would ask me that do you watch porn movies? I would answer saying that last time I watched porn movie ...
How can I make him realise that if he helps stop my insecurities I will be able to give him more in our relationship?
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13 October 2009 (F) -
My other half and I will have been together 2 years this November. These 2 years have been very hard for us, when we first met we were both quite heavy into drugs, I cheated twice and he would lie to me and ditch me to go to raves. I got told plenty ...
How do I leave my husband so I can have a happy life?
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13 October 2009 (F) -
We have been married for 5 yrs now. My husband never flirts with me nor he never takes me out. We always have sex but we have never made love. My husband has got lots of cyber relationships which i have lost count of. Each time i find out we have a ...
What can I do to fix our sexual problems?
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13 October 2009 (F) -
im a 51 y/o female my partner is a 54 y/o male, we have been together about 8 mths and at first our sex life was FANTASTIC, as usual, he said he had a high sex drive which suited me just fine, he has been on anti-depressants since before we met, and ...
Does he really like me? Or will he cheat due to his porn habits?
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12 October 2009 (F) -
Hi everybody. I've seeing this man for 2years and he never have girlfriend before.He is 30 years now.But I don't believe it.Its imposible never had girl before.Do you guys think he lie to me.And his family said that's true.He dating some girl before ...
Shouldn't porn be the least of your worries?
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11 October 2009 (F) -
Why is it that some women(who have had multiple partners) worry over their current partner's (who has also had multiple partners) use of porn? Wouldn't having had various sexual encounters with various different people make porn the least of y...
What should I do with a husband who has so many addictions?
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10 October 2009 (F) -
ive been married for 5 years now and i made the mistake of not getting to know the man first ,soo i feel responsible for where im at today .before i married him i seen he had a lot of girly magazines around ,told him i will not tolerate porn in my ...
Why did he delete the sexy photos I sent him?
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9 October 2009 (F) -
i took a sexy picture of myslef in lingerie for my man, put it on his computer for him as a surprize and he deletes it!!!!! what the flying fuck? i'm not fat i'm not unattractive so what the hell? i've asked him about it but haven't got a response ...
I just keep asking myself if I'm gay
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8 October 2009 (M) -
hi 26 and ive been attracted to females all my life,im in a serious relationship but latley ive been asking myself am i gay,i cant get it out of my head.when im around other males i get an uneasy feeling and my thoughtss run wild,not in a sexual way ...
She told me to get porn then changed her mind, what gives?
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7 October 2009 (M) -
My wife and I were talking recently about porn, just in general. We don't watch it or anything. During the conversation I brought the fact that one of our favourite TV shows was used as a basis for a pornographic film. She said that it sounded ...
Where is the line when you're dating and heading further into your committment?
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7 October 2009 (F) -
Not another question about porn!? I'm looking for some specific advice on here, and I can't seem to find anything else online specific to what I'm dealing with. I've been dating my guy for two years now, and I'm pretty sure we're going to end up ...
We put on gay porn and had sex am I gay
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7 October 2009 (F) -
Ok i have a problem, A few weeks ago I bunch of my buddies and I went out to a bar we got really drunk and one of my buddies decided to crash at my house. We were bored and put on porn, we weere just talking when we looked up and didnt ever realize ...
How am I supposed to sit with a bunch of guys I don't know and watch porn? Who's in the wrong here?
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7 October 2009 (F) -
Last night my bf started yelling at me heaps because when I met his friends I was quiet and shy. However, I do feel I had good reasons for acting the way I did. Here is why: 1. I didnt even technically "meet them". I mean, he didn't introduc...
He's accepted a job that will keep him away from home for 4 weeks at a time; I'm afraid he'll look at porn while he's gone
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7 October 2009 (F) -
My husband recently accepted a job (without my opinion) that will keep him away for 30 days at a time versus coming home every 2 weeks as he did before. He works on a riverboat with men only and with this new job, I will only see him for a total of ...
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