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Pornography: Help and advice

How do I tackle this problem of watching too much porn?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted today

20 November 2009 (M - hi cupid, am a young guy of 22. i have a serious issue that disturbed my life sometimes and trying to stop this but it's just like pouring water on the stone. I have sexual feelings whenever I see a woman naked or watch a porn movie not only that, ...

He just wont touch, kiss or hold me...and we've only been married 46 days!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted today

20 November 2009 (F - Hi. I've been married for just under 2 months, been with him 5 years. We're both 25. Lived together for 3 years. In the past 2 years, our sex life has diminished drastically. Mind you, in the past two years, he's been in University doing a ...


   

I love her dearly but really don't know if the feeling is mutual anymore

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

18 November 2009 (M - I am a 47 year old male, my partner is 32 we have been together for about 12 years now and have a lovely six year old daughter. I tell her i love her everyday,she only says this if i have said it first. if i go to cuddle her its as though i am in he...

My husband's addiction to porn is destroying our lives!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted yesterday

17 November 2009 (F - i have been with my husband for 6 years, and during this time he has lied about watching and using pornography. he has an addition to it, he has even watched porn at his work and lost his job and lost a lot of respect from friends and family. beca...

He watches porn all the time and it's doing my head in!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

17 November 2009 (F - My fella watches porn an I've explained to him how it makes me feel, it makes me feel like I'm no good in bed, and I'm wondering is he thinking of those women when we are having sex? I also explained to him that its getting me down. I dont feel the ...

   

I feel so betrayed... he's addicted to porn.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

16 November 2009 (F - Hi I was in a very abusive marriage for 12 years and had 3 children when i got divorced i never thought i'd find anyone who would meet up to my standards but i did, we decided to move in together after 3 years of dating and shortly after found out ...

Am I wasting my time in this relationship, will I ever be what he wants or does this not exsist?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

15 November 2009 (F - hi, where do i start? i am currently in a relationship that is not going too well in the bedroom department. We have been together for just over 3 years now, not a great 3 years if im honest, i think this all comes down to him, at first our sex life ...

I need help to stop masturbating

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

15 November 2009 (F - i am a 21 year old gal and i masturbate a lot. i know its wrong and i wish to stop. however i keep succumbing to temptation. i have a loving boyfriend and we have a decent sex life. i wish to limit myself only to him. and stop all with watching or ...

He would rather sit and watch porn than have sex with me any more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

14 November 2009 (F - hi there, Can anyone give me any advice? Is there something seriously wrong if my partner of 20 years doesnt want to have sex with me any more but would rather watch porn?...

Caught my husband chatting porn site..please I need your advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7 days ago

14 November 2009 (F - Im a pregnant wife im 22,just having problem wtih my husband porn,even b4 i knew it but its ok i ignore but now i think its to much....now my husband is in georgia while me here in mississippi he'll be in gergia till dec 4 ,one time i open his ...

Is it normal for a girl to watch porn videos online?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

12 November 2009 (F - Is it normal for a girl to watch porn videos online? My friends commented that it is disgusting for girls to do so but I have to confess that I always watch them and masturbate after that. Is it normal or am i a weirdo?...

Why does he prefer masturbation over a beautiful loving wife he says he loves?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

12 November 2009 (F - I need some good professional or exact advice from a professioal or from someone that has gone through what I am going through! I have a no sex marriage, when I no sex I mean no sex, in any way, touch or any form at all whats so ever. My husband ...

My husband masturbated to porn while my 15 month old watched tv!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted yesterday

11 November 2009 (F - I’m at a bit of a loss. I posted earlier about my husband’s obsessive use of porn as well as masturbating to pictures of his ex. Since that post he’s been caught two more times looking at porn. I haven’t seen anything more on his ex…but I could just ...

Hubby watches women live on their web cams and chats with them - is this cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

9 November 2009 (F - Hi everyone, I was hoping for a bit of advice on the subject of the boundries between porn, and cheating. I would especially appreciate a male perspective, although all answers are welcome. The problem is this. My husband, as like a lot o...

Whats wrong if a man can only reach orgasm through masturbation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

8 November 2009 (F - Hello Aunts I have a question for a friend. She recently revealed to me that she is having sex problems with her husband. They have sex for hours but he won't cum. She thinks there is something wrong with her because he can masturbate while watching ...

Is porn to blame?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 12 days ago

8 November 2009 (F - hi im 22 and iv been married for 4 years and i love my husband and i do everything i do my hair, makeup and ect. you name it i do it. but in the end i dont feel that hes intrested in me he sais that hes tired and he only wants it once a week, and i ...

Should I leave my wife? She held my viewing of porn against me for years... now I find it on her laptop!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

8 November 2009 (M - Let me start from the beginning. I love my wife and in the beginning of our relationship everything was perfect until she found some porn in my computer the same day that we have had sex. I explained to her that it was nothing to worry about and ...

My husband checks out girls and watches porn online... I'm a little overweight could that be a factor?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

7 November 2009 (F - I think i have a huge problem, and i need some advice, i dont know if its me or my husband but it seems like i catch him every other day looking at internet porography, well it will be in the history, he says he loves me but i dont know we have been ...

I can't trust that my boyfriend doesn't fantasise about other girls, how do I stop worrying?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

6 November 2009 (F - Ok i need advice and help - especially from the males. I can't afford therapy! I've had a boyfriend for over a year now, and no matter HOW much i read, or WHAT i tell myself, i CANNOT get my head around the issue of porn and fantasizing abou...

How can I stop my addiction and stop these fantasies running through my mind?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

6 November 2009 (F - Hi everybody. I'm 16 year old and I have a pretty big problem. I never thought that I'd go through this but it has gone to this extent that I have to get external help. I am and have been addicted to pornography for about 5 months now. Ever since I ...

I hate that my boyfriend watches porn!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

6 November 2009 (F - I hate that my boyfriend watches porn. I gave him many pictures of me, and he himself has taken several pictures of us doing stuff. But he doesn't use them at all, he just uses regular big tit porn. I have small boobs, and I'm not as perfect as ...

I found a letter to a student and barely 18 porn in my fiance's closet!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

4 November 2009 (F - I have moved in and become engaged to a man who is a high school teacher at a small high school. Recently I was cleaning out a closet for my stuff and found a briefcase. I looked in a briefcase and found various porn and some paperwork. In the ...

Worried I may have come accross dodgy stuff when viewing stuff on free porn sites! Is this a common worry?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

4 November 2009 (M - Hi I am worried becouse I have been viewing porn on the internet on the free porn sites such as porntube and the like. I have used standerd search terms but sometimes have seen images/links to videos that appeared dodgy. The greatest consern to me ...

Wife chooses porn over me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

4 November 2009 (M - Im 30 and my wife is 24. I found lots of porn in my wife's computer, this doesn't bother me or make mad. The problem is that I don't feel sexually satisfied at all. We have sex once a month with luck. Everytime I want have sex with her she is tired, ...

Raped by two men and troubled by porn

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

4 November 2009 (F - [Moderator note: some spelling errors corrected, paragraphs added for easier reading] So to start off my question I'd like to say that I was drugged and raped by two guys a couple of years back. But My question is that the last thing I remember...

What is so wrong about me and my body?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

3 November 2009 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years, we live together and he tells me we are going to be together, we've talked about marriage and tells me I'm beautiful, although I don't feel that way! I just found out that he has been lying ...

Why is porn regarded as such a bad thing in couples?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

2 November 2009 (F - i just have to ask peoples opinions on this, why is porn such a no-no when it comes to couples? my partner and i enjoy naughty weekends where we explore our kinkier side and watch and make our own porn (to be viewed by only us i stress!!) but i hea...

My husband lied to me about porn use.I am afraid this is the beginning of the end.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

2 November 2009 (F - I was out oftown for a couple of days and my husband found a porn magazine tha hadnt gotten shredded when we aed that it was t going to be a part of married life that we were embarking on year ago. I knew I should've shredded it when I found it a ...

I'm having trust issues over the porn and text messages to a dominatrix!

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

29 October 2009 (F - HELP!! I am Having TRUST ISSUES due to Porn Sites I found my BF visiting!!!!!!!!! Its been almost a month since I have confronted him with what I found...including text mesages to an AD he answered about wanting to b dressed and dominated! I bel...

Is my husbad using porn as a weapon? Is he a heartless jerk?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

26 October 2009 (F - when my husband and i started out, i was ok with watching porn as a couple and i let him know that. porn wasn't a problem for me until our sex life turned downhill and i found the underside of our bed peppered with porn! now porn is an issue bc now ...

Is a woman's worth tied to her breast size?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

26 October 2009 (F - I have many issues with my body. I hate having small breasts, because men may accept small ones, but secretly they all want big! My boyfriend masturbates to big chested women. Also I don't have all the time in the world to exercise, sure I...

Should I avoid hanging out with people that are gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

25 October 2009 (F - Hey everyone, I need some adivce. I'll try and make this short and sweet and to the point. In March of this year, I was diagnosed with OCD, more specifically HOCD. It's been a problem ever since it started and while it's gotten better, it's not...

My husband slapped me and left for the titty bar!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

25 October 2009 (F - How can I finally say I am done My husband has a drinking problem and addicted to pornografy. Today he slap me and left to a adult entertaiment I know because I call him he was there...

My boyfriends addicted to porn and barley has sex with me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

24 October 2009 (F - my bf and i have been together for years,we live together and i knew he liked porn,but now,he is putting porn under the sink,in his mp3 player,everywhere.we have sex like once a week and i tried to come on to him,he declined,later that night he is ...

Should I feel guilty about watching porn?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

24 October 2009 (M - I watch a lot of porn and can't help myself everytime I try to stop. Should I feel guilty about this?...

I don't want to control him but I don't like him looking at pornography!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

23 October 2009 (F - Hello there, I have a horrible feeling that I can't get rid of. It's probably quite common but I need to get over it. My boyfriend always said he didn't look at porn and wasn't interested in other women, just me, which i knew sounded too good...

I will leave my husband as I have been living a lie, what is your advice?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

22 October 2009 (F - When I married my husband I was so in love. I trusted him but recently found out he had betrayed me by spending thousands and thousands of pounds not only on gambling but on other women. I found text messages from a girl, called Claire... and I ...

Help with my boyfriend that's addicted to porn, but still has sex with me. I feel like I'm his sloppy seconds.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

22 October 2009 (F - My boyfriend masturbates to porn everyday. He still has sex with me, but it makes me feel horrible about myself because I am a very attractive woman that is in my early 40's. I look very good for my age. Men tell me all the time that any guy ...

Porn addiction vs wanting a real relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

21 October 2009 (F - I have been seeing a man I have fallen in love with for nearly 3 years.I think he has an addiction to porn and I can't discuss it with him, but I need to understand more before I decide to walk away. We have both come from long term marriages a...

I flashed him online and now I'm worried he'll put it on Youtube...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

21 October 2009 (F - Hi.I have something worry about last night. I had met with that guy on the internet. We chat at online last night. Its our first time chatting. We was chatting about 3 hours and we have little conversation about sex. And I've show him my upper body ...

How do I control my excessive sexual desires?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 31 days ago

20 October 2009 (M - I have excessive sexual desires and I have no idea how to control it. I am 28 years old but there’s no sign of me getting married soon since I am still not financial well off....doing part time jobs here and there. Most of the time , I masturba...

What do the guys in porn movies do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

20 October 2009 (M - Hi. I m 21. I have a simple question. P.E is a common problem nowadays. I want to know what do the guys in porn movies do? I mean they keep it inside the girl for a considerable time and stroke at 90 miles/hr. How do they do it? Are there some ...

Could too much sex cause his testicles to hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 31 days ago

20 October 2009 (F - Okay here we go, I have a few questions all wrapped in one. Me and my husband are going through a rough patch. I told him I didn’t like him watching porn he said he would stop a week later I saw him masturbating to pictures of his ex. He said he ...

How can I tell my husband it hurts me that he hides porn?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 31 days ago

20 October 2009 (F - My question is how do I tell my husband that it hurts me when he watches and hides porn? I have told him I would watch it with me and that doesn't work. I have tried dressing up in sexy clothes and that doesn't work either. I have found porn under ...

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