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Pornography: Help and advice

His porn viewing has ruined our relationship!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted yesterday

11 May 2008 (F - Hi everybody.I hope you can take sometime to read this, as i am in desperate need of some help. If i may say,i dont want to be told how stupid, immature or pathetic im being. I just need some advice,to really help me out, as my problem is ruini...

My boyfriend has an addiction to amateur porn, is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

11 May 2008 (F - Hi, My boyfriend and I are both 25. We have been dating for 4 months but he has an addiction to amatuer porn. On top of this I found he had a profile on a dating website which is just for sex. He says he only uses it to see amatuer porn and he delet...


   

Are there any men out there not obsessed with porn?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

11 May 2008 (F - I was in a long term relation-ship with a guy who was far from the type who goes after big breasted bimbos, and who was interested in feminism and wanted his girlfriend to be his intellectual partner. Sounds great.But it turned out that he had huge ...

If female nudity was not commercially exploited, would there be more cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

11 May 2008 (F - Here's one for the guys...and women if you want to comment too!.... If there were no such thing as media, porn, dirty magazines, playboy, Hooters restaurants, or any exploitation of sexual suggestion, etc., if strip clubs were never invented...

My boyfriend has a fetish for black haired girls!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

10 May 2008 (F - Hi this is going to seem like an odd problem, but its been bothering me awhile. I've always known that my boyfriend of 3 years has had a fetish for black haired women. It's not a problem, until i begin to think about it, or find something, then it ...

   

Does anyone else mind their boyfriend having porn?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

10 May 2008 (F - am i the only girl who doesnt mind her boyfriend looking at and having porn?...

He got caught masturbating in a shopping centre!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

9 May 2008 (F - My b/f often masturbates to porn, i'm o.k with this and sometimes we watch it together. Anyhow last week he got caught masterbating in a shopping centre, now i think maybe i shouldn't have encouraged him. What do you think?...

I discovered my husband enjoys porn. Now I'm going off sex. How can I rebuild it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

8 May 2008 (F - Okay. So, after I discovered my hubby enjoys watching internet porn, a little too much, I have not felt sexy...at all. I have accepted my hubby's hobby, because it's just who he is, so that isn't my concern as much as my scarred sex ego. Im only 25, ...

Page 3 model on his phone. What next? Heaps of porn?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

8 May 2008 (F - My boyfriend and I were out with his friends the other day, and my boyfriend wanted to show us something on his phone. When he flipped the phone open, there was a picture of a page 3 model which he told us he is using as a screensaver. My ...

I can't cope with his porn habit-Could our marriage survive this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

8 May 2008 (F - Ok, deep breath, here we go. I'm in a lot of pain at the moment and don't know where to turn so I hope someone out there can help me. I've been married for nine months. Three years ago when we were due to move in together I found out that he'...

What do most women feel bout men going to strip clubs?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted today

8 May 2008 (F - Ive been in a relationship for 6 years and am now living with him. Last year he went travelling for a month in Europe and by accident i found a diary from when he was away saying that he'd been to a strip club and had two lap dances. One with one ...

I invited my father to my house to support him through his recovery, only I just discovered he watches child porn! What should my next steps be??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

5 May 2008 (F - Where to start... My father had a heart attack nearly a year ago, as he was living on his own I demanded he moved in with me, my partner and our young daughter, until he made a complete recovery. He moved in, retired from his job, moved out his r...

Do internet porn sites charge you without warning and if so will they be itemised on Dad's bill?-help!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

4 May 2008 (F - Help me!! I know this sounds really pathetic but I'm really concerned. I'm 21 and recently discovered that porn really does it for me. I have been visiting porn sites for the last month. However it only dawned on me this evening that maybe Will it ...

Are his porn mags more important to him than me? Is this normal? What can I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

4 May 2008 (F - I wanted to know if it is normal for your bf to masterbate to porn mag.'s rather than have sex with me? I always want sex, and he knows it, he looks at porn mag.'s while and after work.He always makes sexual advances when i’m sleeping. I feel li...

My husband likes porn and I cant help but notice that the women in the porn he masturbates over always look very different to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

4 May 2008 (F - I have read a lot of the questions and answers on here about porn and there is some interesting reading for sure but I have a question...my husband likes porn and I cant help but notice that the women in the porn he masturbates over always look very ...

My husband has a list of "booty" websites, so...what exactly am I dealing with here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

2 May 2008 (F - I have been married for a little over a year and found out my husband had made this list of "booty" websites he says some guys at work had shown him. I asked why he wrote this stuff down and he says he was just being stupid, being one of the guys ...

My wife watches porn while I'm at work. Why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

1 May 2008 (M - i recently discovered that my wife is watching porn when i'm at work. is this normal? is she doing it for personal pleasure because she is'nt satisfied by me?...

My husband will not stop looking at porn. How can I make him understand?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

30 April 2008 (F - My husband will not stop looking at porn. i have asked him to stop but he does it behind my back. when i catch him he turns the argument around on me. i am a heavy woman and i am trying to lose weight. it hurts me because i believe he thinks i am ...

Is it OK for girls to look at gay porn?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

30 April 2008 (F - is it ok for girls to look at gay porn? my parents said being gay was a sin but i like watching the men in the porn and i am worried for hell. also all my guy friends watch porn but say its not right for girls to watch it so am i weird?...

I've been developing some strange sexual fetishes. Will this affect my relationships?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

30 April 2008 (M - Hi, I am a 24 year old male from England. I am quite a good looking lad and don't really have any problem getting the girls, the only problem is I am confused as to what turns me on at the moment and it is the wrong sort of girls i attract. Si...

I found gay websites in my boyfriend's computer, should I confront him? Is he gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

29 April 2008 (F - I found gay websites in my boyfriends computer, should I confront him? My bf is a people person, very friendly and outgoing. We have been dating for a year now, he is 30 years old. A couple months ago I found gay websites on his computer...

Why do I get so turned on by the girls in the films?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

29 April 2008 (F - Me and my boyfriend often watch porn together.. But I seem to get turned on by girls in the films, my boyfriend says its proberly because I like what the guys doing to them, but I give it way too much thought and end up dreaming about it, it wor...

Should I tolerate his porn watching based on the fact it is harmless visual pleasure compared to actual cheating? Your thoughts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

29 April 2008 (F - Girls, here's one for you, or maybe I should be asking the boys, cus maybe they just might understand better. Anyway this is it. My husband has a thing for porn. At first I wasn't happy about it because it was all done in secret, and when I trie...

Husband watches porn, no matter how I dress or what I do sexually I cannot receive his attention!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

28 April 2008 (F - My husband and I have been married for 5 years this summer, but together for 7 and we have 3 and one on the way. He wont quit looking at the porn and he has even saved pics of these women on his side and added them as an avatar on a game he plays. ...

I've just found out that my girlfriend was an adult movie star, and it makes me feel sick!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

27 April 2008 (M - I've just found out that my girlfriend was an adult movie star, and it makes me feel sick that other people have watched her having sex. She is a great girl who all my family love, and my mom has made it clear that she would be happy for her to join ...

My husband's porn watching has put me in a deep depression, someone help me understand why?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

27 April 2008 (F - I have been married for 5 1/2 years when I discovered my husband was watching a lot of porn. It started when I woke up one night and saw my husband walking to the bathroom with our lap top. He said he had to go to the bathroom but then put the ...

She's addicted to gay porn and it's getting out of control!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

27 April 2008 (M - I have a problem with my girlfriend of five months. She's addicted to gay porn and it's getting out of control. She has always been very honest about her interest in porn. At first, this didn't bother me in the slightest as I watch a lot of porn ...

Is it normal that I find it very relaxing to watch porn?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

26 April 2008 (M - Is it normal that i find it very relaxing to watch porn?...

What do you feel about the issue of men watching porn together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

26 April 2008 (F - (1).what is the opinion of both men and women about the issue of men watching porn together, even if it is heterosexual porn. (2). My husband likes to go a football game in Florida every year, which I have not caused commotion about. Sometimes...

Is his porn wathching affecting our sex life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

26 April 2008 (F - Our sex life is not normal. I initiate sex 100% of the time, and he does it when he knows it's about time or I will be crying from the lack of sex. He does not cum unless he is back from a business trip. If it was up to him we'd probably have sex ...

His run up our bill from sex text lines, but it's never his fault! Is it the end of the road for us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

25 April 2008 (F - my fella and i have been together for 6 years, married for 3. during that time, he has run up huge phone bills to sex txt lines, had txt sex with women that he has met in his working day, had pics of a close family member on his phone and pics of ...

How do I cope with husband's crush on his pictures of a model?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

25 April 2008 (F - My husband and I have been together 11 years. We are young "under 30" and he hides the fact that he looks at porn. He doesnt watch porn and wont watch a porn with me but goes behind my back and looks up this one specific model with big breasts ...

My husband loves to masturbate and I find this a turn-off! It's coming between us..

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

24 April 2008 (F - My husband loves masterbating and i find it such a turn off and upsetting? He always masterbate while watching porn when i'm not home and the times we have sex, it's not special cause he had it yesterday or whenever and i know it . It's always in ...

Porn Wars II-May The Foreskin Be With You

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

23 April 2008 (M - Debates surrounding porn often generate more heat than light and any areas of genuine concern can get blurred when people let their emotions cloud their reason. Porn has always been with us under various guises ever since the cavemen ogled drawings ...

He watches porn to relieve tension and then falls asleep on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

23 April 2008 (F - I have been with my partner for over two years, we were engaged but he left me last november and then hit a rollercoaster of getting back together and breaking up. After a few months we both realised we loved eachother so we are giving it one last ...

How does quitting drinking affect men's sex life? What kind of men would rather masturbate than have sex with the young, sexy wife?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

23 April 2008 (F - I am with a man who on my watch quit drinking. As he was trying to quit drinking (took him 3 attempts) he stopped having sex with me. From often and exciting sex life it went to nothing. After trying different things, we are still together and ...

Possible side effects of watching porn regularly?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

22 April 2008 (M - What are the possible effects of regular watching of hardcore porn?...

Why is he lying about looking at porn?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

22 April 2008 (F - I've been with my bf for 10yrs. now and we've recently been having problems. The situation has been resolved, but now he's looking at porn. I don't know if I should be offended or not. I know he's looking at it, but i can't tell him how I know. He ...

Question for the BOYS and MEN on this site about strip clubs!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

21 April 2008 (F - Hey Question for the BOYS and MEN on this site... ladies are welcome to write their comments as well.... After a boys night out in a Strip club .. coming home to your wife,fiance or girlfriend ... wanting to have sex with her at that moment...

My dilemma is that I don't want my husband to be afraid to be honest with me, even about watching porn! I'm confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

20 April 2008 (? - i'm married to a navy man. he travels alot an we spend alo of time apart. in the beginning of our relationship I found a lot of porn on is computer. he had xx sites saved to his faves. when i asked him about it, he said that it was from a time that ...

I feel like his looking at porn is hurting our relationship, should I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

19 April 2008 (F - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now, and everything is great except for one thing. He looks at porn a lot, almost every day. I knew for months before I confronted him, because he never cleared his history so I saw the large amount...

He gets defensive when I talk about our sex life and porn! How do I talk to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 25 days ago

18 April 2008 (F - I really need some relationship advice. I live with my boyfriend and at first everything was perfect. Then we got near to Christmas and it all started going wrong, I know he used to have a problem smoking cannabis but he quit a yr and a half ago. ...

Why do some married men think it is ok to watch porn?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

18 April 2008 (F - Why do some married men think it is ok to watch porn? I dont see how that is respecting their vow to forsake all others and cherish their wives...Im not religious but believe in commitment in marriage. If I share my body with a man I fee that is a ...

Does anyone know if any bookstores or online sells books on fantasies, etc.???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

17 April 2008 (F - Hi!!! I have a question and it may seem a little wierd, but here it is: I was wondering if they sell books that have like fantasies, outfits and sexual positions. Does anyone know??? If so, would you please tell me where to get those??? Thanks much. ...

My husband keeps asking me why my body doesn't look like the women in porn!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

16 April 2008 (F - My husband keeps asking me why my body doesnt look like the women in porn...I tried explaining to him that after a few kids things change...Im not at all overweight but womens bodies do change in ways that cant be helped after babies like stretch ...

Getting close to someone seems to result in them leaving my life. How do I change this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

16 April 2008 (M - I have found that every time I get close to someone, even best friend, events in one form or another result in them leaving my life. In fact my longest ever best friend was at primary school and I'm 20 now. Things like moving house, bullying etc. ...

Are these indecent materials on his computer? Does he have a fetish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

15 April 2008 (F - My husband has in his computer pictures and clips that are indecent and perhaps illegal. For instance he has dozens of pictures of women wearing bras and panties with a few hairs escaping from one or both sides of the panties and posing before men ...

She demands to know why I masturbated to porn. I DON'T KNOW why I did it! What should I tell her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

14 April 2008 (M - recently my girlfriend caught me on a porn site and now she keeps telling me that i chose that girl over her when i could have masturbated to her but then she will say that all the times that i told her that she was perfect and beautiful was just a ...

He no longer uses porn but I still cannot accept the fact that for my husband sexual arousal was possible with other women, strangers!...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

14 April 2008 (F - have a problem that I realise will seem very silly to some but I honestly am at a loss as to what to do. I love my husband greatly and in the past we have had issues with him using porn. We have been to couples therapy and our relationship has ...

He disgusts me so much! All I see is an old pervert instead of the guy I fell in love with!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 31 days ago

12 April 2008 (F - I'm having some guy issues. I'm going out with a guy who I met online and I have been dating him for 4 1/2 years. It didn't occur to me that he would ever lie to me about his age. But it all started when my mom didnt believe me when I told her he ...

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