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Archived questions from: August, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

I've met some I really like, I don't want to scare her off

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

31 August 2011 (M) - Hi Guys, I've been online dating for a while now and have had lots of dates but - you know how it is - normally they aren't really what you're looking for. However, last week I had a date with this girl and it was truly amazing. She initially ma...

I am 18 seeing a man double my age. Do I tell my mom or let things ride?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - Hi guys i really need your opinion on what to do. I have been seeing this guy who's going to be turning 37 this October, i am 18 turning to 19 next year February. I don't care about the age difference because we talked about it and we are cool with ...

Got family problems going on and me and my boyfriend are fighting constantly

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - I have been with this guy since Febuary 27th 2011; I have known him for a long time... I do love him. I feel so lost with out him. In a way I depend on him alot. But we are constantly fighting. I can not stand it at all. I have so much going on, w...

Am I wrong to want to spend every weekend with my boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - Hi. Here is my issue. Me and my bf have been togther almost 2 years, and i feel there has always been an issue with his friends being very important to him. He works shifts so sometimes I dont get to see him much at weekends. It's not that he spends ...

Not sure wheather to move in together as a family or not

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - hi again you great agony aunts and uncles, i am back again for some advice on what to do, me and my man have been together for over 2 years now, its LDR, and recently we have been having the moving in together talk, but we are unsure what to do, we ...

Should I give b/f a birthday present even if things are strained?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

31 August 2011 (?) - dear cupid, i've been dating this guy on and off since april. here pretty recently, we've kind of been having some struggles--he decided that he doesn't feel as happy in our relationship as he used to. i've talked to my mom and his mom about it...

Is it normal to talk dirty on the phone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4621 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - Is it normal to talk dirty on phone? U will not beleive a guy was upto me since last 5 years. We both used to sudy in the same class. Through his expressions i knew that he liked me a lot, but i always ignored him becoz i didnot want to be in any ...

Is she just with me because I pay for everything? I'm not whom she would normally date

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

31 August 2011 (M) - im 24 yrs old and my girlfriend is 28 yrs old. We have been together for abt 2 months and have been living together for 1 month. I recently got out of a relationship and was very hurt. I love this girl alot and even though she says she loves me alot ...

What do I do? I don't want to be the other woman

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - I met this gorgeous Irish guy in my first year of university and we had a casual relationship, which I am not proud to say was behind my boyfriend's back. I split up with my boyfriend, but the guy I was seeing then got a girlfriend and we lost ...

I'm afraid b/f doesn't love me anymore and I'm too afraid to ask him about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - Ive been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 4 months now and im scared he dosnt love me any more, Im so in love with him that I think about him all day everyday but he dosnt seem as interested any more, ive noticed the little things like he d...

He has only made love to me twice in 5 years!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - I have been living with my boyfriend for the last 9 years after moving from the UK to Canada to be with him. I love him more than anything, but there is a problem with our relationship in the bedroom department. He has only made love to me twice in ...

Are all woman like this? Or are some more faithful and genuine than my ex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

31 August 2011 (M) - I'm just wondering if I'm too trusting or maybe too innocent. I've only been involved in a relationships, on two separate occasions, each time with the same person. In each case she cheated on me with an ex boyfriend. In fact it turns out that s...

How does one get over a past abusive relatonship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - I have a question that is been bothering me lately and would love to get opinions on it. I got out of an emotionally abusive relationship about a year and a half ago.(To make the story short I was never good enough) even though people say i should ...

My boyfriend has become jealous and controlling...should I break up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4621 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has been acting very controlling lately because there are guys who were my long time friends that has a crush on me. Even though I told him I don't act upon it and we're only friends , he say he trust me but that I should stop talking ...

Do I break up with my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - I'm extremely depressed. I told my boyfriend, and he sort of helps, says a few words of encouragement, but then if I dont pursue it, he will drop the topic. He has no idea how truly miserable I am, crying myself to sleep, dark thoughts, etc et...

At what point in a relationship do you say I love you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - I have been in an LDR for two years. I have met my boyfriend this past year. He treated me so adoringly I began to feel very nervous. It was almost like I was watching him fall in love with me. We have never said I love you to each other, but ...

I want my boyfriend to get fillings before he meets my mother

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - How do I ask my boyfriend to please get his fillings back? It's two of his front teeth. He had told me he lost them again from very bad gritting of his teeth during sleep. He had always been very cautious with his mouth until I asked him. I told him ...

Should I leave my partner because we are at different stages in life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - I met my partner 3 months before we became a couple. We were just friends and got along really well. He became one of my best friends very quickly and we ended up getting stronger feelings for each other. We have been together for 3 months now...

One minute I want to break up with my boyfriend the next minute I cant live without him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - Hi, I've been having a strange issue for the past few months, and I'm wondering if Im bipolar. Sometimes I feel I really need to break up with my boyfriend,and other days I feel I cant live without him. These "need to break up" feelings can tur...

Will my strategy to ask her out work?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

31 August 2011 (M) - She's a good friend, I think we both have feeling for each other, so Im going to make the first move and ask if we could date. Would it be fine (put yourself in her shoes) if I asked her if she had time to quickly meet up during the weekend so t...

How do I ask my boyfriend if he sees himself married again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - I have been dating a great guy for 7 months now. I am 43 and he is 46. I have been divorced for 5 years and he for 10. We really like each other a lot. We have a lot in common. We like each other's kids. We get along well and have good ...

My work crush is planning to move away. Should I make a move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4622 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - I have been working with a guy for 5 months now and I really though he was interested but he hasn't made a move yet which has been frustrating. Then today he talked about how he's thinking of moving away. What do I do?! He's freelance and on...

I don't want to lose this guy by sharing my feelings.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - So here's the story, my brother has this close friend and I've had a crush on him for like 3-4yrs. I don't know if this is infatuation but whatever it is it's really strong, and i'm not the emotional type.. I've had relationships with other men b...

I think my boyfriend is in jail. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - I haven't heard from my LDR boyfriend in 12 days. First off I'll tell you a bit about our relationship. We started talking online 5 years ago but we just met and started dating in January of this year. He lives in the US and I live in Canada but we ...

I couldn't take back my ex, and now I wished I had!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

30 August 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, right now I have no idea what to do. Anyone that can give me words of comfort, advice or anything would help me so much. I will try to explain what has happened as best I can and show how i feel as much as possible. Basically, it ...

Is it possible for us to not have sex for the 4-5 years before we get married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - Hi! Here's my problem.i and my bf have been dating for 8 months now and we have not had sex with each other.i'm a virgin but he is not.we agreed not to have sex until we are married which could be in 4-5 years time.we only only have make out ...

What is he playing at? Should I just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - What is he playing at? should I just move on? There's this guy that I really like. We're chatting and getting to eachother at the moment. But he's putting me off him.. He's playing hard to get, I really hate it cos I like him a lot. We ...

I'm just dying to know what he thought of me, and if we will see each other again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - I went out for drinks this past weekend with a man who I had met briefly by chance about a month before. This time,he noticed me on a dating site,and we got to talking and made plans to get together. I had a wonderful time with him,and I actually...

My girlfriend is very talkative, how do I make her change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

30 August 2011 (M) - Dear dearcupid, My girlfriend is hell of a talkative and she doesn't know when to stop. She eats the brain out of me when gets started. Yeah, I have to admit that between she also makes me laugh with her sharp sense of humour but 80% her talk is ...

I don't want to have the rep of a girl who makes out with a lot of guys but I'm moving so, I really want to make out with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4622 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - So there is this guy I like and he likes me. We have hung out a few times but then we both went away for the summer. He is back today and we are hanging out on friday the thing is he has been hinting about fooling around. I would love to make out ...

I know I'm not good enough for him. Should I just let him go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

30 August 2011 (?) - Hi, I've been seeing this guy for a year and a half. We dated for a month last year in May, then we broke up because he was still in love with his ex and I didn't want to compete with her, so we decided to break up until he got over her. We continue...

My friends' stupid comments are ruining my chances with girls

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

30 August 2011 (M) - Ok. I am not attractive to girls not because of my appearence but because of the rest people. I will explain this. Many girls compliment me for my appearence and don't have a problem with my personality. However when I am around guys I know, these ...

Our fairytale relationship has lost its spark

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 and a half years now. Since 10th grade, and back then, he was so romantic and wanted nothing more than for me to be his girlfriend. I feel like the start of our relationship, and how we both had crushes on ...

My FWB is dating someone else, but still wants sex with me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

30 August 2011 (?) - We had a friends with benefits type thing for a while. He said it was because we live too far apart and I accepted that. Now he's dating a girl who lives near him but still wants to sleep with me. He calls me "hot" etc I feel ugly :( I'm not easy a...

She will go out with me, but only as friends. Any suggestions?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

30 August 2011 (M) - I have a friend who I have known for years, and she has split up from her long term Boyfriend. we have messed around when she was tipsy, kissing etc. I have just asked here out for a date but got the reply she would love to but just as friends....

Does my male best friend still have feelings for me even though he has a girlfriend now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4622 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - Right, I have had a male best friend for over 6 months now, but we both feel like it has been forever! in the first 2 months, we started flirting, texting 24/7, i got told he was a player by many people but i really liked him, so i just ignored ...

Is it normal to only want a really attractive woman? Or am I just disillusioned with an unreal fantasy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

30 August 2011 (M) - okay I don't wanna seem shallow or anything of the sort but I have a dilemma ive been facing for a good while while in the dating world. Since as far back as I can remember I always pictured my self with a beautiful woman and lately ive been finding ...

How long should I wait to see if he contacts me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - how long do i wait before i move on? Went on a first date, at the end he said 'you should holler at me some time' i said okay, but im not one to 'holler' at guys. so am i supposed to contact him first?? i would just like to wait to see if he ...

I don't even know how to react! After 7 years part of me wants to move on, but then another part of me cant let go.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

30 August 2011 (M) - Bear with me this is a long one. Alright so 7 years ago a friend of mine introduced me to this girl over the phone while I was in summer vacation in my home town, we immediately hit it off and kept in touch through the phone, a few days later I...

All I want is to feel like he wants to talk to me. . . is that so much to ask?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4622 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - I'm trying to keep this as concise as possible, but there's a chance I'll ramble on, so if this seems too long, feel free to ignore it entirely. I won't be hurt. This June, I went to a camp at Stanford. I met a guy there. We spent three weeks hang...

Didn't hear from him for a month??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - I've been dating this guy for 5yrs and I haven't heard from him in over a mouth until today he texts me like nothing should I respound bck oh and yeah his bithday is coming to shold I call him or just leave it alone?...

My girlfriend got emotional when I told her I wanted to join the military.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

30 August 2011 (M) - Hey everybody in in a bit of a situation with my girlfriend. I'm considering a career in the US army or air force and when intold her she just Bursted into tears and told me that if she lost me. She would he losing the person who actually cares ...

How can I show my boyfriend that his violence toward me is wrong?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - Dear Cupids, Please help! My boyfriend seems to think there is nothing wrong (technically) with pushing/shoving me and grabbing things out of my hands if he is angry. He also does this motion where he makes a fist and comes at me as though he will ...

Get a lady just by changing the way you talk!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

29 August 2011 (M) - The way you carry yourself, dress, talk, or even walk can either attract a potential mate, or repel her. In other words, you need to develop some “swagger”. So when you decide to approach a woman of your interest, you need to do the following: ...

Three kids! How do I tell my mom about him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - Hiya Hope you can help me, I just need some advice. I am 31 with no children. I really want children one day. I jave recently met a wonderful guy. He adores me, I love being with him when we get the chance and I feel very happy with him. ...

How can I confess my feelings towards my cousin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

29 August 2011 (M) - How and When can I confess my feeling towards my cousin? She is my third cousin to be exact... but i think the word "cousin" have corrupted it all. Here's a detail background on how we've met. In 2004, around the beginning of the fourth an...

Six years and he still won't set a date??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years, we have been engaged for 6. We do not live together, in fact we only get to see each other maybe once or twice a week because of his work schedule. I love him so much and he says the same. But we ...

Torn between my guy and my best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - Ok I have a bit of a problem I,m currently dating a guy who i really really like and we've been dating for near a month now. I met him through my best friends friends. he's the friends brother. Two weeks ago he stood me up and I was heartbroken ...

We have a spark but he's a really busy guy. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - I'm 18, he's 20. We've met up a few times and we've kissed on the last two meet ups. The 1st time we kissed, it was a simple kiss, which lasted around a minute. The 2nd time we kissed, we couldnt keep our lips off of each other. And he said that ...

Do I risk the friendship by asking my friend out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

29 August 2011 (M) - I've liked my friend for a long time now and I was going to tell her/ask her out yesterday. The problem is I haven't seen her for a while before last night and I met this other girl during that time. She's pretty and fun and just a prospect. She'...