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Dating: Help and advice

I want first date to turn into relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1972 days ago

30 November 2018 (F) - I have been doing online dating for the past 4-5 years. I have made a couple of friends from it which was a bonus. I have been chatting to a guy for a few week now and are meeting this weekend. He had had really bad health over the last 3 month and ...

I want to approach her but don't know how to talk to her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1971 days ago

29 November 2018 (M) - Hello , I am in my 20's male, I recently got admitted to a new college, And I met a girl who I really fell in love with, But Im scared to talk to her because I am an introvert from childhood, and I get nervous when I talk to people, and screw up my ...

He knows I like him but went on a date with someone else. Is that a sure sign he doesn't care for me like I do for him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1974 days ago

26 November 2018 (F) - Hi, So there's this guy that I work with who I have a crush on. He knows i like him actually but i dont know how he feels. Anyway we talk a lot at work and have started talking outside of work too. Well he told me today how he went on a date this...

What's the optimum compromising point in a relationship? How do I balance boundaries and insecurities?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1975 days ago

26 November 2018 (F) - I'm doing a lot of soul searching, so I'll probably be on here a lot asking questions that to every one else sound like common sense. Please bare with me, I'm a lost person. How to i know the difference between being irrational or having m...

I'm beginning to feel that its me vs my boyfriends flatmates

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1969 days ago

26 November 2018 (F) - Been with my partner for about a year and half (the first year was spent being long distance) before he moved back up here where we see each other every weekend (due to work). Lately, I have felt we are arguing/disagreeing more and I'm getting ...

The guy I'm dating isn't feeling well I don't want to overwhelm him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1975 days ago

25 November 2018 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 6 weeks. It’s been going very well other than the past month he’s not felt good. He never gets sick, and when he does it’s for a few days. He has been to the doctor 3 times and it has not seemed to help. He’s obviously ...

My boyfriend who is broke pretends to take control of my economy and my bank.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1980 days ago

22 November 2018 (F) - Me (22) and my boyfriend (26) went on a trip that we didn´t plan. At first it seemed like a good idea because he was about to get some money for having quit his job, and someone was about to send him money that the person owed to me. I spent al...

What could be going on with this guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1980 days ago

22 November 2018 (F) - So last year I was meeting this guy for a while (about 2 months) and to my shock he told me that he was going to prison. He had gotten mixed up with the wrong crowd something to do with drugs and he got sentenced. We agreed to not talk whilst he’s ...

How do I stop being desperate and clingy when dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1900 days ago

22 November 2018 (F) - Hi I am in mid twenties. My previous and first relationship was with a guy from high school . We were together for 6 years and he cheated on me. It was very messy and painful breakup. I made him like centre of my universe and did all compromises ...

How do I get my gf to have sex with me again? If she doesn't, then how do I cope with not having sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1979 days ago

21 November 2018 (M) - Hello everybody I have been with my girl for a year. we love each other. but since from early on our sex life has been pretty minimal. only when she drinks she initiates sex. but now she doesn’t drink we have talked about it and she says she...

Is he interested in sex? Companionship? What?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1979 days ago

21 November 2018 (F) - I’m utterly confused and would love your help. A man I’ve known for years has been texting me with cryptic messages. We live in different states. He asked me to visit him. I laughed it off. But he asked again and nowI know he’s serious. He teases ...

My boyfriend's best friend doesn't like me and is trying hard to get him away from me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1982 days ago

21 November 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for around six months. I have a 16 month old son so things have gotten pretty serious between the pair of us. The relationship is great and he’s going to propose at Christmas. However his best friend never li...

She's 18, I'm 25. Am I a creep for talking to her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1976 days ago

20 November 2018 (M) - I've been doing some online speed dating to fire up my social life. Recently I met a girl (and fellow foodie). It was almost too easy to small talk my way to a date this Thursday. The problem is, she is 18... She just finished highschool and is ...

Did my date make up this fake story just to get a reaction out of me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1979 days ago

20 November 2018 (F) - ive got a date lined up for this weekend. The guy i have been speaking to seems nice and not fake. Weve seen each others social media and have spoken on the phone. Today he texted me with a very strange message. He said last night he got a call off ...

I really like her and I'm wondering when and how to tell her... But I don't know if she likes me too

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1982 days ago

20 November 2018 (M) - There's this girl I work with and I really like her. We've hung out a few times with other friends, but I don't know if she likes me the same way cause she'll tell me that we're just friends but her body language says different. We play around w...

I'm confused! Is she interested or playing hard to get?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1983 days ago

19 November 2018 (M) - Hey Guys, So I met a girl a few weeks ago. We had a great night really flirty and she actually would have come home with me if one of her guy her friends hadn't literally dragged her away. We sent a few messages in the following week a...

I think he's going through a midlife crisis he went to Thailand and met a girl and he doesn't know that I know

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 1981 days ago

18 November 2018 (F) - I have been dating a man for over a year who has just recently gone through a divorce. (Nothing to do with me). I felt he used me as a punching bag as he was very angry about the divorce although I knew he loved me. He stopped speaking to me f...

Should I ask my boyfriend if he knows what his friend says about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1985 days ago

18 November 2018 (F) - Recently a friend of mine was talking to me about an interaction she had with one of her guy friends, lets call him Brian. Brian happens to also be close friends with my boyfriend and lived with him last year. While my friend was hanging out with ...

Should I talk to him about my concerns? Or just cool things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1985 days ago

18 November 2018 (F) - Hi all, wanting some relationship/life advice please! I split up from a long term relationship back in June this year. I lived with him for 3 years, we were together about 3.5 years and it ended badly with no closure. I was very much in love wit...

I've fallen hard for him but do I wait?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1985 days ago

17 November 2018 (F) - Hey Cupids :) I've been single for 2 years. A few months ago, I started talking to a guy who I first met 3 years ago. He's now single, but is still very affected by his break-up (from 5/6 months ago-I think they were together a couple of years....

Been out a few times but I got Cancelled on, was this the right response?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1984 days ago

17 November 2018 (M) - As the title said, we've been out a few times already. Hasn't really been much of a spark but it seems like given time it could go somewhere. However this last time I asked her out I was cancelled on, not last minute but still cancelled on ...

Is there a genuine man out there who will not take advantage of me and use my weaknesses against me? How can I learn to trust again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1986 days ago

17 November 2018 (F) - How did you regain trust once you lost it for the oppsotite sex . I have a very hard time trusting men. I have had few ralsrionships and one long one - I have only been open and the “real” me in my first relationship with my ex bf (5years) where he ...

Am I being unreasonable asking him not to meet up with an old flame?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1980 days ago

16 November 2018 (F) - Hello Cupids I have been with my partner for six years and living together for three. Yesterday he told me that he has been meeting up with a woman he sort of used to see and I'm not sure how to take it. We all met in university, and the pair ...

I've lost the people in my family that I was closest to and I'm depressed, anxious and low

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1984 days ago

16 November 2018 (F) - Over the last 12 months I haven’t been feeling myself. I lost my grandad 7 years ago, my mother 4 years ago and my grandmother almost a year ago. They played a significant part in my childhood, obviously, as my mother raised myself and my sister o...

I'm 22 and she's 35 should I continue the relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1983 days ago

15 November 2018 (M) - I met an amazing woman the other day. I've already gone out with her a couple of times and we've even had sex. The only thing is that she's 35 and I'm 22. She also has a 10 year old boy. I've tried to talk myself out of this a million times, but ...

How do I make his 2 year old son like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1986 days ago

15 November 2018 (F) - Hi everyone! I started dating a man recently and he has a 2 year old boy from a previous relationship. I met his kid twice so far and he doesn't seem to like me at all! He turns his head around when i talk to him and he doesn't want to talk to me or ...

Was I expecting too much of my boyfriend regarding his ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1987 days ago

14 November 2018 (F) - Recently a friend of mine told me that she saw my boyfriend's ex working at a nearby shopping outlet. She is working there part time to earn extra holiday cash. History of my boyfriend and his ex : They remained friends for a whole year after hi...

My LDR knows all about me while I know very little about him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1989 days ago

14 November 2018 (F) - Hi! In need of some opinions on my long distance relationship. I'll give you the backstory: We've been together for almost a year now, meeting on a dating app but didn't date right away. At the time we were matched, I learned that he was just in the ...

I need to tell my family that I was duped!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1989 days ago

13 November 2018 (F) - Hi All. Please bear with as this is quite complicated. So I’m 30 years old, had a few relationships before my current one. This time i thought it was never going to end. We have been living together for 4 years. He is of a different race religi...

Baby daddy is secure financially but I love a poor refugee.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1989 days ago

13 November 2018 (F) - I am in a relationship with the father of my daughter and I live with someone else ...my baby daddy is okay ...he can provide ...he loves me very much ...and his financially doing fairly ...the guy I love with is a refugee and broke...but we love ...

She lied, is this a red flag or is it too early in the relationship for me too care.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1988 days ago

13 November 2018 (M) - I went on a date with a girl, it was great and we've been chatting a lot since. She asked to meet me again in a few days. The first date was friday. The second date will be the following tuesday. However, i have found out she has lied to me about...

Am I still a virgin after finger sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1988 days ago

13 November 2018 (F) - i had figer sex with my guy for some week, he only used one of his figer, i did not see any blood when he was doing it, but have stop it i want to no if am stil a vigin becos i have never had opposit sex with him. thanks ...

Should I go back, I just miss him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1989 days ago

12 November 2018 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year nearby and I've been apart from him for a year in a long distance relationship since I've been away from him I can't think straight I just miss him and think of him everyday I've never really felt like this and ...

Why is the sex so stale? Is he not into me? Or am I doing something wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1990 days ago

12 November 2018 (F) - I'll just jump right into it. Basically, I've been dating this guy for about 5 months. Been a few bumps along the way (pretty much all on my side but nothing too serious, some problems with trust due to past etc.) but that's aside from my po...

He's extremely possessive and mentally abusive but I still love him. Advice please!!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 1973 days ago

12 November 2018 (F) - Hi. I am new to this so very nervous. I really need some advice about my partner. I have been with him for just over a year and I feel like I can't do anything right. He mentally abuses me constantly..well this is what I'm guessing it is?! He will ...

I'm married and in (unrequited) love with someone else for years. How can I get over her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1987 days ago

12 November 2018 (M) - Hello aunts. I am almost 35 and married, but deeply in love with someone else who does not feel the same way about me. For the long story, please read below. Year 1: A few years ago, halfway through a master’s degree, I had to quit school and ...

I’m pregnant and confused and worried about what I should have happen next!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1986 days ago

12 November 2018 (F) - Just wanted to ask others opinions on this subject. Basically i have quite a bit of bad look with relationships, i have my own house and and have been living on my own now with just my dog and rabbit which is how i like it for 3 years now. I did ...

Do I go with the flow on this one? Or try and dial it back to friends only and if so how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1990 days ago

12 November 2018 (F) - I got back in touch with an old male friend around 9 months ago. We were close friends years ago and I was a good friend of his girlfriend. I've been in a relationship with someone else and whilst it started out as friends only, around 3 months in ...

He literally flipped in 8 hours! Is he blowing me off?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1984 days ago

12 November 2018 (F) - Is he blowing me off? I've been friends with this guy for years. We talk daily and have recently decided to take things to the next level since we are both finally single at the same time. Plus, he always lived about 6 hours away and now hes only a ...

The girls I want to date end up dating other guys!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1991 days ago

12 November 2018 (M) - Hi everyone! This isn't such a serious situation, just looking for some advice and guidance. I met a girl a few weeks ago, we exchanged numbers and she went back to her city 2 hours away. We chatted every day, she flirted a lot and we had a g...

I don’t know if I should date my coworker!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1991 days ago

11 November 2018 (F) - UI think I know the answer to this, but I’m looking for someone to confirm that I’m doing the right thing. I’ve been in my current job for a year, and have sat right next to a man who is around my age. He’s not my normal type physically, but ...

He wants to be friends only!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1991 days ago

11 November 2018 (F) - I have been seeing a guy on and off for around 10 months, we’ve never gotten past the casual first stage due to him not being ready and so there have been gaps where we haven’t seen each other and dated other people, however always seem to come ...

Worst mistake of my life!! Don’t know what to do

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1976 days ago

11 November 2018 (F) - I’m in the worst situation I could ever be in in my life I’ve made the biggest mistake ever and now I don’t know what to do I am suffering badly! I am 14 weeks pregnant but ended up cheating the night before I found out I was pregnant I know how bad ...

I'm not in lov with him but scared of his reaction if I tell him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1992 days ago

11 November 2018 (F) - How do you break up with someone your not in love with without hurting them?I think my new boyfriend is obsessed with me and something just doesn't feel right. About a year ago I had a hurtful breakup with my ex boyfriend of 3 years who I deep...

My girlfriend is perfect, but I want an open relationship.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1974 days ago

11 November 2018 (M) - Hi people. I met my current girlfriend a little over two years ago and I was not the social type back then. I never really went out a lot and hanging out with friends was pretty much 'indoor'. After I met her I became very outgoing. We went t...

My head is everywhere and I can't make a decision.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1992 days ago

10 November 2018 (F) - I’ve been with my boyfriend for 16 months and he left to go Australia in Feb this year, I knew from the start that that was his plans and I was fine with it and both decided to keep things the same way knowing with it being a long distance ...

I love him but I feel sad and ignored.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1993 days ago

10 November 2018 (F) - Hello everyone, I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months, but things have been rocky lately. Here's a little background info: i'm 27 and he's 36 years old, and has 4 kids. I do not have any kids of my own. Things were good in the beginn...

I'm 20 yet my parents don't want me to date.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1993 days ago

9 November 2018 (F) - Hi everyone, this might get quite lengthy as there are back stories to the issues. Bear with me! First of all, I’m 20 years old in my 2nd year of university and I come from a Chinese family. And yes, the typical stereotypes of asian households...

She seems open but what if she is telling me lies?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1991 days ago

9 November 2018 (M) - Been single now for about 5 months after a long term relationship, and met someone a few weeks ago that i hit it off with, it happend very randomly and out of the blue. being careful, or at least trying to be ive had my guard up. but it feels right ...

I don't want to hurt his feelings but I don't see this being a long term forever thing

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1993 days ago

8 November 2018 (F) - I've been seeing a guy since August we both got out of relationships shortly before so we just decided to have fun with it. we've known each other since March and got on well as friends but as both of us were in relationships we never displayed any ...