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Archived questions from: October, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

I got dumped, now I've met another girl, but is she right for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 745 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - Hi. Please help me with my problem. I was dumped a few months ago by my girlfriend of 2 1/2 years, and I've found it very difficult to cope with. Recently, I have met a new girl. She's very nice. But there are a few things about her that makes ...

Lately, he's been cold and distant.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 754 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together several months, and I was extremely happy. He was all I could ask for. Lately though, he's been cold and distant. I don't get calls, replies to emails, or even a simple "I hope you're feeling better" when I was ...

Do I like him or am I just missing him as a friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 743 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I have a friend who I am very close to. He has a gf. The other day he told me that he really likes me and finds me really attractive. But i didnt want to get between him and his gf. But recently i havnt been able to see him (i am ill), and i have...

When is the right time to make the first move, I don't want to scare her off

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 754 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - when is the right time to kiss a girl in a relationship. i don't want to do it to early and scare her away or seem pushy but i don't want to do it too late and seem uncaring or not interested. any help would be great. thanks....

We were friends with benefits, now I want a serious relationship, can I trust him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 584 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - Alright so we started out as a one night stand about 3 years ago when I was 16 and he was 23. After that we became friends with benefits and remained that way for a long time, while I was completely in love with him. I started applying pressure to ...

A boy dumped his girl to be with me, but now I have a boyfriend, help me I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 753 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - i really really like my boyfriend and he likes me but i also like this other friend of mine. Here's the story the friend who i liked had a girlfriend while i was single but he recently broke up with her for me but now im not single anymore. he said ...

I fancy this guy at work, I think he likes me as well, but how can I tell?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 754 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - i have found myself being attracted to a male colleague, he has a fantastic sense of humour and is chatty and friendly with all members of staff,though just lately he seems to be paying me more attention,he initiates silly games,flicks me with tea ...

I've got a new guy, how long should I wait before getting intimate

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 754 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - If you're dating a guy, you get along great and there's obviously a lot of sexual tension between you. How long should you wait before you get intimate...would 2 to 3 weeks be too early? or do you think you should wait longer?...

Torn between two guys!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 752 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - ok im 15 and im kinda torn between two guys. lets start with guy number 1: fine i know that guy since last year and we really hit it off and he really liked me back we used to flirt 24/7 and then suddenly we stopped talking [we dont even kn...

How can I make his return special?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 709 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend has been working away from home for the past few weeks. The night before he left, I planned a night in at our house (we live together) with candles, wine, food, bubble bath, the works. Now I want to plan something for the night he...

I don't know if he is serious about me, how can I tell?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 362 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - i love my boyfriend very much but he doesnt seem as serious as me and i dont wanna make a fool of my self by acting all lovie dovie. what do i do?...

He's giving me mixed signals.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 754 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - Hi, I need some advice. This lad keeps staring at me and even when his friends try and talk to him he doesnt stop looking. My friends look over for me and when ever they do he is always looking.We always talk over msn and he described the girl he ...

I can't let go of holiday crush!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 753 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I met this holiday rep a few years back... I was smitten! But, as holidays go, i had to leave. It broke my heart - it really did i became obsessed and it ruined my life Just as im rebuilding it all i found her MySpace....we've contacted and i...

My ex has a pregnant new gf and I feet guilty for the kisses. Still love him, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I lost my virginity to a guy i was dating nearly two years ago..he ended things quite soon after because he got back with his ex....so i never really got over him but carried on with things as normal. Completly out of the blue i ...

What other 'little things' can I do to be romantic?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 754 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - Hello Im the first to admit Im terrible at being romantic, but I try. My girlfriend says I need to be more romantic, but I dont get what she is asking for. I take her flowers now and then, chocolates, leave little notes etc. We stay in o...

My boyfriend wants to be there for girls night out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 754 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - Any ideas on how I handle this one. I am having a 'girlie' night at my house on Friday with nine old friends and my boyfriend who loves cooking has offered to cook us all a curry, preparing it Thursday and then coming after work on the Friday to do ...

I want to leave my husband for my secret boyfriend, but am afraid my family will be angry

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I am in such a difficult situation that I am feeling really desperate with nobody to talk to about it. I have been married for 11 years and have been unhappy for the majority of it - although I have tried to dig in and keep going trying and hoping ...

I am cheating on my fiancee!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 518 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - I'm having a big issue in my life. I got engaged at the beginning of 2006 with my fiancée who's been with me since 2004. I'm 28 and she is 23. Initially in 2006 when we got engaged things went great..it was refreshing for our relationship…it ...

My ex is dating my cousin and I am afraid he will hurt her, too.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 754 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I once was involved with a guy who was several years older than me. We were close for many years, then he hurt me. It made me hate myself to the point of almost suicide because I loved him soooo much. Now my cousin is getting messed up with him. I ...

Is a wedding a good venue to make a move on her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 754 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - Ok so I've been friends with this girl for about a year. I've invited her to a huge family wedding to which she gladly accepted. I have had a thing for her for some time and this is going to be our first one-on-one type of thing. There is ...

What kind of reactions should I get if he's interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 755 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I want to approach an attractive guy who I know from school. I'm not sure how to get his attention. We know each other from our business program, but I want us to be more than acquaintances. I don't want to ask him out right away, so what should I ...

Should I just continue being friends and see what happens in the future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 754 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I need serious advise people [i am 18]. I have liked this kid ever since i started talking to him three years ago. But the problem is i dated his cousin over a year ago. However, i still like him and i know he likes/liked me too. We have so much in ...

He is lazy, we argue , then he threatens to leave, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 753 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I argue all the time about work that he is supposed to do around the house. We have been together 5 years and live together. It really upsets me when he yells at me. Then, he always wants to break up as being the only resolution ...

This boy is sending mixed signals, its driving me crazy, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 754 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I have had feelings for this boy for over a year now. I recently found out that he had feelings for me as well, but he's not sure how he feels anymore. I told him how I felt...which ended with him asking if we could pretend the situation never ...

She's really upset, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 654 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - alright i have a big problem i am moving away from my school to a whole other town separating me and my girlfrend and shes really upset what do i do help...

He's sending mixed signals, it's so frustrating, what can I do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 464 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I'm really confused about this guy I know. He is definitely attracted to me (and I to him) but he keeps sending mixed signals. He goes through these periods of time flirting with me in a very obvious way and then when it comes to a point that he ...

What do I day to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 755 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - hi i been in a realtionship with my girlfreind for over 2 years and i feel like the passion is gone and we dont talk and when we talk i really dont no wat to say to her i need help...

We work together and talk all the time, but I just can't get round to asking her out, help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 755 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - There is this new girl who has started in the office, she's a really nice person both asthetically and personality wise. I talk to her on msn about random things for at least a good hour every day. I've discovered that i fancy her a little on both ...

I know he fancies me, but he wont do anything, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 754 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - ok um this is my first time asking a question so plz excuse me if somethings wrong, ok i have never givin oral sex before, with the exception of kissing i have done nothing close, and anyway there is this guy who i really like and is always giving ...

She says I need to open up more, my mum says its a modern thing, who's right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 755 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - I've had a woman say she NEEDS me to open up more. She says its a need not a want. And needs intimate details, to exchange with her friends.She's had a couple of failed relationships. I'm a bit unsure about this, so asked my MUM. She said i'm a so...

Did I have to dump this guy to make him interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 755 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Question for men.. do men realise they really like someone after they get dumped?? May sound like a silly question but I had to break up with someone i really like because he wasnt sure about whether he wanted a relationship, just wondering if men w...

I'm not confident around Women! How do I build my confidence??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 755 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - I'm a confident person, but whe it comes to women and relationships, I'm awful. I've tried, and I've tried, and I've tried to be confident around women I'm attracted to (even when I fake it) but I always blow it when it comes to the date. A few girl...

Should I be worried about my partner's porn watching?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 755 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - hi i know my partner watches porn he also downloads it on the internet it bothers me sometimes because he trys to hide it i would rather him tell the truth, it also makes me feel am not enough for him but recently i found a half naked local woman on ...

My best friend was going out with a guy for a while. She left him, and me and him had a "thing", but now she wants him back because she's in love with him! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 755 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - my best friend was going out with this guy for a while, but then she broke up with him and now she wants 2 get back with him and she is proper in love with him but me and him have got a little "thing" goin on and she is proper into him and i duno ...

My guy doesn't like spending money. We don't ever eat out, or go on holiday. I'm starting to get fed up! Please advise.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 754 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I've met a man I love. We get on well. The problem is he is very mean with money. He doesnt like eating out or going on holidays. We end up always doing the same things going to the same places so he doesnt have to spend much or no need to spend ...

Should me and my fiance try to start things up again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 755 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - M fiance broke up with me just over a fortnight ago, the reason being, she felt I had jealousy issues and did not do enough for her son (even though we do not live together) I tried to get her to change her mind, but when she stated that her ...

Should I move on, or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 755 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - hi i was wondering if you could help me my boyfriend and me just broke up cuz he said he just needed time i got my friend to go up and ask him does this mean you'll go out with her later should i keep looking for a new man or do i wait?.........im ...

When should I put pressure on him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 755 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - where do you guys think a dating relationship between two mature adults should be at the end of the third year of dating? do you think we should be engaged? do you think we should be planning a wedding? how long would you recommend waiting before ...

When is the good time, to start living togetehr?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 754 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Hi everyone! So I have a BF (5months now). We have a great relationship and we love each other. I know he is the one - I never felt this way for anybody and he saiz the same. The guestion is ... When do you think is a good time to start liv...

He went and told his friend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 755 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I gave my boyfriend head in the school bathroom and he went and told his friend and she asked me about it i told her no i didn't how do i tell him to not tell our business to anyone?...

How do I handle the manipulation from somebody that I love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 755 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - I met my x girlfriend in March 2002. We got on well and we decided to be together. In Feb 2003 she started renting her council property and moved in with me. For the first year everything was fine, but then I started to see her in a different ...

We have just had a baby and now he wants to sleep with other women.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 755 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - We've been together 2 years. He's been fathering my 4 year old and we just had a baby in August. We bought a house in June. He just told me he wants to sleep with other women for new and different experiences?!?...

Why do men always find someone else first?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 755 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Why do most men always get another woman before they break up? Are women braver than men? ...

Shall I settle for second best?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 755 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - There is this girl who asked me out i kinda like her but i also like this other girl who will never like me. i am afraid if i say yes to the girl i might break her heart.what do i do?...

Can he really mean those words after two years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 755 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of just over 2 years ended our relationship for good 1 week ago. The first year of our relationship was fantastic we were so in love and talked about living together, marriage etc. Things started to slow down April this year whe...

He thinks our relationship is getting too serious and wants to think about it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 755 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I was in a relationship for three years, two of which I lived with the guy and we were engaged to be married next year. I began having doubts quite a while ago but stuck it out to see if things changed, which they didn't. During the last month or ...

Can I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 755 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I have been very un-trustful with my fiancee since I found out he had cheated on me 2 years ago. I forgave him but will never forget. So now I find myself looking through his e-mails and have recently found out that he has been registering onto sex ...

Attracted to female bodies but prefer to have sex with a man. What does this mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 755 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - I am attracted to female bodies but I prefer to have sex with a man. What does this mean for me?...

Am I just wasting my time with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 753 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I'm with my boyfriend nearly 2 years and we were in bed on Sunday evening and having a real heart to heart chat about various things in our lives... He was saying that he doesn't want to buy/build a house as he is afraid of the committment of it ...

My boyfriend has become sexually 'lazy'

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 755 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend has a low sex drive and I have a high one. If he does get horny it's either when he's drunk or if it's about 2am and I'm asleep. On top of that he cums quickly and it takes him hours before he can go again. It didn't used to be like ...