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Archived questions from: August, 2014 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

How do I attract faithful and available men interested in dating? Not interested in married men

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3511 days ago

31 August 2014 (F) - Modnote added: The writer may mean celibate rather than abstinent? ................................................ Hi. I am asking advice on how to attract good faithful men. I am not going to any bars or nothing like that. Yet, only married men...

He doesn't want to move on. I can't see us lasting together. So why do I keep going back to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3522 days ago

31 August 2014 (F) - I've been with a slightly younger guy for 2 years now. After 8 months we moved in together in to a house i bought. We shouldn't have moved in so quick, because it all ended up pear shaped and i had to move him out to cut a long story short. ...

First-date tips?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3518 days ago

31 August 2014 (M) - Hey guys, I have a quick question. So I got chatting to a girl on Friday night that I've seen around town a few times, I was pretty drunk but everything seemed to go well, ended up kissing a few times and ended up with her number. Been ...

How often do teenage girls reject people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3522 days ago

31 August 2014 (M) - Do teenage girls often reject people? I have been single my whole life because I fear rejection and if I make up my mind to approach my crush I drop out or stuff up or even worse say something stupid. Once though I managed to ask a crush to dance ...

We seem to bond and then they disappear?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3522 days ago

31 August 2014 (F) - I'm a single woman, very independent and incredibly lost in my own craft of art and music. I'm still a student in college. For most of my life, I've been pretty insecure about myself thinking I'm weird or different and that I didn't fit in but ...

Is he throwing hints? Is marriage in the works?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3523 days ago

31 August 2014 (F) - Okay so here it goes 2 1/2 years ago I met my wonderful boyfriend we do things together help eachother out financially we live together he says his house is my house and his family loves me and mine loves him.....he helps me with my daughter...

He said marriage was not about money.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3523 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - Why does he talk like this? Is marriage about money or not? So I had an arguement last night with bf. I asked him if he's ready for marriage and he said yes. But said no, cause he's been out of job for 8 months now and he's reluctant ab...

Why did my boyfriend, who is a well respected member of the local community, have to indulge in this cheap theft-like activity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3523 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - Hi, I am in a relationship (3 months) with a lovely guy (we are both in our 60s) and he is a well respected member of the local community. One thing really bothers me though; our town hosts a huge annual agricultural show and the entry fee is £25 ...

I don't have it in me to compete for him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3524 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - I have recently started seeing a guy who i met on an online dating site. Our first date went very well so we met up a couple days later for another date and it went on from there. Last night he came to my place, i made him dinner we had a lovely ...

Why don't I get approached by normal guys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3339 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - I'm a young woman, and let's just say that I am very inexperienced with dating/guys/etc. I do have male friends but I've never gone on a date or had a boyfriend. I don't get out much nor do I meet many new people, but every single time I get hit on ...

Is this just an excuse for breaking up? Or what does he mean by his remarks?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3524 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - My boyfriend is ending out relationship because he said he was unhappy and didn't feel like himself. He told me he wants to focus on himself and make himself happy and then he can focus on us . I am confused about focusing on himself part ? I...

I've moved with my boyfriend and now he's putting me on the back burner

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3523 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - So I really need some advice... I been with my boyfriend for little over 7 months... Well he got a really good job offer in Ky and had asked me to go with him... So last week we moved... I love this man more then anything in the world and I want to ...

I want him to text me even if I don't text him first

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3524 days ago

29 August 2014 (F) - Okay so I really like this guy and I want to get close with him but not to close just yet. And I text him and everything but I just feel like he doesn't want to talk to me because he sends me these short messages when I text him like okay and lol ...

I'm stuck in Romeo and Juliet save me!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

29 August 2014 (F) - Ok so im in a Romeo and Juliet situation. My mom and dad got in a fight with my friends mom and dad, and we are not supposed to talk. But a few days ago he told me he liked me and I told him I honestly did like him, i really do like him and ive ...

He says he loves me should I give him another chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

29 August 2014 (F) - I was dating a guy but he left me, he blocked me on facebook and i didn't know why. He came back to me saying he has regreted doing that to me cuz he has never forgiven himself for it. i asked him why he left me and he told me he doesn't recall why ...

How do I act around this guy? Does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3524 days ago

29 August 2014 (F) - there is a guy that always stares at me. When he walk by he glance at me and then look away. But there was a time that we made an eye contact for 4 seconds. It was awkward. Sometimes he tease me in a flirty way. Does he like me? How shall I act when ...

My boyfriend never buy me gifts or flowers. Do you think this is petty of me to think this way or is this a problem?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

29 August 2014 (F) - I buy my boyfriend nice gifts, all the time. Golf stuff, beer stuff, nice ties... He really doesn't do anything for me at all. He brought me a book for my birthday and a sex toy and that's about it. Otherwise, our relationship (one year so far...

I love my boyfriend but almost kissed another guy...and a girl!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3524 days ago

29 August 2014 (F) - Ok so I am engaged to a man who I am so in love with, and just couldn't live without him. Last weekend I was at a hen weekend with some of my reckless friends, and to be honest, it was more like a bender. We just went wild. I was so out of it I ...

I'm worried about our relationship now that our lives are changing.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3526 days ago

28 August 2014 (M) - My girlfriend and I both found jobs rather quickly after leaving university. Call it good fortune or whatever, but she started working this week and I am due to do so next. I have found myself worrying that these changes to both our lifestyles could ...

I am still embaressed by my actions of two years ago.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3521 days ago

28 August 2014 (F) - I'm normally pretty good and forgetting and getting over embarrassing moments. I normally don't really care and laugh it off but for some reason this is different..probably because this is the most embarrassing thing that has happened (or at the ...

Should I believe my girlfriend and what she says about her past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

28 August 2014 (M) - my girlfriend and I were talking about past sexaul experiences and she told me she had sex with 2 guys. I really do not care what she did before me, but she said the boy that lived next door fingered her for 3 years but never had sex with her.I k...

I am sick of financially supporting my boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3526 days ago

28 August 2014 (F) - Am I a bad person to want marriage and a secure future My bf lost his job 8 months ago and I've been supporting him emotionally and financally since then. We've been through so much. We fought, argued, he's pushed me away several times bu...

I'm confused, did he want to break up or not, I need an outsider's opinion.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3519 days ago

28 August 2014 (F) - So I'm a bit confused right now. (I posted last week about breaking up) I've been with my (ex) partner for the last five years. He recently done his phase one on his training with the army, we had all these things planned before he was shipped ...

Boyfriend doesn't love me -- should I stay ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3524 days ago

28 August 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating 4 months and things are very serious he even talks about me moving in with him and moving to a different state with him one day. I'm confused because he dose everything I ask of him and is supportive and all but ...

Is it arrogant to think that you're "too good" for someone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3526 days ago

28 August 2014 (F) - Is it okay to think that you're too good for someone (or that you want to reject them based on your high standards), provided you don't say it to anyone else? To merely think it as part of making a decision? Just found out a male acquaintance sec...

Asking him for sex is like asking for a kidney! Is it normal for a man to try and avoid sex so much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3510 days ago

28 August 2014 (F) - I'm with my man a year and 6 months and the sex is becoming non existant. At the begining it was great but now im lucky to get sex once a month. It's always me who has to ask or make a move never him and its upsetting me. When i said it he said he ...

How Do You Flirt With An Introverted Guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3526 days ago

28 August 2014 (F) - So I have a major thing for this Scottish guy I recently met, who just moved down to England from Glasgow. :P He's stunningly cute, and very, very intelligent and passionate about what he does (he's an engineer, and my firm is paying for employee ...

Am I overreacting about him not initiating any text for the last few days ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3526 days ago

28 August 2014 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 2 months over the summer and he had to move 6 hours away (driving) to finish his masters program for one year. Prior to his moving we had spent a month and half 24/7 together. We had gotten very close and decided ...

I think I might be pregnant! Should I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

28 August 2014 (F) - I think I might be pregnant but I don't want to say anything to my boyfriend before I know it's true. My boyfriend is 21 and im 17 and I'm on birth control but I accidentally missed 3 pills in a row. My boyfriends cums inside me but I thought that ...

How do we bring our relationship out in the open without people thinking we're having an affair?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3526 days ago

28 August 2014 (F) - 8 months ago I met a guy named Derrick, he is a police officer and I was doing some volunteer work, we ended up working on a few projects together. He was engaged and I was In a long term relationship. We were hanging out three or four nights a ...

Please help me stop thinking about this amazing guy I met while on a holiday! I'm in Australia. He's in the USA!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3526 days ago

28 August 2014 (F) - I met a guy while on holidays in the USA. We met in Arizona. We had an amazing one night stand and I never thought I would see him again. He flew back to Illinois and I continued on my trip. We exchanged numbers, he changed his flight t...

How best to ask a guy out when you don't know him very well

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3526 days ago

27 August 2014 (?) - This is a question mainly for the men on here, but then I thought some of the women who have been proactive in asking men out might also chip in and help me. If you're a man, how do you feel about a woman asking you on a date? Say you don't know t...

Conflicted. Do I stay with my new crush? Or try to resume with my former Bf?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

27 August 2014 (F) - Hello Everyone, I am in need of some help. I'm not quite sure where to start but I will try my best. I am starting my sophomore year of college on labor day, which is in less than a week. I'm excited, but I am also kinda dreading it. For ...

The man I love can't give me a baby

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3527 days ago

27 August 2014 (F) - So my husband and I were having some trouble concieveing. We are in a very fortunate financial position despite our age and feel we can give a child a good upbringing. With me, everything seemed to be fine, but my husbands test results weren't so ...

Boyfriend doesn't look at other girls...lying?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3519 days ago

27 August 2014 (F) - Basically, my boyfriend lies about looking at other girls. I've always known that men, even in a committed relationship, look at other women. Obviously I know some do it more than others and for some there's just glance. My boyfriend claims he ...

Should I even try to save this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3527 days ago

27 August 2014 (M) - Hey guys here's my situation, Me and my girlfriend of almost 3 years recently went our separate ways. For about the last 7 to 8 months I've pretty much sleep on the couch 3 to 4 times a week due to problems with her and having a 1 year old son with ...

Is it just wedding nerves or am I having second thought's about marrying my fiancé?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3527 days ago

27 August 2014 (F) - I'm not sure if it's just wedding nerves or if I'm having second thought's about marrying my fiancée. It's two months away and the more and more closer it gets, the more I seem to be confused. I love my fiancée, he is the one I want to spend ...

Is it a question of time or is she really just not interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3527 days ago

27 August 2014 (M) - So I was really into this girl who I had been talking with awhile and we went out last weekend and had a great date. It was amazing chemistry and we both really seemed to like each other. The thing is she recently got out of a relationship abo...

Expecting a baby with Bf. Looking for accomodation. Bf suggested adding a female room-mate. I said no. Was I wrong to say no to his idea?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3527 days ago

26 August 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I are currently apartment hunting. We are expecting a child in a few months and have been looking for a 2 bedroom apartment with little luck. The other day he messaged me telling me that one of his female coworkers was looking ...

My boyfriend called me ugly, should I be upset?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3528 days ago

26 August 2014 (F) - I've been with my bf for about 3 years now. He's never called me ugly before (and I'm not too attractive) but recently I've made a new guy friend and I was texting him a lot today. My boyfriend was with me and he kept asking who i was texting. I ...

Struggling to get over my holiday romance. Do I try harder or let it go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3527 days ago

26 August 2014 (F) - I am just confused and need some help as I have no one else to talk to. I recently went on holiday in Greece with my friends. I met this guy from England aswell whilst over there. We just clicked well so I thought. We spent the majority of the time ...

She said she's not into sex but now seems to want a relationship. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3528 days ago

26 August 2014 (M) - I have known this woman for 20 years. We are now both divorced. We've been dating basically just to get out of the house and we enjoy each others company. The first date we went out on, she stated she's not into sex out of no where. I thought gee I ...

All I want is a girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3251 days ago

26 August 2014 (M) - many people are sad because they dont have a girlfriend. i am too but my problem is far too serious than that. i am 25 and i never had a girlfriend for which i am sad but also i know that i will meet someone special one day but my problem is that i ...

Is it normal for boyfriends to not let their girlfriends know that they've been on the phone with other girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3528 days ago

26 August 2014 (F) - This question is rather trivial, but I would like to know whether its normal for boyfriends to not let their girlfriends know that they've been on the phone with other girls? My boyfriend recently commented that if there was anything he did that mig...

Girls are in control and I don't want my boyfriend to think any other way, so what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3527 days ago

26 August 2014 (F) - Okay, so my bf was perfect, he blew off his friends for me in class he found excuses to sit next to me and every chance he got he spoke to me. but now he's in anouther world and we hardly speak... and he wont let me tell my bff we're dating because ...

I go on a weekend away and come home to a boyfriend with what looks like a love bite on his neck

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3528 days ago

26 August 2014 (F) - Hi everyone! I'm just wanting your opinion on whether I'm being naive here! Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years, I've never had a reason to not trust him! This weekend I went away with my friends for bank holiday and he went out ...

Am I too idealistic to be with a Vulcan type personality?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3528 days ago

26 August 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I took a break for about two months - we will be together for two years in October this year. We talked at length about the issues in our relationship and both feel that we have worked through it well. The main big problem is a...

I think my B/f might he seeing this other girl but I don't know what to ask him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3528 days ago

26 August 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I normally have a great sex life. We would have sex maybe 2-3 times a day when we first met, and although nothing too kinky, it was adventurous. When we moved in together it slowed down, and he almost stopped wanting it as of...

Ex was on the verge of cheating and blames me for his indiscretion!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3522 days ago

26 August 2014 (F) - Hi Aunties and Uncles, I was in a relationship with a man for almost 2 years. I recently broke it off with him because he was texting another women. Nothing horribly inappropriate, but eventually he admitted he was attracted to her and started ...

My boyfriend wants to be a lone traveler!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3528 days ago

26 August 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating about two years now. He has a son with another woman unplanned. I've always known he's wanted to travel the world at some point and I never thought much of it as its something I'd like to do at some point too, not ...