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Archived questions from: December, 2005 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

My career is my life and my kids hate me for it. I'd love a relationship, but where are all the single men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6683 days ago

31 December 2005 (F) - I have been split from my ex-hub for 9 years now and have two children. I have had a few relationships which did not amount to anything but pain, and plunged myself into a career. This has had a major impact on my relationship with my kids who ...

Four months after I got her number, she's still got excuses for why we haven't gone out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6684 days ago

31 December 2005 (M) - Is this girl interested? Is it harder to tempt a girl who has approached a guy? I have had an approach from a girl and I got her phone number. It's 4 months on but have never been out on a date. She keeps agreeing to go out on a date but doesn't ...

Why is dating so difficult for me, when it seems to natural to other guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6684 days ago

31 December 2005 (M) - I am 39, tall and always smart dressed, and have got a good but dry sense of humour, but I find it almost impossible to find women. I have not had any sort of relationship for over 8 years. I am sick of girls who I do get to know keep saying "you...

Is this guy playing me or does he really like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5896 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - i have started to like my mate's boyfriends brother who is single, he lives about 3hours away from me but he comes home to his parents most weekends- we have becum good m8s the last couple of months- we txt sumtimes but he hates the fone he barely ...

I need to decide..do I give up my bf because he's using me or go for the other guy and risk hurting the bf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6684 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - hi, im in a bit of a muddle... ive been going out with this guy for just over three months, and today when he fingered me, he made me bleed. i know that it can happen because ive read about it. but it came as a shock really, and im so confused ...

When I call my gf, she doesn't sound happy to hear from me..am I being overly sensitive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6685 days ago

30 December 2005 (M) - I am a mature guy, but I met my girlfriend nearly a year and a half ago. we grew from friends into what I thought was a great relationship 6 months into our friendship. How little did I know, she nearly ended it with me 6 months later as I had been ...

How do I make this man happy so that he will always love me back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6685 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - I am a young lady who just met a guy whom after a long time friendly friendship, proposed to me. I said yes, so we now have a relationship to manage. my quesion is, how do i make him happy so that he will always love me...

I want to date him, but he thinks I'm a slut because I sent him dirty messages. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - Hey Folks See, there's this guy who I like and want to get to know. Only trouble is that he thinks I'm a slut as when I am drunk I tend to send him dirty messages. and now he has made it pretty clear that he is only interested in sex. BUT,...

I thought we were dating..but now she doesn't answer my calls or emails! What should I do do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6685 days ago

30 December 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, I've started to date this girl two weeks ago and we knew each other from high school. I had just graduated as she was entering her freshmen year. We recently became in contact and she remembers me from band as she was in band to becau...

Did expressing my love for him scare him off? We spoke again but he still seems distant.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6685 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - Okay. I was the one who told her boyfriend that she loved him but didn't get the same in return. Well, just a small update. I talked to him last night. I gave in and called him first but he did call me back again last night. Anyway, I told him ...

I want to get into another relationship but fears of slipping up, hinders my progress. Help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6681 days ago

30 December 2005 (M) - i need to get into another relationship, but the fear of slippery in my first one is hindering my progress. how do i go about it? how do i get a perfect match cos i have a tender heart. and how am i going to get her if i found any worthy by appearan...

She's unsure of her feelings for me. It's very confusing as to whether she wants to date or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6685 days ago

30 December 2005 (M) - I have know this girl for nearly 2 years. At first it was just a really close friendship but after a while i wanted more than that. I got feelings for her that i have never had for anybody else before. When i first told her about these feelings she ...

He dumped me by text and now I don't know what to think...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6104 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - I met a guy at a college party three months ago. It was so obvious that he liked me but at the time I wasn't sure if I liked him as I had just split with my last boyfriend. He gave me his number but I didn't give him mine. I called him three days ...

What does the winking, wedding-ring-wearing, man mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - There is this man i have been friendly with for the best part of a year. Though we have never specifically met up alone. when we see each other he will be as friendly as ever, even giving me a touch on the shoulder or back whenever i've seen him ...

Mum just can't come around to the idea of my dating guys, and I'm almost 18!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6685 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - I'm 18 in less than a month and my mum still sounds weird about me dating. I've met a guy I really like but I'm too shy to tell my mum straight out because I know she'll be angry. I've dropped hints like putting his picture up and talking about hi...

Still getting over being dumped by my ex, I worry that a new guy might be just as bad...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6685 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - Hi I'm 17 and just getting over a hard break up with an older man who lied a lot to me. It's been a year but everything is still fresh in my mind. I've met a new guy and he's my own age but I'm worried that he'll only be interested in sex. If I do ...

I'm not interested in the guy I think is going to ask me out. But my best friend is. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6685 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - This problem is real long so I will just sum it up. There is this guy that likes me. He is always saying things and it's pretty obvious he wants to get with me. I do not have the same feelings (I am into someone else). My best friend is in love wit...

I trust my girlfriend, I just don't trust my mates!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6685 days ago

30 December 2005 (M) - I get very jealous when my girlfirend goes out with my friends. I am 2 sets of friends and when I'm with one and my girlfriend is on a night out with the others, involving many males, who I know may/have made a move on her. I get really angry. I...

A question of timing

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6685 days ago

30 December 2005 (F) - How often do most couples in committed relationships talk on the phone?...

Afraid my "best" friend is going to try and steal my boyfriend... Again!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6686 days ago

29 December 2005 (F) - I'm afraid my 'best' friend is gonna try n steal my guy....again... When me nd my boyf james* first got togeva she tried everything for it to not happened...telling me and him poisonous stories about one another etc. 6 months down the line and ever...

Can't get over my girlfriend's ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6686 days ago

29 December 2005 (M) - I need some serious help! I am in college and have been with my girlfriend for 3 months now. She had a previous "relationship" about a year ago for 3 months (I use the quotes because she has never openly admitted to being in a relationship). Our ...

Should I try and win him over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6686 days ago

29 December 2005 (F) - I told this guy at work that I really liked him and he said that he liked me as well and even tho he is technically single he is seeing someone. We have been out a few times and get on really well and the one night he even kissed me but then ...

How long until love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6686 days ago

29 December 2005 (F) - When is it looked on as acceptable to love someone? People always tend to think that you only love someone truley if you've been with them for ages? What do all of you think?...

Totally out of ideas for what I can do with my long-distance-boyfriend when he arrives!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6686 days ago

29 December 2005 (F) - ok, so my long distance boyfriend is coming up tomorrow for new years and i have nothing planned! i rented a few movies and got him some beer but that is all. we aren't going to see eachother again for 4 months..what can i do to make this time ...

What on earth is my guy playing at?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6685 days ago

29 December 2005 (F) - Hey ok this may not sound big at all. I've bin with this guy for 9 months and things were going great...obviously they've kinda settled down now but n e way. Hes bin acting really weird with me. Before you think anything....im not clingy...dont call ...

I lied about my age to the woman of my dreams. She thinks I'm 20, but I'm actually 26!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6686 days ago

29 December 2005 (M) - I have been dating the woman of my dreams for 10 months. Everything has been going great... but I've kept one big secret from her. I lied about my age. I told her I was 20 years old when in fact I am 26. She is 19 and I feared that if I told her ...

My parents object to idea of me living with my partner before marriage... I'm 23 so what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6686 days ago

29 December 2005 (F) - I have been dating a really good man for a few months. Things are going well, but we still have issues that we are working through. At the end of the school year, I might be moving and he has offered to come with. By that time, we will have been ...

Love or friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6686 days ago

29 December 2005 (M) - dear cupid i have been seeing my best mate of 9 years' girlfriend and she told me she loves me and i think i love her... what should i do friendship or love...

Should I book the round the world flight!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6686 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid I really like a man who lives on the other side of the world, thinking about booking a flight going over there rapping on his door and asking him out on a date. Do you think I should??...

Got a boyfriend so I dumped all my friends. Now I miss them!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - hello, i am just writing because i feel like an absolute loser and i have since my long distance boyfriend moved to where he is now. i guess it is the classic case of girl dumping her friends once she gets a boyfriend. i sort of did that. now that...

Told my boyfriend I love him... But all I got is silence in return

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6686 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - I am in a similar situation as one of the other readers. I too told my boyfriend I loved him with him not saying that in return. I am so scared now that I will have scared him away. That night he was extra sweet and I have to say that I kinda ...

Is it safe yet to talk to girl who my mom embarrased me in front of?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6686 days ago

28 December 2005 (M) - Last year I asked a girl out 2 years below me and I she came to my door and I thought she was going to say yes, but my mother said i couldnt come out so I never found out, and then after everyone had teased me and kept asking her, she just hated ...

I started it and I finished it with the guy. Can I start it again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6685 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - Ok..here's a quick recap of what happend. I used to have a crush on the paperboy. I talked to him and went after him but he didn't seem like he got the signals so I backed off. I didn't talk to him for a month because I got busy. Then one day ...

Cheating and lying is out of my character... But it keeps happening!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - Well where do i start, my best friend (lets call him James) has been in love with me since we met. I have realised over the past two months that i love him and it's not friendship love its deep love, i have been with my bf Alex for three months. ...

I've never really had a boyfriend, and I don't understand it... I think I'm friendly and have a lot to offer!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - I am a 23 year old female who hasn't had a proper boyfriend. I hear things like 'people can't love you until you learn to love yourself' and similar things, but I do love myself and feel I have a lot to offer and a lot of love to give. I go to cl...

I like this guy..I have urges for him what should i do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6688 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - i like this guy and i have urges for him what should i do ? ...

I have pre-wedding jitters..is this normal or is there more to it because I met up with an old gf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

27 December 2005 (M) - I am engaged to be married and am due to get married in about 3 months. I care deeply for the girl I am going to marry and we have built a great life together and I miss her over the few days of christmas that we are apart. She is an attractive girl ...

I want her back...so how do I show her how much I love her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6679 days ago

27 December 2005 (M) - my girlfriend has just ended our relationship because she says she dosn't love me like she should. how can i show her how much i love her and that we belong together. i want her back but dont know what to do. ...

Did I mess up by telling him I loved him...he didn't respond and I feel awkward now. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6688 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - I think I screwed up big time. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 10 months now. I said the big 3 words, "I love you". I regretted it as soon as I said it. His response was "I really like you a lot". He held me why I cried myself to ...

She has a bad reputation...if I date her, what will happen to my reputation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6688 days ago

27 December 2005 (M) - My friends, people i see, have talked bad about this girl im talking to, behind closed doors. Most things they have said were hurtful and have gave her a bad rep but really she didnt deserve one. She didnt do most of these bad things people said but ...

He dumps me but then keeps on texting me-I've ignored his messages. Why does he keep doing this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6688 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - My ex boyfriend dumped me four weeks ago. We texted each other every day for the next three weeks. Then one day I did not reply to a tx he sent me. I left it three days. Then I txtd him back. He replied but I did not. Then he textd me the next day ...

I love her with all my heart..but is she worth getting hurt over ...a third time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6688 days ago

27 December 2005 (M) - my ex-girlfriend broke up with me and i still love her with all my heart and soul! she hurt me many times and that never changed how i felt about her like, when she got high with her ex (nothing happend) and she lied to me about being good, i ...

Who do I choose...the ex bf and hope he changes? Or the friend who's always been there for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - Hi. I'm abit confused. Broke up with my ex one month ago. He said he wasnt ready to commit and we have been on for five years. I'm 33 and at that stage in my life when i wish to settle down with a family. He is also very difficult to please, and all ...

My fiancee cheated on me. How do I gain back the trust and intimacy with him again?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - I just found out that my fiance cheated on me. I don't know how to trust him again and I don't know how to be intimate again. He says that it was her first time but I'm afraid of catching something, I'm not in the best of health. I want to be with ...

He gave me a ring...now he wants us to become sexual and have a baby. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - I am a sophmore and am really in love with a guy. He is older then me by 6 years but we have been dating for over a year. We are really close and can communicate by looking at each other eyes. He got me a ring for christmas, and is ready to take it ...

Shouldn't I be ready to make this girl my girlfriend? How do I know it's the right step?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6685 days ago

27 December 2005 (M) - I like her, I enjoy her company, sex is great, I care for her. Then why in the world haven't I made her my girlfriend? I have never had a serious girlfriend and I'm a womanizer. How do i know if I like her enough? Is it just attraction? Being us...

Afraid my grandmother won't like my bf, when he comes here for the holidays.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6689 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend said that he would like to come over for the holidays and spend the night. so i talked it over with my grandmother and she said how about instead of you driving the porsh, how about i just pick you both up? but i am scared that she ...

There's this one woman... I can't talk to her because I'm so nervous, so how can I get around to kissing her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6689 days ago

26 December 2005 (M) - There is this women I like. She's a friend of one of my co-workers, and well, we have gotten off to a good start, and usually I'm very comfortable around people and can carry a conversation with a man or woman, but around her I get nervous and it ...

Does he, or doesn't he? His messages are so mixed up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6689 days ago

25 December 2005 (F) - A couple of months ago, I started at my dream job. There is a guy who works there who I clicked with immediately (let's call him Will), and felt an instant attraction to. (very rare for me!) A couple of weeks ago, myself, him and another male col...

How do I strike a balance between playing "hard to get" and letting him know I'm interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6690 days ago

25 December 2005 (F) - Hey, well first off, Merry Christmas everyone! My question is about playing heard to get. I mean, if you blow him off, then won't that make him think you're NOT interested and so go looking for someone else? If I was a guy, I'd think that a ...