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He says he does not want a girlfriend but I don't believe him

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15 May 2008 (F) - Hi Everyone I met my Boyfriend this year january and we hit it off, he told me he does not have a girlfriend and i did not believe him, he wanted me to movein with him i wanted to coz every second without him was unbearable,i then moved to another...

How fast is too fast? I don't want him to think I am a slut.

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15 May 2008 (F) - Hi, I was wondering - how fast is too fast? I'm 16 and I met a guy my age the other day and we really hit it off, we got on really well. We ended up making out pretty intensly in a park. He did start undoing my jeans but stopped when I stopped him ...

How can we stop arguing over silly things when we love each other so much?

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15 May 2008 (F) - I am coming up to a year now with the most wonderful guy and I have honestly never felt so in love or so loved before but sadly we seem to keep arguing over the silliest things and we have now both noticed it has been getting more frequent. I think ...

I quite often dream of my boyfriend cheating on me, and I wake up crying

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15 May 2008 (F) - I think I'm being way too insecure, but I don't know how to handle it. It's not that I'm insecure about myself. I'm insecure about my relationship with my boyfriend. I quite often dream of my boyfriend cheating on me, and I wake up crying. When ...

My sisters don't like my boyfriend should I discuss it with them?

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15 May 2008 (F) - When my family first met my boyfriend, they all thought he was funny and great, but after a while, my sisters started to dislike him. One of my sisters secretly told me that they all felt that he wasn't treating me good enough. I actually kind of ...

What should I do to let her know I want to be with her, even though she's still in a relationship?

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15 May 2008 (M) - okay, i'm 16 and there's this girl that i really, really like alot. At the moment she's in a relationship, but i can't really see it going anywhere because she's constantly being broken hearted by this guy, being let down by him and lately it's ...

Should I tell my best mate I'm in love with him?

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15 May 2008 (F) - Hi, Ive known this guy since i was about 6 -7 years old, I'd visit his town every christmas and we'd see each other for the fornight that i was there. We had always had a little bit of a crush on each other, and our parents thought it was cute. ...

I'm 16 and dealing with an abusive boyfriend, I don't want to leave him, any ideas?

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15 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 3 years now. He's 17, and I'm 16. Things were really great for the first couple of months into the relationship, and after that, they just kind of spiraled down hill from there. First, it star...

Should I marry him, he doesn't seem to care anymore?

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15 May 2008 (F) - Does he even care anymore? So I have had a boyfriend for 4 years now...and we have been engaged for 6 months. It seems like ever since we got engaged, he doesnt care anymore. We made a huge mistake in getting engaged so young (21) and we put my...

I keep finding naked pictures of his ex, what should I do?

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15 May 2008 (F) - Last year, I accidentally found my boyfriend's porn on his external hard drive. In that collection, I found naked pictures of his ex-girlfriend after he told me that he didn't have them anymore. I got very angry and deleted all of them. When I ...

All we do is argue, but we can't seem to be able to let go!

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15 May 2008 (F) - I have been dating my bf for about 3 years off and on now. We had an amazing relationship at first, but then things broke down. We always argue as least once a week and it gets bad. I feel all we do is argue these days. I cant seem to let go and ...

I'm waiting to hear him tell me he loves me!

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15 May 2008 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and 3 months. We talked about the word 'love' early on, and we felt it was best not to use it so soon. As of now, I feel like it's been long enough. I want him to tell me that he loves me, but I don't think ...

Was I wrong to call this guy before he leaves for Africa?

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15 May 2008 (F) - I finally decided to call a guy I have such a big crush on. After a year of not seeing him or talking on the phone, just email. Well, I did it cuz he´s leaving on a trip shortly to Africa and is going to be away for 6 months. We live apart from each ...

Why is there a sudden complete lack of interest in sex on his part?

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15 May 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i havnt had sex in over 2 weeks and i dont know why. when he stays over we kiss but thats it and this morning he fingered me for a bit but then stopped. we see eachother twice a week and normally have sex at least once a week but i ...

I don't know if he is serious or if he is playing with me

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14 May 2008 (F) - I need your help here, I have been dating this guy for a little bit more than 3 months, we live a little bit far away each other and we both have very tight schedules, the thing is with the time we have both started to have strong feelings for each ...

Is it wrong to love my step-step-3rd cousin?

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14 May 2008 (M) - My dad got married in June (2007). I was hanging out with my step mom and we went to her cousin's new house. I have never met her cousin, until that day. Her cousin, has a step daughter. I couldn't help but tellin her how beautiful she was etc etc. ...

How do I approach the subject of sex with my girlfriend?

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14 May 2008 (M) - I have been dating someone for four months now and I do not know how to bring up sex to her. I do not want to pressure anything but I just want to bring it up as a possibility for the near future? Any help would be much appreciated....

Everything about my boyfriend annoys me, but I still really care about him.

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14 May 2008 (F) - I've been dating this guy for about 2 months now, and lately it seems like everything he does annoys me. I get annoyed by the way he drives, when he doesn't listen to me, when he lies to me, and even when we are cuddling he annoys me. I really like ...

I kissed my best friend and now I feel awkward

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14 May 2008 (F) - Okay i need bit of advice. baically i been like best friends with this guy for most of my life. We both swim for the same club and have always been very close, in the wa we would have sleepovers together and nothing ever thought of it. but yeah ...

My boyfriend broke up with me because another guy has a crush on me. It isnt like the feelings are reciprocated! Why did he break it off?

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14 May 2008 (F) - My BF broke up with me and everything is so unfair, I didn't do anything!!! A couple of years ago I met this obnoxious guy, he had a crush on me, but he also had a crush on several more girls. Then i met my BF and we started dating. My BF was...

Help me please, should I trust her?

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14 May 2008 (M) - hi my names jon im going out with my girlfriend weve been going out for around 2 months and its all going great and then she tells me that this other person has told her he's in love with her, and shes going to his house next week !? she tell me she ...

Just found out my boyfriend has kids, after he told me he didn't! Should I dump him?

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14 May 2008 (F) - I just found out after six months of dating my boyfriend that he has kids. He told me he didn't should I dump him ? I have not talked to him for 3 days and he keeps calling and leaving messages about how sorry he is. Thanks for any input someone can ...

My overcontrolling mom is interfering with my relationship with my boyfriend!

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14 May 2008 (F) - Okay, so I have a big dilema. Its a long story. My parents dont approve of my boyfriend or my best friend. It is mostly my mom that doesnt approve, I havent talked to the rest of my family yet. The reason why she doesnt approve of my boyfriend is ...

I met a girl and got her number, but now she won't respond

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14 May 2008 (M) - I met this girl at a gig about 10 days ago. we start talking and after 20min chatting i asked her for her number and she said yes but only if you give me yours too. two days later i called but she didnt pick up the phone so i send a txt asking her ...

All I want to know is if YOU would want to be with someone like this?

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14 May 2008 (M) - Ok, I am going to summarize everything and all I want to know is if YOU would want to be with someone like this. My GF before she met me: Slept with 18 people, involved in group sex, cheated, had an abortion, stripped for coke, lots of one nigh...

Can anyone offer any advice on how to cope with a difficult break up?

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14 May 2008 (F) - I dont know whats going on with me. Ii hate and love my bf all at the same time so I have decided to leave him for us both. But what happens when they're not there anymore? After coming out of a 2 year relationship in which we are and were very ...

Part of me loves him and part of me doesn't. Am I just wasting my time?

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14 May 2008 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for sixth months now and at the start it was great, we went out and had fun and I really enjoyed being with him. Completely thought 'this is great, I'm falling in love' and unfortunately that's not the ...

Is it possible she could lose interest so suddenly?

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14 May 2008 (M) - im so confused. theres this girl ive met who i really like. ive met up with her a couple of times at the weekend when we'v both been out in town. she says she would like to go on a date but ive asked about three times and theres always been an excus...

I'd like to go on a date with her, but I think I might have been too keen. Have I made a mess of it all?

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14 May 2008 (M) - I gt talking to a girl a couple of weeks ago from a dating site (plentyoffish.com). She said she was just looking for dating, nothing else. We messaged and texted for a couple days until I mentioned 'girlfriend' in a message. (I'd like to date ...

I have a huge crush on my boss! I don't know what to do about it...

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14 May 2008 (F) - Hi, I am a 23 year old girl who has a huge crush and doesn't know what to do. I have had a crush on my boss since I started working at my job five months ago. He is about five years older than me and I don't think that's a bad age difference, but ...

Love and Pain

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14 May 2008 (F) - Love hurts. I have heard this before, but I never imagined that it could be so very true. The literal pain that I feel inside of me is intolerable, and you are none the wiser. I’m in love with you, did you know that? I doubt that you did. I have ...

21 and I've never had a real relationship, how do I overcome this?

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14 May 2008 (M) - I'm currently a 21 year old junior in college. I have never had a real relationship with a girl. Its not that I don't hook up with girls, I just can seem to make relationships work. I always get bored or over it once I start to hang out with a girl ...

I feel so alone knowing my partner loves another.

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14 May 2008 (M) - Hi I feel so alone knowing my partner loves another. She does not know that I am aware of this relationship as one of her friends told me and says she would leave in an instant for him. Our relationship has been rocky but good in places. We have ...

Does he secretly want me back?

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14 May 2008 (F) - My question is, does my ex secretly want me back? My ex and I had a very close relationship off and on for about 5 years. At one point we were living together and engaged but the relationship ended on account of some growing up and dealing with ...

Please help me, does she deserve another chance? Do I?

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14 May 2008 (M) - Hi,Me and my girlfriend were dating for about a month and a half. There were many reasons for me to be somewhat untrusting of her because she has cheated on me twice. But the first time it happened i had no proof but i had A witness. She said that ...

My parents have stupid rules about my girlfriend. How can I fix that?

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14 May 2008 (M) - ok well tonight my gf came over and was outside with my friend and i who just got done with a run.. so my mom and dad say we need to go somewhere else to hang out bc my gf was there and "she's not welcome here" at my house bc of an unknown reason at ...

I started dating a player, broke up with him, now cant get him out of my head, help me!

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14 May 2008 (F) - A couple months ago, I was dating a guy that went well for the first 2 weeks (infatuation phase), and then we got physical (kissing, hj, fingering. no sex). I enjoyed it and felt that he sincerely liked me (although he seemed like the player type, ...

I think I'm losing him, please help!

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14 May 2008 (F) - I am a 16 year old girl...I'm really in a very bad mode of life..i'm in a state of losing my love from my hands...I'm in a relationship from 6 months n i don't wanna lose him .....from two weeks nothing going's fine ...he's not talking to me...he's ...

My girlfriend is taller than me now, will I catch her up?

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14 May 2008 (M) - I am 15 and 5'9.5".I have only grown 1/2" since last August. My girlfriend and I began dating when we were 13 and I was the same height I am now. She used to be around 5'6" when we started dating. She started growing and is now 6'2". She always ...

Is it o.k to date someone because they are only engaged?

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14 May 2008 (F) - My grandma is trying to hook me up with a waiter that she sees every weekend at a local resturant. She dragged me in thier and I met the waiter he was good looking and he seemed to be interested in me. But My aunt informed me that he was engaged. I ...

Does 'keep in touch' mean something more to him?

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14 May 2008 (F) - If he says he definitely wants to keep in touch with you, especially after meeting him only 2 times, and have being doing so since (for a year and a half now) I mean of course as friends, but he does actually. But, could he being saving somethin...

My boyfriend cant hold down a job, how can I help?

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14 May 2008 (F) - Ive been with my bf for a while now, over a year, and at first he had a somewhat ok job. Nothing special, but it was work and he got paid. About 4 months after we got together, he quit the job. For no reason whatsoever. Took him quite ...

Did he lose interest or get scared?

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14 May 2008 (F) - I met this guy (24 yrs old) through a friend. We started dating right away and seemed to really hit it off. He was so funny and outgoing (great to make me laugh), but it took him many dates before he kissed me. (Guess he was shy? didn't seem like ...

She backs out at the last minute for whatever reason. Any ideas what's up?

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14 May 2008 (M) - Okay, here it goes... I have gone out with a decent amount of women and am puzzled by this one. Generally speaking, I would just chalk this up as a loss, but I'm not sure if I should. The two of us went to school together years ago, haven't ...

I regret hanging up on him and now he wont call me. I want him back!

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14 May 2008 (F) - Hey please help. I broke with my boyfriend and we have had our fights. We had a very big one day. We called each other names and that is so not me. He called me after the fight, but of course i hung up on him and i regret it. Now he doesn't call ...

Can anyone think of a way to have this girl forgive me?

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14 May 2008 (M) - Hey. I'm in quite a complicated situation and I need advice. This weekend i'm having a sort-of double date movie watching party with friends(2 boys and 2girls, one of the girls i'm setting up with my friend, and the other girl let's call her Red,...

I'm upset, because I think I've ruined my chances with her. Please help.

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14 May 2008 (F) - I like this girl at school. When she was in my class she acted all girly with me and likde me to sit beside her in science. Then she had to switch out of my classes. Now she doesn't even talk to me. then it was this girl that i am totally just frie...

Does she like me or him?

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14 May 2008 (M) - I used to be somewhat of a social recluse, and one day this girl told me that I really needed to come out of my shell. So I started to and I began to like her. She is always asking me questions and seems to like it when I talk to her. She also poin...

Any tips on how to let the guy at work know I like him?

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14 May 2008 (F) - I like this guy at work. How can I let him know without being too foward or unprofessional? Any tip? I'm super shy around guys. (I've been turned down several times before) ...

Did he break up with me over sex?

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14 May 2008 (F) - ugh=( heyy everyone! I have been so stressed out lately, you see me and my ex split up about idunno 2 weeks agoish and drama seems to circulate me whereever i go. People have told me that he broke up with me due to me not letting him hit it...He ...