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Is my pedicure cause for concern?

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23 June 2017 (F - I am not sure if I should be offended or not? But I AM!! I just got a pedicure and I love it. I like the colour. It is bright and summery. My boyfriend did not share my enthusiasm. He said pedicures with any colour draw attention to feet, and he ...

I have huge mental blocks regarding finding a partner but I really want one

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23 June 2017 (F - Hello all, I turned 18 last year and I'm still a virgin. I crave to be with someone, preferably another girl. I'm just scared. I've tried posting ads and online "dating" sites but I never go through with anything. My main issues are 1. I'd get cau...

I need help being more choosy

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23 June 2017 (F - How can I start believing that I deserve a good man? This fear of not finding one has paralyzed me (through therapy) I got to the problem that I'm so scared to be alone- so much I've landed in the arms of men that are - well not very classy. It's ...

My family doesn't approve of my boyfriend

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22 June 2017 (F - Hello, I met this guy online, nearly 2 years ago. He's korean and I'm polish. There are quite a few things that my parents refuse to accept about him and they constantly try to make me break up with him. The main arguments are his short height, th...

Are we playing the "he loves me..he loves me not" game?

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22 June 2017 (F - I had been dating a guy for a year and everything was going fine. And suddenly he stopped receiving my calls or replying to my texts. After continuously texting he replied and said he didnt want to hurt me but he needed space and time.The next day ...

The man I'm dating lied he said he was 30, he's almost 44

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22 June 2017 (F - Aunts and uncles! Please help.. So I've been seeing a guy for 5 months, I'm 25 and he's 30.. Things are a bit rocky here and there, but today iced the cake. I seen a comment on Facebook and decided to Snoop... I see him address his 38 year old brot...

I don't get his on-off attitude

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22 June 2017 (F - I have been dating a guy for 1 and a half years. He asked for space. He asked for space and then said sorry the next day, and again stopped contact with me for a week. Suddenly he texted me again when he needed me and now again has cut off contact ...

Told my boyfriend I got a new job at a hotel. He was concerned men would look up my skirt.

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22 June 2017 (F - I told my boyfriend I just got a new job! It will help me pay my bills and I really needed a job right now. It's in housekeeping at an upscale hotel. The first question he asked is what will I be wearing? He was concerned it would be a skimp...

I'm dating a nice lady but all I can think about is my ex who ghosted me

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22 June 2017 (M - I am seeing someone new who treats me wonderful, the way I've always wanted to be treated, but all I think about is my ex, who I treated great, she ghost me, what I think about is why couldn't my ex treated me this way, it could of been so ...

My parents are so strict and I can't talk to them

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21 June 2017 (F - My parents are really strict and I do not know what to do. I am almost 19 but my parents will not let me date or even be friends with any male. They go through my phone and I have to leave my phone in their room at night. I do however have a ...

Do I ask him about marriage? children? He says he doesn't ever want to marry again

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21 June 2017 (F - Is it wrong to ask my boyfriend to think about having children and getting married? We both have a daughter each, and he has been divorced for the last 3 years officially. He is 10 years older then me, and we met while he was in the process of g...

Am I selfish or is he trying to guilt trip me?

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21 June 2017 (F - I feel my boyfriend has the most unrealistic expectations of me and it's really pushing me away. Hr told me this evening on the phone that his back went out of place so he had to take the day off work to rest as well as see a physio. He also ...

Does her telling me to move on really mean its over?

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21 June 2017 (M - Hello i was in a relationship with a woman for 17 months , she ended it because we argued, quite a bit , as she wanted to settle down,and i did , but not yet , she said at begining of april ,can,t say goodbye , so i,ll say goodnight, that was the ...

A guy is visiting me from Europe, Should I be responsible for his accomodation and hotel bills?

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21 June 2017 (F - It's my first time online dating and I met a likable European guy. He is 28 and I don't expect him to have much money. I really like him and I was to visit him first but because of my work I can't at the moment. He decided to visit first. I live in ...

Should I end my it with my cybersex buddy ?

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21 June 2017 (F - Hello Dear cupid , I have a issue..... I have a pen pal in another country he is in the U.K. And I'm in the USA we met on Instagram it started out friendly but gradually got flirty and sexual we are both really attracted to each other and have ...

Is this guy interested or not?!

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20 June 2017 (F - I met this guy about a year ago now-we met online and met up, we got on well and had a laugh, he didn't push for sex or anything like that, he was really respectful, I had a boyfriend at the time but the relationship was on its way out due to him ...

How can I stop being so jaded ?

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20 June 2017 (F - How can I stop being so jaded and angry towards men - a little background I grew up in a disfuncfional home my dad was physically abusive to my mother and we do not have a relationship - I'm 29 and I've been with two men that well they have been ...

I have feelings for my friend who has a gf. I walked away.. did I do the right thing? Will he change?

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20 June 2017 (F - Hi there! Thanks for taking the time to read my question : ) I am a recently single woman, just started dating again. It's been fun going on dates, but no matter how great the guy is I keep thinking about my friend. At first we just studied ...

If he liked me wouldn't he be texting me more?

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19 June 2017 (F - I think i know the answer to this but would love some advice anyway. Ive been friends on facebook with this guy for a while, i actually went to juniour school wkth him. Hes actually now a minor celebrity- he has his own television series. Thats no...

Why am I so jealous ?

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19 June 2017 (F - I would like to know as I am trying to attempt the dating game at 31 to stop being so possivive-a little background - I have honestly been with three men and two in a relationship - one was long term and he was very manipulating and control- the ...

Is it right to ask her out now she is divorced?

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18 June 2017 (M - I'm a single guy in my 40's. Two of my female friends have a friend that they used to work with who is in her late 30's - I'll call her Shirley. I met her a few times in casual social settings like going to the farmer's market and I always found he...

How do I put him at ease?

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18 June 2017 (F - Myself and a guy I work with have been dancing around each other for a while now, we've been out a couple of times and he's kissed me with a bit of Dutch courage on board! Thing is he's really shy and un-confident and he fully admits to that whe...

I broke things off with him because he isn't at the same place I am. I'm so heartbroken!

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16 June 2017 (F - I started dating a guy about eight/nine months ago after meeting online. The first date was fine but I wasn't particularly smitten - he asked if we could go on a second date. I was hesitant at first - I wasn't really looking to get into anything ...

I like him but didn't want to date a guy who has kids

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16 June 2017 (F - Hey guys, just in need of a little advice! I recently started dating a guy I somewhat work with. I work at a car dealership and I'm in new cars and he is in used.. I say kind of because I'll probably run into him once a week durin our Friday meeti...

What are some warning signs I should look out for when dating?

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16 June 2017 (F - what are some warning signs/ red flags I should watch out for when getting into a relationship? I was in a short term relationship with a guy months ago that I got re- introduced with friends. There was a mutual attraction and I was very excited ...

Is she just being friendly or is she interested?

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16 June 2017 (M - I hope someone can give me some advice. I know I sound pretty inept about it, but it's been about 5 years since I've really dated someone. There's a girl who started working where I do recently, our work is such that we only see each other...

I don't want my g/f to go to the same college as me. It will ruin me making new friends and having my independence

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16 June 2017 (M - I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years of my life. This september I hope to go to university to study law. My girlfriend wasn't planning to go to university until 2 days ago when she moaned at me for not wanting to be with her through university ...

Both my partner and I cheated on each other. Back together now and I'm pregnant but he keeps using my cheating past as a way to justify all his wrong-doings

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16 June 2017 (F - I have been with my boyfriend now for 8 months Within the first month of our relationship I found out his ex was still in the picture messaging eachother and she told me they had had sex. When I found this out I thought I was going to leave h...

How do I tell my girlfriend that I'd like her to be my first sex partner?

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16 June 2017 (M - I have been dating my girlfriend for 5 months now. I’m defiantly into her. We do a lot of fun things together. I have not had sex yet. She has told me that she has. I would like her to be my first sex partner. I think she is smart, cute, beautiful, ...

I love my girlfriend but can't get my ex out of my head

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15 June 2017 (F - I've been with my current girlfriend for 2 years. I love her to pieces but I can't get my ex out of my head. I miss her and want to talk to her again. She had been upset about me for a long time but she may have gotten over me. I've ways loved her. ...

Recently diagnosed with HSV-1 and HSV-2, he tested himself and results were negative??

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14 June 2017 (F - So I have a few concerns about my current situation. To begin, I was having low back pain for about 5 months and I finally decided to go to the doctor to try to get it checked and maybe some relief medication. While I was there my PCP also did ...

Why do people behave so weirdly online vs in real life?

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14 June 2017 (F - why do people behave so weirdly online vs in real life? i know i do it too, and i just want to know the reasons. i go to college with a guy i really like and who i think really likes me, we go out together all the time, and we make plans together ...

Should his life choices be a dealbreaker?

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14 June 2017 (F - I met a man at my job and we worked together a few months. I since have left the job because I got something better :) I never date co-workers but we did flirt a lot at the job. Only after I left did i agree to date him. He revealed to me a DUI he h...

We meet just once a month for sex. This isn't a healthy relationship, right? Should I let him go?

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14 June 2017 (F - I've been dating this guy for about 9 months and he works full time. I only see him once a month and when I do see him it's only for sex. I understand that he has a crazy work schedule but once a month? We've had problems before because he was ...

Why would a man decide, at the last moment, to not use a condom in this way?

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13 June 2017 (F - my partner and i was about to have sex and he went to get a condom. When he got it he was playing with the packaging for a few seconds and put the condom to the side. why? After having sex he started to play with that condom again before putti...

It's been five days and I haven't heard from him.. How can this be resolved?

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13 June 2017 (F - I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a few months. The relationship has been really rocky lately but we continued to try and work through it. A couple of weeks ago we broke up because we have been arguing too much and he didn't seem to w...

I think my bisexual girlfriend might be cheating on me. Are they trying to make me jealous, or is something wrong?

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13 June 2017 (M - I love my girlfriend very much but, the last few days she's spent the whole day and night with this girl that she knows that I can't stand. Today when I went to her house the girl I don't like was there. While I was over there my girlfrie...

I start liking my male friends as more than friends and I don't want this to happen

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12 June 2017 (F - Hello I am 18 and have just finished my last year at college. For about the past year, I keep forming attractions towards my male friends. I mean yes before then I'd be sexually attracted to guys I speak to once or pass in the street but never ...

I'm 20, she's 16. I'd like to hear people's thoughts

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12 June 2017 (M - I am 20 years old and a girl that I like a lot is 16. We met each other and started talking after het parents gave my number to her. The really like me and we get along quite well. The only thing that is scary to me is the age difference, and I ...

Am I too sexual for him? Our sex life seems bland.

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10 June 2017 (F - Hi need some advice on my sex life. So I've been in a relationship for two years and I love my bf very much. The problem is that our sex life is quite bland. I am quite adventurous and kinky I love to go down on him but he doesn't reciproc...

In process of breaking up with my partner. Is my physiotherapist flirting with me, or not?

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10 June 2017 (F - Hey everyone. So, I've been with someone was 4 years and we have a child together. Over the past two years or so, the relationship has become incredibly fraught and there's no passion or excitement. It drains the life out of me and my partner t...

What can I do? How should I handle this? Her sexual past and her ex who was her FWB are issues that are making me feel insecure.

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10 June 2017 (M - Ok so me and my gf have been going out for about 8 months. And I've been struggling with her sexual past a lot recently. She's slept with about 10 people before me, they were all ons apart from one friends with benefits she had just before we start...

He has Mommy issues 2. Should I move on? Or wait for him?

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10 June 2017 (F - I was with this guy for about a couple of months, we met on a dating site..he has Mommy issues, he is in his 30s amd his mom lives with him but they constantly fight she belittles him and he just takes iy because she has no where else to go.. He end...

Feeling un-easy about my gf going on cruise. Am I going to be cheated on during the cruise?

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10 June 2017 (M - My girlfriend of 6 months is going on a cruise with her family for a week here soon, I am just kinda of un-easy because of all the stories I've heard about what happens on cruises. I'm her first ever bf and she's never given me a reason to suspect ...

Should I tell my boyfriend the truth about a small crush?

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10 June 2017 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 10 years. In the past 4 years, I've started to become really unhappy because he has broken so many promises, has lied so much, and I want to be married. He says he want's to be married too, but...

I advised the male friend that jacking off is normal, but telling me all about it is not. How should I deal with this issue when I raise it with my Bf?

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9 June 2017 (F - Hello, I've been here historically and your answers have really helped me so I am hoping you can help me with something else as I honestly don't know how to talk to anyone about this or if I should. Before I get into it I need to point out that I...

Should I be worried? He's 18 years older than me, separated and with kids.

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8 June 2017 (F - So I have been seeing this amazing guy for a few months now and I'm head over heels for him. He is the same towards me. The only thing that worries me is he is 18 years older than me and is separated with kids... Advice please?...

Should I commit to moving? Worried about his cheating in past and about leaving my family

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7 June 2017 (F - Hi! I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for a little over two years. He is 27 and I'm 21, so naturally he has more experience than I do. 6 months into our relationship, he confessed that he had cheated on me, so we broke up...

I have fallen in love with my FWB and feel I just may regret it. Am I being gullible ?

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7 June 2017 (F - I had fallen in love with my fwb and wanted more but he was not ready to formalize an already existing relationship. we are already acting like a real couple...so why not just acknowledge it. this was four months of being lovers( sex was ...

My partner for 3 years loves me. Would it be wrong to take a chance with another man who I've loved for 27 years?

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7 June 2017 (? - Dear Cupid, I have recently been contacted by the man I've been in love with for 27 years. There are songs I couldn't listen to, our anniversary date that I still hold dear to my heart. I hadn't laid eyes on him in 18 years and that one time wa...

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