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Should I give up on a shy guy? Is he just not that into me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted today

21 September 2018 (F - I've been friends/acquaintances with a guy for 6 months now. I don't know him all that well but when we talk we would really get on and have a lot in common. He wow make excuses to come chat to me all the time. He's 10 years older than me an...

Good date but no sparks. Should I ask for a second?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted yesterday

21 September 2018 (M - Hi all, I went on a first date with a girl last night. We met on a dating website. I am unsure what to do next. She was a nice girl and I think the date went well. It was comfortable and conversation flowed. She said at the end that it felt lik...

How do I stop self sabotaging.my relationships?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

19 September 2018 (F - Every time I get in a relationship I seem to always panic that I am annoying them or I over think things to must making up problems that aren't there making the situation 10x worse than what it is already. What can I do to try and stop this from ...

Is he fobbing me off, I thought we had a good thing going.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

18 September 2018 (F - I started seeing a guy a month ago. He’s 12 months separated from his wife with two young children. Our relationship seemed really promising but then he went a bit cold. He says his ex wife is being really challenging. She calls him up out of the ...

I'm happy with the way things are, but she is talking marriage and babies

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

18 September 2018 (M - I have been dating a girl for 7 months now, due to my working hours and her studying at college, we only see each other 2-3 times a week. I am happy with the relationship the way it is because I like my space and time to myself, however she is ...

Move on or try to resolve between us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

17 September 2018 (F - Hey everyone, I've posted a while back about how to move on from my ex etc but wanting a bit advice on an update really. Long story short, me and my partner split up about 4/5 months ago now. We lived together for the majority of our relationship...

How can I get better at finding the one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

17 September 2018 (F - I wanted to get some advice since my love life is a mess ( or lack of). I have been single for a year and a half and I have tried a lot of things to find the “one” but nothing - I can’t seem to connect with men and the ones I do connect with or ...

Am I being paranoid about my girlfriend’s interactions at work with this guy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

16 September 2018 (M - I work at a restaurant with my girlfriend. We just got into a big fight which was my fault. So we’ve barley spoken for a few days. I come into work and i notice my gf getting her shirt sleeves rolled up by a guy coworker. Then i see she’s ...

My progressive hair loss is making me insecure about dating

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

14 September 2018 (M - Hi all, I'm having a real tough time with my confidence on dates. This has been due to my now significant hair loss. I'm in my late 20's and recently went out with a girl who i'd not seen for almost a year (i'd had to move away for work, but we kept ...

He says he can't predict how he will feel in the fututre

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

14 September 2018 (F - I’ve been with my bf for 6 months it’s all going well we love each other a lot and planning on moving in in a month. He’s 30 and only had a handful of short term relationships (9 months max - he’s a commitment phobe and has never felt previous ...

What is the next move for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

11 September 2018 (M - I don't really know how to read this situation or move forward with it.. I went on a couple of dates last December with a girl i met online. They went really well, however I had to move away early in the new year for work. We loosely kept in touch...

I kissed my ex when on a break from my boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

11 September 2018 (F - I need help, me and my boyfriend always break up and this time I thought we broke up for good, but no. He came back like always. But while we broke up I kissed my ex. And I feel so bad about it but I don’t know what to do. My boyfriend told me he ...

DId I ruin a good thing by commenting on his social media and being petty?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

10 September 2018 (F - Hey guys, I'm in a dilemma with a guy. So the beginning of August, I start talking to this college athlete that goes to the neighboring school. Everything is great, affection, attention, dates, sex and spending time. Until about a week ago, he pos...

I'm feeling cringy and insecure about texts I sent

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

9 September 2018 (F - I am cringing because i sent a 'I missed you text as well as a follow up text saying that he doesnt have to say it back to me if he doesnt feel like it.' I started saying I miss you last week, so it's something new in our relationship. It's be...

I am recuperating from surgery and my boyfriend is having some girl I've never met pick him up and go out drinking

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

8 September 2018 (F - I need to know if I'm being Ridicolous and this is just petty. Or if what he is doing is wrong. I ended up having emergency surgery Wednesday which was completely unexpected. My boyfriend has been amazing. Coming to see me straight after work and...

My boyfriend is on a dating app! What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

7 September 2018 (F - My boyfriend is on a dating app online for an hour. There's no photos and details but it says single looking for a relationship and half the profile is false to hide his identity. As soon as he went to sleep the profile said offline. What should I ...

Is this relationship based on sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

6 September 2018 (F - I am in a weird relationship with a 48 year old man. I lost my virginity to him but lied I was on my period. I had sex because I was ready to and do not feel an ounce of guilt. All I wanted from him was to have sex, get over with the pain and move ...

He’s going away for the weekend with one of his best female friends!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

6 September 2018 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together 3 months,we knew each other before though and its pretty serious. Everything has been good but there is one thing Im not comfortable with and its that hes going away for the weekend with one of his best girl ...

Should I call him out or just drop it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

6 September 2018 (F - Back story: I started seeing this guy back in February, but ONLY as a hookup (my intention at the time, since I was getting out of a 6 year relationship). This lasted for a couple months, and near the end of the couple months, I realized I was s...

How should I go about finding a good intimate connection with the opposite sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

5 September 2018 (F - Two years ago I came to this site and I got some great advice on getting over my ex. I have since then focused on building myself up through affirmations - prayer - positive advice from people and trying to give back to society as a woman ( helping ...

I am paying my girlfriend's rent but we are not on good terms. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

5 September 2018 (M - Found girlfriends journal. Made the mistake of reading some of it. She has been in contact with her ex in prison. Sentenced 25 to life. Wants to visit him as soon as she can. Hasn't seen him in like 2 yrs. I have been supporting her almost 100% for ...

Am I stuck up for wanting basic things?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

5 September 2018 (F - I'm been with my bf for a year and half. He lives with his mum still and now built a cabin in his mums garden and says he plans to stay there. I am not happy about staying there with no bathroom, kitchen, space for my things but he says I am stuck ...

Does this indicate that there is more than a friendship or just nothing to worry about?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

5 September 2018 (F - Ok so my boyfriend has a female friend which happens to be his accountant but he told me they are also friends,they around the same age group, he is older than me, when my bf did his housewarming get together he invited me and my family plus his ...

Boyfriend's family word is golden, mine doesn’t count!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

4 September 2018 (F - I need some advice. I have been dating a guy for five years, his family is top priority with him, I am bottom of his list. I will add that his family absolutely dislike me, no matter what I do, it is always wrong. He has a large park RV that his...

Is it unreasonable that I don't want to know about his personal masterbation habits?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

2 September 2018 (F - I hope this question is not too vulgar. It's actually quite personal and embarrassing but I'm not sure how to handle my situation most effectively without some advice. I'm sorry for the length. It's a two part question i guess. A few weeks ag...

Single for 3 years! Is dating hopeless for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

2 September 2018 (F - Okay so I’ve been single for 3 years I have been completely okay and comfortable with it and I have enjoyed it. But sometimes I don’t like it so much because I’m ready to settle down, I wanna get married and have another baby I have a 7 year old and ...

Was I too hard on my boyfriend due to my anxiety issues or did he deserve my wrath?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

30 August 2018 (F - Hi. I've got anxiety. My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. He knows all about my issues. And he has supported me through it all. We have had some major challenges due to my anxiety but we have always worked through them. Yesterday...

Should I feel insecure or worried about him talking about this woman of the past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

30 August 2018 (F - Does it make you feel insecure,when your boyfriend tells you about his ex before you?, like do you wonder if she is prettier, hotter, more smart? Well my wonderful boyfriend, which is older than me,divorced,no kids thank god!!, had an ex if you...

Should I keep talking to him even though I feel like he likes my older sister but knows he can’t do anything about his feelings and is using me to get rid of them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 23 days ago

30 August 2018 (F - Hello! There is this very attractive guy i met almost two years ago. When i met him he had a girlfriend and wasn’t really looking for anything. He recently came last month again and i became very attracted to him. This guy is the same age as me and ...

Can a gay man become straight or could this ruin our friendship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

29 August 2018 (F - It was 5 years ago when I decided to move from Ireland to Chicago to work it was there I met my best friend. Me and John met at work and formed an unseperable friendship. We have been through so much together from breakups to happy moments to ...

After one date his messages have become short and infrequent. Should I give up?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

29 August 2018 (F - I connected with a guy on a dating app and we hit it off. We seemed to be on the same wavelength, there seemed to be a lot of chemistry, a real attraction. We continuously messaged each other. We arranged to meet and counted down the days. The ...

Is he interested in me? Or the girl he is sort of in a relationship with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

29 August 2018 (F - There's this guy I met,he is my teacher at church.The first day he taught me he asked for my number,I gave him and since then he has been organizing to teach me privately. He would ask how my day was,how I was doing and sometimes he would walk me ...

He's messing around with that other girl, he's the one that moved out leaving me paying all the bills when I'm unemployed and yet somehow I'm at fault?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

27 August 2018 (F - Hi guys, this will be a long one so please bear with me... I moved abroad around 3 years ago for work. Two years in, I met Jay who I thought was, as tacky as it sounds, the one for me. I had never had this connection with anybody before and there...

I feel like I am forcing myself on him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

26 August 2018 (F - Im in a long distance relationship that would be three years in November. My boyfriend has been in school abroad, he’s graduated now and is back home.Sometimes things are great, sometimes they are not. So I thought that now that he’s back, and ...

I'm interested in a girl who has a boyfriend. Do I drop a hint that I'm single?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

25 August 2018 (M - I split up with my long term partner because I wasn't sure how I felt and it didn't feel right anymore. I'm in no rush to get into a relationship again but there is a girl who I have an interest in. I think there is a connection between us as I'...

The guy I've been seeing just asked about a threesome with my friend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

23 August 2018 (F - A guy I've been seeing for not long was talking to me tonight and he pulled up a pic on my social media and asked if it was my friend in the pic. I said yes and he said she looks familiar. He then a few sentences later was asking if I wanted a...

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