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Career or relationship? On the cusp of a big decision, I would like your advice!

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15 August 2017 (M - So life has finally slowed down a bit. Its been roughly two months since graduation and my folks think that I should move on with my life. Ive been dating my girlfriend since January last year and its been a roller coaster of emotions that I wouldn...

I got back with my ex but I am struggling!

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15 August 2017 (F - Hi everyone! Would I please able to get some opinions on my situation. I was with my ex boyfriend for almost a year we got on very well and had a pretty good relationship. Although towards the end we began arguing and bickering over differen...

My girlfriend is waiting after a fight for me to says its all my fault. I'm not going to do that again.

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15 August 2017 (F - Hey all, My partner of five years and I had a fight two days ago and we haven't spoken since and I miss her a lot. Usually I am always the one that goes running back and gets us to make up but I'm just tired of her never making that effort. ...

My heart sinks at all the mistakes I've made.

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15 August 2017 (M - So here is my story. 33 year old male. Troubled upbringing form a split home. Involved with drugs and drink from a early age. Tear away teenager who has only finally got my life back on track and got a good job and a good woman in his life. Trouble ...

One minute he says he's not going anywhere, the next he is avoiding discussing feelings!

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15 August 2017 (F - I'm not sure what to think about this situation anymore. I have a male friend who told me that he'd like to be romantically involved with me, however we agreed to wait until my divorce is finalized. We have been close friends otherwise. He told me ...

My best friend's new boyfriend is my former FWB

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14 August 2017 (F - Hi I had a FWB for 6 months the sex was amazing I just got out of a long term relationship and he just enjoyed being single I didn't feel anything for him other than friends and him with me I started texting someone who I genuinely liked and it s...

My question is does that mean I just want sex again and I'm mistakening that feeling for wanting a relationship

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14 August 2017 (F - Hi I'm an 18 y/o girl and I've never had a boyfriend but I'm also not a virgin. I lost my virginity to my guy friend, which wasn't planned at all, but it happened and I guess I don't regret my first time. Better off with someone I trust and respect ...

Any advice on reconciliation?

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14 August 2017 (M - Hello, my ex' and I have been chatting for the last couple months again and getting closer. We talk to each other all day and even make time to spend with each other a couple days a week. I'm taking her to lunch tomorrow and am going to ask to ...

How do I overcome this fear of rejection and anxiety?

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14 August 2017 (M - I am 27 years old and I get anxiety when I approach a woman. I'm a heavy set guy, but more athletic than fat. I've been in relationships before but at this point in my life I would just love to settle down and start a meaningful relationship. I just ...

I cant break up with her because she threatens self harm.

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13 August 2017 (F - Hi, So I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years total now with some time in between here and there. I've been on the fence about breaking up with her for the entirety of this summer but I haven't been able to act on it because she is s...

My best friend's boyfriend tells me he loves me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

12 August 2017 (F - So my best friend's boyfriend likes me and her and I like him as well. I feel horrible for liking him even though I liked him before they started going out. He says we should just wait even though he keeps telling me he loves me. I don't know what ...

What will my boyfriend think of me that I don't have many friends?

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11 August 2017 (F - I am in a relationship and we have been together about three months. I feel a little bit insecure about the fact that i don't really have close female friends in the area (i work on my own, self employed) and where i live, i simply go to work, come ...

How do I make my wrong turn right?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

11 August 2017 (M - Hello i have another question connected to the one i asked earlier , about Reason(s) from Decent man. Shall i message her and say I Really like you a lot . And i am not after ( you know what ) As i am a Decent man ( which is what she ...

Did I make a wrong turn?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

11 August 2017 (M - Hello i went on date,i was as nice as i could be took chocolates, which where her favourites,bought drink meal,i think i talked too much as did not want awkard silences,and was nervous , she 59 , me 54 I said at end can i see you again she said ...

My fiance has stopped trying to make me happy. Its making me not want to marry

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11 August 2017 (F - I think my husband to be is taking me for granted and he doesnt really care about my feeling now. He no longer try his best to make me happy. When we meet he talk with me like im annoying him or like he is bored. He seems to lose passion toward me ...

Each time I nearly had sex I pulled back .... now we have split up!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

11 August 2017 (F - Hi, Me and my now ex boyfriend broke up and it was a very hard decision for us to make because we love each other very much...We met about four months ago at work and we've been together for a month and a half before our break up. Everythi...

I've concerns about this LDR.

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10 August 2017 (F - This guy has just asked me to be his girlfriend but dropped the bombshell that he's moving to Edinburgh for at least a year. We sorta agreed that we would try Long distance and everything was as good as it could be. However, the last few day...

When its good its great but right now its bad.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

9 August 2017 (F - I have been with my boyfriend now for roughly four months. It's long distance so things have gotten intense pretty quickly! We were planning to move in together but I felt it was too soon so I told him how I felt. Since then things have not been ...

We were getting on so well .... but now he just blanks me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

9 August 2017 (F - Is it time for me to give up? So I was seeing this man for a while, things were great and he told me he loved me and we talked about a future together. We met at work. All of a sudden he has now started blanking me, contact fizzled out apar...

Should I feel flattered by this older man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

9 August 2017 (F - I just started seeing a man who is 23 years older than me and I need tips and advice and insights into how a man that age is used to dating in comparison to how I'm used to dating. The truth is our dating experiences are definitely going to differ ...

His ex girlfriends stuff is still a his place!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

9 August 2017 (F - I have been dating my bf for almost a couple months. He was w/his ex for a long time and still has her stuff tho its been awhile since they broke up. Her stuff is still there and I want it gone, I don't want her to have any hold on him. He has ...

My boyfriend lied about his ongoing involvment with his ex.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

9 August 2017 (F - Hi, When i met my partner he was still having his ex round his house watching films, going out, and going on holiday, all of this he lied about. We split up a year later and he was trying to find a house near his ex and he contacted her stra...

I blurted out I LOVE YOU to my married boyfriend. Why does he still want to be with me?

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8 August 2017 (F - I told my married boyfriend of 3.5 years that I LOVE HIM yesterday. It just came out. I did not mean to say it but I did. He was asking me why do I stay with a guy like him? He called himself average, boring, not so attractive yet said I am ...

My boyfriend has his exes as friends on facebook.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

8 August 2017 (F - Is it okay for your partner to have exes on Facebook? I have an issue with my boyfriend having a woman he and his wife had a threesome with a few years ago (they are no longer together) being on his friend list. He also has an ex who had an abortion ...

I've set boundaries on how much "help" I give my boyfriend and he doesn't like it!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

8 August 2017 (F - Am I a hypocrite? Am I mean? I know for a fact I'm confused. My bf and I were recently laid off and have 60 days to find a new job. I've already updated my res and applied to 6 places. I have even looked for jobs my bf could apply to and hav...

Is it strange to be 'vetted' by your partners family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

8 August 2017 (M - Does anyone else think this is a little odd, basically I am in a new relationship with a lovely woman and she has told me that a certain person that she knows (I don't know if it is a family member or friend) has 'vetted' me to make sure I am who I ...

Savings for our house keep getting taken away by Mum in law

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

8 August 2017 (F - Hi cupids... I'm in a bit of difficulty at the moment and don't know if I'm being selfish...me and my boyfriend live together at his mums at the moment.. we are trying to save to buy a house together.. my boyfriends mum lost her job a few months ...

My ex bf contacted me, I told my bf about it, mistake or no?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted yesterday

8 August 2017 (F - I dated this guy briefly, but broke up w/him due to him being a control freak and somewhat mentally unstable. His number was blocked, but the other day I deleted all my blocked numbers (I didn't even know it was his number). He ended up messaging ...

My partner shows little empathy when I am upset

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

8 August 2017 (F - My brother died in a bike accident and the third year anniversary is next week. I dread this time of year. My mum is still heartbroken. My partner shows he cares through practical things like cooking a meal or walking my dog. I am tactile, warm and ...

How do I fix things and apologize in order to reconcile?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

7 August 2017 (M - My ex who I broke up with about 5 months ago asked me if I wanted to hang out yesterday with her and her kids and we spent the whole day together playing in the pool and stuff at the house and cooking dinner. We have been good friends the last ...

Why would he want so badly to sleep with other women

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

6 August 2017 (F - My boyfriend of 3years. Experienced "Swinging" with his former spouse. Now he wants me to experience the lifestyle..saying I'll love it... Its really not something I have ever even thought about. Really doesn't interest me... But I suppose my ...

Boyfriends parents ignore me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

6 August 2017 (F - Boyfriend's family makes me feel like a burden? I am cordially invited, but when I am there, I feel like I am in the way....

Boyfriends parents don't like me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

6 August 2017 (F - Boyfriend's parents likes other girlfriend better? Why do I get upset when my boyfriend's family always has the other brother's girlfriend tag along? I feel like I am missing out and it sucks....

Why do I want attention all the time from men?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

6 August 2017 (F - Why do I always enjoy attention from men I can't have? I am a single good looking girl (I'm not trying to be vain but just to paint a picture) and unfortunately I have not had luck in finding a loyal honest man- I have honest though that at work I ...

We bought a house together but feel my fiance is taking advantage of me financially

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

6 August 2017 (F - My finance and I bought a house together at the beginning of the year. I paid for the entire down payment out of my savings account, with the understanding that he will pay me back for his half. In addition, I also put 25K into our joint account to ...

Cheating past discovered via old emails! Should I confront him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

5 August 2017 (F - ve been with my bf for almost 10 years now. I've never had any issues, and never even had a slight suspicion that he would do anything he's not supposed to, and never had trust issues with him (maybe I'm too naive?) one thing always peeved me off ...

My boyfried wont communicate!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

5 August 2017 (F - My bf and I took a long break but decided to try it again in Dec.My issue is he lives and works 2 hrs away. I haven't seen him in 3 months.I told him I need some form of communication (text,call,video chat)atleast once a day.Not for hrs at a time ...

My girlfriend wont give me a BJ!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

4 August 2017 (M - My girl and i are in long distance relationship since the starting and we love and trust each other deeply. We do occasionally meet and have wonderful sex . Currently we are even planning to get married and get our parents involved . Now m...

My boyfriends suggestions are illogical and dangerous.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

4 August 2017 (F - I had to travel for good to find a better life but he convinced me to comeback and live as a real couple with him. Back then our relationship has been starting we shortly met, no details , no long conversations, the looks and decent shy approach ...

I need to rephraze the question to my boyfriend

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4 August 2017 (F - Me and my ex got back in contact September last year we split as he started too work away more then me finding out he met someone else and had a kid with her. Long story cut short he has split with this girl and we have started hitting things o...

Can we survive the distance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

3 August 2017 (F - Recently started seeing this guy. We get on great and things are heading is a good direction. After my track history of men, I'm glad I've found someone who I think is genuine and decent. However. He has just told me that he failed his second y...

My boyfriend is a good guy but I don't know if I am wasting my time

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

3 August 2017 (F - My boyfriend dated a French girl for 2 years and was very open about it. They went on vacations, posted affectionate pictures online and lived in as well. They broke up amicably and remain friends. My boyfriend and I started on a rough note. I wa...

12 years of hits and misses and I have no idea where I stand with this guy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

3 August 2017 (F - This is such a ridiculous, trivial situation, but nonetheless it's giving me a headache and I don't know what to do. So, for backstory: I met a guy when I was 17 and fell completely in love with him, we dated for a few months but ultimately, he w...

Why has this man reappeared saying he's sorry things didn't work out

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

3 August 2017 (F - I met a guy online a few months back. We got on well, there was chemistry and he only lived a 5 minute drive from me. Right from the start even though his profile said he was looking for a relationship I knew he was only after the physical side. ...

Why is my girlfriend being friendly with a guy that won't leave her alone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

3 August 2017 (M - Hey guys just want to know your veiws on my situation. Right my partner works in a pub at night everytime she goes to work she has this one bloke who wont leave her alone always saying how nice her arse is and that he will get her he has even seen a ...

My girlfriend goes out with a male friend who makes her feel uncomfortable being too touchy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

2 August 2017 (M - My girlfriend of 9 months was recently on a night out without me present. She has a few guy friends that I know about that she's been friends with for a few years along with her girl friends and they were all out. One of her guy friends was too ...

How do I get over being rejected by guys?

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2 August 2017 (F - How do I get over the idea of being rejected by guys? Hi I'm 18 and about to go off to university. I've always been scared of getting rejected by guys so I have never put myself out there. As a result... I've never actually experienced reje...

So confused and worried for the future

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2 August 2017 (F - I am so confused about what I should do. My last long term relationship of who I believed I would spend my future and have a family with, we ended as he had gender issues, and wanted to live a life as portraying as female on a regular basis. ...

My boyfriend doesn't want to talk about sex or have sex. Why?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

2 August 2017 (F - My bf is 26, I'm 32. He is very sexual, likes porn, been caught cheating several times. We've broken up and just recently got back together. I've noticed that he seems very uncomfortable watching porn with me, talking about sex, and does not like to ...

He helps me financially but I'm the one who always initiates our conversations. Is he at all interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

2 August 2017 (F - So I have this friend that iv had for a while now. We've actually just met once and hooked up and then he went off overseas for a job. Well, we stayed in contact and have talked on and off. I just had a son and have gone through a tough tim...

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