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He's ready to settle, but I love having my own life. What can I do?

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21 August 2019 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together almost 4 years. We met at uni. When I met him, I had just come home from New Zealand. It was the 3rd country I’d worked in in three years, and I was ready to settle in one place for a while and study. We were ...

He took off to be with family because of a serious illness but now I feel he's ghosting me. Should I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted today

20 August 2019 (F - Hi everyone, Met this guy online, we were face timing each other for two month before we meet, we meet after 2 months and decided to be exclusive from the get go. Everything was going well we had a lovley date On Thursday and Friday, then he ...

There's less passion with this relationship and I am wondering what that means

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19 August 2019 (M - I'm seeing a girl now for the last few months on/off. We met on a dating app and went out a handful of times before I got injured and wasn't able to drive for about 2-3 months. We kept in contact and now things are getting more serious now that I ...

Do I leave a 10 year relationship? Or settle for her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted today

18 August 2019 (M - Hello all. This post is as much venting as asking for others input. The sad truth is that I have nobody to talk to. So sorry if it is long. The big life question I have is: break up with my girlfriend, or settle for her. It is more than just...

Will he come back to me again after taking space?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 August 2019 (F - I met a wonderful guy a few months ago and we hit it off immediately. He told me that I was everything he ever wanted in a relationship and I felt the same. He has a young son (3) with his ex girlfriend and I was introduced to him a couple weeks ago ...

I feel like I’m grieving someone who is still alive. How do I let go and cope with losing someone to addiction & mental health issues?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

13 August 2019 (F - My ex-fiancé was the man of my dreams. He proposed this year after dating for three years. A few months later, his personality suddenly changed. He became disrespectful and manipulative. He then admitted to having severe depression and anxiety ...

I really like this girl but I don't know where to go from here

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted yesterday

12 August 2019 (M - I dont know what to do here! please help, sorry ahead of time this is kind of long. I work at a book store that this girl is a customer of. ( we have a strict rule about not asking out customers, reasonable rule, i have no arguments about ...

Is my boyfriend just going through a phase? Trying to impress a friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

11 August 2019 (F - Im in this relationship for like about 2 years now and things have changed somuch recently. At first my BF was super nice to me and all was working out. We used to go out sometimes to places and have fun and he was like always very kind and sweet. ...

Do I go back to my ex or see if theres potential with the new guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

11 August 2019 (F - Almost 2 years ago i started a relationship with a guy (call him A), he didnt work and suffered with ptsd and would tell elaborate lies. After 4 months we ended things so to speak, we drifted apart very fast. Fast forward to 2 month ago and i joined ...

I want more from my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

9 August 2019 (F - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. We moved in together around 4 months ago. I love him, he loves me. At the start of the relationship he was the one persuing me and wanting more of my time and attention. Now the tables have turned. I want to ...

I'm worried about my boyfriend's interactions with our mutual friend/coworker

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9 August 2019 (F - Part of me just wants to vent my feelings to people who don't know my situation, but also, I just don't know what to do. (Sorry, this will be long) The situation between my boyfriend and I has been up and down. Not like big arguments or any...

He's coming on way too strong but I can't decide if he's genuine or manipulative?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

9 August 2019 (F - Me and this man have been dating for 6 months, but we have been having alot of arguments the past 3 months it's almost a weekly thing. I do like him but i don't want to make it as an official 'relationship' till i make sure he's the right man, ...

My best friend is mad at me for not telling him I dated someone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

8 August 2019 (F - About a year ago I asked a question regarding dating my best friend after my divorce . To give people a general background I’m divorced I’ve been friends over 13 years with an American man we started as pen pals. We have been there for eac...

He never asks about me our conversations are shallow

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

8 August 2019 (F - So I've been dating X for a little over a month, while we are dating exclusively we are taking it slow and are not in a relationship yet. He's a super nice and overall great guy, our dates are fun, he respects my space and I feel it's going great......

I regret my decision to have an abortion and now I want another baby

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

8 August 2019 (F - Hi everyone, So I had an abortion at Christmas. My boyfriend and I were only together for 6 months, we have no money and we live in my flat. At the time it seemed like the sensible decision. However 8 months later, I'm regretting the decisi...

Boyfriend still in touch with ex says he needs his privacy and says he will pay for sex. Is he cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

8 August 2019 (F - My boyfriend has a well paid job and I know he has money, but he is too stingy. We had a small argument over money issue and he told me, if he want sex, he will just make a call and he will get it and that he needs his privacy that's why he don't ...

I am worried about my boyfriend's baby mama

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

7 August 2019 (F - Hello i am a young girl of 18 am dating a guy of 22 he has a child which hurt me most at times when i think of it . I truly love him and wish i could spend the rest of my life with him . He love me so much but my problem is his baby mama ,she still ...

I think my girlfriend is bored and prefers living away from me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

5 August 2019 (M - I'm worried my girlfriend is getting bored with our relationship. We've been together nearly 4 years. She keeps asking questions like "Do you ever feel like we're more like friends than a couple?" or "Do you ever wonder if we're a normal couple?". ...

Do I give my ex extra time to pay me back or go to court?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

5 August 2019 (F - I was dating a guy for almost a year, he had had a very bad time with his health and wasnt working. He slowly got better and the doctor signed him off sick so he could work. In the time he wasnt working i offered to lend him a bit of money which he ...

I still find it difficult to feel worthy of being loved or at least, to give love. How do I overcome this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

4 August 2019 (F - I've lived in a very unstable family. Basically, my dad was emotionally and physically abusive with me and my mom, I've grown up in family problems and abuse for years, also my dad being a cheater (cheating 5 times on my mom) and being greedy and ...

Even divorcees with kids have it better than me when it comes to dating and marriage! What am I doing wrong?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

2 August 2019 (F - This is more like a frustration rant. My last relationship ended years ago. Since then, I have been going on dates, dating events etc but have not found anyone suitable. A year back, I have also signed with matchmaking agencies where I spent over ...

Boyfriend deleted his ex girlfriend's texts

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

1 August 2019 (F - I've been living with my bf now for almost 2 years. Recently, his ex texted him again. I know because he told me that she did. I asked to read the texts a few days later, but was told that they had been deleted. I asked why he had deleted the...

Do I have to invite this person to my party?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

29 July 2019 (M - I'm having a birthday party soon.I have to restrict numbers because of budget. Some of the people coming are frinds of my gf- I've been with her for 10 years. There's one particular guy I can't stand. He often makes digs at me, and although never d...

When do I explain to this man about my health?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

25 July 2019 (F - Hi, I've been ghsv1 positive for about a year or 2 now and have had perhaps 2 or 3 very very mild outbreaks since my initial diagnosis. A while ago I got out of a serious relationship (with the guy who have it to me) and I started talking ...

The way my boyfriend acts makes me feel insecure

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

24 July 2019 (F - I’ve been dating a guy for a year now. He’s practically very committed - helps me out around my home, is great with my three year old (loves spending time with him), and talks openly about our future. In 30, have a great job and my own home and he ...

5 months into our relationship and partner is dragging his feet filing for divorce from wife.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

23 July 2019 (F - A guy I've known over the years went through a split up with his wife. He was staying at my brothers house but it was crowded there so i told him he could stay with me. I just so happened to be searching for a roommate to help out. It wasn't long ...

My boyfriend is repulsing me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

22 July 2019 (F - This is going to sound really bad, but i am starting to get really repulsed by my bf. We broke up breifly this yr n got bk together for the kids but i still feel the same. I see him like a friend, no spark, nothing in common anymore and i honestly ...

My partner is into beastiality

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

22 July 2019 (F - My partner is into beastialiy Not sure how to deal with this one? I have known for some time that my partner of 6 years has always watched porn and I can’t say I was thrilled about it but I put up with it. Now I’ve recently discovered that ...

Is it ok to have a relationship, but keeping my goals first at the same time?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

22 July 2019 (F - Hey guys! Despite my usual posts in here, I have a pretty calmed down question/need for advice. I was in a 6 year relationship from 18 to 25. I am now 27 and after a slew of some flings and single dating, I was able to find a really great ...

I'm single and pregnant, despite complications with the baby the father doesn't want to know about us.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

21 July 2019 (F - So I was dating a guy for 2 months, going really well then he ended the relationship due to the fact he didn't like the fact I have children, 3 weeks later I found out I was pregnant with his child, (implant broke) he said when he found out he ...

I'm off to a spa weekend by myself, my boyfriend didn't want to come and he wants to stop me going too!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

21 July 2019 (F - I have booked myself a spa break in a classy hotel as a treat and my boyfriend is saying its a dodgy place to go in a hot tub with strangers in a bikini for a woman. He kept saying men could try and chat me up. I don't understand this Im going ...

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