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Does my boyfriend have commitment issues? He won't change his address

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29 March 2017 (F - My boyfriend and I have been living together for almost a year, but he hasn't changed his address with the post office. He is still picking up mail at his parents house. We moved in together June 2016. Last weekend I mentioned it and he said, "t...

We booked a weekend away to save our relationship and he wants to play soccer! Am I selfish? Am I not a priority to him?

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29 March 2017 (F - My boyfriend and I have been having fighting almost non-stop for the last 3 weeks with things being hard since the new year. Every time we make up and promise not to fight, we do it again. We have been together almost 2 years and been through ...

Is he a commitment-phobe? Is there still a chance?

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29 March 2017 (F - Hello! I'm a 39 yr old female who was dating a 38year old male. We dated for four and a half months and he broke up with me almost a week ago. I was on the verge of suggesting we take a break but he beat me to the punch. Sex was enjoyable ex...

I'm becoming close with my best friend's hubby's best friend! Is there something there or is this wrecking a friendship?

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29 March 2017 (F - I've becomever very close with my best friends hubbys bestfriend. We hang out all the time and he stays at my house most nights or I'm at his.(unfortunate event car accident and he's got to vehicle)people think we are dating but we are "just ...

Was I being used, by her ?

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28 March 2017 (M - I was dating a girl for 5 weeks – I felt there was something special there and every time we met there was always at least one point where we both laughed so hard we were crying. We even had cute pet names for each other (I called her peach). ...

Should I try online dating?

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28 March 2017 (M - As a male virgin who's never been on a date, never kissed a girl, and never had a girlfriend, I've been thinking a lot lately about trying online dating. I've never been competent at approaching women, it always results in rejection. In the pa...

Girlfriend doesn't make any real effort to lose weight despite wanting to

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28 March 2017 (M - I've been in relationship with my girlfriend for about 7 months now. I liked her for her personality and character but her weight had always bothered me right from the start. She was actually slim just under 2 year back(she looked amazing) but gai...

I like him but he doesn't stimulate me. Should I try again?

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28 March 2017 (F - Hi, I am under a lot of pressure by parents to get married, culturally, I'm old, 30. And my parents really care about whay others think. Anyways, I met a guy online. Sweet, untrustworthy guy, which is hard to find in a world full of untrustw...

How do I help my girlfriend? She seems to be very depressed but won't seek help

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27 March 2017 (M - I'm worried about my girlfriend, I think she might be depressed but she refuses to talk to anyone other than me about it and even then I have to really try in order to get her to tell me how she's feeling. She keeps talking about how she doesn't ...

I love her, I like her personality, and we've dated for 4 years in a LDR, but I have mixed feelings. Can I come to terms with the fact that she is hairy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

27 March 2017 (M - I have been with this girl for almost 4 years by now, and according to how everything has proceeded (education/financial etc) it's time for making the advance for marriage, as has always been our plan. We have not had sex (saving for marriage...

Should I ask him if there is a medical problem for the lack of sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

27 March 2017 (F - Hi Guys, To you think my guy suffers from fertile dysfunction. Been seeing this guy for about 4 months, we have only had sex a few times as we didn't want it to only be about sex. Anyway we have sex it's great then the next morning he can't...

I feel trapped, I want him to move out but he has no money!

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27 March 2017 (F - Dear Cupid My boyfriend is 45 and we have been together for a few years. I am aware that he likes to drink and we have had some arguments about this and I have told him I respect his right to make his own choices but a life which focuses on alcoh...

Was he lying about his reasons for blocking me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

27 March 2017 (F - I was dating a guy and he was leaving on duty for a couple weeks. He lied to me about deleting social media, he actually ended up blocking me. When I caught him in his lie, he said anxiety and paranoia made him delete me, he thought I would stalk ...

How can I believe there is a good guy out there?

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27 March 2017 (F - I feel like I have given up on love- my whole life I'm in my early thirties now but I used to believe that there was a nice guy out there and that if ur a genuine person that will be rewarded. I'm 32 and I have completely lost faith in love - I...

I've met the perfect guy but after getting back in contact with my ex I am confused

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

27 March 2017 (F - I’ve been dating this seemingly perfect guy for the past couple of months and honestly the way he is with me and treats me is just perfect. I have a ‘check list’ of everything I want in a man he is everything and more BUT... Out of the blue my ex ...

My boyfriend thinks I've gone off him but we don't have a bed of our own!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3 days ago

27 March 2017 (F - Hi I've been with my bf for almost a year now. We used to have sex and I used to make him excited but we recently moved in with my sister and her daughter so we share the living room. We have sex yeah but its not ideal considering its either on the ...

How do I avoid blowing what could have been my best chance to date him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

26 March 2017 (F - I am a very shy person when it comes to dating usually I meet people through friends so its not so bad. Recently I got chatting with a bloke and we arranged a date. We had our 2nd date this weekend. This date we had at his place and had a few drinks...

I'm dating someone new but don't think I'm over my ex. Should I let the new guy go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

26 March 2017 (F - I am 28, In November I was dumped through whatsapp by my ex who I was madly in love with I was only with him for 4 months but I felt so much love for him after one month I got pregnant and had a n abortion and it totally messed me up as o didn't ...

Will men I date care about my living situation?

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26 March 2017 (F - I'm single. I haven't dated in the dating market because My self esteem is so low and I always have ran to men that have been self centered and have taken me for granted - anyways I always have this issue of living at home- at the moment I am ...

I ended things. He has no time for me. Did I make a mistake?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

26 March 2017 (F - I've been dating this doctor for about two months now. He is almost done but for the next 4 months has to go to another hospital 2 hours away. However he is back on Fridays and stays for the weekend. My issue with him is that he does not seem to ...

I broke up with boyfriend, then changed my mind and now he isn't responding!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

26 March 2017 (F - I broke up with my bf 2 days ago, we had fought very miserably. He was pleading until last night to patch up. However, I decided to save the relationship, but today he didn't call up or text even once. I called him and left him a message that "I ...

Going silent on me after I asked him how he felt about me by telling me he would talk to me when he is ready.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

26 March 2017 (F - Hi. I don't know what to make of my bf's behavior. I asked him a week and a half ago ago who he felt about me, because we are in a long distance relationship and do not get to see one another very often. I don't know how he feels about me, th...

He says he's a bad guy, but his actions tell a different story?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4 days ago

25 March 2017 (F - I met a guy on tinder, we hit it off and have been dating for 3 months. We're really similar and get along extremely well, but both coming out of long-term relationships about a year ago, so we decided to keep things casual. I got extremely confused ...

Does it sound like my boyfriend wants to get me pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

25 March 2017 (F - So I think my boyfriend wants me to get pregnant , without actually saying it . This is more of a question for the guys since they may know more about how they think. First of all we haven't been dating for long but he's already talked about get...

How do I explain culture difference?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

24 March 2017 (F - Dear agony aunts Since last December I have been seeing a man that I had feelings for the thing is he is not from the same culture as I am and we have absolutely different ways of living and expectations. Just yesterday he told me he is falling ...

I want our first kiss and it's a now or never situation. How do I plan it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

24 March 2017 (M - Hi, The situation: in new york, upcoming third date, "now or never" kiss her or become friend zoned; afterwards, I leave the country for three weeks. She is gorgeous, smart and kind, and says a tad serious while attracted to guys who make her l...

Should I give romance a miss and focus on my mental health?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

24 March 2017 (F - I don't know why I keep blaming myself for this, but I do. I dated my on and off boyfriend ( he is now my ex) from October 2015 until January. During that time, I became friends with someone who worked in the pub that he went in. He was always there ...

I overthink and cannot just let things be in the moment.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

24 March 2017 (F - Dear aunts and uncles, I often do overthink stuff and I feel like I am in this situation too. All I am asking here if for you guys to hear me out and give me your views and comments. Sorry if this post gets too long. Thank you in advance to al...

She says she wants to be friends with me but wants to take a year off to focus on her new relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

24 March 2017 (M - Hi, I was sort of dating this girl. We flirted, talked every day, I emailed her cute things, amde her things, she sent me a nice care package, etc. but then realized things were not right. We decided since we shared so much, I asked her if we could...

Did he ever love me? Was there any other girl in the picture? Or was I right and he really is a narcissist?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

23 March 2017 (F - I was dating a guy for a year...he fell in love with me but i didn't feel the same. It's only now since our argument and split that i realise how much i care about him but now he wants nothing to do with me. We had one serious argument in the ...

I suspect my fiance is cheating but he thinks I am stupid!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

23 March 2017 (F - My fiancé was out last weekend and I was informed from one of his friends he was walking a girl home. The weekend before he was out and lost his phone and I call it and a girl answers whom he had left the phone at her house. This was the only...

My addictions are affecting my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

23 March 2017 (M - Hi, I'm a 22 year old gay male and I think I may have a problem. I've been dealing with feelings of depression and loneliness ever since the 7th grade. Although it is a lot better now because I am more independent, they always come back. I feel ...

I asked him to slow down ... did I screw up?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

23 March 2017 (F - I met a guy on an online app. We are both super interested in each other just that I needed him to slow down as he was coming on way too strong. He started talking relationship stuff even before we met, which would be fine, but I don't trust a guy ...

My boyfriend does not like my ex husband doing my laundry!

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22 March 2017 (F - My boyfriend does not like my ex husband doing my laundry. He called my ex a saint for doing it and said he must care about me to do it still. Like there is an emotional connection and he feels I should finish with the relationship entirely. But the ...

Is this man using my sister, and did she move him into her house too soon?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

22 March 2017 (F - This is really a question about my sister. She is the sweetest kindest girl, aged 45, divorced with two teenage sons. She tends to fall in love very easily, and rushes into relationships, and those relationships rarely last, so she ends up hear...

Is it really worth it to file for child support? I got pregnant 3 months into dating him, then he disappeared

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

22 March 2017 (F - The baby's father isn't in the picture. I have tried to reach out to him during this pregnancy, but nothing. I kind of am considering to file for child support, since I'm living with my mom and don't make as much at the moment. The only thi...

Family conditioning has defined sex as inappropriate and dangerous. How can I stop feeling afraid pf physical sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

22 March 2017 (F - Ever since I was young, sex was explained to me as something that was inappropriate, dangerous, and could generally be used against me. Both of my parents were always adamant that men couldn't be trusted, and that I needed to be cautious and awar...

What are the chances of success and happiness for women STARTING new relationships after the age of 50?

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22 March 2017 (F - I've read horrible statistic that the odds of a woman marrying after 50 are something less than winning the lottery . What the hell ? Is this true . Are we really that unattractive and unwanted? What are women's experiences with STARTING new...

Bad sign or just a poor planner?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

21 March 2017 (F - After a week of talking, I finally met the guy for date. He was late to the 1st date, which is ok once in awhile. We spent about 6 hours together and we were planning to spend today together. There was never a time set up. There is an event I've ...

Am I a repressed sex addict?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

21 March 2017 (F - Dear cupid, I am 30 year old woman and I have bein single for most of my life, happily single I should say. I had my first kiss at 15, lost my virginity at 18. These were two kinda isolated events more like a box to tick, virginity gone what's n...

Why does inexperience turn women off more than the other way around?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

21 March 2017 (M - Why does inexperience turn women off more than the other way around? Why is it that if a guy never had a girlfriend before, he is a turn off to the majority of girls that have had their fair share of boyfriends or just been in a relationship before, ...

His ex is stunning and a lovely girl and I feel that I just don't measure up

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21 March 2017 (F - Hi everyone and thanks for taking the time to read my question. Ok so iv been with my boyfriend for a year now,he's the most caring and kindest man iv ever met and he is so good to me. I have no problem -however I find myself constantly comparing ...

My boyfriend says he doesn't care about things!

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21 March 2017 (F - My boyfriend lives with me and I mean, we've had our arguments, but I find that he pays no attention to me. He goes to work, the gym, then he comes home and plays video games until we go to bed and pays more attention to the dog even. I've asked him ...

I feel so insecure because he hasn't said the "L" word.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

20 March 2017 (F - I've seen this type of post a few times on here, but I wanted to share my personal situation and get your input. Thanks in advance! My BF and I are 24. We've been officially dating for 5 months. These months have been extremely happy. He is so ...

Do you think I have the right be upset since technically he is still married?

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20 March 2017 (F - I moved to a new town and got a job as a server at a local restaurant. One of my co workers is very cute and a lot of the girls like him. They are always going out as groups and hanging out with each other outside of work. We became really ...

Personal cleanliness? There has got to be a nice way to approach this! What would you do??

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20 March 2017 (F - I started seeing this guy about two months ago. We pretty much only hang out about two three nights a week when he'll come stay the night or weekend. We've known each other for a while now, we've taken our kids on play dates before etc. He's a...

He says he cares for me deeply ....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

20 March 2017 (F - DeAr CuPiD I met this guy in Belize in January and coincidentally he lived not to far from me back home. After vacation was over we started hanging out back home and we've been having the most incredible time together. We both just got out of ...

Am I being hidden from the ex and his kids?

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20 March 2017 (F - Hello. I am hoping you are able to put my mind at rest really. I've been in a relationship with a guy for five months and it's all good. He lives about an hour away, and he has three kids who are another couple of hours away from him with his ex,...

Why is he so hard to talk to?

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19 March 2017 (F - I've been seeing this guy for the past month and It's so frustrating because he has no trouble talking about himself and other things in life, but he doesn't really enquire about me, other than if I asked him "Have you done ___?" he will say, yes/no ...

How can I deal with missing her in a LDR?

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19 March 2017 (M - So my girlfriend and I have been together for 5 months and we're madly in love with each other, we plan on getting married next year actually.She's 17 and i'm 18. She lives in Stockton and I live in Sacramento. I haven't seen her for a month because ...

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