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Why did my married ex boyfriend snap just like that? I desperately want him back in my life!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted today

17 July 2018 (F - I met a guy at work 9 years ago. We flirted and had fun but he was married. We worked together and once we kissed in his office and ended up having sex. I have never done anything like this before. I was madly in love with him from this first kiss. ...

I don't see this relationship lasting. How should I tell my boyfriend that I'm extremely annoyed with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted today

16 July 2018 (F - How should I tell my bf that I was upset? I have been seeing my bf for 6 mths, I didn’t not want to seem like I’m nit picking or anything but a few things are bothering me. He rarely iniates intimacy. His excuse is he’s shy. Surly not after 6 m...

Everyone tells us moving in together after 2 months of dating is too soon!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted yesterday

16 July 2018 (F - What's the consensus for knowing when you're ready to move in with someone? My boyfriend and I have only been dating for a little over 2 months, but we see each other every day (we work at the same company), spend hours/weekends at a time togeth...

What does he want? Is there something here or just a sexual relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

14 July 2018 (F - Going back about 4-5 months ago, I met a guy one night out at a bar. We are 5 years age difference, I'm 22 and he's 27. We immediately slept together that night. We kind of clicked quite well and he got my number, stayed in contact with me and we ...

Shall I stop being a gentlemen and be a man?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted today

13 July 2018 (M - Just wondering what you guys would think what’s on this girls mind. She is married with 2 kids. She is few years older than me, we work together. She is quiet person, well respected and often hates guys advancing. For example a friend of mine will ...

Why doesn’t he answer his phone when he’s with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

13 July 2018 (F - I have been dating a guy for 5 wks we have had a great 5 wks (I know it's only 5 wks) but one thing that bugs me is when we are together he won't answer his phone if a message comes through and often put it on silent. . Why is this ?? He says he ...

My boyfriend is going away on vacation for two weeks!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

10 July 2018 (F - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 8 months and we have an amazing relationship. In a few weeks he’s going away with his family to his family’s house in Europe for 2 weeks. I know this sounds pathetic, but I’m genuinely upset that he’s ...

What would you do in my situation? Travel first or settle down now, travel in retirement?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted yesterday

9 July 2018 (F - I have been in a relationship with a man for a year. I'm pretty happy with this guy. We've had ups and downs, but overall things are good between us. We love each other. We have a holiday booked together and are planning to move in together. Howeve...

I think I'm a great catch so why don't more guys go after me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

9 July 2018 (F - I’m in my early 20’s and I’ve been single for a few months now, and I’m having a hard time figuring out why guys don’t really approach me when I go out nor message me. Even on dating apps like Tinder, I don’t have as many guys as I’d like try to ...

My annoying girlfriend makes me want to bang my head against the wall!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

7 July 2018 (M - My girlfriend frustrates me, I have been working hard all week, I haven’t even bothered trying to be close to her as when she sees me she remembers to take me to get replacement fan, than it’s food shopping, than it’s some other chore. This week...

I don't want to ruin my future with this guy by not making the right choice. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

7 July 2018 (F - I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year but we've known each other for three years as we met at university. He is starting a masters degree this year, whereas I've decided to go straight into employment. His masters is at a university over ...

Why do I have a strong gut feeling that there's something going on between my boyfriend and his ex?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

6 July 2018 (F - During the first 2 years of being with my BF, he was still in touch with his ex stringing her along, not telling her that he was in a relationship with me. When I found out how he lied about not being in contact with her, I was very upset. Since ...

I'm 8 weeks pregnant and questioning my relationship with my partner because I just found out that he's slept with numerous prostitutes before we met.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

4 July 2018 (F - Hello. I am 8 weeks pregnant , was so happy with everything and looking forward to the future but now I’m seriously re thinking the whole thing. I have been with my partner a while and we were just discussing the blood tests I am getting for...

Am I overthinking his binge drinking?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

3 July 2018 (F - I'm the kind of girl who likes the occasional night out to celebrate something. However my boyfriend is a party animal and it seems he would binge drink into the early hours quite often. Does this say something about his personality/values or am I ...

He looks up his exes when we argue!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

1 July 2018 (F - I noticed my boyfriend had looked up an ex recently and he has admitted that after some bad arguments he has looked up exes as a form of escape. He's done this "every month or so", just looking at their pictures. I understand looking up exes out of ...

I don’t have to get married but I still want a ring!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

1 July 2018 (F - I am hurt, Insulted and don't know what to do. My bf and i are together already for 3 years. Everything smooth and find. But there's one thing im asking him to do for me. A partnership ring. Yes ' not wedding ring but a partnership ring. He ...

My boyfriend is depressed and anxious, what's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

30 June 2018 (F - I've been with my boyfriend for over 5 years. The first year was great but since then we've had alot of personal challenges. For the past 1.5 years my boyfriend has been struggling with anxiety and depression. He couldn't cope with work anymore and ...

How could my girlfriend move on from a 4 year relationship so quickly and already be with another man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

30 June 2018 (M - Two Weeks ago, my relationship of 4 years ended with my girlfriend. i have been devastated, things have not been good for a while, but i was willing to do whatever it took as i never saw myself being with anyone else. we have not been intimate in ...

There's a weird movie-like scenario playing in my head where I imagine my boyfriend and his ex pining for each other and wanting to get back together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

30 June 2018 (F - My boyfriend (26) and I (22) have been together for ~9 months. This is my first ever relationship and, at this point, we're going pretty strong and live together. I feel more confident in my relationship that I ever have. Except for one thing. ...

I'm have an uncomfortable feeling about my girlfriend's stepfather who walks around in the nude and God knows what else is going on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

29 June 2018 (M - Right so this all started one day when my girlfriend called me I thought nothing of it, she usally calls me 5 times a day but she mentioned her step dad how she feels “uncomfortable” with him cos he walked round the house naked or just in his ...

I fear that he has grown controlling, though he says that I am too sensitive.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

29 June 2018 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. We are both 23 and met in our first year of university. I did not take uni seriously initially and ended up failing and being suspended for 2 years for it. I was struggling financially and relied on ...

Boyfriend's close friend from his highschool group is obsessed with him and he's slept with her... And while she hates me, he won't stop hanging out with her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

29 June 2018 (F - So my boyfriend has a really close friend group from highschool. 3 other guys and 3 girls and they have a groupchat they always text in and are always planning hangouts together. This one girl in his group has always been obsessed with him (i've ...

What do I do when I'm not ready for this to be over and fear that's what will happen if I told him I read that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

28 June 2018 (F - Even my boyfriend and I got together, he told me "You can read my diaries, but do not tell me about it." When I asked about it he said it's because he wants to be understood, but he doesn't want anyone to read his deepest thoughts. So, after his ex ...

My partner doesn't help with the new baby, is overpowering and dominant, and abusive when drunk. I've had enough of him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

27 June 2018 (F - Hi all, I am at a crossroad in my relationship/life. I had a beautiful baby month in January this year. He is my pride and joy. However I am now seeing a side of my fiancee that i hate (i know thats a strong word) I'm not sure I love him or want to ...

I'm at my wit's end about my boyfriend's constant complaints!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

27 June 2018 (F - My boyfriend is a loving, faithful and caring person. We have been in a relationship for 6 months and dated for 6 months before that. We have good communication, friendship, chemistry and sexual compatibility. Everything is great except for his ...

Is it normal to feel apathetic towards guys after a while?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

27 June 2018 (F - Have you ever felt indifferent towards men for a long time after a bad relationship and constantly being looked over, and I say looked over because you don't even get close to being rejected. Is this even normal? My whole life I have been looked...

My boyfriend seems like he's too busy for me and I'm not sure how to handle it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

27 June 2018 (F - Hi aunts and uncles. I had posted a couple weeks ago, asking a question about my bf not saying "I love you" because he'd rather make me feel loved.(which is a good thing) But I guess I've been feeling like hes really been putting me on the back ...

Boyfriend left for a night of hard drugs and drinking and I haven't heard from him in 24 hours. Should I dump him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

26 June 2018 (F - Hi. My boyfriend went on a night out that resulted in me not hearing from him for over 24 hours. He said he had ended up drinking all night with some guy he met and tried to get cocaine too. While doing this he also decided to ignore my messages ...

I’m starting to worry about her relationship with a lesbian friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

24 June 2018 (M - My girlfriend is friends with a lesbian. I'm starting to get worried. Am I overreacting? They've become really close. They've been spending a lot of time together. Sometimes, she goes for a girls night out with her friends including her le...

How do I make my girlfriend feel special and loved?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

24 June 2018 (M - Hi guys, Thanks in advance for taking the time to read my post. Basically, my GF of almost one year has told me that she feels more like my best friend than girlfriend. I really need help in fixing things as I care about her a great deal and ...

I love him but feel neglected.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

23 June 2018 (F - Hi Aunts and Advisors :) Ive been dating, "Evan" going on 1 year. We worked together at a bar that I left soon after but we continued to date. He still works this hectic hospitality schedule. I have a day job. neither opus are "rich" people bu...

I ask women I sleep with about their opinion on abortion because I don't want kids. How do I know the girl I'm seeing is on the same page?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

22 June 2018 (M - So I met a wonderful girl online and we hit it off really well. We kissed on the first date, had lunch on the second, and ended up sleeping with each other on the third when she invited me over to her apartment for pizza and a movie. We used ...

My bf drunk texted his ex FWB and now I feel like I have a right to go through his phone

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

21 June 2018 (F - My boyfriend of a year and 8 months drunkenly text a girl whom he used to see sexually before we started dating. I feel like I have a right to go through his phone now but at the same time I don’t. He feels terribly about the situation and has since ...

I feel resentful toward my girlfriend. Should I keep trying to make it work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

21 June 2018 (F - I met my girlfriend online 7 months ago and we have been living together for the past 4 months. We use to talk on the phone everyday for the first 3 months. She came here from a different country to visit me and hasn't been back to her country ...

Newly back on the dating scene, can I booty call a guy or is that creepy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

21 June 2018 (F - Hi Cupid, I have a weird question. So, I am newly back on the dating scene after almost 13 years. I am 31. So, I’ve been going on some dates, and a few weeks ago I had two with a lovely guy. We had a great time, connected well and had great che...

I’m conflicted on what to do or feel about my parents!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

19 June 2018 (F - Hi all, I posted some time ago. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-this-over-committing-to-him-.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-19-years-old-an-age-where-it.html In my previous questions, I basically had an argument with my parents ...

Should I say I was annoyed about the way he set up meeting his children?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted yesterday

19 June 2018 (F - Should i tell him I felt annoyed? My boyfriend of 5 mths recently invited me over to meet his children of 21 and 16. They were having a takeaway night so thought it would casual. We arranged a time and I went over. I knocked the door but got...

I'm struggling to trust my boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

18 June 2018 (F - I'm struggling with trusting my boyfriend of 2 years and I don't know what to do. I guess my reasons sound petty but things add up. When I met him he had been seeing this girl casually and they'd been sleeping together. Anyway things ended and we ...

Why can't I orgasm normally?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

18 June 2018 (M - I know it is embarassing but I just lost my virginity at this old age. Problem is I can't achieve orgasm during vaginal intercourse. I don't have erectile disfunction and I ejaculate easily when masturbating using my hand. Could my problem be du...

My boyfriend doesn't say "I love you." What are your thoughts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

18 June 2018 (F - Hello all. So my inquiry isn't as serious as most, but I'm curious as to what your thoughts are, aunts and uncles. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and a half. He is a very good man and while we have dealt with some small issues, ...

I don't want a boyfriend, I'm not interested in sex and I just want to be left alone!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

18 June 2018 (F - I have absolutely no interest in sex and while I've had it before, I'm honestly disgusted by it. The whole thing: having people in my bubble, having a face too close to mine, random unnecessary touches, kissing is just gross to me. I don't like the ...

My boyfriend ignores me at times.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

18 June 2018 (F - im with my boyfriend for 5 years and he ignores me at time when he is in his facebook and takes awhile to answer me when im talking to him and i feel he takes advantage of my kinds and times i dont think he appreciate alot of things i do for him ...

I'm worried he still has feelings for his ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

18 June 2018 (F - Is he really over his Ex? Me and my boyfriend have been together 2 years now and I thought we was both the happiest we could be. Last night he went to show me something on social media and his ex girlfriend was at the very top of his search bar I...

None of my friends like him .... what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

18 June 2018 (F - I (33F) am looking for advice regarding my boyfriend(31M) of two years. None of my friends like him. In fact, they all basically refuse to spend time with him. The typical reasons for this would have to do with the guy being a cheater, abusive...

I'm waiting for a girl to come and sweep me off my feet.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

18 June 2018 (M - Please bare with me and sorry for the long post. Im in a bit of a slump the past year. Essentially I once again broke up with a girl I'm madly in love with because circumstances prevents us from being together, that being a long distance relatio...

He said we were moving too fast, and that he had bigger plans.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

18 June 2018 (F - I met this guy about a month ago and everything was going great. We were so genuinely happy with each other, always laughing and having fun. I met his friends and family. It felt like we were moving towards a relationship. We would see each other ...

We are growing apart and I don't know what to do about it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

18 June 2018 (F - Hiya, Ok I am in desperate need of advice, I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for 4 years now and I love him so much however I am thinking of ending our relationship. He is 10 years old than I am (the age has neve...

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