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A year after my break up I still haven't been on a date and no one has shown any real interest in me!

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20 October 2017 (F - I'm 22 and the only relationship I have ever been In lasted 3 years before he came out gay. It was a very complicated break up with a lot of mixed feelings and we would still spend time together and end up sleeping together for around a year ...

Given his past, do you think that this man would be a good parent to my daughter?

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20 October 2017 (F - I recently left an abusive marriage, and have been seeing a man from work for almost a year. He moved in with my kids and I over the summer. He has always been very sweet and caring to all of us, but the relationship isn't perfect, though I love ...

Family squabble upsetting my new relationship

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18 October 2017 (F - My boy friend and I r relatively a new couple. He lives with his twin brother and a friend. I was staying in their place for the first time and just to clarify. Before that night me and his brother were getting along real well that I would call him ...

Was I out of line and is my boyfriend right in not trusting me?

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18 October 2017 (F - I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 years now. A few months ago I met a guy at work who I messaged after I left the job. He was quite flirty with me in this conversation but I didn't think it meant anything. About a month later he messaged...

I think he likes another girl but I don't know how to broach the topic

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

17 October 2017 (F - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months but it's not exactly official, his family don't know and only a couple of our close friends know, it's like a need to know basis. Recently he went on holiday back to his home town with a mutu...

My boyfriend used to be a nerd but now acts like a 'Gangsta'

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17 October 2017 (F - He's a middle class white boy whose parents pay for everything including his Mini but he keeps acting like he wants to be the "gangster hood" stereotype and idk it really annoys me for some reason. My parents are also middle class but I was raised ...

Is it a good sign that he told her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

15 October 2017 (F - Hi aunts and uncles. I wanted to know what your opinion was on this. My new boyfriend of a month has a huge circle of friends and he's pretty well loved by people as the "nice" guy/good guy. Yesterday he told me he spoke to this girl and told her...

Men don't see me as dating material - why?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

15 October 2017 (F - Hi, you know how people like to use the term "friendzone" in situations when girls only see guys as friends? Well, i'm the opposite. I'm a 25 yo girl and find that most guys see me as a buddy or undateable. I've gone on dates with guys but nothing ...

Boyfriend brings up his ex girlfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

14 October 2017 (F - I went to a high school reunion this past summer. While there, I met a man who I really didn't talk to much in high school. We kind of hit it off, and for the past 2 months, we have been dating and getting to know each other. My question is abou...

We exchanged numbers but now I'm turned off by him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

13 October 2017 (F - I haven't been out in the dating world for a long time. Recently I have been chatting here and there with a guy doing construction at my place of work, seemed like a nice guy, cute, I felt comfortable talking with him. So he asked me for my phone...

How to tell him I don't want children?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

13 October 2017 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together for two and a half years, he is 32 and I am 24. We are moving in together in a few months (into his house), but I am worried about out future- I don't want to have children. I have several reasons for the fact...

It was going great and now she has stopped responding ... I guess its over!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

11 October 2017 (M - Hello everyone! A few months ago I started exchanging Facebook messages with a girl I knew in high school about ten years ago. I'm 30 and she's 29. Things went really well and she agreed to meet up as soon as we could (she was moving back to h...

My ex cheated on me, it took me 2 years to get over him and now he wants to try again

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

11 October 2017 (F - At what point can you be sure you have forgiven someone for hurting you, and take them back? 3 years ago my then boyfriend of nearly 2 years left me for someone else. It took me a long time to get over it, but I did. I never really forgot he...

What if she's not willing to compromise?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

11 October 2017 (M - I've been dating a girl for 2 months now and we are official, she's 34, and I'm 36. She has 2 young children that I've not met yet- I will be soon. Things seem really good but I have abit of a concern, please could you guys give your advice and your ...

The man I am dating doesn't believe in kissing and affection

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

11 October 2017 (F - I am seeing a guy who when I asked says he doesn’t do kissing and affection. I was widowed 9 years ago and this is the first since. I really like this guy but not sure about not kissing although the sex is great. I told him I kind of fell ...

I haven't had any luck dating. Should I give up on love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

10 October 2017 (F - Is love not in the cards for me? I have tried online dating and after a couple of dates I realized the men in the sites aren't exactly the type of men that I want. I admit I have taken a year and a half to work on myself after a string of two bad ...

I think I deserve better. I'm pushing too hard to make this relationship work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

10 October 2017 (F - Hi all, Ive been dating this guy for the past 4-5 months. He's very different from my part relationships. I had a bad pattern to go for unavailable men but I changed it consciously. My relationship is going well with this person and there were a...

He cannot communicate and I don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

10 October 2017 (F - I've recently started dating a guy. We've known each other for 4 years in total and we've helped each other through a lot in those 4 years. He ended up adding me from a whatsapp group that we were both in 4 years ago and we started chatting...

Am I being too materialstic and self sabotaging?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

9 October 2017 (F - Am I being unrealistic? I am 50 and dating a man for close to three months who claims he is retired, I came to find out he was laid off and doesn't want to go back to work. I find myself paying more often when we go out, it is a huge turn-off. I ...

I can't wait to get married - but family issues putting a dampener on it.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

9 October 2017 (F - Hi, I'm looking for some advice. My fiancé and I are engaged and are soon to start planning our wedding. I have an extremely difficult mother, and because of that she has pretty much damaged all family ties I have with aunts/uncles/cousins. ...

Why does this guy flirt with me when he asks about dates I've been on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

9 October 2017 (F - There's this guy I've known for a little over a year. I used to have a huge crush on him for a long time. I eventually got over him emotionally, but I am still attracted to him. We have been friends but there has been times where I get mixed ...

My boyfriend is sad after his ex girlfriend's revelation!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

8 October 2017 (F - Hello, I have a story to tell. This summer my bf and I got together. He had a girlfriend but he cheated on her to be with me. At first we were friends and I knew he had a girlfriend but I was so in love with him and I was trying to resist for so ...

My girlfriend is blaming herself for an early miscarriage.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

6 October 2017 (M - Dear Cupid, The other day my girlfriend had a few drinks and on the way home started going on about how she thinks she's pregnant. She hadn't done a test and was purely going off her breasts being tender and feeling "weird" plus she rambles when she...

I think a year is a long time to wait for him ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

6 October 2017 (F - So, ive been seeing this guy for a few months now he's a couple years older than me (being 25), when we first started speaking in july and from that point i thought it was going to be more of a friendly kind of relationship as he didn't seem my type ...

Engaged to be married and have a crush on another woman

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

6 October 2017 (M - So to start off I have been with my fiancé for 11 years since we were both 18. In that time we have both been through a lot, however I have never in the last 11 years had a crush on another woman. She has always been the only women who i had any ...

It seems like our relationship was a big lie!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

6 October 2017 (F - First, let me start by saying the past week with my boyfriend has been great. He's been affectionate and talking about marriage, which itself isn't new, and spending all his time with me at my house aside from work. We'll call him D Then out of n...

My boyfriend said he wouldn't call me names again, but is this method still not acceptable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

5 October 2017 (F - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year, and in some cases it has been hard for me, having come from a emotional abusive relationship before hand, my insecurities are all over the place, and occasionally find it very hard to trust. But ...

This married man is only interested when his family are out of town

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

5 October 2017 (F - Hello here, the thing is I met this married guy around august 2015,though he didn't tell me he was married until almost a month and then I was already in love with him I don't know why but I remember all I could say to him was know problem and don't ...

My boyfriend stole money from my purse, I broke it off but am feeling sad.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

5 October 2017 (F - I am 48 years old and in a telation with a man my age ,we r engaged but since i knew him i felt that there is something missing in the relation and i wasn't sure that i love him and kept postponing marriage.he is so kind with me and generous in ...

I think guys just want me for sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

4 October 2017 (F - It feels like guys only want me for sex. Every guy to ever show interest in me has somehow indicated that he wants something mainly if not entirely physical. It's made me really conscious and insecure because when a guy asks for my number or flirts ...

How do I address my poor self-image problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

3 October 2017 (F - Hey guys, Sorry for being such a drag with this post, but I'm really down these last 2-3 days and tomorrow is my birthday. Thank you for reading this. To get to the point... I don't think I'm really beautiful, especially to my bf and eternal lov...

My boyfriend keeps asking to meet my former best friend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

2 October 2017 (F - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 16 months. We met through a social group in which we both joined around the same time, and that group is my main circle of friends. I do not keep in touch regularly with anyone else. I have friends whom I call ...

My boyfriend flirts with his employees and it's annoying me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

1 October 2017 (F - I've been exclusive with this guy for the last few weeks, its going OK but I get really jealous when he flirts with his employees (he runs a v popular Indian restaurant and has a lot of really pretty Indian girls working there). He moans at me...

I feel excluded by boyfriend's decision to visit alone...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

30 September 2017 (F - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost six years--on and off--but consistently now for the past three years. I suspect that he’s a bit emotionally unavailable because of his compartmentalization tendencies and the fact that he’s told me he’s ...

After a week of dating he wants to have sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

30 September 2017 (F - i met this guy a year ago and he wanted me to be his girlfriend but i refused ... we were not in a relationship then but now after that one year he came back and i again refused so after four months i started having feelings for him and i talked t...

Is this too much for a first and second date or is he just trying to control her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

29 September 2017 (M - So, a friend of mine is seeing this guy.. They started talking through Bumble. He's slightly older tha her, she's 22. They've only know each other a couple of weeks or so. He's a volunteer police officcer. So, they met at the weekend. Saturda...

We want different things in life ... should I just let it go?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

28 September 2017 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 years now. I’m 20 and he’s 22 so we’re still pretty young and we don’t plan on getting married or having kids any time soon. Especially since we’ve only been together for 2 years. But we have com...

I am exhausted and my boyfriend is no help.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

28 September 2017 (F - I know I'm right but someone please knock some sense into me. I'm in a relationship, we don't live together but I spend a lot of time at his house. Work everyday and come home to him sitting on the couch everyday watching tv and has done nothing ...

My boyfriend and I argue constantly but I love him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

28 September 2017 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together 2 and a half years. Things were great in the beginning but more recently we seem to argue about everything. Things are lovely when we're getting on but we seem to argue most days and he goes silent and will ...

I am so madly jealous! How can I overcome this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

27 September 2017 (F - My bf and I have been dating for 4 months now, we work together. Me and this girl (both 23 years old) started working at this job at the same time. Obviously every male co worker wanted to hang out with us, since we were new and they all flirted ...

Why am I stuck with the girl that doesn't want to give but wants me to do all the work?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

27 September 2017 (M - I been in relationship for 4 years. She was virgin before we met. I have high sex drive , she doesn’t. I tried to accommodate this by doing stuff in shower and not bothering her. Sometimes I ask her to go down, and she won’t put in effort, when she...

Long distance boyfriend is asking for naked pictures, should I trust him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

27 September 2017 (F - Hi there friends...I really need your advice.. I have a long distance relationship and know for a year.we don't meet yet and we both christian born again... and I dont want this guy to entertain but he was keep in contact with me even if j don't....

My boyfriend's mother came over and rearranged our bedroom, I can't find anything!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

27 September 2017 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 2 years now and we live together. He is 22 and I’m 20. Let me start off by saying, I think family is super important and I would never want to come between my boyfriend and his family. But it bothers ...

Hard to love a man's children like my own.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

26 September 2017 (F - I've been dating a man for 7 months. I have no children, he has 2 daughters ages 9 and 7. He doesn't see them very often (once a week) on the weekends. I have spent almost every weekend with him and when he gets them. They are great kids don't get ...

How do I deal with jealousy? french kissing? He's my first boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 24 days ago

25 September 2017 (F - So I failed the year and got set back a year... I'm in a new class and I made friends (something that I didn't have for the past 2 years) and one guy (Gabri) started talking to me because I'm English (I live in Italy), after school we started ...

My boyfriend has a new friend & he seems to care more about their relationship than ours.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

25 September 2017 (F - I've been in a relationship for five years, and cheating has never been something I was concerned about. But about six months ago my boyfriend made a new friend through a club at colleg, and they became close friends real quickly. They talk all the ...

My parents don't know about my relationship till I am 18. A parents advice would be nice

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25 September 2017 (F - I am currently 16 and live in Victoria Australia and my boyfriend is 20 from punjabi india.All aspects of our relationship is legal We have been together for just under a year and my parents don't know i plan on telling them when i am 18 but his ...

Should I reach out again or just move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

24 September 2017 (M - There's a girl I started talking to in July, at the moment nothing is going on but I feel like that may be my fault. However I'm also feeling like I should move on but I'd like to know if theres anything I can do to start talking to her again ...

She stopped responding, is that it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

24 September 2017 (M - Girl I liked a lot and went on a few dates with started getting cold after I told her I liked her and the time we had been hanging out. I asked her why she was acting so different and she said, she was dealing with stuff and I couldn't help her. She ...

Love triangle, help! Who do you think I love and who should I be with?

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24 September 2017 (F - I am in a love triangle. I'm still in love with my ex-boyfriend, who happened to be my sitting mate in high school. And had some feelings for each other but didn't confess our love. Until I traveled to Holland(where I am currently living), and he ...

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