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Was he drunk or did he experience memory loss?

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22 May 2017 (F - hi, i am 43 years old and been on my own for 17.5 years, my ex left me when my daughter was five months old and i have remained single. i have met someone i really like and we have seen each other a few times. last night he came to see me and sa...

He says he wants a child and gets upset when I give my reasons for why it doesn't work for me now!

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21 May 2017 (F - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months now and he just brought up wanting a baby with me. I've had an abortion in a past relationship. We are both still in college and as much as I want a kid I just don't see it as a good time to have one ...

I want to show him the fun me! Do I ask him for a second date?

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21 May 2017 (F - I recently stumbled across an old friend and he admitted he liked me 20 yrs ago as i did him . He thought i wasnt interested in him and he was a bit shy so thought i didnt like him that way but i did i fancied the pants off him. im the first to ...

What do her words mean?

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20 May 2017 (M - hello, I've been seeing this girl now for 6 months, but out of no where, she been acting moody and distant with me lately and I don't know why. So I confronted her about it and ask if I was us and she said yes. she went on to say "I don't know h...

Can a relationship work when you love their personality but aren't attracted to them sexually?

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20 May 2017 (F - I talked to a guy for a long time via text before actually meeting him. I loved talking to him and we share the same humour. Upon meeting him I continue to love his personality but I am not physically attracted to him. Can a relationship ever work ...

Have you been asked out by someone that you consider a friend?

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20 May 2017 (M - Hello Aunts, I've got this female friend in whom I have been romantically interested in. It's been almost a year since we first met and didn't make a move because I'm a nervous idiot. I feel confident enough to ask her now but I'm afraid I'll lose...

He didn't invite me to a family function. Should I tell him how I feel?

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19 May 2017 (F - Hey, Thanks for taking the time to read my post I'm going to keep it short I've been with my partner 10 years I'm 27 hes 28 we've had a very happy time together no real drama or anything we have always been great together I cant imagine anyone in...

Do we have a hope of making this work?

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18 May 2017 (F - Hello. I've been speaking to this guy since February but only been dating him since April. He lives 2 hours away from me but I went to uni' close to him. I have finished uni' now. We spent a lot of time together in the month that we da...

Boyfriend's emotion letter to ex for closure has left me feeling second best

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

18 May 2017 (F - I'm in a confused relationship, my boyfriend of 3 years (were living together) send a closure to his ex-gf behind my back. She cheated on him with another guy 5 years before we got together. He already told me that he dated one girl after her before ...

My boyfriend is grounded and I feel its my fault.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

18 May 2017 (F - My boyfriend has college review classes and is not allowed to go out after classes. But the other day, he broke the rules and went out to have lunch with me. When we were almost done with our lunch, his dad called him and got mad at him because his ...

Boyfriend created fake marriage documents with his ex so that she could have residency in the US. Do I tell him I know? What do I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

17 May 2017 (F - I live with my boyfriend of a year. We moved in together 2 months ago and everything has been wonderful from the start of our relationship. Today I finally unpacked our last box. I opened a notebook I didn't recognize and it was a journal he wrote ...

My boyfriend is planning to propose! Should I tell my difficult parents now or after the engagement?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

17 May 2017 (F - My boyfriend is not a secret keeper at all. For a while now we have been talking about marriage. For us, it is just the next natural step to take in our relationship. I cannot imagine it going any other way, love him dearly, and see the same from ...

He is too close to his ex' and it bothers me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

16 May 2017 (F - I have recently started dating someone at work (discreetly) and it has been going really well. I was very wary of him at first because he has an ex' in the same workplace who he is still close to. He also led me to believe that he liked me before (a ...

He's a nice guy but it's just not working out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

16 May 2017 (F - Why do I always feel so down? I have been with my boyfriend for five years and we have had several ups and downs. I can't seem to look past his flaws and at times he can't see past mine but we tried hard enough for so long.bThis has been my first ...

My female friends keep hitting on my boyfriend. What do we do?

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15 May 2017 (F - My boyfriend and I, both 26, have been together one year. We met through a social group meetup. We are the youngest among our large group of friends as everyone else is in their 30s. We have been with the group for 1.5 years. We are both social ...

Is my ex a manipulator?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

14 May 2017 (M - Hi All, I would like some advice on a person I stopped seeing recently and whether she sounds like a manipulator or I am thinking too much into things. We split up after about 18 months and we went no contact, I was doing fine and then she deci...

Jealous of my girlfriend's sexual experiences

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14 May 2017 (M - I feel a bit silly really. I've been in a great relationship with a woman for several years now. She's fun, kind, understanding, we share a lot of common activities like music, cycling, swimming, travel, and she has really helped me develop - and ...

We are two very different people. I feel stuck in this relationship. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

12 May 2017 (F - Feeling stuck between a rock and a hard place. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 and a half years, and we have lived together for 2. He is an incredibly kind guy, he always means well, and is all around just a nice guy. However...

I obsess over him too much. What can I do to rid myself of dating anxiety?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

12 May 2017 (F - I obsess over him too much. I have a terrible form of dating anxiety and even though I do look good, I never dated before because of fear. A few months ago I met a guy and dated him for a short period of time. He was my first everything. We par...

Why can't I get a girlfriend again? And a girlfriend without a lot of crazy luggage from her past?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

12 May 2017 (M - Hello Not a newcomer to this site, been here for a few years really but I've decided to post this anonymously. So I think I'm stuck in a rut with relationships. I've taken what's easy and made a few dumb decisions, and over the last yea...

If a guy is happy with his Gf then why does he act uncomfortable and angry towards his ex-crush?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

11 May 2017 (F - This guy, his girlfriend, and the girl he use to has a crush on, work at the same place. The "ex crush" is still friends with the guy's girlfriend and he doesn't reallly care for them to still be friends. He use to profess his love to the "ex ...

I don't feel I'm attractive to girls. How do I overcome my insecurities?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

11 May 2017 (M - I have a question, a lot of girls that i have dated don't seem to bother about my looks, and many people tend to tell me that i am goodlooking etc., But i find myself ugly, and i have big lips,etc , which i am made fun of sometimes, and i find tha...

CatFish, and tips to keep you safe

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10 May 2017 (F - CatFish,has nothing to do with either Cats or Fish.As you will probably know ..CATFISH....is a person male/female who will put a fake profile on dating sites....and will contact many people or maybe just one and have a relationship be it ...

What can I do? My Gf of 5 years says she wants to have sex with another guy.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

10 May 2017 (M - Okay so I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years. Recently I started noticing a big change in our sex life like she was losing interest. After a few months and started asking her what changed and all she would say was I don't know. After it e...

Is it wrong that I get more sexual satisfaction from masterbating and my sexual fantasies, and less satisfaction when having sex with a man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

10 May 2017 (F - Hey. I have been masturbating since I was younger. A lot. I'm 43 years old now, cannot settle down, never found a man who really satisfies me (maybe 1 or 2) because they always get off for themselves and can't really be bothered with me or my ...

How should I approach this situation? I think he is messaging other women.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

10 May 2017 (F - Recently I have had suspicions that my partner is messaging other women and watching porn. What makes me think this? On a few occasions I have heard orgasms, which made me feel uncomfortable, as I don't like the thought of my partner getting ...

I'm torn between boyfriend and a new guy. Do I stay with my Bf or go with the new guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

10 May 2017 (F - I am currently in a relationship with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. We have a huge age gap 11years??. We met at work and fell hard for each other. We've obviously had our ups and downs but grew stronger throughout the year. My boyfri...

What is considered the standard in talking to a girl in this modern day? Daily or...?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

9 May 2017 (M - I'm kinda new to dating after being out of it for the last 6-7 years... and I've been communicating to this one girl for the last 4 years as a friend. I'm trying to build our friendship into a relationship at someday soon(ish), and as of lately ...

Too needy? Or is he making excuses to not see me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

9 May 2017 (F - I have been dating this guy 9 weeks now and he is really loving and affectionate with me when we are together. My worry is that he seems to be not wanting to see me as much any more and days he is really busy. We were seeing each other every other ...

Do you think he'll ever be open to friendship with me? Two weeks after dumping me he was back on dating sites.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

9 May 2017 (F - Hello, I am hoping for some advice and help to make sense of a situation I am in. Was together with a man for 9 months. He lived about 90 minutes away, and for various work and child matters we saw each other from Friday through till Sunday ever ...

How do I ask him his true feelings, and ask about commitment, without it appearing as me pressuring him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

9 May 2017 (F - I've been talking to this guy for about 4 months now. He doesn't live near by so we video chat, call each other and text more then we see eachother. I sense things getting serious by the way he starts talking about our future together. He consta...

Cheating in a LDR. What advice can you give to me re my Gf who I think may be cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

9 May 2017 (M - This is my long distance relationship. We are dating 6 months. I met my girlfriend through my cousin. In our relationship, she is always showing to me that she is nice girl, and a faithful wife in future. She treat me very nice. About my girlf...

Feeling upset. Is this just natural or am I wrong? I love my fiance.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

9 May 2017 (F - Well...not been on here for a while. I am engaged, pretty happy with my partner of 5 years then my mother goes and mentions my ex who split with me when times got hard on my family farm and I got very depressed and lost everything. Things got na...

Should I bring up the subject again? Or maybe was he just joking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

8 May 2017 (F - Me and this guy have been off and on for many years. Since Xmas last yr things have been getting better again for us.. him coming to see me from where he lives now more them once a week etc. Yesterday we both was discussing how long we had know...

I try to adjust and be accomodating, but sometimes I get angry, just like him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

7 May 2017 (F - Dear Cupid I am with my bf for about a year, everything was going fine and thats what i thought. Yesterday we went out, and he was ignoring and not talking or even looking at my eye the whole time. I have seen him do this when we are around white...

After 4 years, does she like me enough to go on a date with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

6 May 2017 (M - I've been talking to a girl for the last 4 years on and off and we have been friends. For the last 3 and a half years, we've messaged for something like 2 months on, and 4 months off. Just last August, we started messaging back and forth at least ...

How do I find out of this was just a holiday romance without making the wrong decision and hurting both myself and others in the process?

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6 May 2017 (F - I am 19 and have recently been on holiday. There I met a boy who I kissed and got along with really well. Him being there made the holiday. On the third day of the holiday we had a chat and he told me he had a girlfriend and that he didn't know ...

Should I let my b/f go to a party where his troublesome ex will be?

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6 May 2017 (F - I have a question i've been with my boyfriend for 3 years we seperated for a year but kept seeing each other on and off here's the thing he left the house when we seperated and went to live with his brother whichhis brother has a wife that has 2 ...

My friend told my parents that I am contacting girls

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

6 May 2017 (M - My frnd told to My parents about my relationship...i mean not exactly bt he told that, ur son is contacting to girls.. And my parents hate to be in contacting with girls... So plz tell me what should i tell my parents......

New to gay dating.... what's going on?

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5 May 2017 (M - This guy asked me out he was eager talking to me gave me his number, we seemed to get on and have a lot in common he last messaged me 10 days ago and I replied but since my reply his gone silent on me, I've dropped a few likes and messages on socia...

The teasing in our relationship is starting to get to me

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5 May 2017 (F - Me and my fiancee are planning to get married in just over a year but I'm starting to have a few worries. We like to tease each other and give each other a hard time, its just part of the dynamic of our relationship, but lately I've been taking it ...

Will it bother this man that I'm dating that I have personal problems?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

5 May 2017 (F - So I guess I'll start from the beginning in September my dad became very unwell I was originally born in London but live in Ireland in Dublin as my parents split up when I was younger. Since I found out my dad was sick I've been travelling to Londo...

Is something going on behind my back? Should I trust him?

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4 May 2017 (F - Is it strange for your partner of 17 years not to add you on Facebook when he says it's for workmates ..which is a lie I've never met one person he works with in 8 years has been in the same job . By accident I came across a 3 year old Twitter ...

Am I being unreasonable? When is it okay to not feel comfortable having your boyfriends ex flings hanging around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

4 May 2017 (F - Two months ago I started seeing this guy. Three weeks into our relationship he tells me he has to go away for work. He asked me to stay at his place and watch his cat. The morning he's leaving it comes up that it’s his ex from months ago who hire...

Should I try to become friends with him again? I feel tempted to try again

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

4 May 2017 (M - Hi,I was in a 6-month LDR with this guy, but I ended it due to me having feelings for him (while him not). So, there's been no communication for the last 1,5 month. Now I feel like contacting him again to become friends - I have no expectat...

We've been dating for almost 2 years. Should I move out?

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4 May 2017 (F - Been going through a really tough time emotionally, physically and financially. I've been fighting down depression through so much guilt I'm carrying. Met a nice guy and though my heart told me I wasn't ready, he became my boyfriend and we moved in...

How do I show my emotions, open up to my boyfriend and confide in him?

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3 May 2017 (F - I have a hard time with showing my emotions to people. It 's only hard for me because I think it's embarrassing and I was honestly raised to not show any emotions like sadness or even love at times. But my boyfriend wants me to share my feelings ...

Why is he denying things about his past that I believe are true?

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3 May 2017 (F - Hey all..need a little advice.. This guy I had been in a relationship has recently come on the scene, He basically moved away with work then met another girl, become engaged had a baby with her etc.. He doesn't know I know all this. I found out vi...

How can we successfully transition to, and survive as a LDR couple, after 3 years of dating each other at our college?

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3 May 2017 (F - Hi! My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years, and we're now graduating college, and for the next year, will be in different countries... we know it's going to be hard, but we think we can get through it. I'm honestly really stressed beca...

Do I confess to my date about his ex?

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3 May 2017 (M - What do I do? I've got a date with this guy who I've fancied for a long time, but last year, I catfished his ex. Not on purpose, I just wasn't comfortable at the time with my sexuality. We spoke every day and then I realised after a couple ...

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