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Dating: Help and advice

The Role Of Respect In Relationships

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

30 September 2011 (M) - How much do you respect your partner? Do you treat them less than what they're worth because of their gender? Do you not value their thoughts or opinions as much as you would say a family member, friend, or close counsel? Well if you disregard how ...

How do I make guys interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm an average sized 15 yr. old girl- 5'6", 130lbs, ect.. and I model on the side. But guys at my school have never showed interest in me. I'm outgoing and athletic and generally easy to get along with, but they find me unattractive!...

I've had a thing for him for a year, but I'm not good enough!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

30 September 2011 (?) - Hey, Okay, I've had a thing with this guy for a year and a half, he still was in love with his ex so we decided to wait. Finally, he asked me to be his girlfriend again, I said no be because he was going to college soon. Also, I'm not good enough f...

Will his comment be a self-fulfilling prophecy for us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - Navigating a rocky week of good but scary communication. On 3 occasions now (most recently the other night) my boyfriend has said this (or something similar): "In case something ever happens [we break up], promise me you'll still be my friend and ...

How can I make a man want to marry me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - How can I keep my man satisfied in our relationship? Including all factors. How could I make him want to marry me? ladies or fellas, thanks in advance! :-)...

How do I get over being so insecure about my looks?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - How can I get over being so insecure? Especially about the way I look. I simply hate the way I look, I hadn't realized how ugly my body and face are until now. And it's making me miserable. It hurts my relationships. But I can't seem to make it stop ...

Sharing our issues with friends??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - Is it okay for my boyfriend to be out with his friends drinking and discussing our personal problems with them? He says it's normal and that maybe I should start telling my friends more of our personal issues to vent or whatnot. I think it's ...

I'm afraid I was boring on the date

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30 September 2011 (F) - Last night I went on a date with my boyfriend. At first it seemed kinda boring and I,m pretty sure i seemed annoying. But then we were all over each other and he was feeling me and I gave him a BJ but the thing was I never really gave a BJ Before...

Should I stay or should I back off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - This is a very complex question and I hope it gets posted soon! I don't know what you'd call my relationship with a guy i,m dating. I at first assumed we'd be boyfriend and girlfriend but he doesn't want a relationship. We meet each other weekl...

He's back again after he broke my heart

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - What should I reply to this guy who last year broke my heart (he doesn't know that) he said he was single when he actually had a girlfriend and he never replied to my text at the time. He has got in touch asking about me. I want him back in my ...

Should I go with my ex or hers?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - I have the ultimate dilemma! Lately, for some reason I've been getting out of the ordinary male attention. Firstly it started with my ex, we went on a date recently, as bad as it was we agreed to see each other again. Which may or may not be a ...

Is this what I think it is?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

30 September 2011 (M) - Well I'm unsure how to handle or even approach this matter lightly. Once every few days I go to this place "jesters pies" for a treat and there is this girl. Now I'm aware that smiling is apart of customer service but this girl smiles at me alot and ...

How can I tell him I want us to go to the beach alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

30 September 2011 (?) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months, we have been friends for years before this. The relationship is excellent and I really love him and I know he feels the same. 3 months ago P started his job and I started my placement year (he has fini...

My childhood crush just added me on FB! Should I strike up a chat?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - It was like, "OMG, is this true?..'' or "maybe I'm dreaming or somethng".. etc.. I opened my FB account and saw a single friend request.. I used to think who it might be, and guessed that maybe it was just someone from my old school whom I do...

I know I screwed it up, but is there any hope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

30 September 2011 (M) - I met this girl 9 months ago, and we had class together several times a day, everyday for that entire semester. I started to develop infatuation for her around midterm, but never had the chance to express myself due to exams and other stuffs. So, ...

Why is my bf ex being a yoyo in his life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - Hi all, I have a long distance boyfriend and everything is great. There is just one thing that I have a problem with. He keeps adding his ex to facebook every time that she sends him a request, then she will get the shits with him blocks him, and ...

Mother getting on my nerves about my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - so my mother is starting to get on my nerves about my boyfriend. i know thats hes not cheating on me , and she keeps on erking me telling me she hopes we brake up. she thinks im changing when i know for sure im not. if she keeps on with her bull i ...

Is Breaking Up a Mistake? Should I Tell Her the Truth? I need advice to Get Over Someone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - For about three years I have had feelings for a close girl friend of mine. I have told her I was bi/ pan sexual. I have also told her about my feelings for her a couple years ago. It didnt go anywhere because she is straight. But this past summer ...

I am in relationship stress over this situation. Does he really love me? Why did he ignore me for so long after my Mom died?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - Hi Dear Cupid it's me again now a senior in high school and that also means that I have more relationship stress. As you may know from my last questions I've been involved with my bestfriend/ now ex-boyfriend and just when I thought things coul...

Am I being emotionally abused? He is an alcoholic and uses manipulation and guilt to control me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - 22 years ago I fell in love with my high school sweetheart. After graduation we parted ways and I moved out of state. We reconnected last year on facebook and have been together ever since. He is an alcoholic and uses manipulation and guilt to cont...

He is 40 and I am 25. Is that too old if you both like each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - im 25 and the guy i like is 40. is that too old if you both like each other? and do older men think 25 is to young? im pretty mature i mean ifinished grad school, and still live with my parents but am looking to eventually move out.. i was wondering ...

We did break up a month ago. YET he still wants to flirt. What's up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - So its been over a month now, since my boyfriend and I broke up. But he still has feelings for me. I guess the reason he still feels close to me is that...just because we are now exes...we are still like best friends. I don't have a problem being ...

Should just keep him out of our lives. And deny access to his child? But is it the right thing to do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - Hi i am in a situation with my baby's father apparently he's with someone else now and we just broke up last week. It hurts to know that he's with the one girl he cheated on me last weekend but i am just doing fine what i wanted to ask was i dont ...

Is he ready to call it quits? And can't tell me yet? should I continue down the same path and give him space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now and I just can't figure out where our relationship is going and what it is that he wants. When we first started dating, things were so wonderful that I cannot even explain. We have so many things i...

He says he is falling in love with me but that he can't leave his family. How can I let go of him and end our work affair?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - I need some advice. I am a teachers assistant at an elementary school. I have been working with the same man for the last three years. We are both married with 3 kids. We have formed a great friendship and seem like ideal mates for each other. W...

His sex drive is higher. I deny him probably 2 times a week, but how do I deal with him masturbating to porn?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - I know this question has been posted a million times, but I was hoping for an answer on my specific situation: My boyfriend (he's 26 and I'm 23) have been together for about a year and a half, and have been living together for 10 months. Some...

So, what was his feeling toward me? It's a little mysterious, so I need your opinions please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - I told my crush(an exchange student) I liked him. However, he said long distance relationship was impossible and if a relationship came into existence it wouldn't continue... In addition to this, he said he had no idea when he will come back to m...

Who is a Natural flirt? And what qualities signify a Natural Flirt?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...

Is it wrong of them? Neither of them seem to think they have done anything wrong

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - Okaay where to start.. Well i have been seeing this guy for a few days even though im all that into him i think hes okay but i thought id give him a chance. I will call this boy 'C' then there is one my best friends who i will call 'E' She (E) is s...

The stress she's under is making it difficult for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - Dear Agony Aunts I don’t know what to do; I’m so in love but equally distressed and tired. I’ve been in a relationship for 7 months with what has got to be in my mind the love of my life. Together we’ve become best friends, loves, colleagues ...

If men want their women to look like porn stars, why don't us women care that our men don't look like porn stars??

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - I'm 25, and I'm here to discuss pornography and men. Some but not all men complain their women don't look like porn stars/models etc. but how come women don't do the opposite and ask for 6-packs/chiselled bodies / big penises etc? Or if they do,...

I have gotten back with my ex. How can I make our first date special?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - How do I show my boyfriend how much I've missed him? please help? My ex boyfriend and I got back together. We broke up for 6 months.. Cos he was going through family problems but he's all good now. We're still so in love. I love him so much a...

Why am I always put in the 'friend zone'?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4592 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - I'm 18 years old and I've never had a girlfriend before. I've put myself out there a couple of times already and I got rejected every single time. I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong. I've only once kissed a girl, and this was a friend proving me a ...

He hasn't called yet and I want to see him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4592 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - He's 19 I'm 16. I met him 3 days ago and we made out on our first date. I don't necessary like him, but I got carried away. He called me yesterday at 8.30pm asking if I wanted to go out but I told him it was too late and I had to study. Then he said ...

Is there any way I can get him to see me for me? How can I make him want me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - ivee met this guy a few years ago..he caught my eye the moment i saw him..but back then i was young and went for what i wanted,he stuck around which i was because i guess he liked me,one weekend we both ended up at the same club next thing led to ...

Will more women be interested if I lose some weight?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - I am a guy who was always on the smaller, scrawnier side. I could eat Ding Dongs and drink soda all day and I weighed 165 at 5'10" at age 17. Long story short, I am now 6 feet tall and 210. I think an ideal weight for me is about 190. I th...

Am I just over analyzing things and should I keep on, or is this one a lost cause already?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - Hey Guys, So I'm back again with a new question... Okay, so I knew of a girl beforehand never spoken to her before though and after a night out, she sent me a friend request on fbook, so I accepted as I think she's a good looking girl and wo...

I'm 34 and feel I should be married but I'm only attracted to the "bad boys"!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - HELP! I'm only attracted to the so-called "bad boys". The ones in a band, or with dark hair and leather pants, etc. Metal. Goth. Punk. And the one thing in common. They break my heart. Because they start to act like they want something real and...

I cant understand him! Does he see me as just a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4592 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - One day, I asked my crush(He is an exchange student, and he also asked me out for the pub and having dinner with his friends) out for a lunch . He said it was okay and decided where we ate lunch. However, next day, he said on email he couldn't hang ...

My boyfriend of two years dumped me a week before my 21st birthday

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - I'm completely devastated right now. My boyfriend of two years just broke up with me, for the second time, and it's a week before my 21st. I feel helpless and lost and I don't know what to do. This might be sort of long. Some backstory:...

GF lost all sex drive before our relationship became long distance

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - My girlfriend left the country to study abroad for a year. We decided to go on with a Long Distance Relationship as I will visit every now and then, as will she. We used to have a very sexually active lifestyle before the news of her scholarship, ...

Why is she texting me, giving me mixed signals, and calling me? does that mean I have a chance. Or does she just want me around while she grieves?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - My ex and I broke up about 4 weeks ago. Its hard for me to talk to her because it was my fault we broke up. She is still mad that I facebook chatted this girl I want, suppose to talk to while I was drunk and we talked, then turned to sexting. I hone...

Is it true that if I let her keep coming to me with her problems she will only see me as a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - I really need people help with this one girl. Me and her met like last month and I started liking her a lot and I don't know how she feels about me, but she always seem to ask me to take her to places when she depress and stress and she always tell ...

G/f says she cant have sex due to "girl issues", but she's not on her period. What else could it be?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - My girlfreind says she cant have sex due to girl issues.But shes not on her period.What else could it be?...

How normal, or how often, is it likely a person could get depressed by what their loved one says?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - How normal or often is it to get depressed by what your loved one says? sometimes I feel like I was in a better place before I talk to my boyfriend. He's very politically centered, and I just don't like politics. everything has to be poli...

The guy whom I was with on and off for 5 yrs, is going abroad tomorrow and I don't know if I'll ever see him again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - hello, the guy I have been with for five years ( on and off but most of the time we knew that we are going to go back to each other ), well..he is going tomorrow to work abroad and I don't know when I'm going to see him again, he is not the talker ...

I'm totally unlike anyone my boyfriend's been with.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - I made a huge no-no. As a little preface, I'm currently dating a guy who is far more experienced than me. Part of it comes from an age difference (nearly a decade) and another part comes from the way he's lived his life up until now (he's done a...

I have a secret ultimatum.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - I've given myself a timeline that if he doesn't propose to me by then, I'm going to focus my life on something new. Ive been with him for a few years, and last year October he mentioned he was going to propose in Feburary... its now nearly October ...

Is a one-sided fling okay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - So I am living in Hawaii until December. I came out here for school and intended to leave earlier. I met a guy who told me he's falling in love with me. I like being around him and compared to my previous boyfriends, he doesn't annoy me. There ...

Am I overanalyzing, or is he interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 September 2011 (?) - Ok so I have a crush on someone right? And the funny thing about this is that this is probably the first REAL girly girl crush I've had since like the .....sixth grade and its really ridiculous.... So this someone I've been talking to him ...