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Archived questions from: August, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

I always end up unsatisfied after sex because I last too long. What can I do to change this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - Doese anyone know a way to make your self more sensitive or easyier to come quicker during sex, basically i have too much stamina , where as most guys would probably think its a great thing, its becomeing a real pain in the ass during sex, i could ...

Why can't I find anyone?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 323 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - I'm not sure what to do, I just can't find anyone! Its been about 3 years since I've had a relationship, in the time between I've filled that void of my life with work and study. Now I just feel empty and lonesome, its not even so much a sexual ...

I'm so sick of being single! What can I do to change this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - Haven't had a girlfriend since March, been looking since with no luck. Also, i'm not used to this, before then i was basically never single for 2 or 3 years. It's been so long now and i don't really have any confidence anymore, i haven't got any ...

My boyfriend's parents don't want us to date!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend recently got back together for the 4th time but problem his family doesn't want us to date. they say i treat him like crap and im not mature. i really want to be with me him cause i know for a fact i love him but he texted me ...

Is he interested or just playing a game?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - I started talking to a guy on msn through some friends we have in common. We got on well and have been out to the cinema and to lunch together. Since then(about 2 weeks ago) we have spoke on msn or text mostly everyday. He texts me to ask how my day ...

How did he "prove" we had sex when we actually didn't?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 449 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - This is going to sound like an odd question but here goes. My boyfriend's best mate didn't want me to be with his friend, so to split us up he told my boyfriend that i had had sex with him. I obviously denied it because it didn't happen and he sa...

My sister made a comment about guys in college and that has made me re-evaluate my love life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - In a conversation with my mother, My sister laughed when Mom made a comment that maybe someone at her school would ask her out if she takes a break from her current boyfriend. In response, my Sister explained that nobody askes anyone out on dates ...

My boyfriend told me to stop talking to this other guy but I don't know how to tell him that!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 450 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - i don't know what 2do.. i gt bk wiv my ex nearly 2years ago n we've been goin out eva since n its bin great..except b4 i gt wiv him there was this guy i gt wiv at my uni..we neva went out but things jus happend- we didnt get round 2 havin sex but ...

I pushed him too far and he's heartbroken. How can I fix this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for ten months. It was perfect, but not for long. We fought. It was generally his fault, him saying the wrong things, and I would get so hurt that I would break up with him, promising myself that I would lea...

I'm 5 weeks late, could I be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - hi im 13 i am 5 weeks late on my periods .. i have done stuff in the past and have been on my periods since then but a just cant sp beeing worrried and can u get pregnant if the boyfirends like has sperm on his hand and then poked you and you didnt ...

What should I do? Wait till I'm 18 to move in with him or wait till graduation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - hey i dont really know how to put this.. but i am 17 years old, my bday is in november bout 2 months away and i just recently moved 1200 miles about a month ago. i left behind the only person who ever makes me happy and the only one i love most. hi...

Has this connection gone?? Is it salvagable???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 449 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - Hey there. It has been a very long time since i have liked a girl but a couple of weeks ago i met a girl through a friend and i just had the general feeling we had a connection. We have sent loads of messages to each other since and have seemed ...

What are The Rules when dating a Christian lady?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - hi i want to know what are the rule are when u dating a christian lady and how u keep rule unbroken i know i am chritian myself but sometime it hard for me to try not break rule like sleeping wth them etc ...

She wants to marry me eventually, but wants to date other guys now. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 446 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - Im 21 now I started dating my girlfriend when we were 14. Last year we took a break, b/c she said she did not feel the same anymore. And I felt like our love was dying down. After about 7 months we started seeing each other and after 5 years we ...

Should we call it quits after 7 years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 450 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - Hello all you experienced people, My relationship..., seven years engaged a couple ago. 5 kids between us although hers are gone, moved in for a bit but because of lawyers and child support laws she moved out. we still get along well and enjoy t...

My pregnant girlfriend keeps kicking me out! Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - My girlfriend is pregnant and she is always kicking me out. Last week we she said she had the ump and although she said it wasnt my fault she told me I had to stay at my mums that night. I didnt call her that evening because she said she didnt want ...

Is the guy I am dating toying with my emotions and feelings? I never know if today I will be loved or ignored.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - I've heard of this trend in the dating scene where a guy purposely makes a girl feel insecure (through put downs, ignoring etc), just so she will feel bad about herself, more desperate for him, vunerable and hopefully (for the guys) easier to get ...

I overcame my abuse. How do I make sure now that sex is perfect for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months now, we really truely love each other, and both feel it's time to take our relationship to the next level, he is a virgin and I am not. I was abused as a child so I never got to give my virginity away, it...

Is there no hope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - I've got a male friend I like a lot and we hang out from time to time. Last time I spent the night at his, in his bed, but no sex, he kissed me goodbye on the lips in the morning and my stomach did a somersault. I began to wonder, so I texted him ...

How do I attract the women I actually fancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - Hi. Some women I genuinely feel are intimidated by me. Others find me rather personable. Why is this? Guess which ones I fancy (the former!). How do I attract the ones I really fancy, then? Thanks and bye for now! ...

My long distance girlfriend is acting differently, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - Hi everyone. I am with my gf for almost 2 years. We are now living far from each other. Sometimes, we meet once a month and sometimes not at all. I miss her a lot that I always wanted to talk to her. Usually, I called when she is not working. She...

I still can't forget what he did at the beginning of our relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - i have got this really weird problem... i have a boyfriend(my classmate in coll) and we've been together for last 18 months.i feel he really loves me but when we initially started out he had this habit of complimenting other girls and usually ...

Did I betray my best friend? Is this considered cheating? What do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - Basically I want to know whether this counts as cheating/boyfriend stealing and betraying my best friend at the same time? I'll start from the begining. Ok, yesterday, actually technically the day before yesterday, I go on msn. My best ...

We had unprotected sex and now I'm feeling weird. Could I be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - I had sex with my basically boyfriend friday the 22nd. I took his verginity. I dont think he pulled out in time and when he did...it got on my inner thigh. we didnt use a condom. couple days after that, the condom broke. I am very emotional an...

I want to get more intimate with him but we only see each other for a few months. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - oh jeez...just did something veeeery interesting. some of you will remember the guy that i mentioned in earlier questions (the 'bad' one). well, i got slightly very hammered, and ended up making out with him (and going onto more, but we stopped), ...

His mother is not willing to give him up! Should I stay with him or let her have him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - hello, I had met my soul mate when I had been on holidays, although we were both expecting nothing of it at first but a summer fling, we both fell in love. He had proposed to me, and I came back home the happiest girl. Its been 4 months long dist...

Should my girlfriend pay more than her equal share when we go out to dinner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for little under a year. We both make decent money. She enjoys eating out at finer places more so than I do and I pay for a majority of these meals. Since I'm mainly going out to these finer establishments for her, ...

Confused about pornography. Is it cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

31 August 2008 (?) - I'm 20 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. He's my first boyfriend and we plan to get married after college. I have never watched porn videos, but as a young girl (9-13 years old) I looked at a lot of pictures of naked women. ...

I am 2 months pregnant and I find out he has another girl! What now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - I just found out that my boyfriend has another girl...... he told me this right after I told him I am 2 months pregnant. I really don't know what to do. We were "high school sweet hearts" and now that I found out im pregnant, with his baby makes ...

He got drunk and kissed another girl. Should I risk giving him my whole heart again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - I've been in a relationship with a guy for 2.5 years now. This is my first relationship, but not his. Lately we've been fighting a bit, but nothing spectacular. Everything has been getting resolved within hours of the argument. A couple of days a...

My girlfriend is scaring me! She just blows up and takes it out on me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 446 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - So, I've been dating my girlfriend for 7 months now. we're in our early 20s. She's my first and the relationship seemed really good at first. We would spend time together but over the past few months she's changed. She throws tantrums and takes ...

We broke up in February, when he gave me a letter, stating he wanted to start up again in a year with me, have not seen him since we broke up, now I get a voice mail, that he wants to drop over, what could he want?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - Hello Everyone, I need some advice regarding my ex... We broke up in Feb this year and haven't seen him since. I have recieved a voice mail message and messages stating that if I am home so he can pop over??? What does this mean? What could...

I moved to a new area, found a very nice guy to be with, things seemed to be going great, then he broke up with me, telling his friend, he thought I was weird, why would he act so differently?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - I just recently moved to a new area and found someone who seemed perfect. He was a total Prince charming, had only kissed a girl on the cheek, and was so shy and sweet. We have some things in common like creativness and type of music ect. Well I ...

We have been dating for four years, she tells me now she doesn't want a relationship, I love her, but I don't know what to do now, please help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - Me and this girl fell deeply in love with each other around 4 years ago when we first met, since then it has been awesome ride, but the other day she all of a sudden said she doesnt want a relationship, to me this was abit of a shock, i thought it ...

My girlfriend was molested, when she was younger, she get nervous, when I touch her intimately, is there any way I can help her be less nervous, and enjoy our encounters?

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - I've been dating this girl for quite a while. We're really close and even talking about getting married once we graduate college. I've been touching and sucking her breast for a while now and she always really enjoys that but I've just started ...

My boyfriend and I would like some ideas on different positions to have sex, what do you suggest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 337 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - whats your fave sex potision? and what are they like? me and my boyfriend are experimentin lol, were been safe dont worry but need some idead :D thanks!...

We had rough sex, and I was hurt a bit, but not so bad, my boyfriend feels terrible, how can I convince him it wasn't that bad?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

31 August 2008 (?) - Several days ago, i had sex with my boyfriend. He went very rough. I told him it hurt, surprizingly it did. He pulled out, we had notice i bled a bit. He thinks im still in pain, and still bleeding but im not. Vincent wont believe that im fine, he ...

I said some mean things and my boyfriend and I broke up, I am getting confusing signals from him, does he still care?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 451 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - My ex-boyfriend and i broke up a month and a half ago and the reason why we broke up was because i said i was thinking maybe we're better off as friends and he took it wrong, i was jus tellin him i was startin to think that, but we stayed friends ...

She hasn't given me any reason not to trust her but why doesn't she want a serious relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

31 August 2008 (M) - I met my current g/f at my very first job about 4-5 years ago. At the time, she was dating one of my friends for a little while. They broke up after a year and a half roughly, and I didn't really talk to her much afterwards. About 2 1/2 months ago, ...

Should I have put up more of a fight? Will I lose him to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 450 days ago

30 August 2008 (?) - I have been seeing a 29 yr old guy for about a month. When he moved here to Boston from NYC for an 8 month freelance job, his girlfriend of 2 yrs broke up with him because of the distance, although "she would feel more comfortable with it if they ...

Help! I think my boyfriend might cheat on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 428 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - Hi. Im 13 nd im im a relationship. Im scared that my boyfriend is going to dump me because on bebo he is calling other girls fit and sexy. I love him to bits but my friend was txtin him asking him why he said that to then girls and he turned it ...

Why all this HATE towards me and show of temper?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - I met a guy a few months ago whilst on vacation and became friends-he wanted more but I held back because he was quite good at telling everyone in the hotel things and I did not want that spread around. he also got very angry in front of everyone ...

General question about breaking up/ getting back together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - what do you guys think...Someone once told me that if you break up with someone even if you come back together...things are never the same...and the same problems are gonna surface....I know that even if my ex asked me back...now id be kinda afraid ...

Should I be more understanding and patient or should I break it off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 451 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - I have a great guy of 2 years...great personality, intelligent, attractive, and attentive (affectionate)...he is everything that I have been searching for. But I have been very patient with him (cause we aren't having sex...trust me I want to but he ...

Is she interested or just being friendly

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 451 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - Hi, I don't normally ask for advice but i'm pretty confused about my situation. I started volunteering at a place a couple months ago and there is this one girl who drew my attention. I want to ask her out but don't know if she's interested in me, ...

I have mentioned we should get together but how do I officially ask her out on a date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 451 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - Hey all, well here is my problem. At uni last year I met one of the most attractive girls I have ever seen. At first I was a bit shy to talk to her but she spoke to me one day and we got on great. We ended up working as lab partners for the whole ...

I don't know whether I go out with him or not. He did ask me out didn't he?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - A few nights ago I was talking to a very good friend of mine, we were both just talking about how we were single and He said " so your single then?" and I said "yes" then he said "well i could fill that gap for you" I said "if you want to then you ...

Should I tell her I love her online or to her face?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - hi, i know a girl for 3 weeks and she lives near my house, i had a long conversation through one night and i got out with her one time and we walked through the city, i gave her flowers and she said that is very kind of you and she huged me. ...

I'm too shy to talk to this boy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 451 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - i like this boy but i am to shy to talk to him any where. please help. i have talked to him before and he likes me. but that time i screwed it....

We had a good initial chat, but now she's "too busy" to go out with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - hey all, i knew a girl that lives beside our house, the first day i met her we talked for more than 3 hours and in the next day i asked her to go to a trip in the city and she accpeted that and every thing went ok, after a week i tried to i...