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Archived questions from: April, 2016 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

How do I go about telling my parents about the relationship I am having with a professor at University?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2916 days ago

30 April 2016 (F) - I have been having a relationship with a professor at my university now for 8 months, I have now told my parents i am in a relationship with someone and have told them he is older than me. My boyfriends family (Uni profs family) have met me and are ...

We’ve been dating one month and I found his arrest records online! Should I ask him about it? How?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2915 days ago

29 April 2016 (F) - I’ve been dating a wonderful man for a month. We’re very compatible, he’s family oriented and successful, and does everything big and little to show he cares for me. All signs are very good. He’s an entrepreneur and there’s plenty of info about him ...

What do I do about this? He doesn’t return the favor!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2913 days ago

29 April 2016 (F) - so here goes... From the ages of 15 (lost my virginity) to 21 I've always had oral sex given to me with out asking (im now 23)...(by boyfriends not randoms) My current boyfriend of two years this september has only gone down on me a hand full...

Wearing jewelry from an ex whilst out on a date with a new partner... thoughts?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2915 days ago

29 April 2016 (F) - I want to know what everybody's thoughts are on wearing jewellery from an ex partner whilst out on a date with a new partner. Thank you!...

Is he using me? People are telling me that he’s a bad person!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2917 days ago

29 April 2016 (F) - I've met this guy a few months, he's really sweet, caring and a respectful gentleman. I really like his personality and he treats me with respect, although I act cold with him, he still treat me in a nice way. I'm not the type of a person who treats ...

How should I handle this? Is he being thoughtless? Selfish? Or ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2917 days ago

29 April 2016 (F) - My boyfriend was supposed to be going to a gig with me. The band cancelled the tour due to illness. Instead promised we would go on a weekend getaway and hinted at engagement. We have been together 2 years and have two kids together and liv...

She wants us to start again. What would be the best thing to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2902 days ago

29 April 2016 (M) - I have been seeing my girl for nearly a year. My pal is on a dating site POF. He told me my girlfriends photo profile came up in a search, so I checked it out for myself. He wasnt lying. It said she had logged in within the last 24 hours. I ...

Should I just ignore my fiance until I return from my family vacation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

29 April 2016 (F) - I'm getting married to my fiance in October. At the moment I am on holidays with my mother and sister. I have to send the first text to my other half always. It's like "out of sight out of mind". Why? Should I just ignore him now until I get home...

Why is he ignoring me? What would I need to do to win him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2917 days ago

29 April 2016 (F) - I met a guy 9 years older than me through a dating site two months ago. We seem to have a lot in common. I only met him once because we live 45minutes away from each other and usually varsity work keeps me busy. The day I was going to meet him he t...

Was this a normal variation for a penis shape?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2916 days ago

28 April 2016 (F) - Hey guys, so I have a question that's gonna hit a rather touchy area, especially for men, so please keep in mind; I have very little sexual experience (I've never had full intercourse)! So I was recently dumped by a long term boyfriend, and a friend...

How can I get out of this abusive relationship? He has everyone fooled into thinking he is a good guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

28 April 2016 (F) - My boyfriend has been getting messages from girls he has been with and never tells me about it. Unless I look at his stuff I don't ever know. And only one of the girls has asked him if he was with anyone which he said yes he was. But the others...

He's less interested in sex. Is it me? Or could it be that I disgust him in some way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2915 days ago

28 April 2016 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for just over two years and up until about 5 months ago things were great, we had a great love life and sex life and I was happy. However, recently, we've rarely been having sex, I would say maybe once a month. I brou...

My boyfriend sometimes blurts out something that just sounds wrong! What do I do in this situation?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2917 days ago

28 April 2016 (F) - Hello, Need some advice. My boyfriend is a really wonderful guy! My only issue is that sometimes he means to say one thing and it will come out wrong, especially with friends/acquaintances or when a little tipsy. For example, we were meeting ...

I thought we were on the same page about a baby, but now he wants to go travelling.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

28 April 2016 (F) - A year a go I found out I had pcos and it horrified me that I would never conceive. I spoke with my partner and said I don't really want to wait to try for a baby - I'm 24 so it wasnt unrealistic. A year later and all of a sudden my partner wants to ...

We are back together, but he is still talking with the girl he dated when we were split up!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

28 April 2016 (F) - I've been dating my ex boyfriend again for the last 4 months. We were broken up for about 6 months and he was dating someone else for 4 months out of the 6 months we were broken up. He says they were not that serious but they did like each other. ...

When do I raise the awkward subject of menstrating with boys I am dating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2916 days ago

28 April 2016 (F) - When is a good time to tell a guy you're on your period? Seems like every boyfriend since high school gets really grossed out or mad at me when I tell him. In high school I didn't have to because I only had three boyfriends. The one I only dated...

What should I do with my gamer boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2915 days ago

27 April 2016 (F) - As if my boyfriend didn't play games already enough. Now he wants to play 4 hours straight two nights. While he plays every night for 3 hours. Like is he serious!?!? When were supose to be spending time together. I want to spend time with him, e...

Is this rosacae or an alcohol problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2919 days ago

27 April 2016 (F) - I met a guy for a first date last night. I noticed after one pint he looked flushed and had broken blood vessels around his nose and a thickening of connective tissue around the nostrils, a bumpy appearance. He then had a second pint and had driv...

My Bf has secretly been having sex with this woman for more than 6 years. Should he remain friends with her and her partner? I say no.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2915 days ago

27 April 2016 (F) - My boyfriend has been friends with this couple for 20 years. They moved states away a long time ago. They email, talk and text Facebook always. I found out recently that he has been having sex with her for like 6+ years and they have secret ...

I want my parents blessing before moving in with my boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2917 days ago

26 April 2016 (F) - Hey Everyone, So, my boyfriend and I have been together for a year now, and he's brought up us moving in together. I come from a background where my family believes its meet a guy,fall in love,engage,marry then move in. Whereas my boyfrien...

I’m unsure how to deal with this friend group!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2921 days ago

25 April 2016 (F) - Hi all, I've got an odd situation going on. I have a friend that is hard to get in touch with and is a poor communicator. She will constantly invite me to things, then not tell me the exact time or respond. I have recently learned that her...

I’m afraid he’ll just drop me one day! How can I overcome this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2921 days ago

25 April 2016 (F) - I am in a relationship but because of past experiences where men I was dating ended the relationship with me by just not calling or contact in me, I have this fearvthat this man will just one day drop me and leave me devastated. How can I overcome ...

We rushed into a relationship. Were his words his way of making himself not feel guilty, or do you think he's being genuine?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2921 days ago

25 April 2016 (F) - Try keep this short.. met this guy online we hit it off right away talked every day for a month, he opened up about why he has his daughter all time. We both are single parents..he has his daughter with him all the time, one of the things I liked ...

Help. Am I justified for being annoyed with my Gf?? I am having girlfriend problems

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2921 days ago

25 April 2016 (M) - Whilst in the club with my work colleagues and my girlfriend for a colleagues birthday, my gf and a female colleague go off to dance. I go looking for them about 20mins ish later because my gf is shy so didn't want her to think I've left her with a ...

What am I doing wrong? Women seem scared of me. Haven't been able to set up a date in three years.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2920 days ago

25 April 2016 (M) - I have problems with women and I'm taking time away from dating (or trying to date) until I've found myself, developed confidence, and have a proper view of women in general. I've struggled pretty badly for the past 7 years or so. My previous...

He likes to tease me in front of others. What can I try to get him to stop doing this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2921 days ago

25 April 2016 (F) - I'm a 27 year old female, and my s/o, *P* is 28. I've been troubled by this for a while, and just tonight we got into an argument about this. Here is my problem...he likes to tease me in front of others.I feel uncomfortable about it, and almost f...

Is he into me or just looking for friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2921 days ago

24 April 2016 (F) - Long story short, I recently met this guy in one of my classes. He seemed really cool and he asked me if I wanted to go to the movies with him Friday night. First off, we both paid for our own ticket..I mean we're college students and imax movie ...

Is there a chance my co-worker might be interested in me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2922 days ago

23 April 2016 (F) - There's this guy at my work who just got hired 5 months ago. Initially, We hardly talked to one another and I was indifferent towards him. This all changed few weeks later when I ran into him in stairway-the first thing he asked was if I go to the ...

Can I ever encourage this man to come back? He broke up with me after finding I was once engaged to another man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2921 days ago

23 April 2016 (F) - I met this guy one (Mr. X) and half years ago but we started dating about eight months ago. before him, I was previously engaged to another man, who called off the wedding just one week before. We had had engagement ceremony, as is custom in my c...

Please please help me! Retroactive jealousy is driving me insane and it's getting out of control

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 2921 days ago

23 April 2016 (M) - (Ps. English is not my mother tongue so I apologize for the grammar errors etc..) Hello; It's been more than a year since I started to date my girlfriend (fiancee). Unfortunately I'm in the claws of retroactive jealousy. I guess there is not a...

Does she love me for my money? She never offers to pay!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2922 days ago

23 April 2016 (M) - My girlfriend Lisa and I have been going together for almost ten months and our relationship seems to be sailing along quite smoothly. We're very compatible. We always have a lot of fun together and she never nags me. She's beautiful, classy and ...

Am I a rebound? I'm concerned about his continued contact with his ex.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2919 days ago

22 April 2016 (F) - Hi dearcupid, I have been dating a pretty nice guy for the last few months. Everything seems pretty good except I'm concerned about something. I'm not sure if I have a right to be concerned. What I'm concerned about is he is still in frequen...

Is the suggestion we watch a movie at his place for our fifth date normal, or a bad sign?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2921 days ago

22 April 2016 (F) - Is this a bad sign? I'm interested in a guy I met through an online dating site. I've met with him four times already now, we've had coffee, a dinner/movie date, picnic at a park with drinks then at a lounge. For the next date he suggested I come...

How can I show him his bad times are over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2921 days ago

22 April 2016 (F) - Hi , Ive just got myself a new boyfriend weve been together a month . hes really nice but he hasnt had the best of times over the last year or so before we got together . He had cancer 5 years ago and beat it ( had to leave the army which he lived ...

My Boyfriend's Doberman comes first. It's making me miserable. What do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2924 days ago

22 April 2016 (F) - Hi I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We have a 1 yr old son. The problem is when me and my boyfriend met he had a Doberman but the problem is he treats the dog better than me. He takes the dog everywhere with me. The dog can do no wrong. T...

How does one learn to accept what is good enough? I feel like I can never do anything good enough

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2924 days ago

22 April 2016 (F) - I recently ended my marriage and have a new bf who is a national rep. His work takes him away for overnights as well as many evening meetings. I hate how I act when he is away from home. I get super moody, I almost feel like he doesn't love...

My ex boyfriend wanted the truth about his ED. Is ED a good enough reason to end a relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2923 days ago

22 April 2016 (F) - I had closure with my 45 year ex boyfriend last night. The problems around our sex life weighed heavily on this new relationship. Is it a good enough reason to end a relationship because I cant have penetrative satisfying sex? I love making l...

How do I get over him? Should I try to be friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2922 days ago

21 April 2016 (F) - The guy i've been seeing ended things with me and i just cant seem to get over him. We've been on and off for six months which originally started as a friends with benefits thing and eventually we decided to start seeing each other. He's messed m...

Should I let my relationship influence my career? I don't know what I should choose!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2925 days ago

21 April 2016 (M) - Hey, Friends I'm feeling very confused about my career. I can't decide my career, I want to marry my gf and her parents may get her married after a couple of years but I don't think that 2 years are enough for me to be something. I still have to pu...

Just stop talking to him or be straight up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2924 days ago

21 April 2016 (F) - I am currently talking to a guy and his been trying to talk to me for 2 maybe 3 years now and I either ignore him or talk to him but for the 1st 3 min only. Well this time i decided to talk to him and we have been talking for quite a while bu...

My partner or my daughter? I feel so very upset about what has happened. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2922 days ago

21 April 2016 (F) - I have lived with my partner for around 5 years. My daughter (now 24) lived with me....(or between my ex husband and her b/f's parents) She never paid any board money and rarely did any housework. (but that's my fault for letting her). We often ...

Should I continue with this relationship? Or break up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2919 days ago

21 April 2016 (F) - Hello Aunts! I'm not sure if I'm in the right relationship. My bf and I have been dating for two years now. Sometimes I feel I love him very much while sometimes I feel I don't love him that much to get married to him. I broke up with him about a ...

I like this guy. But should I heed my brother's concerns about this guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2925 days ago

21 April 2016 (F) - I met a guy on tinder. It turns out that my brother has known him for 7 years. My brother told me he didn't see us as a couple but said that he's a good guy. I'd like to add that my brother is a recovering alcoholic himself and has been sober for 2 ...

Does anyone else think that D*cks and sex are overrated?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2923 days ago

20 April 2016 (F) - Now that I've been with a few guys I realize how small guy's d*cks are. Like when he's pushing it in, it can kind of feel big but once you get used to it, it's just not a big deal. And long and short lengths don't make a difference. The ...

Should I cancel the date? Or am I overreacting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2925 days ago

20 April 2016 (F) - Hi. Bit of advise needed here please! Been chatting to a guy online this past week, and we are meeting for a date tomorrow. We have both made no secret of the fact we are both dating others at the moment, and he went on a date last night. I pl...

He’s stood me up not once, not twice, but three times! Is he just unlucky or is he married?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2925 days ago

20 April 2016 (F) - Ok I'm in a little shock right now. I've been stood up not once not twice but three times. I know many will say why would talk to someone who did this to you. Well he was so charming. He would say how beautiful caring I was then ask me out then at ...

Should I be worried about his comment? Makes me worry about his bisexual side!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2925 days ago

20 April 2016 (F) - Last August I befriended this guy. We remained friends until December, that's when we both admitted they we were attracted to each other and decided to see where things lead too. The thing he is bisexual, I have no problems with this because I am an ...

Should you ever give flaky guys a second chance?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2927 days ago

19 April 2016 (F) - When I say flake, I don't mean cancelling or calling beforehand to reschedule or calls afterwards to explain the bizarre emergency situation in which he was unable to call. A flake to me , Is someone that makes plans with you. You set the date...

Do I give him a chance? Boyfriend told ex girlfriend he still loves her

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2927 days ago

19 April 2016 (F) - Hi I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 months. I know that's a short time but I really care about him and am happy with him. Last night I was hanging out at his place and he went out with a couple friends to go eat. I wasn't feeling good and...

He cuts me off in middle of me speaking. He said people do it all the time. Is this true?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2925 days ago

19 April 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I were working in the office yesterday. After a while he had to take over from what I was doing and I sat waiting for him. We were talking a little,but every time I was telling him a story he either wouldn't answer me or he would...