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Archived questions from: October, 2006 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Hours before my Mother's funeral the man I love, is texting another woman tell her 'she is hot!"! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - hi i dont really know if you could call this a problem, i suppose its quite obvious what i should do but i really just need someone to say it! Ok, so i'm 21 and everything has been great with my boyfriend lately, we've had our arguements in the past ...

What exactly is 'charm' and how can I be charming?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

31 October 2006 (?) - wot is charm? how can i be charmin to a 14yr old gurl. im 16. any ideas? we say hi n met on a mates bday b4 dats it!...

Going out with this guy I like will really upset my good friend! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 634 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - I'm in a sticky situation Ilike this guy, lets call him X I met X about a year ago but we wern't really that close, we were like, hi and bye kinda friends.... I really liked him, and whilst drunk, texted him saying how much I liked him. HE tex...

I dont want to look needy but I want to text him. Should I wait for him to make the first move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - i met this guy a few weeks back he is a barman,he was very friendly to me and we started talking and both found out we were single so i plucked up courage and asked him out for a drink.he took my number and thought he wouldnt bother but he did.and ...

He's more distant..and not answering my texts! What should I say to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 303 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - Hey this is mainly aimed at guys but anyone who can help will be appreciated! I am 16 and have been with my boyfriend of the same age for 5 months - we have a great relationship but in the last two weeks he has stopped making the effort to reply to...

I made eye contact with her and smiled. But now..I'm to shy to go up and talk to her! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

31 October 2006 (?) - der is dis 14yr old gurl i fancy. she goes to my skul. im 16. usually at lunch everyone leaves skul. on day bk i usually go past her. today i got da courage to make eye contact and smile. she smiled first. i den luked away as i went past. im jus too ...

Does he just want me to still like him to boost his ego..or is the the real thing??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 632 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - I'm a teen girl and coming up for 2months ago my long term boyfriend split up with me because he was having problems at home and couldn't deal with the extra stress. This could of been an excuse but I do know that they were having problems, even so. ...

He went from dating me to just being friends with me and now...he's ignoring me! What is going on with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 634 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - I finally started going out with this boy who I liked for a couple months. We seemed to really connect; we hung out a lot and always laughed and smiled when we were together. But best of all is that we could talk about anything together, including ...

My online guy wants to meet me...I don't know what to do.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 555 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - i have been talking to a guy on MSN for about 2 weeks now..online we seem to really connect and he says he can't get me out of his head and he really likes me, he also has hinted about meeting in person but hasn't put any pressure on me..im 16 and ...

Why do girls say yes to a date but they also say "don't tell anyone" What's up with that, girls?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 412 days ago

31 October 2006 (M) - I don't get it. Does it just happen to me or do other guys get it too. Whenever I ask out a girl she says yes... but dont tell any one. Any girls here that can explain why?...

He said the female bartender was hot...while I was standing there. I am upset..what do you think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - Hi--does anything think this was rude of my b/f? We were at a club one night with one of his buddies. We got the first round of drinks and then his friend asks my b/f--what do you think of the bartender--not loud or anything but obviously i am s...

Should I take this guy back after he dumped me??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 631 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - hey, i was wondering if anyone can help me. i went out with this guy for about 3 months and then he dumped me and on valentine's day. my friend introduced him to one of her friends and he started going out with her about 2 weeks after he dumped me ...

Can I ever win her back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

31 October 2006 (M) - Help. I'm 35 and I'm so confused. I felt i was being neglected by my g/f whom at times didn't seem interested in me. I felt emotionally disatisfied and told her. Our love life was also non existent. She went away, evaluated our relationship and we ...

His mates tease him about us and it's harming our relationship! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - hey i have a real problem ok ive been out with this guy 6 times...and it hasnt worked out for more than a week because his mates keep making fun and saying crap like 'have you f**ked her yet?' and he didnt want that. ...

Do I have a chnace with this guy? If not, what can I do to improve my chances?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 634 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - There is this guy i like who is like my friend, but always seems a bit on edge with me. He never really talks directly to me, he'll smile at me if i smile at him, but he is naturally VERY polite... lol. I used to take loads of pictures of my self....

He's in jail on 2 drug counts and wants to date me when he gets out! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - I work at a jail in dc as a C/O and on my unit it's this sexy ass guy I use to see in the club when I use to go out he is in jail on a drug charge but the courts couldn't prove he was selling drugs so they have 21 days to let him go but any way when ...

Do you think I can encourage him to give it another try, before he dcides to end it with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 634 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - I am currently gutted that my bloke has told me he wants to finish things. We have been together for 5 years. He has always had periods of moodiness, but this time I asked him to try and talk to me about how he is feeling as I was starting to ...

What will I get (?) for having sex with a 15 year old?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 592 days ago

31 October 2006 (M) - can any one tell me wat i will get for having sex with a 15 gal rely need help plzs and i am 18...

I honestly want to just help her and get her away from him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 634 days ago

31 October 2006 (M) - I have a female friend who I love and care for very much. She is recently divorced ( for three months and were seperated for two years). She filed for the divorce because he had an affair and is keeping it going. She gave him numurous chances for ...

Why do I have to choose one of them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 14 months now and we are looking into spending our lives together very soon. My boyfriend is going oversea for six months to travel on his own, hoping to gain more experience in his life (which he truly lacks). He ...

Is he being selfish or really doesn't like my friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - hi this may seem silly but it hurts me. the thing is my friends invite me and my bf out everytime they are going out and when i ask my bf if he wants to go out he always makes up an excuse like on sat there. my friends had arranged to go for a night ...

I had a dream that my bf was texting my ex-friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 634 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - hi! i have abit of a problem but im not surr if it is a problem or just my paranoid mind! i fell out with my best friend in june sometime and we havent been in touch since then but my bf had her number in his phone but it wasnt stored under her name ...

I need some guy gift ideas

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - help! me and my boyfriend have been going out 3 year in a couple of weeks and i need some ideas on what too get him.. he always buys me realy nice gifts but i just dont have a clue. I cant cook him a nice meal either as i cant cook. lol :( any su...

Does a girl prefer cuddle or kisses?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

31 October 2006 (M) - Hi everyone just wondering if your spending time with a girl does she prefer cuddle or kisses?...

I cum too quickly

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

31 October 2006 (M) - I am 23 years, and I am with my gf for at least 3 years. Now we are doing sex for along time but I have a little problem. When we do sex it cums quickly after five minutes. Is there something that I can do for this problem? Thank u....

I'm jealous because he can't let go of the mothers of his children

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 248 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - i met my partner two and a half years ago, we had an affair, he left his wife and moved in with me eighteen months ago. he has two children with the wife and another little one who lives ten minutes from us. my problem is that neither of the two ...

I can't just forget everything in a minute

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 634 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - i have a very strange problem i love my bf he loves me too but offlate we have been fightin a lot for stupid reasons we make up at the end but then when he starts makin me feel good i kind of feel awkward and i back off, it has never happened to me ...

I was too clingy and controlling with my bf and he left me. It hurts because he just wants to be friends now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - i miss my ex-bf so much. he broke up with me almost 3 months ago, saying i was "choking" him and i admit i was clingy because i didnt want to lose him, he was "busy" with college life and i was "controlling". however, he promised he would come ba...

I having a hard time with the pain of breakup-I want my bf back! How do I cope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - Heartbroken, help?? I broke up with my boyfriend of 3years, 2days ago. I love him so much, but he isnt giving me all I need, I feel like Im the one that needs and loves him more than he needs me. He works long hours and I get that hes tired but I ne...

Need to tell this guy, I don't want a relationship. How can I do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - I'm still in love with my ex bf, but i'm not telling anybody because I know that everyone will disapprove as they think I can do better (and he has a gf so I can't do anything about it). My ex's mate who I was into once has been showing an interest ...

I'm black..he's white and we are friends! Should I tell him I want to date him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 633 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - Ok so I've known this guy for a while and we talk on the phone alomst all day/every day and I've hung out with him with my friends a couple of times. He's always nice to me and we get along great, but I'm afraid he'll never acutally like me the way ...

Do I tell her I am a virgin and if so..how do I tell her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

31 October 2006 (M) - Hi im a male 19 years old and never had sex, im am with this girl now who I really like alot and shes 22. she has told me that even though i am younger than her she would still like to be with me. and i know she has had a few different partners and ...

Last year...I liked him but he didn't like me. Now he likes me...should I like him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - i used to like this guy last year but he didnt really like me then. so i stopped liking him,but now hes telling me that he likes me. should i start liking him again?...

We snogged and she took it seriously. Now she's being real clingy! How do I tell her I just want to be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

30 October 2006 (M) - Theres a girl i've been friends with for about a year now. Shes a bit fragile and I don't want to hurt her but I don't know what to do. A couple of Fridays ago, we both were pretty drunk and ended up having a bit of a snog. I just took it as a one...

Once we slept together, he wouldn't answer his phone. But I still like him so how can I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I met a guy a few months ago and i slept with him, but once we slept together we lost contact for a bit and he wouldnt answer his phone to me or anything, then a few weeks ago i bumped into him again and we got chatting again. I still really like ...

I'm 14..he's 17 and I want to have sex with him. Can he get into trouble with the police if we do have sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 251 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - HI, Im 14 (nearly 15) and im going out with a 17 year old. And i want to have sex with him and he isnt putting pressure on me although i know hed like to have sex aswell. im just worried about it as i know the lagal age to have sex is 16. so if...

Can anyone give any tips on coping with failed relationships?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 406 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - Can anyone give any tips on coping with failed relationships? I am a 33 year old attractive and intelligent woman, who has (unfortunately) had the worst luck when it comes to relationships. I've been broken hearted more times that I care to rememb...

My bf hates my family! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - my boyfriend seems to hate my family and is really against them. i really love him and want him to love them back. what should i do? please help me...

Fell n love with him and now he wants time apart! I am hurting..what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - So, I recently met this guy and I feel as if I fell head over heals for him. Thing is, he just got out of a marriage a little over 3 months ago and is/was starting to get strong feelings for me as well. Now, he just wants to have time apart because ...

My gf was upset because I didn't see her the minute I got back from my holiday! Is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 633 days ago

30 October 2006 (M) - I just got back off holiday and i missed my girlfriend lots and wanted to come home early especially to see her. I wanted to see her as soon as possible but she was busy working and stuff so I went out to the cinema to see a film we had previously ...

I think he may still like me! What are the signs that a lad likes you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - 3 years ago a lad asked me out i did like him then as well but just felt to young to beb going out with some one at that age.Anyway ever since then i started falling in love with him evan my friends said ask him out he might still like you.I have ...

Found out he cheated on me a week before we broke up, but want to still get back with him! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 634 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I've heard from a close friend that my ex boyfriend cheated on me about a week before we broke up, kissing a girl in a public place with onlookers (one of them being my friends bf). I'm in the process of trying to get over him as he has a new girl, ...

I came to work hungover and this guy I liked, asked if I pulled someone else...does this mean he's interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I really like this lad I work with but the trouble is I don't know if he feels the same. We've been working together for almost a year now and we have a laugh together and can talk for ages on the most random topics. He always seems to make time to ...

He has a pregnant gf now and I can't get him out of my head! What should i do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 635 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - This guy and i have been friends for a while and for the last year became closer. He would call or text all the time we would hang oiut on a daily basis. and i started to have feelings so i hinted to him thst i had feelings so then he just moved. no ...

What is going on with this boy who bugs me in school? Any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 634 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - there is a boy at my school that i never used to know.but after the summer he was in some of my classes.as i was walkin to one class he said what ave we got now and i said the subject but he was already walkin der so he new were to go.and in another ...

I wnat to break up with my bf but it will break his heart. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I have been going out with this really lovely guy for almost 2 years, But recently I have started to have feelings for my best guy friend instead of my boyfriend. I know the right thing to do is to break up with my boyfriend, but I know that he ...

I asked her to lose her male friend and she won't. I feel doublecrossed here...what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

30 October 2006 (M) - I started going out with my gf 9 months ago.My gf is a chatterbox and i am the quiete kinds,but i talk,not as my gf expects but i say what i have to say,sometimes on time and late as well.Trouble started when my gf in 5th month asked me to cut off ...

I don't want to put the pressure on him about me moving, so what should I do???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 635 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - Guys - I will try to keep this short. Any help is so much appreciated. So, I have posted before about my boyfriend who lives in Ireland. I live in the UK. WE have been together two years and the general consensus is that I will one day move to ...

I thought he was taking me for granted, but now I haven't talken to him!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 634 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - thers this blokes whos 25 and im 18. he says that he likes me and wants to get to know me. he always takes me out and this has been going on for just over 6 weeks now. but hes still not mentioned a relationship! also friday just gone he let me down ...

Left our spouses, but now he doesn't know what he wants....what should I do???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 635 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I got married August 2006 after living with my partner for 5 years, our relationship was more a convenience that anything else and I always had strong feeling for someone who worked at the same company as I did. Having been married for 8 months I ...