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Archived questions from: March, 2005 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

None of the guys I'm interested in ever reciprocate. Starting to feel like I'm cursed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6965 days ago

31 March 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, I'm absolutely sick of unrequited love. I can't handle it happening to me again! It's happened too many times and it's been very hard getting over it and moving on each time. I'm 27 and have only had one proper boyfriend. We we...

I have a huge crush on my best friend's sister... and she's keen too!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

31 March 2005 (?) - Hi, I have a huge crush on my best friend's sister, and I found out that she has a crush on me too; should we tell him now, or wait awhile and let it slowly slip out...thanks...

Am I stupid to worry that we might not last?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6851 days ago

31 March 2005 (?) - Cupid, I have a problem. I am a 24 year old guy who is totally screwed up. Bad family problems and past relationships that have left me scared of committing and scared to let anyone come close in case I get hurt. Thing is, I am in love for the firs...

We love each other, but I'm worried about the shock of an "instant family"...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6960 days ago

30 March 2005 (?) - Me and my girlfriend are both currently in the Marine Corps stationed in South Carolina. We have been pretty serious for about six months and she will be getting out in a few weeks and I will be out in four months. I love her and her kids very muc...

My bloke promised he wouldn't mess me about, but now he won't answer my texts or calls...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6966 days ago

30 March 2005 (?) - Hiya, please help me. I've become friendly with a bloke named Hayd. We started flirting a lot and eventually he tried to kiss me but I refused. A couple of days after, I saw him again and realised I actually did fancy him a lot, so I gave in. He ...

Three guys are too many choices...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6966 days ago

30 March 2005 (?) - Hiya I have a dilemma...There are 3 guys I fancy and who fancy me back, but I do not know who to chose to go out with. Guy 1 is younger than me, which I have a serious problem with, but he treats me with respect. Guy 2 is very affectionate but...

I've never asked a guy out before, but this one is gorgeous. Should I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6965 days ago

29 March 2005 (?) - I have worked in a shop for the past 6 months. The most gorgeous guy I have ever met comes in and whenever we can (which isnt very often!) we will chat about everything and anything. Every time I look at him he is looking at me with a big smile, b...

It seems like he should know I like him, but I'm not sure how I can tell...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6894 days ago

29 March 2005 (?) - I've been in the same group of friends with this guy for the past 2 1/2 years or so. I am mainly closer to other people in the group, but lately I've been thinking that I might like him as more than a friend. We don't really have comfortable ...

The girl who's interested in me is younger than me. What do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6723 days ago

29 March 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid Hi, I am a 16 year old boy who lives in the UK and this girl I know who is 14 wants to go out with me. I don't know what to do, as I think people may think this is strange. Plz can you help me? cheers ...

Why would she tell me she was ill, then go out with her friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6962 days ago

28 March 2005 (?) - I've been with my new girlfriend for 3 months and it's been going great. I was really looking forward to seeing her on her night off but she texted me and said she was ill and had been sick. Later, when I went out for a drive I saw her in a pub ca...

I've been single for two years and no one seems to want to ask me out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6965 days ago

28 March 2005 (?) - Hi, I'm 20 years old and have been single for nearly two years. Lately it's been geting me down. People say they fancy me but never ask me out or for my number. I'm not standoffish but I'm not easy either. Is it just most men my age just wan...

I think we're interested in each other, but we can't get past smiling and small talk.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6964 days ago

25 March 2005 (?) - Three years ago I was introduced to someone. He took a shine to me and me to him and I said I'd call him but I didn't. I really regret it because over the past 3 years I've come to realise that I care a lot for him and want to give it a chance. I ...

Sometimes I want to break up with my g/f, just to see what's out there, but what if I regret it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6973 days ago

23 March 2005 (?) - Hi, my problem is that basically I have been going out with my girlfriend for nearly two years. We have a great relationship and are like best friends, we can spent weeks together without getting bored. We are both comfortable with the prospect of ...

She wants to "play it by ear" when her ex returns. Do I have a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6973 days ago

22 March 2005 (?) - hello, please help me! i met a lovely girl couple months ago and we seem to get along very well. i have since learnt that she had a relationship for 5 years and split up with him end of 2004.he is due back from states or somewhere late jul...

Right now, I'm seeing both my fiance and my ex-b/f and I wonder if wedding plans should wait.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6952 days ago

22 March 2005 (?) - Hi There, I have been with my partner for 5 yrs now and we are getting married next yea,r but the problem I have is that i have been seeing my ex from 7 yrs ago and i don't know if i am doing the right thing in getting married! Please help me...

My boyfriend has never given me a reason not to trust him... but I still don't!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

22 March 2005 (?) - Will I ever trust my boyfriend? We have been together for nearly 2 years but I feel as if I don't trust him. My last serious boyfriend cheated on me loads of times but I never knew until after we had split up. He hasn't given me any reasons why ...

Can I be in love with two people? How do I choose between them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

22 March 2005 (?) - Can i be in love with two people? I'm at university. When i started i had a boyfriend from home of 6 months and coincidentally we were doing same course at same uni. Within the first week we broke up. The situation had changed so much, the summer i...

He tells me what I want to hear when we're drunk, but I'm afraid he'll reject me when we're sober.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6895 days ago

21 March 2005 (?) - I have been interested in a guy on my course for over two years now. We have kissed a number of times and i really like him. When we are out drinking together with a big group he frequently tells me that he really fancies me and wants to take me out ...

Is he worth the trouble of sleeping with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6973 days ago

21 March 2005 (?) - My problem is that I have been sleeping with this boy for about a year, but every time I ask him out he lies to me. He also has dated many of my friends behind my back. Is he worth all this trouble?...

Madly in love with my friend's boyfriend... and I don't want to chance losing either one.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6885 days ago

19 March 2005 (?) - I dont know what to do, I am madly in love with one of my best friend's boyfriends and it hurts so much! The thing is, I think he likes me too. I just don't know what to do. My friend will fall out with me forever if I do anything with him or if I ...

My brother wants me to dump my girl, because she's his ex...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4332 days ago

17 March 2005 (?) - I recently got together with my brothers ex girlfriend and am now in a difficult situation. We really like each other and would like to continue seeing each other, but my brother has advised me against it. He says he wants to move on with his life ...

When my girlfriend gets friendly, she gets VERY friendly... but then she goes cold again...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6980 days ago

16 March 2005 (?) - I'm a man in my late forties, been a widower for nearly ten years. My wife and I loved each other a lot. Two years ago I got my first girlfriend (a younger divorcee) since my wife; and we were properly together for about a year. A year ago she ...

My new man seems rude and abrupt with me. Can he change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6981 days ago

14 March 2005 (?) - I'm in late 30s and it's been 1 year since I've dated. I am single with one son and he's grown. I met this contractor and it seems that he's playing hard to get or that he's stubborn on calling just to say hi. He's a good-looking man and it's bee...

The distance between the two of us makes things even more difficult...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6893 days ago

14 March 2005 (?) - Should I break up with my boyfriend? He lives in NY and I live in MA. We only see one and other when I travel there one- two times a month. We mostly talk online. Hardly ever talk on the phone. I was fine with that though.. Or at least I thought ...

My girlfriend is pregnant with our baby, but still wants her ex. Worried about our chances...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6684 days ago

13 March 2005 (?) - Hi I hope you might be able to help. I met my girlfriend last April, the first months were quite hard as she was still hung up on her ex from the uk, in fact I found out recently that for the first two months she was still asking him to give the...

He isn't interested and called me "easy", but I can't get him out of my head...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6884 days ago

12 March 2005 (?) - Hmm...ok this sounds so lame I know but I really don't know what to do anymore. I've had a crush on this guy for about 2 years, but I never did anything about it becasue I didn't think I stood a chance. Well I told my mate, who is his mate too ...

How do I find my soul mate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6776 days ago

12 March 2005 (?) - I am finding it really hard to find my soul mate. How do I know I'm in Love if I don't know what Love is??...

My ex says she now wants me "as a friend", but I get other signals too!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6874 days ago

11 March 2005 (?) - Hi all, I would really appreciate your help in this matter. Some time ago I started up an affair with a colleague of mine. Both of us were already in relationships. Cut a long story short, we fell in love and then I had to move to a differen...

How do I find out if this guy is interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6966 days ago

11 March 2005 (?) - My name is Rose, and I am deeply attracted to a guy that I work with. His name is Joe, and I feel that he is attracted towards me as I get the impression that he is always fussing over me, and I think it was him that sent me a Valentines card back ...

My boyfriend won't include me in his social groups...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6812 days ago

11 March 2005 (?) - My boyfriend has recently started going out with both male and female friends every Saturday night. He tells me the weekend before that I can also come, but then mid-week he tells me it's only work or some other excuse. We both work and don't g...

How do I learn to trust my boyfriend around other girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6986 days ago

10 March 2005 (?) - I have a problem. I'm going out with a lad who I'm absolutely in love with but I find it hard to trust him!! I know he loves me but I get very scared when he goes out round other girls! What do I do??...

All was going well until he suggested we get married. Now I have doubts...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6004 days ago

10 March 2005 (?) - I have been with my boyfriend for a very happy 9 months now. However recently he has said he wants us to get engaged. I do love him and have always thought of us having a future together; however I do not feel ready to get married and have started ...

We hug...and hug... but we never kiss.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6986 days ago

10 March 2005 (?) - Been seeing a guy for a while now. We get along great and have a lot of feelings for each other. He hugs me all night long and the only time he doesnt is when I hug him. It feels great for both of us but he won't kiss me. The first night we spent...

Never been in a relationship and I'm 21. Am I unusual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6982 days ago

9 March 2005 (?) - I am concerned. I'm 21 and have never been in a relationship before. I am unsure how to meet anyone, and I am worried that I am unusual. I have girl and guy friends and I do have several interests but I don't know if I'm good looking or interesting ...

One-nighters, Yes. Long-term relationships, No. What's wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6985 days ago

8 March 2005 (?) - Howdo I get a boyfriend? I am 20 and am easy on the eye but can't get a boyfriend. I can pull etc and have had many one night stands I just don't know how to keep them interested in me. I keep thinking there must be something wrong with me because I ...

Her father is making it difficult for us to be together.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6881 days ago

7 March 2005 (?) - I'm currently in a long distance relationship and my girlfriend has a violent father. I don't want to lose her but her father is making things very difficult for us to be together and I don't want to be a contributing factor in her family breaking ...

My gf & I get on great... but will our differences matter later?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6989 days ago

7 March 2005 (?) - Hi, I have been going out with my gf for over 7 years and are considering marriage. Up until now, we have had separate lives with separate friends. We get on really well and we have no problems. However, her friends are different from my friends, ...

I'm so insecure with my longtime boyfriend. How can I overcome my esteem issues?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

6 March 2005 (?) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years (I'm 17). The problem is lately I've become really insecure and every time my boyfriend mentions another girl I think he wants to go off with her. It's getting ridiculous. I am constantly ...

What happens if we sleep together and then he loses interest in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6989 days ago

6 March 2005 (?) - I've just started a relationship with a new guy and I like him so much. We haven't been together very long, but get on so well! We have already slept together in the same bedroom and experimented with foreplay a little. I'm 20 and he's 18 and ...

I'm the want-to-remain-secret admirer...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6872 days ago

6 March 2005 (?) - I've been interested in the guy who lives next door to me for about 5 months but the thing is I'm so shy of him that I can never speak to him. Hence, I became a secret admirer who sent him cards and emails. Thing is its gone a bit stale at the m...

I'm shy and want to talk to this guy...but don't want my mates to know..!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6990 days ago

4 March 2005 (?) - I'm really interested in this guy at uni! I'm very shy and have no confidence, however have decided to approach this guy I like who is in my lectures. I thought I would go sit with him and introduce myself but my mates would wonder why I am not sitt...

I love being with my b/f, what can we see too much of each other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6980 days ago

4 March 2005 (?) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for nearly two years now and I love him so much. I enjoy spending time with him and always try my hardest to have fun. Recently I have been feeling down about this relationship, but i could never finish w...

I can't stop comparing women to my "first love". How do I stop it & appreciate other women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6992 days ago

4 March 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, I'm 42 and have not had made love in 14 years, nor had sex in 7 years. I believe there is a big difference in both. The last person I saw naked was me! I was in a wonderful relationship with a truly beautiful woman, physically, emo...

I'm shy and having trouble talking to my boyfriend...and my folks.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6857 days ago

3 March 2005 (?) - Me and a very good male friend were always going out to the pictures together and doing all kind of thing, but just as great mates. I went to New Zealand for a month and whilst I was over there he text me saying he wanted to be more than friends ...

How do I tell her I like her, but avoid an uproar at work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6704 days ago

2 March 2005 (?) - There is this girl at work that i get on with. I started to fancy her and she soon found out, and we all knew that she wouldn't go out with me and we sort of fell out over it all. but lately we been getting on so well it amazing for me to see. ...

Feel lost, because the woman I fell for needs space to recover...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6983 days ago

2 March 2005 (?) - I am a 'recovered' alcoholic, regularly attending AA meetings. Recently an attractive women joined the fellowship, and, not having had a relationship for over 10 years, I fell head over heels for her. Now her AA sponsor has told me, quietly ...

Help me overcome my shyness around boys...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

1 March 2005 (?) - Hi, i am a 14 yr old girl. i need advice on how to stop being so shy around boys i like! Please help!...