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Trust issues: Help and advice

My girlfriend is waiting after a fight for me to says its all my fault. I'm not going to do that again.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 August 2017 (F - Hey all, My partner of five years and I had a fight two days ago and we haven't spoken since and I miss her a lot. Usually I am always the one that goes running back and gets us to make up but I'm just tired of her never making that effort. ...

Should I invest in this relationship when I'm not completely trusted?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

14 August 2017 (M - Hi, I'm in a relationship for ~ 2 and a half years. She means a lot to me, and I to her (or so she leads me to believe). We get on very well, I enjoy and feel very much at ease with her and all that good stuff. However, I do not feel very tr...

My best friend's boyfriend tells me he loves me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

12 August 2017 (F - So my best friend's boyfriend likes me and her and I like him as well. I feel horrible for liking him even though I liked him before they started going out. He says we should just wait even though he keeps telling me he loves me. I don't know what ...

I'm still friends with an ex and my new girlfriend gets jealous!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

12 August 2017 (M - I've been with my new girlfriend for six month's, my ex am still friends with,she babysits my granddaughter, if she needs help I help her like today, I have a pickup, she bought a big snowblower, so I pick it up for her, I help other friends too, my ...

I am trying to get over her betrayal so why is she driving past my house?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

9 August 2017 (F - Hi aunties, My long term partner left me 18 months ago for another man who she is still with. As far as I was concerned the relationship is over and there is no need to stay in touch. Every few months though she makes an effort to get in contact w...

My boyfriend lied about his ongoing involvment with his ex.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

9 August 2017 (F - Hi, When i met my partner he was still having his ex round his house watching films, going out, and going on holiday, all of this he lied about. We split up a year later and he was trying to find a house near his ex and he contacted her stra...

Is it strange to be 'vetted' by your partners family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

8 August 2017 (M - Does anyone else think this is a little odd, basically I am in a new relationship with a lovely woman and she has told me that a certain person that she knows (I don't know if it is a family member or friend) has 'vetted' me to make sure I am who I ...

I ended the affair but he keeps contacting me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

8 August 2017 (F - I have been involved with a married man for over 5 years....he said he's in a sexless marriage and his wife doesn't show him any affection....he can't leave her yet as he feels he would be abandoning his kids even though they are in their late ...

What makes a person act like my ex did?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

8 August 2017 (F - I was dating a guy for about two years. Around April of 2017 he breaks off the relationship. I was being needy and angry during that time because I was in my senior year of college and it was finals. And my father had stage four cancer he got really ...

I can't handle my husband lying!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

7 August 2017 (F - Recently my husband hasn't shown any interest in sex at all. He hasn't always been one of those men who want it all the time but sometimes it can be 2 weeks before he even shows the least bit of interest. I thought it was me, I have put weight on ...

He lied about getting back with his ex wife several years ago.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

6 August 2017 (F - Hi, advice really needed.. I have been with someone three months and we really get on well majority of the time but there is one thing. He told me that he got divorced in 2011 and as i am on his Facebook i can see that to be true. However i had a ...

My wife is a masseuse but I'm not sure of her "exchange network". Should I hack into her account?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

5 August 2017 (M - After i had some business problems my wife decided to qualify as a masseuse and try and bring in an income. That was 4 years ago.After a year of working in a Spa she decided to work from home. She said a lot of her regulars had said they would co...

My boyfried wont communicate!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

5 August 2017 (F - My bf and I took a long break but decided to try it again in Dec.My issue is he lives and works 2 hrs away. I haven't seen him in 3 months.I told him I need some form of communication (text,call,video chat)atleast once a day.Not for hrs at a time ...

My boyfriends suggestions are illogical and dangerous.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

4 August 2017 (F - I had to travel for good to find a better life but he convinced me to comeback and live as a real couple with him. Back then our relationship has been starting we shortly met, no details , no long conversations, the looks and decent shy approach ...

I need to rephraze the question to my boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

4 August 2017 (F - Me and my ex got back in contact September last year we split as he started too work away more then me finding out he met someone else and had a kid with her. Long story cut short he has split with this girl and we have started hitting things o...

How do I deal with my husband's flirting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

4 August 2017 (F - My next door neighbour's daughter, who is in her forties, constantly flirts with my husband. He flirts back but then denies he's done anything wrong. I have approached her and asked what she thinks she's playing at. She just laughed. It upsets me...

Colleague keeps rejecting friendly advances

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

3 August 2017 (F - Do I keep trying to talk to this moody younger work colleague? She's 25 and until 7 weeks ago would always say hi and make occasional small talk (she does chat a lot to her buddies,I'm not a buddy) She injured her back, was off work a few...

I've told him how I feel but he says I am overthinking!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

1 August 2017 (F - Hello, I have been seeing a guy since April. I met him at university but now I have finished, I have moved back home, meaning we live 2 hours away from each other. I also went travelling for two months after seeing him for 2 months. We still...

I pushed him away because I wanted him closer to me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

31 July 2017 (F - So 3 weeks ago I kind of pushed my boyfriend away and told him I don't wanna be with him but what I was really trying to do is making him understand my mental illness, suffering from GAD and BPD, I tried to tell him maybe through my ery wrong way of ...

I can't learn to trust men

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

31 July 2017 (F - Why can I not trust men? How can I go about this? I have been going to therapy for a while and my psychiatrist point blank said and it seem like a light bulb hit- "you haven't trusted anyone since josh" - josh was my verbally abusive bf of five ...

Are my fears reasonable?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

30 July 2017 (F - My bf, who I will call DH and I go to watch his nephew play VB (volleyball) on the varsity high school team. The team had sort of a team mother who went to all the games and drove kids to away games. I’ll call her the TM. The TM had come up to DH ...

I think my girlfriend might be in touch with her ex but I am afraid to bring it up

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

27 July 2017 (M - i have been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years now, Trust is something that is always earned, and unfortunately she has lied to me a few times, so i really have a difficult time sometimes when situations don't feel right or i get the feeling shes ...

Why do I want him so much? With no cares about who gets hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

26 July 2017 (F - The below is a story about, love, betrayal, cheating, and fate... In order for you to understand my story, I have to take it back TO THE BEGINNING. 6 years ago I met my now ex-boyfriend. After a year of us dating, we both moved across the count...

My boyfriend and I both have anger issues but should I forgive him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

25 July 2017 (F - Me and my boyfriend have been together a year and we were going very strong, and madly in love. Only recently has our relationship deteriorated. First off I have trust issues, have done for many years after awful relationships before. At the star...

I forgave him after his betrayal, but how can I warm this love up again?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

24 July 2017 (F - I am 27, yet still so naive in love. I will try to make this as short as possible. Both times when being betrayed, I never had a doubt because he was still treating me as good as we used to be. 6 months ago, my bf had feelings for a gir...

Should I be worried by his behaviour?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

24 July 2017 (F - Hello. I need your help to figure out if you think my boyfriend cheated. Let me begin by saying that he is in touch with me several times a day. But yesterday he behaved unlike the norm. We talked before bed on Saturday night. All was fine. I ...

My boyfriend has been texting a past hook up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

24 July 2017 (F - I have been dating this guy for a few months now and we are crazy about each other. We have been exclusive for a while, but I saw the other day that he has been texting with a girl he has hooked up with before. They have been friends for 10 years, ...

Is this guy lying about his wifey situation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

23 July 2017 (F - I met a guy online and started seeing him. Before I started seeing him he took down his profile as he said he found it demoralising. He told me he was separated, had been for 9 yrs. said he hadn't divorced because he wife had gotten a boyfrie...

Have I missed my chance to find a man, settle down and have a family?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

23 July 2017 (F - What do you do if you want to find someone to share your life with and get married so much that your heart hurts, but you are in your thirties and feel like you missed your chance? I've had lousy luck with guys all of my life. All I want is to...

He asked and asked me so many times for pictures of me. Finally I sent one. I feel so scared that I did this. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

23 July 2017 (F - So I'm 13. One day my best guy friend asked for pictures of me in a sports bra. Well I told him no and he asked and asked and kept asking. I've took pictures like that before (Not sexual) making sure not to show anything. Well It was 2:30 am and ...

Was he just being an ex, and was he using me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

22 July 2017 (F - Hi thanks for reading guys I need advice. On wed me and my ex spend the night together, we went for a meal a few drinks and was best night we ever had, he was so loving told me he can't imagine his life without me. Was incredible met some of his ...

How do I address these problems? Has anyone out there dated a partner with children, while having no children themselves?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 23 days ago

22 July 2017 (M - I need some advice. I met a divorced woman with 2 beautiful kids over a year ago, and we first started meeting only for sex, but somehow, we have developed a very strong friendship and I think we are both very fond and loving of each other. Ou...

Friend will not take any ownership for problems in our friendship. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

22 July 2017 (F - Good morning This is such a neat site and I get answers from around the world which is cool. My issue involves a ten year old friendship. I have had bumps in the road with this friendship in the past but we have worked it out but as of late the c...

Married woman flirts with me on and off. Why?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

22 July 2017 (M - So there's this female that I noticed when I started taking the train to work a little over a year ago. At the very beginning I noticed that she kept looking my way, even if I haven't looked at her I noticed through peripherals her glance. Anyway ...

He flirts with me when his girlfriend isn't around.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

19 July 2017 (F - I'm not sure if my male friend is flirting with me or just being friendly. Its starting to make me uncomfortable. So in a nut shell, I've known and been friends with him for over a year now, I'm 18 and he's 23. When we first met I must admit I had...

Does my LDR GF have borderline disorder?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

19 July 2017 (M - I posted a similar question a while back but I need some more help now more than ever. Long story short, my parents and i all went camping for three days and I told my gf that it may be hard to talk since I'll be in the middle of the woods/at...

8 years of trust,broken! Can we make it back?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

17 July 2017 (F - Hi all thanks for your help first of all I have a horrible problem I need help with. Sorry about the lengh. I went on a holiday with 4 of my friends one of them is my boyfriends brothers girlfriend Side note: I've been with my bf 8 years been ...

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