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Trust issues: Help and advice

Am I assuming too much? Should just leave now, as he resembles some qualities of my ex?

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17 January 2017 (F - Modnote: Two very similar posts started off the same and were from the same poster. The two have been combined herein. without repeating the identical start . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . So I have been going out with this guy for...

Where's a good place to meet people my age? Any groups or sites you think might suit, and why?

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17 January 2017 (F - I moved city recently and I'm struggling to know people outside work so I joined loads of groups on meeting people sites. But loads of them (no I didnt join dating ones) are full of thirsty older guys, and it's really uncomfortable being at thes...

If I am talking online to a guy, just talking as friends, with nothing sexual said, BUT is it cheating for me to do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted today

16 January 2017 (F - Sometimes I talk to someone on Skype (just text never camera or voice), I came across them on Tumblr and we became friends. He is a guy and we mostly talk about random things, never anything sexual. He knows I have a boyfriend and to be honest h...

Is she his EX? Is my BF being honest to me? He seems very emotionally connected to his woman he says he is helping due to the woman's health issues

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

16 January 2017 (F - About almost TWO years ago, my boyfriend who is 37 years old asked me (28 years old) to do him a favour and to please call his female ”friend” (27 years old) to give her an address (which I looked up and it happened to be of a lawyer as far as I can ...

Can two cheaters make a relationship work?

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16 January 2017 (F - I was in a serious relationship with a guy (it was long distance where we had to fly an hour to see each other). Then one day, I find out he had been texting this other girl 10 hours a day, and they were seeing each other for 3 hours a day for ...

I'm panicking my boyfriend will cheat on a guy's trip to Cuba. How should I respond or act in this situation?

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16 January 2017 (F - My boyfriend is in Cuba for one week on a guy's trip. I am beside myself with worry that he is going to cheat. I have read that prostitutes are around every corner there and they are dirt cheap. The anxiety is hard to take. I contact him a...

He ignores me. Feel like I'm walking on egg shells. Is there any hope for this troubled relationship? What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 January 2017 (F - What should I do about this relationship?. I will just tell you what happened recently. I have been with my boyfriend just over a year. There have been a lot of times where we have argued. He has a very short fuse. I feel like I am walking on eg...

Am I reading this situation right, or am I over reacting?

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14 January 2017 (F - Please help me understand if I'm overreacting. Here is some backgrounds, I'm 40, divorced, have a kid and started dating online.I don't like to date few people at once so I focused on the first guy that I started talking to. He is 42 single, highly ...

What can do, I am still learning how to negotiate conflict in a relatonship.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted yesterday

14 January 2017 (M - My relationship recently ended with my girlfriend of nearly a year. There was a falling out at my uncle's wedding where my girlfriend was heavily intoxicated and left the dinner table to vent to a bartender about things she did not like about my ...

Entitled Flatmate Won't Pull His Weight - What Should We Do?

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14 January 2017 (F - Moved in recently, I replaced another guy who lives here so didn't know the flatmates that well. The day I move in, the girl who lives here tells me that she hates the other guy, that he won't pull his weight in the flat, left a stain she ended ...

I asked before and followed advise but nothing works

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14 January 2017 (F - I have written here before asking for advice and I tried to take th advice but I'm still feeling the urge and fighting so hard to be happy - I can't seem to get over my ex- it's been close to a year - it was a short relationship and he wasn't let's ...

I'm so in love with him but I don't even think I know who he is!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

14 January 2017 (F - So ive been with my boyfriend a year and 2 months now. I recently found out he was lying about having a Facebook, I never cared he had one in the first place because I trusted him. So I'm on my moms Facebook and I see he still had it when he told me ...

My LDR boyfriend hasn't wanted to video chat. Does it mean that he does not miss me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

14 January 2017 (F - So far in my LDR, I have been the one to mostly initiate video calls, though we text throughout the day. I have asked for more vid chats, shorter times, but I usually have to ask for vid chat. It wears on me that I usually have to always hint/ask....

I am worried about letting my daughter's father back into her life.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

14 January 2017 (F - Hello everyone. I'm a single mum to my beautiful 8 year old daughter and I have struggled in the past but I have always got by. I was 16 when I found out I was pregnant with her, and at the insistence of her dad, I went through with the pregnanc...

My boyfriend messaged another girl on OkCupid. Was this just a momentary lapse in judgment or should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

13 January 2017 (F - Ok so here goes.... I need advice you guys I'm at a lost with what to do. I (F/26) met my boyfriend (M/36) this past June. When we met I was dating my ex of five years. I broke up with him and two weeks later started dating this new guy I'll cal...

Boyfriend has been secretive about his female friend in the past and now she's invited herself to stay with him for a week. How do I handle this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted yesterday

13 January 2017 (F - I [21F] am in a relationship with my boyfriend [24M] (Mike, for future reference) for a year and a half, but our problem started about 6 months in. We met on the university both studying physics so it was easy for me to become a part of his college ...

How do I say NO to my boss?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

12 January 2017 (F - Dear aunts and uncles, This is not a romantic relationship question, but I need help :) My boss wants to change some fundamentals we agreed on years ago and I need to find a delicate way to say no. I work for a minuscule company as a trans...

He told me "nothing happened" when he went for a massage and I don't whether to believe him or not. What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

12 January 2017 (F - My partner went to one only ones I been with him for 12 years have 4 daughters and the youngest one is only 3 months old I noticed with our sexual relationship I will have sex with him 3 times a week with my choosing and normally it's all the time...

Should I be concerned ? He came home from his class, wearing cologne

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

12 January 2017 (F - My boyfriend is a self defense instructor at our gym. He teaches an hour class one evening each week voluntarily. I noticed this evening that he came home from his class, wearing cologne. This is the first time that I have ever noticed him wea...

Will guys reject me because of my physical flaw? Would this bother a guy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

11 January 2017 (F - hey, I would love people to reply , it would help me so much. thanks. I am trying to work on my self esteem but 4 years ago I was in a bad place struggling with my identity. I rushed into getting a tattoo on my calf. Its quite large, its a vinta...

Am I wrong? Is she being unreasonable? Would be unprofessional to tell her what transpired, when I was asked not to by my management?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

11 January 2017 (F - I was called into a meeting today at work to discuss something, which wasn't a HUGE deal but which was asked to be kept confidential until he other people involved had been informed. My friend at work asked me what the meeting was about and I sa...

My previous LDR did not work. My current LDR treats me better. Based on how things are working out does this current LDR have a chance of working out for the best?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

11 January 2017 (F - My bf came down to visit me for a little while and we talked about the future. The thing is he is younger then me and much less stable then me. I guess when I started dating him, I should have walked away, but I couldn't and we fell in love. ...

My girlfriend's cousin seemed so flirtatious... am I imagining it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

11 January 2017 (M - My girlfriend's cousin lives abroad. When we went to meet her, I got on with her and found her very friendly and enthusiastic. After a while I got that instinctive... is she flirting with me? feeling, but figured I was imagining it because my girlf...

He has lied and I don't know why

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

11 January 2017 (F - My boyfriend has lied to me about how serious an ex relationship was but I don't know why. He said he and the girl were just friends and they flirted a bit but that was it however while over at his house a few days ago I found an old valentines c...

Can a seven year relationship be over because of a lie said 6 years ago? Am I completely in the wrong here ?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

10 January 2017 (M - My Partner [30 F] of 7 years broke up with me [32 M]for lying. She found out I met my son (1year old at the time) when I was abroad 6 years ago. Myself and my partner had just broken up at the time so I was single when abroad. I never told her I...

Why would a man persist with a LDR if he was not attracted to the woman? Why even tell the woman he "loves" her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

10 January 2017 (F - Would a man have a long distance relationship with a woman who he wasn't attracted to and even tell her he loves her? Why would he want to do that if he later admits he is not attracted to the woman? Is it loneliness ? Is this a common thing ...

His way of proposing really shocked me. Am I right to feel it was disappointing?

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10 January 2017 (F - How do I get past being disappointed by my finance's wedding proposal? So I recently turned 30 and my boyfriend couldn't get the day off from work so we celebrated the day before he took me out for dinner and drinks and we stayed out till gone mid...

How should I act towards him for the best outcome?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

9 January 2017 (F - A while ago I kissed someone from work who I had liked for a while. He told me he had feelings for me and we began texting. -But then later said because his ex works at the same place nothing could happen. And then kissed a different co wor...

Don't want this to get out of hand. Should I let this messaging everyday friendship develop?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

9 January 2017 (F - Hello everyone. I'm a 19 year old female, looking for some wisdom, perhaps telling me what I instinctively know myself but I just need somebody else's perspective. I've recently gone to university and made a great male friend, and currently...

I still think he cares. How can I convince him that I am fine? Or should I even try?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

9 January 2017 (F - I was in a five year relationship with a man I loved. He lived with me in my home and we did everything together. We saw a counselor together because we had broken up in the past. In one session the counselor made some comment about my memory ...

How can I get over this guy? Or at least no longer act like an idiot in front of him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

8 January 2017 (F - Okay I need help with ways of coping when seeing the guy I like. We work together and he's a young doctor and I assist him about once a month. Every time I see him I get extremely nervous to the point where my heart starts to pound so hard, I ...

How can I cope with my husband cheating on me two years ago, with a blood relative? He has cut contact with her, but I'm still trying to cope with his betrayal

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

8 January 2017 (F - My husband was adopted as an infant. He later found his birth family. Since then he has had sex with his half sister. It is tearing me up inside. I'm still with him, he does not have contact with her now, but I wonder about his heart. T...

What do I do? How can she still want to be with someone who she is not sexually attracted to, nor IN love with?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

8 January 2017 (M - Apologies if I ramble but I have some much to get off my chest ?? My Fiancée of nearly 14 years and the mother of my 2 beautiful daughters (11 and 6) had told me she loved me but is not IN love with me several years ago. We have also not had...

My abusive ex is dating again. Would it be weird or wrong if I warn his new Gf about him?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

8 January 2017 (F - Hello all, Ok here's the short situation I was married have two kids with the guy. He cheated and abused me verbally and physically. We ended up getting a divorce and I'm finally free of him. He is living in another county now. He does n...

Are my feelings justified or am I making a mountain out of a mole hill?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted yesterday

8 January 2017 (F - I'm really needed your honest opinions.. My boyfriend and I have officially been together for around four months. we knew each-other somewhat before this, however due to us both coming out of serious long term relationships, resulting in bot...

Am I over reacting to husband's online interaction with another woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

8 January 2017 (F - me and my husband are having some problems, maybe its all me i dont know but anyway.. few yeas back i caught him deleting messages from a co worker he said it was nothing but just didnt want me to get the wrong end of he stick so thought he would...

Why was my BF not receptive enough to my naughty Snapchat video?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

8 January 2017 (F - I sent my BF a racy Snapchat video. I don't want to say exactly but it was definitely "naughty" and involved private parts. Well, it took him 2 hours to see it and respond. He said... "Mmmmmm. How am I supposed to sleep tonight after seeing t...

Am I being over sensitive? or is my reaction understandable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

8 January 2017 (F - Feeling fed up! So I'm about to turn 30 in 2 days time I've spent the last year dreading the time coming I don't know why - I know age is just s number etc however my 2 best friends have been insisting that we must do something to celebrate my ...

Has anybody else been in a bad place, and how did you turn your life around?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

7 January 2017 (F - I've gotten myself into a mess and I would like some advice with how to deal with it. Has anybody else been in a bad place and how did you turn your life around? I'm depressed at the moment because of an extremely bad relationship. He did s...

Uncertain what the silence could mean

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

7 January 2017 (M - I met this woman on OKCupid and we started writing to each other. I noticed that she logged in only once a week but she did respond whenever she logged in. The messages were also good. If I wrote 2 paragraphs her reply was also 2 paragraphs, if I ...

Suspicious of what's going on at work.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 10 days ago

7 January 2017 (F - I would appreciate your opinion on this. I left my previous job for a better opportunity. I work in finance department and my new job hasn't offered any training. So far I'm doing well. Just my manager doesn't realize that I started last month. ...

Why does my boyfriend appear uncomfortable around his subordinate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

6 January 2017 (F - Hi. So there's this woman my boyfriend works with. He is actually her boss. At a social gathering around Christmas, I noticed he looked uncomfortable around her. I asked him about this. He said he thinks she likes him (more than a professional ...

What should I do about my ex-partner and eventually getting him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

6 January 2017 (F - How do I get my ex boyfriend back?? I was with him for one year but friends for years before that. I have previously been in an abusive relationship(6 years ago) The partner at the time lied and lied to me that he wasn't cheating, to the point...

The phone messages he's been receiving from her do bother me. But how do I raise the issue with my husband?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

5 January 2017 (F - Hello I am a woman in my late 20's who has been married for 2 years. I have a problem and don't know how to handle it. My husband back when we were first dating over 4 years ago had cheated on me with a woman he was friends with at a drunken par...

Why is my ex boyfriend still so angry at me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

5 January 2017 (F - why is my ex boyfriend still so angry at me? He broke off our relationship six months ago for no reason that I could see. When I asked him all he could say was that he wanted someone who was the same every day. Makes no sense as I am always i...

Heartbroken, but I want to forgive him. What are my options? Found out my Bf has been cheating.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

5 January 2017 (F - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years. Lately he has been acting weird and always on Snapchat and never responds to my text but responds to me on Snapchat. One day he left his Snapchat logged in on my iPad and I became curious. ...

Should I be more angry or just let it go? My wife confessed that she gave oral briefly to a male stripper at a party

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

5 January 2017 (M - Hi, my wife went to a girls party night recently where we both knew there would be male strippers. I was totally cool with it but she got carried away with the night and ended up giving a few seconds of oral to all but one of the stripper...

Help, please? I don't want to hurt my friends, but we all like the same guy. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

5 January 2017 (F - Hi, I'm 13 and I'm in a bit of a love triangle... Well.. Love square. My two best friends like the same boy, and they have for ages now. And guess what? Now I'm in the picture, I like him too. And the thing is, he likes me. I feel bad for my...

He promised to change if we got married ....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

4 January 2017 (F - I am currently married 5 moths this January, we where engaged for a year and dated a year and 1/2 prior to that. Well now I want a divorce! My husband is the man I married and he swore that after we got ,arrived things would change, but still 5 ...

Should I consider that this friend I like is now available? What can I do?

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4 January 2017 (F - I asked a friend who I like and who knows I like him, advice about dating as my ex is now started dating again and my friend told me to get out there etc. I then took a month away from social media. I came back mid/late December and I found out ...

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