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Trust issues: Help and advice

Does it sound like my boyfriend wants to get me pregnant?

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25 March 2017 (F - So I think my boyfriend wants me to get pregnant , without actually saying it . This is more of a question for the guys since they may know more about how they think. First of all we haven't been dating for long but he's already talked about get...

Boyfriend didn't contact me and I'm angry

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25 March 2017 (F - My bf was at a lunch at a client today and then they went to a hotel bar with the guys for drinks. He hardly contacted me during the lunch nor told me they were going to a bar afterwards. I had to contact him and ask him what he was up to because he ...

LD friend. Should I wait for him?

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24 March 2017 (F - I have been talking to this guy for longer than a month and we get along well. We have both admitted to each other that we really like each other, however we both live in different states, 9-10 hours away from each other. We have spoken about a l...

Please confirm my doubts

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24 March 2017 (F - I've been with my bf for 2.5yrs (living with him 1.7yrs).I've noticed that on his Facebook, he has lots of females "friends" (as he calls). I haven't used FB and had shut it down years ago as I prefer Linkedin. His account has been open to me but ...

Should I give romance a miss and focus on my mental health?

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24 March 2017 (F - I don't know why I keep blaming myself for this, but I do. I dated my on and off boyfriend ( he is now my ex) from October 2015 until January. During that time, I became friends with someone who worked in the pub that he went in. He was always there ...

Just had a baby, but now I am scared about returning home, due to his abusive actions while I was pregnant. What can I do?

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23 March 2017 (F - Dear aunties and uncles. I am a first time mom to a month old baby and my husband and I have had a fair share of ups and downs but we love each other a lot and wouldn't dream of spending my life with anyone else. Last year, while in my first trim...

Is this man using my sister, and did she move him into her house too soon?

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22 March 2017 (F - This is really a question about my sister. She is the sweetest kindest girl, aged 45, divorced with two teenage sons. She tends to fall in love very easily, and rushes into relationships, and those relationships rarely last, so she ends up hear...

Does this help a man with ED to feel better? What could possibly have allowed me to continue to enjoy knowing my wife was having an affair?

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22 March 2017 (M - I am a 50 year old married man who has had erectile dysfunction problems since before i married my wife.. She was very beautifull when she was younger but that doesnt make a difference when you have ED.. When she was still in her twenties I f...

Is it really worth it to file for child support? I got pregnant 3 months into dating him, then he disappeared

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22 March 2017 (F - The baby's father isn't in the picture. I have tried to reach out to him during this pregnancy, but nothing. I kind of am considering to file for child support, since I'm living with my mom and don't make as much at the moment. The only thi...

I'm hesitant about calling her. Is it good idea to call her when she is with her bf?

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22 March 2017 (M - Helo my beloved dearcupid aunts and uncles, i am a guy and i have a female friend. When she come back from vacation, she came with her bf and they are staying together for some days. I didn't call her since she is with her bf together because...

Should I wait another year until I am more sure of my feelings for him before I buy him an airline ticket to allow him to visit me?

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22 March 2017 (M - This issue is a bit tricky and I need an external view I met a guy online 6 months ago , he lives in Argentina, he is 5 years younger than me, I live in Europe, we talk constantly every day including video calls , although the time is differen...

Family conditioning has defined sex as inappropriate and dangerous. How can I stop feeling afraid pf physical sex?

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22 March 2017 (F - Ever since I was young, sex was explained to me as something that was inappropriate, dangerous, and could generally be used against me. Both of my parents were always adamant that men couldn't be trusted, and that I needed to be cautious and awar...

What are the chances of success and happiness for women STARTING new relationships after the age of 50?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted yesterday

22 March 2017 (F - I've read horrible statistic that the odds of a woman marrying after 50 are something less than winning the lottery . What the hell ? Is this true . Are we really that unattractive and unwanted? What are women's experiences with STARTING new...

Do you think I have the right be upset since technically he is still married?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted yesterday

20 March 2017 (F - I moved to a new town and got a job as a server at a local restaurant. One of my co workers is very cute and a lot of the girls like him. They are always going out as groups and hanging out with each other outside of work. We became really ...

We broke up. I know I still care for him. should I talk to him about my feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

20 March 2017 (F - I was in a long term relationship with this guy for almost two years and we just kept bickering, small petty arguments and I'm not afraid to stand up for myself. It turned out he was messaging one of my friends and it turned out she wasn't very nic...

Personal cleanliness? There has got to be a nice way to approach this! What would you do??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

20 March 2017 (F - I started seeing this guy about two months ago. We pretty much only hang out about two three nights a week when he'll come stay the night or weekend. We've known each other for a while now, we've taken our kids on play dates before etc. He's a...

Is this a normal change for me to consider? Don't want to spend my birthday with family

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

19 March 2017 (M - Hi, in a few days I'll turn 35, but unlike the other years - when I used to get together with family members, this time I don't feel like celebrating or focusing on it at all. Is this normal? Thanks.....

Is my hubby just starting his mid-life crisis?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

19 March 2017 (F - Dear aunts and Uncles, is my hubby just starting his mid-life crisis? He was always athletic and eat well so I can't say that all of a sudden he changed his life style, but he seems more interested in these areas. He picked up a new hob...

He has not told his ex about me yet. Is is reasonable for me to feel so hurt? Am I over-reacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

19 March 2017 (F - I've been going out with my partner for one year. We both have kids from previous relationships. Being a mother and full time parent i have included him in my two kids lives. We both have teenage daughters. He spent christmas with his ex and stay...

How can I get dates if I am not attractive enough for guys to ask me out or approach me in person?

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19 March 2017 (F - I just witnessed a girl right in front of me getting cold approached and hit on by guy while I am never hit on and/or approached by men. I am not intimidating because I notice guys cold approach women without sending signals to guys. In fact, ...

Do I tell him I may be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

18 March 2017 (F - I have been seeing a guy for a couple of months and have been having casual sex,he has ways been very clear that he never want to have children last time we had sex he came in me, now I'm 10 days late for my period and I think I'm pregnant, I'm not ...

Is he insecure, jealous?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

18 March 2017 (F - Hi, I've been seeing this man for 5 months. I'm 49, divorced twice, no kids. He is 51, divorced twice, two kids 18 and 20. His second wife cheated on him. He was adopted. His adoptive father died when he was young and the adoptive mother was ...

Is he scamming me?

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17 March 2017 (F - Hi and thank you for your advice I met a male online approximately two months ago. He is very charming. We've talked daily. He tells me his wife died in an accident and he doesn't communicate with his family and he has one son who stays wit...

Can a true relationship be achieved without the affection and the touchy part?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

17 March 2017 (F - our sex life has slowly deteriorated. He blames it on my weight gain but many people including male friends and family have advised me that the weight is not the problem. He won't see a doctor cause he blames it on me, however he is 11 years olde...

Should stay or leave our relationship? I think we have different goals and different attitudes to handling our money.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

17 March 2017 (F - Dear cupid, I don't know if I should stay or leave my relationship... myself (almost 24) and partner (almost 23) have been together two and a half years and I feel like we are going no where at the moment... We have been living with each other...

I think he is lying! Am I overreacting? How do I approach it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

17 March 2017 (F - I've been dating a guy for the past couple of months and although we are not yet in relationship we are seeing each other exclusively and have had the conversation about not seeing anyone else. He has treated me amazingly so far and I honestly...

My Bf passed away a year ago. Is it wrong to start dating the second cousin of my late partner?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

16 March 2017 (F - Okay my boyfriend passed away (father of my child) about 1 year ago. We were on and off for about 5 years, always fighting never really happy. I met someone who makes me really happy. Unfortunately it's his second cousin. (Even though the...

Does he still want to see me? He said that we would not be compatible long term, but he does like me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

16 March 2017 (F - Dear Cupid I need some advice, I've been seeing this guy for about a month (I'm 19 and he's 25) and we were getting on really well, he takes me out and treats me really nice, we just clicked. We're very similar and we've both noticed this. We'v...

I love her but I am nervous about the pressure to marry her so soon after the start of our LDR relationship. How should I respond to this pressure?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

16 March 2017 (M - Dear all i've been with my girlfriend since June last year and we've not had any problems. I've had 3 girlfriends before her but nothing has even come close to this. I know that she is the right one for me. She is probably the only person...

What needs to change to improve this family situation? It has caused tension between my husband and I.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

16 March 2017 (F - Dear Aunts please help me to solve this problem. I've been married for 3 years. My husband is a wonderful,kind,generous man. He is the youngest in his family with 3 elder sisters and 2 brothers. I always had a feeling that his eldest sister do...

It was his first time. But straight after we finished he called his best friend to tell him we'd had sex. Made me feel like an object. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

16 March 2017 (F - Hello, I'm a 16 year old girl. When I was 14 I had a relationship with a boy which lasted about 1,5 year. At the time my parents were breaking up and everything was falling apart. I got sexual abused and that boy destroyed me and I felt like de...

I said "I love you" but he's not at that point and now I'm hurt/confused and wondering if I should break things off

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

16 March 2017 (F - About two weeks ago, I found myself (regrettably) drunk after a super fun night out with a group of friends and my boyfriend, who I have been seeing for nearly 6 moths. The BF very sweetly took care of getting me to my house, getting me into my ...

I've lost trust due to his texting other women yet he's talking about marriage. He's barely speaking to me, how do I sort this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

15 March 2017 (F - Hi I've been with my partner now for nearly 4 years we have had trust issues down to him texting other women he has asked me about getting married I tried to explain to him that I need to be able to trust him 100 percent before I think about ...

Does he like me or just want sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

14 March 2017 (F - Just when I'd totally shut my self off from dating then the world gave me this guy. I have known him since 2012 but I always ignored him and blocked his calls. Recently I haven't been going out much and he suddenly contacted me. I decided to hang ...

Do I quit my job? I feel my coworker doesn't like me, and some of the behaviour at work feels like bullying to me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

14 March 2017 (M - I work for a warehouse factory that distrubutes sporting things such as football tops and trophies etc. I'm being bullied at work from my boss and the assistant of the boss and they can't seem to leave me alone for five minutes. everytime I go into ...

Why is he hiding these pictures from me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

13 March 2017 (F - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 6 years. We go to different colleges about 2 hours apart so the majority of our relationship has been distance, but we still see each other pretty frequently. He is an amazing guy and has proved to be ...

How easy is it for some men to cheat?

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13 March 2017 (F - How easy it is for some men to cheat? Do you think my man cheated on me based on this: *He's had sex with approx. 30 girls that I know about... *They are all types of faces and bodies and most of them he says he considers them ugly. (Ma...

Wedding plans. What can I say to my sister and yet not upset her?

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13 March 2017 (F - I am getting married in September and have chosen my bridal party. My sister is supposed to be a bridesmaid in my bridal party. We had a falling out after I had asked her and she had said she no longer wanted to be a part of the wedding. The re...

I think my best friend is trying to be me. I cannot handle her behaviour any more. What can I do?

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13 March 2017 (F - I'm on a very difficult situation lately. I've known my best friend for 7 years and we've been through ups and downs but this time, I had enough. A few days ago, I was thinking about my friendship with my (best friend) and I've realized that I'v...

Based on his words and actions since November, is it reasonable to ask if we are exclusive now?

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13 March 2017 (F - I had a conversation with the guy i'm seeing and we were talking about which friends are single and which are with someone. So I said when you coming off the market and he said well I am kinda off the market. I said not really then he said ok, ...

What do you think about guys who body shame women?

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13 March 2017 (F - I recently broke up with my boyfriend. He was the type to cancel on a date on me and get angry for small things or worse, make the topics that don't concern him, his own problems. He never wanted to take me out. After breaking up with him...

I don't appreciate so much mystery,I feel he is hiding things and something fishy is going on,what is your honest advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

13 March 2017 (F - Ok, so I happen to be in a relationship for almost 2 years, with my bf who is in his mid to late thirtys, and honestly I have come to the conclusion that he is somehow mysterious, I mean I get that he is discrete, but it just comes off as mysteriou...

Was he right to say I need "more education?"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

12 March 2017 (F - Hi.. I've been with my bf for about 7 months. He has a degree in classics, privately educated, where as I have A levels and I quit a dead end job because of depression and couldn't handle it. I still am intelligent and we have deep conversatio...

Why can't she see he is not a good person? Do I just leave her to get on with things? Since she is not listening

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12 March 2017 (F - Hello. My good close friend who is 27 has had a rough few years. Her Mother passed away, the Father of her 2 kids left her (he still regularly sees the children) She has begun having a relationship (now 10 months and I have met him once) with someo...

Lesbian, Bisexual or Heterosexual or all three? I’m confused, any chance of talking some sense into me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

12 March 2017 (F - I used to identify as a lesbian, and had only had serious relationships with women, however I fell madly in love with my male best friend, who has now been my partner for the past three years. We have an excellent relationship and have many exc...

How should we respond? My husband's ex has threatened to abandon the children on our doorstep, if we don't agree to take them at a time convenient for her.

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12 March 2017 (F - We could do with some help solving a problem please. My husband has recently been made redundant(with one week pay) and was offered an opportunity to go on a course to improve his skills and at the end, secure a new job which he was so excited a...

I feel so confused, wanting my stepfather to be happy, and not lonely. But is also reminds that my mother died. How can I adjust to this change?

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12 March 2017 (F - Hi everyone, my mum passed away almost 3 years go. She was taken from us very very quickly with cancer. We had under 12 hours notice that she had terminal cancer before she died. It has been a very hard few years since, dealing with the grief o...

Is this normal? I have never been so happy about ending a relationship.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

12 March 2017 (F - Hello. I have a very short question for those who have enough knowledge about star signs(if you don't you may google info). Short story: I am a capricorn female (21) my boyfriend (now ex) is a Pisces (23). Our relationship was full of drama bu...

What do we have together? I feel like I'm a side chick, the one who makes him happy, whenever he wants

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12 March 2017 (F - I have been seeing this guy for maybe three weeks or so and he use to frequently text me a lot throughout the day, even during his work hours! He added me on facebook, snapchat and got my number and we use to talk on there a lot. He used to wis...

The guy is turning into an alcoholic. Should I keep it to myself that I'm pregnant, and raise the baby without him?

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12 March 2017 (F - I don't know what I want to do at this point. I think I may be pregnant with the guy I'm currently seeing. I feel like he's going on a downward spiral at the moment. He had a weekend out with the boys and he got really drunk and now he is gettin...

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