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Trust issues: Help and advice

What are some thoughts or suggestions on solving this without ending this or is it just better to end this?

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22 April 2018 (F - I’ve been with my partner for going on nine years. We have lived together a good majority of this time. There are children involved from previous relationships, but my struggle doesn’t really involve the children. My partner is a great guy. I trul...

Why did he have makeup smeared around his lips?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted today

21 April 2018 (F - My husband is the most loving loyal husband, we never argue at all and we get along amazing, we are both just so madly in love, he’s always been very affectionate and he really is amazing in every way. However he went on a works meal yesterday a...

My boyfriend, I and his so called lesbian friend who's slept with him, fancies him and doesn't like me. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

19 April 2018 (F - Been seeing a guy for 7months now. Started off casually, us both not looking for a relationship, but it naturally progressed into one that we both are enjoying. We have had to redefine and communicate a lot about what our needs and expectations are ...

What can I do to make my Facebook account more respectable so that my boyfriend doesn't take things the wrong way?

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19 April 2018 (F - Hello. After a few years of being single minus one short relationship last year, I've found someone I want to get serious with. We've been dating a few months now and I've put a lot of thought into the type of partner I want to be. I've no problem ...

Why is my co-worker taking care of his female friend after she just had a baby? Does he like her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

19 April 2018 (F - Hello there, I am 32 years old and my coworker is 41 years old. We starred to talk around January only at work then we found out that we live 8 minutes away from each other. Our days off rotate and march 16th him and I set the date to go to lunch an...

I'm still being picked on at school, one girl said its because I'm clueless.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

18 April 2018 (F - THIS IS WHAT I WROTE BEFORE: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/please-help-me-stand-up-for-myself.html These friends are the only friends I have and when they give me the silent treatment or start rumors it really hurts! I pretty much end up begg...

A guy I was seeing went quiet on me, he says he is following legal advise.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

18 April 2018 (F - Im just wondering what are peoples thoughts. I was seeing a guy who went quiet on me we had been seeing each other for 6 month. i heard from him a handful of times in 2 month and didnt get to see him . I didnt sit about waiting for him i got on with ...

My hsband left me for another woman but wont considera divorce.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

17 April 2018 (F - My husband left me with other woman his (mistress) it's been 2 weeks now since he left. I'm 37 yr old My husband is 54 and his mistress is 45 year old she's older than me . I want to divorce him coz I don't trust him no more . But my husband ...

How do I handle my girlfriends past?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

16 April 2018 (M - I would like to start out by saying that I consider myself very open minded. I am divorced from a 6 year marriage and am on good terms with. I have even made good friends with my ex-wife’s boyfriend and we hang out occasionally. My current ...

My boyfriend doesn't tell anyone about me but wants me to move in with him ... what should I do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

16 April 2018 (F - I've been dating a guy for 5 months and were exsclusive.. I'm finding myself in love with him he treats me well except for one issue he doesn't tell anyone about me, not friends which he only has a few not co workers not his family... He tells me ...

My girlfriend left, I want to fix it but she is ignoring me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

16 April 2018 (M - My girlfriend of 12 years has just left me. For the last 4 years we've lived together in our own place after a spell living with her family, we moved in shortly after my father passed away. I really struggled to deal with my father's passing...

The man who was my companion contacts me through my daughter after 2 years!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

14 April 2018 (F - Hello peeps I have a question that I'd like your honest opinions about - please...? I met this lovely, magic but crazy guy in 2016. We clicked. It was very strong whilst it lasted. But he liked his drink and we both got drunk a lot and that was...

We're having sex, he has another girl and I have feelings and a third girl is spreading nasty rumours.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 9 days ago

13 April 2018 (F - This is a little bit long winded so i do apologise in advance. I went to the pub one with my friend and she introduced me to one of her guy friends and kept teasing us both that we are both single. That night i plucked up the courage to messa...

I'm having an affair wih my fiance's best friend.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

12 April 2018 (F - I’m engaged due to be married September, I’ve started having an affair with one of his best friends. Now I don’t know whether I love his best friend. He’s asked me to not get married. My fiancé is a good man great father and stable. His frien...

My husband is in touch with his ex girlfriend again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

11 April 2018 (F - Hi.... Big issue here is trust... I recently saw ( I was standing behind him while he was at the computer) that my husband has his old girlfriend on his bill payer.. we’ve only been married 2 years and we are not on each other’s accounts... He says ...

Are marriage counselors always right?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted yesterday

11 April 2018 (F - I have recently been to marriage counselling with my husband twice now. our last session ended up with us both getting upset and me crying. she told me to go and see the doctor to get help with my anxiety which is due to me thinking my husband is ...

I'm falling for the new girl and my current GF is jealous.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

10 April 2018 (F - I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 3 years, we live together and on the whole we're very happy. I've recently met another girl and just click with her so well- we've hung out as a three a few times and to start with my gf really g...

I want my boyfriend to stop paying for porn before we move in together.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

10 April 2018 (F - I'm not sure if I am being extremely jealous or whether I am right to feel this way.. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and we are even looking at apartments together however there are a few things that really bother me. First of all ...

My ex has said he would never marry me, but I want him back!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

8 April 2018 (F - Does my ex still have feelings for me or not?. I dated him for a year and a half from 2015 until 2017. Then I left him for another man that we both know, who I was in a relationship with for nearly a year ( he broke up with me three months ago). My ...

I would tell her I love her but don't want to risk our friendship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

7 April 2018 (M - Hello readers, I am ashamed and embarrassed to admit that I am in love with a married woman. I am a 33 year old man, I am mostly sensible and don't want things I can't have. I live with my girlfriend of 10 years. She's everything I shoul...

I need advice, I believe my family are scheming against me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

7 April 2018 (F - A great site....lots of commonsense advice. I am having a tough time with my siblings and not the first time. About three years back I posted that they were forcing me to pay bank my 9k inheritance from my moms estate. As executor and power of attor...

Did my boyfriend’s dad just sexually harrass me!? I’m crying

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

7 April 2018 (F - My boyfriends dad just sexually harrased me?! I feel so embarrased to even write this! Please help I am in shock I live with my boyfriends parents and something happened I was eating late meal in the kitchen and he came in, we were having a ...

I am worried my boyfriend will assume the worst ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

4 April 2018 (F - So I had posted about this issue previously, and everything has been fine since. However, I noticed a light pink bruise on my chest (above my breasts not on them) and now my thoughts are racing, I feel sick. The anxiety this brings is overwhelming. ...

How do I move forward with my new boyfriend after cheating on him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

4 April 2018 (F - Hi, I previously asked a question relating to the situation I found myself in. To be honest I had some rather rude and insensitive answers from one particular user but each to their own opinion. Basically I was in an violent abusive relation...

Was my husband lying about not loving the other woman?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

4 April 2018 (F - is my husband lying to me when he says he never loved the other woman? I found messages and video with him telling her he loves her...

My old nemesis might sabotage my new life

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

4 April 2018 (F - I am seriously thinking of moving to a new city to start my life over. At 50, I know this won't be easy, and I want to think ahead and do as much as I possibly can to get things off on the right track. Partly this is because I have tried for 23 ...

My husband is disappointed because I didn't tell him about a job interview

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

4 April 2018 (F - Hi guys I feel really terrible about lying to my husband about a recent job interview I had. Two weeks ago I applied for a job (he knew I had been looking) and got called for the interview and thankfully got it. However I didn't tell my husband ...

Is he telling the truth about the state of his marriage?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

3 April 2018 (F - I’m seeing a married man for a number of years. I am in no rush to spending my whole life with but I do love him, he says he is in a sexless marriage, that his wife has no sex drive yet iv seen photos of them with her arm around him yet he doesn’t ...

Please help me stand up for myself

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

2 April 2018 (F - I am sick of my friends not listening to me and then punishinhg me with rumors and the silent treatment. OK. Sometimes, it's fun for me, JUST TO HAVE A CRUSH ON SOMEBODY. It's fun and it's safe and I can feel all happy inside and I don't have to ...

I suspect my daughter in law is having sex with my boyfriend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

2 April 2018 (? - I suspect my daughter in law who is married for 11 yrs to my son on having an affair with my boyfriend of 10 years. I believe this has been going on for sometime now. I have no hard proof,just what I see with my own eyes. My gut instant is so sure, ...

I think she has betrayed my loyalty and trust!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

29 March 2018 (M - I have a partner of 4+ years. We are 1,200 miles apart. I plan to join her in 6 months. She has vociferously prioritized loyalty and trustworthiness. I have been 100% loyal since we parted 5 months ago. Well, she went out with some girlfriends ...

Am I right to not trust him? Can a marriage survive on no trust?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

28 March 2018 (F - I've been married for 12 years, have 2 beauitful children. Recently found out that a woman my husband works with has a crush on him. They've worked together for 18 months but I was led to believe that they just worked for the same company, in...

Should I keep trying to work things out after my girlfriend cheated on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

26 March 2018 (M - Kate and I started seeing each other two years ago, February 2016. We liked each other a lot... we had unprotected sex on the first date and saw each other 2-3 times a week for about four months. Usually we would visit a museum or show, wander about ...

My boyfriend wants me to take a lie detector test because his brother says him and I had sex

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

25 March 2018 (F - I have been dating my boyfriend for 8 months now whom I love dearly. I’m 28 and he’s a year older. We live together. So my boyfriend wants me to take a lie detector test because his pathological liar of a younger brother said that we slept togethe...

I’m worried about my boyfriend and Emily!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

25 March 2018 (F - Hi, I'm worried about my boyfriend. Basically, a few months ago, I met him with my friend (let's call her Emily). Emily said she fancied him and I did. He then asked me out which was fine. But Emily was constantly texting him. One day she asked ...

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