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Trust issues: Help and advice

Am I selfish or is he trying to guilt trip me?

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21 June 2017 (F - I feel my boyfriend has the most unrealistic expectations of me and it's really pushing me away. Hr told me this evening on the phone that his back went out of place so he had to take the day off work to rest as well as see a physio. He also ...

I even left my daughter at home for 4 days for the sake of my affair and now he's disappeared. I feel so lonely!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted today

20 June 2017 (F - I met this guy in Vegas over two months ago. He approached me and my friends at a club. I told him from the beginning I was married and he respected that . The night went on and everyone was having a great time. He would dance next to me because he ...

Why did he give up his trip with the boys?

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18 June 2017 (F - My boyfriend turned down a golf trip with the guys next weekend. It's out of town and they go every year. He said it's because he knows I worry and he doesn't want to upset me. In the past I have given him grief. Many of the guys go to strip club...

My girlfriend dumped me because she thinks I watch porn

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted today

18 June 2017 (M - Long story short my girlfriend of almost 3 years broke up with me cause she thinks I'm lying to her about not watching porn. It's rediculous if you saw how beautiful she was you'd understand. We've been exploring our sexuality together and I went o...

I've been cheated on in the past so I have trouble with trusting someone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

17 June 2017 (F - I started seeing a guy who was a bit older then me (11 years) last year after we met through online dating. He was great, really funny, kind, good looking, good in bed, seriously he ticked all the boxes. Then I found out he was still texting the ...

Is my husband up to no good behind my back with another woman on Facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted today

16 June 2017 (F - Hello. I might sound like another jealous, insecure and paranoid wife with social media related relationship issues but here goes... I am a late bloomer on Facebook. I just started about 6 months ago. My husband of 3 years has had Facebook for 7 y...

Creepy old men are attracted to me.

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16 June 2017 (F - My question is why am I so appealing to creepy older men? I am 17 and will be 18 next month. People often think I'm older than I actually am, based on the way I think, dress and just from my face and body. Most are shocked when I tell them I'm only ...

Both my partner and I cheated on each other. Back together now and I'm pregnant but he keeps using my cheating past as a way to justify all his wrong-doings

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted today

16 June 2017 (F - I have been with my boyfriend now for 8 months Within the first month of our relationship I found out his ex was still in the picture messaging eachother and she told me they had had sex. When I found this out I thought I was going to leave h...

Do I stand my ground or make up with my mother?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

13 June 2017 (F - Hi folks. I'm in a bit of a predicament at the moment. I have my child's christening coming up this week and haven't invited my mother. Now I know that sounds awful but here's why (sorry for the essay) Basically all our lives my mum...

Why would a man decide, at the last moment, to not use a condom in this way?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted yesterday

13 June 2017 (F - my partner and i was about to have sex and he went to get a condom. When he got it he was playing with the packaging for a few seconds and put the condom to the side. why? After having sex he started to play with that condom again before putti...

It's been five days and I haven't heard from him.. How can this be resolved?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted yesterday

13 June 2017 (F - I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a few months. The relationship has been really rocky lately but we continued to try and work through it. A couple of weeks ago we broke up because we have been arguing too much and he didn't seem to w...

I think my bisexual girlfriend might be cheating on me. Are they trying to make me jealous, or is something wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

13 June 2017 (M - I love my girlfriend very much but, the last few days she's spent the whole day and night with this girl that she knows that I can't stand. Today when I went to her house the girl I don't like was there. While I was over there my girlfrie...

How do I test if he is commited?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

12 June 2017 (F - I have been seeing this guy for a couple of months but I have known him about 2 years. I started off being wary of him (for various reasons relating to the past 2 years) but he made a really big effort to tell me he was serious about where the ...

Any suggestions on how to gain the attention of this gorgeous Turkish girl when I return to Turkey for another vacation?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

10 June 2017 (M - Hi people I'm a college student from France. So I want to share my story with you all and hopefully find a solution. A couple friends and I went on vacation to Turkey 2 weeks ago, and I met this gorgeous Turkish girl. I've never seen anything li...

Am I too sexual for him? Our sex life seems bland.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

10 June 2017 (F - Hi need some advice on my sex life. So I've been in a relationship for two years and I love my bf very much. The problem is that our sex life is quite bland. I am quite adventurous and kinky I love to go down on him but he doesn't reciproc...

In process of breaking up with my partner. Is my physiotherapist flirting with me, or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

10 June 2017 (F - Hey everyone. So, I've been with someone was 4 years and we have a child together. Over the past two years or so, the relationship has become incredibly fraught and there's no passion or excitement. It drains the life out of me and my partner t...

What can I do? How should I handle this? Her sexual past and her ex who was her FWB are issues that are making me feel insecure.

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

10 June 2017 (M - Ok so me and my gf have been going out for about 8 months. And I've been struggling with her sexual past a lot recently. She's slept with about 10 people before me, they were all ons apart from one friends with benefits she had just before we start...

What's the best thing to do? I have a crush on a hot co-worker

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

10 June 2017 (M - Well, I have a crush on coworker, but she is dating another co-worker and has a kid with him. She asked me if I think her boyfriend would cheat on her. I told her "no, I didn't think so". She supposed to come over and hang out, but Im not going to ...

He has Mommy issues 2. Should I move on? Or wait for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

10 June 2017 (F - I was with this guy for about a couple of months, we met on a dating site..he has Mommy issues, he is in his 30s amd his mom lives with him but they constantly fight she belittles him and he just takes iy because she has no where else to go.. He end...

Feeling un-easy about my gf going on cruise. Am I going to be cheated on during the cruise?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

10 June 2017 (M - My girlfriend of 6 months is going on a cruise with her family for a week here soon, I am just kinda of un-easy because of all the stories I've heard about what happens on cruises. I'm her first ever bf and she's never given me a reason to suspect ...

Should I tell my boyfriend the truth about a small crush?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

10 June 2017 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 10 years. In the past 4 years, I've started to become really unhappy because he has broken so many promises, has lied so much, and I want to be married. He says he want's to be married too, but...

Why can't my wife understand my need to cross-dress? Why is she so upset that I wore her clothes?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

10 June 2017 (M - My wife knows I am a crossdresser so why was she so angry at me when I came home the other night. I was completely dressed, with a full make over, my eyebrows plucked super thin with a high arch in them and my ears pierced. She said she knows t...

I advised the male friend that jacking off is normal, but telling me all about it is not. How should I deal with this issue when I raise it with my Bf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

9 June 2017 (F - Hello, I've been here historically and your answers have really helped me so I am hoping you can help me with something else as I honestly don't know how to talk to anyone about this or if I should. Before I get into it I need to point out that I...

Male FWB wants me to finger him and I don't want this. Am I being over sensitive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

9 June 2017 (F - I just got into a casual fling type relationship with a guy at uni, he's in his final year and leaving this summer so its only for a few months. We haven't had sex yet but have been making out etc. When we were making out last night with undies ...

The 60 year old professor doesn't know me. Advice, please? Should I tell him my feelings for him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

8 June 2017 (M - hello guys, I have a crush on my professor, he is 60 years old, it been more than 2 years, I don't know what to do. I'm always thinking of him. He is so smart and handsome, I like his personality and smile. I feel I need to know him,and talk...

Should I be worried? He's 18 years older than me, separated and with kids.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

8 June 2017 (F - So I have been seeing this amazing guy for a few months now and I'm head over heels for him. He is the same towards me. The only thing that worries me is he is 18 years older than me and is separated with kids... Advice please?...

Should I commit to moving? Worried about his cheating in past and about leaving my family

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

7 June 2017 (F - Hi! I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for a little over two years. He is 27 and I'm 21, so naturally he has more experience than I do. 6 months into our relationship, he confessed that he had cheated on me, so we broke up...

I have fallen in love with my FWB and feel I just may regret it. Am I being gullible ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

7 June 2017 (F - I had fallen in love with my fwb and wanted more but he was not ready to formalize an already existing relationship. we are already acting like a real couple...so why not just acknowledge it. this was four months of being lovers( sex was ...

My husband and I are struggling to move on. Any suggestions on how we can resolve this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

7 June 2017 (F - Hi. I am a married mom mid thirties. My husband and I have been together for 20 years, married for 13 years. We have 5 children together. We have had a wonderful marriage up until recent. Back in Feb 2015 my husband started to receive texts fr...

My partner for 3 years loves me. Would it be wrong to take a chance with another man who I've loved for 27 years?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

7 June 2017 (? - Dear Cupid, I have recently been contacted by the man I've been in love with for 27 years. There are songs I couldn't listen to, our anniversary date that I still hold dear to my heart. I hadn't laid eyes on him in 18 years and that one time wa...

Is he rushing things by telling me he loves me when we've only been talking online for less than a month?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

7 June 2017 (F - Hello everyone, So i'm 19 years old and there's a guy i met online, who's really cute, smart and i like him. It's my first time really liking someone. We still didn't meet, though we're chatting everyday for hours.. The thing is he told me late...

My husband doesn't like blow jobs! Am I doing it wrong?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

7 June 2017 (F - I know this may sound odd, but my husband hates blowjobs. We've been together 8 years now, married for 2 and it's always been the same since I've known him, he's never enjoyed me going down on him. I have only ever gave 1 guy a blowjob before h...

How do I get all the wicked and bad things to get out and stay out of my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

7 June 2017 (F - Hello all. I'm hoping someone will give me some insight. I've been violently abused in my life in many ways. I now find it hard to trust anybody. I've cut off all ties with people because (honestly) they all end up being mean, I just can't stand ...

Is it wrong to get upset with my boyfriend when he doesn't text me in the morning? He used to text me constantly.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

7 June 2017 (F - Is it wrong that I get upset with my boyfriend when he doesnt text me in the morning? We've been together for nine months and he used to constantly text me, always send good morning and goodnight texts. We haven't been texting as much for the last...

What were his intentions in messaging me everyday, only to then friend-zone me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

7 June 2017 (F - Hello everyone. I've been friends with this guy for a little over a year now. He was a friend of a friend, and one day he messaged me and started talking about relationships. I responded and it followed with us messaging each other back and fort...

How do I tell my BF? I kissed one of my close friends while having a loving boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

7 June 2017 (F - Last weekend I got very drunk with a group of my friends at a club and ended up kissing one of my close guy friends. I have known his forever and honestly, have had a thing for him in the past that has lasted a long time. But, right now I am w...

I was so attached to him. Now I want to cut him out of my life. But how?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

6 June 2017 (F - Hey. I need some help. Although I have moved on from a long term relationship before this and I know it gets Okay with time but I can't seem to get over this situation. I invested all my feelings in a guy for 4 years just to get cheated. It too...

My FWB wants me to stay the night while his GF is away. Does my FWB expect something different? Or the same?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

6 June 2017 (F - So I've been seeing a FWB guy since we were both 17ish. Its been nearly 10 years and its a continuing thing, never stopped for either of us. But we have both in and out of relationships and we still do it on the DL. Just wondering i guess if...

How can I forget him? How can I train myself to stop thinking of him in the way I do think now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

6 June 2017 (F - Hello everyone I wanted to ask if anyone has any techniques on how to stop associating certain memories with an ex. My ex and I went to school together and reunited for a short lived relationship. Long story short he was just brutal in endin...

My husband had an affair a couple of years ago. Should I write to the woman and ask some questions?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

6 June 2017 (F - my husband had an affair a couple years ago, he says it is over but I have my doubts. She does not live near us anymore. I want to write her a letter and ask her if he has called her or written her a letter. If he has what has he told her, did he...

Rich boyfriend, and I'm broke. How do I deal with the economic difference?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

6 June 2017 (F - So I know this is a "silly" problem, but it's something that has been on my mind a lot in the recent weeks and I would just love some advice on how to cope with the situation. My boyfriend is basically very well off, and Im rather poor. He...

How can I make my Bf quit weed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

6 June 2017 (F - My boyfriend smokes weed and he lies to me that he doesnt. I know he loves me a lot and will never ditch me, but my parents wont accept him, if he doesnt quit weed. He knows that too but he just doesn't quit it. He wants to marry me but i can't g...

Should I continue my relationship? Or end this relationship? Should I heed my mother's advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

6 June 2017 (F - Hi there! I was wondering if you could help me...Basically, there's a situation I'm in where I just need some advice and guidance. So, I'd be grateful to receive some answers. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly half a year now and I've known h...

Feeling confused. What is happening to me? I had sex with him and I'm not over him yet. Even though my feelings for him are fading.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

5 June 2017 (F - Hello, I'm 17 going on 18 and I am a little confused about my feelings towards a guy. In a nut shell, we've been friends for a while, things got flirty, he hung out a few times, I lost my virginity to him, we decided to stay friends to avoid th...

Is my perfectionist boyfriend overly critical of my looks? Or am I oversensitive?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

5 June 2017 (F - My bf used to think my looks were perfect. But he seems to put me down lately. Like he doesn't like a birth mark on my nose. I can't control that. He tells me that my body is perfect for a woman my age but that I am not 20 anymore. He sa...

Advice please? I'm 17, doing my A levels, and I really want to have a baby.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

5 June 2017 (F - I'm only 17 but I am really wanting to have a baby. I've been with my amazing, supportive boyfriend for coming up to 2 years and he's everything to me. I'm currently having a really hard time at sixth form with my A levels, and have had to chan...

Why do I miss him so much now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

5 June 2017 (F - I dated a guy for around 6 months altogether. The first three months were perfect, absolutely perfect and we were so well suited, it was literally as if he was my clone too, we were so matchy matchy. I became depressed at the end of the three mo...

I need advice on how to handle this, please? My life is turning into a sitcom

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

5 June 2017 (F - I'm sure a lot of you will probably think I'm being silly. I've tried talking to myself about this, and I've realized that I'm not mad/jealous because I don't want him anymore, I'm just annoyed. I married my ex-husband A (he's 33) in 2013, we wer...

What should I do? A shower get with sparkly elements for men? What could be the explanation?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

5 June 2017 (F - Hi there guys/gals My boyfriend who I have a long distance relationship came around although asked me to run him a bath whilst on the way. When he arrived I made him a cup of tea so he sat on the bed to drink it before he had his bath. I coul...

We went on 5 dates in the past. How should I view his reaction, yesterday?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

5 June 2017 (F - Yesterday I bumped into the guy I went on a few dates with( 5 dates) a few months ago. It were only 5 dates but it lasted almost 2 months because he was abroad and rarely could see each other. I called after him and he saw me, smiled very happily...

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