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Trust issues: Help and advice

Should I continue to see this man? He is also my boss. He says he wants to keep his independence, and doesn't want anything serious

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22 February 2017 (F - Hi all! I've recently started a new position in my work place and since moving facilities my boss and I have become very close (he is the same age as me 26). It all started with him asking discreet questions about my relationship status,...

Is it up to me to make the first move in this situation? Because I think he thinks, in error, that I'm exclusively gay.

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22 February 2017 (F - I sit next to a guy in one of my classes, and I've realised recently that I'm really into him. I work with him on a production and I think it's been coming on for a while, but best of all I get the impression he's into me too. I just have sever...

Should I stop having sex with my boyfriend???

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22 February 2017 (F - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 9 months. During month 6 he proposed to me the issue I am having is with sex I want enjoy having sex with him but I crave it so much I feel overwhelmed. We don't have sex often because I really want to s...

I honestly don't know what to do. What can I do? She blames her childhood for her major trust issues

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22 February 2017 (M - Hi, I have been together with my fiance for about 8 months now. Unfortunately, she has major trust issues and she fuels it by giving me no space to breathe. she expects me to tell her everything in detail. ie if I get a message from a friend(ma...

Should I message her on facebook, or should I just leave it?

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22 February 2017 (M - I went out on monday night for a student night and I met this really nice girl where we danced. I bought her a drink. She had a friend who was dancing with my friend but he left somewhere and I ended up going to see one of my other friends, but I sa...

Should I end this relationship or work with it? He's become my best friend, but the excitement and passion have faded

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22 February 2017 (F - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now but i am 18 and just starting to feel like i want to have other boyfriends and get to know other guys. I do really love my boyfriend but hes kind of more my bestfriend now. I defintely dont have ...

How do I gauge how much interest a guy really has in me? I want a guy who cares

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21 February 2017 (F - I've been bad w/spotting one sided relationships, so I want a guy who is actually interested in me. I went to an event I go every year, I knew I would meet guys there, but I never expected to find a guy who was really into me. Usually at that eve...

I can't get in contact with my love who has moved on to another country. How can I deal with his absence?

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21 February 2017 (F - This boy that I have fallen in love with has moved to Spain and I have no way of getting in touch with him. Although he is back in summer but that's 5 months away. I'm worried he might find another girl whilst he's there and everyday I worry an...

Should I move on? She had a crush on this guy previously. They've had recent conversations with each other

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21 February 2017 (M - I recently found out that my wife is having inappropriate conversations with someone who she had a crush on several years ago. I know for a fact that she asked this person a hypothetical question saying "Let me ask you something, what if I say he...

How can this be resolved? I want a Baby. He couldn't think of anything worse.

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21 February 2017 (F - My husband told me the other day he never wants to have children. I’m devastated. Don’t get me wrong I love him completely and can appreciate that it’s just how he feels but I feel angry and bitter and am having serious thoughts about leaving him if ...

I hope I'm wrong but wonder based on these signs if should I just move on?

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21 February 2017 (F - I normally have a really good intuition about relationships and men, but oftentimes ignore it in hopes that I am wrong. I'm sort of hoping that I'm wrong this time around, but I digress. I met with this guy about a month ago. He is older than me...

I fear rejection. Could his actions be a sign that he only wants sex, and nothing more serious ?

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20 February 2017 (F - I have been seeing a guy for some time now and it has been amazing and I utterly admire him but the thing is I don't know what we are. He is all sweet and kind and all touchy and shows affections when I'm with him even in public, he is very playful,...

What are the protocols about posting and commenting on the pictures of others on social media? Or am I just being crassly controlling?

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20 February 2017 (M - I am coming to social media rather late in life and am confused by the protocols that seem to liberally litter posts with kisses and hearts. So when my girlfriend posts a pic of an event she attended where I wasn't present and someone responds...

I don't in the slightest trust this artist who she met for lunch recently . Am I just insecure?

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20 February 2017 (M - I am engaged to be married (2nd time for both of us). Because of her work my wife to be has developed many male friends/acquaintances including some who have been keen to take it further than platonic. She presents very innocently of al...

Should I ask if we are boyfriend and girlfriend?

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20 February 2017 (F - I have been dating a guy I met on tinder since December. We seem to get on really well and I feel that we always have good dates. After the 10th date, we slept together and have slept together a few times since. We have now probably been on...

Is he just being a generous best friend, who loves my company? Or is he in love with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

20 February 2017 (M - Good morning Aunties, I have a mighty problem I need help with. I am a bisexual man, 33 years of age. I am attracted to this 19 year old guy. He says he doesn't love me as a lover but as a friend. He says he is Christian and that his parent woul...

Is it true that men simply don't want to see my body type, over weight but not huge, or is my body type just boring to them?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

20 February 2017 (F - My bf looks at porn with the women who are much thinner than me and also those who are extremely overweight . I am overweight but not huge like the bbw porn he likes and he says he doesn't have any porn of women like me because it's hard to find ...

I feel betrayed and violated that he's been snooping on me on my phone! There's no reason for him to do this!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

19 February 2017 (F - I'm so angry as I write this post and a little confused. I was talking to my boyfriend of 9 years the other day and he asked me about something that happened to one of my friends that I could of swore I never told him, I brushed it off thinking...

I can't get over the thought that he stares at my little sister!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

19 February 2017 (F - Hi everyone. I'm writing this as my thoughts are consuming me and ultimately upsetting me and affecting my behaviour with my partner, which I hate. I have been feeling very insecure lately and issues of the past keep popping into my mind and I find ...

Does she still want this wedding?

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19 February 2017 (M - Just a quick question? Me and my partner are due to be getting married in october this year not a big expencive one but one we can offord we have put deposits down for most things but now all of a sudden shes saying we cant offord the wedding so i ...

How can I talk to them about this? What can I do about my boyfriend and my best friend? He hangs out with her when I'm not present

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19 February 2017 (F - My best friend and I are very different people and we get on really well, even though I no longer see her very often. We have been friends for years. A year ago I helped her get close to a guy she liked who I liked at the same time. Things did...

Should I get back into the dating world, before my youth fades?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

19 February 2017 (F - Dear Cupid,I been single for almost going on 16 years. I stopped dating at the age of 32-33. I'm 45 now. My heart has been hurt so bad that I'm in fear of dating again I don't want a repeat of my pass so I just allow my youth to fade away. I ju...

How can I figure out what job suits me? Any tips on finding the perfect job?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

19 February 2017 (F - I work in a prestigious corporate role and I absolutely hate it. I feel like my life revolves around my job and I'm so dependent on it (money) that everyday just feels robotic. I went to school undergrad and grad and now I have a corporate role as ...

Feel like I'm never going to be enough for him. Is my husband gay or just into weird stuff ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

18 February 2017 (F - My husband of 12 years has been web camping girls for 8 years about anal play, pegging and being dominated. I just found out and have taking it hard. He has even had advertisements for meeting girls. He says it because he didn't think I would lo...

How can I stop feeling so very angry with my ex boyfriend? ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

17 February 2017 (F - Hi , I used to be in a relationship with this guy , we started off as being friends he was all pleasant he even sat alone with me to have lunch . But then things started to change, we both developed romantic feelings for each other, we both fel...

Is he right to be annoyed? He was asleep, while I watched porn. He said that what I did was a form of cheating

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

17 February 2017 (F - Okay so My boyfriend always takes the mick out of me that I want sex too much. I do like it every day but I don't think that's a problem.. Anyway, that's not the issue. Last night he fell asleep when he knew I was horny, which isn't reall...

How do I respond when friends query me on this? She uses a picture of herself with my BF as her profile picture on social media

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17 February 2017 (F - Hi Everyone, I could use some advice. I am currently contemplating getting back into a relationship with my boyfriend of 7 years. We split for 3 years, and he began dating someone else. They recently had a child together, but are not in a relatio...

I'm still a virgin with no dating experience at age 26, and I'm starting to feel like something must be wrong with me. Advice?

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16 February 2017 (F - I am 26 and am a virgin, have never had a boyfriend, nor have a I really ever dated. I have always just assumed that things would happen in their own time, and I have had two brief and non official experiences with boys (one for a few months at uni ...

My boyfriend keeps texting a female co-worker and it's getting inappropriate. Am I overreacting?

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16 February 2017 (F - So my boyfriend has a female co-worker. He told me a couple weeks ago that it was pretty obvious to him and a few co-workers that a supervisor was trying to get with this female coworker, let's call her "B". My boyfriend told me that he told B "I ...

If he misses his ex does that mean his affection for me was fake?

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16 February 2017 (F - Seeing him for 3 months. He told me he loved me 3 separate times when drunk, to which I didn't respond. He came over to my place all the time, he said he wanted to meet my parents. Then the last time he told me he loved me, the next day he just sto...

I like older guys. He was respectful to me. But then his decision to ejaculate on my face bothered me. Were his actions out of line?

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15 February 2017 (F - I'm attracted to older men and that's what I normally date. I met this guy recently. He's 34. After exchanging texts for a while, we went out. It went really well. We had great conversation. There was chemistry between us. It was great all around. I ...

My previous teaacher was awesome. I do not like my new teacher, so how can I stay positive in this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 February 2017 (F - My friends and I have had so many awesome teachers in the last few years, but there is one who stands out in particular. I always learnt best in her classes; she had a tendency to find so many ways to visualize the topic and make even the most ...

Will my life improve? What do I need to do? I feel so alone and scared.

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15 February 2017 (F - Am a 41 year old woman and I've asked for help and taken advice from here. Which is probably why I'm back. Asking for advice. I'm divorced from an alcoholic husband and with the advice given to me, I have even found the strength to end an affair...

I have trust issues. He talked and flirted with a girl. What should I do?

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15 February 2017 (F - So my boyfriend and i have been together a little over 5 months. And things are absolutely stinking amazing! The only issue is.. I have a hard time trusting him and dont know what to really do. Towards the beginning of our relationship he ...

My LDR is in limbo. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted today

15 February 2017 (F - I'm writing this to gain clarity and ask for help on a seemingly complex situation that I find myself in. Last February I met a guy through common friends during a little party. We never really talked much. But a week later he contacted me on faceb...

Disappointed he couldn't see me Valentine's day. Am I being selfish? Should I try and make things work?

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15 February 2017 (F - I'm 38 and have been dating a guy who is 38 as well. Our first date was Nov 5th last year and we've seen each other every weekend since then and sometimes during the week. He is part of a culture that does not honour pagan holidays...and I am fine ...

He suggested we have a meal together. Do you think it's a date?

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15 February 2017 (F - My male friend and I were supposed to just be going out for drinks this Friday night, but he asked me if I wanted to go out for a meal before that too. Do you think it's a date? He hasn't said whether it is or not. I feel nervous about havin...

Where Can I Find A Guy To Date Casually?

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15 February 2017 (F - I moved to a new city recently so don't know too many people outside work (I do have lovely good friends, but they're mostly older women who can't introduce me to many guys) and not many single guys my age. I'm inexperienced with guys too, never ...

Is he interested or not? He's confusing me.

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15 February 2017 (F - So, I work with a foreign guy (a backpacker) and we've worked together for about 3 months. Probably in the past month or so I've taken more of an interest in him and actually find him very attractive and I feel like he flirts with me while we work ...

Would I be doing myself a favour to just tell him how I feel?

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15 February 2017 (F - When should you tell someone how you feel? A friend and work colleague kissed me a while ago and told me had feelings for me but it all went wrong as he had an ex in the same work place and didn't want to make things awkward. I have been trying...

I don't want to snoop through his phone but I think my husband is cheating

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14 February 2017 (F - I'm worried my husband is cheating. We've been married 7 years and have had the happiest relationship. He started a new job 6 months ago and his behaviour has changed. He's started keeping his phone on silent, or constantly on his person, somethin...

It's been impossible to move on from my ex. He's in a relationship now, yet is concurrently sending me texts. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

14 February 2017 (F - im in need of advice, I am being confused with random contact from my ex. my ex and I have been on and off for years. Four to five months ago he disappeared to date someone else, broke my heart. i was always the one wanted to get back together an...

How do I not worry that my girlfriend will chose the easy way out when returning home?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

14 February 2017 (M - We're currently long distance and have been together for 6 months. We met in his home country but unfortunately my girlfriend has to move back to her home country. After we met, I have been studying overseas. We're very serious about each other. We ...

My LDR is not motivated to meet in real life.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

13 February 2017 (F - I've been dating my LDR boyfriend for over 2 years and we haven' met yet. He never wants to pinpoint a meeting date and acts unconfortable when I try to. He says he wants to improve himself first so when we meet he makes the best impression on me. ...

My 16 year old sister is sexually active, without birth control. Should I just come out and tell my Dad what my sister told me ?

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13 February 2017 (M - My dad is a single dad , he does a great job raising my sister and I but he's a little clueless in the age girl department. He believes everything my sister tells him. I've seen her come home drunk and convince my dad that she had food poisoni...

Our LDR is stalling after 3 years. Do I stay with him, or look for someone else?

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13 February 2017 (F - I`ve been in relationship with someone for 3 years. I want to settle down and enjoy life together but he's happy the way it is We don't live together. We live 50 miles away from each other. I'm 50 now i want someone to grow old with and share ...

Relationship going no where. Am I just too accommodating, and maybe I should just not be like this?

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13 February 2017 (F - Hi. Been in a relationship for a few months now, he comes here ever other weekend as we are about an hour and half away from each other. I have kids and it's all pretty cool with them too. We also try other bits of time, face time a lot and text...

Is there any future for this marriage? Since he cheated I have turned to cheating too.

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13 February 2017 (F - My problem is I am not sexually attracted to my husband ,at all. The only way for me to be at ease is if I get really drunk to have sex with him .But he don't like that . I can't have sex sober with him.Since he cheated on me I lost all lost I had ...

Is it common for a male to leave his stuff in another man's house? He has a GF. I have a crush on him.

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13 February 2017 (M - Hello, is it common for a male to leave his stuff in another man's house? I have been attracted to this guy who I am much older than. He is 19, I am 33. He says he isn't attracted to me, and sees me as a best friend. We have so much in common, ...

Should I go with him and be miserable or stay at home and get anxious?

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13 February 2017 (F - Dear Cupid I'm with my Current bf for a year, he never told me he loves me though I told him twice. He mentioned that he is not comfortable saying it, since it feels like forced for him. So we do not talk about love anymore. We live 45 minu...

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