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Trust issues: Help and advice

Why would my boyfriend suddenly exclude me from his birthday plans?

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20 November 2009 (F) - i was wondering, last night was my boyfriend's birthday. We've been together almost 3 years on and off. Every year weve spent it together, last night he excluded me from hanging out at his local bar where ive been with him before and met his ...

I need advice on my cheating girlfriend!

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20 November 2009 (M) - Hey guys im rather upset about this but just wanted some constructive feedback and others opinions on it. last night my girlfriend of 4 years went to her male friends house and just them two were drinking until they were completely wasted and he...

Has anyone dealt with a passive aggressive man?

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20 November 2009 (F) - Has anyone dealt with and know what a Passive Aggressive man is? I am in the midst of a two year battle of divorce because he continues to lie and drag his feet to produce things needed for court etc. He says he is " praying for me". He lies ...

Have I lost him for good?

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20 November 2009 (F) - First I'm new to this site. I've been with my boyfriend for two years. Well would be two years in twelve days. Everything was perfect. he has a child with another women before we met. His daughter is two. In the first two months of our relationship ...

My husband claims he will change if I go back to him but I don't trust his word!

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20 November 2009 (F) - I left my husband, we were working together on cruises, saved money to build a future together for 5 years, I am from latin america he is eastern european, first of all he choose living in his country, despite i suggested a neutral country, after I ...

I'm paranoid he's cheating

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20 November 2009 (F) - Hello I have been with my boyfriend for seven months now, we love eachother alot, well atleast i hope he does, he tells me alot that he loves me. i have been hurt in the past by a boy and i now find it so hard to trust my boyfriend, but do i have a...

He's a great guy, but I'm still afraid of being used for sex

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20 November 2009 (F) - me and my bf are together since 8months, though i went away to university and haven't seen him for these last two months. when i was there, we used to kiss and he gave me oral too. i tried to give it to him but couldn't. he is the most amazing ...

Does our relationship have potential, or are we just friends?

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19 November 2009 (F) - I am completely confused. Completely! I've been getting close with this guy for the past month and a half. It's been one thing after another. First, I was hesitant because I thought he was still with this girl. Actually I still don't know whats go...

Out of the blue he tells me "I don't deserve you". Why would he say this?

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19 November 2009 (F) - i love my boyfriend very much, we been together for almost 7 months but i have always known him, he loves me too im his first love and first serious girlfriend, we have fun together, can be ourselfs around eachother and he always makes sure i come ...

How can I know he truly loves me?

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19 November 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend a lot but he doesn't feels it ever. What should I do and how can I trust him and know that he truly loves me??? help...

To trust or not?

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19 November 2009 (F) - I have had some hard relationships in my life and all but one man has committed some form of cheating or lying to me and it has caused me to have some issues with men. The man I am seeing now is wonderful but I have pissed him off a time or two by ...

Its my own fault he cant trust me, how do I make this relationship work?

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19 November 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do, i've been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 10 months now, but when i'd only been with him for a month i left him for my ex. i realised how big a mistake i'd made and left him straight away. i talked to my boyfriend and he ...

Is he nervous or just playing me?

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19 November 2009 (F) - I have been seeing this boy for about a month now. We both go to the same college and we met for the first time at one of my friend's parties. We both asked for each others numbers and that was it for the night. We talked for the next day and we ...

Opinions needed - should I be concerned about my husband's female colleague?

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19 November 2009 (F) - Looking for opinions. Happened a few years ago. Female coworker called our home with sexual joke to my husband. She also confided to him thought she was pregnant with another married mans child. Also, calling his cell phone to find out when he ...

Why was his underwear all sticky?

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18 November 2009 (F) - My partner of 4 years and I have a kid. My partner is 31 and i'm 28 and i'm ok looking not to me but he thinks i'm ok so anyway i wanted to have sex a few days ago he didn't. Now when i was doing his load of clothing i found his underwear sticky ...

How can I get beyond my insecurities?

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18 November 2009 (F) - Help! I am so insecure about myself =/ When I'm not with my boyfriend (ie: during class, or if hes busy with homework, with friends...etc.) I get nervous and my mind starts to work over time and thoughts run through my head...I know he likes me! ...

Please give me tips on how to not beg my boyfriend to take me back!

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18 November 2009 (F) - [MODERATOR NOTE: Four different posts from the same person have been combined into one.] Iv been in an on/off relationship for 2 years. I recently came to realise that he basically loved the control he had over me. He has no respect, puts me down...

I broke his heart when I was young and want to show him he can trust me again.

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18 November 2009 (F) - Okay so this is going to be a little long and little confusing, but I'd really appreciate any type of advice, so please read it(: When I was 15 I met this guy who we'll call Rob. He was 18 at the time and we hung out once but he basically ignore...

Did the father of my baby give me Gardnerella Bacterial Vaginalis?

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18 November 2009 (F) - I want to know what people think are the signs of a cheating man. I am currently pregnant - about the half way mark...and the father of baby has been on and off with me for most of this pregnancy which I finally told him point blank am fed up of the ...

Am I crazy for thinking my boyfriend might be gay?

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18 November 2009 (F) - hi i have been with my boyfriend for ten months now, but i have known him for a long time... we both love eachother, he tells me alot that he loves me, treats me so good. this is gonna sound a bit crazy but i keep thinking my boyfriend is gay or ...

How should I explain how much this bothers me?

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18 November 2009 (F) - Okay my husband of 2 weeks is in nursing school. He started last May. Now before this I never looked at his phone he never took care in keeping it on him. He never really got texts unless I sent them. Things were smooth sailing. So about 3 weeks ago ...

I suspect my girlfriend is having cybersex behind my back, am I just being paranoid?

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18 November 2009 (M) - It's a long story, I've been with my girlfriend for the last 6 months, we have an internet relationship and we have met up about 10 times (we live an hour away from each other). We love each other to bits but I suspect her of having cybersex...

I don't know how to handle her and her lies anymore!

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18 November 2009 (F) - First of all, trust is very important to me in a friendship. A friend of mine, who is in her mid 20's, is a HUGE liar!! She tries to avoid conflict or make herself look better, but she still lies. For example, the things she lies about include: at ...

Am I being too sensitive? Has she lost interest in me?

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18 November 2009 (M) - I'll start off by saying that I am a sensitive guy. I get my feelings hurt fairly easy (though I rarely show it.) My girlfriend and I have been together for two years. We were friends throughout high school, and we each had a crush on one another ...

Should I take the leap and tell my boyfriend I love him?

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17 November 2009 (F) - after alot of ups and downs in my relationship my bf and i made back up things are going really good but i have a problem telling him how i really feel because i am afraid to get hurt.i am thinking like this if i let him know that i love him he ...

Is my girlfriend cheating on me?

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17 November 2009 (M) - Been dating this girl for two months and while she appears to be awesome there are things that I wonder about. She was great. But....we live an hour away. She is a nympho. She has druggy friends. She smokes pot. Loves tattoos. I have no problems ...

I hate the feeling of being lonely and desparate to find someone.

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17 November 2009 (F) - hey everyone, I'm desperately in need of some advice when it comes to relationships. Right now i feel as though i've been cursed in that area or something :(. My first real relationship was 2 yrs ago, with a guy that i had liked for more then 6y...

Am I overreacting to my husband's relationship with my daughter-in-law?

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17 November 2009 (F) - I am having a problem with my husband and daughter in-law. It seems that they have a seperate relationship that I am not a part of they can talk for hours and hours about things I have nothing to do with my husband says he should have a seperate ...

My boyfriend thinks I'm cheating on him, but I'm not, what do I do?

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17 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my current boyfriend for almost 8 months. We've been through our ups and downs like most couples but essentially we're very strong. But now I have a big problem. One of his so called friends told him that I was messing him about...

Is it possible for him to get those feelings back and for this relationship to work?

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17 November 2009 (F) - Hi, A few days ago, my boyfriend of 7 months told me that his feelings have changed over the last few weeks because i dont trust him, and it has eventually driven him away. He was about to break up with me, but we had a long conversation, an...

Do I believe that he has learnt his lesson? Or should I walk away?

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17 November 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for a year but a few days ago two girls came to me and told me they had been sleeping with him. i truely love him and i dont doubt how he feels for me but i just cant believe he has done this to me. we had been arguing ...

Sad I'm not his first love...

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17 November 2009 (F) - Hey. :( I'm in a relationship, and in love for the first time. However, I'm jealous of my partner. Who had been in relationships, and in love before. He's my first, but I'm not his. And it just bugs me, and I feel like I'll never be as impor...

I am depressed, my mom is an alcoholic and I fear losing my b/f!

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17 November 2009 (F) - Hey there, This is a pretty hard topic to talk about and I dont really know where to stsart, i guess first things first is my mom is an alcholic and i really dont know how to handle it, i turned to smoke, then quit that cuz my bf helped me stop, an...

After he's done things to hurt me, he still just blames me. How can I make this work?

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17 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I am 19 and I have been in the relationship I'm in right now for almost 2yrs. I have a very big problem with my partner. I have lied to him as well as cheating. I am not proud or happy about what I did, but there is nothing I can do to change ...

How can I stop taking my insecurities out on him?

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17 November 2009 (F) - I'm 17 and in a relationship that just reached 19 months not too long ago. My boyfriend and I have been fighting pretty much every day for the past week and a half. I didn't really think about why until today, and I realized that I'm starting the ...

How can I make our relationship work and get him to trust me?

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17 November 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do, i've been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 10 months now, but when i'd only been with him for a month i left him for my ex. i realised how big a mistake i'd made and left him straight away. i talked to my boyfriend and he ...

Can a life-long cheater ever be trustworthy or am I wasting my time?

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16 November 2009 (M) - part one; in aug 08 my then finance added some guy to her facebook and when asked about it she said she thought she knew him, she then deleted him and i thought that was the end of it, or so i thought. part two; in jan 09 she went to her work chri...

His penis smells of sex!!!

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16 November 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now, i love him so much and he always tells me he loves me... but on 2 occasions, i went down on him and his penis smelt like sex, now im paranoid hes been sleeping with another girl then coming back to me. ...

My trust issues may destroy my relationship. How can I work beyond them?

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16 November 2009 (F) - hi. i use to go out with a boy on/off for two years, i loved him so much, he was my first love...he use to lie and cheat and make me feel small infront of people, i knew deep down he didnt love me, he only wanted me when he felt like it. a year on i ...

My cheating wife says she wants her family back.

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16 November 2009 (M) - I recently learned of an extramarital affair my wife was invloves in. I came home early to discover her texting on her cell phone. When I asked to see it she screamed empahtically no and ran into my 4 year old childs room. Upon convincing her I ...

Is it acceptable for a man to hit his girlfriend when she stands up for herself against unfair accusations of infidelity?

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16 November 2009 (F) - Is it normal (or acceptable) for: -a man to accuse his girlfriend of infidelity for more than one year? -for the woman to raise her voice and shout, after one year of being falsely accused and asked the same question over and over and over ...

Should I tell my friend I don't like her going out late at night with my boyfriend?

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16 November 2009 (F) - So... I told my bf that I don't like the idea that he is going out late at night (21h, 22h) with my friend and he said "whats the big deal". He even took her to a restaurant one night when she said that she was hungry... Should I tell her that th...

I have become ill due to his unfounded accusations and jealousy, help me!

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16 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend looked through my phone and found a call that was a wrong number. He started to tell me that I had met with someone when he was out of town and I told him to just call the number back if he wanted. He called, threw the phone towards ...

I just turned 18 and thought my mom would trust me with my boyfriend now, but she doesn't!

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16 November 2009 (F) - Okay, so around october I started dating this new guy that I'm dating now. Last thursday I turned 18. In my mind I thought this would change things a little bit. So I asked my mom if I could help my boyfriend move into his moms house. My mom said no ...

Is it possible to have a no-strings attached thing with him again?

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16 November 2009 (F) - Over the summer, I had a fling that was purely lustful. I went in not wanting anything. I told him I would be starting school in Sept and moving. I could tell he didn't want me to move. The relationship was great for what it was. It seemed like h...

My mom said I can't go to a dance, but my girlfriend is going. I don't want her grinding with other guys. Help!

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16 November 2009 (M) - My mom wont let me go to a school dance this weekend because she found out i was grinding with my girlfriend at the last one. We are 15 and we have had sex so its not even that special, but she thinks its bad. My girlfriend still wants to go with ...

Help me leave for good my cheating husband!

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15 November 2009 (F) - please help me... I have been married to a man I love very much for 8 years this is my second marriage, I left my first husband because he used to hit me, the day I walked out on him was easy because in the end I hated him....but I don't hate my 2nd ...

What are some cheating red flags?

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15 November 2009 (F) - Hello, I have a suspicision that my bf did cheat. He may be doing it still (I doubt it). But something happened and/or he tried. Now I have decided to move forward because I dont have any solid proof and I like to give him the benefit of the d...

My pre-emptive cheat has left me feeling guilty. What should I do?

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15 November 2009 (F) - I've been seeing this guy since about the start of this year but a few months ago we officially got together. And I've never been happier. But He's got this close female friend who I don't like. I don't trust her, because of her bad reputati...

Does my lack of trust isolate me?

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15 November 2009 (F) - Is is plainly just chemistry? I have been single for very long and have yet be able to open my heart to anyone now. There are a few potentials one in my life now but I just cannot open my heart. Is love just based on chemistry or is it that I a...