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Trust issues: Help and advice

Do you think he'll cheat when he travels?

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7 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. We are very much in love, but have encountered our fair share of problems with other females (singles sites, and an "online affair," but no physical cheating to my knowledge) in the past. He ...

Help, I discovered my partner goes with escorts!

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7 November 2009 (F) - Hi, Im desperatley unhappy. 3 years ago i met a wonderful man after spending 10 years married to a pub addicted bully who made my life a misery.I had finally made my way out and managed to buy my own place for me and my six year old daughter when I ...

My husband hit me while drunk and doesn't remember. Should I trust him not to do it again?

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6 November 2009 (F) - Recently my husband hit me. He had been drinking and he lost his temper. He had no recollection the next day, has apologised and promised it will not happen again. I just don't know how I feel or if i'm stupid to believe him. He is a drinker anyway, ...

He is saving an old love letter from some other girl! Why?

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6 November 2009 (F) - Hello the other day i saw my boyfriend going threw his stuff and pulled out a letter her glanced at it for a few seconds and folded it up and put it back in hes box then when he left i went and read it. IT was a old love letter for some girl? why ...

I can't trust that my boyfriend doesn't fantasise about other girls, how do I stop worrying?

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6 November 2009 (F) - Ok i need advice and help - especially from the males. I can't afford therapy! I've had a boyfriend for over a year now, and no matter HOW much i read, or WHAT i tell myself, i CANNOT get my head around the issue of porn and fantasizing abou...

My b/f makes me feel complexed about my body, I used to be happy about it!

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6 November 2009 (F) - When I'm watching movies with my boyfriend he is always pointing out which girls have better breasts or stomachs than me. If there is a topless scene he will immediately turn to me and tell me things like, "her's are much bigger than yours, they're ...

Can anyone help me, or give me any advice on changing the way I perceive sex?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I have always had a problem with sex, it was something I'd quite happily let guys do, but it was something I let happen to me (hoping there was a hug and the end), rather than something I felt part of. I got together with a guy 8 years ago. We'd bee...

The love of my life cheated on me...is he at it again?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I have been cheated on 3 years after I was married, by the person whom I knew for more than 10 years and who showed me nothing but pure love, respect and trust. We had a beautiful love story that a lot of people envied and wished they would have the...

Cheating GF wants to work on our relationship but won't give up her friendship with her affair partner.... What do I do?

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6 November 2009 (M) - Hey all. My girlfriend of 3.5 yrs cheated on me. We have a beautiful son together. I have forgiven her and done everything I can to try and work out our relationship. The one thing I have asked of her is for her to not have any form of ...

Is this older man playing me?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I have been dating my bf for almost 8 months now. He is super sweet and tells me he loves me yet I haven't met his family or vise versa. I am 21 he is 34, he keeps saying that our families wouldn't accpet our relationship. In the begining I...

Why is my ex playing games with me?

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6 November 2009 (F) - So, my ex and I broke up in dec. 2007. We talked on and off from that point until the end of feb. hooking up once. I had a lot of issues going on then and I went away for a year to sort through them. During that time we had no contact ...

My past tells me to be cautious

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6 November 2009 (F) - I posted previously about this attached guy who is flirting with me. So a little update, he isn't with this girl, they are actually separated at the time. So, heres my problem. I really like this guy. We talk everyday, all day. I'm getting really c...

Do I need therapy after being sexually assaulted or is it possible that I have gotten over it and won't need therapy?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I was drugged and raped by someone I just met whilst unconscious when traveling alone last year. I can recall everything prior to falling unconscious, once during (somewhat blurry and brief), and can remember afterwards when I wake to find him next ...

I hate that my boyfriend watches porn!

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6 November 2009 (F) - I hate that my boyfriend watches porn. I gave him many pictures of me, and he himself has taken several pictures of us doing stuff. But he doesn't use them at all, he just uses regular big tit porn. I have small boobs, and I'm not as perfect as ...

Are they setting me up for something?

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6 November 2009 (F) - Hello. please don't judge me until you read it till the end.it may sound silly and just lame teens thing,but its not ,please take the time to read it and help me. I'm 16 years old and when i was 13 my family moved to another state .it was ha...

What can I do to help her get over this?

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6 November 2009 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend, "Nicole", for almost a year now. I have had one previous girlfriend, "Molly", who I dated a few years before Nicole. I'm Nicole's first real boyfriend and she is very turned off by the fact that Molly and I had an ...

I've been grilling my wife for two years and I need the truth!

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5 November 2009 (M) - 36 years ago I noticed a guy's name on my gf's calender. As I had just a few days prior got back from the military I asked about it and she said he was just a person who came over to the apartment house where she lived to play cards. She lived with ...

Read this email message and tell me what you think!

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5 November 2009 (F) - I found a message in my husband's email. It was from the owner of a company he has done some work for (who is a male), and he has an email address at that company i just became aware of. He has been hiding all of this from me. The message ...

Would you believe a married man who......

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5 November 2009 (F) - would you believe a married man, who is not having sexual relations with his wife is taking extenz only for his own self esteem (like you would lift weights or work out) as he claims. Or would you belive he is having sexual relations elsewhere? Wo...

She had sex with her ex, so I went out and had sex with another girl. Is this relationship doomed?

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5 November 2009 (M) - hi my girlfriend and i are together for like a year. we jumped straight into relationship literally the day after she finished with her ex of 3 years. a few days ago i found out she had sex with him again a couple of weeks ago. in anger i we...

Why don't I trust him?

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5 November 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i met last weekend ,we had a great time together, despite the fact we have been dating for six months i just do not seem to build trust on him.. i do know know where the problem is am so insecure and afraid of loosing him.. what do ...

How do I get her to stop her accusations?

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5 November 2009 (M) - I have been dating this young lady for 3 or 4 months that I have started to have feelings for. But the problem that I am currently having with her is for the past month and a half or so, she constantly accuses me of cheating EVERY WEEK!! This only ...

I found a letter to a student and barely 18 porn in my fiance's closet!

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4 November 2009 (F) - I have moved in and become engaged to a man who is a high school teacher at a small high school. Recently I was cleaning out a closet for my stuff and found a briefcase. I looked in a briefcase and found various porn and some paperwork. In the ...

Why does he feel the need to be in contact with her when he knows how I feel about this?

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4 November 2009 (F) - My husband and i have been married about 9 months. we dated two years before we got married. Throughout our relationship when we were younger i dealt with him contacting his ex's. We were not completely exclusive, I was hardly out of highscho...

Should I ditch this engagement? After what she did with this guy?

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4 November 2009 (M) - I need help. I just found out my fiancee cheated on me a little while ago. I don't know if I should marry her or not. I'm real pissed off and upset, but I love her, but this is not acceptable. I'm a believer in that 2 people who are in love and ...

Breakdown in communication? What do you think?

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4 November 2009 (M) - I would be interested in your thoughts. Today my gf sent a text to me while I was at work at about 11.50am. She said that due to me working long hours and being so tired when I get home that she feels she never sees me. Then she asked if we could ...

He said it's in the past, but I saw the text to his ex!

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4 November 2009 (F) - I met my current bf while he was in a relationship. I had no idea until he told me. We both tried to end things and it didn't work. She came out here and I guess they both tried to figure things out and she broke up with him. Since then him and ...

How can I overcome irritation when she doesn't call as promised?

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4 November 2009 (M) - Women not returning calls. I would like some advice on what do when a lady promises to call even though she knows she won't call. I have a friend who is a girl. Whenever she has an academic need she bombards my phone with calls. In fact one day ...

It feels as though my wife isn't interested in fixing our marriage.

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4 November 2009 (M) - Hi everyone My wife and i have been seperated for about 10 weeks now, of which the first 6 i moved out. i had no other option but to come home in the end. we have been getting on now for atleast 8 weeks with laughter, conversation, fu...

She cheated on me with two men and now wants me to give her time before we break up!

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4 November 2009 (M) - 5 months ago me (32) and my girlfriend (23) moved in together. Previously we had been having a long distance relationship for 2.5 years. Things were going very well and then she went on a 2 month medical elective on a pacific island. A month into ...

My boyfriend took advantage of me while I suffered alcohol poisoning!

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4 November 2009 (F) - Alright well, i'll try to explain this the best way i can. On halloween, last saturday, i went to a party with about.. 6 people. one of which included my boyfriend. We obviously were drinking since it was halloween and just for fun, you ...

Penis size issue...

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4 November 2009 (M) - Hi every One I have a big question that I need answered. Ok Im 15 and I only have a 4in penis(when erect). Is that bad because from what I've read on the web says that after 16 the penis doesn't usually grow much more. I hope thats not true and ...

Is it because I'm very hard to trust, he's too protective, or an act of love?

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4 November 2009 (F) - my bf saw a public message sent by a an old friend of mine i met over a party i went to (male). and my boyfriend saw it and practically insists on making a huge deal out of it, and turning jealous. Now i understand that the message might have been a ...

Raped by two men and troubled by porn

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4 November 2009 (F) - [Moderator note: some spelling errors corrected, paragraphs added for easier reading] So to start off my question I'd like to say that I was drugged and raped by two guys a couple of years back. But My question is that the last thing I remember...

Four months and no sex - is there someone else??

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4 November 2009 (F) - [Moderator note: explicit language deleted and paragraphs added for easier reading] I am a female (35 years of age)... and I have been in a relationship with a wonderful man (48 years of age) for 10 months now. Sex was GREAT in the beginning an...

How can I expose her lies without admitting I snooped?

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4 November 2009 (M) - I've been in a LDR for almost 6 months now. Within the last month, we've been fighting alot. A while back, my girlfriend gave me the password to her email. I got curious and checked. She's been talking to (and calling) some other guy. Older email...

What do you think of a man, who...?

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4 November 2009 (F) - What do you think about a man whom, you leave a phone message in the morning asking if he wants to have dinner and at 8:30pm he calls, leaves a message that does not mention the call, you try to call back and know he is there because he is on ...

Is my husband planning to go back to his ex-wife?

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4 November 2009 (F) - I am going to make this as short and understandable as I can. My husband is not with me at the moment (he is away) I know he has been calling his ex wife that has two grown kids with him because I told him to call and get to know his kids. He...

Does my wife not trust me with financial matters?

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3 November 2009 (M) - my wife and i are so in love with each other, the only thing is that we disagree on the finances. every time there is a discrepency in our budget and i take care of it she wants to call and see if she can get it taken care of faster. example: there ...

She is 30 and he is 74. Is he actually interested in her mind?

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3 November 2009 (F) - He is 74. She's 30. First of all, let's say he is a thin, very attractive, elderly man. It may seem gross to some people, but she says she is actually attracted to him. It may be weird to some, but she said something about him is fascinating to h...

I am tired of this woman texting my husband with her problems!

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3 November 2009 (F) - my husband continues to be friends with a woman that i don't approve of. i told him several times that she wants more than that,but he says i'm just jealous. everytime she has drama in her life she text him at least 15 to 20 times and believe me is ...

I am supposed to be meeting this man for the first time, but he restarted his online dating profile!

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3 November 2009 (F) - i met a man on an online dating site almost three mnths ago and we have been txting by phone ever since. he made big deal bout deactivating his account because he didnt need it anymore coz he fond me.of course i didnt believe that and gla i didnt ...

Is my ex leading me on?

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3 November 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have split up after 4 years, of being togeather. we are not just a dating couple, we lived togeather, raised his daughter togeather, bought cars togeather. everything was about us. he split up with me because he says he wasn't ...

My boyfriend has always been faithful, but I suspect he might cheat!

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3 November 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for almost two years now. he's an outgoing person and funny. he maybe starting a new sales job where he will be working with alot of women. he's divorced and i know that his ex and him both cheated on each ...

I renewed my commitment and she said fate will decide!

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3 November 2009 (M) - I consider my relationship with my girlfriend extremely healthy, I have had about 3 girlfriends in my life and non of them had the effect that this girl has on me, I guess I can say this one is the 'one'. Well at least I thought she was... I am...

My husband says I am over-reacting to his online affair!

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3 November 2009 (F) - My husband and i have been together for 15 years and we have 2 little girls we only recently got married in March, we have grown up together he's been my best freind my lover my everything. 5 weeks ago i came home from work to find him asleep on ...

I quit my job to be with my girlfriend! Is she cheating?

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3 November 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid... I have problem with my girl friend now, she is divorced with two girls, and i'm divorced also, after 1 year living together i was reassigned to work 2 weeks on site and 2 weeks on leave, after 4 moths i found that she love somebod...

Is it Mistake Identity or is my Boyfriend Lying?

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3 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years but things haven't been easy. I realised i didn't want a future with him for cultural reasons which I told him. He said its not a valid reason but it's fine and that we don't have to break up just because ...

I'm so protective of her and it causes problems

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3 November 2009 (M) - I'm incredibly in love with a wonderful woman and she's crazy about me too. But I tend to get jealous. Now this isn't really a tremendous problem. I think I deal with it well enough. Usually I'll just make a passing joke about it and ask about it...

Does he love me or is just afraid to be alone?

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3 November 2009 (F) - I broke up with my bf about a month ago for a week because i thought that i was too young to be in such a commited relationship. after that week or so though we got back together and are now dating long distance. i found out when we got back ...