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Archived questions from: January, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

I want to send this girl roses, but what do I write on the note?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - I decided to order some roses for this girl I like. (It's this package deal thing my school is doing to generate funds for some charity) It comes with a message but I don't know what to write exactly. Any suggestions would be helpful. ...

I broke off with my boyfriend recently, now I'm wondering if we should get back together, is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 176 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - I broke it off with my b/f of 3 years a week ago. I just wasnt happy anymore and felt we had drifted apart. I thought it was the right thing. We are still very good friends bt i now feel really lonely. i miss him and wonder whether i shouldve...

Does my ex still love me, or is he just after my money?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 176 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - Hi!please help me,last monday i call my x-bf coz i just try if he answer the phone coz i missed him then he did,he talk that we almost 5 months for being together if we dont broke up...so last tuesday we meet and then i give him a money to help ...

Is she just too high maintenance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 175 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - Nemo solus satis sapit...or two heads are better then one. That is one of favorite latin proverbs, and thats why today I am sending this letter/question out. First off, and I'll do my best to keep this short, altought certain insight is required...

Together 7 years, still only 22 , now a guy and my girl's work is making her think about things, should I cut her out to make her appreciate me more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 176 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - I am so incredibly confused. I'm 22 years old and my girlfriend and I have been together since we we're 15. I always thought that we would be together forever, however about a month ago i noticed a slight change in her behaviour as she seemed to be ...

I have a huge crush on my teacher, and I think he likes me too. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - I really like a teacher at my school and he dosent actually teach me but we talk and we get on really well. I also think he likes me too. What should i do? Do i tell him or just keep talking to him and act as if i don't? ...

What did my teacher mean when he said "I'm not playing favourites now"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - ok first off me and my bff's were walking down the hall way to get my sweatshirt so we could go outside and 2 of our teacher both menwre standing by the lockers and and to go outside and i said i need my sweatshirt so then the teacher that always ...

I made a comment on a friends funwall. My girlfriend has seen it and taken offence. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 174 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - I've made a terrible mistake. What can I do? Last week I was out with my girlfriend. We got on very well that evening, and before we left each other, she told me that she would like to come to my house some time in the week. That never happened i...

I like this guy but I'm secretly jealous that he looks at other girls.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 176 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - Hi ok i really need your help, i'm not the type to actually want a bf but i seriously like this lad at college, Although we don't have an awful lot in common we are the same personality wise, i do talk to him abit but why do i get so jealous when he ...

How can we get our sparkle back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - I don’t know what to do. Me and my bf (were both 21) have been together for just over a year and we have been arguing for the last few months. Its always about the same thing. I say that he doesn’t show me enough affection and doesn’t kiss me enough ...

We are having problems but I don't want to lose her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 176 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - i have been dating my g/f for about 4 years and we were so comfortable with each other that we started picking out children's names and planned on moving in together and establishing our lives together. eventually though, within the past year, i got ...

Is there any hope of winning her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 83 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - This may be long but please help me out Ok so my gf left me a month ago. The final talk we had she said for me to let her go if i loved her as much as i said i did and that i wasnt giving her space and so i did, she also said we cant get back to...

We hooked up again after all these years, both have children , but we are both single, but I think I do all the work, what's the deal with this as I havent dated in ages?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - I have known this guy since highschool,28-30 years, we had a few intimate encounters back then, I have recently move back to the town where we went school, He called me a month ago to come over for a drink, and we have hooked up only on an intimate ...

Do I tell him to 'Back Off'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 175 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - MY girlfriend and I have been best friends for over 5 years, though we only really started seriously dating last March. I am in college about an hour away, and she is in her senior year in high school. Recently, this guy we both know suddenly ...

On facebook I said another girl is more attractive than my girlfriend, now she's dumped me, how can I get her to forgive me?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 176 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - Hi, i need a lot of help... About 9 months ago something happened on facebook between me and one of my friends. He told me this one girl was hotter than my girlfriend and i replied yes. It had not occured to me that it would lead me to this ...

Is talking dirty to my college teacher wrong?, I'm 18 he's 31

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 68 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - I am talking dirty with a teacher and i dont know what i should do? It started last week when i seen him out in a club. We got chatting and then i emailed him via the college and said i was sorry if i said anything i shouldnt because i was so drunk ...

Is it normal for people to go cold towards their partner at times?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 176 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - I have been going out with this guy for over two months. It has been a wonderful relationship. Started out magically and everything. I see him every day. About two days ago, I noticed he was acting strangely and asked him what happened. He said ...

My bf said his ex was a very nasty person, then resumes contact with her. What does this tell about him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 176 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - When you date a guy for 1 year and 4 months and he said hes totally into you, but when he starts talking to ex which he said "she was bitch and i never ever liked her." and plus adds her on myspace. what does that mean? b/c i dont want to tak...

Little things he does seem to annoy me lately. I think this is a probelm with me. Can anyone help me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - I've been in a relationship for around a year now with a boy I go to school with. We're past the boyfriend/girlfriend stage - I class him as my partner. We've been sleeping together for about seven months, first time for both of us. Lately though, ...

Should I tell my boyfriend that I made out with his best friend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 176 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - okay me and my boyfriend have not been dating very long..and i now like his best friend..and he likes me and...well...at my boyfriends basketball game i kinda made out with his friend..and i now know that i dont like him and i really really like my ...

I want them both, but am not going to try it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - Ok, well since summer I have realy REALY liked this guy, but I dont realy know him that well I we dont go to the same schools or anything so I just forgot about him. Anyway I got on with my life, and had a lovly boyfriend, we broke up and then ...

He dated me but always had a gf!! Why did he do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - Well where do i start.. im a 17 year old girl and i fell in love. first love and all that. Its been goiing on since my 2nd year in senior school and its always been on and off!.. it got to the year 2005 anddd we wasnt together but got chatting...

She flirted but never intended to date me! Confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 177 days ago

30 January 2008 (M) - Hi.i got a small problem.MY friend is 56 and me 42.A while ago she was sending me messages that we were goin to be an item.i in stoke, she in glasgow.and so it went on until a sunday where she came out with deep feelings for me and was confused cos ...

I like him but I don't know what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - Okay, theres this guy i REALLY like, he knows I like him, but I dunno what to do =/...

Am I being played for a fool? Should I even talk to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

30 January 2008 (M) - Ok. I was with this girl for 2years. We broke up in August of 2007. We had an on going relationship, even having sex until October. Around mid November i cut it off, and didn't speak to her again until a bit before New years. Since we broke up we ...

My ex wanted me back but wont give up her new guy. I feel like I'm being manipulated, what should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 176 days ago

30 January 2008 (M) - My ex broke up with me 2 months ago. It was mostly because I wasn't attentive enough. She started seeing someone else. I stayed away from her. I didn't call her at all. She called me after a month and told me she missed me. She told me she thinks ...

Why does he keep calling me and wanting to hang out with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 175 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - I dated this guy for almost 2 years, and he was acting distant and always ditching me for his friends so i broke up with him, hoping it would bring back the guy he used to be. He didnt come back, we spent the next 10 months together but ...

I want more, how do I tell him without scaring him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - I have been in an on and off (mainly on) relationship for 9 years with a guy I truly adore. He makes me laugh, we know each other inside out, we have the same goals etc. But I am 25 now, and I am ready for our relationship to be a lot more serious - ...

Torn between boyfriends. . .plus I think I'm pregnant!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 175 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - I've gotten myself into a predicament, I'm not over my ex and he still wants me, but I might be pregnant with my current. I broke up with my ex because he has no ambition. . hes a loving guy and we know each others families but he hasn't got 'The X ...

Once a month sex life ...if I'm lucky

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - My bf and I are very much in love with each other and planning a long term future together, only problem is he says he has a very low sex drive. We only have sex about once a month which to be honest is not my usual way, as I have quite a high sex ...

He invited me to functions and I had other plans. Now he won't call.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - I just met this guy three weeks ago. He is 6yrs younger than me. I love him but the age gap gives me problems. I'm a single mother of a 15yr old son while he has 11yr old son and 8yr old daughter from his previous relationship which he chose to ...

Why do I have so much fear inside me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - I am worried about the future of my relationship. I am dating a single father with a 5 year old son (his mother passed away). I get along great with his son, but i'm scared about putting too much energy into this. Also I get a little jealous at ...

At first I wasn't inerested, but now I can't get her off my mind.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

30 January 2008 (M) - I met a girl in 2006, I never took in interest in her, but after some time I was no longer seeing the girl anymore. All of a sudden I started feeling eager to see the her. I cannot clear her off my mind, I think I am in love with her. I don't know ...

How can we keep our long-distance relationship alive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 and half months and we went to the same college. But his grades weren't high enough for him to continue to the second semester so he's not here anymore. He lives in a different state and I really miss him. ...

Nervous and confused.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - Im about to be 13 feb. 4th and me and my god sister are double dating and I have never been any where with my boyfriend cuz im not allowed 2 date but we really love each other and we are going 2 the movies on valentine's day and my mom knows that i ...

We split up, but she says she still loves me, is there any point in being hopeful we could get back ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 61 days ago

30 January 2008 (M) - Recently, my ex and I called it quits. She decided that after 2 1/2 years of dating that she needed time to herself and that over the past 6 years she's only had a few months of time where she wasn't dating. However, she says she stills loves me ...

Was he playing with me, Is it my shyness or just a typical teen boy thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - i need some advise! i like this boy who i've known for about 5 yrs now. about a year ago we started texting each other constantly and he told me he liked me a lot too. we went out a few times together but nothing really happened. recently he texted ...

Is she stringing me along? Is her not contacting me even to ask how I am a bad sign?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

29 January 2008 (M) - Hi all, Back here once again, in pretty much the same situation. I was going through a horrible break up with the same girl about a year and a half ago. But she came back saying she made a mistake, and i let her back into my life, and we were h...

What does a boy really want in a girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 174 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I'm trying to become friends with this really hot guy who I'm head over heels for. But problem is I just can't figure out how to get him really into me, or at least I can't tell. I think he's interested in me but it's really hard because he's really ...

And then it got complicated .....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - It all began when i was only 14. I was dragged to my friends 15th birthday which i wasn't exactly looking forward to as i only knew a handfull -well 3 to be exact- of people that was goin to be there. As soon as i walked into the pub where the party ...

The other guy wants me to choose. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I have been dating a guy (Guy A) for about 8 months and I do think I love him. About 4 months ago I met someone else (Guy B). He is very good to me and I do enjoy spending time with him but feel guilty doing so. Guy A says he is not in a "hurry" ...

How can I find out if he said it only because of a dare?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I'm 13 years old. I just found out something. The boy in my class who said he loved me, he was dared to say it. what do u think?...

How can I assure my boyfriend that I will never cheat again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm 20 years old, and I'm in a 7 month relationship with a WONDERFUL man who is 21. I stupidly cheated very, very early into the relationship. My boyfriend just found out and i know it hurt him very badly as he's been cheated on before in past ...

Why am I attracted physically to the guy I'm not really close to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I think i have a crush on a boy,but when i am with him i feel like i am with my best friend,and i never think of us kissing or anything. But then there's another boy that i don't have a crush on (i think) and i don't know him extremely well,but i am ...

We both are too shy to become more physical. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

29 January 2008 (M) - hello my gf and i have been going out for six months now...we both want to hug and kiss and have physical contact but we r both to shy any advice on this. ive been looking at other questions like this but they dont have the answers i ...

Do relationships with language barriers work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I am 20yrs old and went out of the country for my first time last week for a competition. I was there for 7 days and the first day I was there I met a wonderful guy, Nicholas. The problem is, he lives in Guatemala, I live in the US. We hit it off ...

We get on well on line but his relationship status on face book is 'complicated' what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - me and my friend here still dont know. so yesterday i really started talking to this guy. i talked to him from 11am, to 10pm. and he obviously enjoys making me laugh. he trys really hard to. (btw, i've never met him. he's got mutual friends w...

He lies about his bad habits and it pees me off!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 1 year and my relationship has been full of instances where we express something minor about the other person that upsets us - i.e. smoking, viewing pornography. In both cases, he's promised to quit smoking, and quit being secretive ...

How can I learn to trust and show love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 172 days ago

29 January 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid, My problem is that I am 'relationship-phobic' (be it friendships or relationships) and find it impossible to trust people, even if I want to. Whenever I meet someone I want to avoid getting close to them. My life is hell because of ...

I am shy and reserved, what are my chances for dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

29 January 2008 (M) - Hi. I'm a very shy and reserved 29 year old male. I have always found it extremely difficult to relate to members of the opposite gender, despite having been told I'm good looking. I've longed for the day when I'd have the self confidence to a...