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Flirting: Help and advice

Any opinions as to whether she is into me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

18 January 2017 (F - There is a young girl who I come across frequently as she works near me and I am of the understanding she is straight. I think she has a boyfriend but I am gay with a girlfriend. I am just curious as to whether she is into me or not. She remembe...

Can two cheaters make a relationship work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

16 January 2017 (F - I was in a serious relationship with a guy (it was long distance where we had to fly an hour to see each other). Then one day, I find out he had been texting this other girl 10 hours a day, and they were seeing each other for 3 hours a day for ...

I'm panicking my boyfriend will cheat on a guy's trip to Cuba. How should I respond or act in this situation?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

16 January 2017 (F - My boyfriend is in Cuba for one week on a guy's trip. I am beside myself with worry that he is going to cheat. I have read that prostitutes are around every corner there and they are dirt cheap. The anxiety is hard to take. I contact him a...

I feel ill for cheating on my boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

14 January 2017 (F - I am currently feeling physically ill for cheating on my boyfriend and I would love some advice on what to do. Me and this other guy did not sleep together just hung out for the day and made out a bit.I am feeling incredibly bad for him as I didn't ...

My girlfriend's cousin seemed so flirtatious... am I imagining it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

11 January 2017 (M - My girlfriend's cousin lives abroad. When we went to meet her, I got on with her and found her very friendly and enthusiastic. After a while I got that instinctive... is she flirting with me? feeling, but figured I was imagining it because my girlf...

How should I act towards him for the best outcome?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

9 January 2017 (F - A while ago I kissed someone from work who I had liked for a while. He told me he had feelings for me and we began texting. -But then later said because his ex works at the same place nothing could happen. And then kissed a different co wor...

I like going out with her but it's destroying my self-conference!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

9 January 2017 (F - Whenever I go out partying with my Best friend, all the boys flock to her or spend all evening telling me how hot she is. It is destroying my self confidence but I love hanging out with my friend. What to do? ...

How do I make my boyfriend more comfortable with talking intimately on the phone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

9 January 2017 (F - My boyfriend can't talk intimately over the phone, and when I do it makes him uncomfortable. Everything's great when we're face to face together but we're in a long distance relationship and spend a couple of days each month together. We've been ...

We enjoy each other's company but nothing seems to be starting! Any advice, aunties?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

8 January 2017 (F - In April last year I met a guy at a local sports club I go to and over the course of the last few months we've built up a friendship and now regularly see each other outside our sports club. We're both single and in our 30s and at the start of las...

What do I do? How can she still want to be with someone who she is not sexually attracted to, nor IN love with?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

8 January 2017 (M - Apologies if I ramble but I have some much to get off my chest ?? My Fiancée of nearly 14 years and the mother of my 2 beautiful daughters (11 and 6) had told me she loved me but is not IN love with me several years ago. We have also not had...

Am I over reacting to husband's online interaction with another woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

8 January 2017 (F - me and my husband are having some problems, maybe its all me i dont know but anyway.. few yeas back i caught him deleting messages from a co worker he said it was nothing but just didnt want me to get the wrong end of he stick so thought he would...

The phone messages he's been receiving from her do bother me. But how do I raise the issue with my husband?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

5 January 2017 (F - Hello I am a woman in my late 20's who has been married for 2 years. I have a problem and don't know how to handle it. My husband back when we were first dating over 4 years ago had cheated on me with a woman he was friends with at a drunken par...

Should I consider that this friend I like is now available? What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

4 January 2017 (F - I asked a friend who I like and who knows I like him, advice about dating as my ex is now started dating again and my friend told me to get out there etc. I then took a month away from social media. I came back mid/late December and I found out ...

Guy says he doesn't like me, but others say the opposite. What do you think? ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

4 January 2017 (F - Question: Every guy I know says this guy obviously likes me, but the guy himself said to me it's not that way? He's close to me since my break up 5 months ago. He's brought me out, treated me to food and movies, would come all the way to my neighb...

How do I even begin to respond to him, when he ignores my good news?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

4 January 2017 (F - Hey guys. So I (27yrs) just started dating this older gentleman (45yrs) whom I've grown quite fond of. We've been dating for a few months now. He doesn't outwardly flirt with me, but he use to ask how I was feeling and if I was having a good day. W...

We've Texted, met, dated. What do you think is going on with him? 3

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

3 January 2017 (F - Meet this guy 40 like me, tons of stuff in common brillent chemistry. We've been talking for about 5wks now, been on 2 dates. He calls me not only to set up dates but to talk. He texts every morning to wish me a good day etc. He texted me yesterda...

He is also my colleague at work and we just broke up. How can I face him when I go back to work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

2 January 2017 (F - Im from India working in a bank. I had a relationship with a colleague since last January.. he has one friend or girlfriend i don't know with whom he spent a lot of time..now even after our relationship they talk over phone. Once i caught him ...

Am I wasting my time with him? Should I say something to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

1 January 2017 (F - I have a friend who claims he wants to be more than friends We once went on a date 2 years ago but for some reason ill never know he chickened out meeting up again . Fast forward to now he says hes sorted his head out and knows what he wants . ...

Why tell me about this other girl when he knows how I feel? We live in different countries

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

31 December 2016 (F - My online friend recently changed his bio from in a relationship to single after 3 weeks . I asked him about it and he said that they didn't have social media so that was why. But earlier that week he told me that he wasn't going to tell me their ...

A friend has a crush on a guy. I would like to see them become a couple. Or should I help her to get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

30 December 2016 (F - Hi, My problem is that my best friend is obsessed with her crush and I am obsessed with getting them together. All we both do is talk about this GUY. My friend's obsession is quite understandable because she had a breakup and was very dep...

What hope is there for a boyfriendless virgin? I think about sex, a lot. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

29 December 2016 (F - Hi so I'm 17 and I'll be 18 this following year. Whilst I've had "situations" or issues with guys I've never had a boyfriend and never had sex. There was a time where I was close to sleeping with a guy I did not even want to be my boyfriend, bu...

Is AB more important to my Bf than he implies? I believe he loves me. But I only sharing him with AB?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

29 December 2016 (F - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years and some change. When I left for college he became really close with a female friend( I'll call her AB). I do know her but I don't know her that well because we were never friends we just all kno...

Why has my Boyfriend changed his sexual style to a more conservative one, to the style he favoured previously? Could he be cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

28 December 2016 (F - Hello friends. I have been in a long term relationship with my boyfriend. We have always had a good time experimenting with each other sexually. We have a good bond and have connected from the get go. And we have also had stellar chemistry and a gr...

Is there any way I can repair my friendship with her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

28 December 2016 (M - Well,I just have a colleague which is a girl and she likes me. I used to talk to her after getting out from work on the way home.After some weeks I had some thoughts flying through my mind (not about her).I started to stop talking to her. Now we us...

I told him that I liked him but he just said that let's go with flow. Am I just a friend to him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

28 December 2016 (F - I told one of my guy friend that I liked him but he just said that let's go with flow. From that day we started texting a lot. It's been 9 months.. I don't know where exactly we stand.. We talk and meet up sometimes but we haven't talk on this top...

Is it wrong for a man to look at and flirt with women other than his significant other?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

28 December 2016 (M - Is it wrong for a man to look at and flirt with women other than his significant other? Why or why not?...

Should I continue this? Let him visit and spend more time together? Or is it sounding too unhealthy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

27 December 2016 (F - This is a hard question for me to put out there because it involves a relationship I am in with someone I really like and care about. However, I have made so many unhealthy choices in my past and I don't want to do that anymore. I think some...

It's now 2/3 days, is he uninterested? Should I just leave it, or pursue him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

27 December 2016 (F - Hi, I work with a guy I really fancy but was unsure if he was interested in me so I backed off. Co-workers have been trying to set us up for the past 6 months but I know he's incredibly shy. He's always asking where I'm going out at at the week...

He's in a band and seems shy. Might he like me, or does he just see me as just a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

23 December 2016 (F - hello i really like this boy he is in a band we met once when he invited me to watch them perform. he seemed nervous but when we talked he was calm an d when we took pictures he was so close...later in the evening he apologised for being silent c...

How to determine if a woman likes me? How do I let a woman know I like her? How to slow down my orgasm when with a woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

23 December 2016 (M - Moderator note: more than one question combined into this one post. .. . . . . . . . . . . .. . I am a man wanting to know how to go about letting a woman know I like her? I am very shy and have a hard time telling a woman I like them. Once I...

Does sending me picture of her stomach tattoo with the bottom of her breasts just visible mean she’s flirting with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

22 December 2016 (M - So I have a friend and we live far apart but we text a lot. I don't know her super well yet but I am getting to know her, I enjoy her company on the phone and she is kind of cute. We often send each other photos of our day to day life. We got onto ...

My Bf has been talking to a younger woman. Where to now? After all I've done for him, why did he do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

21 December 2016 (F - Hi I have a BF for 3 years, monogamous relationship. That is what I thought. My Bf has an habit to lie. Lie about small and big things. We are on and off due this because I caught him then he apologized then I forgive then again he lies and so o...

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