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Flirting: Help and advice

Was this man in my walking group interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted yesterday

21 March 2017 (F - Last year I joined a walking group online. I noticed a guy had viewed my profile a few times at the time but we had never met. 8 months went by and I finally made an appearance and met the group in person. The guy who had viewed my profile was ...

How can I get dates if I am not attractive enough for guys to ask me out or approach me in person?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

19 March 2017 (F - I just witnessed a girl right in front of me getting cold approached and hit on by guy while I am never hit on and/or approached by men. I am not intimidating because I notice guys cold approach women without sending signals to guys. In fact, ...

Does he still want to see me? He said that we would not be compatible long term, but he does like me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

16 March 2017 (F - Dear Cupid I need some advice, I've been seeing this guy for about a month (I'm 19 and he's 25) and we were getting on really well, he takes me out and treats me really nice, we just clicked. We're very similar and we've both noticed this. We'v...

Why can't I quit him? Heart says yes and mind says no?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

15 March 2017 (F - I have been talking to this guy for a good month now and we were getting pretty flirty and didn't think about the future. He had to move back to his family in another state for work and he told me he couldn't do LDR, even though he likes me a lot, ...

Should I stop flirting and just see if he makes a move? Do guys always flirt back if they're into you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

15 March 2017 (F - I met a guy and didn't talk to him for long, but was teasing him cos i thought he was cute., but he didn't tease or flirt back. We sat at the bar together and were swinging on the stools slightly so our legs touched. We made eye contact across the ...

How can I stop coming on so strong?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

14 March 2017 (M - Hey everyone. So I've been posting here for quite a while about all of my struggles with attracting women. I think I may finally realize what's been going on. I come on too strong and over analyze things on pretty much every attempt. It's just who I ...

Based on his words and actions since November, is it reasonable to ask if we are exclusive now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

13 March 2017 (F - I had a conversation with the guy i'm seeing and we were talking about which friends are single and which are with someone. So I said when you coming off the market and he said well I am kinda off the market. I said not really then he said ok, ...

Why can't I attract the guys I like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

9 March 2017 (M - I feel like I'm one of them good looking guys..... I get told I'm cute, I'm handsome.... no ones ever actually called me ugly People tend to love my personality once I get to know them to But why can't I sleep with the guys I find attractive?...

Blocking's been unsuccessful. How to stop a woman obsessed with my Bf from messaging him on social media?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

8 March 2017 (F - Hello. So I need help on stopping someone from harassing my boyfriend. I am 21 and he is 24 and since high school, his friend met a girl our age who pretended to be my friend when I didn't know her at all and she's hung out with my boyfriend's ...

I want the relationship to work. What are your opinions on flirting/ making inappropriate comments to another female while the guy is in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

7 March 2017 (F - Please guys only (ps if advice is just shouldnt be together please do not respond. I want to make this work) Okay so guys. What are your opinions on flirting/ making inappropriate comments to another female while in a relationship. ...

What can I do or say, that might encourage him to ask me out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

5 March 2017 (F - Hello. I know one of my guy friends likes me. But he wont say anything. His best friend used to go out with my sister and it ended badly. His best friend said that he might not say anything because of this Is there a way to help change his min...

Why is he so hard to get to know?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

4 March 2017 (M - So this is a little bit of a head messer (for me anyway) So there's a guy I really like we know each other from social media and hears the thing. I message him and sometimes he replies sometimes he don't. We share a match in music taste. ...

Why do I always ''arrive'' faster with girls than with guys? I think I'm bisexual

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

2 March 2017 (M - Hi, i'm looking for some advice here. Right so, im pretty sure im bisexual, or hetrofelxible, or whatever doesn't really matter im well experienced with both sexes. So, there was this guy, i came over to his, he was waiting naked, proceeded...

He was my friend a long time ago. But he now has a girlfriend. Could I ever mean more to him? Or is he destined to be only a friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

2 March 2017 (F - I fell in love with a old friend i met 39yrs ago. i were dating another one also. I chose my husband over him who is now deceased in whom were also a friend at that time. My friend came back in my life after 26yrs. To support me thru the ha...

I feel my heart has been ripped from my chest!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

1 March 2017 (F - My husband and I habe been married for 2.5 yrs and were both 22. He just got deployed a month ago but all of this started happening well before he got deployed. Id say for the past yr that weve moved back to his home state its felt like he pushes me ...

Why do I get attention from older married men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

1 March 2017 (F - I want to ask the opionion of people here to step outside of myself. I don't date a lot because i don't like online dating and life doesn't bring me around a lot of men(my guy friends are a nightmare) so when someone new comes in my life I jump at ...

Am I being paranoid or is this married guy trying to make a move on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

26 February 2017 (F - Theres this married guy I know, I always catch him looking at me then looking down when I catch him. I always got the impression he would actively try and avoid sitting next to me but he always sat straight across from me so he could see me. But ...

He's been flirting with me, but after seeing him out with another woman I'm not sure how he really feels!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

26 February 2017 (F - Hi Aunts and Uncles I met a guy nearly two years ago. Did not like him to begin. Then started to get to know him and he started flirting he gave me his number. Cutting a long story short, we have been talking for many weeks and my feelings h...

I've had bad luck with women in the past, and now I'm wondering if this new girl is testing me or just playing games

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

25 February 2017 (M - I would like some advice on what to do with a female I'm currently talking to. Ive had no luck in the past when it comes to relationships and have always ended up getting hurt, no fault of my own. I'm not a bad looking guy and can get dates, I deci...

Is this recently widowed woman demonstrating a desire for a closer physical relationship with me, or is she grieving?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

24 February 2017 (M - Hello A woman i know, when we meet, we hug and kiss each other on the cheek. Not long ago her husband died. The last we met we hugged and she placed my head on her breastl Does she want a closer relationship with me? As in sexual? Or is it so...

I like him but worry about his motives.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

24 February 2017 (F - Hi so there's this guy that I've had feelings for for a while. I'm 99% sure he at least likes me a little but for some reason I still have some doubt in my mind, which might just be because I'm not use to guys genuinely wanting to get to know etc. ...

I wondered if he could be flirting because his comment seemed out of place.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

23 February 2017 (F - Hello everyone, a business meeting was scheduled with the owner of a company through common friends. So here i was walking into the conference room where he was waiting for me and introducing himself. he was very proper, professional and pleasant ...

Should I continue to see this man? He is also my boss. He says he wants to keep his independence, and doesn't want anything serious

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

22 February 2017 (F - Hi all! I've recently started a new position in my work place and since moving facilities my boss and I have become very close (he is the same age as me 26). It all started with him asking discreet questions about my relationship status,...

Should I message her on facebook, or should I just leave it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

22 February 2017 (M - I went out on monday night for a student night and I met this really nice girl where we danced. I bought her a drink. She had a friend who was dancing with my friend but he left somewhere and I ended up going to see one of my other friends, but I sa...

How do I gauge how much interest a guy really has in me? I want a guy who cares

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

21 February 2017 (F - I've been bad w/spotting one sided relationships, so I want a guy who is actually interested in me. I went to an event I go every year, I knew I would meet guys there, but I never expected to find a guy who was really into me. Usually at that eve...

Should I move on? She had a crush on this guy previously. They've had recent conversations with each other

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

21 February 2017 (M - I recently found out that my wife is having inappropriate conversations with someone who she had a crush on several years ago. I know for a fact that she asked this person a hypothetical question saying "Let me ask you something, what if I say he...

I fear rejection. Could his actions be a sign that he only wants sex, and nothing more serious ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

20 February 2017 (F - I have been seeing a guy for some time now and it has been amazing and I utterly admire him but the thing is I don't know what we are. He is all sweet and kind and all touchy and shows affections when I'm with him even in public, he is very playful,...

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