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I fear rejection. Could his actions be a sign that he only wants sex, and nothing more serious ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted today

20 February 2017 (F - I have been seeing a guy for some time now and it has been amazing and I utterly admire him but the thing is I don't know what we are. He is all sweet and kind and all touchy and shows affections when I'm with him even in public, he is very playful,...

How can I talk to them about this? What can I do about my boyfriend and my best friend? He hangs out with her when I'm not present

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted yesterday

19 February 2017 (F - My best friend and I are very different people and we get on really well, even though I no longer see her very often. We have been friends for years. A year ago I helped her get close to a guy she liked who I liked at the same time. Things did...

My boyfriend keeps texting a female co-worker and it's getting inappropriate. Am I overreacting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

16 February 2017 (F - So my boyfriend has a female co-worker. He told me a couple weeks ago that it was pretty obvious to him and a few co-workers that a supervisor was trying to get with this female coworker, let's call her "B". My boyfriend told me that he told B "I ...

I like older guys. He was respectful to me. But then his decision to ejaculate on my face bothered me. Were his actions out of line?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted yesterday

15 February 2017 (F - I'm attracted to older men and that's what I normally date. I met this guy recently. He's 34. After exchanging texts for a while, we went out. It went really well. We had great conversation. There was chemistry between us. It was great all around. I ...

I have trust issues. He talked and flirted with a girl. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

15 February 2017 (F - So my boyfriend and i have been together a little over 5 months. And things are absolutely stinking amazing! The only issue is.. I have a hard time trusting him and dont know what to really do. Towards the beginning of our relationship he ...

My LDR is in limbo. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

15 February 2017 (F - I'm writing this to gain clarity and ask for help on a seemingly complex situation that I find myself in. Last February I met a guy through common friends during a little party. We never really talked much. But a week later he contacted me on faceb...

He suggested we have a meal together. Do you think it's a date?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted today

15 February 2017 (F - My male friend and I were supposed to just be going out for drinks this Friday night, but he asked me if I wanted to go out for a meal before that too. Do you think it's a date? He hasn't said whether it is or not. I feel nervous about havin...

Is he interested or not? He's confusing me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

15 February 2017 (F - So, I work with a foreign guy (a backpacker) and we've worked together for about 3 months. Probably in the past month or so I've taken more of an interest in him and actually find him very attractive and I feel like he flirts with me while we work ...

Would I be doing myself a favour to just tell him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

15 February 2017 (F - When should you tell someone how you feel? A friend and work colleague kissed me a while ago and told me had feelings for me but it all went wrong as he had an ex in the same work place and didn't want to make things awkward. I have been trying...

It's been impossible to move on from my ex. He's in a relationship now, yet is concurrently sending me texts. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

14 February 2017 (F - im in need of advice, I am being confused with random contact from my ex. my ex and I have been on and off for years. Four to five months ago he disappeared to date someone else, broke my heart. i was always the one wanted to get back together an...

Is it common for a male to leave his stuff in another man's house? He has a GF. I have a crush on him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

13 February 2017 (M - Hello, is it common for a male to leave his stuff in another man's house? I have been attracted to this guy who I am much older than. He is 19, I am 33. He says he isn't attracted to me, and sees me as a best friend. We have so much in common, ...

I like him, it's been 5 months but there seems to be no initiative from his side

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

13 February 2017 (F - I met a guy a few months ago who started flirting with me. I did not like him to begin but then we got talking and I saw a really handsome interesting person. The flirting continued and I cold feel some chemistry between us, A few weeks later ...

Should I go with him and be miserable or stay at home and get anxious?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

13 February 2017 (F - Dear Cupid I'm with my Current bf for a year, he never told me he loves me though I told him twice. He mentioned that he is not comfortable saying it, since it feels like forced for him. So we do not talk about love anymore. We live 45 minu...

How can I get my crush to notice me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

12 February 2017 (F - There's a guy I'm interested in but I just can't seem to get him to notice me. I try to talking to him, flirting, touching, writing him some steamy notes, but he just won't respond. I asked him to our school Valentine's day dance and he turned me ...

I think the married co-worker I've been flirting with is just looking for a fling, but I can't avoid him because we work together. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

11 February 2017 (F - Hi. I have recently started a part time job which i love. Everyone is so lovely but I have found myself flirting with this guy. We text a lot and he says very flattering things but he is due to be married in a few weeks. He has two children with ...

He says his On line friend is just fun and escapism. It sounds like emotional cheating to me. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

7 February 2017 (F - Would love advice as to if " emotional cheating " on line is as bad as the physical cheating . I have dated my guy for two years and walked in on him skyping a woman who he knows through " business " when he was saying " love talking to you ,...

I'm torn between two guys. I'm wondering, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

7 February 2017 (F - Hello anyone out there willing to give me advice. I seem to have gotten myself into a significant amount of a problem. I'm torn between two guys. One my High school sweetheart Man1 whom I went out with for around 4 and a half years. We'd always a...

My GCSE soon. Feel I am running out of time to ask her out. but I'm hesitant and shy about it. what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

7 February 2017 (M - After asking multiple questions on this site I can now confirm that a girl I know well has a crush on me (she keeps staring) and I like her back. It's almost like a magnet; almost as if we are fated to be with each other. Whenever she stares at me...

Do you think he actually likes me, in the same way that I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

7 February 2017 (F - I really am crushing on this boy at my uni. It has been going on for quite some time but I don’t see him very often – maybe once or twice a month. Sometimes I don’t see him for a few months. We have very different classes and schedules. We ha...

My husband and I had a threesome with a guy. Should I push the issue or let it go on naturally?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

7 February 2017 (F - Recently I found porn on my husbands phone and confronted him. He confessed that he was turned on by the fact that he wanted me to do a three-some. Well yesterday he brought a male friend home and after several drinks I found myself going down o...

Did I have sex with him too early into this relationship? I want to be his Girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

6 February 2017 (F - I recently hooked up with a man who I think is lovely and compatible with me in many ways. I have last dated two years and have been trying to hook up with a man but in vain. But for some reason something feels right with this man. I only had ...

Is it likely that we will get in trouble for being together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

6 February 2017 (F - My boyfriend is 17 and I am 15, we go to the same highschool and we were not looking for love when we found it. In my state I know that the age of consent is 16, but he will turn 18 before I turn 16. We are both concerned that we will get in t...

Help me sort out this tangle before it gets worse

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

5 February 2017 (F - I'm in quite a difficult situation. My ex boyfriend was living on the streets recently. The battery on his phone had run out one night. He met this guy who was also living on the streets, and he borrowed the guy's mobile phone to speak to me. Me and ...

18 year old senior at school. How could I attempt to seduce this teacher at my school?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

5 February 2017 (F - I am a 18 year old female in high school as a senior. I had this teacher for the first semester and over time just seemed to really like him for a lot of reasons mostly because of how intelligent he is. I am not a very sexual person and could...

I'm not sure if she's into me romantically, or just friendly. How do I behave when we meet? What things do I mention? Don't want to scare her away.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 16 days ago

4 February 2017 (F - I'm a freshman in college. I enrolled into an English class last minute, I was assigned an older professor, mid thirties. I get to the class and it's a young woman about 24 years old, the professor. I was supposed have dropped out. The minute I saw...

What if the tables were turned? Am I being a numpty for agreeing to her terms?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

4 February 2017 (M - Hey just like to ask if i've been a bit of a numpty. I'm not allowed a facebook nor messenger not sure why but to make her happy i said ill not make a facebook. She has both and lots of people added like people she works with and even people she s...

Is it possible to tell him everything and stay friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

31 January 2017 (F - Hi. I'm hurting and would appreciate a third person's opinion. I've had feelings for a friend for last 2.5 years. They kept getting intense with time but he lives in a different city so I never acted upon my feelings. We used to flirt back and fort...

Is he flirting or is it just banter?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

31 January 2017 (M - Okay so there was a point I really fancied this guy but then he gave the impression he was straight He recently snap shot two pics I took and drew a penis on them to make it look like I was sucking dick.... then text" bravo you don't like (the ...

Ladies what would you suggest? She's caught my eye. But I'm not sure what my next move should be.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

30 January 2017 (M - This will seem funny for a 34 year old man to be seeking advice on. Basically, I go to the same shop a few times a week. There is a lady works there who has really caught my eye, whenever she is there when I go in, I get butterflies and feel...

How do I proceed with this situation? How do I process feeling unwanted if it doesn't work out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

29 January 2017 (F - There is somebody that I like who I am kind of friends with . We get on really well, have lots in common and laugh and joke a lot, as well as chatting when we go to the pub in a group etc. I've been on two holidays with him in a group. I wouldn't...

Should I give up on men? Is there such a thing as a normal guy? I want a relationship with a man.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

29 January 2017 (F - I have have asked for advice before here and wanted to come back a year later to ask maybe what I am doing wrong. I am a woman in my early 30s that has given up on love. I have only been with three men and two had a relationship with. Through t...

He is much older but I want to have sex with him

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

28 January 2017 (F - I knew a guy at work. I'm 22 he is 41. A very sexy man. Do u think he will have something with me after sex. We decided to be friends with benefits. He is in a relationship with a 31 years old . We planned to have sex this weekend. Do you think is ...

We're already close. Do you think he is ready to move on and try something with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

27 January 2017 (F - Hi! Maybe this will be pretty obvious to you but I'm terrible when it comes to relationships and understanding men. I like this friend of mine (we were friends first) and he knows I like him, and we've kissed before but we were always drunk and st...

Do cheating married men usually have more than one mistress?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

27 January 2017 (F - Do married men who cheat, cheat with more than one mistress at a time? Or do some men stay with just one? I am interested in everybody weighing in with their opinions. ...

Should I meet him now, although he stood me up two years ago?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

27 January 2017 (M - Two years ago, I met this guy through a dating site. On the second time, he stood me up, while apologizing a month later giving a thin excuse..I couldn't bring myself to see him then again, even though I liked him.. Some days ago, I chanced ...

I like him and enjoy his flirting. But what should I do? Because I think he has a Gf already

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

26 January 2017 (F - There's this guy I'm talking too. The problem is, I think he has a girlfriend.. We've been speaking a while and a few months ago, he told me that he can't take things forward with me because he has someone. I respected that and we remained to j...

Is this an emotional affair? ?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

25 January 2017 (F - Is this an emotional affair? ? ? Last March- my husband of 27 years (M) was working at a customer's house (he's a contractor), and one day a woman (T) who lived across the street came over to bum a cigarette from one of M's workers. She a...

Are my friends wrong? Is this a sugar daddy relationship? Or do I tell him how I really feel?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

23 January 2017 (F - I moved to a different province for school. I ended up meeting an older guy , he's 41. We decided to not focus on labels and to just have fun , we both agreed that because of our age difference changes are our relationship wouldn't probably last ...

Should I stop holding back? I'm scared to get hurt

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

23 January 2017 (F - Hey all Till now, I've had very hurtful experiences with the guys I've been involved with/liked. I always feel like I've been abandoned or left to myself. And that the other person doesn't feel any remorse in doing so. I know I'm probably wrong ...

How can I get over my sexual frustration without making choices I may regret?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

22 January 2017 (F - Hi I'm 18 this year and there's this guy who I'm really interested in at work. We're kinda friends and flirt and stuff. Not only have I got feelings for him but I'm so sexually attracted to him I sometimes can't think straight. He's a touchy kinda ...

How can I get him back? Or has the damage been done?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

22 January 2017 (F - My boyfriend broke up with me tonight and its my fault. I don't know how to fix this situation . I was with my boyfriend when 2 male friends who have a crush on me wrote me on Facebook. Ive known them since before my current relationship...

My husband's brother is behaving towards me in ways that make me feel uncomfortable. Is my brother in law trying to tell me something ? What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

22 January 2017 (F - I need some advice regarding my husband's brother. We haven't always got on so well because I found him a bit intimidating. He's 12 years older than me and he used to behave a bit strange with me for example: He always accused me of flirting w...

How should I handle this situation? I think something is going on between my mom and my husband

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

21 January 2017 (F - I think there’s something going on between my mom and my husband !! I know this sounds impossible but it seems true !! And I want to get to the bottom of it but don't know how !! My mom's visiting us and it has been here for the past 2 months !...

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