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Archived questions from: November, 2015 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Do I give it a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3059 days ago

30 November 2015 (F) - I met this guy online just over a month ago. From the start he was very intense, touchy feely not in a player way but a needy way. This was a turn off for me, which I told him. He acknowledges that but was still persistent to get to know me. I’m on...

My boyfriend has let his house go it makes me uncomfortable and I can't talk to him about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3070 days ago

30 November 2015 (F) - My boyfriend in the last few months has really let his house go and it's a real mess. It's got to the stage where I don't want to be there, we're long distance so coming to mine isn't always an option. When I've tried to discuss it with him he ...

Is he cheating on me or am I being paranoid?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

30 November 2015 (F) - Hai everyone. ......my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. Two nights ago my boyfriend told he was going to have some beer with his friend/housemate at a local bar. I told him I was okay with it and that he should have fun. Two ...

I'm worred that my girlfriend is going to dump me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3067 days ago

30 November 2015 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for a few months now and it has been great until recently when we spent a whole week together aboard in Spain. At the start it was all lovey dovey but then towards the end she got cold, admittedly I made small ...

Why is my boyfriend looking up engagement rings now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3070 days ago

30 November 2015 (F) - I am living with boyfriends parents to save money for a house deposit. We should have it in about 6 months time! But it will realistically be a year before we actually move out. My boyfriend has always insisted that we do not get engaged whilst u...

Do couples go through stages where they don't have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3070 days ago

30 November 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years. At first, sex was great. It was passionate and it happened often. Now my boyfriend never seems to want sex. What makes me confused is that we still have great chemistry, great conversa...

I think he cheated, he's denying it and I don't know what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3070 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - Basically I found out My boyfriend cheated on me. We went to a freqklash together in June which is a rave and at about 1 in the morning he just left without telling me n was supposed to stay at mine. I thought it was strange. Then I got told about a ...

How do I know what this guy's intentions are?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - Last night wedding. I met a guy he was on the table infront of me. I felt attracted to him but the first time he asked me to dance i said maybe in a bit. I tend to be a bit guarded. Another guy asked me and i turned him down because the other guy ...

Why do women become so much more interesting when you are committed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3068 days ago

29 November 2015 (M) - Hello cupid I'm recently committed after a long time and I have been very comfortable and happy with my girlfriend. Before meeting my girlfriend, many girls showed interest but I was adamant to stay single till I find the person I can be fully mys...

We split 8 years ago. I need to find some happiness. But how? I don't know how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - Hi, it's a long story but will try to make it brief! I was with B the father of my 2 children 10 years.He was absolutely the love of my life and I was totally in love however I am certain it wasn't the same for him. B cheated on me througho...

Why is my boyfriend suddenly indifferent about his ex who's now engaged?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - TDLR my boyfriend is suddenly completely indifferent about his ex after hearing she got engaged. What could be the reason for this sudden change of heart??? Long version: My boyfriend found it extremely hard to let go of his ex. They didn't date...

Should I insist on her leaving her husband before I move to Germany to be closer to her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3048 days ago

29 November 2015 (M) - I have met a German married woman. I am in UK, 57 divorced. She is 44 with 3 children. We met at a party in Germany and she told me her husband no longer has sex with her since 6 years. We talked all night. The past 4 months we talk every day on...

He is getting annoyed at me, and more frequently. What can I say or do to address this issue with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - Hi, I'm a 20 year old student and have been with my boyfriend for just over a year now. We get along really well, and share a lot of the same interests, so it's never hard to find something to do together. I'm very very much in love with him, j...

We have a big decision ahead of us and he's not willing to discuss it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - I'm in medical school and my boyfriend and I (I'm 25, he's 24, dating for 2+ years) have a process we are going through next year called "the match". We each basically have to match to a city and specialty and it involves this complicated algorithm. ...

What does she mean when she says "we are dating"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

28 November 2015 (M) - Been seeing a woman for three months, she says we are dating, so what does that really mean, I told her am not seeing any one else, can that mean we can see others, I don't want to, but I don't know if she is, she says she isn't, but I don't know ...

Do I give my date a second chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

28 November 2015 (F) - I met a guy in his 40s for a drink on Thursday after chatting for two days. The evening went well and I wasnt sure if the chemistry was right but he seemee lokeca good guy. I agreed to meet him Sunday. That night he text he was coming off the dating ...

Did I go too far and say the wrong thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

27 November 2015 (F) - So my crush and I were texting during the black friday sale and I told him I was shopping that's why I havent been able to reply. Then he was like "What'd you get me? ??" (im not sure if emojis show on this site but he put a smug emoji after his ...

I find his smell attractive

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

27 November 2015 (F) - There's someone that I really fancy, and I find their smell really attractive to the point that I can tell whether or not they're in a room just by their smell. Is this weird and does it mean anything?...

Guy asked me out, but he has a female friend who worries me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

27 November 2015 (F) - Met this guy recently and he seems to have a major thing for me and recently told me he liked me. His friends say I am his "type" physically and he is always giving me compliments etc. I told him Id think it over and to give me time. He is not my ...

I'm 67, she's 54 and she thinks I'm too old for her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3073 days ago

27 November 2015 (M) - I am 67 year old man, widowed and I have met a 54 year old lady but she thinks I am to old for her. We have gone out several times and I feel like I am in love with her. But she thinks that I am too old for a relationship with a woman her age. ...

I like him so much but my head says no

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3073 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - I've just got into a new relationship and we made it official. We've been together for 5 weeks but I'm feeling it's not right. I'm feeling more like a handbag used when needed. In the 5 weeks we've been together we've seen each other once. He has ...

How often is a partner in a relationship likely to come home drunk? His actions are causing me concern

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3073 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - Hi all, for those cohabiting and/or married, how often does your partner come home drunk? My boyfriend comes home drunk once a month. We've been living together for half a year. He reaches home around 3,4am, reeks of alcohol and is terribly inco...

Do troubled on again and off again relationships last? Or is she just kidding herself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3074 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - My friend is in a very 'on-off' relationship with her boyfriend. One minute they are best of friends having weekends away together and the next minute they are falling out and he is abusive to her and doesn't speak to her for days - and then the...

What to do? My boyfriend will not stop talking about the past

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - My bf and I are moving in soon, but their is one big issue between us. During our time we've dated until now recently, he was the one who drove all the time to pick and drop me up at my home. I don't have my own car. I rely on my mother to allow me...

Online Dating : is it possible that I'm emotionally unavailable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3073 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - Am I emotionally unavailable. Or is this a combo of both. I started online dating almost a year ago now and have met a few guys. I met one guy who was 10+ older than myself. He seemed very interested in me after our first coffee date and I went...

I do want you, I don't want you - is it my fault?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

25 November 2015 (F) - I feel at cross roads in my relationship. I have been seeing and older woman for two years. We had a rocky start due to her constant lies over her spending time with her ex which resulted in lack of trust on my behalf still even now. I have always ...

Feeling insecure about the future of me and my boyfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

25 November 2015 (F) - Hi, its usually me giving the advice, but now I need some. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year, we did get in to a relationship rather quick, but I don't regret any of it. He really does make me feel special and does take care of me. but ...

Is it just sex, or does he want a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3075 days ago

25 November 2015 (F) - i used to work with this guy over a year ago we got on great but he had a girlfriend. I met him out on Halloween night and we ended up kissing. We were both quite drunk but he did say he had always fancied me and now he's single. Since then we've ...

He can't make up his mind if he wants a relationship with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

25 November 2015 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for about 7 months and we split about 2 weeks ago. For both of us this was the first significant relationship we'd been in. When we first got together everything was going great apart from the sex side of things. I hadn't...

Is he a complete flake or are all men like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

25 November 2015 (F) - About 6 months ago I started talking to this guy on a dating site. I initially rejected him because he was much younger than me (9 years) but I thought he was attractive and agreed to have coffee. He was so flaky that we actually were never able to ...

Tips/Advice on moving in with your significant other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

25 November 2015 (F) - Any tips you guys can give me about moving in with your significant other? I am going to be moving relatively soon with my bf, and I never have done that before. He has in the past when he was younger. He is 26 and I'm 22. But he told me it wa...

How can I prove that I have long term potential and that we could become a long term relationship, without scaring her off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3075 days ago

25 November 2015 (M) - Hi, I know this may sound like I'm fighting a losing battle, but I would love some advice. The other night I had a one night stand with my first ever girlfriend who I broke up with 10 years ago. She is incredibly loyal, lovely with a big heart, s...

Am I over-reacting to his harsh and hurtful comments?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

25 November 2015 (F) - Hello Everyone! Boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. Last weekend, he said things to me that really broke my spirit and was very hurtful. We were getting intimate and he said that I was the only woman who's never made him come,...

How much more can my heart take? Tired of being Mr Nice and getting no where.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

25 November 2015 (M) - I tried again, am done being the nice guy, romantic, sweet talker, opening car doors ,poems,I've tried, an tried again, woman say they want to meet a good guy, well I've had it, am not going to be a bad boy, just don't give all I got. So ladies ...

Why does he act like this when I'm supposed to be the love of his life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - Hi I just want to know what others think to this. I have been with my boyfriend for 18 months. We don't live together yet but are planning to next year. He was my first love and after a number of years apart and us both having been married to other...

I want her in my life, but I don't understand some of her reactions. What's the best way forward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3075 days ago

24 November 2015 (M) - I started speaking to a beautiful and charming woman in August and we met up, spoke a lot on WhatsApp and had a great connection. She was everything I wanted in a woman and we told each other that we loved each other. It was too soon but I think...

He said he's, "marrying me because I want it and he doesn't".Is marriage still a good idea, in the circumstances?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - Im 28 years old and yave been with my boyfriend for 13 years. We have a 10 year old and a 6 year old. We are best friends and cant be away from each other for more than a few hours a day. We are in love. He never proposed but gave me a ring on my 2...

He's disrespectful but I don't want to hurt him. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - I'm sorry if this is a little long. I've been in a relationship now for a little more than a year and a half. I try not to think about the fact that we don't really go out and do much, and we only really spend time at each other's houses. The ...

What should I pay for, in the first month, as I will be away, and not residing there with him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - My bf and I are moving in together. He is paying for the rent, and i'm paying utilities and food. I unfortunately, will be gone for a month and a half with my mother on vacation. We planned this trip out, before I even met him because she is just...

Could my boyfriend have aspergers or ADD or a compulsive disorder?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3075 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - Dea Cupid, My boyfriend is great but has some curious 'quirks' He plays computer games and then tries to rely on me to stop him because he cant stop himself and will otherwise play all night. He enjoys DIY and always has several projects ...

I seek true love and a lasting romantic loving relationship. Are my goals possible?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3075 days ago

24 November 2015 (M) - So, one thing has been driving me crazy lately. I am 21 years old and I have yet to find the girls around me as individuals that I want to date. It seems that the dating experience has changed drastically since the last 20 years. I watch and listen ...

How can I get past the fact that I'm not tall, improve my confidence and successfully date women?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

24 November 2015 (M) - Ashamed to be a short man. I don't feel like I have the same potential as a taller man. Anything positive that I do would be much better if done by a taller man. I am also the shortest guy in my family and every time I meet a relative, family friend ...

Is he sick of me, and bored with me, that he falls asleep, soon after he arrives home?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - Is my boyfriend sick or just sick of me? He is fine and wide awake when he's alone and I'm at work. In the evenings he is fine and awake while out with his mates. He will call me to talk on the phone during his 15 min ute drive home. But once...

How do we start over again in order to have a more harmonius relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid Me and my bf have been together for almost a year ..recently we have been fighting a lot and most of the time it's because of me..otherwise we just happen to get into some misunderstandings. I love him a lot and after several failed...

Is it selfish that I don't want my Bf's sons living with us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - I need Help.. I'm 22 years old and my boyfriend is 35, he has 2 kids 18 and 13 both boys. I am currently 3 months pregnant and couldn't be any happier I'm so excited for my baby we both are, after months of waiting we finally are getting our new ...

Why do I delay leaving him? How do I gather the courage to leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3075 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf of 5 years constantly belittles me, insults me, talks about how other girls look good and how I look v bad in front of them and how old I look, how I don't deserve him... But still comes to me for money, it's been months since w...

Should I take my own advice? Or let down the wall around my heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

24 November 2015 (M) - The woman I've been seeing, for over four months, I've, been treating her really good, but the problem is I've been very romantic, but emotional, a good emotional, telling her all about my past, not holding nothing back, but I find my self not, ...

Plan to marry in 5 years time. We are cautious about a sexual relationship. Should we wait, or not wait??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3078 days ago

23 November 2015 (M) - Hi, Im 22 yrs old and my girlfriend is 21 yrs old. We got into a relationship for a year already. We are both willing to explore each other body and practice safe sex. However, we are concerned about whether we should wait until marriage. For ...

LDR. Did he think, since I am so far away, that he could just do his thing and get away with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3078 days ago

23 November 2015 (F) - Hello. Please help! I have been seeing a guy for nearly a year. LDR. Seeing each other regularly though. He lied to me at the beginning of our relationship about a relationship he had with someone who tried to break us up. He said they never we...

If I was as happy as I thought, would I be wondering all about my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3078 days ago

22 November 2015 (F) - I really hope someone can help me to understand why im feeling like this. I had a pretty bad relationship a couple of years ago, we started off as friends and things got off to a great start and were pretty perfect for the first year but then som...