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Dating: Help and advice

I need some help, I am stuck between a rock and a very hard place.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - This is complicated so bare with me. When my sister was 13/14 a guy of 18 manipulated her and several girls in her grade at school into several situations. He manipulated them into sending naked and sexually explicit photos to him, as well as ...

Should I tell her how I feel or should I let my feelings fade?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

18 October 2009 (M) - i had a thing with a friend and then broke it off, but recently i have been thinking about her allot. she however is in a relationship with someone. i dont know what to do. should i tell her how i feel or should i let my feelings fade?...

Should I wait for her to come, or wait for the eventual breakup?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5309 days ago

18 October 2009 (M) - Hey guys, My gf wants to break up with me because she really think that I cant trust her... We are together only 2 months and it took us 3 years so we can be together. We had a fight because of my best friend and so during a year I ignore her com...

Does she like me or am I just mad?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

18 October 2009 (M) - Situation overview University second year Me: 20 years old, never had a relationship her: 20 years old, six months older than me, no idea about past relationships Well me met about 9-10 months ago. We started just meeting every week or e...

Can a submissive male maintain a longterm relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4667 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - I started dating a man who wants me to dominate him. I have read that a male submissive is almost certainly incapable of truly loving a woman. It was said that they would be incapable of longterm relationship, I need to know if this is true. I am ...

I think my boyfriend might be gay

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - Okay, I just need to get to the bottom of this. I'm going crazy-I have suspicions about my bfs' sexuality and have for awhile now. I feel so alone. I am just curious if anyone else has had experience with men lying about their sexuality and if there ...

I lied about being pregnant and wanting to abort...can I fix this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - hey i think my relationship has just ended for some shit i have done but it did not happen just like that he he push me to it,hear it goes just at the start of my relationship my boyfriend told me that he had sex with my ex-boyfriend's mother but at ...

I feel so lonely and ugly because I cant get a boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - I just need to get my feelings out so if anyones got any advice on how to get through this, or have been in this just leave advice or tips please :( well im going trhough depression, aniexty and low self esteem. ive honestly never felt so u...

Is he not interested in hooking up again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm looking for some advice... I met this guy at a friend's wedding back in August and we got drunk, talked for hours, and hooked up. The next morning we had the usual 'if we're ever in each others cities, we should meet up' chat (we live in...

Could she be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

18 October 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and i had sex a little more than two weeks ago, she's not on any birth control, but i did use a condom. I pulled out with the condom still on, and i made sure the condom wasn't ripped or anything, and NO sperm even touched the vaginal ...

Does this plan have disaster written all over it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - i'm 16 and in high school. ok heres my problem, i like this guy but he likes his ex-girlfriend and he only likes me as a friend. theres this other guy who likes me but i dont like him at all. the guy who likes me wants to set me and the guy i like ...

How can I tell if my feelings towards him are reciprocated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - I've just gotten out of a pretty serious relationship where the guy was someone I thought I could possibly change from his overbearing and controlling nature to the sweet guy that I knew was underneath his obnoxious exterior. During said ...

He uses porn for sex instead of me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - Since me and my partner have been going through a bit of a rough patch for the past few weeks, we haven't been having sex. I recently found some porn websites on his phone...(I was borrowing his phone, as mine broke.) and he had googled up 'hot ...

Why is he playing these games? I'm so confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

18 October 2009 (?) - soo sorry this is rly long, had a helllll of a weekend!! me and my bf had been together for 4 months. but we had been fighting all the time and started to get less close. so on friday (its sunday now) he came over after school and everything was ...

I'm gay and in love with my tutor-councillor from an educational summer program!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5309 days ago

18 October 2009 (M) - I'm gay and in love with my tutor-councillor from an educational summer program I go 2. Over the 6 weeks there I became really close with. He's so gorgeous and my knees grow weak just thinking about him. He's 20 and a junior in college. I'm 17 and a ...

Do her feelings for me extend to me being a possible boyfriend or longer term partner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

18 October 2009 (M) - Firstly, I'm 30 and maybe a little older than the regular users of this site but in my desperation for answers I'm giving this a shot. Heres the story so far.... In March 09 I started a new job, one of my first days was a training inducti...

I want a real boyfriend so I don't have to lie about having one!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - i want know if i will ever find the guy that makes me not be able to think about anthing else. I have never had a real boyfriend its got to the point where my friends think i am so sad that i have started lying to my friends bout having a boyfrie...

Why is he so affectionate in front of others?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - hey folks, ive been with my partner since march. he lives in another country but we visit each other once a month. when we are together during those visits he shows me little affection which im happy with at the time. then when we are in company ...

Her engagement is broken, how do I proceed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

18 October 2009 (M) - Hello everybody, I(39) met a lady(Denise,27) about 2 weeks ago. I hired her for for a part time position in a small business I own. During the first week, she shows great enthusiasm and seems very diligent in her work. She also seems like a ve...

What sorts of things are normal for first dates?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - I was wondering what sort of things are normal for first dates? Like what you should say and do... I only really had 1 first date before and we went to the movies. He hand my hand the whole time because at first he tried messing with my leg and ...

How likely is it they will get together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5311 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - okay. still on the same stupid boy. so quick background info. im 18 hes 21 we moved in together about a month ago. i didnt think i was ready and wanted to get my life together first so i broke up with him and moved back with my family. i realized i ...

Boyfriend over analyzes everything. How do I not sweat the small stuff?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - I am in a new relationship with a great guy and have been dating him for the past 2 months. I am new to the dating scene but he treats me right, talks to me everyday and constantly tells me he cares for me. I really like him and want this to work. ...

Why did he suddenly stop talking to me after our date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - I don't have a lot of dating experience because I had been in a long term relationship for about for years, so please bear with me. A few weeks ago, I met a guy at a friend's birthday party (he's her friend). We danced pretty much exclusively...

Incredibly possessive girlfriend...how do I get space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5311 days ago

18 October 2009 (M) - ok so background. i have been in a relationship for about a month now with one of my bestfriends. we met thru a JROTC thing when some of the underclassmen and my self went streaking before and after the ceremony. we were pretty good friends from ...

Is my jealousy pushing him away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - Dear cupid: I went on my first date with my boyfriend three months ago. During the four first weeks we had great time while getting to know each other. I was always happy and smiling and he told me that he will always like me as long as I remain...

When she's with other guys I get pissed! How do I get to know her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

18 October 2009 (M) - I like this girl, we met a few weeks ago, I say hi whenever i see her in the hall way, whenever we see eachother she looks at me, and sorta gives me a smile, and then looks away. I told her best friend i liked her and her friend over facebook, and i ...

I fancy him but it would be social suicide to go out with him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - This guy at school really fancys me but theres one problem. Hes a geek. I think i might fancy him aswell but it would be social sucide going out with him! He's asked me out loads and i keep saying no. I know your just going to be like well if you ...

She seems to get along better with my friends than me. Should I just give up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

18 October 2009 (M) - me and this girl have liked each other for about 5 years now being at school and we have gotten really close online and talking like we want to be a couple. but when we talk in person, i just get the feeling she dosent want to be there, we dont say ...

I'm having doubts about living with my boyfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - hi im kinda a bit confused with this the thing is im not sure if i really want to live with my bf permantly i stayed at his for bout 8 weeks he lives about 5 hours away b4 coming bk home to my parents it was gd and all but now im back home i keep ...