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If I tell him the engagement is off surely it will break up our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

6 November 2009 (F) - i'm 16 and engaged. my friends think i'm insane but i love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him. it is only a ring and we have agreed not to get married until i have finished university. what is the big deal? maybe it is too soon to ...

My love has ADHD. What are all the things I may need to know to ensure our relationship stays healthy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - Allo! My girlfriend and I have been together for...ah...whoa...21 months, that's nearly 2 years, lol, neither of us realized. I'm 18, she turns 19 in a couple of months and we seem, well, absolutely fine. We'd like to hold on to our relations...

Is it best to confess your feelings for someone or ignore those feelings to avoid rejection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - when we like someone a lot and eventually fall in love with that person, we never think of rejection until later on, but in those situations is it best to either confess to that person or to ignore those feelings to avoid rejection?...

How can I make our first time together a Crazy, Passionate event?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

4 November 2009 (M) - Ok, new girlfriend, new start, mindlessly love her, we are both very close with each other and enjoy each other's company. We've been together for a month and a half, we've both been in sexual relationships before, and i'd like to have a passionate ...

Should I just come clean about why I renewed my commitment to my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted today

4 November 2009 (F) - I've been going through a rough patch with my boyfriend, and another guy started showing an interest in me. I was very interested in this guy too, and we ended up doing a lot of things in the 'grey area' that doesn't quite count as cheating but is ...

What are some GREAT DIRTY things I can text to my new boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - I just started a new great fun relationship and I want to send him dirty dirty text messages when he is away. Please don't hold back and help me come up with things to text. Thanks everyone!...

My boyfriend seems unworthy compared to my long-time crush!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - I had a crush on a guy since the 6th grade. I'm now in the 12th grade and it's turned into a repressed lust/gargantuan crush. My heart skips 68923 beats when I see the kid and every other guy to me (even my current boyfriend) seems unworthy. I don'...

Romantic gift ideas?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - Hi All My partner is a little down lately, and id really like to surprise her with something to cheer her up.. something romantic. The problem is, money is VERY tight right now, and ive done most of the things i can think of (massages, flow...

My mental illness broke us up, and I want her back! do I have a chance? Is there a way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

2 November 2009 (M) - I Dated my ex, the love of my life (I am sure)for 4 years, but my bipolar disorder (diagnosed) ruined our relationship (paranoia, delusions, rage, hypersexuality, and general mania). I am now medicated (lithium), and well. She has a new boyfriend, ...

LDR: I am happy to be faithful to him but I don't want to hold him back, any help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - Hi guys and girls, I'm sorry if this is a long post! Basically...I left home to go traveling for 18 months 6 months ago. I was living with my boyfriend of 2 years and we moved out and I set off.He couldn't come with me because he is doing a PHD i...

Is a monogamous relationship/marriage realistic these days?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - Hey, I don’t post much but I visit the site daily to see the new questions. I think this post is a rant versus a question, but it’s something I’ve been thinking a lot about recently. It’s really been on my mind. I really just don’t kno...

My husband is a neat freak and I don't have any motivation to clean!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - help!i want to stop this emotional maddnes! my husband is a neat freak and i really just dont care. i really cant find motivation to clean the house. i want to, but when its messed up by him hours later i jsut say screw and dont do it anymore. idk ...

I want to be with him, he broke up with his girlfriend for me but now he isn't replying to me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - ive been in love for months with a boy. he works with me, and has told me hundreds of times he loves me too and he really wants to be with me. but he has a "girlfriend" a girl who he texts constantly but never sees face to face. we have hooked up a ...

Does she look at other men? Is she lying to me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

1 November 2009 (M) - I feel terrible. I do not know what to do. I have accused my girlfriend time after time after time of looking at other men and she always insists that she doesn't. But I see her looking around whenever we are outside, so she has to be judging and ...

What should I do about the cold shoulder he is giving me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - He doesnt care to know how am doing or if i even still exist and i dont know what to do.I've always tried to guide my heart against wavering men but i think i just let my wall crumble without even trying to uphold it.i met this guy like 3yrs a go ...

He's gay, but I really really like him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - I am falling in love with my relationships councilor and don't know how to stop feeling like this. I ended my marriage 1 yr ago cause my husband was having sex with men.We were married for 18 years so I am not some ditzy young thing with a silly ...

I think my teacher has feelings for me, what do you think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - Well first of all, hi there! :) Anywho, the question pretty much sums everything up, I believe there could be a chance that my teacher likes me. I know myself that I have strong feelings towards him and I can't exactly say it's a crush because I'...

What are good ways to show affection that women like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

29 October 2009 (M) - I was just wondering if most women like lots of affection from someone there dating..... What are good ways to show affection that women like ?...

This is the man I want to spend the rest of my life with!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - Hello all, I have a complicated situation. I consider myself to be clear of mind and a high thinker. But this problem I simply cannot solve. My former flame and I were together for a short time. A year and a half. He was my first and only everyt...

My friends don't like him and it is affecting my feelings.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - I started going out with this very kind, sweet, and funny guy since two days ago. He is very cute and he treats me like a princess and I know he will never hurt me. However, and I am very bugged by this: The rest of my friends think he is weird. T...

What can I do to get over this? Am I completely nuts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 16 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - Hi, I've got this problem. I just got out of a very abusive six year relationship a few months ago, and there's all this court stuff to deal with. I came to terms with it, and was doing fine. Feeling much better, even relieved because the burd...

She's given up money and material things for love, to be with me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

22 October 2009 (M) - Just looking for some input from women or men, anyone who has been with a lot of money and passed it by for true love. My fiance has dated several very wealthy OLDER men, and I mean very wealthy and I mean very older, like 30 years older. But...

He said "'I just want you to want me". What does that mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - What does it mean when a guy says 'I just want you to want me'? Yesterday I was talking to this guy who i had been dating on and off... we were talking about one of our guy friends and he said he felt happy we were having that talk. He then said he ...

I want to sleep with my girl friend...how can I convince my husband to share?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I have been married for 14 years to a wonderful man that I am very much in love with. However after I got married I realized that I was bisexual. About ten years ago I had a girlfriend that he knew about and I loved her very much. At that time he ...

How do you know when someone is for you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

16 October 2009 (F) - Hello guys, I have kind of a gerenal question. How do you know when someone is right for you/ the right love? I know you have to work for love but how hard. Are you suppose to work really hard or is that just a hint it's not the right love...

Men, when did you realise that your wife was the one you wanted to be with for the rest of your life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 22 days ago

16 October 2009 (F) - To all married men out there, when did you realize that your wife was the one you wanted to marry? How long had you been seeing her before you guys got married and what kind of circumstance was it? Like were you friends first, were you high school ...

I've loved her for over 40yrs. How can I change her mind?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

15 October 2009 (M) - I am embarrassed to ask this as I am 62 years old male. 40years ago I fell head over heels in love with a girl. Our mothers worked together and that is how I met her. She was still in High School. This will sound very odd, but we never dated at ...

Broken Heart, Broken Brain

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - I am 27. My husband and I started dating when I was 20. I loved him very much and he was my very best friend. He passed away a little over a month ago at age 28. He was very sick. I waited on him hand and foot and did everything to try to make him ...

Can anyone reccommend any places to go in the Caribbean for a romantic getaway?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

14 October 2009 (M) - I was wondering what some of everyone's favorite places to go to in the Caribbean for a romantic getaway. What has good night life? What has the best scenery? What has the best beaches? Best hotels/resorts? Best things to do? Most r...

I'm in love but I'm scared to tell her! Advice please

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 24 days ago

14 October 2009 (M) - Im in love with my girlfriend ive been with for 2 months. I have recently had fallen in love with her but im scared to tell her. We already had sexual relationship but besides that its been going perfect. We enjoy each and we miss and think about ...

Is talking on chat lines a form of cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - my husband has recently been talking on this chat line invu, he stay up all night talking to women about things that are inappropriate,i have talked to him about it and he is staying on it. he say it isn't cheating because it is not real, I think it ...

The perfect girl is too close to me to have

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

13 October 2009 (M) - I've been playing in a serious band for almost a year now. One of the members of the band is female. Her and I have become very close, and have pretty much everything in common that we possibly good. The fact that we have the same passion (music) is ...

How do I tell her I'm okay with whatever she decides?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 26 days ago

12 October 2009 (M) - Me and my Muslim female friend told each we liked one another about a month ago we havent talked about our feelings since. so tomorrow i'm planning on telling her to face to face that i have fallen in love with her however i don't know what to say ...

Will a long distance relationship work for us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 26 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - I have fallen in love with a 20 year old man from America and my problem is i AM 27, have a child and i AM living in England We talk every night sing talk on the phone and tell each other how much we love each other We haven't met yet and i wish i...

I'll always be thinking that it could have been me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - I've just found out that the love of my life will be moving back to my hometown in a few months.... with his fiancée! I'll have to tell you guys a little bit of our history so you'll understand the situation I'm in - right now I'm terrible unhappy...

How can I tell if he loves me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - i am in love with this guy, known him for 2years since August 2007, met in church. i watched him secretly and i notice that he also tries to approach me and my sister said he always look at me secretly.the problem is when he approaches me, he did ...

I really want to be with him forever so how do I make sure this happens?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 28 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - Ok so I just recently got back with my ex boyfriend of 1 1/2 months. He races motocross and is in the pro class. He was always gone every weekend to other states so we never got to see one another. [We broke up partly because of this]. Motocross ...

Can you feel it if your soulmate dies without having ever met them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - A very weird question I know but my friend has recently been telling me that she has these really bad aches as though she has lost someone in her life, which she hasn't, and she says it feels like she can never love anyone again but she doesn't know ...

I've been in a relationship for over 3 years now and I'm starting to have doubts.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - Hi. I have a dilemma. I've been in a relationship for over 3 years now and I'm starting to have doubts. He's really sweet, kind, generous, loves me for me, I can be completely myself around him, he's dependable, smart and hard working with a ...

I'm 17 and Confused about the relationship between me and a very good friend, can anyone help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

9 October 2009 (M) - Right, Hello um...where do i begin... i am a recently turned 17 year old studying art in my second year at college. When I started my first year, theres this girl that was in my course but not in my that i found attractive but was to shy to approach...

He says I'm amazing, but doesn't show it. Does he really like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - hey guys! im 20 years old. I've been talking to this boy for like 3 months now, he's perfect, sweet, and stoburn there's times we fight a lot but we make up right after I have never felt so right in my life....problem is that he only says that he ...