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Marriage problems: Help and advice

I stayed through fear, now worried my life is over and his is just beginning again

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted today

27 March 2017 (F - Ok I need some help to deal with something that I know is really silly so I need some support here please . I've been with my husband and father of my children for twenty years . Over the course of our marriage he has had a problem with pirn and ...

Is she just lazy or what?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

25 March 2017 (M - This has been eating away at me for way too long! I feel like my wife never thinks about me. More times than I probably should I go out of my way and above and beyond for my wife. For Christmas, she was saying that she wanted a specific makeup. I ...

Married five months and husband wants me to have an abortion.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

23 March 2017 (F - I've recently got married to my husband. We are very happy, and I have never felt more secure in all my life. We agreed to wait a few years before having children, and to focus on renovating our house which we brought before Christmas. We'll on ...

Am I being hidden from the ex and his kids?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

20 March 2017 (F - Hello. I am hoping you are able to put my mind at rest really. I've been in a relationship with a guy for five months and it's all good. He lives about an hour away, and he has three kids who are another couple of hours away from him with his ex,...

My husband is giving me all these std's , do you think he cheated?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

18 March 2017 (F - Do you think my husband cheated? Hi! so, nine days ago my husband went out with his coworkers to have some drinks and he didn't call me to say he'll come home late or what he would be up to. This left me with a bad feeling because It was weird, you ...

His porno preference is ruining our marriage

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

18 March 2017 (F - I simply can't accept that my husband wanted to look at porn with women that were the age of our daughter, around 20. I find this disgusting and don't seem to be able to get past it even though he tells me he isn't looking at it anymore. It's not ...

Wedding plans. What can I say to my sister and yet not upset her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

13 March 2017 (F - I am getting married in September and have chosen my bridal party. My sister is supposed to be a bridesmaid in my bridal party. We had a falling out after I had asked her and she had said she no longer wanted to be a part of the wedding. The re...

Spectre of my wife's past has come back to haunt us

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

12 March 2017 (M - 2-3 weeks before I met my wife she did a professional porn video in which she says she was actually coming from another man's house where she had had sex with him. Along with that she revealed other things that she never told me and that she has ...

Am I expecting too much of my wife? I desire to make love to my wife, but she says it stresses her out when I initiate

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

12 March 2017 (M - I have been married for over 21 years. The last three years have been quite challenging as my wife, who is 3 year older than me, is going through menopause and hormonal changes. I am empathetic and offer my support and encouragement as she goes thr...

Husband found out about my promiscuous teen years

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

11 March 2017 (F - I've been married 3 years and my husband and I have a great relationship based on trust on we don't keep secrets. I was recently contacted on Facebook by Erica, a high school friend. When we were in school, we were promiscuous. We did girl on g...

Husband's penis smells like condoms and we never use them!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

10 March 2017 (F - Yesterday my husband came very late from work, and he had been drinking and his penis smelled like condoms!, Earlier he called me from work and said hey! I want to take you to the mall and didn't say for what reason, he wanted it to be a surprise ...

Porn related little white lie - should I let it go?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

10 March 2017 (F - Should I bring it up or let it go? My husband is very busy running three businesses. He gets very stressed with it. Sometimes he masturbates to porn to relieve tension - I know all this, it's not every day or all the time. Sometimes I use his ...

My husband is a serial cheater. Am I fooling myself to think he will change?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

7 March 2017 (F - I have been married to my husband for 23 years. We were young when we got married - 20 and 21. Early on in our marriage he cheated on me twice. I was not very confident back then and terrified of being alone, so I forgave and stayed. And I guess ...

Secured Long-Term Relationsihp vs. Unconditional Love Affair

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

6 March 2017 (F - I'd like to introduce myself as Len. I am 26-year old and I am married to an engineer who currently works in Saudi. We have been married for 2 years already but we've been having this relationship for 8 years and we have been blessed with a 5-year ...

I have not been able to conceive and feel I am letting my partner down.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

4 March 2017 (F - I have a dilemma. I've been trying to conceive for two years no luck. I have been for scans and my Dr found that I have cysts on my left ovary,Yet he says it's normal. I'm 31 and I'm starting to suffer with depression from all the disappointment. ...

Garment crisis in the carpark

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

3 March 2017 (F - Hello everyone, My husband and i work in the same company different departments . So i just came from ethiopia to USA and i am experiencing cultural shocks! so the other day there is a fire alarm at work and all co-workers had to stay outside in ...

I am sure my fiance's mother will be a fantastic grandma, but could she also be a "monster in law" in disguise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

2 March 2017 (F - hi.. great day.. i need to share my thoughts and get some honest opinion from some experienced people from here.. im going to marry in the next couple months and move into my fiance house. theres his parent and sister family on the extended par...

Married 20 years. Yet he's not consulting with me over big decisions. Do you think my husband should have discussed this financial decision with me first, before announcing it at a family function?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

2 March 2017 (F - Hi Aunts and uncles, Recently my husband of 20 years and I had a dispute. I was surprised by something he did and told him that he should have discussed it with me before, as I would have done in his situation. He got angry with me and instea...

My married lover won't commit to me.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

1 March 2017 (F - Been having a relationship with a married man for 11 years, I have asked him on numerous ocassions for me and him to be a proper couple.....but even though he says he wants to in the future he can't right now because of the impact it will have on ...

I feel my heart has been ripped from my chest!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

1 March 2017 (F - My husband and I habe been married for 2.5 yrs and were both 22. He just got deployed a month ago but all of this started happening well before he got deployed. Id say for the past yr that weve moved back to his home state its felt like he pushes me ...

I was cheating and my husband found out.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

1 March 2017 (F - Im a 28 year old female whos been having an intense sexual affair with another man for the past three years..my husband recently found out about us and told me to stop or else..I stopped seeing this other man, hoping my relationship with my husband ...

I am a married woman who has sex with strangers when I travel for work!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

28 February 2017 (F - I am a married female looking for some help. This is going to sound crazy but I have always had a high sex drive. I met my husband and everything was great. We had two kids, and he is such a good man. Provides well, if I had to honestly rate hi...

I'm scared to follow my dreams in case my past could be viewed as a scandal!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

26 February 2017 (F - I married a man who is my mother's ex-boyfriend's younger brother. Let me explain. So my mother dated a guy for two years, ten+ years ago. I was 18/19 at the time. The man lived with us as a 'step-father'. I was never around due to college, a jo...

Can anything be saved in my marriage. If so, how?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

26 February 2017 (M - I need help.. my wife of 33 years has slept in separate room for 5 years.. she works but dosent contribute to mortgage, and all her income goes into her own bank. Mine goes into joint account, and she buys things out of this account. We have no ...

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