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I lied to my husband about maxing out my credit card and he found out

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted yesterday

19 January 2017 (F - So today my husband found out that i maxed my (our) credit card. He was upset by this. Which i dont blame him. Ive totally broken his trust in me. I was going to say that i dont know why i lied about it. But i do. I lied because he gets ver...

Is he using me? He's spending more time with his ex than he spends with me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted yesterday

18 January 2017 (F - I'm going out with this bloke on and off for over a year now, but what gets to me is he spends most off his time at his ex's house. He says he's there for kids but half of the time the children are not there. He leaves at 8:00 in morning and ...

This bothers me a lot. What can I do? Married nearly 15 years and now my wife is no longer interested in Bjs.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted yesterday

18 January 2017 (M - Been married for nearly 15 years. My wife has basically decided that she will no longer perform oral sex on me. It's not like I was getting once a week, in fact once every two years is more like the current rate. When we first married, it was some...

Married recently. Are these marriage problems happening too soon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

18 January 2017 (F - My husband and I just got married about a month ago, unfortunately we can't live together because neither of us have a job at the moment. Although we are looking. We see each once or twice a month. We text everyday and FaceTime, but now all of s...

I'm in a long-distance marriage and at a loss! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

17 January 2017 (F - I am in my second marriage and my husband and I live in separate states. There is, of course, a backstory...but my main issue is simple. He does not make our marriage a priority. In this day and age, I don't even hear from him every day. If I do, I ...

Logically I know it doesn't matter, but I am struggling with my Girlfriend's past!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

16 January 2017 (M - I know a lot of you are going to say this is just another guy with hang-ups and insecurities suffering from hypocritical retrospective jealousy – and to a certain extent you may be right – but I really am desperate to fix this (fix myself?), so ...

I'm concerned that my wife is texting a younger male co-worker outside of work!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

13 January 2017 (M - My wife is a manager in a small store of 20 employees. She texts and Facebook messages a male employee half her age. The texts/messages are both work related and non work related. Non work related include videos of songs and home decor along basic ...

I don't fantasize about other men so is it wrong that I feel upset that my husband uses porn?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

12 January 2017 (F - I've read a lot of information on porn use following some tension between my husband and I over his use of it . When we first married I did tell him that I was not wanting to be in a relationship with someone who used porn and he assured me he ...

The sex is good but I want more!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

9 January 2017 (F - I'll get straight to the point: I'm not happy with my sex life. I'e been with my husband for 15 years, we're married for 4. we are happy in our realtionship- though there are always things to work on. He works a lot, which is fine. He is caring and ...

He wants to move in, I said not without marriage.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

9 January 2017 (F - Dear Cupid ,I'm at a time in my life now my kids are grown and now I just want to do me.I have this one guy friend who wants a relationship with me and then hopes of marriage. Our kids are all grown and some have children of their own.He wants to ...

My husband wants me to date other men for sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

9 January 2017 (F - I have been married for 17 years my husband for the past 5 year asks med to have sex with other men while we are having sex it gets him harder, should I? I have explained to him sex is more then sex to me, he says for me to go out and date then. I ...

He's asked for another separation because it's hard for him that I don't trust him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

9 January 2017 (F - I been with my husband for 15 years. About 6 years ago we briefly seperated because he started talking and texting with this girl from work. He said that it was nothing but deep inside me always screamed that it was something. We got back together ...

I need advice on making my marriage better. Should I feel guilty about the flirtation I had on a weekend away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

8 January 2017 (M - I need some advice on making my relationship better. I'm married and have been for 13 years, the first thing I want to say is I love my wife. I am in my mid 40's whilst my wife is 7 years older than me, up until last year I was fairly overweight ...

Am I over reacting to husband's online interaction with another woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

8 January 2017 (F - me and my husband are having some problems, maybe its all me i dont know but anyway.. few yeas back i caught him deleting messages from a co worker he said it was nothing but just didnt want me to get the wrong end of he stick so thought he would...

I am finding it increasingly difficult to deal with my in laws!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

8 January 2017 (F - I am finding it increasingly difficult to deal with my husbands family . He has several family members who beliefs and behaviour are very challenging and they sometimes stay with us as they live interstate . Some are currently or were in the past ...

I don't feel good that my husband talks to his ex behind my back! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

6 January 2017 (F - I have been cheated on in the past and I just can't stop with snooping. I've talked to my husband about it but I just keep finding him communicating with his ex and he deletes them right away. I just saw that he told her I don't like them keeping in ...

He promised to change if we got married ....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

4 January 2017 (F - I am currently married 5 moths this January, we where engaged for a year and dated a year and 1/2 prior to that. Well now I want a divorce! My husband is the man I married and he swore that after we got ,arrived things would change, but still 5 ...

Should I tell my wife I've been visiting massage parlours?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

3 January 2017 (M - I'm a married man in my early 50s with a big secret. I've developed a habit of visiting massage parlours and receiving massages that end with sexual stimulation and orgasm. This started a few months ago and I love the excitement of headin...

Wedding is booked. But groom has cold feet. He's 40 and is fearful of commitment. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

1 January 2017 (F - Hi We are due to get married in just a few weeks time. A number of days ago, my fiancee has said to me he has cold feet about the wedding and is overcome with nervousness and fear about the day itself, growing up and getting married. We are ...

My husband made 160 phone calls in one month to his female coworker! Advice?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

1 January 2017 (F - Geez - where to begin? Suffice it to say that about a year ago I began a downward spiral into depression. (The triggering event was horrific, but unrelated to my marriage). Anyway, I am definitely not myself, anymore, nor do I adequately fulfill the ...

Waiting for a proposal for 3 years and then the ring was not to my taste. Am I worrying about things that matter in this situation?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

1 January 2017 (F - Iv been waiting over 3 and a half years for a proposal for a wedding After much nagging about marriage I got a proposal with a 219 pound argos ring when he earns over 20 000 per annum which shows no saving as he bought even this on a per monthly ...

My husband is constantly looking at other women and doesn't even try to hide it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

31 December 2016 (F - My husband constantly looks at other women not a slight glance a full look , and repeatedly looks at same woman if we are out on a social event . I feel very upset by this as surley the woman in question can see that he is with me yet still looking ...

He lies about money, I am fed up with being his doormat!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

30 December 2016 (F - I would love your opinions please on whether I am being unfair or judgmental. Me and my husband have been together for 15 years. Over the years I have caught him out in lies over money. About five years ago his aunt passed away, I knew she had left...

My marriage is emotionally unfulfilling and dead. Should I stay or leave?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

29 December 2016 (F - I'm in a marriage that could be described as comfortable . Both of us treat each other very nicely , the sex is good on a physical level ( although no emotional component really ) and we have built an good life together over twenty year . The ...

Why do some men say things to their partner the man thinks may sound supportive, and yet concurrently they collect pictures of women and porn?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted yesterday

24 December 2016 (F - I know this might seem a dumb question but it's bothered me in a lot of relationships I've been in as I've noticed most guys seem to do it and think it's no big deal to lie about it . Why do some men say things to their partner like 'you're the only...

How could she have a three year sexual affair with this guy, and still have sex with me??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

22 December 2016 (M - I recently discovered that my wife has been having a sexual affair with a single friend of ours for the past three years, usually when I was at work.... he is single and has had girlfriends in this three year period..She knew this because he came ...

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