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Marriage problems: Help and advice

Should married couples seek outside help or try to work it out on their own?

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13 May 2008 (F) - Should married couples get help with their problems from third parties? Or thrash it out at home? One to one using their own brains....

Girls, would you feel neglected???

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13 May 2008 (F) - Girls: would you be offended if your b.f. or husband never called you when he was on his breaks at work, but he went online and checked his email, and looked at other websites when on breaks? I used to call my husband about once a day when I knew he ...

Problem with snooping - but it leads me to suspicious things, should I keep confronting my husband?

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13 May 2008 (F) - I have a problem with snooping, i will be upfront about it, but the only reason I keep doing it is I always find something, but not anything concrete and my husband always has a great story for instance I found a print out of a conversation between ...

Why do I always put down my husband?

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13 May 2008 (F) - I love my husband. Why do I always seem to put him down? I think that he is the most generous smart lovable good person that I've ever met. He is very shy, not real forthcoming with his feelings or affection for that matter. Doesn't like bei...

I hate having sex. My home life is boring. Has love gone?

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13 May 2008 (F) - i have been married for 20 years. I had a fling with a married man because I was so bored of my home life. My daughter has left home 2 years ago, although my fling happened when she lived at home. I spent more of my time with my daughter as we ...

He said it was all in fun, and that receiving her messages and contact made him feel good.

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13 May 2008 (F) - I have had some personal family crisis problems in the past 3 months, and had not been very nice or very effectionate to my husband. In the weeks that I had my problems, he started talking to a 23 year old girl on line which was harmless at first...

Is it just me or is anyone else feeling concerned about the amount of unfaithfulness goin on here?

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13 May 2008 (F) - Is it just me or is anyone else getting scared as hell of the amount of unfaithful married couples goin on here? This makes me super frightened to be married! Dosnt anyone believe in a commitment these days? No wonder the divorce rate is sky high, ...

I'm in love with her but she denied my feelings. She insists we stay friends!

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12 May 2008 (?) - Hello, I am a female in love with another female. The woman I am in love with has denyed she feels the same way. However I am convinced she does feel the same way, but because she is married and because of other circumstances she is not admitting it ...

I'm feeling unbelievable lust for this man other than my husband. What are your thoughts on open marriage?

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12 May 2008 (F) - Help! I am married to a wonderful man for 7 years now. We have 3 wonderful kids. I was out with my girlfriend and met this Brad Pitt look-alike from Brazil. He is so amazing in so many different ways. In the heat of the moment i shared with him a ...

Has any one ever had a fling, and regretted it as much as I do? And what did you do about it?

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12 May 2008 (F) - hi all, please help me, i am so afraid that my husband will find out about a fling i had with a man a few months back. I love my husband with all my heart and am so upset, because i made a stupid, stupid mistake and i just cant forgive myself f...

My husband had an affair which resulted in the other woman falling pregnant. The child is almost due, what is the best way to handle this?

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12 May 2008 (F) - This is complex - and difficult to write about succinctly...I'll give it a go! My husband had a year long affair. He tells me he tried to "end it" many times prior to me finding out - but felt guilty and like he owed the OW something. To make mat...

I am so sexually frustrated and all the masturbating in the world cannot help me!! Can you??

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11 May 2008 (F) - Hi everyone. I have a major problem with my marriage. Although my relationship with my husband is great in every other way, the sex is so lame that i cannot take it. It´s pretty much the usual 2-minute missionary intercourse under the covers w...

My husband of almost 18 years said he wasn't happy and has moved out, how do I cope?

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11 May 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been together for almost 18 years. We have two wonderful teenage daughters. We have had a great marriage - no real serious problems. We hardly ever fought. We have always been a close knit family, went on trips a couple ...

If you, too, faced the dilemma to stay in a comfortable but ultimately unfulfilling marriage... what did you choose and how did it go?

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11 May 2008 (M) - This is a question for those who faced the huge dilemma to stay in a 'comfortable' but ultimatley unfulfilling marriage (no children involved) or to leave and begin again 'alone', i.e not straight into another relationship. Those who decided to l...

My husband doesn't want to have sex anymore, is it time to move on?

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11 May 2008 (F) - I thought this was the perfect man for me. we were so in love when we got married. We made love several times a day. We loved to hang out together, talk for hours. We have not made love in a very long time.. almost a year. I constantly asked him ...

My wife had sex with our neighbour. How do I get past this?

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11 May 2008 (M) - Hi, I live in india. Six months back my wife came to me and confessed to me that she had sex with my neighbour and very much regretted for that. Also promised that hereafter she won't do like that again. Initially I consoled her and accepted bec...

I feel like he only stays around because I complain or force him... what can be done?

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11 May 2008 (F) - i'm 27 married with 3 kids (5yrs,1yr, and 1mon old) and a step-daughter (4yrs). My husband and i have been having problems from day 1 even before we got married. My husband likes to be with his friends a lot. We don't go out no more and all i do i...

Will having sex with this woman make me stop yearning for her, alleviate this sexual frustration so I can focus on my marriage?...

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11 May 2008 (F) - I'm getting concerned about my sexual feelings for my wife, as I've been strongly attracted to a very attractive and wholesome woman at work, and I came to learn she feels the same as me, and she is also married. There has been no sex between us a...

Why is all the good not remembered, just my inadequacy?

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11 May 2008 (M) - many years of being loving and loyal in a marriage, does it really matter? being disabled leaving me lacking in the intimacy department, so it is not as often as it use to be, i thought i was living a life of love,but now she says it is not enough. ...

Husband wants to leave me with no reason. He agreed, reluctantly, to see a counsellor. I'm so sad!

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10 May 2008 (F) - My husband of 16 years has been unhappy for a long time. When I would ask he would say it is not about me and it is just about his job and to just be patient. It got to the point where he was falling asleep on the coach and over the last year not ...

My family thinks I let his wife ruin our relationship too much, and I worry a lot...!

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10 May 2008 (F) - i wonder if my boyfriend will ever be just mine.I am 22 and he is 34. we have been together for almost 6 months and he is still married but is living with me. He also has 3 kids with his wife so i know he talks to her cause of the kids and divorce ...

There's ranting and there's ranting, but his ranting is a little too much! I've had my rant, now it's your turn!!!

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9 May 2008 (F) - I've been married to my new husband for 6 weeks now. When we first met, he was kind, loving and caring towards me - but now he's changed. At the wedding he ranted about everything - and about everyone at the wedding and in the wedding speech. ...

What do I do? It hurts to let him go. I do love him.

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9 May 2008 (F) - Do I stay with my husband or leave him either for my lover, or to be alone? I have been married for 4 and a half years. I stopped wanting my husband and have been having sex with him when he wants it for just over a year of that marriage. He kn...

My husband offered me to his friend. Does he just want an open relationship?

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9 May 2008 (F) - House party out of control. I am rather confused and upset. I have been with my husband for 5 years, married for 3 with two young children. We used to have house parties all the time and my hubby would either not drink or drink very little, he was a...

I am madly in love with a married colleague and I want him for me at any cost!

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9 May 2008 (F) - I am married. It was love marriage. Recently i started working in an insurance company and there i met a guy named Rajan. He very warm, friendly and funny guy and i attracted towards him and fell in love with him. I'm madly in love with him ...

How can I get my husband to have sex with me??

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9 May 2008 (F) - I am 32 and my husband is 40 we have been married nearly 10 months. Before we were married we had lots of sex, now its once a week if that. We both work hard and can be invoicing until late at night, when we do finally go to bed we are shattered. ...

My husband fell out with me on our wedding night, it was terrible! Will he react this way again?

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9 May 2008 (F) - My husband fell out with me on our wedding night, it was terrible, I spent the whole night crying and he said he didn't love me and it was over.. well you might ask how did it all start? Well after many stressful months of planning the day arrived ...

Should I leave my wife because our sex life is virtually non existent?

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9 May 2008 (M) - Hi i'm thinking of leaving my wife, i like her in many ways but our sex life is virtually non exsistance. I've met a wonderful woman aged 18 who is beautiful and works as a model. The sex is absolutely fantastic. Do think there is a chance for us, ...

Would you stick it out just for the kids?

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9 May 2008 (F) - I am married 11 years with 2 kids. We have been living abroad for the past year. This is our first time away from fam/friends. He has made the move as he moved from another country to mine 15 years ago. Our relationship has never been passoinate ...

I've had affairs and feel stuck in my current marriage because of my child. I want to be in a marriage where I feel loved!!

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9 May 2008 (F) - I am in a marriage that I am not happy in. I am still here because he is not the biological father of my son. They love eachother very much. How can I take that away from my child. I have had 2 affairs in the past and I am just sick of not being ...

I am in big mess I don't know how to come out of it.

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9 May 2008 (F) - Iam a 28 year married woman.I am going through a bad phase in life,Iam not happy with my marrige coz i found this guy who is single and very caring.When i met him first time we just clicked,i like everything about him.There were problems in my ...

Do I have to tell my parents right away about our marriage plans?

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8 May 2008 (F) - My boyfreind whats to marry me, he wants to have a long engagment. Im totaly up for it and we are perfect with eachother I just wondering I dont have to tell my parents straight away do i? ...

Have you any advice for things I could do to improve mymarried but lonely life?

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8 May 2008 (F) - I am 33 years old and moved 2 hours away from my home town to where my husband lives when we got married. We both have our own businesses and work hard. My husband works long hours, and also plays a lot of football so I tend to be on my own quite a ...

Near perfect marriage and then she says she doesn't love me

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8 May 2008 (M) - Ok..long story..I,m 51 yrs and my wife is 41yrs. We both were married to other people. Her ex cheated on her causing a strain on there relationship. We meet thur mutual friends and started seeing each other. I was in the process of an divorce as ...

Does my husband fancy Miss Perfect?

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8 May 2008 (F) - I am concerned about my husbands feelings towards miss perfect? Dan and I had been married about 3 months when we were invited to his freinds wedding reception, as soon as we walked in i noticed a gorgeous girl i immediately felt inferior. Then i ...

My husband had an affair but seems to show little remorse!

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8 May 2008 (F) - My husband had an affair but seems to show little remorse. He says according to Darwins theory he is just an alpha male and i should be glad to be with him, and he will continue to sleep with as many women as he can. I do love him but i find his ...

I can't cope with his porn habit-Could our marriage survive this?

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8 May 2008 (F) - Ok, deep breath, here we go. I'm in a lot of pain at the moment and don't know where to turn so I hope someone out there can help me. I've been married for nine months. Three years ago when we were due to move in together I found out that he'...

Has anyone else experienced a rekindling of feelings for an ex from the distant past?

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8 May 2008 (M) - Many years ago, back in high school, I dated a wonderful woman whom I was deeply in love with. For various reasons, we broke up but I never forgot her. After high school I saw her a few times but was never able to reconnect with her. I have thought ...

Should I tell my husband about a fling I had?

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8 May 2008 (F) - Hi all, well my situation is, i was wondering should i tell my husband about a fling i had. (Sorry this is a bit long) We hit a very rough patch in our marriage at the time. My husband left me for three months, no reason given, i was devastated...

Can marriages actually improve after an affair? Or am I just kidding myself?

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8 May 2008 (F) - I have been with my partner 8 yrs, married 2. I discovered he was having an affair about 6 mths ago - at which point he ended it with the OW (he'd seen her on and off for 1 year). I know their connection was emotional as well as sexual - which hurts ...

I am having trouble meeting my husband's sexual needs. Any suggestions to make him want me?

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8 May 2008 (F) - I can not seem to satisfy my husbands sexual needs, I am tired with work and kids etc. Trying to take care of myself to feel better about myself-which is starting to work. But I have no imagination for new ideas and am uncomfortable to initiate ...

We are having an affair, could he be really looking for love while being married...?

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7 May 2008 (F) - I am a married woman, having a affair with a married man. We just kind of fell into it and were clear that we both wanted more than what a affair offers but willing to see where this goes. Neither of us I suppose are ready to call it quits in our ...

A husband's gripe...how can he talk with his wife without offending her?

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7 May 2008 (M) - The family tells her they want a certain brand of food, but she buys bargain brands that don’t taste good, a taste that requires another to kill the awful taste. She goes and buys supplies for building plotted plants. The fertilizer is such tha...

Romantic music for a wedding - ideas please.

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7 May 2008 (F) - Hi, This is probably an unusual one! But I am looking for help in regards to picking out music for an upcoming wedding ceremony! I dont want anything too lonely as it will be lonely enough. But ideas of more romantic tone. The main one I am having ...

I want to write my husband a letter about how hurt I am due to his cheating and what this marriage means to me!

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7 May 2008 (F) - i have just found out that my husband was cheating on me for the last 3 months he has decided to leave the other woman and work things out between us for the sake of our marriage and for our 2 kids. i want to send him a letter telling him how hurt...

How can I convince him that we will still be our children's parents, after we split?

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7 May 2008 (F) - I am in the process of getting a divorce and my husband just wont let go. We have two kids, 6 and 3. When he was a baby his mom didn't make all the right decisions, so now he thinks that it will be the end of the world for our kids too, and is tryi...

When I'm not around he's a totally different person.

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7 May 2008 (F) - My husband made friends with a co worker, all 3 of us work together, although I'm not there that much because it isn't my main job. He had been helping her move, hugging her, posing for pics, playing golf with her ex husband, and even had a secr...

How do I get my wife have sex with me?

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6 May 2008 (M) - How do I get my wife have sex with me ...

I recently found out he'd been looking at pictures of "tgirls"....

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6 May 2008 (F) - Hello. I'm a 24 year old businesswoman and my husband is 26. Our sex life has become non-existent lately - every attempt I made to seduce him was refused, even when I wore sexy lingerie (which he used to love!) I recently found out he'd been lookin...

I shut down about a year ago and no longer want to be with him. How can I get him to understand it's over for me?

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6 May 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been married for over ten years and during this time he has let me down over and over again. He is irresponsible, a cheater (caught one time), lacks motivation and always says he is going to work on things. I shut down abo...