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What do I do? Feeling really down about the future of our relationship. I'm scared that I'm going to lose him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted today

25 February 2017 (F - I'm feeling really down hoping someone can shed some light. I had an affair last year. I absolutely hate myself for it and feel like I've really let my husband and children down, my husband found out and it understandably broke his heart. We tal...

Should I move on? She had a crush on this guy previously. They've had recent conversations with each other

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted yesterday

21 February 2017 (M - I recently found out that my wife is having inappropriate conversations with someone who she had a crush on several years ago. I know for a fact that she asked this person a hypothetical question saying "Let me ask you something, what if I say he...

How can this be resolved? I want a Baby. He couldn't think of anything worse.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted yesterday

21 February 2017 (F - My husband told me the other day he never wants to have children. I’m devastated. Don’t get me wrong I love him completely and can appreciate that it’s just how he feels but I feel angry and bitter and am having serious thoughts about leaving him if ...

He looks at naked women online but said he'd leave if I posted nudes of myself!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

21 February 2017 (F - I want to post nude pics of myself on an amateur site . It excites me to imagine men getting off to pictures of my naked body . My husband is against it and says he will leave . He looks at other men's wives naked and at porn . Why is it ok for him ...

Feel like I'm never going to be enough for him. Is my husband gay or just into weird stuff ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

18 February 2017 (F - My husband of 12 years has been web camping girls for 8 years about anal play, pegging and being dominated. I just found out and have taking it hard. He has even had advertisements for meeting girls. He says it because he didn't think I would lo...

Will my life improve? What do I need to do? I feel so alone and scared.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

15 February 2017 (F - Am a 41 year old woman and I've asked for help and taken advice from here. Which is probably why I'm back. Asking for advice. I'm divorced from an alcoholic husband and with the advice given to me, I have even found the strength to end an affair...

Is my wife secretly interested in a threesome?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

15 February 2017 (M - So we've been married now for 3 years. And we have 2 beautiful boys. Our romantic relationship is starting to get better than it ever has been in the past and my wife(Bev) and I are really enjoying ourselves and each other. Bev only has a couple ...

I don't want to snoop through his phone but I think my husband is cheating

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

14 February 2017 (F - I'm worried my husband is cheating. We've been married 7 years and have had the happiest relationship. He started a new job 6 months ago and his behaviour has changed. He's started keeping his phone on silent, or constantly on his person, somethin...

Is there any future for this marriage? Since he cheated I have turned to cheating too.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

13 February 2017 (F - My problem is I am not sexually attracted to my husband ,at all. The only way for me to be at ease is if I get really drunk to have sex with him .But he don't like that . I can't have sex sober with him.Since he cheated on me I lost all lost I had ...

She made me wait until marriage for sex, but we are now married and still no sex!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

13 February 2017 (M - I know these questions get asked plenty of times - and I know there is no cut and dry answer, but here is my story. I'm 34 years old and my wife of 5 years is 24. She wanted to wait until marriage to have sex which was more than fine for me seei...

My husband cheated on me with his brother's wife and now she's saying her child is his. Do I stay or leave? We have children of our own.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

11 February 2017 (F - i just found out my husband of 17 years slept with his brothers wife on his wedding night. This is the most disgusting thing I have ever heard or had to endure, the pain that i am going through is so unbearable. His brother met his wife 3 years...

Our naughty nights have turned into fights over porn and role playing

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

10 February 2017 (F - I've got problems please help! Over a year ago now, My hubby and I were only having sex once a week due to hubby getting a giant workload so we decided to make it special and naughty! We put porn on and dress up all sexy in a school uniform a...

How can I accept the fact that the man who loves me does not want to marry me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

7 February 2017 (F - I am looking for some advice on how to deal with a situation. My partner and I are in our 50s and have been together for an incredibly happy 18 months. He is kind, considerate, generous, loving, and everything I could wish for. We are bo...

I saw a condom in his wallet and now it's gone!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted yesterday

5 February 2017 (F - I am in a very deep pain. And I have no where to go and ask. Please help. I am married for 15 years. I have three kids. I saw a condom in my husband wallet when he went on a trip to New York with his friends. How i found out was Taking out money fo...

Isn't this cheating? I'm distraught and stunned that he visited at least three mens' homes to masturbate

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

5 February 2017 (F - I just found out my husband of 23 years, who has not had relations with me by his own accord for 12 years, more than half of my marriage, has been registered on gay and swinger websites. I found out all this on my own and have filed for divorce....

Should I bring this up for discussion? It feels like he does not trust me anymore.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

4 February 2017 (F - My husband and I separated nearly a year ago due to my infidelity. We recently reconciled and moved back in together. I missed him so much and have grown up a lot over the separation. Although I couldn't be happier that we are getting a second c...

Coming out for both of us is out of the question. Should I try to make both relationships work concurrently?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

4 February 2017 (F - I am married with two children but in love with my bestfriend who is a girl My husband is not aware that i am bisexual...but he suspects...and knows that my best friend is weird..but he is the most understanding and loving man..i love him and wan...

What happened to my dream girl? Do I just go along with her? Or call off the wedding and be done with her?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

4 February 2017 (M - Sorry if this is long just bare with me because I need help. My girlfriend has ruined our relationship and I feel like she just wanted me for money. I need to know what other people think. I can't talk to my family or friends because they all...

I've tried talking about our problems but he doesn't listen ... what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

2 February 2017 (F - Hiya me and my boyfriend are both 30 we've been together for 4 years we have a 1 yr old daughter together the problem is ever since we got together we don't do anything together I've talked to him about it and we planned a date night once a month ...

My husband has Erectile Dysfunction issues and yet is not interested in seeing the Doctor about this. I get no satisfaction. What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

1 February 2017 (F - Hey, my husband couldn't have sex with me. It's been a year since our wedding and I'm still being a virgin , I want to experience it. He says that he has early ejaculation and erection issues too. He never really tried to have with me but he a...

Gave up my family and now he treats me badly

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

30 January 2017 (F - Hello all. I'm married for 20 months now. It was a love marriage, a run-away marriage actually. My husband was the nicest man ever. So polite so caring so adorable. After I ran away from my home and few months passed he changed. He has become...

How can I end this selfishness in my marriage?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

30 January 2017 (F - Hi guys. Im just looking for a bit of advice. Im 24 years old and I married my husband last year. Lately he has been very selfish and entitalled. Every morning he is rude and angry. He always complains about having to go to work. I am so sick and ...

How can I get the physical affection aspect re-started in our relationship? The cuddles have stopped.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

29 January 2017 (F - Hi everyone. I'm not sure what to do. My husband and I mostly have a great relationship, but for the last few months he seems to touch me only for sex. I like sex, but I'm starting to resent it and not want to have it when it seems to be the only...

Why is he checking on his ex flings FB page after she unfriended him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

28 January 2017 (F - Something happened a few months ago with my husband and an "ex-fling" of his. I was there when the incident occurred and it was just a bit of drunk stupidity on his part, which we are both fine with in our relationship - it was a private message ...

Do cheating married men usually have more than one mistress?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

27 January 2017 (F - Do married men who cheat, cheat with more than one mistress at a time? Or do some men stay with just one? I am interested in everybody weighing in with their opinions. ...

I hid a recorder and heard breathing, is he cheating or watching porn?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

27 January 2017 (? - Hello Everyone, I have a unique issue. I don't trust my husband. For varies reasons. Alot of people thought I should hire a Detective. I really don't have the money for that. A friend of mine suggested I get a voice recorder and set it in the m...

Why would my husband delete his porn history, when it upsets me even more than the actual porn usage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 31 days ago

26 January 2017 (F - My husband deletes porn from his internet history so that it doesn't upset me. It's not that it upsets me a lot, I understand his reason for watching it is for quick release, usually his stress. And it's not ALL the time so... But I do sometimes g...

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