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Marriage problems: Help and advice

We send each other saucy pictures and flirt... Are we having an affair?

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7 November 2009 (F) - Over the past 2 years I have become friendly with 1 of the guys i work with-we are based in different parts of the country but sometimes he comes over for meetings where im based. He is married with a child and im getting married next year. I want t...

Does their type of marriage work?

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7 November 2009 (?) - My best friend and her husband work together in a Retirement facility. They live on site. They are together 24/7. Working together during the day and living together at night. They have been doing this for 11 years. She is not happy and never gets a ...

Are all guys selfish and hateful?

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7 November 2009 (F) - [Moderator note: profanity deleted] my spouce(common law) is very selfish. i have been sick since wednesday. it is now friday, im suposta stay in bed for a couple days, and i didnt. i wake up cook me some breakfast n him, pack his lunch for work and...

I'm ready to introduce sex back into our marriage...How do I approach my wife?

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6 November 2009 (M) - Ridiculously, we have let our marriage slip into a nearly sexless funk for 2+ years. Our second child was born in January and we've only been intimate a couple of times since she conceived. We've always been pretty low on the libido front, our ...

He doesn't trust me financially and wants a divorce..

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6 November 2009 (F) - My husband of 12 years recently told me he wants a divorce. After arguing and fighting about this we said we would go to counseling. Only through the 3 meeting did I find out that he doesn't trust me anymore and is not in love with me because he ...

I'm married but want to have an affair with a married man..

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6 November 2009 (M) - Please everybody I really just want answeres from MEN. Please, all men out there reply to this. I am happilly married and i know a guy who is also happily married, I have never cheated on my husband but I want to cheat now. I want to have hot...

My husband hit me while drunk and doesn't remember. Should I trust him not to do it again?

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6 November 2009 (F) - Recently my husband hit me. He had been drinking and he lost his temper. He had no recollection the next day, has apologised and promised it will not happen again. I just don't know how I feel or if i'm stupid to believe him. He is a drinker anyway, ...

Husband wants me to keep quiet while he works on his substance abuse issues

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6 November 2009 (F) - hereee it goes again, my husband andd i have been arguing and i feel powerless. i cant get him to understan how i feel. he expects me to be silent aboutt my feeling, and endure whatever mistreatment he inflicts with no hard feelings while works on ...

Can I ever trust my cheating husband again or should I leave now?

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6 November 2009 (F) - My husband was spending to much time with an old friends of ours who had split from her husband. they ending up falling in love and in bed together. He is still with me and says he loves me but loves her more and wants her in his life at some ...

The love of my life cheated on me...is he at it again?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I have been cheated on 3 years after I was married, by the person whom I knew for more than 10 years and who showed me nothing but pure love, respect and trust. We had a beautiful love story that a lot of people envied and wished they would have the...

Cheating GF wants to work on our relationship but won't give up her friendship with her affair partner.... What do I do?

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6 November 2009 (M) - Hey all. My girlfriend of 3.5 yrs cheated on me. We have a beautiful son together. I have forgiven her and done everything I can to try and work out our relationship. The one thing I have asked of her is for her to not have any form of ...

Should I be trying to move on with my life?

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6 November 2009 (M) - Some background. About 10 months ago I started a relationship with my Sister In Law. Yes I know its messy. We just had that instant connection. Over the 10 months we realized so many things about ourselves and life in general. I have always ...

Do I have a chance with my sister in law?

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I've been grilling my wife for two years and I need the truth!

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5 November 2009 (M) - 36 years ago I noticed a guy's name on my gf's calender. As I had just a few days prior got back from the military I asked about it and she said he was just a person who came over to the apartment house where she lived to play cards. She lived with ...

Should I trust my husband or my gut feeling?

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5 November 2009 (F) - Hi People i really need some help!!! Please let me know what you think I am a 24 year old mum of an adorable 21 month old girl, and have been married to her father for 2 years this December. since we got married my husband has been lying to me...

Read this email message and tell me what you think!

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5 November 2009 (F) - I found a message in my husband's email. It was from the owner of a company he has done some work for (who is a male), and he has an email address at that company i just became aware of. He has been hiding all of this from me. The message ...

Would you believe a married man who......

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5 November 2009 (F) - would you believe a married man, who is not having sexual relations with his wife is taking extenz only for his own self esteem (like you would lift weights or work out) as he claims. Or would you belive he is having sexual relations elsewhere? Wo...

Married, but still thinking about my ex

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5 November 2009 (F) - I broke up with my Ex boyfriend and now am married, after 6 years into my marriage I started thinking about my ex till today and it has been going on for the past 5 years. I am haunted and regret ever breaking up with him, what should I do? Is ...

Am I headed towards divorce or is this normal?

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5 November 2009 (F) - My 2nd husband, no kids, and I are living different lives with very different lives. He seems semi-concerned (probable to guilt to my daily affairs and i s'pose i to his) I am flirting back to men who flirt with me in a semi-(im)proper manner, he ...

Why does he feel the need to be in contact with her when he knows how I feel about this?

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4 November 2009 (F) - My husband and i have been married about 9 months. we dated two years before we got married. Throughout our relationship when we were younger i dealt with him contacting his ex's. We were not completely exclusive, I was hardly out of highscho...

The last thing I wanted was a sexless marriage!

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4 November 2009 (F) - i was three months pregnant when i married in december. i can count on one hand the amount of times i have had sex in the last 10 months. i feel desperate to have sex but my husband is always too tired and would prefer to watch tv. i am back to my ...

Family: Where does your priorities lie?

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4 November 2009 (M) - Wife Question to husband Who do you see as our family? Husband Answer to wife You and the two kids of course Wife to husband No one else? Husband to wife No. No one else Husband to wife Who do you see as our family? Wife to ...

My boyfriend's wife has cancer. I love him, but want what is best for everyone.

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4 November 2009 (F) - I am a 37 year old single mum to a four year old. I began an affair with a man 25 years my senior, (someone i have known for 15 years) around six months ago. prior to this I had been alone since the first trimester of pregnancy. Having a child, a...

It feels as though my wife isn't interested in fixing our marriage.

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4 November 2009 (M) - Hi everyone My wife and i have been seperated for about 10 weeks now, of which the first 6 i moved out. i had no other option but to come home in the end. we have been getting on now for atleast 8 weeks with laughter, conversation, fu...

Through wife-swapping, we fell in love, but are distraught about the hurt we've caused!

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4 November 2009 (M) - Here is my heart-hurting situation. I have been with the mother of my son for almost 15 years. We met when we were in our late teens. About two years ago, we began something that has made me realize I wasn't really in love with my fiancee but more...

She's admitted to seeing someone new and I'm afraid I'm going to be forced out of our house!

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4 November 2009 (M) - After my wife has admitted seeing someone else she says I can still stay in our home together. She will do her thing and I can do mine. Im frightened in case she get serious with this guy and Im forced out of my house...What should I do??? [M...

I'm trapped in a marriage with a husband who prefers masturbation over sex!

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4 November 2009 (F) - We've been married for 3 months, been together for 3 and half years in total. We lived together for a year but I moved back in with my parents cos I hated his housemates. We got our own place and moved in a week before the wedding. For me the bigg...

Friend & I become very involved and now his g/f is upset. Should I try to intervene?

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4 November 2009 (F) - Hi I'm in a strange problem.I'm a happily married woman immensely in love with her husband but was somewhere lonely.my husband switched his job to a foreign country and i had to stay here for one year. soon after reaching there, he got busy and had ...

Wife chooses porn over me!

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4 November 2009 (M) - Im 30 and my wife is 24. I found lots of porn in my wife's computer, this doesn't bother me or make mad. The problem is that I don't feel sexually satisfied at all. We have sex once a month with luck. Everytime I want have sex with her she is tired, ...

Is my husband planning to go back to his ex-wife?

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4 November 2009 (F) - I am going to make this as short and understandable as I can. My husband is not with me at the moment (he is away) I know he has been calling his ex wife that has two grown kids with him because I told him to call and get to know his kids. He...

Does my wife not trust me with financial matters?

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3 November 2009 (M) - my wife and i are so in love with each other, the only thing is that we disagree on the finances. every time there is a discrepency in our budget and i take care of it she wants to call and see if she can get it taken care of faster. example: there ...

She is 30 and he is 74. Is he actually interested in her mind?

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3 November 2009 (F) - He is 74. She's 30. First of all, let's say he is a thin, very attractive, elderly man. It may seem gross to some people, but she says she is actually attracted to him. It may be weird to some, but she said something about him is fascinating to h...

I am tired of this woman texting my husband with her problems!

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3 November 2009 (F) - my husband continues to be friends with a woman that i don't approve of. i told him several times that she wants more than that,but he says i'm just jealous. everytime she has drama in her life she text him at least 15 to 20 times and believe me is ...

Is my ex leading me on?

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3 November 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have split up after 4 years, of being togeather. we are not just a dating couple, we lived togeather, raised his daughter togeather, bought cars togeather. everything was about us. he split up with me because he says he wasn't ...

I'm in love with my ex-husband, even after 9 months!

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3 November 2009 (F) - how do i stop loving my ex and the father of my 2 children? its been 9months sice we finished and im still head over hells in love with him, i asked him move out because he stopped all affection towards me we were like 2 flat mates instead of a ...

I'm afraid my 20 year old marriage is over. Am I right?

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3 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I have been married 20 years. My husband was laid off from his job, but got hired same type of work at a company in another state. We own a big home here and have a big labrador pet. I can retire in a year so I could not go. He left, calls me ...

My husband says I am over-reacting to his online affair!

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3 November 2009 (F) - My husband and i have been together for 15 years and we have 2 little girls we only recently got married in March, we have grown up together he's been my best freind my lover my everything. 5 weeks ago i came home from work to find him asleep on ...

My wife refuses to give me oral pleasure because it's "degrading" but expects me to give it to her!

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3 November 2009 (M) - My wife says that giving oral sex is degrading, so she refuses to do it. However, she expects me to give her oral pleasure every time we have sex. I have since stopped giving her oral sex. She says I am acting like a spoiled child. If that is the ...

He loves another woman he met online... what next for our marriage?

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3 November 2009 (F) - my husband and i have been married for almost 6 yrs we have had children from other realtionships and also have children together. he took a job where he was away from us and i supported him but i missed him terribly and looked elsewhere within a ...

Ideas on how to take the 'roughness' futher.

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2 November 2009 (M) - So, I'm new here and this is my first question. First, thanks in advance for any advice that is given. Here goes, I'm 24. I'm very happily married with two gorgeous children. I always thought things were as close to perfect as my wife and I co...

Am I just a fool in love? Why is my wife ignoring me?

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2 November 2009 (M) - Im starting to wonder if my wife is still in love with me or not. I constantly feel like she is disrespecting me and is simply with me for convienience. Out latest argument was on Halloween when at the bar with her and friends, I would order a dr...

We only have sex according to a schedule. Please help!

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2 November 2009 (M) - I'm 37 and been married for 9 years. My wife and I went through a rough spot. During that time, she stopped having sex with me. I was hurt. Part of the outcome of marriage counselling was the agreement that we would have a schedule. Wednesdays, ...

Our love is forbidden! How can I be her best friend?

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2 November 2009 (M) - My lover decided to return with her husband and workout her marriage but now considers me to be her best friend... she tells me that she loves me and that she is in love with me but feels that she needs to sacrifice her "happiness" for the sake of ...

Do you think I should hang on in here or move on? Hubby is not upset that I miscarried!

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2 November 2009 (F) - Please forgive me for a long post but my question needs a bit of background. I am 41 and I have been married 3 times. The first two were public school boys and successful businessmen. My latest is the origional bad boy, been to prison, always up to ...

My husband does not want to have sex

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2 November 2009 (F) - My husband does not want to have sex. I AM 37 AND HE IS 34, he does not desire any kind of intimacy. ... nor put his head on my shoulder when we sleep, nor any of the normal ... ?...

My husband lied to me about porn use.I am afraid this is the beginning of the end.

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2 November 2009 (F) - I was out oftown for a couple of days and my husband found a porn magazine tha hadnt gotten shredded when we aed that it was t going to be a part of married life that we were embarking on year ago. I knew I should've shredded it when I found it a ...

I'm a battered wife and I still love him! I need help!

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2 November 2009 (F) - Where do i start? What is the difference between being mentally abused and battered? My husband puts me down all the time. Anything i do is never good enough. He yells and me and calls me names like whore, slut, b****, c***, liar(i NEVER lie to him) ...

He wants our life the way it was before his affair!

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2 November 2009 (F) - Okay here it goes, it has been 3 yrs since my husbands affair, I am in a better place emotionally, problem is he is not happy that I am feeling this way, he wants me to be the same in pre-affair times....everything that I cherished when we were so ...

He criticizes my weight and I feel very unloved...how do I get him to stop?

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2 November 2009 (F) - I really need advice on my marriage. I have been married 6 years and am at my breaking point. My husband has gotton to the point that I get tense just being around him. He is constantly criticizing me about my weight (I weigh 112 pounds and have ...

Lack of trust is killing our relationship!

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1 November 2009 (F) - hi there I have one big problem - trust. My husband, for over 15 years now, has accused me of having an affair behind his back. I haven't,or ever would, do anything like that to anyone and in his mind he thinks something did take place and there is ...