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Marriage problems: Help and advice

How can I ask him to make sex more meaningful for me?

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20 November 2009 (F) - I'm 25 years old and my husband is 33. We have been married for 2 years now and have a beautiful 18 month old daughter. We got married after dating for only 2 months, because I got pregnant. Sex is now becoming more of a chore than it should b...

Is it normal to think sex is disgusting?

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20 November 2009 (F) - I am 33 yrs old and could care less if I had sex again!! It's gross, and disgusting I have to be drunk to have sex with my husband. Is that normal, and how do you think I should handle it?...

He just wont touch, kiss or hold me...and we've only been married 46 days!

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20 November 2009 (F) - Hi. I've been married for just under 2 months, been with him 5 years. We're both 25. Lived together for 3 years. In the past 2 years, our sex life has diminished drastically. Mind you, in the past two years, he's been in University doing a ...

My husband claims he will change if I go back to him but I don't trust his word!

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20 November 2009 (F) - I left my husband, we were working together on cruises, saved money to build a future together for 5 years, I am from latin america he is eastern european, first of all he choose living in his country, despite i suggested a neutral country, after I ...

Sexually frustrated new mom... help!

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20 November 2009 (F) - My husband and I are very young. We have been together for two + years, I got married when i was 18 and my husband was my first sex partner! I just a few weeks ago had a baby, our first. I am very sexually frustrated, (you can't have sex for at ...

He never does his fair share around the house!

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19 November 2009 (F) - My husband says he is not taking care of any chores because he has to work. When I tell him, that is not right and he needs to do something too around the house etc, he says you are bitching at me all the time, why would I spend time with you? He ...

Bedroom issues...

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19 November 2009 (F) - I enjoy sex, the problem is my husband has a small penis that I can't feel. He's clumsy in bed and has never made me orgasm. I have tried talking to him about it and he gets angry and starts saying that I don't love him so I have faked more orgasms ...

I think about him all the time...even when I'm with my husband. Am I wrong?

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19 November 2009 (F) - Ever since I've meet my professor two years ago I've had a crush on him. I'm in college and majoring on the piano, he's my piano teacher as well as the teacher for a few other classes. At first I wasn't worried about it, this isn't the first time ...

My husband and I are usually miserable. Is it worth fixing?

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18 November 2009 (F) - ive been married for two years and with my husband for almost 6 years all together.. i love him . but all we do is fight. the sex life is terrible and we have good days were we are happy but most of the time we are miserable.. should we call it ...

Why do women sleep with married men?

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18 November 2009 (F) - Why do women who fool around with a married man get it into their thick skulls that men are using them....why do these women persist with married men, is it low self esteem issue, does it give them a high that this man whos morals are clearly not ...

My wife intends to file for divorce to be with another man!

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18 November 2009 (M) - I have been married for 13 years to the love of my life. Like so many other men on this site I too became comfortable in our marrige, and did not give my wife the attention she desired. We have four beautiful children together. I found out about ...

My husband is abroad and doesn't send money or call to talk.

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18 November 2009 (F) - i am 41 years i been married for almost 14 years and we have 3 kids my problem is my husband i was asking myself if i need quit my marriage, my husband and i do not talk regarding family matters, sex do not say i love you he did not talk to often we ...

I've never had a penny off my ex-husband, is it too late to do anything about it?

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18 November 2009 (F) - i left my hub 10 years ago we stopped friends. ive never had a penny of him. is it to late to do anything about it?...

My husband just never wants to sort things out!! He expects me to be fine.

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18 November 2009 (F) - I need some advice here. I've been married for just over 2 years now. My husband is a wonderful man who's totally commited, faithful, caring and hard working. But...if we have an arguement, he doesn't like to talk about it afterwards. Now I'm a...

How should I explain how much this bothers me?

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18 November 2009 (F) - Okay my husband of 2 weeks is in nursing school. He started last May. Now before this I never looked at his phone he never took care in keeping it on him. He never really got texts unless I sent them. Things were smooth sailing. So about 3 weeks ago ...

Do I give my husband another chance or give it a go with mr perfect?

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18 November 2009 (F) - Where to begin. Me and my husband have been married 8 years. But the last year and a half lived apart it started out just for work but progressed to a real seperation. Our marraige has been rocky for most of its duration. We have argued for yrs and ...

My husband's ex wife...

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17 November 2009 (F) - My husband and his ex-wife are going together to a school lunch for their son. Should I worry about her, she is a very manipulative person and I trust her as far as I can throw her. He used to give her whatever she wanted, I use to tell him that she ...

My husband's addiction to porn is destroying our lives!

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17 November 2009 (F) - i have been with my husband for 6 years, and during this time he has lied about watching and using pornography. he has an addition to it, he has even watched porn at his work and lost his job and lost a lot of respect from friends and family. beca...

I don't know what to do. There is no romance in my marriage and I am seeing my old girlfriend.

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17 November 2009 (M) - Good day 49 years old man been married for 21 years. Have three children 15, 18 and 19. My wife and I have made love three times in the last ten years. She won't discuss the problem or seek help. Full stop. I have gotten very down about it at time...

My husband has no sexual desire and can't keep an erection!

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17 November 2009 (F) - How can you find out ,why your husband has no sexual desire, and losing his erection? How do you know know if it's psychological? ...

Men: Is your wife's depression a bigger concern than getting laid?

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17 November 2009 (F) - Men: If your girlfriend or wife was suffering from severe depression, would you be more concerned with her state of mind, or getting laid? Furthermore: If the depression was supposedly because your words and actions towards her during the durat...

Am I overreacting to my husband's relationship with my daughter-in-law?

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17 November 2009 (F) - I am having a problem with my husband and daughter in-law. It seems that they have a seperate relationship that I am not a part of they can talk for hours and hours about things I have nothing to do with my husband says he should have a seperate ...

We are drowning in debt! My husband won't take that into account as we approach the holidays!

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17 November 2009 (F) - Before my husband and I got together, he had a wife who got him into debt. After she walked out on him and his kids, he got a girlfriend who completed the process. The hole that the ex-wife started was dug deeper by the girlfriend. My husband is ...

Is there an Islamic solution that would mean a married woman could divorce her husband and marry her true love?

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17 November 2009 (M) - I loved a girl but she was pressured by her parents to get married two years back, however she loved me so much that she did not let her husband come close to her which means they did not have any sexual relation, her husband is a nice guy but she ...

My wife is willing to forgive my cheating, I love her but I feel I don't deserve her!

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17 November 2009 (M) - Well, I will try to keep this short and to the point but sorry if I linger. I am 35 years old, was married to a great 42 year old woman until 2009-04, unfortunately no children, that was a difficult hurdle in our marriage as we kept miscarrying. I ...

How do we move on after my fling?

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17 November 2009 (F) - I really need some advice. My husband found out that I had a fling with someone else while me were separated. I have apologized and have never down played what I did. I want to know what to do? We do live together now but he is distant. Which I ...

My husband and I have violent and abusive arguments. Can we fix this or is it too broken?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - Last week I had a big arguement with my husband. It was the day before a big exam he had and he swore at me several times pushed me and in anger told me to get out. I left but then he rang and profusely apologised. I returned home but was still so ...

Incorrectly accused of having an emotional affair - now what do I do?

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16 November 2009 (F) - I stopped a mild emotional affair attempt cold in it's tracks and I'm VERY frustrated and confused. I was e-mailing a friend of my husbands with work-related things. (My husband knew all about it.) Looking back through the e-mails everythi...

My cheating wife says she wants her family back.

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16 November 2009 (M) - I recently learned of an extramarital affair my wife was invloves in. I came home early to discover her texting on her cell phone. When I asked to see it she screamed empahtically no and ran into my 4 year old childs room. Upon convincing her I ...

I feel trapped in this marriage, should I leave or should I stay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

16 November 2009 (M) - Hi Everybody, Hope you can help me out with this dilemma. I'm really confused about what to do. I am married with no kids. I met my wife to be at 21 and we started a serious relationship that saw us marry at 27, and I'm 32 now. My wife is ...

Husband keeps graphic photos of his two ex wives!

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16 November 2009 (F) - My husband of eight years, soon to be ex, has kept a collection of pictures and videos of the sex life he shared with his two ex wives. These are very graphic -- he describes himself as perverted -- and would qualify as hard core porn, not love ...

Love sick-caught in the middle of marriage and another woman

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16 November 2009 (M) - Hi, I have been married for 15 years, have two boys, aged 12 and 14. My marriage has been on the rocks since we had our second child. My wife does not show me any love, she's cold and resentful that I don't do more in our household. I try my b...

Is your marriage over if there's no sexual attraction?

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15 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my husband for 5 years (since i was 18) I love him very much but the last two years of our relationship I find that I'm not sexually attracted to him any more. I just can't help fantasizing about different men. I have no desire to ...

Help me leave for good my cheating husband!

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15 November 2009 (F) - please help me... I have been married to a man I love very much for 8 years this is my second marriage, I left my first husband because he used to hit me, the day I walked out on him was easy because in the end I hated him....but I don't hate my 2nd ...

Cheating husband, suspicious other woman

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15 November 2009 (F) - My husband cheated on me recently and the affair last 3 months. he called it quits when we decided to work thimgs out. I found out that she left town around the same time i found out that im pregnant (sept.) could she also be pregnant with my ...

Her childish behaviour is making our new marriage difficult

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15 November 2009 (M) - Hi, I recently got married (3 months ago) to a girl i was with for 2 years. She is 20 and I am 26. I understood before getting married that she is younger and I decided to go through with it and develope more patience to accommodate the ...

Once upon a time...

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15 November 2009 (F) - i have been married for 26 years have 3 grown children. My husband has always been a little flirter I think everyone does a little. We don't do anything together and are not really getting along very well any more, never talk, all that stuff. I ...

I'm 28, he's 43. He wants to have kids now, I don't. Any ideas to work it out?

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15 November 2009 (F) - I'm 28, been married for 3 years, total of 5 years in this relationship. My partner is 43 and wants to start a family, have kids. I want to have kids with him, but I don’t feel ready to do it right now. I understand that cause of his age and all, ...

My husband hates my cooking!!! Help!

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15 November 2009 (F) - Hi, i need some idea or any advice. my husband is very difficult or complicated man most of the time in anything but specially with food. im his second wife. he was separated to his 1st wife of course i dont know the reason. but i do know his ex ...

My husband ignores me and another man wants me. What should I do?

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15 November 2009 (F) - I have been married for 2 years now, and have been with my husband for 4 years. My husband isnt around much because he in the military. I would love to have him home everyday but i know it's not possible. He has been a good husband but when he's ...

Married and going crazy in the closet. What should I do?

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15 November 2009 (M) - I'm 49 and gay. In the closet with the door closed tight. Married for 25 years with 2 grown girls. I'm going crazy. What should I do?...

Serious sexual dysfunction without a cause!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - What can you do if your husband is permanently, sexually off? It started few years ago. In our early 40's. Now, we tried everything therapy, medical investigations but there is no answer, why is he the way he is. No medical cause, and not clear wh...

I have no emotional connection with my husband and am so unhappy!

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14 November 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have always been a smart girl, but I believe that I made a very bad decision. I met my now husband as a freshman in college. He sought after me for six months, but I began dating someone and did not return the calls. Well, after 6m...

He would rather sit and watch porn than have sex with me any more!

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14 November 2009 (F) - hi there, Can anyone give me any advice? Is there something seriously wrong if my partner of 20 years doesnt want to have sex with me any more but would rather watch porn?...

My b/f is in the middle of a divorce, his wife is making my life hell, help?

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14 November 2009 (F) - Ok, I am near my breaking point and need an unbiased opinion. My bf is in the middle of a divorce, yet they still live in the same house, both for financial reasons(hers) and both lawyers are telling them not to leave until one is ordered to. They...

I'm married but want my old friend back..what should I do?

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14 November 2009 (F) - i m married .we have 12 yrs age gap.i find difficult to communicate with my husband as a friend as well as a sex partner (my husband is good person gave me all freedom in term of finance and all).long time ago i find a person who is family friend ...

Caught my husband chatting porn site..please I need your advice?

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14 November 2009 (F) - Im a pregnant wife im 22,just having problem wtih my husband porn,even b4 i knew it but its ok i ignore but now i think its to much....now my husband is in georgia while me here in mississippi he'll be in gergia till dec 4 ,one time i open his ...

How do I get my husband to stop cutting me off when I talk?

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14 November 2009 (F) - Hello I would like advice on how to get my husband to stop cutting me off when i talk. I don't know if he does this on purpose but i have told him that he does it to people and he said he would work on it. He will cut me off in the middle of talking ...

I need advice on how to get this married guy out of my mind! Please help!

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13 November 2009 (F) - I jumped into an unhappy marriage 4 years ago. Although I've been working at it, I've always felt like I never found "the one". For the last 18 months however, I've found myself falling for a married man with children. I've never spoken to him ...

Can I ever find happiness again in life while I am still in this marriage?

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13 November 2009 (F) - Been married for close to 12 years with 3 lovely girls. My husband is an orphan,he had nothing when we got married, i worked so hard to build our marriage, 3 years ago he started behaving funny, between 2006 and late last year he had slept with 4 ...