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Have I missed my chance to find a man, settle down and have a family?

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23 July 2017 (F - What do you do if you want to find someone to share your life with and get married so much that your heart hurts, but you are in your thirties and feel like you missed your chance? I've had lousy luck with guys all of my life. All I want is to...

He asked and asked me so many times for pictures of me. Finally I sent one. I feel so scared that I did this. What should I do?

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23 July 2017 (F - So I'm 13. One day my best guy friend asked for pictures of me in a sports bra. Well I told him no and he asked and asked and kept asking. I've took pictures like that before (Not sexual) making sure not to show anything. Well It was 2:30 am and ...

Friend will not take any ownership for problems in our friendship. What should I do?

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22 July 2017 (F - Good morning This is such a neat site and I get answers from around the world which is cool. My issue involves a ten year old friendship. I have had bumps in the road with this friendship in the past but we have worked it out but as of late the c...

Should I let him go? or see what happens?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

22 July 2017 (F - I met this guy last year while I was drunk eating pizza after clubbing with my friend (typical party girl scene) now I never took this guy seriously I'd always ignore his texts, or keep conversations small, sometimes he'd ask to hang out but I'd ...

I'm feeling more alone being left out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

20 July 2017 (F - Some people may find this petty but my feeling are being hurt. Theres a close group of 4 of us. Its very hard to get together at the same time due to commitments. 3 of my friends meet up more often and leave me out even tho im free. I dont mind ...

My friend is too clingy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

20 July 2017 (F - I have a guy friend (JUST A FRIEND). The problem is, though he is nice, he is rather clingy. He always wants to hang out with me. I find it rather awkward. I want to pursue other friendships too and hanging out with him makes it seem like we're ...

He flirts with me when his girlfriend isn't around.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

19 July 2017 (F - I'm not sure if my male friend is flirting with me or just being friendly. Its starting to make me uncomfortable. So in a nut shell, I've known and been friends with him for over a year now, I'm 18 and he's 23. When we first met I must admit I had...

8 years of trust,broken! Can we make it back?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

17 July 2017 (F - Hi all thanks for your help first of all I have a horrible problem I need help with. Sorry about the lengh. I went on a holiday with 4 of my friends one of them is my boyfriends brothers girlfriend Side note: I've been with my bf 8 years been ...

Can you stay friends after having a one night stand?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

17 July 2017 (F - About a month ago, I met a guy on a dating site. We would talk from night to morning every day. I kind of like him, but he rarely talked about himself. I was curious about him; therefore, I checked on him on Facebook and found out that he has a ...

How do I find out if he's in contact with my colleagues?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

16 July 2017 (F - I used to work with a bloke and have texted him a few times, he doesn't respond and yet I sense that he is in contact with other people he worked with but not me. Before he left he made out that he wanted to keep in touch but instead ignores me ...

Should we try to rekindle our friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

16 July 2017 (F - So this might not be a typical relationship, however, more of a friendship thing. So me and two girls used to be very close friends - call them A and N so it's easier. Me and A fell out with N over silly arguments and ended up hating each othe...

think they are way too secretive and just honestly don't want them anywhere near each other!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

16 July 2017 (F - Okay so before me and my bf were dating he had a crush on my best friend but nothing ever happened because he was actually dating someone else. We winded up dating about a yr later. We were kind of like a trio before our romance started but as time...

BF's BFF in love with him and purposely interfering...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

14 July 2017 (F - Hi All. So one of my boyfriend's best friends is a female. He has only platonic feelings for her and they have known each other for many years. I was excited to meet her and then after I did, every idea I had about thinking we would get along would ...

My friend doesn't have enough to do. How do I tell her to back off?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

14 July 2017 (F - Im a single mum of a teenager i have full time as my ex didnt want to know. I also work so aswell as that i have housework on top. my child helps a lot too which im proud to say i dont have to harass him to help. I have a friend who doesnt work due ...

My boyfriend is a good guy but I'm not in love with him anymore. There's also a new man on the scene but he's in a relationship. I'm clueless about what to do

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

13 July 2017 (F - Hi Aunts and Uncles. I'm posting this here because I have always had good advice here before and I have no one I can speak to about this. I feel like such an awful person for what I am about to write but I can't go on keeping it in my head. It's ...

Is it that bad I really feel down about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

10 July 2017 (F - This is so silly but Ive been feeling really down about my friends accomplishments. One being; I've been learning to drive for a good while now and not booked a date for my practical test. My friend has just started (well not long started) and she...

Should I tell my co-worker of my feelings for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

10 July 2017 (M - Ive fallen quite deeply for someone I work with. He is single and has been for over a year, older than me but not by much. He has not identified his sexuality openly and when I told him I was bi he wasn't bothered by this in fact he said nothing ...

What does all this interaction with him mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

8 July 2017 (F - Hello, in recent months I have become close to a male friend of whom I knew in grade in junior high in 2002. He added me on FB which was a surprise, as I rejected him in junior high when he showed interest in me. He ended up moving to another state ...

My friend seems keen for me to have sex with his wife

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

8 July 2017 (M - I am single guy....... A friend of mine and his wife who I have both known for years,went over my apartment last night, after drinking at a local bar,and we ended up having a threesome, after he encouraged her... afterwards it was a little...

Have you ever lied to someone about your feelings for them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

7 July 2017 (F - Dear cupid, I'd like to know if anyone has ever lied to a friend of the opposite sex about whether or not you have feelings for them? If so, what was the reason? Did you feel you had to lie because of circumstance? I have a male friend, we talk ...

Should I back of and give her time to deal with things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

7 July 2017 (M - So for the past month or so I've been sleeping with this girl I know through mutual friends. We always have a lot of fun together when we hang out. She's just getting out of a seven year relationship and is currently in the process of moving out of ...

Online dating. He's not just chatting to me. Should I start chatting to others?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

6 July 2017 (F - Online dating. I've had both good and bad experiences doing this . I've been chatting with a guy for a couple of week and we are meeting in a few days for our first date . He's told me the lines how he's hoping i'm the one and what he hopes will h...

I've forgotten how to meet people!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

5 July 2017 (F - Ok I need advice, I'm a widow of 7 yrs, I was married for 27. I have forgotten how to meet people. seems the ones I do just want sex, Im not saying sex is a bad thing. but I want a relationship. Can anyone refresh me on how to meet people. ...

Why is everyone sceptical about a 'friends with benefits' arrangement?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

5 July 2017 (M - So a while back me and my friend had sex a couple of times. We actually live in a shared house with other people, although they don't know that anything happened between us. We had known each other for about a year before this happened, and had ...

How do I comfort a friend who learned he has herpes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

3 July 2017 (F - One of my really close friends got genital herpes and I'm so in shock. He and I have had an on and off fling for a while, but never even kissed cause he's super all over the place. He's practically in love with me, I guess, but anyways that's ...

Why can't I let go of somebody who had let go before it even started?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

2 July 2017 (F - I'm so confused with myself and am hoping the advice from unbiased people will help my heart a bit. Last April I started dating someone who was an acquitance for 10 years before that. I fell head over heels and really thought we would work out. ...

I feel like I am a mistake and that everybody knows it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

2 July 2017 (M - Am i stupid, or just living in the past. I am gay and i don't think i have ever said that before. i have always been scared and think of other peoples feelings rather then my own. I avoid social situations and even family stuff because everybody is ...

I'm keeping him at a distance so I wont fall in love!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

2 July 2017 (F - Does everyone really maybe not know where things will go when you start hanging out with someone you like??? I mean right now of course we like each other and he says a connection is there he just dont know what it is yet.... So yea we had good ...

My LDR girlfriend gets obsessive when I am with my family or friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

2 July 2017 (F - So long story short ive been in this relationship and it started off perfectly fine until she got obsessively clingy. Everytime i go out with my parents/friends/family and I'm too busy to respond (I should include this is a long distance ...

What is the point in just sending a message saying "good morning"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

1 July 2017 (F - I have a male friend who I've been having frequent contact with lately, almost daily at all hours. Sometimes mundane conversation, other times he's talking to me about past relationships, perils of dating online etc). I'm a bit confused though ...

He always manages to bring up sex in a conversation. Is he just horny? Or does he want something from me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

30 June 2017 (F - There is this guy I know. We are friends, but fairly new friends for the past 3 or so months. He is a really nice guy, very easy to talk to. Whenever we talk, he always tells me personal things about himself. I'm talking really personal things that ...

I want more from my friend's girlfriend.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

29 June 2017 (M - why do people have friends and when you talk to them and you say you love them and I got a friend he got's a girl friend and I know them for quit some time they are in a relationship and me and my friend his girlfriend are friends put I would love ...

What's going on? I am confused why my partner is now an issue.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

29 June 2017 (F - I need some objective clarity. So here goes. When we were teens, say 16 years ago, he had a major crush on me and we went out a few times. I never reciprocated because I guess there weren't any feelings there, and I distanced myself from him. He ...

He wants to be friends with his female co worker and doesn't take my feelings into consideration

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

28 June 2017 (F - Ive known a man for the past 6 yrs, we lived together for three years. the fourth yr we broke up. he was talking about marriage but never really asked me. then one day a new female came to work at is work place. slowly things changed between us. ...

Things changed when my BFF got a girlfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

28 June 2017 (F - I'm really hurt. My best friend C and I have been bffs for 5 years. We've had our share of ups and downs, but always managed to get through it and remain close as we were before. He'd been into me, like, majorly into me for 2 years. He said he was ...

Should I ask her now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

27 June 2017 (M - Hi I'm not sure where to start as this is a huge story, I will try to keep this as short and informative as possible. I'm here because I struggle to vocalise my emotions with those closest to me. I'm 27 years old I was with my ex for 9 years (16-...

We had sex nothing came of it but how do I act around him now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

27 June 2017 (F - About six months ago, I had sex with one of my close friends. It was pretty obvious that we both liked each other but nothing ever came from it. A couple weeks ago, we started talking again and we spent the night with each other a few times but ...

I'm worried that once my LDR boyfriend gets his own place, his female friend might try to make a move. I know she likes him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

25 June 2017 (F - I am in a long distance relationship with an amazing guy. We have know each other for 3 years and are planning to soon meet and start a future/family together. He is the kind of person that I call my best friend and soulmates. He is my person and I ...

My friend doesn't treat guys very well and I don't like it. Should I just stay out of it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

25 June 2017 (F - Hi how do I tell my friend she's a little conceited? Or am I overreacting? She's one of my best friend's. We're both 18 and have both had our fair share with guys. I just mean like being at the texting stage and dating, that kind of stuff. I'm no...

Why do these guys act so weird around me? They don't do this to anyone else

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 28 days ago

25 June 2017 (F - I am friends with a few guys from my church. They will act like friends one day but then another day they walk by me like I am not even there. When I say hey to them they say hey back in a fake surprised way like they didn't see me when I know they ...

He cheated, we broke up. He's never apologized and its weird being in the same group of friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

25 June 2017 (F - The guy I was seeing exclusively for the past few months recently cheated on me when he was drunk and I found out about it from my friend. At the time I was obviously very angry and upset when I spoke to him and so even though he apologised it ...

Invitation is too close for comfort

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

25 June 2017 (F - Hi! A guy I have a crush on has extended a general invitation to hang out sometime. He doesn't know I like him and our relationship right now is just friends. However, he has a girlfriend. Just to clarify I am not allowing my personal feelings for ...

My boyfriend says I'm harder on him than on anyone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

25 June 2017 (F - So my boyfriend complained and said that I'm harder on him than I am with others or our friends. I don't deny that, but I feel because he's my boyfriend and I have higher expectations of him, that that's okay. Am I wrong? He says its unfair. Case...

Should I tell my friend my crush gave me his number, when he's her crush too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

22 June 2017 (F - The guy I've been trying to talk to all year - and had a major crush on for two years - has just told me that he's wanted to be friends for a long time, but didn't know how to do it. In fact, he even gave me his phone number and email addresses. As ...

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