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I am getting weird vibes from my girlfriend in regards to her friend but I don't want to tell her to stop talking to her friend

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19 November 2017 (F - So my girlfriend had this mate that they've meet on tinder. She calls my girlfriend everyday and texts her. Practically any social media she can contact my gf. Just a couple of days ago my gf said that they've kissed. I've meet the friend and all I ...

Triangle friendship double cross!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

19 November 2017 (F - Ive been friends with my friend (Samantha) for 5 years and its really had its ups and downs throughout the years but things started to get worse, the competitiveness, the jealousy etc. We love each other very much but there is a lot negativity and ...

Sick of being ignored, what do I have to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

19 November 2017 (F - I think I give off a “don’t be my friend” vibe, though I say hi and am polite? All my life people have avoided me, socially and socially at work and in group or social events, like I have A flashing sign “avoid her” I was bullied and social...

We had plans, should I keep him as a friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

18 November 2017 (F - I have been friends with this guy for a year now and we have recently gotten pretty close. se seemed like a really easy going person and cool guy to hang out with. He really opens up about his life and we have many deep conversations. Well this past ...

Is this the right person to hang out with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

17 November 2017 (F - Should I go back to hanging out with this friends - I had a friend that stopped talking to me because I called her out on her actions. One of my colleagues and I started having out and became friends - it’s a new friendship and within three months ...

How to overcome the guilt of dating my friend's ex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

17 November 2017 (F - Dear Cupids I met this wonderful man. We have been dating for less than two months but our relationship is moving quite fast. It feels so right and ever-since we dated we have not spent a day without talking to each other. He calls and we mee...

My boyfriend has hooked up with his best friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

16 November 2017 (F - I've been dating this guy, and we are crazy about each other. The only thing I'm a little uncomfortable with is the fact that his best friend is someone he's had strong feelings for and hooked up with in the past. plot twist: she is a lesbian. I ...

How can I explain to parents?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

15 November 2017 (F - Hi all :) I’ll share a little details about myself and family before diving into my question. I’m 18 turning 19 soon and just started university and my parents are quite what our generation would say a little “old-fashioned”? I come from a Chinese ...

My housemate keeps having sex in our shared spaces and I don't like it.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

11 November 2017 (F - My housemate keeps having sex/foreplay with her boyfriend in our shared living spaces, like the living room etc. She tells me and laughs about it, but I actually find it so disrespectful and it makes me quite angry how she disregards my comfort ...

Its a year of no contact with married man, I suspect his friends are contacting me on facebook.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

10 November 2017 (F - Hello everyone. Thank you for taking the time to read my question. It's a messed up situation but I've been coming here off and on over the situation for a few years now. Several years ago and crush turned into a long term affair with a married ...

My best friend is faking he is straight even though we had sex.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

10 November 2017 (M - I'm a bi man and in the last year I've had intimate moments with my best friend, for whom I have always had doubts regarding his orientation. It's true that we have both enjoyed it but recently he seems to distance himself from situations where ...

I've always been a people pleaser ... how can I stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

8 November 2017 (F - I can’t stop worrying about what people will think of me - I have always been a people pleaser and have followed the “rules of life” to the T. I got two degreees and got a corporate jobs followe the path. Lately I have fallen in a financial hardship ...

Why would she pull away when things are going so well?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

8 November 2017 (M - MOD NOTE: 2 questions dealing with same issue combined I'll try and keep this short while still providing the necessary context. A couple of months ago, I went to a wedding where I caught up with some old college friends. I ran into a girl that I...

I've worshipped this girl since I was 16! Do I tell her?

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8 November 2017 (M - Basically, I've reconnected with a girl I had a relationship with in school. I was 16, she was 15 and we went out for about a year. She was my first love and in the end we mutually broke up for a number of reasons but it was not on bad or bitter ...

I feel keeping me a secret makes me disposable.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

7 November 2017 (M - I am seeing (dating?) a guy, though problem is, he is my ex's friend. I knew the guy first, and my ex knows we spend time together because we've been friends for years, but my ex is somewhat of a ring leader and if he doesn't like something or ...

My friend refuses to leave her abusive fiance. I want to help her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

7 November 2017 (F - My gf is in trouble and she won't do anything about it as she's scared of her fiance. My gf has been with her fiance for approx 2 years now and ever since their relationship began, my gf has openly admitted to me that he's been abusing her verb...

What is so "personal" that he can't tell his long term girlfriend?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

6 November 2017 (F - Hi! I've been seeing my bf for about 15 months and things have been mostly good. We have a very loving, affectionate relationship where we share most things and get on well. Except he has this female best friend that he's close to and the thing is I ...

Should I stay with my boyfriend in the hope that he matures at some point, or do I let him go and move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

6 November 2017 (F - Should I stay with my boyfriend in the hope that he matures at some point, or do I let him go and move on? We're both at university (we're both 21) and have been going out for 2 years. We've been having problems lately because he wasn't spending ...

How do I tell them I'm moving out without making it worse for myself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

4 November 2017 (F - So I have a friendship question here. I am currently in uni and live in a uni house with three girls, however it is a bit icy between some of us at the moment. Now, a bit of background, for the past few days/weeks I have felt like I am almost...

Friend sponges off everyone. How do I deal with her?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

2 November 2017 (F - Hi, I have a friend who's used to living off other people. She's funny, smart and she still takes money from her parents (she's 39 years old!), "borrows" money and promises to pay back at some point. Goes out for drinks, meals and almost never...

How do I save this friendship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

2 November 2017 (F - My best friend and I had a fallout and we both missed each other and agreed to figure out our differences but I don't think she understands that I hate to be lectured. I do not want to sound pompous or like I know everything, because I don't,...

He duped me! How do I learn the red flags and move on?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

1 November 2017 (F - I had seen this guy in a walking group over the past 5 months. We were friends a few years ago but lost touch. Over the months he has dropped hints that he likes me, has cuddled and held me for long periods of time and kissed my cheek in a loving ...

Should we end our friendship? We will never have our parent's blessing

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

31 October 2017 (M - I like her and she likes me. We talk everyday. She checks all the boxes for wife material in my book. We are currently only friends and whenever we slip into flirting one of us pull back. We're of different religions. We will never have our ...

Why doesn't my friend want to go on the cruise with me but goes with another friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

31 October 2017 (F - I went on a cruise last year having lost my partner met a nice lady who had lost her husband 4 years before- who we also met another lady from canada. when i got back ive been to kates place in uk for a weekend and it went well. I send her an ...

I suffer from social anxiety and it bothers me that he leaves me alone with his mother!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

29 October 2017 (F - I am in the best relationship I have been in, but there is one little issue... My boyfriend is 24 (I am 22). He is German and I often travel to Germany to be with him, usually staying 1-3 months at a time. The rest of the time I travel a lot for...

Why did he say he was disappointed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

29 October 2017 (M - I played a little joke on a sort of friend, who I deep down fancy, but haven’t told him.. On a hook up app their profile popped up so I messaged them sent them a few funny pics of people, told them I know them and that to find out who I am they hav...

How do I tell my online guy friend that I won't be able to keep talking to him every night when I move in with my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

27 October 2017 (F - So to give you a little bit of context - I've been talking with this guy over the phone for a little over a year (we met online) - Let's call him James. He lives in the US and I am in Canada. We used to talk dirty to each other over the phone during ...

How do I end a FWB relationship and just be friends?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

27 October 2017 (F - How do I end a friends with benefits thing? I'm 18 and he's 21 and we were friends for about a year and a half before we started sleeping together basically, and he took my virginity. There was a point before we had sex where I thought I had ...

I want to help my friend but how?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

26 October 2017 (F - I’m in a bit of a pickle, dear Aunts and Uncles! I wish I could tell a friend of mine something that very much concerns her, but I’m afraid it may really hurt her and maybe force her to do something she otherwise wouldn’t. I know that she has pro...

Was he trying to deceive me?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

24 October 2017 (F - Was he trying to deceive me? There are two aspects to an action. What was the intention behind something (the mental part) and what action was taken/not taken (the physical part). What is bugging me on an issue is what was the intention behind...

I'd like to help them save their marriage!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

24 October 2017 (F - Oh boy. I have two friends that have been married for ten years. The husband has been having an affair off and on for three years with a chick he refused to ever completely sever ties with. The wife has taken off with other guys during their splits ...

Her attitude is confusing. Should I cut her off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

22 October 2017 (F - Just looking for advice regarding my friend as I'm honestly confused. I have this friend I met through university (a guy) and he has a friend we are both kind of friends with (she's a girl). Anyway my problem is sometimes this girl acts like...

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