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My boyfriend's best friend hates me!

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26 May 2017 (F - I have a wonderful relationship with my boyfriend . We have been together for over a year. We get a long very well don't argue. My friends and family love him and his family likes me as well. His other friends likes me . However , his best ma...

Does she like me romantically or just see me as a friend?

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25 May 2017 (M - Not entirely sure with this, I'd like to think she likes me but I really struggle to tell the difference between what counts as friendship or relationship material. Basically put I met up with this girl who I got talking to online and I met up wit...

My ex is my best friend and flatmate. How do I move on from this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

25 May 2017 (F - So I'm in a quite strange situation. In short, I am jealous and somehow upset over my flatmate who is also my ex and I don't know how to move on? To give a bit of background info, we started dating few years ago and became close in general. Reas...

How do I deal with this? I'm hurt that a second man is asking about who is the prettiest of my friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

25 May 2017 (F - Hi all, So I dated this guy for a short while who really messed it up for me. He has a narsissistic personality disorder and well I bore the brunt of of it. One thing in particular which he did and I found very insulting was- he wouldn't stop ta...

I know my friend's boyfriend is cheating on her but my boyfriend says I can't tell her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted yesterday

24 May 2017 (F - Hi; I have a boyfriend who I love dearly and me and him are good friends with another couple who we go out with and see a lot. I am very good friends with the girl of the couple and he is very good friends with the boy of the couple although...

He broke up with me but keeps in contact. Is he trying to be a FWB?

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24 May 2017 (F - I am 39 and my ex boyfriend is 38. We both have two teens apiece and are single parents. I'm divorced. We dated for 4 and a half months. Things were good but he broke up with me saying he didn't think things were going to work out and he didn't wa...

Haven't heard from my friend after I rebuffed his advances. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted yesterday

24 May 2017 (F - A friend came over we went to my room sat on the bed we talked them he touched me I moved his hands. Shortly after he left. Haven't heard him after that. He only sent me moving greetings via whatsapp. Should I try to contact him or walk away?...

I am troubled and feel so down.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

23 May 2017 (F - Just looking for advice. I'm 33 and separated from my husband due to domestic violence we separated in December having only been married 3 months. I wasn't happy for a long time and only married as we have 2 kids one is 2 1/2 and the other is 15 ...

Do I date him or not? My mother says NO to dating him. My friend says Yes, or she'll not be my friend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted yesterday

23 May 2017 (F - So this guy likes me and i sorta like him back but people tell him not to date him but my best friend says if i dont she wont be my friend and people that said no because they wont let me date him and my mum says i should say no what should i do?...

Will I ruin our friendship if I ask him out first?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

21 May 2017 (F - A simple one really. A guy I like seems to exhibit all the signs of being into me - dilated pupils, unnecessary physical contact, teasing, lots of talking, grooming around me, etc. Just all that stuff. Yet he hasn't asked me out, and I haven't as...

I am not sure if she feels the same about me. what can I do? I've developed feelings for a female co-worker.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

20 May 2017 (F - Not sure where to start.... So I am a 24 year old female and have developed feelings for a co-worker who is also female but is 45years old. We have worked together for over 2years now, we work amongst a team and work with different colleagues. I wo...

Have you been asked out by someone that you consider a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

20 May 2017 (M - Hello Aunts, I've got this female friend in whom I have been romantically interested in. It's been almost a year since we first met and didn't make a move because I'm a nervous idiot. I feel confident enough to ask her now but I'm afraid I'll lose...

Why's my teacher acting so cold?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

19 May 2017 (F - My favourite teacher in the whole world is my art teacher. He's 30 so he's younger and is able to connect with certain students really well. He's the type of person who can make stupid or rude remarks that make you laugh, but he'll only do this ...

We've become really close and he likes me ... but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

18 May 2017 (F - So, I've been friends with this guy for about 5 months now. Yet, somehow, I can't remember much of my life before our friendship. We've become really close. He has admitted to liking me but we never actually got together because he had a girlfriend. ...

How can I distance myself from a friend without hurting their feelings?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

17 May 2017 (F - I am currently a grad student in college. I used to be best friends with this girl all throughout middle school. We grew apart through highschool, and I am now a graduate in college. Half a year ago, I thought it would be cool if to reach out to her ...

My female friends keep hitting on my boyfriend. What do we do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

15 May 2017 (F - My boyfriend and I, both 26, have been together one year. We met through a social group meetup. We are the youngest among our large group of friends as everyone else is in their 30s. We have been with the group for 1.5 years. We are both social ...

On/off holiday friendship

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

14 May 2017 (F - I met this guy on holiday. We got along really well and I thought he was, well, perfect. Then he had to move away and stuff cause his holiday ended. We exchanged phone numbers and we were texting for a while. After a couple of weeks of texting he ...

Hypothetically speaking should I help my brother cheat on an exam?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

14 May 2017 (F - Hi everyone.. I have more a family kind of question.. So basically recently I had an exam which my friend accidentally missed and she asked me what was in the paper.. and I know in the resit paper, they give the same thing in one of the section w...

How can I discourage his interest while still being kind to him and, if possible, remain friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

13 May 2017 (F - There's this boy in one of my classes who clearly is interested in me. He goes out of his way to talk to me in the hallways, after class, walking into school...he even waits at my locker sometimes. I'm afraid I've inadvertently led him on a bit, ...

My boyfriend needs time to figure his life out!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

13 May 2017 (F - I've written on here before about concerns with my boyfriend not saying I love you after about 5 months. However, we split up/decided to take a break yesterday although I'm unsure exactly which it was. Our relationship has been very happy...

Should I accept his invitation to have this short vacation together?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

11 May 2017 (M - Hello.. There's this nice man living in an adjacent state, who wishes to visit the coast of my country, which is basically located south of it. He wants us to spend 8 days or so together by the end of August. Originally, I'm from the more mo...

If a guy is happy with his Gf then why does he act uncomfortable and angry towards his ex-crush?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

11 May 2017 (F - This guy, his girlfriend, and the girl he use to has a crush on, work at the same place. The "ex crush" is still friends with the guy's girlfriend and he doesn't reallly care for them to still be friends. He use to profess his love to the "ex ...

I don't feel I'm attractive to girls. How do I overcome my insecurities?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

11 May 2017 (M - I have a question, a lot of girls that i have dated don't seem to bother about my looks, and many people tend to tell me that i am goodlooking etc., But i find myself ugly, and i have big lips,etc , which i am made fun of sometimes, and i find tha...

Am I being a drama queen? How can I deal with this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

11 May 2017 (F - I know that to other people this is going to sound ridiculous, but this is a huge dilemma for me because I can't help how I feel. Maybe I'm really upset about something else and this is the tip of the iceberg. I am very uncomfortable wh...

How do I converse with my crush? I'm shy. Should I try, or just let it go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

10 May 2017 (F - So i have a crush on this boy at my school, he's in the same year as i am, but I've never talked to him, not like a real conversation. I'm very shy, and also his friends are like not the same group of people as my friends. I'm afraid that if i ta...

Do you think he'll ever be open to friendship with me? Two weeks after dumping me he was back on dating sites.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

9 May 2017 (F - Hello, I am hoping for some advice and help to make sense of a situation I am in. Was together with a man for 9 months. He lived about 90 minutes away, and for various work and child matters we saw each other from Friday through till Sunday ever ...

Drunk kissed my crush. We attend same classes too. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

9 May 2017 (F - I'm sorry this is so long! But please I need an advise T.T So there's this guy in my college, let's call him M, who shares all classes with me (since it's a small college we are a little class of 19 people that will be together during all the 4...

I do have trust issues. How do I resolve this situation with my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

8 May 2017 (F - Please no negative replies!!! I feel low enough!! I was seeing my boyfriend for over a year. I had known him for 2-3 years before that as a friend. We split about 4 months ago but have kept in touch. The reason for the split was because...

Should I bring up the subject again? Or maybe was he just joking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

8 May 2017 (F - Me and this guy have been off and on for many years. Since Xmas last yr things have been getting better again for us.. him coming to see me from where he lives now more them once a week etc. Yesterday we both was discussing how long we had know...

My friends have started to act childish. How can I sort this out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

8 May 2017 (F - Unfortunately this sounds like children. I have a few friends ive never been interested in having lots of friends . Due to work and family commitments we dont get to see each other much nor message much. Two friends ive not spoken to in 2 month...

Why is my colleague behaving like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

7 May 2017 (F - I am in my 40s and wanted to ask for advice regarding someone in my workplace. He is in his 50s but I never really used to talk to him as he used to work on a different floor and I didn't have much interaction with that department. The...

What are the signs a shy guy liks you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

7 May 2017 (F - What are the signs that a shy guy likes you? I'm friends with and sit next to a boy in one of my classes and I started to realise that I was really into him earlier this year. I was directing a show and I asked him if he'd please be in my band an...

After 4 years, does she like me enough to go on a date with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

6 May 2017 (M - I've been talking to a girl for the last 4 years on and off and we have been friends. For the last 3 and a half years, we've messaged for something like 2 months on, and 4 months off. Just last August, we started messaging back and forth at least ...

My friend told my parents that I am contacting girls

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

6 May 2017 (M - My frnd told to My parents about my relationship...i mean not exactly bt he told that, ur son is contacting to girls.. And my parents hate to be in contacting with girls... So plz tell me what should i tell my parents......

Should I feel bad for not inviting co-workers to my small birthday celebration?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

6 May 2017 (F - Hi there, I recently turned 28 and had a small birthday dinner followed by drinks with with some friends. It was 6 of us and consisted of 3 of my closest friends and two friends who are part of the extended group but not close friends. I'm clo...

I'm annoyed because a friend likes me and I don't return the feelings. Why does it bother me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

4 May 2017 (F - Hi I need some help to understand my feelings. A good friend of mine X confessed that he likes me. I had a hint but I didn't want him to confess because I don't feel the same. I used to text him like a friend but now I feel so annoyed every ti...

Is something going on behind my back? Should I trust him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

4 May 2017 (F - Is it strange for your partner of 17 years not to add you on Facebook when he says it's for workmates ..which is a lie I've never met one person he works with in 8 years has been in the same job . By accident I came across a 3 year old Twitter ...

Why is he denying things about his past that I believe are true?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

3 May 2017 (F - Hey all..need a little advice.. This guy I had been in a relationship has recently come on the scene, He basically moved away with work then met another girl, become engaged had a baby with her etc.. He doesn't know I know all this. I found out vi...

Do I confess to my date about his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

3 May 2017 (M - What do I do? I've got a date with this guy who I've fancied for a long time, but last year, I catfished his ex. Not on purpose, I just wasn't comfortable at the time with my sexuality. We spoke every day and then I realised after a couple ...

Need some advice on a love-triangle situation, please?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

3 May 2017 (M - Hello everyone, I would like some insight on a particular scenario involving two women, one of which is my current girlfriend and the other a friend and also pseudo-romantic interest. Let me explain the backstory. I met two different...

Unhappy in my relationship and I'm attracted to my friend but he's got a girlfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

3 May 2017 (F - Hello dearcupid, I am a 24 year old woman, currently in a monogamous relationship with my boyfriend--let's call him K. We have been together for over five years, and a lot has changed during that time. He is about to turn 39, so there is an age ...

I cant let go of this anger!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

2 May 2017 (M - I am having trouble letting go of anger and resentment for someone that has got under my skin. The guy isn't a close friend, he was more of an acquaintance that I would see and speak to from time to time due to overlapping friendship group...

What do you do when your bridal party and family cannot get along while making plans for your wedding shower and bachelorette party?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

1 May 2017 (F - What do you do when your bridal party and family cannot get along while making plans for your wedding shower and bachelorette party? I have a Pinterest board setup and shared it with my bridal party and they are having opposing views on what they ...

I wish I could get over the love of of my life.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

29 April 2017 (F - Hi there. I was involved in a long distance relationship for about 4 and a half years and broke up almost 10 years ago. I feel foolish and dumb to say that to this day I cannot seem to get over her. She was my first kiss, my first love, and my ...

Best friends--to choose or not to choose?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

29 April 2017 (F - ****My first question was incomplete, ignore. Please answer this one!**** I am friends with these two guys for about 9 years. They are both married. I noticed over the past 4 years the relationship with the two of them crossed over so many bou...

Does my friend have a fetish for trans guys?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

28 April 2017 (M - Dear Cupid(s), I have a cis-male friend who identifies as gay. I don't know if this is something I have noticed being transgender myself, but the only guys he has outwardly said he's attracted to when we are out, or together have all been transge...

Did I do something so offensive that my b/f needs to rethink our relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

26 April 2017 (F - Soooooo my bf and I have been together for a few years now. We have a mutual friend who we've been cool with for a decade. This friend chills with us every other day. My bf feels like our friend doesn't respect him and has attempted to talk with him ...

How can I stop being intimidating and build lasting relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

26 April 2017 (F - I have always had difficulties with relationship with men and I genuinely want some advice and help. It would really mean a lot! I have grown up to be a perfectionist since I was young. Mastering four languages, national level in art, three instr...

Is he cheating on me if he's flirting in public with other girls? Should I kiss him for the first time at the party?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

26 April 2017 (F - hey guys i need some help. I am dating this boy that i have strong feelings for. But recently I see him flirting with some other girls like playing around, like poking their stomach,laughing,and talking a lot to each other in front of me knowing w...

He's still receiving messages from women on a dating site he joined earlier. How can I raise the subject with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

25 April 2017 (F - I met my man through a dating site and all is fabulous 13 weeks on. He says I'm the one for him, and I love him dearly. Since we mutually agreed, that we are 'in a relationship' we both decided to cancel our match accounts. Mine is gone complete...

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