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Do most guy friends behave this way?

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27 March 2017 (F - So for a few weeks I've had a crush on this guy that I see periodically at a social dance event. I have known him but not well for almost a year, but have recently started getting closer to him. We started getting closer once a previous relationship ...

How do I avoid blowing what could have been my best chance to date him?

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26 March 2017 (F - I am a very shy person when it comes to dating usually I meet people through friends so its not so bad. Recently I got chatting with a bloke and we arranged a date. We had our 2nd date this weekend. This date we had at his place and had a few drinks...

Group holiday planned. How can I enjoy the holiday when he will be present ?

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26 March 2017 (F - I'm going on a group holiday next week(which has been arranged for a while) with someone who I really like and have feelings for, but who I have come to realise just enjoys flirting and does not actually have feelings for me at all. The thing is...

Making a move on a friend?

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26 March 2017 (F - I want to make a move on my guy friend. I'm just nervous about wrecking the friendship, but he behaves around me the same way I'd behave around someone I like, but I can't tell if I have a chance or if that's just him. The other night he literally ...

Social life an issue with my mum

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24 March 2017 (F - I struggle to keep friends and I don't know why... I've lost touch with most of my friends from school and I never venture out the house. It's getting me down a lot because I try to make friends but I just don't seem to click :( I've joined so...

LD friend. Should I wait for him?

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24 March 2017 (F - I have been talking to this guy for longer than a month and we get along well. We have both admitted to each other that we really like each other, however we both live in different states, 9-10 hours away from each other. We have spoken about a l...

Why am I getting mixed signals from her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

24 March 2017 (M - This girl at work is giving me mixed signals, seems like mostly negative. On the one hand someone asked her if she likes me ( in front of me), to which she responded "of course I love him". On the other hand she's always telling me I talk too much, ...

She says she wants to be friends with me but wants to take a year off to focus on her new relationship!

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24 March 2017 (M - Hi, I was sort of dating this girl. We flirted, talked every day, I emailed her cute things, amde her things, she sent me a nice care package, etc. but then realized things were not right. We decided since we shared so much, I asked her if we could...

How do I get things back to normal, before we end up not being able to be friends at all?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3 days ago

23 March 2017 (F - I have feelings for someone who has previously told me they reciprocate but for various complicated reasons nothing ever came of it. We get on really well and are attracted to each other. But things have been difficult since this came out into the ...

I suspect my fiance is cheating but he thinks I am stupid!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

23 March 2017 (F - My fiancé was out last weekend and I was informed from one of his friends he was walking a girl home. The weekend before he was out and lost his phone and I call it and a girl answers whom he had left the phone at her house. This was the only...

I'm hesitant about calling her. Is it good idea to call her when she is with her bf?

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22 March 2017 (M - Helo my beloved dearcupid aunts and uncles, i am a guy and i have a female friend. When she come back from vacation, she came with her bf and they are staying together for some days. I didn't call her since she is with her bf together because...

Am I a repressed sex addict?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

21 March 2017 (F - Dear cupid, I am 30 year old woman and I have bein single for most of my life, happily single I should say. I had my first kiss at 15, lost my virginity at 18. These were two kinda isolated events more like a box to tick, virginity gone what's n...

How can I cool this without offending him? I'm feel anxious!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

21 March 2017 (F - I am 70 and have been a widow for 8 years, a married man has been very kind, but recently bought me a rose plant, took me to lunch, and a couple of other visits. He is ok as a friend, the places we have visited are not of interest to his wife, but ...

Roomies are all going in different directions so how do we divide the stuff we bought together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

19 March 2017 (M - It's coming to the end of our lease and I [26,M] just found out I need some major dental work that's going to cost me a TON of money. So to save up again I'm moving back in with my ex-girlfriend, Lana,[22,F] I won't have to pay anything so I should...

His girlfriend is coming between my old friend and me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

18 March 2017 (F - I've been best friends with a guy from grade school, and we were so close and I love him like a brother. We don't see each other very much anymore since I went to college, but we always kept in regular contact via text and Facebook. He has a ...

I put all the effort into contacting her but she never does the same back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

18 March 2017 (M - Ladies, I need your opinion here. I'm friends with a girl who I have always found attractive. I recently found out that she has interest in me too and so we began texting daily. However, from her texts I can sense something's not right. She goes mis...

My friend doesn't know if he likes her or not or if she has a chance with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

18 March 2017 (M - Just wanted to say thank you for taking your time to read this first. This has nothing to do with me, my friend is having problems reading this guy she likes and I thought asking here would help as I understand a lot of people here give out go...

Can someone explain bisexuality to me? GF and her best friend are but I don't understand it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

18 March 2017 (M - My girlfriend's sexuality is what she has stated to be bisexual, but she has no "love-connection" with females, just attraction wise. Now, her best friend is also bisexual in the same way, and they share sexual experiences constantly and w...

I feel I am second priority after my girlfriend's best friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

18 March 2017 (M - Hey guys. I got a question regarding my girlfriend's best friend.. Well, both of them. I feel like my girl's best friend is first priority during the day. I literally can't speak with my girlfriend for more than 15 minutes without her best friend ...

We are really close friends but I want more!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

18 March 2017 (M - I really need some help. For the last 2 and a half years I've been crazy about this girl. We have known each other for years, and are extremely close friends. Over the last couple of years, we've been close to becoming more than friends a few times. ...

I feel like a third wheel in my own relationship! Any advice?

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18 March 2017 (F - Hello aunts and uncles, Me and my bf of a while now have usually been quite close with each other... Even though the majority of our relationship has been long distance, we've tried to keep each other happy and made sure to spend enough time toge...

I want to be her friend and be there for her, but I don't want to be a problem for her and her new boyfriend if she still has any feelings. Advice?

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17 March 2017 (M - Dear friends This may take some time to explain, so thanks in advance. I broke up with my ex-girlfriend last august, but i had wanted to end the relationship since the previous february. In total we were together for about 1 year and 3 ...

It was his first time. But straight after we finished he called his best friend to tell him we'd had sex. Made me feel like an object. What should I do?

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16 March 2017 (F - Hello, I'm a 16 year old girl. When I was 14 I had a relationship with a boy which lasted about 1,5 year. At the time my parents were breaking up and everything was falling apart. I got sexual abused and that boy destroyed me and I felt like de...

Why does my b/f talk to his ex but won't allow me to do the same?

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16 March 2017 (F - My boyfriend of a year is friends with an old ex who he doesn't feel attracted to anymore and I am totally fine with their friendship and glad they are friends. He has another ex who broke his heart and things got messy with her during the break ...

She doesn't want to ruin our friendship but I don't want to lose her to another guy!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted today

16 March 2017 (M - So I have been friends with this girl for 7 months and the friendship has been amazing but the one thing is I want her, but she "doesn't want to ruin the friendship", but we have been in a relationship 3 months ago but we just took some time apart, ...

Boyfriend wants me to indulge in an MMF threesome with his best friend

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

14 March 2017 (F - My boyfriend of a year recently asked me if I would be into a MMF threesome with one of his best friends, although his words were "tag team". He revealed it was one of his fantasy's, and asked me if I would be into it. At the time I said I don't ...

He has cancer and I don't want him to think I'm feeling sorry for him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

14 March 2017 (F - I have just reconnected with an old friend i didnt know him for long before and we are getting to know each other better now. He is a very open guy . He asked me on a date but also 'warned' me hes got cancer again throat cancer this time , its the ...

He never comments on facebook but refers to facebook in real life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

14 March 2017 (F - My apologies for a really silly question to do with facebook (I know life is too short but it intrigues me) and I am old school (in my 40s). If a guy you are friendly with on facebook never comments on your statuses but comments on others that y...

Does he like me or just want sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

14 March 2017 (F - Just when I'd totally shut my self off from dating then the world gave me this guy. I have known him since 2012 but I always ignored him and blocked his calls. Recently I haven't been going out much and he suddenly contacted me. I decided to hang ...

I think my best friend is trying to be me. I cannot handle her behaviour any more. What can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

13 March 2017 (F - I'm on a very difficult situation lately. I've known my best friend for 7 years and we've been through ups and downs but this time, I had enough. A few days ago, I was thinking about my friendship with my (best friend) and I've realized that I'v...

Based on his words and actions since November, is it reasonable to ask if we are exclusive now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

13 March 2017 (F - I had a conversation with the guy i'm seeing and we were talking about which friends are single and which are with someone. So I said when you coming off the market and he said well I am kinda off the market. I said not really then he said ok, ...

Why can't she see he is not a good person? Do I just leave her to get on with things? Since she is not listening

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

12 March 2017 (F - Hello. My good close friend who is 27 has had a rough few years. Her Mother passed away, the Father of her 2 kids left her (he still regularly sees the children) She has begun having a relationship (now 10 months and I have met him once) with someo...

Is this normal? I have never been so happy about ending a relationship.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

12 March 2017 (F - Hello. I have a very short question for those who have enough knowledge about star signs(if you don't you may google info). Short story: I am a capricorn female (21) my boyfriend (now ex) is a Pisces (23). Our relationship was full of drama bu...

She saved pictures of one of my friends. What should I do? Why would she do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

12 March 2017 (F - Hello, My girlfriend and I been together for 8years. But I recently found pictures of my female friend on her iPad. So my girlfriend went on my female friend's Facebook page and saved like 10 pictures of her. What should I do?...

Am I being paranoid, or is he following me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

11 March 2017 (F - I befriended a guy twice my age (already a bad idea, I know) and knew he liked me. But I was honest and told him I didn't see him that way. We were friends and workout buddies. But after a while, I realized he was very immature and kinda creepy. I ...

Why cry? Was she feeling guilty? My LDR is currently studying overseas. She has started a new friendship there but promised me that they would not have full sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

11 March 2017 (M - Hello guys, My gf is studying abroad currently in a relationship with someone else, we were arguing cause i was asking how far their relationship is. The sex) She promised she wont have sex with her current BF but then when i asked if she did to h...

We still like each other but I don't know how to make a move

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11 March 2017 (F - I fell for a guy at a walking group a few years ago. There was a mutual attraction but people in the walking group did everything they could to make sure we did not date. At the time I thought these people were friends and were trying to protect me. ...

Husband found out about my promiscuous teen years

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11 March 2017 (F - I've been married 3 years and my husband and I have a great relationship based on trust on we don't keep secrets. I was recently contacted on Facebook by Erica, a high school friend. When we were in school, we were promiscuous. We did girl on g...

Should you remain friends after a break up?

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11 March 2017 (F - Hi .If you just broke up with lover who is also your best friend and he wants you both to remain best friends what should you do?Is it harmful for u both to be best friends?or can you both stay away for a while and then later be best friends again...

Do I ask my friend for the rest of the deposit when she pulled out on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

9 March 2017 (F - Hi All, This is more regarding a friendship relationship but hope you can help! When organising my hen do abroad I asked who would be interested then set about arranging details for my friends who said yes. Before booking I continuley reco...

Can I be friends with my ex? An instagram post was misunderstood!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

9 March 2017 (F - I went out with this boy, who was the same age as me for about 7 months. He dumped me in January, but I don't really know why. Before we dated we were really close friends and since we have broken up, we have become friends again - just as close as ...

Has anyone dated a family member of a friend?

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9 March 2017 (F - Have you ever been out with your friend's brother/sister and if so did it last and for how long. Did it upset the friendship you had with your friend. I went out with my friend's brother briefly when I was younger (I am in my late 40s now) and I ...

Is it ok for a female coworker to complain about her relationship to a married man to gain his sympathy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

7 March 2017 (F - Looking for other opinions Is it ok for a female coworker to complain about her relationship to a married man to gain his sympathy? Should the married man explain to her that it is inappropriate and stop inviting her to discuss her problems...

Is she being very friendly or flirting with some motive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

7 March 2017 (M - I shall try to make this short. I met a girl on a taxi when i was going to work. We chat and walk till i reach my work place. She ask my contact no. And we exchange our number. We didn't meet for the next 2 weeks. One day we happen to meet again on ...

She dropped me as a friend after realizing we would not work romantically! Why??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

7 March 2017 (M - OK, perhaps people will think I'm daft but in brief I began corresponding with this woman in another country on an international dating site. At first we thought we would just be friends, and we seemed to share a lot: philosophy, books, movies, art, ...

He slept with me, then slept with my best female friend and now he's acting all weird. What's up with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

6 March 2017 (M - i fancied this guy and he gave me a bi vibe. It was all secret cause I'm not out But he ended up sleeping with my best friend who is a girl and has gone really weird lately. He don't talk to either of us since my friend told him he was bad in be...

Terminally ill friend offered me her husband

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6 March 2017 (F - My best friend is suffering from a terminal illness and said something to me that I'm not sure what to about. I'm divorced and haven't had good luck with men and she has been happily married for 10 years. She and her husband are truly great people ...

Could I be his back up option?

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5 March 2017 (F - I joined a dating site a month ago and got chatting with a guy. a couple of week ago he told me he had decided to see how it would go with someone he had already met so he was honest and didnt want to string me along. He said hes still on the site ...

What can I do or say, that might encourage him to ask me out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

5 March 2017 (F - Hello. I know one of my guy friends likes me. But he wont say anything. His best friend used to go out with my sister and it ended badly. His best friend said that he might not say anything because of this Is there a way to help change his min...

My co-worker was pushing invitations to her church, was my response rude?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

5 March 2017 (F - My co worker that I'm friendly with would always invite me to her church and church related activities. She got really pushy and told me not to disappoint God...that it is for my own good.I never had any interest until one day I decided to just see ...

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