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Am I assuming too much? Should just leave now, as he resembles some qualities of my ex?

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17 January 2017 (F - Modnote: Two very similar posts started off the same and were from the same poster. The two have been combined herein. without repeating the identical start . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . So I have been going out with this guy for...

Where's a good place to meet people my age? Any groups or sites you think might suit, and why?

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17 January 2017 (F - I moved city recently and I'm struggling to know people outside work so I joined loads of groups on meeting people sites. But loads of them (no I didnt join dating ones) are full of thirsty older guys, and it's really uncomfortable being at thes...

Boyfriend doesn't post us on social media

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16 January 2017 (F - My boyfriend and I have been official for about 90 days. I have very few complaints about him- I'm extremely happy. We go out regularly and spend lots of quality time together and go on fun dates. But he has nothing about us posted on social media. ...

How do I ask my parents for a day off study?

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16 January 2017 (F - Hi everyone i need some advice on parents.. So recently my parents told me not to go for hangouts with my friends as my exams are in April. They were also worried at first that i was not going to get an offer from any of my universities, bu...

Logically I know it doesn't matter, but I am struggling with my Girlfriend's past!

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16 January 2017 (M - I know a lot of you are going to say this is just another guy with hang-ups and insecurities suffering from hypocritical retrospective jealousy – and to a certain extent you may be right – but I really am desperate to fix this (fix myself?), so ...

Is she his EX? Is my BF being honest to me? He seems very emotionally connected to his woman he says he is helping due to the woman's health issues

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16 January 2017 (F - About almost TWO years ago, my boyfriend who is 37 years old asked me (28 years old) to do him a favour and to please call his female ”friend” (27 years old) to give her an address (which I looked up and it happened to be of a lawyer as far as I can ...

Can two cheaters make a relationship work?

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16 January 2017 (F - I was in a serious relationship with a guy (it was long distance where we had to fly an hour to see each other). Then one day, I find out he had been texting this other girl 10 hours a day, and they were seeing each other for 3 hours a day for ...

I'm panicking my boyfriend will cheat on a guy's trip to Cuba. How should I respond or act in this situation?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted today

16 January 2017 (F - My boyfriend is in Cuba for one week on a guy's trip. I am beside myself with worry that he is going to cheat. I have read that prostitutes are around every corner there and they are dirt cheap. The anxiety is hard to take. I contact him a...

Do I stay with this guy or do I leave?

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15 January 2017 (F - Hi. I am needing advice. When I was 18/19 I got engaged to my ex, we were together almost three years. I was 21 when we split. I met my current partner within three months of my ex and I splitting up (my ex cheated and got engaged to s...

I get pouty when we are apart and he doesn't text!

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15 January 2017 (F - MOD NOTE: 2 Submissions combined. I'm embarrassed to even ask this question, but how often can I expect my BF to text me when we're not together? A little background- we've been together about 4 months. He's very kind, patient, considerate, an...

I feel ill for cheating on my boyfriend.

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14 January 2017 (F - I am currently feeling physically ill for cheating on my boyfriend and I would love some advice on what to do. Me and this other guy did not sleep together just hung out for the day and made out a bit.I am feeling incredibly bad for him as I didn't ...

How can you talk to a platonic friend everyday you used to have feelings for?

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14 January 2017 (F - Hi Ive been wondering something recently... would love people's takes on it- particularly men! My bf is best friends with a girl he says he "used to think he loved" This was years ago but she rejected him. However he still talks to her ev...

Being just friends makes sense but I don't know how to approach this!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

13 January 2017 (M - Hi everyone, I (23/m) met a girl (22/f) last year over the course of a job where we were both away from home. During our time there we became really good friends and it was after the time had ended (and I had broken up with a different girl) ...

Should I take a step back and distance myself from her?

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13 January 2017 (M - so I like this girl who is one of my best friends. when we first met we started something it wasn't serious but that ended due to me and hers mental health issues. anyway we stayed friends and we're really close talk everyday, tell each other ...

Boyfriend has been secretive about his female friend in the past and now she's invited herself to stay with him for a week. How do I handle this?

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13 January 2017 (F - I [21F] am in a relationship with my boyfriend [24M] (Mike, for future reference) for a year and a half, but our problem started about 6 months in. We met on the university both studying physics so it was easy for me to become a part of his college ...

What makes a relationship different from a friendship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

12 January 2017 (F - What makes a relationship diffrent from a friendship? I'm twenty one and my boyfriend is eighteen. At first he would call me pet names say random sweet things and say he loves me randomly and he hasn't done that for the last couple of months (we've ...

Am I wrong? Is she being unreasonable? Would be unprofessional to tell her what transpired, when I was asked not to by my management?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

11 January 2017 (F - I was called into a meeting today at work to discuss something, which wasn't a HUGE deal but which was asked to be kept confidential until he other people involved had been informed. My friend at work asked me what the meeting was about and I sa...

How should I act towards him for the best outcome?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

9 January 2017 (F - A while ago I kissed someone from work who I had liked for a while. He told me he had feelings for me and we began texting. -But then later said because his ex works at the same place nothing could happen. And then kissed a different co wor...

Don't want this to get out of hand. Should I let this messaging everyday friendship develop?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

9 January 2017 (F - Hello everyone. I'm a 19 year old female, looking for some wisdom, perhaps telling me what I instinctively know myself but I just need somebody else's perspective. I've recently gone to university and made a great male friend, and currently...

I still think he cares. How can I convince him that I am fine? Or should I even try?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

9 January 2017 (F - I was in a five year relationship with a man I loved. He lived with me in my home and we did everything together. We saw a counselor together because we had broken up in the past. In one session the counselor made some comment about my memory ...

He still has a dating profile up ...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

9 January 2017 (F - My new boyfriend ( of 2 week ) still has a dating profile online , hes open about it and says he has 'friends' on there . should i tell him he needs to prove theyre friends by showing me the conversations hes having or demand he deletes his profile ...

I like going out with her but it's destroying my self-conference!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

9 January 2017 (F - Whenever I go out partying with my Best friend, all the boys flock to her or spend all evening telling me how hot she is. It is destroying my self confidence but I love hanging out with my friend. What to do? ...

Are my feelings justified or am I making a mountain out of a mole hill?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted yesterday

8 January 2017 (F - I'm really needed your honest opinions.. My boyfriend and I have officially been together for around four months. we knew each-other somewhat before this, however due to us both coming out of serious long term relationships, resulting in bot...

Am I over reacting to husband's online interaction with another woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

8 January 2017 (F - me and my husband are having some problems, maybe its all me i dont know but anyway.. few yeas back i caught him deleting messages from a co worker he said it was nothing but just didnt want me to get the wrong end of he stick so thought he would...

Am I being over sensitive? or is my reaction understandable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

8 January 2017 (F - Feeling fed up! So I'm about to turn 30 in 2 days time I've spent the last year dreading the time coming I don't know why - I know age is just s number etc however my 2 best friends have been insisting that we must do something to celebrate my ...

How to get over the embarrassment of rejection?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

7 January 2017 (F - I expressed interest in guy that I had my eye on 9 months ago but I was politely rebuffed. I felt embarrassed but brushed it .However,I try to be polite and friendly whenever our path cross but things are extremely awkward between us.I wish things ...

He wants me to be his accountability partner!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

5 January 2017 (F - I write articles online and some commenters are allowed to message me on an anonymous mail for private conversations. My type of articles are centred around happenings in everyday life and the struggles faced by youths but I'm in no way an expert...

Help, please? I don't want to hurt my friends, but we all like the same guy. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

5 January 2017 (F - Hi, I'm 13 and I'm in a bit of a love triangle... Well.. Love square. My two best friends like the same boy, and they have for ages now. And guess what? Now I'm in the picture, I like him too. And the thing is, he likes me. I feel bad for my...

How do I get my friend interested in the dating scene?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 13 days ago

5 January 2017 (M - Hi everyone, this is surely going to be a very long question and I'd appreciate any genuine answers as I'm doing this for a friend I care about. So my friend has had a pretty straight yet unusual growing up. Went to a boarding house for 6 year...

I fancy my friend's housemate!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

4 January 2017 (F - I really fancy my friend's housemate. She doesn't. But he is super nice to her and I wonder if he fancies her. She does not see him like that but it makes me feel sad. Is he just being friendly? I feel that everyone always fancies her over me and ...

Should I consider that this friend I like is now available? What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

4 January 2017 (F - I asked a friend who I like and who knows I like him, advice about dating as my ex is now started dating again and my friend told me to get out there etc. I then took a month away from social media. I came back mid/late December and I found out ...

Guy says he doesn't like me, but others say the opposite. What do you think? ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

4 January 2017 (F - Question: Every guy I know says this guy obviously likes me, but the guy himself said to me it's not that way? He's close to me since my break up 5 months ago. He's brought me out, treated me to food and movies, would come all the way to my neighb...

I don't like feeling so alone!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

4 January 2017 (F - I need some advice on being lonely. I posted his question once before and would really appreciate some more help pleasseeeee I've been feeling so lonely that I cry myself to sleep every night. I feel that I have nothing to live for. All I do is...

I'm dating one boy but think about another.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

4 January 2017 (F - Hi I'm a sophomore girl in high school. I'm dating a junior boy, well call J, but I like a freshman, we'll call F. Any way J and I have been together for 2 months and he doesn't even hold my hand, I'm not sure I like him anymore, but he says he's ...

I'm anxious because he doesn't contact or text every day.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

3 January 2017 (F - Hi all Wanted to know if this is normal behaviour from my bf of four months... Ok he's so caring and affectionate, telling me how happy i make him above all else, he loves me compliments etc. But he isn't a big texter/ caller... Ok he plays a ...

I am no longer happy with my BF. what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

3 January 2017 (F - I've been with my partner for 18 months, and after 8 months I moved into his parents house after moving out of my family home. (my step sister was kicked out and needed somewhere to live). We've recently started renting a flat together and since mo...

What I want to know is, if he is seeing my ex best friend then would he really want to stay friends and in touch with me when there is a good chance I would eventually find out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

2 January 2017 (F - My boyfriend of one year an I split up 8 weeks ago. We split because I thought he was seeing my best friend....I still do. He has ALWAYS sworn that he never had and never would have anything to do with her and that one day I will see that. He tells...

Should my BF come to a wedding on his birthday? What would be appropriate to do in this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

2 January 2017 (F - I've been in a relationship for 3 months now and all is going well. We've met each other's friends and spend lots of time together. He's very considerate and caring. I am very happy! However, I'm a chronic worrier and tend to worry wore somet...

Is my ex looking to reconcile, or just hoping to being friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

2 January 2017 (F - Ex gave me two missed calls on the 29th of Dec. He claimed it was accidental. So I didn't react thinking it was genuine mistake. But he wished me a happy new year, and we ended up texting for about an hour. Funny thing about the text was we we...

Wedding is booked. But groom has cold feet. He's 40 and is fearful of commitment. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

1 January 2017 (F - Hi We are due to get married in just a few weeks time. A number of days ago, my fiancee has said to me he has cold feet about the wedding and is overcome with nervousness and fear about the day itself, growing up and getting married. We are ...

Is it possible I haven't found anyone who could excite me and hence I've now lost interest?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

1 January 2017 (F - hi there!! A happy new year to everyone I want to know if anyone has gone through the phase I am going though right now. So it has been over a year I broke up from a bad relationship that was long term. Since my focus is on my career and other p...

Am I wasting my time with him? Should I say something to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

1 January 2017 (F - I have a friend who claims he wants to be more than friends We once went on a date 2 years ago but for some reason ill never know he chickened out meeting up again . Fast forward to now he says hes sorted his head out and knows what he wants . ...

My husband made 160 phone calls in one month to his female coworker! Advice?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

1 January 2017 (F - Geez - where to begin? Suffice it to say that about a year ago I began a downward spiral into depression. (The triggering event was horrific, but unrelated to my marriage). Anyway, I am definitely not myself, anymore, nor do I adequately fulfill the ...

Is there still a chance for us ? Maybe it has been way long over and I just didn't want to accept it? What can I say?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

1 January 2017 (F - I've only known my boyfriend for eight months and we've been dating for sixth months but it has been an on and off relationship. The first few weeks or month was everything I ever wanted to be in a relationship where my boyfriend would take me ...

Am I over-reacting to the news that my Gf of 8 months failed to tell me (until very recently) that her friend was also her ex ?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

31 December 2016 (M - My gf of 8 months and i have been hitting it off great, discussing issues that come up. She recently informed me that she had dated one of her friends-- who we've both hung out with at parties on a lot of special events, ie birthdays etc. I was ...

I hate being alone and will do almost anything so that I am not

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

30 December 2016 (F - A few weeks ago I posted a question about being reallyyyyyyy sad all the time I am an honours student in university, I have a great life at home, I am well off financially, and I have everything I need (not to toot my own horn but I have a ver...

Is he ghosting me? He's not anywhere online. What must I make of this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

30 December 2016 (F - I hooked up with a friend of a friend. I first noticed him on Facebook and grew interest in him. Over time I asked a friend to organize for us to meet. My friend told me he was single I am also single. He's 41 and very handsome. I had hinted t...

A friend has a crush on a guy. I would like to see them become a couple. Or should I help her to get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

30 December 2016 (F - Hi, My problem is that my best friend is obsessed with her crush and I am obsessed with getting them together. All we both do is talk about this GUY. My friend's obsession is quite understandable because she had a breakup and was very dep...

I've given her support over the years. But now she seems to have dropped me. Should I just accept her rejection and move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

30 December 2016 (F - My friend is mad at me after constantly asking me for advice and not liking my advice. Okay I have this friend from college - we met in class 3 years ago and kept an in-class friendship, we messaged almost every day on Facebook but we live 3 ho...

He is moving too fast, talking children, houses and marriage. He already has three kids.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

29 December 2016 (F - I need some advice I met this guy years ago down the pub via mutual friends he admitted he liked me never felt that same way. He then stopped speaking to me due to new gd etc and now has 3 kids with her who is now an ex September those yr he sees ...

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