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On our third date I felt like the third wheel! Am I being unreasonable?

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19 February 2018 (F - I went out with this gent twice. First was a coffee date; good times he was civil we got along well. Mutual attraction so on so forth. Second date went out to dinner. We again got along well. HOWEVER he did mention more then once other girls he...

Do I ask a friend to ask another friend why he's ignoring me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

17 February 2018 (M - I feel silly asking this, but here goes: I have a friend, whom I'll call A, who I was friends with for decades. Over the last few years something has been up -- he has been avoiding me, and doesn't e-mail or call me. We have a mutual friend, ...

Should I try to have a conversation with him about our friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2 days ago

16 February 2018 (M - Hello all hope you a doing well this is going to be pretty long but I appreciate all the help I can get ok then So I'm just looking for advice on a situation firstly I'm male and he is also a male to and at the start of the week I decided to take ...

Is it ever okay to date a mates ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

16 February 2018 (F - Okay so there is this guy I work with (X) and I've always found him attractive but he dated one of the girls I work with (Y) that I'm mates with. I'm not best buds with her but we're pretty close. I've always seen him as off limits as he's her ex.. ...

He treats me like a friend, but gets catty when I talk to other guys

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

15 February 2018 (F - I've been talking to this guy and he shows interest but then he acts like we're just friends and gets jealous when I talk to other guys, I like him too but I want to know why hes being catty? If that what it even is, ...

My girlfriend is insecure. What do I need to do from here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

14 February 2018 (M - I told my gf that we should catch up with an old friend of mine and she got jealous and upset. Ive known this friend for 15 years or so but havent seen them for 6-8 years, havent spoke to her for 3 years! Shes getting married and I tried to t...

I think he really likes me, so how do I help him get his feelings back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

13 February 2018 (F - Hey. So I’m 19. There’s this guy who is 17 and has been a very close friend since the last 7-8 months. He’s like a best friend now. We bonded real well, people actually shipped us. However, there were no feelings back then. Last Saturday, he asked...

I’m not comfortable with my boyfriend’s contact with a woman I’ve never met, and don’t think knows he has a girlfriend!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

12 February 2018 (F - I have an odd situation going on here, i am with my bf for 3 years and one if his female friend whom I never met calls him to ask whether he would do a minor fix in her car. Of course my bf being so nicr said fine. When she vistied his house th...

I want my pastor to treat me as he does others

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

11 February 2018 (F - OK my head is frying and I have no one I can talk to about this without it ending up a mess. My pastor is hurting and confusing me! I am a young single mum to a 8 year old. I find life though sometimes. My pastor came out too see me 3 times in...

I can't get his past trauma out of my mind

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 8 days ago

11 February 2018 (F - I don't understand my feelings about this person and I don't know how to tackle it except I can just ignore him from my life, but I cannot. I had a friend circle at my workplace. wherein this guy was the only one I found genuine amongst all of them....

Is my friend jealous?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

8 February 2018 (F - Hey aunts! Can someone explain what’s wrong with my friend? We met in high school and we became really close. She always had boyfriends but I was always the single friend. So as time went on she got into a two year relationship while I got my 1st b...

I love her but I don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 10 days ago

7 February 2018 (M - Ok so I been with my girlfriend for all most 6 years have a 4 year old son and honestly we have been thru so much from keeping lil lies from each other wen we where younger to frowning and trusting eachother for about the past 4 to 5 years there ...

I guess she want to play hide and seek to me, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

7 February 2018 (M - hi friends, please advice me on what to do. I met this girl in my working place. she work as a waitress and I work as a bartender in the same hotel. she always stare at me starting from the day I got employed and the way she talk to me. our ...

Did I unintentionally ask him out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

6 February 2018 (F - met a guy at the gym that I'm interested in. We talk occasionally, but not a lot. Recently I started a new part time job in an area he also happens to work in. That area is very congested during rush hour and I don't want to fight traffic on my wa...

Do we try to help this couple, whose marriage is deeply troubled?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

3 February 2018 (F - So this is for a couple who have been family friends for a long time, let call them A (the woman) and B (the man). They've had differences in approach and tension going on, but now they have stopped conversing all together. They have a child and ...

Gay friend is sending mixed signals to me playing hot and cold

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

2 February 2018 (M - So I have this friend. It's always been at the brink of evolving into a friendship but never really does because our personalities are different. This friend on the surface is very sweet and nice but when in club context he sometimes used to come on ...

I didn't realise being a bridesmaid would mean so much pre wedding work!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

1 February 2018 (F - Hi folks, I’m looking for some help working out if I’m being unreasonable; if my friend is; or if it’s a bit of both. So basically my friend is getting married in August and I’m going to be a bridesmaid. That’s all fine, but the problem is she s...

I don't want to give my friend false hope

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

1 February 2018 (M - Dear all I just need some advice. A good friend of mine told me she had feelings for me last November. I didn't have those feelings so rejected her and she was upset. It was tough for some weeks but eventually she stopped being upset and we seeme...

Three dates in and she does't want to kiss!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

29 January 2018 (M - So I met a girl through Tinder and we went out for dinner. I'm 30 and she's 27. We hit it off really well. We talked for nearly 4 hours. She had a pretty bad cough though, and I didn't attempt any sort of physical contact except a brief touch of the ...

Partner has been cheating with my best friend for the past five years.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

29 January 2018 (M - Me and my girlfriend been together for over 9 years, only couple of days ago she dropped a bomb shell on me saying she’s been cheating on me with my best friend, my heart sunk, I was heart broken to be hearing this. We met in 2009 till now we still ...

Am I justified in feeling hurt or did I do the wrong thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

29 January 2018 (F - Dear Cupid, Sorry for the long post, Thankyou to anyone who takes the time to read my story. I am in my late twenties and in a new relationship of 6 months with a man 2 years younger than me. He is the most amazing person I have ever met a...

He’s very affectionate towards everyone! Does this sound strange?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

27 January 2018 (F - Hi there I started seeing a guy around 3 months ago. One of the things i love about him.is that he is very very affectionate towards me. At gome and out in public. He sometimes says to be before we go out'can i kiss you a lot tonight in publi...

The thought of breaking up with my boyfriend is hard but I can't get the new girl out of my head

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

27 January 2018 (F - Hello! I have a sticky situation and need advice on what to do. My boyfriend and I have been together for roughly two years, we have had plenty of ups and downs during this time. He has been steadfast through each fight, though, as have I, u...

Is he hiding something? Is he only trying to make me jealous that he has a girlfriend? Does he EVEN got back with her? What is he aiming for?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

27 January 2018 (F - I've known this guy for about 2 months. We talk everyday all day Mon stop. When we first met he was single, and then he started to flirt and trying to take it into a relationship. I don't want a relationship with anyone right now, and he knows it. ...

Should I get someone else to tell him I am not going on the cruise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

27 January 2018 (F - Thank you for your patience... First some background; week before Christmas my soon to be EX apologised for hitting me, minutes later I said “that will be the last time you touch me like that!” He immediately erupted too accuse me of hitting him ...

How to deal with my two-faced work friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

26 January 2018 (M - I have a friend, she’s around 8 years younger than me (24). She has always been very nice to me, though she is quite an intense person generally. She’s incredible career obsessed and focused. She recently moved to my department at work. I noticed ...

My boyfriend says he will break up with me if I move 150 miles away

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

25 January 2018 (F - Iv been dating my boyfriend for a year and i love him so much. But i want to move in with my friend who lives 150 miles away and my boyfriend says if i do he will split up with me and look for someone else. So now i feel trapped because i dont want ...

How to get rid of a clingy yet toxic friend ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

22 January 2018 (F - I am a female student presently studying at a university where I met this other woman friend at a social gathering through some common friends.She was whining a lot about how she was not coping up at studies and with university life in general. Some ...

I can’t figure out what happened with him?!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

21 January 2018 (F - So I was talking to this guy for like some months now. We found each other online though we already knew each other beforehand, we started talking in a dating manner only from like 4 months before... so i had never really met him after we started ...

I feel I owe this married man an apology

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

19 January 2018 (F - Hello Aunts, I met this man sometime in 2015 when i was on a temporal job in another state in the country. He is Married with a son. When we first met, he was attracted to me and we pretty get along so well. He dropped hints about dating me bu...

Is it normal to keep in touch with ex's now he's married?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

19 January 2018 (F - Hello My husband and I have been together for 11 months. Our relationship for the most part is very passionate and loving. We have had a few arguments but who doesn’t? Overall I love him a lot and want to spend my life with him There are a...

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