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Should I move on? She had a crush on this guy previously. They've had recent conversations with each other

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21 February 2017 (M - I recently found out that my wife is having inappropriate conversations with someone who she had a crush on several years ago. I know for a fact that she asked this person a hypothetical question saying "Let me ask you something, what if I say he...

I don't in the slightest trust this artist who she met for lunch recently . Am I just insecure?

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20 February 2017 (M - I am engaged to be married (2nd time for both of us). Because of her work my wife to be has developed many male friends/acquaintances including some who have been keen to take it further than platonic. She presents very innocently of al...

Should I ask if we are boyfriend and girlfriend?

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20 February 2017 (F - I have been dating a guy I met on tinder since December. We seem to get on really well and I feel that we always have good dates. After the 10th date, we slept together and have slept together a few times since. We have now probably been on...

Is he just being a generous best friend, who loves my company? Or is he in love with me?

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20 February 2017 (M - Good morning Aunties, I have a mighty problem I need help with. I am a bisexual man, 33 years of age. I am attracted to this 19 year old guy. He says he doesn't love me as a lover but as a friend. He says he is Christian and that his parent woul...

Did I just get friend-zoned?

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20 February 2017 (M - So ive been talking to this girl , she Has trust issues from her past relationship she told me but before We texted each other goodnight she told me this Thanks for being the bestest friend.. did I just get friendzoned ??...

How can I talk to them about this? What can I do about my boyfriend and my best friend? He hangs out with her when I'm not present

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19 February 2017 (F - My best friend and I are very different people and we get on really well, even though I no longer see her very often. We have been friends for years. A year ago I helped her get close to a guy she liked who I liked at the same time. Things did...

I'm worried that my bf will randomly break up with me. How can face my insecurity and fear of this happening to me?

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19 February 2017 (F - I have a sort of silly worry to ask advice about. One of my good friends recently got broken up with. She met her BF in July and everything seemed to be going pretty well for them. I didn't think he was super considerate of her and she went out...

Should I tell my ex-best friend I have feelings for him ?

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19 February 2017 (F - I have a best guy friend. For about 2 years we were always together , flirting, deep connection . I can't explain it was more love . Everyone used to think we was a couple I'm 99% sure he liked me but neither of us pushed for it .I wasn't sure whe...

Do I pursue him or just move on? My boyfriend and I broke up but now he says we can be friends as he does not want me out of his life

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18 February 2017 (F - My boyfriend of 18 months and I fall out over something silly. Did not talk for a month, then he told me it was over. He said that I was amazing, would not change anything but we were not compatible. He also said that it hurts too much to talk...

Is he trying to convey something by winking at me?

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18 February 2017 (F - Hello there, My co-worker and I were very good friends at work. We had never gone out together, I felt some subtle hints from him. Then we got into major conflicts, he came by to apologize afterward. After that, I backed off and just be another ...

Why is my friend touching me this way?

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17 February 2017 (F - I have a friend whom I know from 2 months and we became close in a very short while... From few weeks he is touching my sides, hips and breast. What does this mean? ...

How can I stop feeling so very angry with my ex boyfriend? ?

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17 February 2017 (F - Hi , I used to be in a relationship with this guy , we started off as being friends he was all pleasant he even sat alone with me to have lunch . But then things started to change, we both developed romantic feelings for each other, we both fel...

Am I too old to make positive changes in my life?

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16 February 2017 (F - I'm just going to preface this by saying that I know I may receive answers that I may not want to hear, but I just need honest answers so that I can have closure. When is a woman too old to find someone, to get married, get into a profession or ma...

If he misses his ex does that mean his affection for me was fake?

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16 February 2017 (F - Seeing him for 3 months. He told me he loved me 3 separate times when drunk, to which I didn't respond. He came over to my place all the time, he said he wanted to meet my parents. Then the last time he told me he loved me, the next day he just sto...

I'm crushing on an older female doctor. How do I ask her out?

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16 February 2017 (F - I have a huge crush on a medical professional. I want to be as vague as I can be so bare with me. TL;DR I have a crush on my female doctor who's twice my age. How do I ask her out? Should I even do it? She's easily double my age... she's su...

A straight friend wants to have sex with me. Should I?

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16 February 2017 (M - Hi.i have a friend who i would like to have sex with.he is straight i am gay. What should i do?ahead thanks....

He suggested we have a meal together. Do you think it's a date?

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15 February 2017 (F - My male friend and I were supposed to just be going out for drinks this Friday night, but he asked me if I wanted to go out for a meal before that too. Do you think it's a date? He hasn't said whether it is or not. I feel nervous about havin...

Where Can I Find A Guy To Date Casually?

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15 February 2017 (F - I moved to a new city recently so don't know too many people outside work (I do have lovely good friends, but they're mostly older women who can't introduce me to many guys) and not many single guys my age. I'm inexperienced with guys too, never ...

Would I be doing myself a favour to just tell him how I feel?

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15 February 2017 (F - When should you tell someone how you feel? A friend and work colleague kissed me a while ago and told me had feelings for me but it all went wrong as he had an ex in the same work place and didn't want to make things awkward. I have been trying...

How can I find out if we are more than friends?

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14 February 2017 (F - I have known this guy for about 7 years now; we were good friends at uni but then we lost touch when we graduated. We recently reconnected at a mutual friends wedding, and have been messaging on and off ever since. For the past couple of months, we ...

My husband wants me to give his friend a hand job!

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14 February 2017 (F - my husband has been trying to talk me into giving his best friend a mercy hand job , Because his wife has some kind of a medical problem ? His friend has been so sad ever since his wife has cut him off . I am seriously considering doing it for him ...

Boyfriend's grandmother died, should I go to the funeral?

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13 February 2017 (F - My boyfriend of 2 years grandma recently passed away. He's asking me to go to a funeral with him to comefort him. I told him I would feel out of place and not comefortable because I never really knew his grandma or other relatives besides his ...

Is it common for a male to leave his stuff in another man's house? He has a GF. I have a crush on him.

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13 February 2017 (M - Hello, is it common for a male to leave his stuff in another man's house? I have been attracted to this guy who I am much older than. He is 19, I am 33. He says he isn't attracted to me, and sees me as a best friend. We have so much in common, ...

Should I go with him and be miserable or stay at home and get anxious?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

13 February 2017 (F - Dear Cupid I'm with my Current bf for a year, he never told me he loves me though I told him twice. He mentioned that he is not comfortable saying it, since it feels like forced for him. So we do not talk about love anymore. We live 45 minu...

My parents are very critical of friends and boyfriends.

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13 February 2017 (F - I have 2 very loving and involved parents. My one complaint is that they can be too judgmental of the people in my life. I have always been very cautious and responsible. But I do have a history of choosing lousy boyfriends/ accepting way le...

I fear our cultures will clash too much!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

12 February 2017 (F - Dear agony aunts Recently I have been seeing a guy that I really like and starting to have feelings for, we have been on several dates and been seeing each other for the last couple of months I like this guy so much but he is English living i...

Shall I forfeit the money and not go on this holiday abroad next month?

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12 February 2017 (F - About a month ago my friend and another couple and their friend (who I know but not really friendly with) agreed to go on holiday abroad next month. My friend and I had gone on a holiday together the previous year with another group and in that ...

I think he might want more than to be my friend.

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12 February 2017 (F - Does my male friend fancy me?. I have spoken to him about my ex boyfriend sometimes. He kept saying that I deserved to be treated better than how my ex was treating me. We had a night out last night. He touched my leg with his foot in a jokey way a ...

A year after breaking it off with me he wants my phone number, should I give it to him?

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12 February 2017 (F - So I have a question I'd like some help with. I'm really confused as to whether I should get back with my ex. I was with my ex for 9 years 15-24. There were no issues everything was great almost perfect but nothing is perfect I guess. I loved h...

Friend uploaded video of me saying things when drunk. She won't take it down but I'm worried

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11 February 2017 (F - My friend uploaded a video of us playing drinking games when we were at hers. In it, I am slightly tipsy (as we all are) and I can be heard saying rather inappropriate things which I feel could implicate my future. I've told her I'm worried abo...

He sent me a happy birthday text then unblocked me. Is this a good sign?

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11 February 2017 (F - Just wanted a few opinions I had a huge falling out with a guy I was close friends with We didn't talk for a long time bar the sporadic text So he messaged me happy birthday a few weeks ago and I noticed this week has unblocked me from a mes...

I'm jealous that my male best friend had beenseeing someone!

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11 February 2017 (F - My best friend and I have known each other since we were 12 years old. So about 9/10 years now. We've always been best friends. Never argued etc.. he was there for me after my terrible breakup from my ex boyfriend. (He would tell me he will always ...

Do I tell my friend who I've seen on the dating site?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

11 February 2017 (F - I have just joined a dating site and all is going well . My best friend met a guy on a night out and started seeing each other , even tho there is no official 'label' between them (boy/girlfriend) He did say to her and she agreed they would see how ...

Do I tell my best friend how I feel and risk messing everything up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

10 February 2017 (M - Hi I'm a bi guy who is falling quite literal for my best. Friend. He's st8 as far as I know but we hang out together a lot I'm best friends with him and his younger brother I really don't know what to do and it's killing me. Do I tell him and risk...

Why do I keep having sex dreams about a girl I think of as a little sister?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

10 February 2017 (M - I am 32 years old and one of my best friends, Danny, is 28 years old (we played football together in high school). He has two sisters (an older sister, Rebecca, who is 32 years old and a younger sister, Lisette, who is 22 years old). I am close to ...

Is It Time To Ditch My Toxic Friend?

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10 February 2017 (F - I've only known her for a few months, at the start she was OK but she has become nasty. She is always oneupping me in conversation. For example if I make a casual remark about how I like a dress or something, she'll be like "Oh that dress isn't for ...

I literally melt when the man I like touches me or stares at me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

9 February 2017 (F - Hello. I'm in my mid 25s, in love with a man at work. I very much enjoy my job so wouldn't risk it unless it's really worth it. The man is still playing the field and after inviting him over for coffee and a frank discussion it's clear we want ...

I need help to deal with new found info about wife's past. What should I do?

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9 February 2017 (M - My wife and I have been married for five years and have two kids. I have never asked anything about her past all I knew is she wasn't a virgin when we met. This past summer we were at a pool party and one of my best friend's from school was ther...

How do I deal with this? Whenever I invite a friend over she invariably does not show up

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

8 February 2017 (F - I have a friend I've known for several years. She has a very frustrating habit in which she will set a day with me to meet up, and then not show up. I really don't understand how you can simply disregard to tell a person you are not coming and let ...

My boyfriend doesn't want me going out with male friends for drinks

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

8 February 2017 (F - Am I in the wrong ? After recently starting uni I made a small group of three male friends whom I worked on an assessment with and we automatically became friends. We are all older than the normal uni starting age so its nice to have someone on ...

Why did he use the word coolio?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

8 February 2017 (F - I apologise for a really silly question but when i was messaging an acquaintance about an email i thanked him and he responded with the word coolio. I didn't want to ask him what it meant as i felt silly but the only time i have heard that word ...

How can I keep calm in this intense situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

8 February 2017 (F - I want to ask on relaxation tips and trying not to be paranoid in a very stressful time in my life- here is a quick summary I got laid off from my last job(I work in HR(5years of experience with a masters) and I landed a reputable job in...

He's verbally abusive. Consequences of leaving him concern me. Why do I seem to have the worst luck with men ? ??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

8 February 2017 (F - what am I meant to do? how am I meant to feel? what do I do? I ask these questions and I'm not even sure If they are the right questions to ask!! I have no one in my life that I can talk to about any of this. I'm feel alone and need to feel lik...

Does he sound like a shy guy?

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7 February 2017 (F - I am in my 40s and have just recently become friendly with a school dad. I sort of knew about him at school (he is a single dad), chatted briefly to him at a party last year and hadn't spoken since. He didn't really acknowledge me and then I ga...

Do you think he actually likes me, in the same way that I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

7 February 2017 (F - I really am crushing on this boy at my uni. It has been going on for quite some time but I don’t see him very often – maybe once or twice a month. Sometimes I don’t see him for a few months. We have very different classes and schedules. We ha...

I discovered that my 16 year old has had sex. Should I punish her by cancelling her "sweet sixteen" birthday celebrations?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

7 February 2017 (F - i recently found out by going through my 15 year old daughters phone that she has recently lost her virginity to an 18 year old guy whom is now dating another girl in the same area as us. When i first confronted her she denied it but eventual...

Should I say something? Or cut ties with them? My friend uninvited me to their wedding

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6 February 2017 (F - I have been good friends with the groom for over 4 years. He and the bride said I was invited to the wedding ceremony. I was surprised as a registry office is usually small so was please to be asked. The bride asked if I had my invitation w...

We're on a break so he can deal with his issues and I need advice on how to manage this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

6 February 2017 (F - My boyfriend has been depressed for a month now. At first, he didn't know as he'd never experienced it but as I have, I started noticing it and told him. His relationship with his father is strained and his father has been putting immense ...

Slept with my best friend, My boyfriend is hurt, help?

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6 February 2017 (F - My best friend Michael and I always hang out on his bed and play video games, watch movies, listen to music, do work, or just talk. Last night we were just watching tv and taking about past senerios and we hit some that are sensitive to me and I ...

He was once my crush. Does he like me? Or is he just being weird?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

5 February 2017 (F - There is this guy at school who keeps staring at me. We are actually quite good friends and do talk outside of school from time to time. I genuinely trust him but for some reason, he's been acting strangely lately. It started about six months...

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