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We send each other saucy pictures and flirt... Are we having an affair?

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7 November 2009 (F) - Over the past 2 years I have become friendly with 1 of the guys i work with-we are based in different parts of the country but sometimes he comes over for meetings where im based. He is married with a child and im getting married next year. I want t...

Help! My friends and family are taking advantage of my skills. How do I say no and not offend anyone?

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7 November 2009 (F) - Afternoon all. I recently qualified as a hairdresser a few months ago and since then i have been at everyones beck and call to do their hair. For example my family just take advantage and say "i need my hair cut this week" and expect me to j...

I need to get him out of my head forever. How do I get rid of his so-called "friendship"?

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7 November 2009 (F) - I am so upset by this so please no horrible answers. My ex friended me on facebook-i hadnt seen him for 4 years-it was to tell me he had got married. We were due to get married but it ended really badly because he barely showed any love or care-i o...

I feel called to love this girl... Should I wait or take the chance?

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7 November 2009 (M) - My general dilemma is if I should wait or take the chance with a close friend of mine who recently came out of a relationship. Though you need to know some background for the full story. The friend and I have been friends for about a year now...

Feeling down about my friends... they only call when they need a favor or have a problem!

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7 November 2009 (F) - I've been feeling really bad lately. The friends who I thought were my true friends don't seem that way- they seem to only call when they need a favor or have a problem. When I have a problem, they pretend to listen or act like they care, but then ...

I don't know where to start trying to repair this friendship...?

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7 November 2009 (M) - hi, months ago i fell in love with a girl completely, she had a boyfriend she did things with me... weve recently started uni and stupidly whilst drunk (i know thats no real excuse) told her sister what i had done with her sister. The girl who i di...

I don't know if I want him, or want to be with him?

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6 November 2009 (F) - I work with a really nice gut we have a lot of things in common and we get on great.But I'm unsure if I actually like him or not..? We mess around and are often tickling or poking each other and have great chats together.I think I might just lik...

My friends are talking about having sex, I feel ashamed.

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6 November 2009 (F) - ok this is a really embarrasin thing to ask but here goes...all my friends are 13-14 year olds but talking about already have sex, im still a virgin and when im with my friends it feels like something i should be ashamed of i dont know what to do ...

My friend has an old friend she likes...she doesn't want to ruin the relationship.

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6 November 2009 (M) - I got this female friend, in her mid 20s. She and this guy are old friends and now she likes him, except she doesn't know how to start a relationship without risking their friendship. She always said she wanted a guy to be stronger/more do...

Does my best friend fancy me?

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6 November 2009 (F) - Well, basically, theres this lad in my class who me (and like 50 million other girls) fancy. I don't know whether to ask him out or not though! I'm not the type of person AT ALL to just go out with like anyone, and neither is he, in fact ive neve...

Is my ex friend annoying me to get my attention?

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6 November 2009 (F) - Me and my bff haven't been friends for 6 months. We don't talk or anything. I don't acknowledge her in any way. But, lately she has been doing stuff to piss me off or hurt me. She stares at me, walks past me or through my class on purpose,...

I think I'm falling for my best friend!

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6 November 2009 (F) - So, here's the situation. I have been dating my current bf for a year and a half. He's such a great boyfriend and he treats me really well and I do love him. But, me and this guy, who I've known for about a year started getting close about ...

I can't ask him directly, so how do I know If he likes me?

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6 November 2009 (F) - i have a guy friend who i have been friends with for a year now, we have fun together and he makes me laugh, i used to think he liked me but i am not sure, i really like him now and i just want to know how i can hint to him i like him but i wnat to ...

Me and my best friend...I just wanna know why...???

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6 November 2009 (F) - Ok, so my best friend and I haven’t been friends for about 6 months because I was a bad friend and she chose her boyfriend over me and everyone else. He told her not to be friends with me anymore and she listened to him. She would have never ever ...

Why is my friend avoiding me?

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6 November 2009 (F) - last week me and my friend of 2 years got closer. as we were about to have sex he stopped saying that something didn't feel right. he also said he's still thinking of his ex (whom he was in a relationship with for a couple of weeks some months ...

If I tell him the engagement is off surely it will break up our relationship?

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6 November 2009 (F) - i'm 16 and engaged. my friends think i'm insane but i love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him. it is only a ring and we have agreed not to get married until i have finished university. what is the big deal? maybe it is too soon to ...

I have no friends!

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6 November 2009 (F) - I'm a 30 year old girl, married for one year now. I have a strange problem of not having any good friends. When I was in school I used to have few very good friends with whom I used to hang out often. Later in Uni I never had any close friends whom ...

Does he want more than friends with benefits?

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5 November 2009 (F) - Ok this is a bit of a story but i'll try and keep it brief as poss! Basically, over the weekend I had my 18th birthday party, and obviously there was quite a bit of drinking involved. One of the people there was this guy G, who I have had a friend...

Is she really that busy?

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5 November 2009 (M) - I have been exchanging emails with this girl. She has written twice that she is sorry it took couple of days to reply to my email, but she first mistakingly thought that she had replied me and only later realized she hadn't. Do you think it's pos...

Drunken mistake won't leave me alone...

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5 November 2009 (F) - This guy i did stuff with while drunk keeps trying to contact me through facebook, but he was just a DISGUSTING mistake and I really don't want to have anything to do with him... How can I reject him without seeming like a bit of a b****?...

Does he still love me? And why is he ignoring me?

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5 November 2009 (F) - I was with this guy for a year and we both loved one another very much. But there was a lot of struggles we had to go through to be together and we both got tired of it so we decided that we should just stop for a while. Well... after that I text ...

My best friend is dating my ex who I still love... what should I do?

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5 November 2009 (F) - I want to know what to do... my friend well "best friend" and i have been bickering back and forth for a while now over dumb things.... lately the reasons we've been fighting because every time i just break up with a guy she goes and asks him out ...

I might want more... Eventually

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5 November 2009 (F) - hey. Well straight to the point. I've been talkin dirty over the net to this guy i've known for quite a long time. We've been good mates for a couple of years now. So, We're planning to get down and dirty, sometime soon in the future. But i ac...

Is it possible for a woman to fall in love after spending only 3 intimate weekends together?

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5 November 2009 (M) - Is it possible for a woman to fall in love after spending only 3 intimate weekends together? We are both divorced and single. We both have kids that are grown and on their own, so in that aspect there is no problem. Even if they were small or ...

Why does he not respond? Does he need space?

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5 November 2009 (F) - The guy I am dating had a birthday and I text him happy birthday and something nice at the late evening, on that day and the day after in the morning I text him happy good morning and happy birthday and some very nice sentences about that, he is the ...

I can't tell if he's just not interested or if he really is busy. Do I respond or just let it go?

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5 November 2009 (F) - I met this guy about 3 weeks ago and we went out and we had what I thought was a great date. So great in fact we decided to go out the next night as well, which in retrospect was probably not a smart move. Then he just didn't call me or anything. ...

How can I show my ex-friend I am happy without him?

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5 November 2009 (F) - So I have an ex-friend who I kinda dislike. But today I felt upset because he was with other people and I felt lonely and like I had nobody. I do have my own friends but I feel alone too sometimes. I want to show him that I'm happy with not being ...

I am falling for my "friends with benefits" guy, should I tell him?

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5 November 2009 (F) - I am in a friends with benefits relationship with a guy who is not ready for a relationship. I thought I wasn't ready either so the arrangement at first suited me fine plus the XXX is fantastic. But lately I have found we have both been getting very ...

We both really like each other but she has a boyfriend?

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5 November 2009 (M) - This is kinda long/confusing but i'll keep it simple. I'm a senior in high school and have had a great friend since my sophomore year. Back then when she was a freshman, she had a big crush on me but i was oblivious since even if i was great friends ...

I am concerned my friend needs help, but won't let me help her!

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5 November 2009 (F) - I am having friend problems. My family and I moved away and I’m now 30 minutes away from my friends. My friend “Abby” started hanging out with her co-workers and likes this guy at her work- this guy is a total player (he asked out every girl at the ...

Are these signs she wants to pick up where we left off, or just remain a friend?

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5 November 2009 (M) - I'm not sure if my married friend, who I have had a relationship with in the past, wants to remain my friend, or pick up where we left off. I'm terrible at picking up signals, and when we hang out, we usually just talk, and she always stretches out ...

Let him go and hope for his return or tell him how I feel and ask him to stay and chance ruining our remaining time or just let go?

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4 November 2009 (F) - My problem is, I am seeing a guy, let's call him 'A', and he is moving to France (both he and I live in London at the moment). I met him through a previous boyfriend of mine, 'C', who I dated for several months, and this prevented me and...

My boyfriend is jealous of my best friend

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4 November 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have always gotten along and have a close bond but theres always been somthing that pisses me off. He's jealous of my best friend who is male and also an ex of mine. I've explained so many times that there's nothing going on and ...

My former best friend not only made a pass at my girl, he grabbed her butt!

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4 November 2009 (M) - Ok on my birthday my former best friend not only made a pass at my girlfriend but a couple of hours after he left we were sitting together and she told me that he grabbed her butt. Now what would should i do??...

We're drifting apart and I don't know how to change it!

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4 November 2009 (F) - My guy friend has stopped talking to me! He still stares but I haven't seen him in a while. When I left class to be dismissed we both looked at each other and I left. He texted me one day but not much lately. I hope I didn't hurt him when I told him ...

She's making out with me one minute then ignoring me the next???

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4 November 2009 (M) - hey, long story (kinda) short, im 15, and there is a girl in the year above who has been one of my close friends for quite a long time, but i realised that i liked her more than that. A few weeks back i told her how i felt, and she told me that she ...

How can I overcome irritation when she doesn't call as promised?

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4 November 2009 (M) - Women not returning calls. I would like some advice on what do when a lady promises to call even though she knows she won't call. I have a friend who is a girl. Whenever she has an academic need she bombards my phone with calls. In fact one day ...

How do I convince my brother's friend that we should try dating?

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4 November 2009 (F) - I really really like my brother's best friend. We have been flirting with each other for months and a few weeks ago he asked me to go to dinner with him. When my brother found out he was upset because neither one of us had told him about it. He f...

Could my two friends be having a secret affair?

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4 November 2009 (F) - I'm not sure why I'm writing this but here goes. At college, I know this girl and to me it looks like this girl likes other girls. I know this sounds stupid but I'm not sure if it's in my head or if it's true. This girl (the main one-lets call her ...

I know he likes me. Is there a chance for us?

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4 November 2009 (F) - Hi i'll apologize in advance for the legnth of this. I'll give you abit of background info as over the last 2 years ALOT of stuff has happened. People have said things, the way they have acted and the way this guy has acted to make me and others ...

Help me cope with my worry about someone I care about deeply!

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4 November 2009 (M) - Hey there. Umm, starting this is really hard so I'll start from the beginning and a bit of a backstory.. I've recently started university and I met a girl here on my first day, in fact she was the first person I met here. A few days later we open...

I'm trapped in a marriage with a husband who prefers masturbation over sex!

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4 November 2009 (F) - We've been married for 3 months, been together for 3 and half years in total. We lived together for a year but I moved back in with my parents cos I hated his housemates. We got our own place and moved in a week before the wedding. For me the bigg...

My good friend wants to see my penis. Should I show her?

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4 November 2009 (M) - i have a realy good friend and she ask me to show her my penis i dont know if should show her but at the same time i dont know why she want to see it can someone help me with this...

I've been having online sex chats with him but I think I am starting to want more from him!

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4 November 2009 (F) - Hi I am 29 female in need of bit of help I am very keen on a guy whom has been my friend for so many years. he is so keen in me as someone whom give’s sex talk with. but is keen to have sex if we both get a chance when ever It is possible.. We...

Should I end this now and rebuild our friendship or see what happens next?

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4 November 2009 (F) - I have been known this guy since I was 3 years old. I was best mates with his sister right until Highschool. I dont remember him through my childhood years though, he was the shy kid... The last couple of years me and this guy have reconnec...

Friend & I become very involved and now his g/f is upset. Should I try to intervene?

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4 November 2009 (F) - Hi I'm in a strange problem.I'm a happily married woman immensely in love with her husband but was somewhere lonely.my husband switched his job to a foreign country and i had to stay here for one year. soon after reaching there, he got busy and had ...

Is this bad karma?

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4 November 2009 (M) - My ex-best friend was a cheater and a liar to his ex girlfriend who is my current Girlfriend who I love and wish to marry one day though he hadnt done anything wrong by me.He had done so much of wrong by her and I and her ex fell in love.Now he is ...

They say I am pretty but fat. Should I be offended?

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4 November 2009 (F) - Okay soo. Im 13 and i am over weight. please dont comment giving me tips on how to lose weight or on how to be healthier, im offended enough. i have low self asteem when it comes to my body, i have a stunning face but my body just isnt right, and ...

Does this guy want me only if my friends like him?

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4 November 2009 (F) - im really not sure what to do.. i met this guy online and he lived outa state at the time. We were talking for like a month or so and every thing was fine we were getting along great.. he's been here for a week and a half, ive met him and everything ...

Help me win my girl back, its childish young love but its driving me mad !

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3 November 2009 (M) - Ok basically, about a week ago I went on a school trip with the music department to New York, and me and a girl ive known for years got quite close. Throughout the 1st few days we were holding hands alot and were hugging alot, but neither of us ...