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How do I get this woman out of my life without hurting feelings or jeopardising the other relationship with the mutual friend?

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20 September 2017 (F - I was on here a year or two back about a friend I have had for a while who was always putting me down, trying to be smart and reminding me in her jokey way of any 'blunders' I may have made in years gone by. She is friends with another mutual f...

Do gay men get asked about oral sex by straight men often?

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20 September 2017 (M - Been with my new girlfriend for eight months,she gets off a couple times in a half hour, myself she wishes I would,but I don't get off that easy, the sex is real good, I've try to last a lot longer all my life , a quickly is a half hour or so, if I ...

Should I give my old teacher this small gift?

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19 September 2017 (F - Last month I went on holidays to do a language course in another country. I told that to a teacher of my uni and she recommended me a shop which of course I visited and liked a lot. I bought some presents for my family and friends and also something ...

She said she wants to hangout with her friends which is fine except for my concern about this one male friend!

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19 September 2017 (M - My gf of 1.5 years is amazing for the most part. We have talked about getting married and moving in together and everything. We plan on moving in in the next 6months. Recently she told me that she feels that she will miss out on being young cause ...

How do I get him to understand my loneliness?

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18 September 2017 (F - Hi everyone. I'm just looking for a bit of advice. I am married to my partner who I've known since we were kids. I've been feeling so lonely recently as I feel like I've lost connection with my friends. I work and sit at home waiting for my husba...

I really like him, I think he likes me too, but he says he isn't ready for a relationship.

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17 September 2017 (F - Hi all I became really close to a guy back in June. He worked for a rival company to the one I was in. We started texting constantly and every day. It was clear that we were both attracted to each other. We ended up kissing while out one ni...

What are basic expectations people in relationships have in regards to social media?

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14 September 2017 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together six months. Everything seems good between us and he's always expressing how much he loves me, wants to stay together for ever and how I'm beautiful in his eyes etc. One of the few issues we have, though I...

How do I encourage my girlfriend to deal with her depression?

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14 September 2017 (M - I think my girlfriend is depressed, I've been dating her for 8 months now and she doesn't have any close female friends and she's incredibly lonely. Most of the time she'll only leave the house to go to classes and she misses quite a few, she has ...

We just don't DO anything!

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14 September 2017 (F - Me and my boyfriend have been together since we were 17 and although we are happy, I feel our relationship is just really boring. I was watching a show the other day and this couple did so many fun activities together and when we talk his sister, ...

Is my friend's sister not interested? Or is she just forgetful and not very organised like her brother?

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13 September 2017 (M - Hey all, I'm in a situation that I'm unsure how to judge. Basically randomly one night, I ended up sleeping with one of my very good friends sisters. We have never really spoke previous to that time and it was a bit of a whirlwind how it all ha...

Is it weird that my female friend always wants a payment for favours?

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11 September 2017 (M - Is it weird if your female friend always wants/expects payment for favours? We've been friends since high school, and she's never been the "I'll pay for you" type, unless you ask directly and you'd probably have to pay her back afterwards. I'm ...

I still like him but I think I will end up hurt.

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11 September 2017 (F - Hi, I'm a year 10 girl and I've liked a guy (K) for 4 years. He moved to study abroad last year for a year and he came back about a month ago. When I found out that he was leaving, I really didn’t want to go as I was afraid we would lose our ...

I like girl A but am dating girl B

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11 September 2017 (M - I became really good friends with these two girls who are best friends. I liked them both but had a crush on girl lets say girl A. I never told girl A this. We had different styles and the few convos we did have she always talked about dating this ...

I'm in a relationship yet I find myself attracted to a friend. What to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

10 September 2017 (F - I have been with my boyfriend for about a year now and I love him to death and I can't imagine life without him. When I was living overseas for some time, my elder brother had some room mates and every time we came back to see the house, I obviousl...

I 'almost' had a relationship, what's going on, s he being cautious?

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10 September 2017 (F - I am very confused. An "almost relationship" probably best describes what we were. We were close friends prior to any feelings developing. We were not physically intimate, there was a lot of cuddling and closeness when he invited me over. But he ...

He's the perfect boyfriend .... when his mate isn't around1

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9 September 2017 (F - Ive met this guy. he is amazing and sweet and just perfect in every way. HOWEVER.. he has this best friend who has very loose morals. when they are together they drink far too much and take drugs. when my boyfriend is not with him he never does dr...

I feel always destined to be different, to be alone, and on the periphery.

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8 September 2017 (F - Please can ask your thoughts on something aunts? I'm a lady in my mid 30s, professionally accomplished and financially independent. At work I'm well respected and I get on well with most people. In fact I get on well with lots of people outside...

Why did it hurt so much seeing him with another girl if we are just friends and I don't have feelings for him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

7 September 2017 (F - Why did it hurt so much seeing him with another girl if we are just friends and I don't have feelings for him? I'm talking about my guy friend. I don't know if friend is the right word, we've known eachother forward nearly two years and always...

Advice please on handling these locals glaring at me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

6 September 2017 (F - Hello, this might seem like a silly problem. I am 44 years old and while i can be fiery i have calmed down a lot as i have got older. When i was younger i was very different as a person, fiery and i thought nothing of having casual partners. I ha...

Should I be honest about kissing my friend, or leave it in the past?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

6 September 2017 (M - I can't tell if I'm over reacting about this situation and I'd really appreciate some insight. Here's a bit of a back story... Late '16, early '17 I met this guy and we really liked one another to the point where we started developing a sem...

How do I explain my decision to skip the reunion without bad mouthing the Dean?

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4 September 2017 (M - When I was in high school (a Catholic school), the Dean of Men was one of the worst people I ever known. He played favorites (if you were one of his favorites, you would never be in trouble no matter what you did but if you were not his favorite, ...

Why does every girl that I like want to be "just friends"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

3 September 2017 (M - So I m now 29, for the last several years I haven t been able to start or get a relationship. Every girl I ve shown interest in has turned out to be asexual, gay, not interested and only wants to be "friends". In the last 7+ years I ve asked...

"More than best friends"

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2 September 2017 (F - Hi, i really need some advice About 2 years ago, I met this guy thru a my best friend. The 3 of us became best friends but he liked me and I never seen him like that. Until 8 months ago I saw him more of a friend. The first move was made by him,...

He wanted to end "whatever this is" and be just friends but he's acting like a jerk now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 18 days ago

2 September 2017 (F - Hi, i really need some advice About 2 years ago, I met this guy thru a my best friend. The 3 of us became best friends but he liked me and I never seen him like that. Until 8 months ago I saw him more of a friend. The first move was made by him,...

My married male co-worker alternates between friendly and cold

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

1 September 2017 (F - I want to ask for help and I hope I can write this to get advice and not judgement as in my heart I don't plan to sin. I work as a nurse and I just started at a new hospital. On my team is another male nurse that work with that is married. Since I ...

At what point am I allowed to ask to be friends with an ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

1 September 2017 (F - I broke up with a long distance boyfriend I had for 1 1/2 years about one month ago. The distance wasn't going to change and I was going through a difficult emotional time where I needed him to if not physically be there for me, emotionally be there ...

Why are people so impersonal? My friends don't care

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

31 August 2017 (F - Is it ok to only see friends every 2-12 months? Have only 5 "friends" who are well liked in their job, busy,work, (I work too!!) one is married with kids, they all have better friends, family neaby, and a good life so only have time for coffee o...

I'm worried my friend might in a controlling and abusive relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

29 August 2017 (F - This weekend I was on a hike with some friends and witnessed something that makes me uncomfortable and a little afraid for one of my friends. I would like to hear your opinion on this situation. It was my first time having a chance to talk t...

My boyfriend says my friends took advantage of me.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

28 August 2017 (F - Hello Everyone! Just wanted some insight on this situation. Last night, my boyfriend and I had friends over (my friend and his girlfriend) to watch the Game of Thrones season finale. I cooked a lot more than my boyfriend thought I should have but ...

My friend drunkenly ranted into my voicemail. Do I call him or wait for him to contact me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

28 August 2017 (F - So last night I was sat alone minding my own business when I received two phone calls , both left voicemails from a good friend of mine. He has helped me through a lot of relationship problems, he has made it clear he fancies me but he knows th...

I had a crush on her but didn't want to be her boyfriend, I want to be her bestie!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

28 August 2017 (M - hi,the thing is that i had crush on a girl. we both are in the same school. i saw her in the school corridor before the vacations. she was the bestie of my friend's gf. i contacted my friend's gf and got my crush's number. i contacted her and we ...

Barmaid I like who I'm friends with has gone off me because of other friends stirring

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

27 August 2017 (M - A female called lorna who fancied me at school was really into me, but I wasn't into her as much, as back then I wasn't into girls, not because I was gay but they were more trouble than they were worth. I recently saw her again at a working ...

I am in love with a girl who has a boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

26 August 2017 (M - To cut to the chase, i love a girl who is already on a relationship. She's a really close friend. I'm never bored when I'm with her. We have almost the same likes and dislikes. Stuff like movies, books, and game preferences are almost identical. ...

Broke up with girlfriend after her dad died, what should I do now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

26 August 2017 (M - Hi, So.. I was with my girlfriend for 3 years and her Dad died about 7 months or so before we broke up. She wasn't close to her dad and hadn't seen him in years. She called me up when it first happened and I told her I was sorry etc and told h...

I'm shocked at being ghosted by him! How did you get over a situation like this? Advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

25 August 2017 (F - Hello everyone After 3.5 years of a LTR, my ex dumped me over the phone because he said it would be easier and that his mind was made up. He said he didn't want to see me upset or risk going back on his decision. The only thing he kept saying w...

My ex is contacting me again, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

25 August 2017 (M - My ex and I had a messy break up. I got drunk, was upset and got into some trouble and ended up in hospital. I called my ex and left a message to say I was in hospital. She never came and I never heard from her. I ended up needing surgery. Year...

Guests are constantly criticizing my home, is this a new trend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

23 August 2017 (F - I have realised that one of the things that drives me crazy is people who come into my home and criticise it saying things like: 'This isnt a home..this is a house!" And always telling me how great their place will be or my place would be if they...

Boyfriend's friend comes over when I'm not there, now they slept in the same bed. What is going on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

23 August 2017 (F - when I first met my bf he had this girl that was his friend but they also hooked up a lot. And she wanted to have a relationship with him. But he didn't want to be in a relationship. She found a bf. And after a few months me and my bf started ...

My close friend is dating my boss, who is cheating on her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

22 August 2017 (F - I've got a very complicated situation that I'm not sure what to do about. One of my close friends is dating my boss. She used to be pretty unstable before they got together three years ago but recently she's been really happy. I've found out that...

I like her a lot, she's gone cold, what can I do that wont mess it up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

22 August 2017 (M - Met this awesome girl online, we hit it off immediately, we had a ton in common, both artists, both geeks, and into the same games. I asked her out and we had a great time at an arcade. we did a ton of art collabs together, played games together and ...

Should I be concerned about my erratic behavior?

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21 August 2017 (F - Should I be concerned about my erratic behavior? A little brief background I am 32 and most of my life I have battled just depression and going to these deep waves of misery. I must admit through therapy and for the first time trying to LISTEN I am ...

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