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Are these the signs that he has a crush on me or dislikes me!?

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20 November 2009 (F) - Ok, so - my fitness instructor who I have had a crush on for about 3 years has been acting weird with me lately. I assumed I had offended him but my mum says it sounds like he likes me. I facebooked him to ask if I could be added to a guest list ...

Should I risk the friendship and tell him how I feel?

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20 November 2009 (F) - I met my best friend 2 years ago when I landed a new job. We talk on the phone several times a day, text, and can't go to sleep without saying goodnight to each other. We have talked about each other in romantic terms before and discussed that we ...

Creepy friend keeps asking for hugs

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20 November 2009 (F) - So, one of my male friends keeps asking me for hugs. He does this even at weird times (like, not hellos and goodbyes) and hangs on for too long or tries to sneak a second one in. I'm always hesitant about giving a hug, and I've already had the ...

I have a crush on this girl but she's already got a boyfriend, what I do??

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20 November 2009 (M) - Hi guys, I have a crush on this girl and we are quite close friends, she is 15 and i am 14, we've been going to places together etc. for a while now, but, i want to go out with her, although she already has a bf. What should i do? Ride it o...

Is it right or wrong to tell your boyfriend that someone he thought was a friend said bad things about him before we got together?

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20 November 2009 (F) - Is it right or wrong to tell your boyfriend that someone he thought was a friend said bad things about him before we got together? Or does it just drag me to her level to tell? Background: This girl possibly had a thing for my boyfriend before we ...

I got my friend's wife pregnant, now he's coming home from military duty!!!

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20 November 2009 (M) - Ok, so i have a problem, I'm in a huge dilemna. I've been sleeping with my friends wife who is at the moment in iraq. (He's a soldier) he comes back in 1 week. They've only been married for about a year, right before he got deployed they got ...

He says 'no' but his actions say 'yes'

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20 November 2009 (F) - not long ago i told someone i had become very very close friends with that i like him and want a relationship. he said no because he does not need someone like that right now. so i was left wondering what to do. after a bit of a confusing few mont...

How do I turn my FWB into something more?

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20 November 2009 (F) - So there's this guy that I like, but I don't feel like he feels the same way I do. We are currently in a friends with benefits relationship, but I want it to be more. It would be very hard for us to be in a relationship, because I do online ...

Why is she always so mean to me?

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19 November 2009 (F) - I just started seventh grade, and some mean girls have started making fun of me. One of the girls lives by me so its really embarrassing. She's started telling people I'm a lesbian. She's also saying she's scared and that I ask her a lot of ...

Does our relationship have potential, or are we just friends?

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19 November 2009 (F) - I am completely confused. Completely! I've been getting close with this guy for the past month and a half. It's been one thing after another. First, I was hesitant because I thought he was still with this girl. Actually I still don't know whats go...

Have I ambarrassed myself, or am I just a little paranoid after my text?

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19 November 2009 (F) - Yesterday I texted to my crush/friend for one year, Rob, that I have had a little crush on him. Then I texted him asking him not to tell anyone or else I would have someone beat him up. So today was totally weird. It started out like a normal day ...

What gave me this sudden, intense chill???

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19 November 2009 (F) - In the middle of my last class I got this sudden intense feeling down below (which felt good) and it gave me a chill? Like a sudden very short chills. Although I did not do anything at all I was just talking to friend in the class (and when this ...

Help me find a way to get closer to him...

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19 November 2009 (F) - So there's this guy i like but im not sure if he likes me back. Some days he's sort of around me and my friends and seems interested but other days he just completely ignores me and doesn't seem to notice me at all. I talk to him sometimes but im ...

Let down again... I feel so ugly, as if no one wants me...

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19 November 2009 (F) - Weve spoke on msn and have been texting for about 2/3 months but i never thought anything of it in that way because he's well out of my league, lots of girls think hes good looking. But he mentioned getting to know me more. Then he asked me to go...

How to support someone I care about who is going through a divorce?

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19 November 2009 (F) - How do I play this? My boyfriend has broken up with me. He is in the process of divorcing his previous partner and has discovered in our relationship that he has not moved forward emotionally as much as he though he had - he keeps worrying that our ...

Why is my friend's boyfriend being so frigid?

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19 November 2009 (F) - ok so i have this friend who actually is a friend!! She's my best mate and she has had a boyfriend for the last 6 months. The problem is (and I wouldn't be writing this all over the internet if we couldn't figure out the problem) but her boyfriend ...

A time to self reflect.

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19 November 2009 (F) - -Self-reflect- Most of the time when anybody has problem in a relationship, they basically blames the other party and rarely themselves.. Y? Well, i would say its human nature to point 1 finger to the other party, while not realizing that t...

Advice please... How can I make it up to my girlfriend and also to karma?

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19 November 2009 (M) - Hi, I fell in love with my best friend's girl but somehow knew it was wrong the first time (The hardest thing I have ever done and the most pain ive ever felt) and was frightened of the fact it might blow up in my face so I went after someone el...

Should we stay friends?

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19 November 2009 (F) - I've been friends with a guy for the past 3 yrs. When we had met he was interested in me but at the time I had my mind on another guy so we just stayed friends. Now, 3 years later we've been getting closer and yesterday I texted him and told him...

Which of these amazing girls should I date?

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19 November 2009 (M) - (First off I would like to apologize for the length of this message. There's just some background information I thought might be necessary to put before my question) Hey people I am 15 years young and live in Maine. I have got myself stuck bet...

How do I show him I'm still interested and want to start over?

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19 November 2009 (F) - Hey, I really like this guy but I dont think he knows that.He probably thinks I hate him because we had a rough start. We used to like eachother but things got complicated.I want to let him know that I still like him without directly telling...

I need your help on this one! I don't want to go out with her if I feel ashamed of her size. What should I do?

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19 November 2009 (M) - Ok my problem is this, I started talking to a friend of a friend a while ago and me and her get on great, laugh about the same things and just connect never a problem making conversation etc anyway she`s a bit big though which I know shouldnt be a ...

How can I tell him my name and continue to talk with him without looking silly?

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18 November 2009 (F) - So I have said hey to this guy and he has said hey back but I have yet to tell him my name and I was wondering how to tell him my name without looking really stupid.... and the thing is, I'm am a sophmore and he is a senior so.... plz help...

I don't want to get too close to my friend's boyfriend in case it stirs up trouble. What should I do?

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18 November 2009 (F) - hey everyone. ok so my lovely little situation concerns both girls and guys. i find great difficulty making female friends. my only female friends are those i made in high school and still keep in touch with them. i dont step out of my way to talk ...

Is she really a friend, please advise?

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18 November 2009 (F) - My best friend and I are proper close. I love her to pieces, I really do. I would do anything for her. But sometimes I've noticed that certain things that I do for her (like give up spare time to help her, spend money on her, give her things, etc) ...

My parents don't like me talking to boys I'm not related to, what can I do?

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18 November 2009 (F) - Ok, so i like this boy he is 18 and he is American, I am younger than him by a few years. My problem is that my parents say I am not allowed to have a boyfriend or date or communicate with any boys I am not related to. All my friendz know about ...

Should I just let it go or do something about it?

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18 November 2009 (F) - There's this rumour going arounnd school and everybody has finally left me alone about this but one kidd. Every time I see he him he starts making fun of me for it. My friends said I shouldn't take shit from people like him. Should I just let it ...

I'm stuck in this "friendship rut" with him and want to become his girlfriend. Any pointers?

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18 November 2009 (F) - so i'm in a kind of dilemma. even though i'm still young i prefer to be in relationships because then at least i know for sure you're mine and i'm yours. but i decided to break all my rules for this guy because i thought he was right when he said ...

How can I make this friendship based relationship work?

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18 November 2009 (F) - Hello everyone. It started one day when I noticed this guy in my gym class. He was quite handsome... and hot. I scolded myself for not noticing him before, and I began to wonder what he would be like to talk to. I remembered him from the ve...

I feel like a stalker and dislike it. What do I do?

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I am taunted about my chest size. Is it really that important?

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18 November 2009 (F) - i am 15 and have small bust, one of my friend (girl in the group who i get along with less) keeps taking the piss out of the size of my bust and was laughing about me when a lad said 'she'll never be able to feed a baby...', it got me down and my ...

I have a boyfriend but no friend to talk to if I have a problem or just for fun. What do you think?

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18 November 2009 (F) - Hiya everyone :) Its not really a question question, just kind of needed some other people's views and opinions, or someone to listen really! I have a lovely family who i am quite close to, however when i was growing up they always kept themselves ...

I need a friend to talk to, but my friend always steers the conversations back to her problems!

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18 November 2009 (F) - I have this friend who i've known now for nearly 7 years and shes one of my closest friends, shes 3 kids 2 of which are my godsons and i do love her to pieces however i am at the end of my tether. She is forever ringing me and texting me telli...

This girl is horrible to me. Could it be true she likes me?

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18 November 2009 (M) - Hellooo :), i have a question about a girl in our class. I've been wondering if she fancies me or not, but its a bit complicated. We both did a college course last year and everyone that i have kept in touch with from that course said they thought ...

To others it seems like there is not a lot to lose, but to me its the world!

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18 November 2009 (F) - Hi. I have a major problem i've been in love with this guy for the best part of a year and a half. We were friends and were in the same class, i really thought he liked me, he used to get really nervous around me, like sometimes he couldnt talk to ...

I don't know how to handle her and her lies anymore!

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18 November 2009 (F) - First of all, trust is very important to me in a friendship. A friend of mine, who is in her mid 20's, is a HUGE liar!! She tries to avoid conflict or make herself look better, but she still lies. For example, the things she lies about include: at ...

Why would she still want to be friends after we broke up?

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18 November 2009 (M) - Hey, i just got out of a relationship about 3 1/2 months ago and just talked to my ex today. it was casual and she told me about her new boyfriend. It didnt really bother me as much as i thought until she said that she was completely over me. i was ...

How can I learn to be more confident and get over the fear of rejection?

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18 November 2009 (F) - Hey guys, There is this guy that i strongly like and I've known him for almost 2 years. He's more than a friend but less than a best friend. Sometimes it looks like he likes me and other times it doesn't and i'm so confused right now. I can't handle ...

How can I get closer to him?

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18 November 2009 (F) - I'm 16 and I really like this guy. We're pretty good friends. We always talk on the bus and during gym. Well he just had his heart broken a couple weeks ago, but he's doing a lot better now. I just found out today that he had known all along that I ...

I have a few guy-related questions - who knew being single could be so complicated?

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17 November 2009 (F) - I have a few guy-related problems just now - who knew being single could be so complicated! Firstly, I've been hearing a lot lately, through the grapevine, that a guy who works in my building likes me. He and I have barely said 2 words to each ...

I'm very jealous of my boyfriend's close friendship with his galpal! Advice?

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17 November 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, basically i have been going out with someone for a long time now and now we are in an Ldr. It is a great relationship and we are deeply in love. However, as my feelings are growing still more deeply, I am developing an issue over one of ...

The New guy says Hi

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17 November 2009 (M) - Hey all my name is Zwei Im a boy and im 17 of corse my name is not zwei but i lke that name ^^ My keyboard is terrible so please i am sorry about my mistakes in spelling. I always chat on internet chat site Chatango And i usally give advic...

Will asking her out...ruin our good friendship?

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17 November 2009 (M) - Hey Folks. I could really use some advice from like the best in the biz. so here it goes. Me and a girl (both 15 years old) are quite good friends like we hug like everyday usually but she hugs other people however i'm in love with her and...

I'm beginning to hate my crush. The fairytale is not gonna happen?

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17 November 2009 (F) - I’ve been having boy troubles! My crush that I have liked for almost 2 years, me and him has been friends. I think that my love for him is slowly fading away. I’m sick of the fact that he doesn’t pretend like he cares about me and I feel hate when I ...

I can't seem to forget about him. He had social issues but I felt connected to him...

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17 November 2009 (F) - I liked a guy for a really long time last year. We had an incredible amount of things in common so I felt compelled to talk to him and create some type of friendliness. I would talk to him and he would respond really well to me but I always had to ...

Should I confront my friends and say how things really are... or just leave it?

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17 November 2009 (F) - My former friend, X and her boyfriend, Y have been accusing me and my friend, Z that we have been ignoring them which has resulted in a falling out. It all started out when X and Y broke up. X spend all of her time and effort with Y and was eager ...

Why has he changed his mind after him asking me if I wanted to do it again?

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17 November 2009 (M) - So a few years back, a buddy and I got a little liquored up and ended up messing around. We both consider ourselves straight, but we both enjoyed what happened. We never talked about it. Just wasn't ever brought up. Since then, our friendship really ...

What's his problem? Why does he act this way around only me?

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17 November 2009 (F) - There is this guy in one of my classes. I've noticed that he will not come near me. Like he needed a spot to work and instead of just going to the one that was next to me he went to the one on the other side, but the whole time he kept looking over ...

His girlfriend told him to stop talking to me!

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17 November 2009 (F) - Hello :) Okay so I recently met a guy and his friends. He has a girlfriend, who is a friend of one of my best friends. Me and the guy talk alot, we're good friends. The other day my best friend told me that his girlfriend told him to stop talking ...

I hate the feeling of being lonely and desparate to find someone.

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17 November 2009 (F) - hey everyone, I'm desperately in need of some advice when it comes to relationships. Right now i feel as though i've been cursed in that area or something :(. My first real relationship was 2 yrs ago, with a guy that i had liked for more then 6y...