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We are both too shy to say hi to each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted today

24 April 2018 (F - There's this guy that I like and I know he likes me back because he always walks past me and a bunch of other signs over afew weeks, explaining these will defeat the purpose of the question. The main question is we are both too shy to talk to each ...

Should I tell him I’m gay before moving in or not say anything?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted yesterday

23 April 2018 (M - I've never had many guy friends but I've become a bit closer to a guy I knew since about college but only starI've never had many male friends but I've become a bit closer to a guy I knew since about college but only started getting friendly with ...

What should a person do .....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted yesterday

22 April 2018 (F - What should a person do if they are falling for someone, and that person tells them they have a certain type a woman they like, and it's not you, and they don't have time but maybe one day a week, they are to busy to see you more then that, you live ...

I muust have a "hate me" sign above my head.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted yesterday

22 April 2018 (F - I’m unlikeable it seems, people don’t “take” to me land aren’t friendly. I feel like giving up on people. I Try to be nice and get ignored, uninvited, dismissed and forgotten. Please, how can I be more likeable? I listen, I smile and...

My friend is upset none of us can afford to go to his wedding

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

22 April 2018 (M - An old friend who moved from Berlin where I live to San Diego is getting married. 5 years ago we were great friends and housemates. As time went on, I recognized we are very different and have different value systems. His dream is to find a partner ...

A mutual friend has boundary problems

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

22 April 2018 (M - I have this problem with a friend of mine (we are both gay men). He is very close to my best friend. This friend, who can sometimes be great and at other times be utterly creepy. He can be the kindest, most helpful person and in a whim switch to a ...

Friends of 25 years don’t include me anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

21 April 2018 (F - At the moment im trying to clear debt i have so have to stop spending where i dont need to. I messaged my 4 closest friends saying id have to cut back on nights out round pubs as i cant afford to waste money. Having each other round at each others ...

Should I give this toxic person another chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

20 April 2018 (F - Should I give my “friend” another chance? I met this coworker from my parents employer who is single like me and we started chatting - I work a lot so we developed a friendship. Long story short she is just as miserable as I am but also guy crazy. ...

I'm still being picked on at school, one girl said its because I'm clueless.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

18 April 2018 (F - THIS IS WHAT I WROTE BEFORE: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/please-help-me-stand-up-for-myself.html These friends are the only friends I have and when they give me the silent treatment or start rumors it really hurts! I pretty much end up begg...

Why is she so attention seeking??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

16 April 2018 (F - Yesterday a 44 yr old female work colleague with 5 kids had her wisdom teeth out,she posted a post surgery selfie of her swollen face on our works fbook page, Is this pure attention seeking? She’s a quiet and good worker, invisible.. like...

My boyfriend doesn't tell anyone about me but wants me to move in with him ... what should I do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

16 April 2018 (F - I've been dating a guy for 5 months and were exsclusive.. I'm finding myself in love with him he treats me well except for one issue he doesn't tell anyone about me, not friends which he only has a few not co workers not his family... He tells me ...

He compliments others and insults me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

16 April 2018 (F - My partner of many years verbally attacked me for the things I do to 'beautify' myself such as have hair nails and skin appointments etc done . I have never had cosmetic surgery and am not going to. He says I'm insecure and he wants someone who is ...

Should I try harder to make up for his lack of effort?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

16 April 2018 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years. I love him and I want to spend the rest of my life with him. But for the past year now, I feel like he's been neglecting me. He's a hard-working man and I love that about him. But he doesn't ...

I am in the wrong for talking to my married coworker as a friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

15 April 2018 (F - I am in the wrong for talking to my married coworker as a friend? Hello aunts I want to preference that I would never commit adultery - simply I don’t want the karma and believe in it . Long story short the colleague that hired me is 44 I’m 32 ...

Is his message to me a cry for help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

15 April 2018 (F - It's not that we talked much, but we were friends, well acquaintances at least. Anyway, it's been years since we've talked. We were in college like 9-10 years ago, but friends on social media. Anyway, out of the blue, he randomly sends me a message ...

Can we really be future friends respectively?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

14 April 2018 (F - Same sex best friends for four years and we crossed the line and had emotional and physical affIr for 4 months. We are both married and won’t leave our husbands and families. We still work together and continue to have lunch and talk at work only ...

What does this married man mean when he says he finds me physically attractive?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

14 April 2018 (F - I've met this guy at work. He is married. We have a lot of things in common.He is a very private man. He doesn't talk much to anybody until I started working there. He said he likes me and enjoy being his friend. He is always careful about what he ...

Is he interested or not, or is he just shy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

13 April 2018 (F - A friend of mine has been trying for months to hook me up with a guy she knows, but I really hate being set up so I've been brushing it off. She constantly tells me how alike he and I are; we're both family oriented, determined, somewhat shy around ...

Everything I do my friend copies.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

13 April 2018 (F - So ive had the same best friend for atleast ten years, we have had our ups and downs but anything that would end a friendship.. But my peoblem is, lately, shes been doing everything EXACTLY like me.. Like let me explain, if i say im changing...

We're having sex, he has another girl and I have feelings and a third girl is spreading nasty rumours.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 11 days ago

13 April 2018 (F - This is a little bit long winded so i do apologise in advance. I went to the pub one with my friend and she introduced me to one of her guy friends and kept teasing us both that we are both single. That night i plucked up the courage to messa...

I'm worried about my boyfriend's smoking.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

12 April 2018 (F - Im in a relationshio for almost 8 months with my boyfriend,we are like best friends .we Tell eachother everything,But lately he started smoking like 1-2 cigarettes per day and I found out because my best friend told me he saw him.when I asked him ...

I'm falling for the new girl and my current GF is jealous.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

10 April 2018 (F - I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 3 years, we live together and on the whole we're very happy. I've recently met another girl and just click with her so well- we've hung out as a three a few times and to start with my gf really g...

I've never had a boyfriend but am considering losing my virginity.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

10 April 2018 (F - 36 F, never had a boyfriend, considering losing virginity So I'm 36 f, considering having sex for the first time. Myriad reasons it hasn't happened yet I suppose. I've never had a boyfriend before...men just don't seem to be attracted to me ...

How do I deal with my long time "best friend" who trashed me in a letter to my parents?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 14 days ago

9 April 2018 (F - Hi. I have been friends with M for 30 years now. We met in high school and despite sometimes 1 or 2 years of MIA's scattered throughout where we drifted apart, we came back together and resumed our friendship. It was as if we had never lost touch. ...

My ex has said he would never marry me, but I want him back!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

8 April 2018 (F - Does my ex still have feelings for me or not?. I dated him for a year and a half from 2015 until 2017. Then I left him for another man that we both know, who I was in a relationship with for nearly a year ( he broke up with me three months ago). My ...

My old nemesis might sabotage my new life

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

4 April 2018 (F - I am seriously thinking of moving to a new city to start my life over. At 50, I know this won't be easy, and I want to think ahead and do as much as I possibly can to get things off on the right track. Partly this is because I have tried for 23 ...

Is there no one for me? How can I get a guy to be interested in me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

3 April 2018 (F - I think I’m meant to be alone forever. I’m a junior in high school, and No matter what, I cannot find a guy who remotely shows interest in me. I am good-looking (not trying to be stuck-up) but I never talk in school. I go to school everyday without ...

Please help me stand up for myself

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

2 April 2018 (F - I am sick of my friends not listening to me and then punishinhg me with rumors and the silent treatment. OK. Sometimes, it's fun for me, JUST TO HAVE A CRUSH ON SOMEBODY. It's fun and it's safe and I can feel all happy inside and I don't have to ...

His neediness bothers me. Should I feel guilty for blocking him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

2 April 2018 (F - Okay so I've only known this guy for 2 months only, he is at my university. He seemed nice at first and we hang out together, but then he started to creep me out with his neediness and him being too clingy. I was nice with him and i gave him hints ...

My ex is coming back into my life when I have a new partner!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

1 April 2018 (M - I need some advice, 4 years ago I started dating my best friend, we were together for about 8 months and it was perfect! However I made mistakes in the relationship such as being too close to her and so i drove her away and didnt handle the brea...

Why is my coworker blanking me and what should I do about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

1 April 2018 (F - I’ve beem in my job 21 months. Like it. 90% colleagues younger. I’m a worker, not a boss or manager. I’m fine with this. Not all of us are meant to be bosses.. 90% managers and my boss are younger. 2 are older, one my age. I have no...

How do I react. He ignored me but is now dating my best friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

31 March 2018 (M - If I met a guy in a club, asked him out, he gave me his number, I texted twice, he never responded. Months later I discover he is now having sex with my best friend. How should I react?...

What’s wrong with people? Or am I the freak?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

29 March 2018 (F - What makes a good friend? I’m a quieter person, a little socially awkward but better than when I was in my 20s, when I was hopeless due to teen bullying and never having real friends, only users and fake friends. i am not intellectually i...

Is my husband being shady, buying a gift for a coworker?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

28 March 2018 (F - My husband recently bought a gift for a female coworker. I found text messages of him asking other people what this female coworker likes. When I saw the gift, I asked him, oh who is this for and he ignored my question and started talking about ...

I'm really into my best friend's ex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

28 March 2018 (F - Okay, so this is a very simple story. I am extremely into my best friends ex. We were really good friends while they were dating, and she brought us closer. I always found myself helping them out, and literally being to solution to their problems...

Is it unreasonable for me to question their friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 28 days ago

28 March 2018 (F - My boyfriend of 7 months has a best friend who is a girl and I was fine with it at first as they have been friends for 2 years before I got with him. She always hangs out with all our mutual friends in a group and has often joined us both on eveni...

Is it my destiny to be forgotten?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

27 March 2018 (F - Is it normal to be "invisible" to everyone? I know there are billions of us on this planet and we are all invisible unless we are famous, but that's not what I mean..! Am talking about to those who know us in life.. friends colleagues...

Was I unreasonable in not accepting my ex boyfriend's friend (female)?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

25 March 2018 (F - I had a row with my boyfriend and we broke up last year. I am torturing myself every day with the thought that I was unreasonable and it was my fault. I cannot move on in my mind. I am replaying the whole relationship over and over. My issue was ...

I’m worried about my boyfriend and Emily!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

25 March 2018 (F - Hi, I'm worried about my boyfriend. Basically, a few months ago, I met him with my friend (let's call her Emily). Emily said she fancied him and I did. He then asked me out which was fine. But Emily was constantly texting him. One day she asked ...

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