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Why does he stay with this girl? How do I stop being upset about his relationship with her?

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22 May 2013 (F) - Dear cupid, I can't stop feeling so upset that my good friend continues to be with a girl who is always being unfaithful to him. I've known the guy for a long time, he's a good friend of the family and is really like a family member to me. ...

How do I warn my friend about my former FWB without reliving my story?

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22 May 2013 (F) - Dear cupid I was in FWB for around 3 years on and off. He was my collegue at work and I was in love with him. Long story short he was very abusive towards the end and dumped me a month ago. We see each other at work, he carries on as if I don't ex...

I'm in love with my best friend who is going through a divorce, is there any hope we could be together? Or should I just give up?

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22 May 2013 (F) - My heart is broken and I am wondering if I should just give up on love. I REALLY need help in this situation! I feel very broken about this. Please no mean answers... I'm hoping no one will judge me for this. I love my best friend. I love...

He said my friend is a bit more beautiful than I am, is it ok for him to say this?

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22 May 2013 (F) - I was with my boyfriend and we were talking,in the course of that i talked about my girlfriend and asked him if we look alike,he said yes that i and my girlfriend look alike but its just that she is a bit more beautiful than i am....is it okay that ...

My Wedding. Does any one have any solutions? I'm just terrified of everything and everything revolving around me

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22 May 2013 (F) - Hi! So I dont really know what to do for this, but I'm afraid of my wedding. I'm not afraid of commitment or anything and Im not afraid to go to other peoples weddings- just afraid of my own. I start looking at venues or dresses and just panic. ...

Broke up a month ago. Does he still love me? He said his "real friends" are stopping him from dating me again.

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22 May 2013 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend around a month ago. we've dated for 2 and a half years, though i was the one who suggested a break up, i miss him so much, and i actually want him back. The reason why, i suggested a break up was because we always h...

Do you think he has started having different feelings? If so I might as well end this relationship.

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22 May 2013 (F) - So for the past 5 months I have been in a fwb relatioinship with a friend I met thru a friend. The thing is I'm married and he's not married but is already in a relationship himself. So we work on eachothers schedule. Now the sex isn't always the...

What should I do? But I have never felt so lonely in my entire life

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22 May 2013 (F) - In Janurary I moved interstate to try something new, and to live with my mum for awhile. I left a few extremely close friends, a boyfriend, and a part-time promotions/modelling job to come up here and give it a try. I've found a full-time job, w...

One more day at school. Would it seem weird if I gave two guys at school my number?

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22 May 2013 (F) - So I like this guy and he knows. He's ok with it and yea. So my last day of school is in a couple days and I want to give him my number so we can contact each other. And also I have this really good guy friend who is moving and I wanna give him...

Am I thinking right for a guy my age? Have I wasted my youth? Am I missing opportunities to meet girls?

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21 May 2013 (M) - This may be daft a question but well I've had like 4 sexual partners from about 16-21 I'm now 25.. So that's 4 sexual partners in 9 years one relationship lasted 4 years and I got hurt in the end (a lot was my fault). I've been single for these...

What is appropriate? From the moment I was introduced to this woman, she has been rude and condescending to me. Do I stay home or demand he end the friendship?

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21 May 2013 (F) - I have been living with my boyfriend for the last year. Very early in our relationship I was introduced to a female friend/colleague of his. This woman was the partner of one of his close friends, he knew them as a couple for almost 20 years. The ...

Is it normal for guy friends to touch each other?

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21 May 2013 (F) - Is it normal for guy friends to touch each other so much? My boyfriend says all guys do this, but I don't think so. In their group of friends they are always joking about having sex with each other, and they grab each others asses and squeeze it. ...

Do I move on from my boyfriend or just deal with this friendship he has with this girl?

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21 May 2013 (F) - Dear cupid, I feel like it's time to just give up on my three year relationship. My boyfriend met a girl about two months ago and they seem to hit it off well and I'm suspicious of her. She is the total opposite of me. She is a huge and natural...

What do you think his deal is? Does he just want to be friends with benefits? Or is he just shy and reserved?

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21 May 2013 (F) - This guy I've been hooking up with, seeing, hanging out with...not sure what to call it, is confusing me so much. I'm so unsure of how he feels towards me. Right now, I would describe our relationship as FWB. We met at work. At work, he remains...

My boyfriend of 2 years still doesn't want me to meet his friends

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21 May 2013 (F) - Hi!! Please help me, I can't understand this, my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years, my issue is that he doesn't want me to meet most of his friends. (they are all male and all of them are students just like us, no drugs...

Do I approach this girl? I don't want to be her friend stuck in the friend zone!

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20 May 2013 (M) - Okay, so basically i have been at college now since September and whilst there, i happened to meet and become friends with a very attractive girl.. at first I'd say she seemed quite interested, even a few friends have told me that they thought this ...

I broke up with him because of this girl and now I feel like she's replaced me. I'm really hurt

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20 May 2013 (F) - Hi guys. I broke up with my boyfriend of two years because he was basically cheating on me. He didn't sleep with her or physically cheat on me, but I found out that him and her were flirting a lot and always up talking all night and exchanging ...

Am I just paranoid or is he just not interested?

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20 May 2013 (F) - My guy friend has been staring at me for the past few weeks. But we stopped talking (I don't know why though) but his 'last seens' were way back. So I know he hasn't been online. He talked to me twice face to face at school last week. I was hoping ...

Do you think Steve and I will ever have a normal relationship?

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20 May 2013 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. I've been with Steve over 1 year. I'd consider myself a fairly attractive and confident 26 year old, he's 31. We've had an extremely tough year so please bear with the long background info. I used to work with Steve then...

How on earth do you break off a friendship that you feel is dragging you down?

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20 May 2013 (F) - Hi, I have a friend who I have slowly been trying to move away from. We live in different cities and frankly i feel as though we have nothing in commmon. He is a gay man who I feel doesn't take me or anyone seriously. I also feel disrespected and...

Was my boyfriend just being friendly or too curious?

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19 May 2013 (F) - My boyfriend asked his friends girlfriend if she was still with her boyfriend, should i be worried? My boyfriend was friends with her boyfriend first, so that is how he knows her. Do you think he was just asking to be friendly, or what ?. I saw th...

My co-worker cannot take a hint!

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19 May 2013 (F) - One of my co workers gave me a ride home one time. On our way there, my neighbor called me and said they were having a party in our building and to come join them. So I asked my co worker if he wanted to join the party and he said yes. I was just ...

It was supposed to be just the two of us, and now its me, him and her!

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19 May 2013 (F) - Okay... So I just found out this guy I like likes me back, so I invited him to come hang around with me at the weekend but my friend tagged along too. They recently exchanged numbers and have started telling each other secrets and my friend even ...

Should I text him? Or forget him?

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19 May 2013 (F) - Hello, Hey so I got the number of this guy I'm into from my friend about a week ago. I sent him a text saying it was me and I was sorry for getting really sloppy while drunk. He replied in about a minute saying it was fine. We then sent about te...

I need help chatting up this girl!

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19 May 2013 (M) - Whats the best way to get the attention of a girl I really like? I like this one girl who everyone of my close friends says I should be with because ot "seems right". We have been friends since the age of 5. Our parents are close friends. She is ...

Was it my fault that she broke up with me? Was I wrong falling in love with a recovering alcoholic?

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19 May 2013 (M) - Hi, I keep hearing I should have left her alone during her tweive step program, but we were together for three months. I don't know if she drank before I picked her up to go dancing, movies, walks in the parks, trips, picnics. I stopped drinking...

How can I put the spark back in my life? And maybe meet someone?

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19 May 2013 (F) - I'm bored with my life and I feel like it has no meaning whatsoever. I'm usually home on the weekends surfing the net, reading gossip about celebs. This used to provide some comfort but now I am just tired of reading about other people's lives......

So why am I feeling conflicted about progressing this to sex with her? Seemed the logical next option.

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19 May 2013 (M) - I've recently began a self-improvement kick, beginning to exercise, be more social, exude confidence. I'm getting female attention for the first time in ages. I really hit it off with a girl at a party last week, we spoke a lot and ended up holding ...

I'm scared to ruin this friendship. But why hasn't he made a move, when he knows I like him?

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18 May 2013 (F) - I'm friends with a guy at college and I really like him. He knows, but not from me. He doesn't act on this though and he seems to like someone else. I'm so conflicted on what to do. Should I seek advice from his friend? I'm scared to ruin our frie...

I still want to be with her but she was my bestfriend's lover. What are my options?

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18 May 2013 (M) - three months back my best friend introduced me to his galfriend,a few days from there we became friends with ma friend's galfriend.. Before i knew it we fell in love ,within days of the affair we got caught and i lost a friend,to make things wors...

Should I be worried that she is cheating on me? Or am I just being insecure?

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18 May 2013 (M) - I have been hurt in the past by women and 3 months ago I met this girl who I think is the most amazing girl I've ever met in my entire life, she is as beautiful on the inside as she is on the out. I want to spend the rest of my life with her. s...

My friend is acting as if our hot making out meant nothing!

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17 May 2013 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of two years because he treated me like crap, but I was really feeling down so I started hanging out with a friend. Yesterday I was riding home with they guy and things just kind of happened and we ended up making out in ...

I'm confused about this girl's actions!

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17 May 2013 (M) - Alright, so long story, I'll attempt to make it short. I'm 18 and I've never had a girlfriend. I asked a girl out last year and she said yes. Come to find out, she had a boyfriend that I wasn't aware of. I cut my ties and said forget it. Yesterday...

He "wants to bang other girls"

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17 May 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together a year at the end of this month. He went on a "rugby tour" with alot of his rugby friends about a week ago, and since then a lot of his people have been saying to me "I just want to bang other girls" now until ...

My boyfriend and I want different things from life.

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17 May 2013 (F) - I am totally and utterly confused. I have been with my boyfriend 6 years. Things in the beginning were up and down. It wasn't perfect. He was very selfish, put his friends first, went out a lot, twice i found dirty messages on his phone an...

He's convinced we're becoming closer. I don't feel that way. So how do I ensure I don't hurt his feelings?

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17 May 2013 (F) - Moderator note: please mention the ages of the two boys you have been talking to in your first followup? I'm really stuck.. I've been talking to a boy for a while he said he likes me and I said I like him but I just want to take things slowly, ...

The girlfriend of my boyfriend's mate keeps coming on to my boyfriend!

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17 May 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. I feel kind of selfish about what I'm going to say but I really need the opinions of others. I don't like the girl who my boyfriend's friend has been dating. She repeatedly cheats on him with other guys (I know the guys). My bo...

My girlfriend's friends do not like me. I'm worried it could lead to us breaking up

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17 May 2013 (F) - Let me just get this out in the open, i'm a lesbian... I have been with my girlfriend just over a year, everything has been great apart from a month or so ago when she lied to me by saying she was at home in bed when really she was out clubbing...

Should I put it out there that I have feelings for her?

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17 May 2013 (M) - I know I shouldn't be, but I'm really pumped right now, and my head is swimming in possibilities. I've known this girl for 2 years, she was one of the first girls I met at college. I've always thought she was great, but up until about 8 months a...

I like him but I have a boyfriend and now he's acting weird with me!

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17 May 2013 (F) - i've known this guy since i was little. He was a very notorious guy, but now he has become very quiet. He's just tryin to get himsef out of the mess he got involved in. Im a very quiet n simple person, i hardly move out of the house, im a medical ...

He said he wasn't interested in me so why has he started staring?

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17 May 2013 (F) - Hi, I send a guy on my class a fb mail. He replied he isnt interested in me. I ignored him totally. One month later I saw this guy looks/stares at me at lectures, sometimes he stares deeply and long at me. Until now we had 15 lectures and he stare...

We agreed to be gaming friends, but I don't know how to act around him

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17 May 2013 (F) - We've been friends from online gaming for nearly 5 months, we got along so well, that strangely feelings started kicking in, after the first couple of months. But after a while the distance came between us, he lives 3 hours away, we met up a few ...

A girl who likes my boyfriend is going to be his college room mate! I am very uneasy with this!

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16 May 2013 (F) - My boyfriend made friends with this girl a few months ago, she's in the same group of friends as him. She's in the same college as him, I'm not. One night I was over at his, we were all a bit drunk, and she was there along with a few of his friends. ...

I really need to feel comfortable with people my own age rather than the older crowd

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16 May 2013 (M) - Hello Cupid My problem is a bit tricky and I am not able to come to any conclusion. Background: I am 21 year old and I recently moved to another city for university since November 2012. Since beginning, I am having difficulty in spending t...

I'm starting to think of her as more than a friend even though I'm not gay

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16 May 2013 (F) - okay, I have posted a question recently about one of my female friends dropping sexual hints and I almost sure that she is doing it on purpose. So we've been meeting up in college and we have really long conversation that we don't want to break off. ...

Should my best friend meet up with her (soon to be ex-) teacher?

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16 May 2013 (F) - This is a question as to what would be the right or most sensible thing for me to do with regards to my best friend. We're in year 13 at our sixth form, so our last year before we go to university in October. Throughout the past two years, my friend ...

Does he like me? Is he just taking it slow?

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16 May 2013 (F) - I recently saw an old friend whilst out and spent a good amount of the evening with him catching up. He's 17 and very nice and friendly, too nice I might add. On that day we talked about a lot of things, we've got quite a few things in common. I ...

Should I just leave? Or try to wait things out?

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16 May 2013 (F) - Hi. 2 years ago I got with my boyfriend, we got a house together, one year ago today we got engaged, I was very happy. About 6-8 months ago things started getting tense and there were lots of arguments. Over the months it's gotten worse and worse ...

How do I get over my girlfriend's past?

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16 May 2013 (M) - My girlfriend (20) and I (19) go to the same college, and have been together for the past couple months. It's been, for the most part, an excellent relationship. We care for each other a great deal; heck, I think I'm in love with her. And, for the ...

Me and my uni friend are playful, but I want to tell her I like her

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15 May 2013 (M) - I have a uni friend who I flirt playfully with quite a lot. I am a guy and she is a girl, and she always jokes about me 'being her boyfriend' or a future husband. I wouldn't say we are ultra close friends, which is how I like it, as I would actually ...