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Archived questions from: May, 2018 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

His daughter and I are close in age she hates me, but I love her father so much help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2147 days ago

31 May 2018 (F) - I'm 24, my boyfriend is 42 and we met 9 months ago on a cliff while he was on holidays in my country. At the time he was talking to his buddies about how amazing the scenery was and we locked eyes for the first time and smiled at each other. ...

Been dating for 4 years but an old flame has returned, and so have the feelings.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2148 days ago

31 May 2018 (F) - Hi everyone, I've got a serious relationship problem I really need some help with! I have been with my boyfriend for four years. He's caring, kind, affectionate and I really do love him. However, our relationship lacks passion and we have little s...

How to deal with breakups when you suffer from anxiety

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2148 days ago

31 May 2018 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for several years. We love each other very much but probably aren't the best match for each other. I would like to consider breaking up, but I have anxiety and it makes everything difficult 10x harder. I'm scared of ...

How do I regain my self confidence?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2148 days ago

30 May 2018 (F) - After being in a long marriage and meeting a new man how do I regain confidence in myself as a sexual woman . My ex showed little attraction to me despite all efforts I made to be attractive and my new man is great but has a strong like for porn ...

My boyfriend wont spend quality time with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2148 days ago

30 May 2018 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been in a relationship with this guy for a little over 2 years now. We both just recently graduated high school. We have always been the couple everyone said will last forever and the couple everyone looked at as perfect. Lately ...

Is this over-committing to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2150 days ago

29 May 2018 (F) - So some time ago I asked whether I should stand up to my parents. I basically spoke to them and came off as diplomatic as possible on the issue of dating and seeing people. the link to my previous question: ...

Should I tell him I know he's been texting his ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2151 days ago

28 May 2018 (F) - I have been kind of talking to this guy and hooking up with him for a few weeks now, and one night we were sitting at this bar and his ex girlfriend walks by and I noticed he was staring at her for a bit. Now I only know it’s his ex girlfrie...

Should I remain single or take a chance on this guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2152 days ago

28 May 2018 (F) - Hi. I'm a single mum, 36 years old, I've been single for about 6.5 years. I've dated in that time but last date was over 2/3 years ago. I'm considering staying single forever, I'm not good at relationships and I don't like who I become. But I st...

Why am I never a man’s first choice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2149 days ago

27 May 2018 (F) - Hi good people, I’m feeling a bit down today and was hoping you might be able to offer me some advice or even just words of comfort. I’m 32 (33 in July) and I’ve been single for 3 years now. My previous long-term relationship was rocky and I’m de...

Should I lie and say the baby is his?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2147 days ago

27 May 2018 (F) - Ive made a mess but now ive got to grow up and sort it out. Me and my 'ex'boyfriend had a break , we didnt say what each other can or cant do and if we were going to get back together. I had a feeling he was seeing someone else but just left him to ...

I kissed a girl and my boyfriend didn't like it, what do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2135 days ago

26 May 2018 (F) - My partner and I have been together for 2 and a half years. During this time we've both expressed desires and fantasies in the bedroom and things we want to do. My boyfriend asked if I would have sex/be sexual with a girl while he watched, or have ...

It drives me nuts! I can't live like she does.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2154 days ago

25 May 2018 (M) - Does anyone else avoid thier partner? When I have time off I don’t mind, but my job has got really intense recently, I been working 10-11 hour days, and can’t sleep at night because of stress that I might lose my job. I don’t live with my partner, ...

My boyfriend has naked pictures on his phone, am I not pretty enough anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2150 days ago

25 May 2018 (F) - I’ve been with my boyfriend about 5 yrs , and I recently he got cought having naked pictures on his phone , he was showing me a picture that he took and by accident ly I saw those , he said that his friend send those to him , so I said would u like ...

My fiancé is acting different during sex! Is this normal?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2151 days ago

24 May 2018 (F) - I am 29 and a fitness instructor and fiance he is 32 and is a financial analyst. We have a good sex life just til now. Foreplay he was never that much into it but it would still happen. Lately, foreplay is non-existent. Lately, there has be...

I’m completely confused about my feelings for him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2155 days ago

23 May 2018 (F) - Hello.... i am in the midst of a total dilemma romantically which is being worsened by the fact that i have so little trust in my own feelings and judgement. I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months. He is very kind and lovely, treats me well, is ...

My boyfriend is extremely shy, but can put on fake confidence which is starting to worry me

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2156 days ago

23 May 2018 (F) - I don't get my boyfriend lately. After being together for nearly 2 years, i feel that I don't really know who he is sometimes. When we first met until about a year, he was VERY insecure, very shy. The type that would hunch over while walking. And ...

My boyfriend's over-friendly encounter with his ex has me worried

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2153 days ago

23 May 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for over a month. He broke up with his ex in January not sure the reason why. I met him in February and by the third week of March we were a couple. Today while in the store with my boyfriend we saw his ex. S...

We never have alone time. Is he taking me forgranted?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2156 days ago

23 May 2018 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months. He has two kids and so do I. I always find someone to watch my kids when he comes home. He works on the road. The problem is he never takes me out. He has family that can watch his kids. He never does. ...

I'm constantly worried my boyfriend has/will cheat on me and I'm going insane thinking what on earth happened while he was on that cruise without me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2156 days ago

23 May 2018 (F) - My boyfriend went on a cruise ship with his (male) friends last week. I expected it to be hard. I was a bit moody during the first day he was there, but the remaining 6 days I felt fine about the fact that he was having fun. He kept in touch wi...

I just learnt that my girlfriend was sexually abused by her stepfather and his friend but I can't seem to move past this information

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2156 days ago

22 May 2018 (M) - I’ve been dating this amazing girl for two years. We took our relationship very slow because we both had been in long term relationships that ended badly. Our relationship is close to perfect we’ve actually talked marriage recently. We were talking ...

I Like A Guy But He Seems like a "Bad Boy/Player" - I'm Turned Off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2156 days ago

22 May 2018 (F) - There's a hot guy on my course (economics) who is in some of my tutorial groups etc and he flirts with me quite a bit, looking me up and down, winking at me asking me if his belt buckle looks big etc. He has the SS haircut with lots of hair gel, ...

Will our views on careers cause problems down the road?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2156 days ago

22 May 2018 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 years and I have a huge disconnect regarding our careers. He wants a short term job with a lot of flexibility.. basically it means no benefits, pay as you work, no pay when you don't work kind of job. I want stability, good ...

I’m a first time dater and find myself stressing about the romantic/ affectionate part of it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2159 days ago

22 May 2018 (F) - Does anyone have tips for letting yourself be more romantic/affectionate with someone when it's totally outside of your comfort zone? Been seeing someone for a couple weeks now (first time ever dating) and can tell he wants more from me physical...

Recently there is a lack of trust from both sides!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2158 days ago

21 May 2018 (F) - I'm in a relationship and have been with the boy for 6 months. We had a very good start to our relationship other than a few anger issues he had where he would get too angry too easily. Beside this it was pretty much perfect. Recently he found out ...

Does he have a disorder or is he just a liar?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2160 days ago

18 May 2018 (F) - Hello i have a question, i have been dating this guy for 3 months but am confused about his character.The first time met him, he told he was born Jan 30th, the next time i asked he said 20th feb 1979 i asked to see his Id it was 1th Jan 1978. Last ...

How much of an issue is porn while getting into a serious relationship/marriage?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2162 days ago

18 May 2018 (M) - How much of an issue is porn while getting into a serious relationship/marriage? I don't know if I'm addicted but I watch it everyday. I am currently single and I've noticed that I watch it even when I'm with someone. Do women take offence to their...

Why do guys I meet (and like) only like to flirt and never do anything?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2161 days ago

17 May 2018 (F) - Why do guys I meet (and like) only like to flirt and never do anything? I have an unusual job, we do fieldwork and one expedition can last for several months, so we get to know each other well and spend time together. They are all very open...

If I’ve fallen for him and my parents don’t approve of me being with someone, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2159 days ago

17 May 2018 (F) - I met my friend when we were both just 10 years old. We kept in contact for years but were never close.. we just always make sure to wish each other on birthdays and chat to catch up and see how we’re both doing. But just last year in September, we ...

He hasn’t initiated a date and I’m wondering if I’m being played!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2162 days ago

17 May 2018 (F) - Hello everyone! So I’ve been on a few dates with this guy, who I really like! He’s a mutual friend, but I don’t know much about him. The first date was good, we had plenty to talk about but we were trying to impress each other quite a lot b...

Two people in as little as a week have brought me to a choice, and it's tearing me apart.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2163 days ago

16 May 2018 (M) - For someone bisexual who hasn't had any experience in dating or relationships, I've suddenly been forced with a choice. A woman at work has taken interest in me, and we talk every now and then. Surprisingly, she asked me out on a date. She's nice ...

Boyfriend ignores me for computer games, should I be upset?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2142 days ago

16 May 2018 (F) - Hi, I feel like this is a bit of a strange question and I'm not sure if I am allowed to feel this way or not. Hopefully you can shed some light for me. I've been with my boyfriend for 10 years and recently moved in together 3 years ago. I fe...

I don't think this party girl is girlfriend material. Should I break up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2161 days ago

16 May 2018 (M) - I'm 32 years old my girlfriend is22. We're dating for four months and I still have doubts about her if she is gf material to me. Bottom line is she's a party girl, to me a girl who likes to party and drink and have sex with a lot of dudes is not ...

Do you think it's wise trying again with his family and friends against us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2160 days ago

16 May 2018 (F) - Me and my ex boyfriend amicably agreed to break up around a year ago and let fate decide where we'd end up. I was travelling, he was studying and it just wasn't our time. Even though we decided this together, he became more hurt about our breakup as ...

I have a huge crush on the perfect girl but we're both in relationships. Should I still get her number in case we break up with our partners in the future?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2161 days ago

16 May 2018 (M) - Im in a class with a girl, who when I first saw her thought she was pretty but didnt think much of it. As Ive got to know her a little better over the semester and she is so smart! Probably the most intelligent in the class. She honestly seems so ...

In a long term relationship but now some things are bothering me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2159 days ago

16 May 2018 (M) - Hi. I am in a long term relationship (over 4 years) now. I do love my boyfriend very much, however recently a few 'issues' which ordinarily I would just ignore have started eating away at me. The first, I have found myself looking at other guys more ...

Am I playing myself for a fool with this older guy?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2152 days ago

15 May 2018 (F) - My boyfriend is 8 years older than me. I met him in early February while he was non exclusively dating a 21 year old .I met him in a little store near my house and one thing Led to another and now we are a couple. When i first initially met him he ...

How do I work on this trust issue and two, should I be with someone who is a diamond in the rough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2164 days ago

15 May 2018 (F) - Hi all, After years of not feeling much for the opposite sex after a long, miserable marriage, someone I met as a child courted me for a few months before I agreed to meet up. I was almost convinced I'd never fall in love again It was an instant,...

Am I being used? I believe deep down that he is a good person but I am worried that I'm just there to teach him how to be in a relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2165 days ago

15 May 2018 (F) - have been seeing someone new for 4 months. When we first met, it was unlike anything I have ever experienced – I felt a real chemisty with this person and we hit it off straight away. Despite the distance (he lives in the south of the UK and me the ...

Why does it seem like my boyfriend is stringing along his ex ?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 2159 days ago

14 May 2018 (F) - My boyfriend is 31 his ex is 21 and I’m 23 , my current boyfriend of two months left a girl he was dating in February to be with me. He told me he complained to her about standing up to her family and she never did it and how her family didn’t even ...

He wants to get married and I just feel he isn't the right one. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2166 days ago

14 May 2018 (F) - So I've been dating this guy for a little over a year. He is a good guy, makes me coffee in the morning, opens the door for me ect. I believe he wouldn't ever cheat on me. He helps out around the house a little. He even moved to another state with ...

do I look gay, or is it just a good way to attract attention from women?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2160 days ago

13 May 2018 (M) - 25 year old self professed hipster here. Not really a macho alpha dude but I do work out. I am still on the slim side though. I am definitely not gay. I was in a relationship with a girl for 3 years during college but have been single for 2 years. ...

Why his sudden change in behaviour?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2167 days ago

13 May 2018 (F) - I met a guy through mutual friends age took my number . We had an amazing first long conversation on call followed by a couple of video calls sessions . There were no romantic talks but we were planning to meet up. I agree he is busy but he used to ...

Why can't I get past first dates?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2167 days ago

13 May 2018 (M) - I'm suffering from a really bad 18 months or so of dating, all the dates have been from various apps like Tinder or Bumble but the most dates with one girl in that time is four. However, recently it's got really bad... I haven't had a second date ...

He cheated on his wife. I don't want to be the next person he hurts

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2157 days ago

13 May 2018 (F) - I've been seeing a really great guy who makes me laugh and is fantastic with my son. He is a great dad to his own children with his soon to ex wife, (in the process of getting a divorce), and everything seems perfect. When I first met him through ...

I only hear from him when he is on leave ... I don't want to be his booty call.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2167 days ago

13 May 2018 (F) - to start me and my ex were together for years he joined the army we were together for 2 year of the 3 year enlistment he has, and once he went on deployment, 1 month before he got back he ended it and said it was because he didn't want me waiting ...

My boyfriend said if I don't give him sex he will get it somewhere else!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2167 days ago

13 May 2018 (F) - Am in a relationship from 3year and i never allowed my boyfriend to touch me even and he never had any issue qith it.. He just said me when i'll permittee him to touch myself then only he'll touch otherwise no.... But now after 2years we got a lot ...

How can I stop thinking about him and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2166 days ago

13 May 2018 (F) - Hello! I'm sorry if this is not the right place to vent, but I feel like I can't talk to anyone about something that is bothering me so much right now and just need to hear others' thoughts. I fell for a guy who is a good/long-time friend of mi...

At what age would young couples move in together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2165 days ago

13 May 2018 (F) - Hello. I am 21 years old and already wanting to settle with my boyfriend. We have made plans in the future to settle and live together as in get an apartment and eventually a house. I am in university full time and seeking part time jobs. We both ...

My boyfriend and I have very different views

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2167 days ago

13 May 2018 (F) - I have very different views of life to my partner. We get along great, I am very comfortable with him, he goes out of his way for me, we like each other's company, he makes me feel attractive and is into me. However, sometimes he says things t...

Does one mistake break you forever? Even if you've learned from your mistake and would never ever repeat it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2167 days ago

12 May 2018 (F) - Does one mistake make you broken forever? Even if you've learned from your mistake and would never ever repeat it? My first bf and I were not a good match. Or we were for a codependant relationship. Bit I didn't know that then. Everything was a...