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Virginity: Help and advice

Can a person that is still a virgin get a disease?

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6 November 2009 (M) - Hi Cupid,I asked this question here last time about the word masturbation. this question confused me sometimes, i want to be sure of it. my question is, a person that still a virgin whether a boy or a girl. like a boy that still a virgin. if the ...

What can I do to help her get over this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

6 November 2009 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend, "Nicole", for almost a year now. I have had one previous girlfriend, "Molly", who I dated a few years before Nicole. I'm Nicole's first real boyfriend and she is very turned off by the fact that Molly and I had an ...

My love has ADHD. What are all the things I may need to know to ensure our relationship stays healthy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - Allo! My girlfriend and I have been together for...ah...whoa...21 months, that's nearly 2 years, lol, neither of us realized. I'm 18, she turns 19 in a couple of months and we seem, well, absolutely fine. We'd like to hold on to our relations...

Does using a G-spot stimulator mean you're not a virgin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - As said virginity is not having sexual intercoarse...but if you have a g spot stimulator are you still a virgin?...

I'm a Catholic. What are the pros and cons of waiting til my wedding night?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - I am a Catholic and I know that as one I should not have sex before marriage but as most, if not all, Catholics do today they do. I just assumed that I would sometime in my late teens. Now I am nearly 16 and I'm beginning to change my mind. I real...

After our break-up, I feel used! Am I wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - I dated a guy aged 22 for 4 months, i loved him so an ended up giving up my virginity to him, he was an alcoholic and i rarely felt his attention. one day when i was asking about us, about the relationship an its weakness he looked at me and told me ...

I lied about my virginty. Can a man feel your hymen?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - I am a virgin, but for my own personal reasons I do not want my guy to know. We are having sex for the first time tomorrow night, and I'm afraid he might feel my hymen and know I lied to him. I don't care about the bleeding, since I know that can...

Was that a form of verbal abuse that I went through?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - i was in a relationship with a guy for 7 months, and when the relationship started it was all good he would talk nicely well a week after talking he wanted to meet up for coffee i said we can. We spoke for long and after dropping me off he asked if ...

I'm scared to have sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - Earlier this year, I had a chance to lose my virginity with someone I was seeing. But once we were naked, and I was about to insert my penis, I just couldn't..i lost all confidence, and didnt have the guts to go in. Since then, I've thought abo...

How can I overcome my fear of sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - I'm 18 years old and I'm still a virgin. I've been going out with my bf for almost 10 months now. The fact that he is 9 years older then me, I guess it's normal for him to want sex (he's a virgin too) and I understand that. We spoke a lot about ...

How can I be loose when I am still a virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - [MODERATOR NOTE: This post was minimally edited for spelling and grammar to improve legibility.] I'm worried. Basically I'm a horny girl. I can't help it, I think I'm more horny than a guy. Anyway, I masturbate a lot, like in one go, 3 times and ...

Help! How do I get my first kiss?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

2 November 2009 (M) - ok well I'm 18 and I have never had my first kiss or anything. please tell me how I should get it. I need major help so please give me all your ideas....

Is there a way to check for broken hymen? Out of curiousity and health.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - Is there a way I can check if my hymen is broken or not?i want to see if theres a way.just for curiosity...

How can I check my virginity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - I m doubted that i have broke my hymen during self pleasuring.bt i dnt remember that I ever seen blood during self pleasuring.how can I check my virginity?...

Am I still a virgin if he didn't come inside me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - Some of my friends say i am still a virgin cause he didn't cum inside me. But it still went in. Am i virgin or not is he a virgin or not...

I lied to my fiancee that I'm a virgin... what now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - Hi i had forced to have sex now im getting married and i lied to my fiancee that im a virgin i cant tell him the truth what should i do??????????/ plz help ...

Can he be a virgin at 40 plus???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - I've known this guy just under a year- both in our early 40's- we met at work but dont work in same place. We have a few friends in common and others who arent. Since we met we have seen loads of each other - we now see each other every week or so, ...

Is it bad for a Christian girl to masterbate?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - im a 15 year old qirl. i am christian. in i have several questions. is it bad for a christian qirl to mastrubate?is it bad for a girl to mastrubate? can you loose your virginity? please help...

Should I disclose why intimacy scares me?

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31 October 2009 (F) - ok, so my question is about being in a successful relationship. i'll admit that ya i'm a virgn and ya i tended to avoid relationships, but the thing is i've had a pretty messed up past. i was abused physically and emotionally and there are some ...

Scared of my virginity, tempted to give it to an ex.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - My ex is in town and i'm tempted to lose my virginity to him ... i over analysed the importance of it before and even now have slight fear of not being a virgin forever but at the same time have fear of being a virgin forever. I trust my ex and i ...

Virgin... or not a virgin???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - I have a question regarding my virginity. I am not really sure if I am still a virgin or not. My boyfriend and I tried to have sex but he couldn't get his whole penis inside, only a bit went it and it hurt me. He slowly tried to put it more inside ...

Help, I need information about losing my virginity!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - My new bf has been wanting me to have sex with him, but im still not too sure that i want to. I dont no if it will hurt or if i will get caught by my parents but they are never there tho. I'm still a virgin and i don't no about how anything feels. ...

Good girl or bad girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - hii.. oh im 19 do i have a bad past or what? when i was like 16 there was a guy i go to church with and i made out with him one time after that i cut him out my life i didnt really wanna be with him... it was bascially me feelin lonely... up to this ...

Where can we have sex without being interrupted?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Ok so I'm losing my virginity to one of my guy-friends really soon, but i don't know when yet.....i'm really nervous, and i dont know what i need to expect, because i literally know nothing about sex....i don't want to get down on the bed with a guy ...

I can help but think my boyfreind's ex is a better lover than me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I've written here before, but I'm afraid I just can't get past it. I (20 years old) have been with my boyfriend (22 years old) for a little over nine months now. Everything is going fine, though we're both very busy holding down full-time jobs and ...

I've never fallen out of love so what now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - i am 43 yrs old married for 18 yrs and have a son 16 and a daughter 9 but here is the situation. it was love at first sight at the age of 16 instantly i knew i wanted to spend the rest of my life with this girl, still a virgin (both of us) i didn't...

Ladies: do you think guys that are virgins are cute?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - Do ladies around my age (17-23 I guess) think it's cute for a guy that's 19 to be a virgin? I know a few girls, one is 18 now, and she said she wants a guy with experience. But on the other end, one day when I was in class these "experienced" (lol) ...

He's still not listening when I tell him to slow down!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend last year because I did not want to lose my virginity and he is used to sleeping with his ex-girlfriend (I have now found out he has a reputation for being more interested in sleeping with his girlfriends than the ...

Is he normal for his age or are my parents right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - Well... I'm dating a guy who is 9 years older then me. We are going out for about 10 months now. He had never been in love before I'm his first love and I only had 1 boyfriend before him, but I wasn't in love. Now my parents are giving me trouble - ...

Is he moving too fast again or am I just paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 13 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - Im 18 and my BF is just older than me. He has had relationships before but I am still a virgin. I went out with him a few years ago, but broke up with him because I am highly insecure (depressive, not open with people touching me) and he was moving ...

We are planning on losing our virginity together!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

25 October 2009 (M) - hey all my girlfriend and i are planning on having sex soon, it will be the first time for both of us. what are some recommended positions for first time, aside from standard missionary which will make it fun and enjoyable?...

My very first time...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I was 19 when I lost my virginuty. It was with a guy I liked;it was my bffs cousin and he was 17 yrs old. I told him we should hook up when got drunk and just laughed and asked, what about the next day.I didnt know if he meant sex or a ...

If I have my girlfriend finger me am I still a virgin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - If I have my girlfriend finger me am I still a virgin?...

This is the man I want to spend the rest of my life with!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - Hello all, I have a complicated situation. I consider myself to be clear of mind and a high thinker. But this problem I simply cannot solve. My former flame and I were together for a short time. A year and a half. He was my first and only everyt...

I am a horny virgin but I don't think I am ready for sex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - im 15 and i keep feeling horny, but i havent had sex before what do you think i should do? i want to have sex but at the same time i dont think im as ready as i think, but i keep feeling horny. Help me please....

I'm 16, and really concerned about my Love Life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

22 October 2009 (M) - Hey. I'm 16, and really concerned about my Love Life. Well i cant call it that, as i've never actualy had one. I've never actualy had a proper girlfriend, i've 'seen' girls but not been in an actual relationship. I always get mucked about by ...

If I am a virgin, am I able to have an orgasm?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - What if he says no? I really like this guy and want to take it further than friendship but what if he does not like me more than a friend? I feel like I am falling in love with him but he does not like me. He gives me a hug everyday but only if I ...

Is first time sex different when you are older?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - Hi everyone! I am a 26 year old virgin, and the reason why I have remained one is that I've not been truly in love until now. I am currently in a very loving relationship since more than a year, and yet we haven't had sex. Of course, my boyfrien...

How do I have sex if I'm not comfortable in my own skin?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - hey guys. its a bit long, but heres the issue. its quite personal so please be serious and give some good advice. im 17, i have never had any sexual experience, mainly because iv never had a serious boyfriend. obviously iv kissed guys, but nothing ...

I love him but I don't want sex anymore, I am not interested in being around him. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid I am a girl and I have been in a relationship with my first boyfriend for about one and a half years now - pretty much for the most part I have been at university, as I am now finishing my second year. However, I am finding that alt...

Is he being truthful or is he saying it just to get into my pants?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - I am in a relationship with a man since a year and half. We have known each other since 3 years. I have never been in a relationship before and I am a virgin too. Initially , at the start of our relationship every thing else was good except the sex ...

Why do I always seem to want sex when I'm a virgin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - Why do I always seem to be wanting sex even though I am a virgin? When I was grinding with a guy and I felt his boner I was about to explode, why? And another guy that I was grinding with had his hands by my bladder a little lower and that made me ...

I feel as though I've lost my morals...what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I hate who i am becoming and i can't stop myself. I used to be the classy girl with a lot of respect for herself, but in a month and a little it has changed. I lost my virginity three years ago now and in the space of three years i had only slept wi...

I think I need some reassurance here or just anyones idea

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - Hi I'm 18 years old Throughout my life i have been through some sh***y relationships and broke up with my last boyfriend because he cheated on me I have gotten to the point now where i just want to lose my virginity (hopefully with someone ...

I want to show her my real love for her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

19 October 2009 (M) - I'm almost lost and on the verge of givig up... I have asked once before on what to do and I tried the advice and it doesn't seem to work. I have talked to my friends and they are puzzled. I have been going out with this girl for about 2 months ...

Why does my ex keep thinking I am pregnant?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - so I'm 16, i stayed at my bf house (ex now) we didn't do anything. i swear, but when i woke up that morning i had bruises everywhere and i felt real funny down there. i told him about it he said it was my problem and my body. anyways, we ar...

Why can't I just lose my virginity when virginity is not a big deal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

18 October 2009 (M) - Hi, everyone ! Thee's one thing I don't understand about the relationship. When you have a boyfriend / girlfriend, people always say their pasts are just the past. If the person is not a virgin, then it's not a big deal as long as you love them. ...

Do you need a condom to get a blow job?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

17 October 2009 (M) - Hye there friends.. I need a lil advice. Me and my gf of 8 months years (we are both 16) were hangin together last night. And she just randomly asked to give me a bj. I was elated cuz we've never even touched on that kind of stuff before. But the ...

I need some advice on my life and how to improve it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 20 days ago

17 October 2009 (M) - Hello I need some advice about my life and how to improve it I mean a while ago i lost my virginity to a prostitute and it was awful regretted it.... but i made the same mistake again... and learnt alot from it. It made me realise i want a ...

Will things change if my boyfriend finds out I'm a virgin?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

16 October 2009 (F) - i'm 18 and still a virgin and haven't gotten very intimate with a guy before. it's not because of religious reasons or anything. anyway, i'm kind of worried because i'm visiting my bf in a couple months and i never told him i was a virgin. i haven't ...