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Virginity: Help and advice

One night stand...but I don't regret it, should I?

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13 May 2008 (F) - Right, straight to the point! I lost my virginity on a one night stand, and it doesn't seem to bother me that I slept with a random boy. Am I stupid for not being bothered that I don't want to be involved in a reltionship with him? Please hel...

I think my friends have spread rumours about me...should I forgive or plot to get even?

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13 May 2008 (F) - Today at school my friend really hurt me. Her and this boy went and told everyone that i am not a virgin. It's really affecting me becasue people are calling me slag and becasue i am normaly quiet and keep out the way people are saying "its always ...

My boyfriend doesn't want to talk about his past, which includes him being raped at age nine and then sexually active

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13 May 2008 (F) - HEEEELP my 3-month old boyfriend confessed to me that he was raped by hi's cousins friend when he was 9 years old. But thats not it. After he was raped the first time he was raped by more people, girls AND boys, as he claims He also told me ...

I'm scared about losing my virginity and keep thinking he will pursue someone else if I make him wait longer... ?

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13 May 2008 (F) - I'm about to lose my virginaty in a few days with my bf who i have been with for 1 year. Im so scared its going to hurt he tells me its going to be fine and it wont hurt and i know it will im so scared and when he fingers me im so tight he can get ...

Are there any men who can settle for hugs instead of sex?

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13 May 2008 (F) - Okay this seems like a REALLY weird question, but...here goes. So I am really not into like, kissing or any of that stuff. I have thought about sex and come to the conclusion that I would like to remain a virgin and not ever have sex, for personal...

Is this a yeast infection or an STD? Please help, it's the first time I had sex!

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12 May 2008 (F) - please help ! discharge ! im 16 and have just lost my virgity... (yes i used a condom) :) usually i barly have any discharge... but for the last week, iv had loads of thick white, non smelling discharge constantly ! im extreamly worryed. ...

I love her, and I want to have sex with her, but I don't want to ruin the relationship!

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12 May 2008 (M) - ok my gf is a virgin and has never really liked fooling around bc she thinks it makes her seen not pure and like a slut.. well she's wanting to now and last night she was a drunk but before she started drinking she asked me if i would have sex with ...

He told me the all the other girls he's had sex with, even with out a condom, never got pregnant

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11 May 2008 (F) - Ok...so i'm 15 and my boyfriend is 14, we've known each other and been with each other for a long time...and my boyfriend isn't a virgin. He says he lost it when he was young and has had sex with other girls ever sence...but he wants to have sex ...

I want to love him and lose my virginity to him. How do I know if it's right?

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11 May 2008 (F) - i think im falling in love but im not sure if he's in love with me but i wanna trust him but im not sure and im not sure if i should loose my virginity tom him ...

Don't be afraid to say STOP! on your first time (An article)

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11 May 2008 (F) - Okay I know many people have put down a story about the first time they had sex, but I never see anyone putting down what happened to me on my first time. I didn't have sex untill i reached university (the 2nd day of university to tell the truth) ...

We are both virgins, what can I do to make the first sexual experience least painful for her?

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11 May 2008 (M) - Hi - i am an 18 year old guy and have shared a nice relationship with a very cute girl. I love her very very much and am commited towards her. we never got physical in the first 3 yrs- but have started getting a little physical lately. To me - it is ...

I want to date and gain more experience, when should I lose my virginity? It's stigmatising me!

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11 May 2008 (F) - I'm 23 and I'm still a virgin. Without getting into too much history, I've had one boyfriend. We're not together anymore and the furthest physically we ever went was kissing. I'm a fairly sexual person, having read romance novels for most of my l...

When will I know she's ready to have sex?

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9 May 2008 (M) - Hi everyone. I've been dating this girl for nearly a year, we get along very well, finish each other's sentences and all that, lovey-dovey kind of couple.I swore I would not be like that in another relationship, but.. here we are, lol. Anyway here's ...

Do ultra thin condoms make you more sensitive? I'm a virgin.

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9 May 2008 (M) - im a virgin that is about to start having sex. the condoms i have are ultra thin. i know that im not going to last very long on our first time but will these condoms make me cum even quicker than i would with a regular condom?...

How can I tell her to return a favour in bed? She's a virgin.

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9 May 2008 (M) - how do you tell your gf to return the favor please when i please her every time but i'm left hangin or should i say stiff.. idk how to she's a virgin and just coming around to being comfortable with this kind of stuff.. can a guy get a hand job mayb...

How to spice things up in a relationship where sex and oral sex are not an option?

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9 May 2008 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for almost one year now and we are both in our 20s. I've chosen to remain a virgin until I am married. It is both a religious and personal choice on my end. My question is this, how do you spice things up with...

What's the best first-time sex position?

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8 May 2008 (M) - what is the best sex possition for first time sex and what gives the most pleasure? what is the best things to do before inserting my penis into my girlfriends virgina?...

Advice, please, before we have sex

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8 May 2008 (M) - Hello, Me and my girlfriend have been discussing sex and we are probably going to have sex soonish, like within the next few months. She has two issues though: Firstly she has heard all the shock stories like it hurts sooo much. Can anyon...

Should I tell him I'm still a vrigin?

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7 May 2008 (F) - Hello My new boyfriend is divorced and eight years older than me, which is not a problem to me, what is the problem is that i am still a virgin and dont know if i should tell him this, and how do i tell him, or maybe he already knows. Thank ...

Which condoms should virgins use?

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7 May 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are both virgins, we have been talking about having sex latly, so wanting to be responsible and everything I got condoms, to be able to have a choice I bought 3 kinds... Trojan ENZ Lubricated(non-spermicidal), Trojan Her Plea...

Will I have any problems with my penis I should think about before I have sex?

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7 May 2008 (M) - Hello, Im 16 as you may notice in my name. I have a penis which is about 7-8 inches long (which i believe is quite large (don't mean to boast)). It bends slightly down when its fully erect and the foreskin does retract automatically, it will if ...

Everywhere I go I try to impress girls but for some reason it just doesn’t work! Help?

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7 May 2008 (M) - Hey guys!!! I would really appreciate it if you could give me a few tips!! I am 17 years old and still single, I have been single for a year now after I broke up with my long term girlfriend of 2 years. I was glad to get out of that relationship...

First time with her - did I handle it badly?

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7 May 2008 (M) - I'm 19. My gf is 16. Recently she came to visit me from another town. We petted since her arrival. One morning early,while my parents were out for a while, she was still in her nightie and we were we were kissing, I pulled her panties down. Sh...

My fiancé is a virgin and I need to build his confidence

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7 May 2008 (F) - The problem is that my fiance is a virgin and has very little self-esteem in the bedroom and so he won't have sex with me because he's afraid he isn't going to be good at it. Well, that's really only part of the reason. The other part of his reason ...

Fingering has not gained us much thrills yet, will stimulating the famous G spot be more pleasurable for her?

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7 May 2008 (M) - my gf is a virgin and we just recently started fooling around.. she gets nothing out of fingering and i've posted about that on here before.. but bc she doesn't get anything out of that would her g-spot not give her anything either?? ...

Vaginal penetration incomplete, did I lose my "V" card? What should I expect at full intercourse in terms of sensations?

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7 May 2008 (F) - If only 1/3 of a penis penetrated my vagina for 10 seconds, did i lose my virginity? is this close to what it feels like when there is deep, full penetration for a longer period of time? Also, if the penis got soft once it was in, is this ...

I want to gain confidence and lose my virginity?

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6 May 2008 (M) - I haven't been in any relationships, had sex, kissed or even held hands with a girl before. I always get anxious when I talk a girl talks to me let alone when I have to approach a girl. I lack a lot of confidence and am very shy because of this. I ...

How do you have sex? what do you do during sex?

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5 May 2008 (F) - Hey i am about to have sex for the first time with my longterm boyfriend, but we have never engaged in any sexual acts before other than kissing. my question is how do you have sex? as in what do i do as he is inside me, writhe around? roll over? ...

Has he just used me or it is because he is scared about Iraq

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5 May 2008 (F) - Hey i just need some advice although i worte my story on here before xmas i might need some extra advice. I had been with my boyfriend on and off for 18 month andwe split at xmas we have been kind of just close since we split and recently decided ...

I've been wanting to lose my virginity for a long time now, but.....

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5 May 2008 (F) - Hey, i'm 14 years old and before i go into anything personal, i am very mature for my age when it comes to relationships. Like i've never had an actual relationship with any boys my age as i think they are too imature.(i prob sound like a brat or ...

It hurts more than it is enjoyable. How do I get the right way across to her without telling her she's doing it wrong?

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5 May 2008 (M) - ok so i'm not virgin i've been with many girls in high school but i started dating a girl that i've been with for over a year now and we just recently started fooling around bc she's a virgin.. i've got 2 questions.. 1 when i finger her it doesn't ...

How will I know if I am ready for sex?

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4 May 2008 (F) - how will i know if im ready for sex? me and my bf have been together for just over 8 months and we havnt had sex and i am still a virgin. i often think about having sex with him but sometimes i get scared becus im a virgin and hes not and whether it ...

I'm 23 and still a virgin. I don't know much about sex.

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4 May 2008 (M) - i'm 23 and still a virgin. I don't know much about sex. i am looking for someone to tell me about sex. never had a girlfriend and never even fooled around with one. Please Help me!!!!!!...

I don't think he went all the way, but he said he did cum. Now I don't know what to do. Help!

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4 May 2008 (F) - I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time yesteday, i don't think he went all the way but he said he did cum. I'm so worried i don't know what to do! I can't tell my parents, and i don't know if i can go doctor's without them? HELP!...

How do I get out of this cycle and find someone real?

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4 May 2008 (F) - I'm going to be 20 in 2 months time and I'm still a virgin and have never had a boyfriend I'm starting to think I'm going to be alone forever. I dont think it's a problem with my physical appearance, but more with my personality, I'm intensly shy ...

I'm turning 19 this week and I've never even been in a relationship!

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3 May 2008 (F) - I'm not sure why i'm writing this, but here goes. I'm turning 19 this week and i've never even been in a relationship! Back in school i'd fall for the guys i couldn't have and after 3 years of not allowing myself to fall for anyone, i made a mistak...

I'm a virgin but I told him I wasn't. Will he be able to tell?

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3 May 2008 (F) - theres this guy who i was nearly going out with. i'm a virgin, but for some stupid reason i came up with this story that i wasnt and he believed it. i was just wondering, if i had sex with him, would he be able to tell that i am a virgin or not? ...

Help! I have two lumps on my penis

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3 May 2008 (M) - Im 15 and a few nights ago i went to bed and my penis hurt so i thought it was nothing i just bumped it or something but yesterday i pulled my foreskin back and saw two small lumps that look like mouth ulcers any idea what i should do? p.s: im a...

Should I have sex with him?

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3 May 2008 (F) - Hey guys im kinda freaking out cuz i want to have sex with this guy, im 13 and im still a virgin but really love him and he's so sexy lol, so GUYS should i give hima blowjob first? )give me advice to give a nice blowjob lol) and wat do guys like in ...

Should I tell him I'm a virgin?

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3 May 2008 (F) - Hi I'm 20 years old and still a virgin I was wondering if I should tell my new bf now or wait and see where the relationship goes idont plan on staying a virgin forever I'm just waiting for the time to be right so please help me?...

Me and my girlfriend have decided to lose our virginity to eachother, but we have nowhere we can be on our own, what would you have done??

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3 May 2008 (M) - i posted a question last night but i left some stuff out that was suggested in the replies so i re-wrote the question... Me and my girlfriend were going to lose our virginity to eachother tonight, its our 8th and it was gonna be so special, we'...

Are guys put off dating a woman who's a virgin?

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3 May 2008 (F) - This is a question for the guys. I'm in my early twenties and I'm a virgin. I'm saving myself for the right person. Do men prefer experienced women? Are guys put off dating a woman who's a virgin. What are your views please? thanks alot...

I want our first time to be special, any suggestions?

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3 May 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are so incredibly in love, we have been togather for 8 months as of sunday, since about the end of january we have decided we want to be eachothers first, so we are both virgins and we really want to give our virginity to ...

This virgin gives me clues that she's sexually curious but I'm joining the Marines. I need intimate satisfaction!

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3 May 2008 (M) - Hello. I have a pondering yet mentally challenging question for me. I've had a pretty healthy sex life up to about last August when my ex broke up with me. Ive gotten over the past and the pain of the break up over time. At my job there is a girl ...

I 19 and really, really ready to lose my "V" card but a little unsure how to make the moves!

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2 May 2008 (M) - I am 19 yearl old and still a virgin,and my newest girlfriend isnt. i think that she wants to have sex with me but she knows im a virgin and its making things a little weird between us when we come close to having sex.. i dont know what i am ...

What can we do to make it hurt less next time?

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2 May 2008 (F) - Okay, well yesterday i lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 6 months, and well it really wasn't all what i thought it was going to be. We didn't really get that far into it because it hurt too much, so i told him to stop. He understood and he stop...

I'm considering having sex with my longterm boyfriend, however I'm extremely worried about the pain!

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1 May 2008 (F) - It's approaching my 16th birthday and Im considering having sex with my longterm boyfriend, however I'm extremely worried about the pain. The non-virgins among my friends have all said it hurt and Im really scared. Is there anything I do to...

I don't know if I will ever love. Please help.

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1 May 2008 (F) - hi everyone! i really need your help and i would appreciate it so much if you would answer me!!! first i want to apologize for my language mistakes as i am not a native speaker. i just turned 19 and i'm female. here's my story: i have never been ...

Advice to young men about young women

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1 May 2008 (F) - I posted this as an answer to a young man, a virgin, who wanted to know about his young girlfriend, also a virgin... First, I know it's hard to believe but a girl her age may not know her body very well. She may not know what is sexually stimula...

I was shocked when my friend told me she was no longer a virgin.

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1 May 2008 (F) - Yesterday my best friend told me a secret. She told me that she wasn't a virgin anymore. I was in total shock. I thought she knew better than to do something like that. I don't know how to explain it, but ever since she told me that she wasn't a ...