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Archived questions from: 13 October, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Do I have a really low sex drive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - sruthi.. I am very much worried that I am not able to enjoy sex, as some feeling is holding me back.. I never felt in that peak stage of mood. He is saying that he is not sensing any interest from me, and he wants me to initiate and show more in...

How can we possibly have a lasting relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

13 October 2009 (M) - Help... I am really falling for a lovely young woman and I believe we could have a wonderfully rich and loving relationship. Thing is we are both in our second year of university. And she is going on her year abroad as part of her course nex...

Do guys obsess as much as girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - Umm . . . hi :) I was just wondering, since I always obsess about what little things my crush says and does, Do guys obsess as much as girls? Or are they really as blasee as they make out? Just curious :) XoXo...

I'm in love with her so should I tell her how I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 October 2009 (M) - I need some help! I'm a 37 year old man who has only had one relationship which only lasted about a year about 10 years ago. This is due to low self confidence, also as I got older, it was harder to start a relationship. Last year, I met thi...

Does it sound like his interest level has gone down?

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13 October 2009 (F) - I met a guy at a concert and he was VERY flirty with me the whole evening. Just very outgoing and tried to keep conversation going with me the whole night. At the end of the evening, he asked for my number and the next day he called. I missed his ...

Should I ignore her or keep being friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

13 October 2009 (M) - hello, i want to ask about something about a girl in my class well i started my class month and a half ago then there was a girl i dunno i just felt it was good from both inside and outside then we became friends and through that time s...

How do I know she didn't sleep with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

13 October 2009 (M) - Ok ive been dating this girl for about 5 months now everything has been going really smooth she was at my house almost everyday until school started because shes in college so now she kinda tends to both me,school which is fine anyways about 3 ...

How do I get some meaningful sexual experience?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

13 October 2009 (M) - Hey there everyone, I've been feeling really blue lately. This is the first time I've ever really talked about this, so please bare with me a bit as I fumble with explaining things.. I'm 18 (and a half) and have no experience whatsoever wi...

How do I date the first girl without hurting the second?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

13 October 2009 (M) - I am really close to two different girls. Both are beautiful, but they hate each other. I hang with both of them, separately all the time, and always make sure I share my attention evenly. But I've really started to feel really close to one of them, ...

I want to give him another chance, but I feel like I deserve better

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - I was dating this guy for a little more than a year. One night he got really drunk and hooked up with 8 girls in one night! I couldnt believe it. He was my first love. I became so depressed and on top of that he never called me the day after, ...

Still with my first love, but we've lost the spark

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - I have been in a serious relationship for almost four years now with my boyfriend and loved every minute except the sex part. I was a 15 year old Freshman dating a 17 year old Junior in high school. Now I'm graduated and at college with him, but it ...

How can you tell if a female friend likes you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

13 October 2009 (M) - me and her are always sitting next to each other in lectures and in seminars. she always playfully hits me, or teases me about something i do or wear and takes my stuff like my hat forcing me to try and get it back. when we were in class the other ...

I am dating one girl but another has my heart!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

13 October 2009 (M) - hey, i've recently started going out with this girl, she turns me on loads, like everytime we kiss, im hard, but, the thing is, i dont feel anything in my heart for, her, we've onyl been going out for a week, but still, i feel like i should like he...

I am going to the homecoming and I need tips! Help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

13 October 2009 (M) - Need help! Going to Homecoming and I need some ideas! My gf is going to wear either a purple or red dress. Need help!...

Should I call him to check if he is really coming?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - hey guys well i was having this situation where me and my housemate who was living with me for the summer made out a few times, we were really good friends with a lot in common and he told me all about his ex who broke his heart. However I thought ...

We fight all the time because I am so busy and don't have time for him, what can I do?

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13 October 2009 (F) - i love my boyfriend but all time we quarreled on the topic i cant give much time to him n we all ready maintain long distance relationship..so he just wanted that i give him more time .. im busy in short period but at that time he understand me but ...

Does he have any intentions of making a life with me or am I just a booty call?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - So let me start off with a little history. I met this guy right out of high school, we had this connection that was so strong its unexplainable and we hadnt even had sex, After about three months he got into some trouble and ended up in jail, I kept ...

His empty promises are starting to make me think that he doesn't care about me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - Ive always thought people are in a serious relationship when they "want" to do special things for each other. ive been seeing this guy for the past year, im very attached to him, probably in love with him. i know for a fact that i mean a lot to ...

My girlfriend is a compulsive liar and I don't know what to do, she will only answer my questions with more lies!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

13 October 2009 (M) - Hey so im going to get straight to the point. ive been with my girl for exactly 6 months in 2 days and im really worried because shes a compulsive liar to everyone, i didnt think it was to me until i found out her ex has been giving her hundreds and ...

How can I be more confident around guys and possibly get my ex back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into one post] Question1: i used to go out with this guy but broke it off because he was way into himself and it didnt really seem that we were actually together. a few months a...

The perfect girl is too close to me to have

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

13 October 2009 (M) - I've been playing in a serious band for almost a year now. One of the members of the band is female. Her and I have become very close, and have pretty much everything in common that we possibly good. The fact that we have the same passion (music) is ...

He put his lips on mine, but didn't move his lips when I started kissing him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - This guy that I'm casually seeing/sleeping with and me were laying in bed the last time we saw each other...our heads were close together and he was kind of caressing/massaging my cheeks and jaw. Then he turned his head and he put his lips on mine ...

She finds it difficult to open up to me and have any physical contact with me, I'm worried we will get stuck in the friend zone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

13 October 2009 (M) - I am almost 31, a single father (never married) and a business professional in my community. I have a 4 yr old little girl that is so well behaved. I am very blessed, and grateful. For 2 months I have been dating a 27 year old woman that I think the ...

Should I give it a shot and hope for the best?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - My ex and I broke up 2 years ago. He moved across country but we've still maintained contact over this time period. We both started dating other people and actually discussed with one another that it was preventing us from moving on as we talk, e...

Any sites that address missing someone in the military?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - I am a girlfriend of a marine, and I'm having a hard time adjusting to his second time overseas. I know there are a lot of spritual or patriotic support systems, but as an atheist and pacifist, my emotional pain is not easily alleviated. Neither my ...

He says he does not need a girlfriend. Why the mixed signals?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3403 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for a little over a year now, and it is great for the most part. He just still does not want to say we are boyfriend and girlfriend. He says that he has his kids and he does not need a girlfriend. He is sending me mixed ...

Why is my boyfriend bad mouthing me? I feel so betrayed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is always looking for validation and sympathy from his friends and family. I found out that he makes me sound like a bully to everyone around him!? I am not a bully!? I notice his friends and family ignoring me and giving me bad ...

Any ideas on how I can slow things down here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - I've been single for about a year now and suddenly everyone I know wants to set me up with someone! My brother keeps hinting at his dream that me and his best friend will get together and my best friend wants me to be with one of her close friends, ...

I'm so confused over whether he likes me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - Hello everyone! I have a guy friend who I met in college of last year. Ever since I met him..I've liked him but I wasn't sure If he liked me. We only hanged out in school and everytime people see us together they would think we're dating. But some...

Meeting girls in the gym- a good or bad idea?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

13 October 2009 (M) - I don't have a huge social scene these days,I'm getting too old for clubs etc, really (I'm 35 but an told I look alot younger) and am not too keen on them if I'm being honest anyway. The only social thing I do regularly is that I go to the gym al...

How do I get out of this abusive situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - ok so ive been with my boyfriend for about 18 months. we have a 6 week old daughter together. he has: called me every name you could imagine - slut, whore, bitch, skank.. etc. has compared me to his ex girlfriend stating how she was so much more...