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Archived questions from: 27 October, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How to fix my trust issues?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - hey I have a problem and I don't know how to fix it. I don't trust anyone, not my friends, not my reatives... like, I wouldn't put it past anyone to sell me out or anything. Any time I like a guy and it's going well I tend to sabotage it beor...

Does he act like he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I like this guy at school. We are both in the band. I like him alot. My friends say he likes me to but idk. He stares at me ALL the time. At a football game about a month ago he told me i was pretty, but he has NEVER talked 2 me since. When he sees ...

Public place and PDA?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

27 October 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been going out for five months now and we are going to an nhl hockey game tomorrow. I'm excited but i don't think that she is and i know that she wants to make out at least a little. We have season tickets so the people i ...

Should I propose to him... or should I give him more time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Hello Everybody.. I need you opinion, been dating this guy for about 4 months. I am in love with him, i think he is the one for me. He makes me so very happy. Last week we decided to take a break because he is going thru something at the moment and ...

My girlfriend had a rebound during a short breakup now wants me back.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

27 October 2009 (M) - My relationship lasted for 1 year then I broke up with her. I apologized within 24 hours and wanted her back but she said no she needed more time to think about getting back together. We got back together 1 month later. I asked her if she did anyt...

How can I get rid of these lack of trust and anxiety issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Hi guys :) I've been going out with this great guy for over two months and I really really like him. I've been in horrible relationships prior to this and unfortunately these have left me with bad trust issues and anxiety. I can't seem to enjoy th...

He backed off after I told him the truth about my past!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I met somebody about 8 months ago, he seemed to be a really genuine guy with good morals and lots of ambition like me and I really thought it could go somewhere. We had several dates and was all going well only I made the mistake of admitting I had ...

Is it ok to give a guy a handjob when he has his back to you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Is it ok to give a guy a handjob when he has his back to you? I spent the night with a guy and we were quite nevous so we fell asleep and when we woke he had his back to me so I reached round into his pants and gave him a hand job. He didn't t...

Was her sick behaviour justified?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

27 October 2009 (M) - My names David, I'm a 21 year old white male. I've been dating my girlfriend for 7 months. I have a serious problem with abusive. I have abusive patterns such as name calling and violence. By violence I mean I hit her once. So I felt bad, very bad ...

What to do?? I am I being too possesive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Hello, Am i being too posessive? i was with my boyfriend and he got a text of this random number, that hadn't been saved on his phone. when i asked who it was, he replied, " i don't know it's been texting me all week".so i started to text the number ...

Is there anything I can do to win her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5299 days ago

27 October 2009 (M) - Three months ago I took a trip to my hometown of Palm Springs California. I moved away four years ago and I had to leave in my senior year in high-school and moved to Bakersfield California finishing my senior year at Liberty High School. Back when ...

What do I do to get it into his head that I do not want to get into a relationship with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - theres this guy, call him David, i had got to know him during this camp thing from our school which was for 11 days in june last year. we had got pretty close and after we got back, he asked me out sometime near end of august. after eight days i had ...

We have decided to move it together. Good or Bad idea?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Hey i turned 18 last month. Me and my bf have been together for 9months and hes 22 and has a secure well paid job. I live with my mum and sister but everything i have they pick at we dont get along what so ever and i spend majority of time in my ro...

Why am I avoiding romantic relationships?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm wondering if it's weird to be basically an adult but just dated one guy for 2 months. I'm scared of the whole dating thing and feel uncomfortable with the fact that someone wants to be with me? I feel that because I am so against the...

Does she think she is not worthy of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

27 October 2009 (M) - my ex gf cheated on me and then broke up with me the next day. She didnt tell me til about a month later and said that was the reason she broke up with me. She said she felt guilty. I forgave her and we remained friends. We even discussed hangin out ...

Should I date someone better looking than me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - should i date someone that is more better looking than me. could my insecurity cause the relationship...

Is being a close friend a turnoff?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I dont understand people sometimes they say they wont go out with someone because they see them as a close friend. But people usually say to have a good relationship friendship should be there. I dont understand why being a close friend is a turn ...

He's made excuses not to spend the holidays with me, should I see this as a lack of commitment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

27 October 2009 (?) - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 6 months. We are serious, and have even just come back from a week long trip together. Now Thanksgiving is around the corner and he is not sure what his plans are. Says if he goes to his ...

My boyfriend is embarrassed to be dating me because of my age!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Im a 14 year old and i´m currently dating a 19 year old, but he wont tell anyone because he´s embarrassed of dating some one so young. Do you think the age difference is a problem ? ...

Should I ask her if shes into me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - There's this girl I've met and I like her a lot! I've never liked a girl in this way B4..We talk on the phone all night and we hangout almost everyday! we talk about our secrets to one another she's so easy to talk to and I'm getting feelings for ...

Can someone contract diseases such as HIV and others during kissing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

27 October 2009 (M) - Hi Cupid,I asked question here before and i got a reasonable answer. I appreciate that. my question is, can somebody contact diseases like HIV and others during kissing? it confused me sometimes. i don't know how to kiss and i want to try that. ...

I always used to turn boys down but now I am ready for a boyfriend! How do I let them know that I wont reject them this time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Basically, I'm a decent looking girl who has always frequently been asked out by boys. However, having just hit the age of 15 (which I consider old enough to have a boyfriend) - I also had enough self respect to refrain myself from the previous ...

Is this guy using me? Or does he like me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Ok so theres this guy who ive known for years and i didnt relise how i felt for him til not so long back wen sumthing happened to him and it hit me hard. Basically i love him but i dont know if he feels the same because he laffs at me wen he's ...

We had an affair together and he ended it. Why is he still calling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Please can I havw advice on how is is acting, should I give up on him. Met a guy, liked him, he got married, we then had affair for many years, he kept promising to leave the wife etc. He said he would get a place for us never did, was still li...

He wants sex, I want to wait, how do I tell him and not get him angry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - So my boyfriend and myself have been talking about sex he keeps saying he is ready and i an to but i want to wait a little longer what should i tell him so he will understand and wont get mad at of...

Does it sound like he isn't interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - There is a man who I connected with very strongly the first time we met. We had so many things in common and confided in each other. We realized we lived 3 1/2 hours away from each other. He got my number and said he needed to take me on a date. ...

I am broken hearted, my boyfriend's children and I do not get along, should I stay with him or leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I have a serious problem. I have been with my boyfriend for three years now. His children say I am a horrible person and not good enough for their father. They have made it clear that I should not be in his life. They are mean, rude and ...

He wants his space and thinks I need it too!

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, we moved in together after the first six months. I love this arrangement and spending time with him, but he feels like he doesnt have enough space and has suggested living apart again when our ...

How can I tell my friend of 7 years that I like him as more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Hello! I just recently got out of a relationship that lasted for 2 years and we lived together, so pretty serious, but it didn't work out for us. We mutually decided to break up although I was the one who brought it up because I started to like one ...

How do I sweep him off his feet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - the guy i love has loved a girl for 15 years,and he told me that he wants to forget her,and that he thinks that im the one who could make him do that..can anyone please tell me how?please can you help me think of something?i wanna sweep him off his ...

She adores me but isn't ready for a relationship. What does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

27 October 2009 (M) - I to a girl whom I have been seeing for a while now that I love her and want to be with her. She paused and told me that she can't say the "l" word back because she has been through so many bad relationships and said she needs some time before she ...

I can help but think my boyfreind's ex is a better lover than me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I've written here before, but I'm afraid I just can't get past it. I (20 years old) have been with my boyfriend (22 years old) for a little over nine months now. Everything is going fine, though we're both very busy holding down full-time jobs and ...