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Archived questions from: 15 October, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How do I find a quality partner even though I am bound in marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

15 October 2009 (M) - I am 44, and I have spent the past 3 years working through Immigration to bring my Filipina wife to America. She was an excellent actress and never let on, but now she is here she has left and revealed it was a sham marriage (marriage fraud) just ...

How do I let them down gently?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

15 October 2009 (?) - Hi, this is just a general question. Im not pretending to be some kind of stud or anything, but a few times in my life so far Ive had girls practically throw themselves at me. The first time this happened was on a film course and I was in a rel...

Had unprotected sex and facing single motherhood at 15. Do you think he'll stick around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - okay. well me and this quy have been a on nd off relationship for a year and almost 2 months. we've been through hell and back.. we havent been together for a while..we juss started having sex like in september. well im only 15 and he's 18. we have ...

How do I deal with the agonizing breakdown of my LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - I feel really low as I think my 2 year LDR relationship is breaking down and I don't know if there is anything I can do about it. The reason I think it is breaking down is that it feels like history is repeating itself again. When I split with my ...

Is it possible to build a future together when we have conflicting goals?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - Hi everybody, I am new to this site but I registered as I have a major issue and I do not know who else to turn to - I don't feel that I can discuss it with any of my family or friends as I live in a close-knit community and I do not think I can ...

I really want to be with him so what do I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - Okay, hi. Me and a particular boy are getting on very well-he's sixteen and I'm fifteen. Last week he invited me around to his house, and I went on Saturday-it was just me but I'll tell you now, he did not force me into bed with him. On the con...

He took my virginity and then started having sex with his manager. Should I be in a relationship with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i started having sex before we got together cause during that time he seem to be confuse.rite after he took my virginity lets say a few weeks after he started having sex with our manager but when he had sex with her he came out and ...

Should I date a coworker I'm not sexually attracted to?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - There's a new guy at my work whom I have been interested in for a while, but eventually had the courage to invite him for a drink a few weeks ago. We have met up a few times since and seem to get on pretty well. I am keen on him, and he is different ...

How to win his heart when he keeps turning me down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - how to win a man's heart? I really like him. Sometimes I ask him out, but most of the times he turned me down. He cares for me like his sister, but not a love relationship. I want him to love me too. How can I do that?...

Should I walk now or wait and see? She's not a puppy anymore.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

15 October 2009 (M) - She lives in Philadelphia, I in New York City. We spend 1 weekend together, Fri- Sun. We had some really intense love making sessions together. We both have been single and doing without. It was obvious to me, The problem is this, she tells me that ...

What does it mean when a guy is quiet around you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - Just a quick question: What does it mean when a guy is quiet around you? What is actually going through their minds? A guy i've known for a year is like this... when i speak he puts his head down and seems to listen intensively to what i'm saying ...

Leave things as is....or talk to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - help! i really like this guy....who has a past of cheatin on his ex gfs... he has told me he likes me back...his ex and i all know each other we all go to church i dont think they know i like him so everytime im around them they would bring up the ...

Fatten and Feed, Diet and Humiliate. Where can I find a woman like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

15 October 2009 (M) - Hi all well i have a bit of a fetish/fantacy but find it difficult to meet women as it is a little unusual, Well hear goes, i'm fat very fat and would like to meet a female that would help me get fatter but humiliate at the same time, for exampl...

What can you do when you really like someone but you know it would never work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - hey can you please give advice on what to do about a guy you really really really like hes always on your mind last person before you fall asleep and first before you wake up... but you know a relationship but the both of you would not work out.. do ...

Should I tell the her that I have a crush on her best friend too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

15 October 2009 (M) - hello there there is a girl that i like she used to date my best friend at school but me and him haven't spoken for a while because we chose different career choices. she is a year younger than me and we keep in touch over facebook and msn. ...

I'm afraid he will think I'm unattractive when he sees me naked!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - Hi I need some advice ......Im a virgin...and a bit fat (13stone...5''1)...Im really self conscious about my weight...I want to have sex with my boyfriend .....but Im afraid he'll find me unattractive when he sees me naked??...what should I do...I ...

He had sex with me even though I asked him to stop, was I in the wrong in any way? Did I lead him on? And should I forgive him and meet up with him again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - i know i was stupid so please dont have a go :( but i really dont know where else to go! i posted a question here before and got about 9 very good answers which i am greatful for! so i hope you dont mind me asking about this! about a year b...

How can I improve my social skills?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

15 October 2009 (M) - I'm a 23 year old male with Asperger's Syndrome, and I have difficulty getting a girlfriend. I always end up in the "friend zone", and if a girl says she's single, I always doubt it and think, no, this must be a lie, too good to be true. I do...

Should I pursue him or is he a waste of time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - am aged 20 years now at university in Uganda in my second year remaining with a year to complete ma course. i ve been in love with this "man" since 2006 thus making it to 3 years now. He loves n and cares about me dat i dont luck if i tel him wat i ...

Do men in long term relationships lose interest in sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - Is it normal for men when they are in long term relationships not to want sex anymore? I used to think it wasn't normal but now I am not so sure. My boyfriend (36 yrs old) and I's sex life is non-existent. We had sex for the one and only time in ...

Is he a potential? My parents think my time is running short.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

Is it crazy for me to get involved with a younger man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - I'm a 45 year old divorced mother of two and find myself being courted by a 32 year old man. Is it crazy for me to get involved in a relationship with him? He is the nicest person I've ever known and I am attracted to him. My concern is that aft...

Should I be the first to tell him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - I am a 29-year-old woman who is intensely attracted to a guy at work. He is 23. We enjoy chatting with each other and flirt quite a bit intellectually. He does little things for me like buying catnip for my cats and insisting I try food from his...

Her family hates me after I ditched the older sister for the younger one! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

15 October 2009 (M) - So me and my girlfriend have been together for about a year now. I was friends with her older sister for a long time and her parents wanted me to hook up with her.. But things did not work out that way.. I got with the younger one.. Needless to say ...

Do casual relationships ever turn into anything more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - Has anyone ever had a casual dating relationship (seeing each other casually like maybe for a year) before turning into a real, committed relationship? Or have casual things always ended up as nothing more than that?...

Should I tell my best friend my secret?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - I need help. I am a confused girl who had strange feelings. I feel like I have more than just a friendship with my female best friend... I am also a female and I really who die for her. She told me that if she broke up with sombody she would not ...

Why do I keep attracting nerds?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - So I have this tiny problem where I attract the wrong guys. Okay, I think there has to be some kind of physical attraction and not to be mean but i keep attracting nerds. Lik no joke. They are the only ones to talk to me and it just bugs me. W...

Will he become disinterested because I'm too interested?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - I have a roommate and recently she and her brother planned a trip for some friends. I was invited. On the trip her brother and i went for a hike and talked. We connected on every level. We shared the same views, opinions, and experiences. The ...

My boyfriend won't take me to homecoming and will break up with me if I go. Is he bluffing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

15 October 2009 (?) - my boyfriend is a senior and im a sophomore, hes 18 im 16. homecoming is on friday and he wont take me. he says he doesnt wana go so i said i was jus gona go and he said we will break up if i go without him.. i asked why and he said "because its a ...

Is it possible for Mr./Mrs. Right to not be into you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - Quick question. Do you think that the person who you love and who doesn't love you back is simply not right for you? Or is it possible to know Mr. or Mrs. Right, the only issue is that he or she is just not that into you? Thanks....

Guys: Is this a sign he's going to break up with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - Okay so I really need a guys advice, I have been with the same guy for about 4 months! I seriously love him so much! We have had a pretty good relationship so far, not many fights, we did have one break up but got back together cause we were crazy ...